How Many Times Should You Rescue a Relationship Before Divorce? | Loose Women

[@user-oc2nq5cd2z]

I am not a Jennifer Lopez fan but I don’t understand what was there to laugh about in this case? All the women in the panel I believe have been divorced at least once and they must know it is not easy. Making it sound it is not a big deal is ok but the laughter seems in bad taste.

[@Peaceandlove816]

I agree, no one is in a position to judge, whether they made their relationship public or not, they don’t deserve to be laughed at

[@scarlettkhan9667]

I think some of the expectations on this marriage and the fact J Lo is a serial bride was a bit humorous I don’t think they meant it in a serious way

[@lizet3more]

I 100% agree

[@eileenoneill1805]

Some times no matter how much you love each other it’s not meant to be

[@IdesiremercyNotsacrifice]

When you remember heartbreak 💔 how can we fail to have compassion on those experiencing it Ben Affleck suffers with addiction having a relationship with someone who has a addiction like alcohol is no picnic and being in the social media puts alot of pressure on a relationship there needs to be a good separation between the both and putting your relationship before fame and constantly being in the media circus 🎪 is a must

[@helendaly3311]

What a load of Bull 😂

[@TheHouseofcoolstuff]

He seemed private and she was very open about her relationship in the media and social media. She was always out there being photographed and on stage. He never seemed happy with fame and just wanted to do his job and put his head down while she was always about look at me.

[@karenbrown2135]

I think Jlo needs to stop getting married. She has been married to many times.

[@rosedepriest3332]

Right I think she is very insecure and all those men she's been with ugh. I hope Ben Affleck has been tested just saying 😅

[@ATLcentury334]

She’s been engaged how many times? and married how many times? That engagement ring collection must be awfully large by now. The whole thing is laughable.

[@NURUL-k7q]

I think engaged 6 times & married 4 times

[@andyroo9381]

Jennifer Lopez enjoys being a star. She likes the publicity and fame of it all. Ben Affleck is the opposite of that.

[@gillianhollins3003]

I think with 3 of her 4 marriages lasting two years or less she should put more thought into it before she takes the plunge 😂

[@productionemployee8032]

Jlo seems too egotistical to live with!!!

[@paulinathesalsadancer2659]

They must have been carried away with all the hype when they got back together. The world showed excitement when they renewed their relationship, and specially Jlo… she must have gone straight to starting her wedding plans without really thinking about resolving their issues. I also think Ben was willing to compromise on her need for notoriety but she went too far with making those letters available to the public. Clearly he understood that she needs the limelight, but when Jennifer showed her people those letters, she betrayed his trust. Also, selling his bikes, not being interested in his projects (as seen on the doc), starting a liquor business…. I mean, she did not make much of an effort. She seems to not see her partners at all!

[@brendarudman8806]

I heard that he's divorcing her but he's letting her save face by filing

[@scarlettkhan9667]

That’s a nice thing for him to do.

[@darraghcollins1374]

“Never say never” 😂😂😂

[@Justsomebody009]

I think it depends on if both people want to save it. But if it's this endless cycle of doing it i think that's when both people really need to consider if this relationship is healthy. I think every relationship goes through hard times that if you arent willing to work on it, its going to end. Where as if you both love each other enough to work on it you can get through it and be stronger on the otherside

[@monicad99]

maybe the question should be: how many times do you have to rescue arelationship before marriage?

[@kylepelland1598]

JLO is notoriously annoying and stuck up. He dodged a bullet. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@mariarotaru2069]

Nothing to laugh about! Utterly distasteful.

[@taffyalusa4642]

Jlo is a joke, keep your stuff private, if you put it all out there you have to take the rough with the smooth.

[@IdesiremercyNotsacrifice]

People who are in sencetive to other peoples pain and misfortune shows their lack of compassion heart 💔 is sad for anyone no matter how successful they are or no so successful be mindful Jesus is close to the broken 💔 and those crushed in spirit blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted

[@frostren]

Prenup yes!! JLO should know better after this being her 4th marriage. Plus remember she fell into Ben’s arms less than a month after breaking the engagement to the ex baseball player. On one hand it sad to go to divorce but on the other hand, she has to look at herself first and see why it not working. JLO is a huge person who thrives for attention, Ben is private, so maybe it was enough.

[@susannahxo9909]

Jennifer Garner will always be his real love and the mother of his kids. She need to take him to church ❤

[@sinchasin3611]

few times is ok

[@pg7304]

Ben was duped in believing that she changed , matured and honest, but she's the same attention- seeking , paparazzi-hungry con-artist she always was and wasted millions for wedding number 5. Maybe pay more attention to her two misguided unhappy children and let talented artists who deserve the jobs, she covets.

[@samlondon7430]

Who cares about JLO life still goes on.

[@gasarolita9597]

Ben is a evil guy! Come on! She give him second chance because she truly loves him! But he come back to eat her fresh! And she can’t take it! A lot of women died in bad relationships and ubusing relationships because they don’t want people talk about them! If she knows her value! Leave her alone to decide what is right! Well done JLO ❤

[@scarlettkhan9667]

I think Ben looks like an alcohol addict and wasn’t in the right mind to be married again. She used him because she wanted a big wedding to A Rod. Maybe Ben was her “wedding rebound” It’s a shame

[@MariaBenjamin-um3zk]

He bailed too quickly, weak sauce lol

[@hopeful550]

J Lo is better off without him he’s a needy addict who won’t change and she’s so clean living and ambitious a combination doomed to fail. Feel for her though she must’ve really loved him to try again knowing his history. Sad for all involved.

[@kilombo6702]

Agree

[@thomasanders1314]

It looks like I don't have to be jealous of Ben anymore.:) (virtually) All the best for both. You can't say such an event is ever a pleasant experience.

[@magdalenehiaguina-hr8xg]

Jlo should realise getting married @ over 50yrs requires a lot of hard work to make it work..she can't keep working away all the time.

[@aliceinwonderland.2080]

Who cares?!

[@claudiaalexander3194]

Jlo needs to focus on a relationship with the lord

[@thelittleblackbedroom6548]

In the intro did she say "Benniferican" like Bennifer + Puerto Rican? It's just Bennifer.

[@HelloKit-nc9gj]

Bottom line marriage is a contract. Go head and think that marriage is sacred, a romance, etc ... at the end of the day it's a contract that both agree to be faithful to one another, to love one another, etc ... and among other things is to financially support one another. Finances are grown up conversations and those conversations should have been had before marriage and it's better because everyone is on good terms. It could be as simple as whatever i came with I leave with. Anything that we do together we split 50/50 if the partnership leads to a divorce. It protects everyone involved.

[@PureSparkles22]

Ben's already dating someone else

[@iluvjohnny08]

I'm no Ben fan but she put it out there

[@emmanewman9863]

Wrong he couldn’t cope with the press (the first time). Secondly someone s pain isn’t a laughing matter. Thirdly I so wanted them to work, gutted they’re not going to. Any break up is awful. I’m really peed off with him You could see in public how rude he was.

[@bluepeter128]

She should never have married him. She's, not a nurse type, dealing with his mental illness. Knew it would not last...

[@scarlettkhan9667]

She used an alcohol addict as a wedding rebound when her wedding to A Rod fell through.

[@janespitfire9884]

Ahh he has a drinking problem...I knew it not last. Jennifer is health nut about her body and nutrition..no longer compatible.I have been married and each time my spouse cheated on me plus said would not stop it. Ahh that was hurtful and we got divorced.

[@Menooy22]

If you don't care about these stories then stop reporting them. Laughing about Molly Mae and Jlo is distasteful no matter how rich these people are...it's a reflection of you and the audience.

[@mariadefatimasilva4874]

Coisa feia mulheres rindo de outras mulheres, por isso o mundo está como está, não a respeito pelo ser humano não a empatia 😢

[@chauminh]

Merci. My aunty was right I won't work. Their ideas don't work jlo loves fame photographed spotlight. Ben hates being famous.

[@sandraleschettini1152]

I'm Black but why is it always the Black hosts on the panel who are the coldest, the least empathetic. Sad commentary on how cynical most of us are. Time to reassess our sensitivity. Gee wiz

[@mrshonourable]

Jlo is seen as a culture vulture by many in the black community. I don’t know if I agree completely with that, but she isn’t liked very much. But yes, they do come across as very bitter

[@lah1667]

You move forward in life not backwards. She wants to go back to an ex without resolving the issues that made them split the first time round then that's on her.

[@niceman727]

As more and more women become empowered, divorce will keep rising. That's because the more empowered a woman is, the likelier she is to initiate a divorce