How Many Tinder Dates Can an Average Guy (me) Get in 1 Week?

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Wheat Waffles

Wheat Waffles

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@WheatWaffles
@WheatWaffles Жыл бұрын
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@MyALPHAguy
@MyALPHAguy Жыл бұрын
I have a tinder with a picture saying "Casual Sex Only" that's the picture a text. Of couse I match only with those 4~5/10 but at least about once a month I meet up with them to have sex, without paying... I've been doing that since 2020 here in Brazil Got laid out with 29 girls. You should try to be more direct and invite them for sex.
@Oh_So_Based
@Oh_So_Based Жыл бұрын
Dye your hair & eyebrows, get a PrettyBoy cut, dress more "preppy " and redo the expirement
@birdtj82
@birdtj82 Жыл бұрын
Dude ! Yr pics are Great ! Diverse . Looks open minded , RELAXED 😌 (a lot of women want a Relaxed dude not hot yet Arrogant ) , good sense of Style ! Perfect haircut 💇 ! Since u r ginger ,,, dark blue . Solid Black will be yr best color now . Don’t wear anything with yellow in it Z like REd , brown , green , orange 🍊 yellow ! Eyes 👀 can do funny tricks !
@tedjames428
@tedjames428 Жыл бұрын
Reason why they turned you down you didn't set a definite time or day you threw back on her
@Frivals
@Frivals Жыл бұрын
🙄The big problem is that you go begging for them "i would be super excited to see you, whenever you want and how you want, please" , if you value yourself why would you be super excited just to see a random stranger girl that might not be worthy in real life? You must make her qualify to you why should you choose her. There are 4 billions females, she must beg you , why should you waste your time with her? You are a man. Men make the world functioning. But she is just a girl, worthless. Females must worship men everyday.
@Barbaryotaku
@Barbaryotaku Жыл бұрын
Ten months ago he made a video about how Tinder is terrible for average guys. When he gets sponsored by a Tinder photographer the service however now becomes good?
@thedarklordx
@thedarklordx Жыл бұрын
He didn't try photomaxxing previously.
@anonymousgh608
@anonymousgh608 Жыл бұрын
He also said editing your photos too much isn’t an option too cos when the girls meet you, they’d know you catfished them.. and that’s exactly what he did in this video. Coincidentally, this video was also sponsored by a photographer.
@ralphpinkins5619
@ralphpinkins5619 Жыл бұрын
He’s a lame. What u expect? Don’t listen to have the shit he says. Social media apps are a waste of time for the average man. Get your passport fellas
@harsh3948
@harsh3948 Жыл бұрын
@@anonymousgh608 but there’s a difference. Taking photos with minimal enhancement in a specific way by using angles, outfits and props that women like isn’t catfishing them
@MIchaelSybi
@MIchaelSybi Жыл бұрын
@@harsh3948 There is a difference - someone pays you the money, so why not to take it? Then WW didn't lie in his video, he only cut it to where the truth would be unveiled
@Leo-fs2pm
@Leo-fs2pm Жыл бұрын
>purity: very high >she's on tinder
@nax1807
@nax1807 Жыл бұрын
lool glad someone else thought the same
@abdou.the.heretic
@abdou.the.heretic Жыл бұрын
Let alone, getting purity straight from mere puctures is fuckong wild
@athulfgeirsson
@athulfgeirsson Жыл бұрын
@@abdou.the.heretic literally insane
@bossgd100
@bossgd100 Жыл бұрын
lol
@abdou.the.heretic
@abdou.the.heretic Жыл бұрын
@@jcransome5616 yes do that.
@blibity2295
@blibity2295 11 ай бұрын
A note on girls agreeing to dates and not following through: You offered 22 dates. They probably agreed to many more dates from other guys. When they randomly stop responding, it's because a hotter guy offered them free dinner.
@LocalBeast.
@LocalBeast. Жыл бұрын
Bro is texting like a robot
@PePe-fg7yo
@PePe-fg7yo Жыл бұрын
If you value your sanity, stay away from the things like tinder 😊
@mickdundee346
@mickdundee346 Жыл бұрын
One of the problems is that you're saying that they're above average looking girls, but you didn't actually see them in real life. You could be surprised. You didn't go far enough with the experiment, you should have gone on those dates to see if they show up, how they really look, and if they're not disappointing in a way or another.
@Warbr33d
@Warbr33d Жыл бұрын
I think he deliberately cut it off to either a) make it seem like he did better than he actually did or b) this is a paid advertisement for Tinder
@eXebeno
@eXebeno Жыл бұрын
@@Warbr33d but he could have went anyway and lied about the results
@gevans5446
@gevans5446 3 ай бұрын
so true. A lot of the girls look a LOT different in real life.
@eddieliusa
@eddieliusa Жыл бұрын
I’d be careful with the professional photos, this can end up wasting a bunch of time since the girl will be disappointed in real life. I had a friend get me a couple semi professional photos and this increased my amount of dates by a decent amount but my “closing” rates decreased too. More dates were stale, didn’t want to meet again, etc compared to when I had my basic photos. So be careful not to end up wasting your time
@ScorpionSuerte
@ScorpionSuerte Жыл бұрын
This is somewhat obvious, but certain dating couches ~cough~ pwf try to claim it doesn't matter to girls 🙈
@ScorpionSuerte
@ScorpionSuerte Жыл бұрын
@The Chad Lite Greg Show Gregory. Can't wait for your next live where you said you were gonna invite your whole rotation of 9s.
@MIchaelSybi
@MIchaelSybi Жыл бұрын
This video is more of a proof looks matter a lot on dating sites than anything else. I've seen awesome photos of girls, which were carefully selected from hundreds, where they looked their best with special makeup, so yeah, for women it's the same. But the difference women want to bang less, so they will refuse the guy faster, a guy still might want to bang her at least once. And she might think she still has his serious attitude, whereas it's not
@M0viLover
@M0viLover Жыл бұрын
"So be careful not to end up wasting your time." Uh - *any* time spent on dating apps is wasted time!!
@ScorpionSuerte
@ScorpionSuerte Жыл бұрын
@@M0viLover Yes, unless Chad or an average white guy geomaxxed in Phillipines
@cybermandan1960
@cybermandan1960 Жыл бұрын
Q: "How many Tinder dates can an average guy get in 1 week?" A: Less than a below average girl can get in 1 HOUR
@losballos2628
@losballos2628 7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@coolcat6703
@coolcat6703 6 ай бұрын
Men are easy get over it
@kvcper1
@kvcper1 4 ай бұрын
shut up lil bro youre actually part of this problem
@florianusflash6389
@florianusflash6389 Жыл бұрын
1. Subtract at least 3 points from Purity for the fact that the girls are on Tinder at all 2. How did the dates go? How many girls have flaked? How many girls didn't contact you after the first date (without anything happening)? 3. If the photos are too optimal, you create false expectations and have to fight against disappointment from the first second on an uphill battle. As a reminder, the girls expect to meet at least Chadlight at the appointed place according to your photos. I have photos of myself where my weak jawline and receding chin are not visible, especially when I wear a beard. In these photos I look like Chad. If I were to use these photos, the effect would be the same as if a fat guy used Photoshop to make himself 50 kilos lighter or someone with hereditary baldness wore a wig in the photos, but appeared on the date with a crown of hair.
@NeurosenkavalierEmilSinclair
@NeurosenkavalierEmilSinclair Жыл бұрын
Wtf... dude point 1 really is disgusting. Go out, have a good time and don't look down on people who have more fun than you
@SlimShady-fi9ky
@SlimShady-fi9ky Жыл бұрын
@@NeurosenkavalierEmilSinclair someone can and will be criticized for what they do, regardless of how much "fun" they have doing what they do
@jeffw5263
@jeffw5263 Жыл бұрын
So this was a 20 minute infomercial for Justin the Tinder Photographer…
@CybrZone
@CybrZone Жыл бұрын
Also, Angle frauding and photo buffing is really just kicking the can down the road. Meeting up is then the issue.
@adama3350
@adama3350 Жыл бұрын
@@happymila1 Real life is real though touching up his first few pics is a long term losing proposition.
@rodbelding9523
@rodbelding9523 Жыл бұрын
Yeah that's my thoughts too. If you manipulate your photos to make yourself look better, the girl is gonna notice as soon as she meets you.
@happymila1
@happymila1 Жыл бұрын
@@adama3350 😑 Some phones have an instant smooth filter when you take a picture If you do not change your features than I do not see a problem with catching a girls eye with a good professional pic
@DavidW-ng5zv
@DavidW-ng5zv Жыл бұрын
​@@rodbelding9523 I only removed the dark circles from under my eyes for online dating. Everything else I left.
@executor142
@executor142 Жыл бұрын
Better post your worst pic, to have in person impression.
@TheAcesendedOne
@TheAcesendedOne Жыл бұрын
First of all, nice experiment. A couple of questions: 1. With the enhanced photos you dont even look like yourself anymore, especially in the top 5% one. Same goes for the picture of your sponsor, they all look unreal. Isnt this catfishing in the end? 2. What happened after the first date? Its all good if you get one date with a girl but could you get a second one, especially after they have seen the real you?
@urevya
@urevya Жыл бұрын
every girl catfishes, why care?
@mr.x4001
@mr.x4001 Жыл бұрын
What is the point in getting a 9/10 picture then showing up as a 5/10 guy and the girl loses interest.
@doppelhelixes
@doppelhelixes Жыл бұрын
Thanks to a lesbian friend i saw a lot of female tinder photots and the real woman - yeah i couldn't even recognice them as well. Just subtract 2-4 points of any woman and you will be around her real looks...
@bluelion5160
@bluelion5160 Жыл бұрын
most 'chads' catfish to the same extent if not more
@JustNo8808
@JustNo8808 Жыл бұрын
​@@jackglow22But her SMV is artificially high thanks to simps and filters.
@JEAGERlST
@JEAGERlST Жыл бұрын
Your pictures are top tier. The one with the snow look the best. I would have thought you were a model.
@loverofhumanity
@loverofhumanity Жыл бұрын
thank you. This is the most ridiculous experiment I've seen cause he photoshopped himself into a chad.
@handsomeX
@handsomeX Жыл бұрын
​@Loverofhumanity So what?? Girls do it more extreme. Everyone frauds everyone. It's not like you're gonna meet the person you're gonna marry on these sites. 🤷‍♂️
@JEAGERlST
@JEAGERlST Жыл бұрын
​​@@loverofhumanity I think he only improved the colours and quality. Nothing too crazy
@mikemoggerson6651
@mikemoggerson6651 Жыл бұрын
@@loverofhumanity he’s pretty solid looking in real life
@loverofhumanity
@loverofhumanity Жыл бұрын
@@mikemoggerson6651 he's a normie tbh. He went from a normie to a chad. That's a massive jump.
@jonathanjacob5453
@jonathanjacob5453 Жыл бұрын
To be fair: 1. You didn’t actually go on any dates. Besides the 3 Asians there is a big chance the remaining ones would flake. 2. You are catfishing. 3. There is a big chance you are being catfished. 4. There is a big drop off in matches so in week 2 you would probably have a small number of matches. And after that it would dry up completely. It would probably be more rewarding to spend your time building out a rich social life and focus on your career.
@its.skamara-sp
@its.skamara-sp Жыл бұрын
I wonder if he'll ever bring stereotypes into his analysis? For example a certain type of people might have higher success with low purity girls for... reasons...
@antoinenijhuis450
@antoinenijhuis450 Жыл бұрын
@@provobeats8105 He bought tinder platinum, what are you on about?
@kingsguard5614
@kingsguard5614 Жыл бұрын
What do you mean with catfishing? Thats still him just with optimal lighting and posture.
@MrAlexLowen
@MrAlexLowen Жыл бұрын
This is good advice: read this comment, man, it's important.
@jmilber
@jmilber Жыл бұрын
He's not cat fishing. He's just using attractive pics of himself. Even if 4 remain, 4 dates with attractive girls could be very rewarding and worth any man's time who is single and trying to meet an attractive girlfriend. "Building out a rich social life" takes a lot more time than swiping around on tinder and chatting; everyone has some extra free time they can spare.
@agamemnon4889
@agamemnon4889 Жыл бұрын
This point should be emphasised: 1. WW’s enhanced dating photos brought him to a 7/10 (Elite Chad level). This resulted in a higher success rate in match rates. 2. Doing this will have consequences for when she meets him on the date, especially if “looks is everything.” That’s of course if they haven’t flaked. 3. In this current upload where he is speaking, he is actually a 5-6 normie (as he claims). The resulting match rate, if he uploaded this as a dating profile pic, would be much lower but at least a more honest outcome / longer-term dating success rate
@pachekusdimitrescus1
@pachekusdimitrescus1 Жыл бұрын
To be fair he displays on his profile 2 normie photos, so it's not 100% fraudulent; I think it's fine to show in Tinder good photos while also sharing off normal/average pictures
@tonydiesel3444
@tonydiesel3444 Жыл бұрын
7 lol 7 don't work online.8 min
@ScorpionSuerte
@ScorpionSuerte Жыл бұрын
Just photoshop your photos to look like Chad bro. The girls will never notice
@danwarner7816
@danwarner7816 Жыл бұрын
Another advice don't always look in Brum 😂
@ScorpionSuerte
@ScorpionSuerte Жыл бұрын
@The Chad Lite Greg Show Hey trouble. Good to see the black pillers uniting here. How's the therapy going?
@VeniVidiVandaliAuz
@VeniVidiVandaliAuz Жыл бұрын
@The Chad Lite Greg Show You're not a Chadlite lol.
@ScorpionSuerte
@ScorpionSuerte Жыл бұрын
@The Chad Lite Greg Show A giga stay-at-home-streaming-for-8-hours-per-night-too-scared-to-cold-approach-CharlieZ-wannabe-sh¡tty-boxer-doughbody-womenly-hips-delusional-cringecel racist
@voidwalker9223
@voidwalker9223 Жыл бұрын
@The Chad Lite Greg Show yeah you’re barley even a 6/10 5.7 at most
@quentinmcmullen2792
@quentinmcmullen2792 Жыл бұрын
I could be misunderstanding, but it seems you didn't go on any of the dates? If so, we are missing crucial data. For one, how many of the girls actually showed up? Getting them to agree to meet is all well and good, but we've all been stood up before. Also, how was the actual date? Maybe you got there and they weren't as into you as they were online. Maybe your photos/profile carried you a bit. Maybe the "high purity" girls were awkward and more shy and weren't actually good dates or something. How many dates ended in sex? I could go on. There is a lot of data that I feel we are missing here. But what you did provide is interesting and possibly useful. Maybe I'll run the experiment myself and figure out the second half of the data if I'm lucky.
@thinkoutsidethecontainer
@thinkoutsidethecontainer Жыл бұрын
This video was basically sponsored by Tinder. He said the video is sponsored by a Tinder photographer. And without Tinder there is no Tinder photographer. And the video concludes using Tinder is a good idea for average men. This is effectively a paid sponsorship for Tinder
@thinkoutsidethecontainer
@thinkoutsidethecontainer Жыл бұрын
@@tvh369 yup 100%. I wouldn't go back on a dating app even if this guy's photography skills guaranteed me tons of instant sex. The dating crisis of 2020-2023 did something much "worse" to men that can't be fixed with Tinder photographers: we realized how truly silly modern wom*n are, and how being alone as men is the ultimate spiritual development trial.
@spartanghost9713
@spartanghost9713 Жыл бұрын
​@@tvh369I'd rather stay alone too.
@MatiKosa
@MatiKosa Жыл бұрын
@@thinkoutsidethecontainer I wouldn't say so. Tinder photographer is just a result of today's reality with Tinder being the #1 dating app. Does social media suck? Yes. Can you do something about it? Not too much. You can either keep bitching or adjust. And the photographer is offering you better photos and that's it. The conclusion doesn't promote Tinder, he didn't say: go and buy premium. He just said, that with the right amount of effort, online dating can be okay for average men and Tinder was just an example.
@MatiKosa
@MatiKosa Жыл бұрын
@@tvh369 It is sad indeed mate. For the record, I have just taken pro photos with my female friend this week. She made sure I will have the right angles, square jawline, broad shoulders, the lighting - I am amazed how much of a difference few milimeters here and there can make. Will create a profile tomorrow right with the Tinder Gold and see the results for myself after hitting the gym for 4 months and getting really good photos. That's almost as good as it gets for me.
@heydudeeee
@heydudeeee Жыл бұрын
Angle frauding leads to problems when actually meeting up, idk if its a solid strat.
@Gszarco94
@Gszarco94 Жыл бұрын
Women do it all the time. We men need to stop bitching and take advantage of everything we can.
@Tommy-t1g
@Tommy-t1g Жыл бұрын
@@Gszarco94 But women always have options. If they can't get chad to commit, there's always chad-lite. If you fraud as a man you will go on a date that has a higher chance of no further progress when she sees your flaws and not the perfected pictures. But yeah use it to your advantage, it probably increases your chances but it's still muddy water.
@whiterabbit8243
@whiterabbit8243 8 ай бұрын
as long as he included other low quality photos and don't leave them out then I dont see the problem, but if those first two photos he put is the only ones then he's catfishing.
@bluewizzard8843
@bluewizzard8843 3 ай бұрын
It should not. The goal is to meet nothing else.
@heydudeeee
@heydudeeee 3 ай бұрын
​@@bluewizzard8843 If she expects to meet a HTN and a MTN shows up, ofc she's gonna be disappointed, and the whole meeting might be ruined because of that.
@dolomiti850
@dolomiti850 Жыл бұрын
It's interesting to see the conversion ratio of matches to WhatsApp and then WhatsApp to materialised dates but, crucially, the dates to smash ratio and smash to gf ratio are unconfirmed. I would also remark that the WhatsApp date planning appeared rather business-like and came across as impatient. Texting is one setting where 'game' and generally getting to know the girl a bit counts
@Hasan9t
@Hasan9t Жыл бұрын
I posted a job for my firm, got 400 applicants, and shortlisted 10, only interviewing 4, and will pick one. Women are in this same position in picking men but have no reputation to defend, therefore can behave with a low level of empathy that there’s a human being on the other end.
@bluelion5160
@bluelion5160 Жыл бұрын
There's a good chance most of those girls won't show up to the date.
@Beupeu
@Beupeu Жыл бұрын
I’ve seen that in Brazil they use Tinder to kidnap some guys.
@MikeBarbarossa
@MikeBarbarossa Жыл бұрын
aspecially when he seemed a bit pushy and desperate. I understand it was part of the experiment to get as much results as possible, but it ends up getting you more potentials and less actuals
@captainphoenix
@captainphoenix 4 ай бұрын
Yeah best-case-scenario 3/9 actually show up.
@nevergiveupbaby1720
@nevergiveupbaby1720 3 ай бұрын
Bots
@N4STYNATE
@N4STYNATE 2 ай бұрын
10%
@Prescotmills8732
@Prescotmills8732 Жыл бұрын
Deducing "purity" based on pics is a myth. I've seen some of the most promiscuous women without tattoos or weird piercings plus a lot of women have not so conspicuous tattoos and piercings.
@M0viLover
@M0viLover Жыл бұрын
Agreed. I'm older, but *neither* of the w0men I dated with at least 50+ bodies (100+ bodies for the second one - easily!) would have come off as they truly are, in pictures.
@Prescotmills8732
@Prescotmills8732 Жыл бұрын
@@M0viLover same I have the experience to know that tattoos mean nothing in terms of purity.
@MIchaelSybi
@MIchaelSybi Жыл бұрын
I can say hookers don't use perfumes and usually try to conceal their lifestyle, at least a part of them. You will have a really hard time discerning a hooker and a usual woman, as those look very alike nowadays. Then add to this sleeping with hordes of men is ok after sex in the city, which was released 25 years ago. It only shows how biased we are on our first perception of the person. So WW has a point the first perception is very important. But you can spoil it anytime, as she knows there's a lineup of others willing to bet to win her 24/7/365 for another 20-30 years. That's why I don't see a point in persuading this path, as anyway she belongs to public or to government. Any woman can dress up in a flowery dress with little makeup, with pics of flipping pancakes on a kitchen and fool you she is a family type. And then she might create another profile with lots of makeup for hooking chads for one night stand. Don't trust that cosplay, even is she is a nun. From another point, permanent tatoos and makeup with piercing is not something you can easily remove, which says something, but not neccesary means she is dull or anything, though. I know some top smart female professionals, who look like that
@Warbr33d
@Warbr33d Жыл бұрын
I think it goes beyond sexual purity. Ideological purity is a factor to consider as well. Pink hair and piercings in unconventional places is obviously going to be indicative of more liberal attitudes.
@Prescotmills8732
@Prescotmills8732 Жыл бұрын
@@Warbr33d I understand that women with those attributes tend to more liberal but I guess "purity" means different things to different people.
@SunRise-ul7ko
@SunRise-ul7ko Жыл бұрын
From my personal experience, if I had 9 dates lined up. I'd have to say, 2/3 of woman flake on a first date. That now leaves 3. Out of the 3 woman you actually go on a date with, 2/3 won't be intetested in a relationship. That leaves just 1 woman, that is interested in a relationship. That's a lot of effort for a choice of one.
@rorycolgan
@rorycolgan Жыл бұрын
Law of averages
@ralphpinkins5619
@ralphpinkins5619 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@docentTeofilFiutt-jh4mr
@docentTeofilFiutt-jh4mr Жыл бұрын
Still better than nothing.
@MIchaelSybi
@MIchaelSybi Жыл бұрын
And then you find out she is a very average-looking one you're not interested in, right? Or has kids or some crap in life
@SunRise-ul7ko
@SunRise-ul7ko Жыл бұрын
@@MIchaelSybi 100% correct.
@yz6644
@yz6644 Жыл бұрын
No wonder women ghost this guy he texts like a complete geek on Whatsapp. I feel sorry for all the guys who text like this
@burninoutmyretnas4397
@burninoutmyretnas4397 Жыл бұрын
Facts I was like bruh you’re texting someone a guy just call and smash’s he need to revamp his game
@overpowah109
@overpowah109 Жыл бұрын
I love this video. But I think you have to notice that this is not dating as an average looking guy because all the girls from the pictures were lead to believe you are way more attractive than average. So I'd guess this is a top 10%/15% experience
@jameskurt4299
@jameskurt4299 Жыл бұрын
Id say my photos are 30% better in looks then his, and my personal exp on these apps is similar to what he got but maybe add 1 -1.5 point to all the girls he matched with. And maybe in 1 week 1000 matches or something if age group 18-30. All in all though its a massive waste of time, yes you have a lot of matches but converting these matches to dates is the biggest waste of time I have ever experienced. If you are successful and value you your time there is absolutely 0 justification to waste time on their trying to get dates on these apps nowadays. The last 15 dates I went on, maybe 2 looked like there photos, so many ogres around nowadays using fake photos, this also must be accounted for when meeting these girls. 2015 on the apps you could get a date a night without even trying, now its ridiculous.
@iamsomebody6267
@iamsomebody6267 Жыл бұрын
He's not average though. A blonde white guy has way more chance than average Asian, Brown, or Black guy.
@PlatinNr1
@PlatinNr1 Жыл бұрын
@@iamsomebody6267 stop crying
@geraldleuven169
@geraldleuven169 Жыл бұрын
@@iamsomebody6267 Then move to Asia, Africa or the Middle East.
@iamsomebody6267
@iamsomebody6267 Жыл бұрын
​@@PlatinNr1 How am I supposed to be crying?? I was supposed to be speaking the truth for it is what it is.
@saakov1
@saakov1 Жыл бұрын
You can photoshop a 3 into a 9 but as soon as you meet up on the first date she will ghost you. With this technique you can really only flirt on whatsapp and thats all.
@TheEloquentEye
@TheEloquentEye Жыл бұрын
They are all dealing with so many different guys that all of this makes total sense to me.
@Beupeu
@Beupeu Жыл бұрын
King Charles is a chad. 9/10 face.
@MIchaelSybi
@MIchaelSybi Жыл бұрын
You're right, as long as you think you will have an advantage of showing yourself in real life, i.e you're a good communicator
@effectively0
@effectively0 Жыл бұрын
You didn't elaborate on the end results with each girl - how many dates, if you had a fun time, if you thought their personalities were relationship material, etc. Presumably this has to do with my previous question, but what was the reason for rating Diu mid purity?
@narutofan4545
@narutofan4545 Жыл бұрын
Those pictures are really flattering lol
@kingnevermore25
@kingnevermore25 Жыл бұрын
I get maybe 2 per month. Saying “its not worh it” is understatement
@arthurdevrome8925
@arthurdevrome8925 Жыл бұрын
At least more than in rl!
@Schwaub123
@Schwaub123 Жыл бұрын
Depends on your area. There are many optins in a 1mio city
@kingnevermore25
@kingnevermore25 Жыл бұрын
@@Schwaub123 🤡
@Tommy-t1g
@Tommy-t1g Жыл бұрын
Even when i got those 2-3 matches, it was just a "oh we can be friends, no dating" or just ghosted.
@MIchaelSybi
@MIchaelSybi Жыл бұрын
Do you mean real dates or matches?
@cheeseandquackers4965
@cheeseandquackers4965 Жыл бұрын
I hate the idea of putting myself out there to be judged as worthy or not by the council of women. "Pick me! pick me!" I'm not putting them on a pedestal like that. Also when they see that you're 1-2 points less attractive irl it'll just be a brootal rejection
@Beupeu
@Beupeu Жыл бұрын
Every human judge other humans, like you or not lol. That’s how our brain works.
@MIchaelSybi
@MIchaelSybi Жыл бұрын
It's both sides are choosing, as you have to have a match. You can withdraw yourself from the game, if you're too sensitive But you pointed right that it's women who choose on dating sites mostly, as they only pick only 5% of guys, whereas guys pick up 50% of women
@cheeseandquackers4965
@cheeseandquackers4965 Жыл бұрын
@aparecidodolivramentoespir8443 I do judge others. But if a girl is ugly, I dont think less of her as a person. Meanwhile, women see me as insignificant and worthless because I'm not attractive.
@cheeseandquackers4965
@cheeseandquackers4965 Жыл бұрын
@fidelity776 Exactly that's what I'm saying. MAYBE there's a very small percentage of women who swiped right on me that I swiped left on. But you knows guys just play the numbers game at this point
@Beupeu
@Beupeu Жыл бұрын
@@cheeseandquackers4965 maybe they don’t see you only as a sexually attractive, but some of them might respect you as a person. Being respectful is not about how much they want to get laid with you
@ilprofeta621
@ilprofeta621 Жыл бұрын
This is basically catfish
@E87-y5j
@E87-y5j Жыл бұрын
Taking crazy enhanced photos is like lying on a resume - it may get you in the door, but how are you going to talk your way out of it in person?
@thehonestjourney-s2w
@thehonestjourney-s2w Жыл бұрын
okay bro believe what you want lol. how many dates you been on the past year/
@Jonathan_from_Arkansas
@Jonathan_from_Arkansas 9 ай бұрын
It doesn’t matter nearly as much as you think. I use frauded photos but in person I’m tall as hell so I guess it counteracts, but I get laid around 1/4 dates.
@xCaRnRAGEx
@xCaRnRAGEx 6 ай бұрын
@@Jonathan_from_Arkansas idk about that
@Rclrs5
@Rclrs5 Жыл бұрын
The pictures you used show yourself to be in the top 5-25% of men which isn’t average, it’s top tier or top 25% which obviously means it’s worthwhile for men in that tier. Re do this experiment with a guy that’s 5/10 with 5/10 images and see what you find.
@BARZEL343
@BARZEL343 Жыл бұрын
Hoeflation... when the quality of the average woman goes down, while the entitlement of these women goes up. If you're using dating apps, you're part of the problem.
@nax1807
@nax1807 Жыл бұрын
100% This ^
@user-ly1ml6ue9n
@user-ly1ml6ue9n Жыл бұрын
Yes
@vipeton.8927
@vipeton.8927 Жыл бұрын
Amen.
@executor142
@executor142 Жыл бұрын
STOP. USING. TINDER.
@heavnpc
@heavnpc Жыл бұрын
fax
@Maturas
@Maturas Жыл бұрын
You failed to mention the dates themselves (did you even go) and what was the aftermath. This material really needs a followup.
@spartanghost9713
@spartanghost9713 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@danwarner7816
@danwarner7816 Жыл бұрын
Maybe it was long paragraphs 😂
@Prescotmills8732
@Prescotmills8732 Жыл бұрын
he said he never met with any of the girls. He just did this for the video.
@thecurmudgeon7350
@thecurmudgeon7350 Жыл бұрын
I cut Tinder 2 years ago. Way too much time spent organizing dates and waiting around only to get flaked on. I got some success over a 2 year time span of using Tinder often...about 50 dates which about 75% ended up in a hookup or short term few weeks fling. The majority of my dates were with women that were unattractive or extremely mid in looks and or purity. The unattractive ones always wanted relationships and the decent looking ones eventually left after a while or after the initial hookup. If I went on there now I'd probably get nothing.
@averageadventure200
@averageadventure200 Жыл бұрын
That sounds like a good move to cut back on unecissary stress and time sinks. Did any of the dates have a positive impact on your life and did the dates usually follow a pattern you regonized before you decided to quit Tinder?
@ScorpionSuerte
@ScorpionSuerte Жыл бұрын
Brutal
@mentalhaxx
@mentalhaxx Жыл бұрын
Even Craig got biches, its over for me
@Beupeu
@Beupeu Жыл бұрын
Just admit u a loser don’t blame the app
@MIchaelSybi
@MIchaelSybi Жыл бұрын
I's very similar to my experience on dating sites around 10 years ago, when I was 30. I guess you're not 7+ in looks, maybe a bit lower. I banged ugly girls, fat ones, desperate 40+, some hookers, who wanted to settle down, but practically no 7+ good girls. Which just means if you didn't succeed in real life, dating sites won't do the miracle, as you're average or below, so no-one wants to deal with subpar men, who are the majority there, as they're not successful in the first place. Girls either want to get anything (low tier ones), or the top sh%t if they're hot. So you're left with low-quality ones, and no access to good ones anyway, it's simply insurpassable invisible barrier
@sugurkenpferd1204
@sugurkenpferd1204 Ай бұрын
plot twist. none of the girls wanted to see you. they just did a video on how many dates an average girl would get on tinder.
@HarryRLees
@HarryRLees Жыл бұрын
Issue being, those photos look nothing like you. Those girls will turn up for the date and never see you again
@thinkoutsidethecontainer
@thinkoutsidethecontainer Жыл бұрын
So basically the "professional" photos appeal to women's petty narcissism and result in more swipe rights? Oh damn I'm definitely hiring this dude to take my photos lmao
@zwiebelface185
@zwiebelface185 Жыл бұрын
top 5% rated is not average bruh
@athulfgeirsson
@athulfgeirsson Жыл бұрын
The answer is 0 (zero).
@generalkaboom6642
@generalkaboom6642 Жыл бұрын
This
@WheatWaffles
@WheatWaffles Жыл бұрын
You’d be surprised
@kjhm10
@kjhm10 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485
@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Жыл бұрын
I had absolutely no anything off tinder. I would get a couple a year off bumble about 4 years ago. They we’re actually fairly attractive but went no where fast.
@DaaWood998
@DaaWood998 Жыл бұрын
@@WheatWaffles 20 times more than that? 😁
@shugyosha7924
@shugyosha7924 Жыл бұрын
This is why Bumble is superior. The woman has to message first, which is a huge time-saving filter in your favour. I recently re-activated my Bumble account, was very picky with women, and the majority of women I matched with I was also able to get contact info, ask out and agree a time and date. No women dropped off after agreeing to a date. I have quite a strong profile I think though.
@maxXxbecks
@maxXxbecks Жыл бұрын
@shugyosha7924 what are your main tips for a good profile?
@shugyosha7924
@shugyosha7924 Жыл бұрын
@@maxXxbecks My main tips are: 1. Your first picture has to stand out. That means not just looking handsome but having vivid colours or doing something that makes the girl curious. You want something that will interrupt the girl's stream of left-swiping. 2. Your last picture should be your second-best picture. 3. If you're stuck you can use online services to get people to rate your photos. 4. The text doesn't really matter, you basically want to minimise reasons for girls to swipe left. Try to get at least one joke in there. 5. If you can you want at least one of the following photos: smiling, working, with a dog, with friends, doing something exciting (esp. something a girl can imagine doing with you). 6. Learn how to take and edit photos. You don't need an expensive camera (modern smartphone is fine) but a tripod will help. Learn about lighting, proportions, etc. Smooth out your skin. If you have blue eyes brighten them to make them pop slightly. Iterate.
@phr3ui559
@phr3ui559 Жыл бұрын
@@shugyosha7924 thanks for the tips
@Wubzeiii
@Wubzeiii Жыл бұрын
Shit, nobody been messaging me on Bumble either. LMAO
@greenlamp9219
@greenlamp9219 Жыл бұрын
you must been decently tall then for bumble to work as most women prioritise height when matchmaking
@austinbenner
@austinbenner Жыл бұрын
Conquered the hardest part getting matches. Work on your rizz. You could 5x your results doing these 6 things & getting better at texting. 1. Never double text match her energy and time it takes to respond. Ie she takes an hour to respond you take an hour to respond 2. Tell her what to do don’t ask. You want to assume the sale. Asking creates doubt/questioning 3. Never message anything boring or filler stuff like “good morning” “how’s your day” 4. Ideally you want most messages to be emotionally stimulating and fresh/unique 5. All your messages seemed to be pull messages. You also want to mix in push messages 6. After you match get her attracted first then get the date. Your messages just went from match to asking her if she’ll go on a date with her Hope this helps! Not hating just trying to help. Love your videos!
@NoName-zj9jl
@NoName-zj9jl Жыл бұрын
Squintmaxxing in photos can bring the average man (Normie / HTN) up to Chadlite quite easily. It's crazy how much it can improve a man's attractiveness. Even in real time when I squintmaxx I get a lot more glances and eye contact from women.
@yuris6125
@yuris6125 Жыл бұрын
Does it look like Huntereyesmaxxing?
@NoName-zj9jl
@NoName-zj9jl Жыл бұрын
@@yuris6125 Yeah it pretty much gives the illusion of Hunter Eyes.
@anab0lic
@anab0lic Жыл бұрын
@@NoName-zj9jl hah, I remember as a kid I was walking along with a buddy, 2 female friends walking in front of us, one of the girls turns back to me to say something, which kind of made me squint my eyes for some reason, and she was like 'woah make that face again that was sexy.'.. or something to that effect... too many years ago to remember exactly what she said. but yeah... squinty eyes gives illusion of a facial trait VVomen respond positively to.
@abccba9763
@abccba9763 Жыл бұрын
maybe they glace at you because they think you look stupid no offense. If you don’t have a good eye area and you squint it just looks stupid.
@NoName-zj9jl
@NoName-zj9jl Жыл бұрын
@@noname-un3tp Yes, that's it!
@keysersoze657
@keysersoze657 Жыл бұрын
Wait so you didnt even go on dates with them? Seems completely pointless now
@Beupeu
@Beupeu Жыл бұрын
The point is in the match itself. He gets little orgasms every time he gets a match
@MatiKosa
@MatiKosa Жыл бұрын
Did you have any actual dates? So, out of 9 girls that have INITIALLY agreed, probably only 5-6 would ACTUALLY show up. Then it's yet another story whether there's gonna be any chemistry or not, good conversation, maybe the girl will think you look worse in real life than online, etc. I also think that we are missing one crucial factor in here - the age range. While the age range was 18-25, 90%+ of girls all the way till 22 or maybe even 23, have the "random" mode function in their heads. The fact that she just agreed for a date would mean "yes" for a normal person, but remember: this was just temporary. Next thing you know and the dice in her head has yet another idea - oh, I don't feel like it. Even though she agreed! And she's gonna ghost you. 24 WhatsApp numbers out of 98 matches - I think that's the good initial measurement. Because while the matches are hard to get all across the board (of course it's still harder with younger girls), the number thing already tells you something. And then the date agreement. So in total, 9 out 98 matches agreed INITIALLY for a date - that's just above 9% accuracy, without knowing how the conversation went. We don't know how many of these 9 would actually show up. But what I do know is that girls aged 24-30 will be definitely more responsive and responsible too, which makes sense, cause they are more mature and the clock is ticking.
@soundsbyjman1536
@soundsbyjman1536 Жыл бұрын
Also leaving out the fact that most men are more attractive in person, best bet is to work on confidence and game in person so women naturally gravitate to you in person. Also what’s the point of going on 9 dates a week? That’s a lot of money even if you only pay for yourself
@MatiKosa
@MatiKosa Жыл бұрын
@@soundsbyjman1536 Speak of attractiveness in person - it's easy to measure it by yourself. Just go out there and try asking girls out. I am no pro in that matter, but probably far more experienced than average dude, since I have approached easily 60-70+ girls already if not more, got several contacts, so I think I do have at least a little bit of game. However, only a few of those turned into a real life dates, so the conversion rate was still low. Percentage wise it's better than Tinder (like 3-5% vs waaay less online), however, it's the numbers that can bump up Tinder. Unless you live a very open, social lifestyle and you party a lot, you have tons of friends and you live in a big metropolitan area - it's virtually impossible for you to meet a lot of new women easily. You are forced to chat them up on the streets, in the park, etc. - when the occasion arises. Not all circumstances are good for the approach. I think you should just increase your exposition, you should have the courage to approach girls face to face, but you should also have some presence online, which is huge in 2023 and cannot be ignored. You are not a young, hot chick that can do either of those and still get several or even hundreds of dates without too much effort - you are a guy and you have to put a lot of work. So better do it in a smart way.
@MIchaelSybi
@MIchaelSybi Жыл бұрын
He could easily continue the experiment and probably did, but the numbers were not too good I would preume
@soundsbyjman1536
@soundsbyjman1536 Жыл бұрын
@@MatiKosa personally I feel like a single guy should have a work, social, family and private life to the point where you shouldn’t need or have time for more than 1-2 dates per month In what reality would dating more than 3 women a month be beneficial to your bank or mental health? Way to many soul connections wether you sleep with the women or not Your better off working on yourself and dating the 1-2 women a month that naturally gravitate towards you and unless you live in a extremely rural area that should be doable, if not it probably says more about you than your location unless it’s extreme
@rodbelding9523
@rodbelding9523 Жыл бұрын
5-6 would actually show up? I think you're being generous, realistically only 1 one of the 9 would actually show up.
@savesta6127
@savesta6127 Жыл бұрын
Bro u talk like a robot to these girls, no mouth piece no smoothness. That's why
@marcom9103
@marcom9103 Жыл бұрын
So the obvious answer is to cut the online dating bull and start at 7:18 with female work colleagues, friends of friends, and girls you meet in real life and enjoy a much higher success rate and a lot less wasted time / money on tinder
@athejbaka7084
@athejbaka7084 Жыл бұрын
A women on tinder can’t be high purity
@jackali5014
@jackali5014 Жыл бұрын
yup
@matchhunter7012
@matchhunter7012 Жыл бұрын
Many chads already had her.
@kenyanicholas6809
@kenyanicholas6809 Жыл бұрын
😢
@copingmanlet1104
@copingmanlet1104 Жыл бұрын
A woman on tinder CAN be high in purity. The odds, however, are not exactly in favor of high purity but it does happen once every blue moon.
@athejbaka7084
@athejbaka7084 Жыл бұрын
@@copingmanlet1104 No it’s literally impossible a high purity women would never use a degenerate app like tinder. Unfortunately any girl who’s pure is already taken
@BryJovi17
@BryJovi17 Жыл бұрын
9 dates from 725 right swipes = 1.24% success rate. That is far better than average
@ShatterNWO
@ShatterNWO Жыл бұрын
Yeah, thats about the percent of matches an average guy gets from swiping right. Not dates.
@BryJovi17
@BryJovi17 Жыл бұрын
@@ShatterNWO indeed. He had 98 matches, and from that got 9 dates, which is 9.18%. Based on average guys getting 9 matches from the 1,800 swipes, 765 right swipes, that's 0.83 dates. So you'd need to hit roughly the 1,000 right swipes mark in order to secure just 1 date 🥳 I'm at around 80,000 total swipes and only ever had 1 date, yet I'm average looking
@joshuamontgomery2298
@joshuamontgomery2298 Жыл бұрын
@@BryJovi17 You missed the part where he didn't go on any of the dates. In order to go on a date you have to meet up with them.
@joshuamontgomery2298
@joshuamontgomery2298 Жыл бұрын
@Alex Above average how?? He never met up with any of them even if he was above. Might as well get an escort at that point. No Life long fulfillment with that list of women he displayed. I've gotten matches with the same type of women, nothing new though.
@NewscasterNews4
@NewscasterNews4 Жыл бұрын
@The Chad Lite Greg Show and paid for Platinum 😭
@taegol7167
@taegol7167 Жыл бұрын
Are you serious? Your pictures indicate that you are 8 or 7, while in reality you are between 6~5. This is cheating.
@matchhunter7012
@matchhunter7012 Жыл бұрын
Even he had to do it 😂 to get some matches let alone dating women that has been ran through already.
@loverofhumanity
@loverofhumanity Жыл бұрын
its an ad to promote the guy at the end cause he's getting paid for it. I doubt wheat even believes this garbage. Or atleast I hope he doesn't
@MrAlexLowen
@MrAlexLowen Жыл бұрын
Man you have to improve your texting game a lot. Conversion from match to date is a highly demanding process in terms of skills.
@Leejungwoo48
@Leejungwoo48 Жыл бұрын
This is just a money grab folks. He’s basically selling you a professional photo shoot which will cost you potentially thousands of dollars. He never promised you anything. He never said he went on the actual dates. Forget about all this. Just look at how women treat you when you are out and about, day to day, at work, etc... do they give you a lot of attention? Then you already have a pretty good idea about your sexual market value.
@Alisha0413
@Alisha0413 Жыл бұрын
How many of the dates actually showed up and then worked out though? Wouldn’t it be really awkward meeting someone you don’t know?
@Alisha0413
@Alisha0413 Жыл бұрын
Interesting data btw
@Qwertzym0onsif
@Qwertzym0onsif Жыл бұрын
true i could never imagine 2 partners who met from tinder to something leads to a marriage , what pops in my head is black mirror epidsodes about this topic
@AlmaVasquezjr
@AlmaVasquezjr Жыл бұрын
Absolutely terrifying. The guy can be a pychopaths, murderer or rapists. You have to bring your wingman or bodyguard to a date with a stranger. Or you don't mind dying.
@yuris6125
@yuris6125 Жыл бұрын
@@AlmaVasquezjr I hope that was sarcasm.
@Edwin6264.
@Edwin6264. Жыл бұрын
@@AlmaVasquezjr Jesus actual christ 😂😅
@handsomeX
@handsomeX Жыл бұрын
Just be very good looking, bro. Problem solved.
@copingmanlet1104
@copingmanlet1104 Жыл бұрын
Just be white, 6'2, highly educated, high income, mostly neurotypical, big dick, broad frame, brad pitt-level face, bro. So easy.
@spartanghost9713
@spartanghost9713 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@sean640
@sean640 Жыл бұрын
And confident and with excessive funds and vast friend groups irl
@abdulmajeedalrouqi6791
@abdulmajeedalrouqi6791 Жыл бұрын
The photo with the snow you look gigchad, only need eyebrow
@2kusiainen
@2kusiainen Жыл бұрын
You look ridiculously good in your tinder profile photos.
@TheRealLesterGreen
@TheRealLesterGreen Жыл бұрын
As many as you have time for. I think the problem is on dating apps is you get messages from so many people that is hard to put any decent effort into any one person, you are constantly distracted by new women messaging you. You start to place less importance on each person, you start to view them as completely replaceable. You talk to hundreds but never really get to know anyone.
@averageadventure200
@averageadventure200 Жыл бұрын
It's often frustrating and difficult in situations where the girl responds less or stops responding. This creates a paradox where you can chase to try get contact, but by trying to get contact and chasing it simply lowers your value, making it even less likely she will respond. There are ways to flip these situations or prevent them, but it seems most of the time it's better to have an easy comes easy goes attitude when it comes to dating women.
@ScorpionSuerte
@ScorpionSuerte Жыл бұрын
Good phylosophy
@rodbelding9523
@rodbelding9523 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree. It's a lose-lose. If a girl is ghosting or giving one word answers, there's not really much you can do. If you keep pushing the issue it's gonna turn her off, but if you don't push the issue you're just never gonna hear from her again. It's literally lose-lose.
@coisasbostas1648
@coisasbostas1648 Жыл бұрын
@@rodbelding9523 I agree
@nothxkbai
@nothxkbai Жыл бұрын
@@rodbelding9523 if a girl is ghosting or attempting to cut the conversation short then thats a very clear sign to move on. if the woman is doing that shit to play games then shes clearly crazy and we all know not to stick our dicks in crazy. given these facts you need to be borderline retarded to pursue women that are giving you signs they are not into you but no surprise dudes be desperate to get their dicks wet so they try to rationalize stupid behavior.
@Unknown1Percent
@Unknown1Percent Жыл бұрын
true, so at least save your value and pride and just forget about her @@rodbelding9523
@w.6188
@w.6188 Жыл бұрын
Those pictures are super photoshopped though. You look like a 7.5 in those pictures while in the video while you're talking you're a 5
@burninoutmyretnas4397
@burninoutmyretnas4397 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 then he wonders why he’s struggling, you should be more attractive in person
@robin6921
@robin6921 Жыл бұрын
Bro, you didn't just get through all of this, just to say near the end "I didn't see any of these girls" 😭 They literally could have flaked on the date itself
@JustNo8808
@JustNo8808 Жыл бұрын
If a girl swiped right on 700 guys, she could get 530 dates from those.
@spartanghost9713
@spartanghost9713 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯🎯
@Prescotmills8732
@Prescotmills8732 Жыл бұрын
you're not a girl so it doesn't matter
@marcolongoni6631
@marcolongoni6631 Жыл бұрын
are those photos digitally enhanced?
@cheekypop
@cheekypop Жыл бұрын
not surprised a third of dates were asian girls they do tend to be more straightforward
@capecoastcity1
@capecoastcity1 Жыл бұрын
Because of JBW that is not a real flex tbh.
@truiteteam3428
@truiteteam3428 Жыл бұрын
They are just more ugly on average.
@father5946
@father5946 Жыл бұрын
Not really. They're all the same. Wheat only got so many Asian girls because Asian girls worship white guys lol Asian girls would go for a white guy over an Asian guy any day of the week.
@Ash_Hudson
@Ash_Hudson Жыл бұрын
Traditional asian girls are mostly shy and conservative in my experience, unless born in a western country. But one thing that is always guaranteed, is that they are always nasty in bed and tight as fuck.
@EuropeDatingOnlineTips
@EuropeDatingOnlineTips 5 ай бұрын
*_often guys don't optimize their profile well enough to stand out on Tinder. Your profile needs to be on point guys_*
@anonymeidentity1005
@anonymeidentity1005 5 ай бұрын
I agree i m working on my profile because my profile was bad + i m not a model by anymeans 😂
@anonymeidentity1005
@anonymeidentity1005 5 ай бұрын
So i got 0 likes i was there for 4 months 😂
@abrahamovicovski
@abrahamovicovski Жыл бұрын
Bro's inner Casanova is released. Hide your wife and kids 😅
@mr.fantastic4403
@mr.fantastic4403 Жыл бұрын
This honestly blows my mind. 98 matches over a span of a week!?!?! I’ve got only some 30 matches over a span of 1 1/2 years.
@spartanghost9713
@spartanghost9713 Жыл бұрын
He paid for " Tinder Platinum ".
@danwarner7816
@danwarner7816 Жыл бұрын
15 in year. If I'm being honest some were fake/bots
@JordanTelezino
@JordanTelezino Жыл бұрын
make sure your in shape, have a good haircut and dont look like a creep, like your personality shiine but dont be too pushy
@lewiswilson4083
@lewiswilson4083 Жыл бұрын
@@noname-un3tpany tips for “better photos”?
@harryharry9602
@harryharry9602 Жыл бұрын
Are the "easy" ethnic dates because of JBW?
@basedlibertarianz910
@basedlibertarianz910 Жыл бұрын
probably, I got matched on hinge (only match i ever had) with a chinese girl, cute but she lived too far away
@simonboas5765
@simonboas5765 Жыл бұрын
Why didn’t you meet up with the girls? The process isn’t finished yet when you have arranged a date with them, it’s only finished once you are laying in bed with them.
@maszk9743
@maszk9743 Жыл бұрын
Everyone is only doing "experiments". Of course they aren't ACTUALLY trying to get laid.
@avve9001
@avve9001 Жыл бұрын
I think Wheat has a gf.
@kenyanicholas6809
@kenyanicholas6809 Жыл бұрын
@@avve9001 I was wondering about that, she was ok with this??
@avve9001
@avve9001 Жыл бұрын
​@@kenyanicholas6809when your bf is a dating youtuber for living I guess you need to be ok with that. 😅
@isaiah-p2y
@isaiah-p2y 8 ай бұрын
bro not even gotta be on top of them
@Dominik40301
@Dominik40301 Жыл бұрын
Second conversation, 8:12, you are not mirroring her text lenght, you are sending bigger texts. Also, you should be direct and to the point, metioning that you are super excited was nail in the coffin, which shows that you are needy and weak. When you get her number, you dont text too much, you simply just organize date. And no texting between dates, other than setting new one. If she reaches out in few days after date, then you use that opportunity to set new date. No excessive texting, phone is just for setting dates, conversation is iRL.
@sevalrathod7117
@sevalrathod7117 Жыл бұрын
Props to you for being open to changing your mind based on the data. From your previous videos, I'd totally understand scrapping the video. Big respect for being consistent with your claims.
@algibs9095
@algibs9095 Жыл бұрын
No question that after all of the hours of work, you can get a date. Then you have to sift through multiple women on dates to find the needle in the haystack. Just seems way more trouble than it is worth. Honestly, women are extremely difficult to get along with and will only bring drama, heartache and disappointment into your life. If you have the strength to live without female company, then you will suffer far less headaches, heartaches and financial misery.
@spartanghost9713
@spartanghost9713 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@MIchaelSybi
@MIchaelSybi Жыл бұрын
I've got a good match for me after swiping for 2 weeks. We chatted small talk. Several days later I proposed an elite restaurant. One can say it was wrong, but I wanted it so much I would pay for it. She is 7, I'm around 5. She said she is busy at the weekend, and didn't reply afterwards. If she would want a date, she would have rescheduled. So first I paid for platinum and boosts, then I only had a faint hope of paying for the date, for the hope of paying for her in life daily after commitment if I'm lucky. Kneel all the time for pussy. I think there's a line after which it's much easier for a man to accumulate wealth and simply pay. I don't know where it is, but being popular with women is a difficult game when you have ever-rolling chads online. You'd also prefer a 8-10 girl for one night, rather than a 4-6 for life. LIfe is like casino, where house wins most of the time. House, in this case, is government, or any services, which revolve around sex instinct (night clubs, dating sites, alcohol, makeup, clothes). You can, theoretically, win a lottery, but it's so small that most of your time and resources will be wasted. Would you have invested all that time on dating sites into education, work or sports, it would be more rewarding probably
@Warbr33d
@Warbr33d Жыл бұрын
Western women you mean. Still plenty of normal girls in other countries
@ihatelensflare
@ihatelensflare Жыл бұрын
@@Warbr33d wrong. The internet created a monoculture. There is no woman on the planet untouched by the internet lest you find one of those tribes supposedly separate from civilisation.
@StopMarxism
@StopMarxism Жыл бұрын
@@Warbr33d wrong
@anonymousgh608
@anonymousgh608 Жыл бұрын
First, you’re white so it helps too.. cos those asians matched and talked to you cos you’re white.. white men are the most desired on the dating app.. an average white man is equal to a high level guy from any other race in terms of looks in women’s eye.. secondly, your photos have been enhanced too much that it doesn’t really look like u.. when some of the girls see you, they might not wanna meet up again. Cos I’ve enhanced my photos a lot in the past and met up girls but they didn’t want to meet up again after the first meeting
@danielwolfe4169
@danielwolfe4169 6 ай бұрын
where i live being white is a disadvantage
@dariuschambliss1221
@dariuschambliss1221 6 ай бұрын
​@@danielwolfe4169 Where is that? The Democratic Republic of the Congo?
@truiteteam3428
@truiteteam3428 Жыл бұрын
I tried my own experience, I live near the border of the country (France) and after a day 80% of the profiles suddently are out of boundaries, I had to setup the radar to 60km to get new results, the problem is this radar make a big circle around me, so it reach Brussels in Belgium and some other town that doesn't speak french anymore, resulting to a bad ratio since most of these girls won't like a profil they can't talk with. I then went in Belgium and tried again with a new profil, I have proofs the radar volontary shows us profils that live far away, for example I had access to new profiles in my town from Belgium, but in my town these profiles didn't appear at all. It's broken. Also at the moment most of the profiles I see are from one Belgian city only, while my city has a similar radius. I even get profiles from Netherlands and Germany which are 200-300km aways... the radar seems to target big cities first, it makes the results even less good. I've read the comments about the app and most people get the same problem, the profiles are geographicaly inacurate if you live in a small country or near the borders of it.
@eddieliusa
@eddieliusa Жыл бұрын
Just invade Belgium bro!
@antoinet.6895
@antoinet.6895 Жыл бұрын
Salut khey
@truiteteam3428
@truiteteam3428 Жыл бұрын
@@antoinet.6895 yo cléyou
@MIchaelSybi
@MIchaelSybi Жыл бұрын
Tinder doesn't give you all the profiles immediately, it chunks out portions of it to get you hooked, so you get the impression of big choice and new inflow. Otherwise you would swipe all the girls in a week. Also it wants you to constantly swipe to get new contacts I guess. It's not broken, it just doesn't show you all the cards
@truiteteam3428
@truiteteam3428 Жыл бұрын
@@MIchaelSybi The profiles make a loop on my phone, most of "close" profiles are obvious fake
@DavidW-ng5zv
@DavidW-ng5zv Жыл бұрын
I see that you have taken the Alex from PWF method of complete 100% honesty in your Tinder photos...
@gameon2000
@gameon2000 Жыл бұрын
I don't think, Waffles was catfishing. Especially compared to what women do on the daily basis i.e. via makeup, the "Bold Glamour" Instagram filter, FaceTune / FaceApp etc. The photographer just did a good job, perfecting the given curcumstances, while keeping it casual. A male fake / catfishing would be going the "Tinder Swindler" route, making photos in a private jet, on a yacht, fancy suits, exotic locations and supercars.
@Kasian1
@Kasian1 Жыл бұрын
Not sure if I agree with your verdict. I think Tinder DOES NOT work for normies. 1. What happens when you show up on the date and you look way worse compared to your photos? Isnt the interest going down? 2. What about the time and financial investment to get good enganced photos and Tinder premium, respectively?
@WheatWaffles
@WheatWaffles Жыл бұрын
Most guys look around 1 point worse in unedited photos than real life. So the enhancement brings it back level
@virgileusa
@virgileusa Жыл бұрын
​@@WheatWafflesHard cope
@loverofhumanity
@loverofhumanity Жыл бұрын
@@WheatWaffles in your photos the enhancement made you go from normie to chad. What are you talking about? It's not bringing it to level. Stop with the nonsense. We all have eyes
@adama3350
@adama3350 Жыл бұрын
@@WheatWaffles STOP THE INSANITY
@rbnola3340
@rbnola3340 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think you actually went on dates with the women, there’s a good chance they would simply not show up. Another thing you have to keep in mind is that most guys won’t pay for tinder.
@MIchaelSybi
@MIchaelSybi Жыл бұрын
What do you mean most guys won't pay for tinder? Why is that?
@rbnola3340
@rbnola3340 Жыл бұрын
@@MIchaelSybi when people are given the choice between a free but lesser version of something and a payed version of something most will choose the free version. Especially when you can bypass the payed benefit by simply making a new account.
@nathan98000
@nathan98000 10 ай бұрын
Your text game needs work. Too formal
@mangss9602
@mangss9602 Жыл бұрын
still flawed because you are a niche (a ginger) + averageish looking, and as a result, you have an advantage in the dating app since if a girl really likes red hair (roughly 1% of girls) they will be pretty much a guaranteed swipe. An average guy is not white, blue eyes, red hair. In fact, having blue eyes and red hair is about as rare as being 6’7. Certainly not an “average” tinder profile. Try being a 5’10 brown or black hair guy who is htn in the face; we are a dime a dozen wheat.
@itsjiyoungie
@itsjiyoungie Жыл бұрын
you're not average. you're attractive
@joypills
@joypills Жыл бұрын
You're quite handsome. I don't think you're an average guy. Definitely above average
@CybrZone
@CybrZone Жыл бұрын
you've never seen what truly attractive male gets on tinder... easily 900+ likes
@redpillsatori3020
@redpillsatori3020 Жыл бұрын
I think if he were not a "ginger" he'd be 7.5/10, but most women don't go for pure gingers. More than likely he's just getting some interest from girls who are into that.
@novacontaptbr5349
@novacontaptbr5349 Жыл бұрын
​​@@CybrZone above average and Chad are two different things
@kenyanicholas6809
@kenyanicholas6809 Жыл бұрын
@@redpillsatori3020 Gingers are cute, but I’d give him a 6/10.
@mikemoggerson6651
@mikemoggerson6651 Жыл бұрын
@@kenyanicholas6809 6/10? In the photos he genuinely looks top 10% or higher
@nickst0ne
@nickst0ne Жыл бұрын
Great video and unexpected conclusion. Also, living in a million-people city does help a ton. For the flakiness upon logistics, I think it's down to a few stupid mistakes: - phrasing the meetup as a question. If you phrased it like "let's meet on Monday, 6pm, at cafe XYZ", it could sound more assertive while the question is a bit submissive. - also, keeping it tight into 1 single message would seem better than 3 consecutive texts, which evoke more of a teenager's lack of structure - and WTF is this obsession with mid-afternoon? When I was a student, I had class all day. Why not inviting girls at late afternoon or early evening? It sounds like terrible timing to me. I may sound harsh but I love your work. Cheers!
@ThomasFoolery8
@ThomasFoolery8 Жыл бұрын
The single message isn’t as good because she has an ocean of DMs from men that are left on read. In most of these dating apps, if you message 3x then it shows a 3 next to your messages which catches the girl’s attention.
@Orthodox11111
@Orthodox11111 Жыл бұрын
The pictures he put are so different from reality in my oppinion but interesting video anyway
@AW-zy1kw
@AW-zy1kw Жыл бұрын
Yeah but what happens when you go on the dates and you don't really look like your "special" photos?
@DesmondHubbard
@DesmondHubbard Жыл бұрын
What a great breakdown, excellent work!
@youtubeaccountserio2633
@youtubeaccountserio2633 Жыл бұрын
725 right swaps and getting 98 matches is a blessing for a male dude, u should be happy
@polpol1005
@polpol1005 Жыл бұрын
Why are guys so obsessed with dating apps?!! Very few women use them compared to guys so it's obvious why they might not get chances. Meet people in real life and through social circles
@Leukick
@Leukick Жыл бұрын
8:44 TBH I think the women stop responding because your messages sound WAY too logistical and transactional... like you're conducting a business meeting, or sending out a cheesy work email about an upcoming meeting. This is a turn off, it's the opposite of attractive to them. It makes you sound like a square. I'm not sure if things are diff in the UK but I doubt it, women still prefer the "bad boys" and chads out there too. You should portray yourself as a lot more cool, relaxed and partially nonchalant.
@xCaRnRAGEx
@xCaRnRAGEx 7 ай бұрын
He texts like each text is his only chance. He even put his signature in the opening text as if he’s some boomer
@EvaLou42
@EvaLou42 Жыл бұрын
Until they meet you and see that you don’t look anything like your photos 🤣 I remember back when Tinder first became a thing (I’m old lol) people really didn’t understand the concept of being catfished… all of my friends got “soft” catfished. Basically when the guy is average, say a 5 in real life, but he presented as an 7 or so in his pictures. It’s not traumatizing BUT the disappointment will be so strong, that you are likely to never hear from any of these girls ever again. You actually probably would’ve been better off just meeting them in real life and not getting their hopes up. Personally, when I got soft catfished, it gave me the ICK because I know those dudes knew EXACTLY what they were doing, and it just spoke to their insecurities.
@EvaLou42
@EvaLou42 Жыл бұрын
@Mr. NoName it’s absolutely true. I’m not saying that looks aren’t extremely important. It literally gets you in the door. But the fact of the matter is, this is the year 2023 and your looks can be greatly altered with things like a healthy diet/lifestyle and going to the gym. If you’re really unfortunate looking, there’s always plastic surgery and I’ve seen incredible results for men especially with things like chin implants, hair transplants, and rhinoplasties. As far as women enhancing their looks with makeup and good angles with photography… I can’t say I understand that either. I mean a man is gonna find out that you don’t look the way you look in real life eventually, right? So the same goes for women. If you’re really serious about improving your looks it’s gonna take a lot of dedication, discipline, time and often money. In my opinion, if you’re trying to cover something with makeup, you might as well just go get plastic surgery to fix that thing permanently.
@ENZOxDV9
@ENZOxDV9 Жыл бұрын
What examples of "soft catfishing" do you see the most in dudes profiles? Height would be one I would imagine.
@EvaLou42
@EvaLou42 Жыл бұрын
@@ENZOxDV9 height is a major thing in “soft catfishing”… another one is trying to hide the fact they are prematurely balding 😂 other than that guys actually do a lot of the same things girls do. Not through filters, but often the angle is just so good it hides some pretty significant facial asymmetry or flaws. Also they will post pics that are clearly dated when they were much less chubby or had a very impressive physique.
@rabb1t894
@rabb1t894 Жыл бұрын
@@EvaLou42 did short guys lie about their height to you? if so that's straight up catfishing, but if it never came up and you were disappointed in person then that's your fault for not being clear about your height requirements.
@EvaLou42
@EvaLou42 Жыл бұрын
@@rabb1t894 I wouldn’t be the kind of girl to write in my bio “must be 5’10+” 🙄 I would just go off pictures to try and gage how tall or short they were and some guys lie yes… some guys take pictures at different angles or to try to use all sorts of ways (taking pics strategically next to a group of literally like 5 other guys who are all super tiny ect) to try and look reasonably tall when they are really like 5’5. Remember this was back in the day when tinder was new and the term “catfishing” wasn’t a common term and people didn’t really know how to navigate online dating and the pitfalls lol we learned fast though.
@morningmidnight9398
@morningmidnight9398 Жыл бұрын
Well the angles on those photos were on another level
@aaryannnnnnn
@aaryannnnnnn Жыл бұрын
dude the best tinder video ever
@bobmoneyman
@bobmoneyman Жыл бұрын
how crazy matches dont mean much if u actually are trying to get dates
@spartanghost9713
@spartanghost9713 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@thinkoutsidethecontainer
@thinkoutsidethecontainer Жыл бұрын
So wait a minute is it safe to say that this video you've made is basically sponsored by Tinder? Because if men don't use Tinder then men won't hire your sponsor: the Tinder photographer. Lmao
@Warbr33d
@Warbr33d Жыл бұрын
There are other apps obviously so that isn't true. I reckon the dates went badly or many of them flaked, so, to make it look more favourable for him, he excluded the outcome. It's either a paid Tinder advertisement, him obscuring the outcome or a bit of hopium for his audience.
@Manu-yv1jt
@Manu-yv1jt Жыл бұрын
state of the dating market today
@raceteamgui871
@raceteamgui871 Жыл бұрын
I'm not at all suprised that 22 women said "yes" to a date. I'd be suprised if half, or even a quarter of those 22 women actually followed up with, and went on the date with you. In my experience the biggest difficulty in online dating is when you try to transition from the app to real life. The majority of people would flake out last minute, ghost or something else would get in the way of making the date a reality. It's really easy to make plans when you don't have real concequences when you flake out. You don't even know them in real life, if they ghost you there's nothing you can do about it, no akward interactions when you see them in your day to day. I used apps for about 2 years, talked to many women, "set up" dates with many women, only ended up going on 2 dates in total with the app. 1 date a year using the app about 10 mins a day max. Just my experience, your results may vary. I think the most important thing to do when using dating apps is to not invest any of your self worth or expectations into the experiences and convorsations you have until they become tangible, as in you actually meet the person face to face. Not only til then is it worth worrying about.
@yugaeimthicc6400
@yugaeimthicc6400 Жыл бұрын
idk why but i really like how you just use a ppt to make videos rather than a very edited documentary style
@havefunoutthere6378
@havefunoutthere6378 9 ай бұрын
LOVE this video! Thank you for putting in all of this effort and showing what really happens.
@mikeprice8307
@mikeprice8307 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't know. Im not on any social media to even have a tinder account.
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