How Life Changes After The Loss Of A Spouse | Tony Evans

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[@MsPascale777]

I am listening to this after hearing he stepped down. Dr Tony Evans must have been in a very vulnerable place. He says 'in distraction mode' That's where the enemy can come in seeking whom he may devour. Prayers for Dr. TONY Evans'

[@DreeDree44]

Yes indeed

[@yettyade1181]

True ; may God be merciful to us all

[@carolynhands8385]

🙏🙏🙏

[@ja2415]

​​@@yettyade1181, Yes we All Need THE LORD'S MERCIES, IN JESUS CHRIST NAME!!!

[@gildahernandez3557]

Dr Evans really helped me… He lost his wife in January, I lost my husband in May, my husband of 60 years! As he would be speaking of his life and what he was dealing with, I too was going through a lot of those emotions.. it really help when you know others especially a man of God is experiencing the same pain as you. Yes he was very vulnerable at that time, and the enemy knows when to attack! He will be ok, God will never leave him, David was a man after God heart, committed sexual sin and had blood on his hands, but God…. The problem is we the people are less forgiving, simple because we place these man of God as God himself! They struggle just the same as we do… God bless him, I’m sure his family are rallying around him, he need that… 💕🙏🏽

[@esthersaldana9772]

People forget divorced people go through it too, especially when you thought it would never happen to you.

[@emmanuelokon9162]

So sorry about that. May God console you in Jesus name

[@christinerostrata7460]

​@@troyannbladsacker1811: That was his choice. Your choice can now be spoiling yourself especially if you raised kids. Go to the spa, swimming is good therapy for the mind and body , join the church choir, and do things you always dreamed of .

[@shantemoore6265]

Absolutely right!

[@tonih9051]

And it happened. The pain felt like a death.

[@esthersaldana9772]

@@tonih9051 Yes!! It did.

[@euniceurama7143]

Pastor Tony Evans is one of my favorite Pastors. A great man of God and he raised awesome children.

[@mj5885]

Dr Evans, always praying for you and your strength

[@judithperez9212]

Losing the first love of his life isn't easy. He's only human thank God for Jesus Amen 🙏

[@queenwinning]

You are changed forever after losing your other half. The only positive I found was God. I found God through my pain, grief, heartache, anger, and sorrow. And I'm still standing through the grace of God. Though, the pain never goes away. You learn to function through it, eventually.

[@oofoofoof6703]

We love you Dr Tony Evans!

[@goldengold5676]

Yes.

[@sarinajohnigan8340]

ABSOLUTELY!!!

[@marywilliams3520]

I've never been married but may God heal and touch all of your hearts who have lost spouses!! My heart goes out to you all!!

[@gildahernandez3557]

Thank you for your heart of compassion... I too lost my husband of 60 years in May right after Dr Evans January lost. I was married at 19 when he transitioned I was 76....Dr Evans have great supporting children, this too shall past... You are a blessing dear, many blessing to you....💕🙏🏼

[@elizabethkwankye3821]

I Love you pastor Tony Evans. Be strong in this trying times. God bless you

[@racquelloliver9455]

Dear LORD please keep this man of God in Your abundant care ❤

[@annettelyles975]

Amen🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@maxinewilliams402]

Amen.

[@lavendermom318]

Prayers for you Pastor Evans

[@FreeBird744]

May God continue to bless you Dr.Tony Evans. I have learned so much from his teachings.

[@peaceatheart101]

God Bless you Pastor Evans and your Family as you begin your new journey in this Season. You are an inspiration to us all.❤

[@demetriuslovejoy1557]

I can see the love for her in his eyes ❤❤❤ Phenomenal man of God🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@josephinesaunders8306]

I was really waiting for Jesus to come and get me but he didn't after my husband passed. I love him sooooooo much. My work is not done on earth yet. I still want to be with my husband I miss him soooo much .

[@Kajunthriftpicking]

I lost my husband 8 years ago, he was 51. I have not remarried , but i have so much in my life to do. Its not over yet! I have children and a new granson to live for!! I missed my husband, but God is not through with me yet!!

[@clydehardy3242]

@@Kajunthriftpicking ink MO

[@katiepena5467]

Praying for pastor Tony Evans🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@mariapuscas6313]

Live and Respect Dr. Evans - we love you and pray for you! Isaiah 41:10

[@ttboc9032]

Lord, we pray that you will protect Pastor Tony Evans 🙏 he has endured SOOOO MUCH as a whole in LOST

[@pamelabartelle5285]

I pray that day by day Your strength will be renewed! Loss of a spouse is so hard & a tremendous amount of loneliness! My husband went to be with the Lord on 3-13-2024 and the sorrow is deep! But, God is a present help in a time of need! Praying your joy be restored! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@donnajacksunn489]

I am so happy Pastor Evans kept his vows and found love again. Bless u all❤🙏🏽

[@emthomson2038]

GOD is blessing this man with a partner because he is a blessing to His people. I am grateful that he is willing and able to share his journey with us.

[@sw9868]

@pattiyoung4048 Whaaat?! How do you know these things?

[@lilit384]

@@pattiyoung4048I was thinking it was an outside child involved.

[@dianemccray718]

​@pattiyoung4048 You should never make accusations against someone without proof! How would you like it if someone did that to you, especially in a public way!

[@lilit384]

@@dianemccray718 Well, you don’t really know whether she has proof.

[@loganwilliams173]

God Is With Him 🙏🏾❤️

[@ruthmarshall3676]

Lifting Dr.Evand in prayers ❤❤❤❤!!!

[@MsGear001]

So glad for you both Pastor Evans. Praise God.

[@angeliamullins372]

This is so true. It's adjusting to the little things that reminds us of the loss. My husband passed nine years ago.

[@lifeisimportantkate]

God comforts

[@love100057]

God Bless you, Pastor Evans, my family Love you in Christ Jesus 🙏💕.

[@vanessa4u4evr]

This isn't just experienced when you lose a spouse. Though perhaps not as intimate a connection as losing a spouse, I lost my best friend of 40+ years about three years ago. It was devastating for me, and on some levels still is, as I am a private person of few relationships. The pain of this loss is still with me. Even though I know that we're all gonna go eventually, it's still hard to believe that she's no longer here in the physical realm with me.

[@bigdcountryzone]

I still can't accept my late wife sudden passing back in 2016 i was getting the hang of being a husband Ihave been a widower longer than I was married and it hurts so much 😢

[@anneshirley9560]

I'm so sorry for your loss. :(

[@charlea2730]

I'm sorry for your loss and I pray for your strength, comfort, and peace in Jesus' name.

[@oneiluv]

Omg to go 2 bed without him/her is not the same anymore...Just being together is a blessing one day he was then not....He's not here anymore never go away...My heart is not same anymore too many individuals gone.. Some individuals find comfort with someone else may end up in relationships not correct... Thank God he gives us mercy/grace it's hard we most continue children family friends just life continues.....

[@lisathompsonthompson6953]

God Bless and keep you both with Compassion Pastor Evans ❤❤🙏🙏

[@Dr.janicebrownetoday]

Prayer for Dr. Evans. You don’t need to confess your sins or mistakes to man, only to God. Do not tell anything to man, again only to God. He will tell you when you are ready to return. Praying for you. 🙏🏽✝️

[@DownSouth08]

Praying for you and your family Dr. Evans.

[@annejames890]

I’m so sorry for your loss pastor evens . May your wife’s soul RIP

[@demitajones7727]

This is sooooo true, I lost the love of my life, my best friend, he was it. It's been almost 10 yrs, and still seems like it was yesterday. You never get over losing your spouse, you learn to live with it. You still have this love to give, you love your kids, friends and family. It's the spouse love that you still have to give.

[@debbiebramwell]

He seemed to move on fast after being married so long.

[@demitajones7727]

@@debbiebramwell it not up to us to determine what is fast for someone, everyone is different.

[@mrsheatherteske]

Yes and no I guess. 4yrs after 49 I get that, but you're also in your 70s and time isn't on your side....I guess you have to decide either to love again or just stay alone. I don't personally look forward to the day I lose my spouse :( ​@@debbiebramwell

[@vanessamitchell5212]

​@debbiebramwell until you're in the position you'll never know the timing of wallowing in grief vs living the life you have left. He has more years behind him than in front of him. Perhaps moving forward will help him live. Only he and God know what that time frame is/was.

[@olivew.o.j2497]

It's better to remarry than to burn and do unthinkable things. Everyone's circumstance is different...

[@sharlitajordan6115]

sending prayers

[@AfiDeSouza-qf6nf]

I understand your emptiness its a point 🙍 very difficult to erase in mind.

[@denisedickerson422]

Death is soo crazy, sad, hrad, very hurtful, dont ever seem real. 😢😢😢

[@donnajacksunn489]

Yes but we all are born to die. We have enjoy life as it is.. Get to know Our Heavenly Father as journey thru life

[@gracenmercy579]

It’s reality we are not made to live for ever it’s why is so vital to enjoy our loved ones they are a gift from the Lord they cannot be replaced

[@amani2222]

Lois Evans was the love of his life and the mother to his four wonderful children. He will never find that recipe again in anyone. May God grant him peace 🙏

[@mrsheatherteske]

Maybe not but he and current wife deserve to find happiness again of course. No one got replaced but God restores our hearts.

[@Asneeded]

God is faithful ! Congrats to Pastor Evans and his fiancée❤

[@grammyj17988]

Death is the last ‘enemy’ to be destroyed. Until then we cope the best way we can. Being a believer, a hearer and a doer of the Word apparently has helped Tony. Humanly speaking, He and his family live the Word as best they can, being great examples for us. 🤲🏾 May the God of all Comfort🕊️ continue to lead and guide this human vessel 🙏🏻 God will say ‘well done’ but We say… ‘done well’

[@DeniseDaughtry-u8v]

"The Sting of Death" is the name of the poem I wrote on 4-30-2011. God guided my pen in this poem . It is based on the Scriptures 1 Corinthians 15:55-57

[@doraelmore5358]

Can you share it with us?

[@emeliathompson3453]

I just lost my husband about a month ago and i am still lost without him. I go from room to room calling his name.I am still sleeping on the couch instead of our bed.. I am going through different emotions on a daily basis. There is not a day pass by that i don't think about him.😭

[@cassandraromero1488]

I'm praying for him 🙏

[@WSB32867]

I've been in church all my life. I'm far from stupid. His wife died her husband died. They get married now he resigned 👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿""I'm so happy 🙌🙌🙌 God sit high in looks low in nothing will go unhandle when he comes amen 🙏🏿 as always no disrespect intended New York City USA 🇺🇲

[@megflat2981]

So happy for Pastor Evans! So happy he found love with another widow !!! Blessings to everyone involved. !

[@sarinajohnigan8340]

Praying to LORD send his ANGELS to protect and heal Pastor Evans, family & ministry always!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@deweeseturner5948]

God bless you Pastor Tony❤

[@Judgelove-gw6sw]

Good things comes to all those who wait. Congratulations to you both God blessed. Both ladies looking alike. Greetings from Barbados.Hyacinth.Amen🙏🙏🙏🙏😴😴😴😴

[@jackiehaggard5123]

Believe Me😢 Life is Horrible Without My Love. We were ALWAYS TOGETHER. AMEN

[@olivew.o.j2497]

I can relate... Only God can fill the void. For a long, long time, I'd wake up waiting for my phone to ring and to hear his voice call me... Iya! (Meaning, Mama)... I'm sure that death was not in the original plan. But glory be to God Almighty Who helps us to bear it.

[@missmoxiemaesmith8287]

I’m sorry for your loss. She was a special lady ❤

[@TerryMoore-r1h]

IN JESUS NAME I PRAY PASTOR TONY THAT👑🤍🕊️🕯️🔥🌹 THE LORD GOD ALMIGHTY JESUS' THE CHRIST WILL HEAL YOUR HEART YOUR BROKENNESS 💔 AND TO CLEANSE RENEW REFRESH AND REFORM ALL AREAS IN YOUR LIFE THAT HURTS AND NEED MENDING ❤️‍🩹 I PRAY IN JESUS NAME THAT IN GOD'S TIMING YOU WILL BE BACK SPREADING GODS WORD TO ALL HIS PEOPLE WHO LOVE OUR GOD OUR JESUS 'THE CHRIST AND ARE IN GOOD STANDING WITH HIM. 🙏💙💙💙💙💙

[@edithtieling6984]

This is so much the truth no one will understand, my situation is with the holy spirit of wisdom and love thank you God ❣️🙏💪

[@mrsheatherteske]

Glad that the Lord blessed him again with love and marriage with sister Carla. Definitely needs that right now

[@StrengthNLove]

It was very tough on that Man ,God knows he is a Human we fall down and we hurt we cry ,we feel bad ,May God help us all

[@monicadaniel9439]

My husband transitioned 6 years ago and I still miss him when I want to travel, sharing dinner etc Tony is right you are in a constant distraction mode.

[@LookyLooRealEstate]

God Bless and keep Pastor Evans 🙏

[@JoanBourne]

Praying for you Pastor

[@rosepaul8491]

Why he step down for whatever reason God will reach him there.We are not perfect In God is love we are

[@johnz4328]

The church has become so good at telling single Christian’s that they don’t really need to get married ,singleness is a wonderful gift, I can’t help thinking maybe he should have stayed single so he could experience the wonderful gift of singleness ?

[@christinerostrata7460]

I agree. Even when we burn it's hard to find a good Christian mate that truly loves God. I wish we could go back to the 70's , 80's or 90's .

[@fredajohnson506]

This why me personally would want get married again if God sent me my help mate because that kinda love only can be replace with God love not another person some people remarry because of loneliness but they heart still with their deceased spouse

[@lucyrodriguez730]

Congrats on your new engagement! ❤️

[@moniquehamilton5195]

In order to move forward with Pastor, I need answers.

[@kelsieellington6518]

Your salvation is yours. Pastor Evans has his own . Man gives glory and awe to Jesus Christ , we are commanded to love and forgive/understand others❤

[@gasmith7486]

I love Dr Tony ❤

[@oneofmanyvessels554]

So, so sorry. I've thought about that. We've only been married 15 years and we have no children. It's literally her, me and Jesus.

[@Ms.CyranoDebergerac]

NOW HE IS REMARRIED... INTERESTING. REMARRIED TO HIS FRIEND'S WIFE, WHAT IS GOING ON IN HIS HEAD, HUM? NOW HE CONFESSES BOT TO A CRIME BUT TO A SIN IN THE PASS.. OH PLEASE. SHE'S A FRIEND? HE DIDN'T STUMBLED FROM FRIEND TO MATE.. HE SAID IT CORRECTLY. I WOULD HAVE SAID MY WIFE...I'D NEVER CALL MY WIFE A FRIEND, YEA RIGHT.

[@gt0660]

I'm going through this right now

[@Legalcurls]

❤❤❤

[@gelliebeane6789]

God bless you friend. I pray you notice all the signs of comfort He sends you! ❤

[@mamakarin8592]

Praying for strength and comfort!💜

[@gt0660]

@@Legalcurlsthank you for thinking about me

[@gt0660]

@@mamakarin8592 thank you so much for your prayers. They're truly needed and appreciated right now

[@lindaearl4428]

I truly understand I'm experiencing the very same thing my husband passed in December 2019 😢

[@gelliebeane6789]

God bless you! ❤ May Our Lord continue to comfort you!

[@mamakarin8592]

Praying for strength and comfort!💜

[@demitajones7727]

My heart goes out to you. We don't understand why this stuff happens, we have to choose to trust God through it, no we don't have to like it at all. But we do have a choice to make, trust God even though we don't understand.

[@kimberlyking925]

He is only HUMAN those feelings are expected when you love your wife.or mate and you loose them. Divorced people experience the same thing. 💗✝️🙏🏽

[@CoastShuttle]

Can we just get past racism? I'm a white dude and I truly consider Pastor Evans a brother...in Christ and just as a human being. I also think of his family as my extended family and I pray for them all.

[@christinerostrata7460]

That's a talk you need to have with your own race. Racism is alive and well. Two black men were just found hanging on trees 😢

[@CoastShuttle]

@@christinerostrata7460 And so you truly believe that only white people are racist?

[@CoastShuttle]

@@christinerostrata7460 There are no blacks that hate people, just because we are white, is that right?

[@camitadillon6353]

God bless Dr Tony Evans and his beautiful family❤❤

[@mattiestrozier441]

I have loved Pastor Evan's teachings & Priscilla's as well. This Family is My Family. My prayers are with him during this time. The Christian Family should support him. He/She who is without sin cast the first stone. I think people look harder at Pastor's because they are our shepherds. But We have the responsibility of being held to the same standards. We too are responsible for soul winning. We shoot our own wounded so sang Ms. Helen Baylor in one of her beautiful songs.❤❤❤

[@lorettafrank9906]

Not judging I think he remarried to fill the void 😢 not love 💕 I could be wrong and ask for forgiveness, if I am. But lifting the family up in prayers 😢❤

[@reginajohnson9567]

I have not experienced such a loss in my life as of yet. I can only imagine what it must be like to have a spouse whom you’ve been with for many years pass on. it must be so difficult! I pray for this man and all of those, who have experienced the loss of a loved one over many years. My sister is going through the same thing at this time after 58 years with her husband. God bless all must go on living without the closest partner in life. God be with them, guide them, protect them and watch over them. Give my sister the strength to make it through each day. She feels such a loss. Thank you Father for watching over her day by day! Watch over going through this devastating time in their lives. I love you and I thank you for all you have done, are doing and have plans for the future and mine! praises in Jesus, holy name. A man.🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

[@davedee4382]

These Caspar Milk Toast Christians, if that’s what they are ,really bore me. In the Bible guys that believe in Jesus and the old covenant, they had guts they were fighters they were men.

[@donnajohnson3282]

Tony Evans will be forever loved. It's under the blood Tony. I'm not interested in your past sins. I'd have to look at my own, and that's something I want to leave behind. Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is the only sin that has no recompense of eternal life. So get up and brush yourself off and complete your assignment given. For God is not through with you yet Dr. Evans. Be encouraged, no one of the household of faith is throwing stones. If they are, their day is coming. Let's see how they handle it🤔

[@Charlatt]

We all mistakes that we are not proud of that is covered in the blood ofJesus Christ , but when you have a platform ,the devil always tried to shame you but God get the glory in the end because he humbled himself and stepped down May Father God restore him back to his rightful position,I pray for the family This too shall pass Thanks you Father God In Jesus name amen.

[@KoKogoddess]

Everyone is speculating nobody knows when the time frame was that he is speaking of on his sin--cause he did not say or give any details-unlike when He assisted Kirk Franklin and had him admit to porn addiction I guess he is exempt from that type of transparency

[@stacee2010able]

Love you and God bless you Dr Evans!🎁🙏🏽🙌🏽💯❤️‍🩹

[@mommat8522]

Was he sleeping with his current wife while his wife was dying? Which wife is he talking about here?

[@wylenebonner8411]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕

[@GailGregg-p4o]

So happy for pastor Evans

[@lindag6689]

What was the sin to make him step down? The obvious, sex outside his marriage when his wife was sick.

[@suzanne-lw5tw]

We love you Pastor Tony Evans n your beloved adult children

[@earlmccoubrey7580]

Yes. It takes quite awhile to get used to that side of the bed being empty. I still make our bed as she did, though it’s been three years now.

[@loleathamurray7753]

Pastor Evan’s, stand strong GOD got you amen and amen

[@rebeccaluviano3302]

you should let it go there's no one perfect in this world. I still consider him one of the best speakers in our country his steps down he needs our prayers.

[@StrengthNLove]

God helps us threw all of these things 🙏🏾🌹

[@michellekeaton8419]

May God Almighty bless you all Amen 🔯🕊

[@shirleyjones1484]

I don’t know what happen but Jesus will forgive you man is not your judge God is some people feel that they have been save all their lives God Bless 😢😢

[@rosegardner5262]

Rv Tony god a god one love❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@NaNa-er4sw]

He was not going to bed alone , this was the time to tell the truth 😟

[@acoley721]

Praying for Rev. Tony Evans.

[@yolandeschmidt4036]

THAT night. Every night… 😢

[@stevencohn922]

After I saw how my father took it when my mother his wife of 60 years died, I vow not to allow myself to grieve in the same way if my wife goes before me! I pray I never have to experience such loss in this life!

[@josephinesaunders8306]

I am sooooo happy for Pastor Evans

[@jackschroeder7836]

So Sorry for Tony's loss😢. She's surely with the Lord in Paradise 😊

[@d1234no]

You are in my prayers. My Brother!

[@Tallwater67]

Please get rid of that bad rug man

[@elipena909]

Praying for Pastor Evan🙏