How Many Tinder Dates Can an Average Guy (me) Get in 1 Week?

[@WheatWaffles]

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[@MyALPHAguy]

I have a tinder with a picture saying "Casual Sex Only" that's the picture a text. Of couse I match only with those 4~5/10 but at least about once a month I meet up with them to have sex, without paying... I've been doing that since 2020 here in Brazil Got laid out with 29 girls. You should try to be more direct and invite them for sex.

[@Oh_So_Based]

Dye your hair & eyebrows, get a PrettyBoy cut, dress more "preppy " and redo the expirement

[@birdtj82]

Dude ! Yr pics are Great ! Diverse . Looks open minded , RELAXED 😌 (a lot of women want a Relaxed dude not hot yet Arrogant ) , good sense of Style ! Perfect haircut 💇 ! Since u r ginger ,,, dark blue . Solid Black will be yr best color now . Don’t wear anything with yellow in it Z like REd , brown , green , orange 🍊 yellow ! Eyes 👀 can do funny tricks !

[@tedjames428]

Reason why they turned you down you didn't set a definite time or day you threw back on her

[@Frivals]

🙄The big problem is that you go begging for them "i would be super excited to see you, whenever you want and how you want, please" , if you value yourself why would you be super excited just to see a random stranger girl that might not be worthy in real life? You must make her qualify to you why should you choose her. There are 4 billions females, she must beg you , why should you waste your time with her? You are a man. Men make the world functioning. But she is just a girl, worthless. Females must worship men everyday.

[@Barbaryotaku]

Ten months ago he made a video about how Tinder is terrible for average guys. When he gets sponsored by a Tinder photographer the service however now becomes good?

[@thedarklordx]

He didn't try photomaxxing previously.

[@anonymousgh608]

He also said editing your photos too much isn’t an option too cos when the girls meet you, they’d know you catfished them.. and that’s exactly what he did in this video. Coincidentally, this video was also sponsored by a photographer.

[@ralphpinkins5619]

He’s a lame. What u expect? Don’t listen to have the shit he says. Social media apps are a waste of time for the average man. Get your passport fellas

[@harsh3948]

@@anonymousgh608 but there’s a difference. Taking photos with minimal enhancement in a specific way by using angles, outfits and props that women like isn’t catfishing them

[@MIchaelSybi]

@@harsh3948 There is a difference - someone pays you the money, so why not to take it? Then WW didn't lie in his video, he only cut it to where the truth would be unveiled

[@Leo-fs2pm]

>purity: very high >she's on tinder

[@nax1807]

lool glad someone else thought the same

[@abdou.the.heretic]

Let alone, getting purity straight from mere puctures is fuckong wild

[@athulfgeirsson]

@@abdou.the.heretic literally insane

[@bossgd100]

lol

[@abdou.the.heretic]

@@jcransome5616 yes do that.

[@cybermandan1960]

Q: "How many Tinder dates can an average guy get in 1 week?" A: Less than a below average girl can get in 1 HOUR

[@losballos2628]

😂😂😂

[@coolcat6703]

Men are easy get over it

[@kvcper1]

shut up lil bro youre actually part of this problem

[@mickdundee346]

One of the problems is that you're saying that they're above average looking girls, but you didn't actually see them in real life. You could be surprised. You didn't go far enough with the experiment, you should have gone on those dates to see if they show up, how they really look, and if they're not disappointing in a way or another.

[@Warbr33d]

I think he deliberately cut it off to either a) make it seem like he did better than he actually did or b) this is a paid advertisement for Tinder

[@eXebeno]

@@Warbr33d but he could have went anyway and lied about the results

[@gevans5446]

so true. A lot of the girls look a LOT different in real life.

[@blibity2295]

A note on girls agreeing to dates and not following through: You offered 22 dates. They probably agreed to many more dates from other guys. When they randomly stop responding, it's because a hotter guy offered them free dinner.

[@eddieliusa]

I’d be careful with the professional photos, this can end up wasting a bunch of time since the girl will be disappointed in real life. I had a friend get me a couple semi professional photos and this increased my amount of dates by a decent amount but my “closing” rates decreased too. More dates were stale, didn’t want to meet again, etc compared to when I had my basic photos. So be careful not to end up wasting your time

[@ScorpionSuerte]

This is somewhat obvious, but certain dating couches ~cough~ pwf try to claim it doesn't matter to girls 🙈

[@ScorpionSuerte]

@The Chad Lite Greg Show Gregory. Can't wait for your next live where you said you were gonna invite your whole rotation of 9s.

[@MIchaelSybi]

This video is more of a proof looks matter a lot on dating sites than anything else. I've seen awesome photos of girls, which were carefully selected from hundreds, where they looked their best with special makeup, so yeah, for women it's the same. But the difference women want to bang less, so they will refuse the guy faster, a guy still might want to bang her at least once. And she might think she still has his serious attitude, whereas it's not

[@M0viLover]

"So be careful not to end up wasting your time." Uh - *any* time spent on dating apps is wasted time!!

[@ScorpionSuerte]

@@M0viLover Yes, unless Chad or an average white guy geomaxxed in Phillipines

[@CybrZone]

Also, Angle frauding and photo buffing is really just kicking the can down the road. Meeting up is then the issue.

[@adama3350]

@@happymila1 Real life is real though touching up his first few pics is a long term losing proposition.

[@rodbelding9523]

Yeah that's my thoughts too. If you manipulate your photos to make yourself look better, the girl is gonna notice as soon as she meets you.

[@happymila1]

@@adama3350 😑 Some phones have an instant smooth filter when you take a picture If you do not change your features than I do not see a problem with catching a girls eye with a good professional pic

[@DavidW-ng5zv]

​@@rodbelding9523 I only removed the dark circles from under my eyes for online dating. Everything else I left.

[@executor142]

Better post your worst pic, to have in person impression.

[@TheAcesendedOne]

First of all, nice experiment. A couple of questions: 1. With the enhanced photos you dont even look like yourself anymore, especially in the top 5% one. Same goes for the picture of your sponsor, they all look unreal. Isnt this catfishing in the end? 2. What happened after the first date? Its all good if you get one date with a girl but could you get a second one, especially after they have seen the real you?

[@urevya]

every girl catfishes, why care?

[@mr.x4001]

What is the point in getting a 9/10 picture then showing up as a 5/10 guy and the girl loses interest.

[@doppelhelixes]

Thanks to a lesbian friend i saw a lot of female tinder photots and the real woman - yeah i couldn't even recognice them as well. Just subtract 2-4 points of any woman and you will be around her real looks...

[@bluelion5160]

most 'chads' catfish to the same extent if not more

[@JustNo8808]

​@@jackglow22But her SMV is artificially high thanks to simps and filters.

[@PePe-fg7yo]

If you value your sanity, stay away from the things like tinder 😊

[@florianusflash6389]

1. Subtract at least 3 points from Purity for the fact that the girls are on Tinder at all 2. How did the dates go? How many girls have flaked? How many girls didn't contact you after the first date (without anything happening)? 3. If the photos are too optimal, you create false expectations and have to fight against disappointment from the first second on an uphill battle. As a reminder, the girls expect to meet at least Chadlight at the appointed place according to your photos. I have photos of myself where my weak jawline and receding chin are not visible, especially when I wear a beard. In these photos I look like Chad. If I were to use these photos, the effect would be the same as if a fat guy used Photoshop to make himself 50 kilos lighter or someone with hereditary baldness wore a wig in the photos, but appeared on the date with a crown of hair.

[@NeurosenkavalierEmilSinclair]

Wtf... dude point 1 really is disgusting. Go out, have a good time and don't look down on people who have more fun than you

[@SlimShady-fi9ky]

@@NeurosenkavalierEmilSinclair someone can and will be criticized for what they do, regardless of how much "fun" they have doing what they do

[@BARZEL343]

Hoeflation... when the quality of the average woman goes down, while the entitlement of these women goes up. If you're using dating apps, you're part of the problem.

[@nax1807]

100% This ^

[@user-ly1ml6ue9n]

Yes

[@vipeton.8927]

Amen.

[@executor142]

STOP. USING. TINDER.

[@heavnpc]

fax

[@quentinmcmullen2792]

I could be misunderstanding, but it seems you didn't go on any of the dates? If so, we are missing crucial data. For one, how many of the girls actually showed up? Getting them to agree to meet is all well and good, but we've all been stood up before. Also, how was the actual date? Maybe you got there and they weren't as into you as they were online. Maybe your photos/profile carried you a bit. Maybe the "high purity" girls were awkward and more shy and weren't actually good dates or something. How many dates ended in sex? I could go on. There is a lot of data that I feel we are missing here. But what you did provide is interesting and possibly useful. Maybe I'll run the experiment myself and figure out the second half of the data if I'm lucky.

[@thinkoutsidethecontainer]

This video was basically sponsored by Tinder. He said the video is sponsored by a Tinder photographer. And without Tinder there is no Tinder photographer. And the video concludes using Tinder is a good idea for average men. This is effectively a paid sponsorship for Tinder

[@thinkoutsidethecontainer]

@@tvh024 yup 100%. I wouldn't go back on a dating app even if this guy's photography skills guaranteed me tons of instant sex. The dating crisis of 2020-2023 did something much "worse" to men that can't be fixed with Tinder photographers: we realized how truly silly modern wom*n are, and how being alone as men is the ultimate spiritual development trial.

[@spartanghost9713]

​@@tvh024I'd rather stay alone too.

[@MatiKosa]

@@thinkoutsidethecontainer I wouldn't say so. Tinder photographer is just a result of today's reality with Tinder being the #1 dating app. Does social media suck? Yes. Can you do something about it? Not too much. You can either keep bitching or adjust. And the photographer is offering you better photos and that's it. The conclusion doesn't promote Tinder, he didn't say: go and buy premium. He just said, that with the right amount of effort, online dating can be okay for average men and Tinder was just an example.

[@tvh024]

@@MatiKosa Fair enough but what for some is okay just seems sad for me.

[@ScorpionSuerte]

Just photoshop your photos to look like Chad bro. The girls will never notice

[@danwarner7816]

Another advice don't always look in Brum 😂

[@ScorpionSuerte]

@The Chad Lite Greg Show Hey trouble. Good to see the black pillers uniting here. How's the therapy going?

[@VeniVidiVandaliAuz]

@The Chad Lite Greg Show You're not a Chadlite lol.

[@ScorpionSuerte]

@The Chad Lite Greg Show A giga stay-at-home-streaming-for-8-hours-per-night-too-scared-to-cold-approach-CharlieZ-wannabe-sh¡tty-boxer-doughbody-womenly-hips-delusional-cringecel racist

[@voidwalker9223]

@The Chad Lite Greg Show yeah you’re barley even a 6/10 5.7 at most

[@jonathanjacob5453]

To be fair: 1. You didn’t actually go on any dates. Besides the 3 Asians there is a big chance the remaining ones would flake. 2. You are catfishing. 3. There is a big chance you are being catfished. 4. There is a big drop off in matches so in week 2 you would probably have a small number of matches. And after that it would dry up completely. It would probably be more rewarding to spend your time building out a rich social life and focus on your career.

[@SPdanig]

I wonder if he'll ever bring stereotypes into his analysis? For example a certain type of people might have higher success with low purity girls for... reasons...

[@antoinenijhuis450]

@@provobeats8105 He bought tinder platinum, what are you on about?

[@kingsguard5614]

What do you mean with catfishing? Thats still him just with optimal lighting and posture.

[@MrAlexLowen]

This is good advice: read this comment, man, it's important.

[@jmilber]

He's not cat fishing. He's just using attractive pics of himself. Even if 4 remain, 4 dates with attractive girls could be very rewarding and worth any man's time who is single and trying to meet an attractive girlfriend. "Building out a rich social life" takes a lot more time than swiping around on tinder and chatting; everyone has some extra free time they can spare.

[@LocalBeast.]

Bro is texting like a robot

[@bluelion5160]

There's a good chance most of those girls won't show up to the date.

[@Beupeu]

I’ve seen that in Brazil they use Tinder to kidnap some guys.

[@MikeBarbarossa]

aspecially when he seemed a bit pushy and desperate. I understand it was part of the experiment to get as much results as possible, but it ends up getting you more potentials and less actuals

[@captainphoenix]

Yeah best-case-scenario 3/9 actually show up.

[@nevergiveupbaby1720]

Bots

[@JEAGERlST]

Your pictures are top tier. The one with the snow look the best. I would have thought you were a model.

[@loverofhumanity]

thank you. This is the most ridiculous experiment I've seen cause he photoshopped himself into a chad.

[@handsomeX]

​@Loverofhumanity So what?? Girls do it more extreme. Everyone frauds everyone. It's not like you're gonna meet the person you're gonna marry on these sites. 🤷‍♂️

[@JEAGERlST]

​​@@loverofhumanity I think he only improved the colours and quality. Nothing too crazy

[@mikemoggerson6651]

@@loverofhumanity he’s pretty solid looking in real life

[@loverofhumanity]

@@mikemoggerson6651 he's a normie tbh. He went from a normie to a chad. That's a massive jump.

[@Prescotmills8732]

Deducing "purity" based on pics is a myth. I've seen some of the most promiscuous women without tattoos or weird piercings plus a lot of women have not so conspicuous tattoos and piercings.

[@M0viLover]

Agreed. I'm older, but *neither* of the w0men I dated with at least 50+ bodies (100+ bodies for the second one - easily!) would have come off as they truly are, in pictures.

[@Prescotmills8732]

@@M0viLover same I have the experience to know that tattoos mean nothing in terms of purity.

[@MIchaelSybi]

I can say hookers don't use perfumes and usually try to conceal their lifestyle, at least a part of them. You will have a really hard time discerning a hooker and a usual woman, as those look very alike nowadays. Then add to this sleeping with hordes of men is ok after sex in the city, which was released 25 years ago. It only shows how biased we are on our first perception of the person. So WW has a point the first perception is very important. But you can spoil it anytime, as she knows there's a lineup of others willing to bet to win her 24/7/365 for another 20-30 years. That's why I don't see a point in persuading this path, as anyway she belongs to public or to government. Any woman can dress up in a flowery dress with little makeup, with pics of flipping pancakes on a kitchen and fool you she is a family type. And then she might create another profile with lots of makeup for hooking chads for one night stand. Don't trust that cosplay, even is she is a nun. From another point, permanent tatoos and makeup with piercing is not something you can easily remove, which says something, but not neccesary means she is dull or anything, though. I know some top smart female professionals, who look like that

[@Warbr33d]

I think it goes beyond sexual purity. Ideological purity is a factor to consider as well. Pink hair and piercings in unconventional places is obviously going to be indicative of more liberal attitudes.

[@Prescotmills8732]

@@Warbr33d I understand that women with those attributes tend to more liberal but I guess "purity" means different things to different people.

[@agamemnon4889]

This point should be emphasised: 1. WW’s enhanced dating photos brought him to a 7/10 (Elite Chad level). This resulted in a higher success rate in match rates. 2. Doing this will have consequences for when she meets him on the date, especially if “looks is everything.” That’s of course if they haven’t flaked. 3. In this current upload where he is speaking, he is actually a 5-6 normie (as he claims). The resulting match rate, if he uploaded this as a dating profile pic, would be much lower but at least a more honest outcome / longer-term dating success rate

[@pachekusdimitrescus1]

To be fair he displays on his profile 2 normie photos, so it's not 100% fraudulent; I think it's fine to show in Tinder good photos while also sharing off normal/average pictures

[@tonydiesel3444]

7 lol 7 don't work online.8 min

[@w.6188]

Those pictures are super photoshopped though. You look like a 7.5 in those pictures while in the video while you're talking you're a 5

[@burninoutmyretnas4397]

😂😂😂 then he wonders why he’s struggling, you should be more attractive in person

[@kingnevermore25]

I get maybe 2 per month. Saying “its not worh it” is understatement

[@arthurdevrome8925]

At least more than in rl!

[@Schwaub123]

Depends on your area. There are many optins in a 1mio city

[@kingnevermore25]

@@Schwaub123 🤡

[@Tommy-t1g]

Even when i got those 2-3 matches, it was just a "oh we can be friends, no dating" or just ghosted.

[@MIchaelSybi]

Do you mean real dates or matches?

[@saakov1]

You can photoshop a 3 into a 9 but as soon as you meet up on the first date she will ghost you. With this technique you can really only flirt on whatsapp and thats all.

[@athulfgeirsson]

The answer is 0 (zero).

[@generalkaboom6642]

This

[@WheatWaffles]

You’d be surprised

[@kjhm10]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

I had absolutely no anything off tinder. I would get a couple a year off bumble about 4 years ago. They we’re actually fairly attractive but went no where fast.

[@DaaWood998]

@@WheatWaffles 20 times more than that? 😁

[@yz6644]

No wonder women ghost this guy he texts like a complete geek on Whatsapp. I feel sorry for all the guys who text like this

[@burninoutmyretnas4397]

Facts I was like bruh you’re texting someone a guy just call and smash’s he need to revamp his game

[@cheeseandquackers4965]

I hate the idea of putting myself out there to be judged as worthy or not by the council of women. "Pick me! pick me!" I'm not putting them on a pedestal like that. Also when they see that you're 1-2 points less attractive irl it'll just be a brootal rejection

[@Beupeu]

Every human judge other humans, like you or not lol. That’s how our brain works.

[@MIchaelSybi]

It's both sides are choosing, as you have to have a match. You can withdraw yourself from the game, if you're too sensitive But you pointed right that it's women who choose on dating sites mostly, as they only pick only 5% of guys, whereas guys pick up 50% of women

[@cheeseandquackers4965]

@aparecidodolivramentoespir8443 I do judge others. But if a girl is ugly, I dont think less of her as a person. Meanwhile, women see me as insignificant and worthless because I'm not attractive.

[@cheeseandquackers4965]

@fidelity776 Exactly that's what I'm saying. MAYBE there's a very small percentage of women who swiped right on me that I swiped left on. But you knows guys just play the numbers game at this point

[@Beupeu]

@@cheeseandquackers4965 maybe they don’t see you only as a sexually attractive, but some of them might respect you as a person. Being respectful is not about how much they want to get laid with you

[@ilprofeta621]

This is basically catfish

[@SunRise-ul7ko]

From my personal experience, if I had 9 dates lined up. I'd have to say, 2/3 of woman flake on a first date. That now leaves 3. Out of the 3 woman you actually go on a date with, 2/3 won't be intetested in a relationship. That leaves just 1 woman, that is interested in a relationship. That's a lot of effort for a choice of one.

[@rorycolgan]

Law of averages

[@ralphpinkins5619]

Exactly

[@docentTeofilFiutt-jh4mr]

Still better than nothing.

[@MIchaelSybi]

And then you find out she is a very average-looking one you're not interested in, right? Or has kids or some crap in life

[@SunRise-ul7ko]

@@MIchaelSybi 100% correct.

[@jeffw5263]

So this was a 20 minute infomercial for Justin the Tinder Photographer…

[@dolomiti850]

It's interesting to see the conversion ratio of matches to WhatsApp and then WhatsApp to materialised dates but, crucially, the dates to smash ratio and smash to gf ratio are unconfirmed. I would also remark that the WhatsApp date planning appeared rather business-like and came across as impatient. Texting is one setting where 'game' and generally getting to know the girl a bit counts

[@athejbaka7084]

A women on tinder can’t be high purity

[@jackali5014]

yup

[@matchhunter7012]

Many chads already had her.

[@kenyanicholas6809]

😢

[@copingmanlet1104]

A woman on tinder CAN be high in purity. The odds, however, are not exactly in favor of high purity but it does happen once every blue moon.

[@athejbaka7084]

@@copingmanlet1104 No it’s literally impossible a high purity women would never use a degenerate app like tinder. Unfortunately any girl who’s pure is already taken

[@overpowah109]

I love this video. But I think you have to notice that this is not dating as an average looking guy because all the girls from the pictures were lead to believe you are way more attractive than average. So I'd guess this is a top 10%/15% experience

[@jameskurt4299]

Id say my photos are 30% better in looks then his, and my personal exp on these apps is similar to what he got but maybe add 1 -1.5 point to all the girls he matched with. And maybe in 1 week 1000 matches or something if age group 18-30. All in all though its a massive waste of time, yes you have a lot of matches but converting these matches to dates is the biggest waste of time I have ever experienced. If you are successful and value you your time there is absolutely 0 justification to waste time on their trying to get dates on these apps nowadays. The last 15 dates I went on, maybe 2 looked like there photos, so many ogres around nowadays using fake photos, this also must be accounted for when meeting these girls. 2015 on the apps you could get a date a night without even trying, now its ridiculous.

[@iamsomebody6267]

He's not average though. A blonde white guy has way more chance than average Asian, Brown, or Black guy.

[@PlatinNr1]

@@iamsomebody6267 stop crying

[@geraldleuven169]

@@iamsomebody6267 Then move to Asia, Africa or the Middle East.

[@iamsomebody6267]

​@@PlatinNr1 How am I supposed to be crying?? I was supposed to be speaking the truth for it is what it is.

[@zwiebelface185]

top 5% rated is not average bruh

[@EvaLou42]

Until they meet you and see that you don’t look anything like your photos 🤣 I remember back when Tinder first became a thing (I’m old lol) people really didn’t understand the concept of being catfished… all of my friends got “soft” catfished. Basically when the guy is average, say a 5 in real life, but he presented as an 7 or so in his pictures. It’s not traumatizing BUT the disappointment will be so strong, that you are likely to never hear from any of these girls ever again. You actually probably would’ve been better off just meeting them in real life and not getting their hopes up. Personally, when I got soft catfished, it gave me the ICK because I know those dudes knew EXACTLY what they were doing, and it just spoke to their insecurities.

[@EvaLou42]

@Mr. NoName it’s absolutely true. I’m not saying that looks aren’t extremely important. It literally gets you in the door. But the fact of the matter is, this is the year 2023 and your looks can be greatly altered with things like a healthy diet/lifestyle and going to the gym. If you’re really unfortunate looking, there’s always plastic surgery and I’ve seen incredible results for men especially with things like chin implants, hair transplants, and rhinoplasties. As far as women enhancing their looks with makeup and good angles with photography… I can’t say I understand that either. I mean a man is gonna find out that you don’t look the way you look in real life eventually, right? So the same goes for women. If you’re really serious about improving your looks it’s gonna take a lot of dedication, discipline, time and often money. In my opinion, if you’re trying to cover something with makeup, you might as well just go get plastic surgery to fix that thing permanently.

[@ENZOxDV9]

What examples of "soft catfishing" do you see the most in dudes profiles? Height would be one I would imagine.

[@EvaLou42]

@@ENZOxDV9 height is a major thing in “soft catfishing”… another one is trying to hide the fact they are prematurely balding 😂 other than that guys actually do a lot of the same things girls do. Not through filters, but often the angle is just so good it hides some pretty significant facial asymmetry or flaws. Also they will post pics that are clearly dated when they were much less chubby or had a very impressive physique.

[@rabb1t894]

@@EvaLou42 did short guys lie about their height to you? if so that's straight up catfishing, but if it never came up and you were disappointed in person then that's your fault for not being clear about your height requirements.

[@EvaLou42]

@@rabb1t894 I wouldn’t be the kind of girl to write in my bio “must be 5’10+” 🙄 I would just go off pictures to try and gage how tall or short they were and some guys lie yes… some guys take pictures at different angles or to try to use all sorts of ways (taking pics strategically next to a group of literally like 5 other guys who are all super tiny ect) to try and look reasonably tall when they are really like 5’5. Remember this was back in the day when tinder was new and the term “catfishing” wasn’t a common term and people didn’t really know how to navigate online dating and the pitfalls lol we learned fast though.

[@heydudeeee]

Angle frauding leads to problems when actually meeting up, idk if its a solid strat.

[@Gszarco94]

Women do it all the time. We men need to stop bitching and take advantage of everything we can.

[@Tommy-t1g]

@@Gszarco94 But women always have options. If they can't get chad to commit, there's always chad-lite. If you fraud as a man you will go on a date that has a higher chance of no further progress when she sees your flaws and not the perfected pictures. But yeah use it to your advantage, it probably increases your chances but it's still muddy water.

[@whiterabbit8243]

as long as he included other low quality photos and don't leave them out then I dont see the problem, but if those first two photos he put is the only ones then he's catfishing.

[@bluewizzard8843]

It should not. The goal is to meet nothing else.

[@heydudeeee]

​@@bluewizzard8843 If she expects to meet a HTN and a MTN shows up, ofc she's gonna be disappointed, and the whole meeting might be ruined because of that.

[@jones848]

Wait so you didnt even go on dates with them? Seems completely pointless now

[@Beupeu]

The point is in the match itself. He gets little orgasms every time he gets a match

[@NoName-zj9jl]

Squintmaxxing in photos can bring the average man (Normie / HTN) up to Chadlite quite easily. It's crazy how much it can improve a man's attractiveness. Even in real time when I squintmaxx I get a lot more glances and eye contact from women.

[@yuris6125]

Does it look like Huntereyesmaxxing?

[@NoName-zj9jl]

@@yuris6125 Yeah it pretty much gives the illusion of Hunter Eyes.

[@anab0lic]

@@NoName-zj9jl hah, I remember as a kid I was walking along with a buddy, 2 female friends walking in front of us, one of the girls turns back to me to say something, which kind of made me squint my eyes for some reason, and she was like 'woah make that face again that was sexy.'.. or something to that effect... too many years ago to remember exactly what she said. but yeah... squinty eyes gives illusion of a facial trait VVomen respond positively to.

[@abccba9763]

maybe they glace at you because they think you look stupid no offense. If you don’t have a good eye area and you squint it just looks stupid.

[@NoName-zj9jl]

@@noname-un3tp Yes, that's it!

[@Leejungwoo48]

This is just a money grab folks. He’s basically selling you a professional photo shoot which will cost you potentially thousands of dollars. He never promised you anything. He never said he went on the actual dates. Forget about all this. Just look at how women treat you when you are out and about, day to day, at work, etc... do they give you a lot of attention? Then you already have a pretty good idea about your sexual market value.

[@Hasan9t]

I posted a job for my firm, got 400 applicants, and shortlisted 10, only interviewing 4, and will pick one. Women are in this same position in picking men but have no reputation to defend, therefore can behave with a low level of empathy that there’s a human being on the other end.

[@Maturas]

You failed to mention the dates themselves (did you even go) and what was the aftermath. This material really needs a followup.

[@spartanghost9713]

💯💯💯💯

[@danwarner7816]

Maybe it was long paragraphs 😂

[@Prescotmills8732]

he said he never met with any of the girls. He just did this for the video.

[@taegol7167]

Are you serious? Your pictures indicate that you are 8 or 7, while in reality you are between 6~5. This is cheating.

[@matchhunter7012]

Even he had to do it 😂 to get some matches let alone dating women that has been ran through already.

[@loverofhumanity]

its an ad to promote the guy at the end cause he's getting paid for it. I doubt wheat even believes this garbage. Or atleast I hope he doesn't

[@anonymousgh608]

First, you’re white so it helps too.. cos those asians matched and talked to you cos you’re white.. white men are the most desired on the dating app.. an average white man is equal to a high level guy from any other race in terms of looks in women’s eye.. secondly, your photos have been enhanced too much that it doesn’t really look like u.. when some of the girls see you, they might not wanna meet up again. Cos I’ve enhanced my photos a lot in the past and met up girls but they didn’t want to meet up again after the first meeting

[@danielwolfe4169]

where i live being white is a disadvantage

[@dariuschambliss1221]

​@@danielwolfe4169 Where is that? The Democratic Republic of the Congo?

[@marcom9103]

So the obvious answer is to cut the online dating bull and start at 7:18 with female work colleagues, friends of friends, and girls you meet in real life and enjoy a much higher success rate and a lot less wasted time / money on tinder

[@BryJovi17]

9 dates from 725 right swipes = 1.24% success rate. That is far better than average

[@ShatterNWO]

Yeah, thats about the percent of matches an average guy gets from swiping right. Not dates.

[@BryJovi17]

@@ShatterNWO indeed. He had 98 matches, and from that got 9 dates, which is 9.18%. Based on average guys getting 9 matches from the 1,800 swipes, 765 right swipes, that's 0.83 dates. So you'd need to hit roughly the 1,000 right swipes mark in order to secure just 1 date 🥳 I'm at around 80,000 total swipes and only ever had 1 date, yet I'm average looking

[@joshuamontgomery2298]

@@BryJovi17 You missed the part where he didn't go on any of the dates. In order to go on a date you have to meet up with them.

[@joshuamontgomery2298]

@Alex Above average how?? He never met up with any of them even if he was above. Might as well get an escort at that point. No Life long fulfillment with that list of women he displayed. I've gotten matches with the same type of women, nothing new though.

[@NewscasterNews4]

@The Chad Lite Greg Show and paid for Platinum 😭

[@thinkoutsidethecontainer]

So basically the "professional" photos appeal to women's petty narcissism and result in more swipe rights? Oh damn I'm definitely hiring this dude to take my photos lmao

[@MatiKosa]

Did you have any actual dates? So, out of 9 girls that have INITIALLY agreed, probably only 5-6 would ACTUALLY show up. Then it's yet another story whether there's gonna be any chemistry or not, good conversation, maybe the girl will think you look worse in real life than online, etc. I also think that we are missing one crucial factor in here - the age range. While the age range was 18-25, 90%+ of girls all the way till 22 or maybe even 23, have the "random" mode function in their heads. The fact that she just agreed for a date would mean "yes" for a normal person, but remember: this was just temporary. Next thing you know and the dice in her head has yet another idea - oh, I don't feel like it. Even though she agreed! And she's gonna ghost you. 24 WhatsApp numbers out of 98 matches - I think that's the good initial measurement. Because while the matches are hard to get all across the board (of course it's still harder with younger girls), the number thing already tells you something. And then the date agreement. So in total, 9 out 98 matches agreed INITIALLY for a date - that's just above 9% accuracy, without knowing how the conversation went. We don't know how many of these 9 would actually show up. But what I do know is that girls aged 24-30 will be definitely more responsive and responsible too, which makes sense, cause they are more mature and the clock is ticking.

[@soundsbyjman1536]

Also leaving out the fact that most men are more attractive in person, best bet is to work on confidence and game in person so women naturally gravitate to you in person. Also what’s the point of going on 9 dates a week? That’s a lot of money even if you only pay for yourself

[@MatiKosa]

@@soundsbyjman1536 Speak of attractiveness in person - it's easy to measure it by yourself. Just go out there and try asking girls out. I am no pro in that matter, but probably far more experienced than average dude, since I have approached easily 60-70+ girls already if not more, got several contacts, so I think I do have at least a little bit of game. However, only a few of those turned into a real life dates, so the conversion rate was still low. Percentage wise it's better than Tinder (like 3-5% vs waaay less online), however, it's the numbers that can bump up Tinder. Unless you live a very open, social lifestyle and you party a lot, you have tons of friends and you live in a big metropolitan area - it's virtually impossible for you to meet a lot of new women easily. You are forced to chat them up on the streets, in the park, etc. - when the occasion arises. Not all circumstances are good for the approach. I think you should just increase your exposition, you should have the courage to approach girls face to face, but you should also have some presence online, which is huge in 2023 and cannot be ignored. You are not a young, hot chick that can do either of those and still get several or even hundreds of dates without too much effort - you are a guy and you have to put a lot of work. So better do it in a smart way.

[@MIchaelSybi]

He could easily continue the experiment and probably did, but the numbers were not too good I would preume

[@soundsbyjman1536]

@@MatiKosa personally I feel like a single guy should have a work, social, family and private life to the point where you shouldn’t need or have time for more than 1-2 dates per month In what reality would dating more than 3 women a month be beneficial to your bank or mental health? Way to many soul connections wether you sleep with the women or not Your better off working on yourself and dating the 1-2 women a month that naturally gravitate towards you and unless you live in a extremely rural area that should be doable, if not it probably says more about you than your location unless it’s extreme

[@rodbelding9523]

5-6 would actually show up? I think you're being generous, realistically only 1 one of the 9 would actually show up.

[@apoc341]

The pictures didn’t look like you in the videos, you didn’t meet any of them and you had to pay for the top tinder package. How would the girls react when they met you in person? The amount of time spent swiping was crazy as well. Obviously Tinder is pay to play otherwise you don’t get promoted to anyone.

[@dreamon5543]

@The Chad Lite Greg Show You mean he catfish like Alex? PWF?

[@DavidW-ng5zv]

​@@dreamon5543 Alex looks exactly the same in all of his photos to he does in reality. He doesn't catfish at all.

[@savesta6127]

Bro u talk like a robot to these girls, no mouth piece no smoothness. That's why

[@HarryRLees]

Issue being, those photos look nothing like you. Those girls will turn up for the date and never see you again

[@thecurmudgeon7350]

I cut Tinder 2 years ago. Way too much time spent organizing dates and waiting around only to get flaked on. I got some success over a 2 year time span of using Tinder often...about 50 dates which about 75% ended up in a hookup or short term few weeks fling. The majority of my dates were with women that were unattractive or extremely mid in looks and or purity. The unattractive ones always wanted relationships and the decent looking ones eventually left after a while or after the initial hookup. If I went on there now I'd probably get nothing.

[@averageadventure200]

That sounds like a good move to cut back on unecissary stress and time sinks. Did any of the dates have a positive impact on your life and did the dates usually follow a pattern you regonized before you decided to quit Tinder?

[@ScorpionSuerte]

Brutal

[@mentalhaxx]

Even Craig got biches, its over for me

[@Beupeu]

Just admit u a loser don’t blame the app

[@MIchaelSybi]

I's very similar to my experience on dating sites around 10 years ago, when I was 30. I guess you're not 7+ in looks, maybe a bit lower. I banged ugly girls, fat ones, desperate 40+, some hookers, who wanted to settle down, but practically no 7+ good girls. Which just means if you didn't succeed in real life, dating sites won't do the miracle, as you're average or below, so no-one wants to deal with subpar men, who are the majority there, as they're not successful in the first place. Girls either want to get anything (low tier ones), or the top sh%t if they're hot. So you're left with low-quality ones, and no access to good ones anyway, it's simply insurpassable invisible barrier

[@handsomeX]

Just be very good looking, bro. Problem solved.

[@copingmanlet1104]

Just be white, 6'2, highly educated, high income, mostly neurotypical, big dick, broad frame, brad pitt-level face, bro. So easy.

[@spartanghost9713]

💯💯💯💯

[@sean640]

And confident and with excessive funds and vast friend groups irl

[@simonboas5765]

Why didn’t you meet up with the girls? The process isn’t finished yet when you have arranged a date with them, it’s only finished once you are laying in bed with them.

[@maszk9743]

Everyone is only doing "experiments". Of course they aren't ACTUALLY trying to get laid.

[@avve9001]

I think Wheat has a gf.

[@kenyanicholas6809]

@@avve9001 I was wondering about that, she was ok with this??

[@avve9001]

​@@kenyanicholas6809when your bf is a dating youtuber for living I guess you need to be ok with that. 😅

[@isaiah-p2y]

bro not even gotta be on top of them

[@Rclrs5]

The pictures you used show yourself to be in the top 5-25% of men which isn’t average, it’s top tier or top 25% which obviously means it’s worthwhile for men in that tier. Re do this experiment with a guy that’s 5/10 with 5/10 images and see what you find.

[@nathan98000]

Your text game needs work. Too formal

[@cheekypop]

not surprised a third of dates were asian girls they do tend to be more straightforward

[@capecoastcity1]

Because of JBW that is not a real flex tbh.

[@truiteteam3428]

They are just more ugly on average.

[@father5946]

Not really. They're all the same. Wheat only got so many Asian girls because Asian girls worship white guys lol Asian girls would go for a white guy over an Asian guy any day of the week.

[@Ash_Hudson]

Traditional asian girls are mostly shy and conservative in my experience, unless born in a western country. But one thing that is always guaranteed, is that they are always nasty in bed and tight as fuck.

[@JustNo8808]

If a girl swiped right on 700 guys, she could get 530 dates from those.

[@spartanghost9713]

💯💯💯🎯

[@Prescotmills8732]

you're not a girl so it doesn't matter

[@joypills]

You're quite handsome. I don't think you're an average guy. Definitely above average

[@CybrZone]

you've never seen what truly attractive male gets on tinder... easily 900+ likes

[@redpillsatori3020]

I think if he were not a "ginger" he'd be 7.5/10, but most women don't go for pure gingers. More than likely he's just getting some interest from girls who are into that.

[@novacontaptbr5349]

​​@@CybrZone above average and Chad are two different things

[@kenyanicholas6809]

@@redpillsatori3020 Gingers are cute, but I’d give him a 6/10.

[@mikemoggerson6651]

@@kenyanicholas6809 6/10? In the photos he genuinely looks top 10% or higher

[@shugyosha7924]

This is why Bumble is superior. The woman has to message first, which is a huge time-saving filter in your favour. I recently re-activated my Bumble account, was very picky with women, and the majority of women I matched with I was also able to get contact info, ask out and agree a time and date. No women dropped off after agreeing to a date. I have quite a strong profile I think though.

[@maxXxbecks]

@shugyosha7924 what are your main tips for a good profile?

[@shugyosha7924]

@@maxXxbecks My main tips are: 1. Your first picture has to stand out. That means not just looking handsome but having vivid colours or doing something that makes the girl curious. You want something that will interrupt the girl's stream of left-swiping. 2. Your last picture should be your second-best picture. 3. If you're stuck you can use online services to get people to rate your photos. 4. The text doesn't really matter, you basically want to minimise reasons for girls to swipe left. Try to get at least one joke in there. 5. If you can you want at least one of the following photos: smiling, working, with a dog, with friends, doing something exciting (esp. something a girl can imagine doing with you). 6. Learn how to take and edit photos. You don't need an expensive camera (modern smartphone is fine) but a tripod will help. Learn about lighting, proportions, etc. Smooth out your skin. If you have blue eyes brighten them to make them pop slightly. Iterate.

[@phr3ui559]

@@shugyosha7924 thanks for the tips

[@Wubzeiii]

Shit, nobody been messaging me on Bumble either. LMAO

[@greenlamp9219]

you must been decently tall then for bumble to work as most women prioritise height when matchmaking

[@E87-y5j]

Taking crazy enhanced photos is like lying on a resume - it may get you in the door, but how are you going to talk your way out of it in person?

[@tennisfrk123]

okay bro believe what you want lol. how many dates you been on the past year/

[@Jonathan_from_Arkansas]

It doesn’t matter nearly as much as you think. I use frauded photos but in person I’m tall as hell so I guess it counteracts, but I get laid around 1/4 dates.

[@xCaRnRAGEx]

@@Jonathan_from_Arkansas idk about that

[@algibs9095]

No question that after all of the hours of work, you can get a date. Then you have to sift through multiple women on dates to find the needle in the haystack. Just seems way more trouble than it is worth. Honestly, women are extremely difficult to get along with and will only bring drama, heartache and disappointment into your life. If you have the strength to live without female company, then you will suffer far less headaches, heartaches and financial misery.

[@spartanghost9713]

💯💯💯💯

[@MIchaelSybi]

I've got a good match for me after swiping for 2 weeks. We chatted small talk. Several days later I proposed an elite restaurant. One can say it was wrong, but I wanted it so much I would pay for it. She is 7, I'm around 5. She said she is busy at the weekend, and didn't reply afterwards. If she would want a date, she would have rescheduled. So first I paid for platinum and boosts, then I only had a faint hope of paying for the date, for the hope of paying for her in life daily after commitment if I'm lucky. Kneel all the time for pussy. I think there's a line after which it's much easier for a man to accumulate wealth and simply pay. I don't know where it is, but being popular with women is a difficult game when you have ever-rolling chads online. You'd also prefer a 8-10 girl for one night, rather than a 4-6 for life. LIfe is like casino, where house wins most of the time. House, in this case, is government, or any services, which revolve around sex instinct (night clubs, dating sites, alcohol, makeup, clothes). You can, theoretically, win a lottery, but it's so small that most of your time and resources will be wasted. Would you have invested all that time on dating sites into education, work or sports, it would be more rewarding probably

[@Warbr33d]

Western women you mean. Still plenty of normal girls in other countries

[@ihatelensflare]

@@Warbr33d wrong. The internet created a monoculture. There is no woman on the planet untouched by the internet lest you find one of those tribes supposedly separate from civilisation.

[@StopMarxism]

@@Warbr33d wrong

[@Kasian1]

Not sure if I agree with your verdict. I think Tinder DOES NOT work for normies. 1. What happens when you show up on the date and you look way worse compared to your photos? Isnt the interest going down? 2. What about the time and financial investment to get good enganced photos and Tinder premium, respectively?

[@WheatWaffles]

Most guys look around 1 point worse in unedited photos than real life. So the enhancement brings it back level

[@virgileusa]

​@@WheatWafflesHard cope

[@loverofhumanity]

@@WheatWaffles in your photos the enhancement made you go from normie to chad. What are you talking about? It's not bringing it to level. Stop with the nonsense. We all have eyes

[@adama3350]

@@WheatWaffles STOP THE INSANITY

[@hhkk6155]

Imagine spending so much time in online dating, chatting, arranging dates, if you spend this time working you could get rich in couple of years 😮😮😮

[@brianwaller7383]

Yep when these gumps stop wasting so much time getting basically nothing out of these apps. Just a massive massive waste of time

[@hhkk6155]

@@brianwaller7383 totally, just like social networks, wasting time and energy

[@jimmibuffe4819]

No one is mentioning he is using tinder platinum something that costs 40 bucks a month to put you at the top?

[@user-kl4oh2co2y]

How much did tinder pay you for this ad video?

[@DaaWood998]

The sponsor of the video paid him. That's why he did the video. He sold himself. He did 99 videos on criticizing dating apps and now he advices them. He's a sellout, no doubt about it

[@thinkoutsidethecontainer]

Yup. 100% this video is effectively a paid sponsorship for Tinder, because the video is a paid sponsorship for a Tinder photographer. Without Tinder, there is no Tinder photographer. A Tinder photographer is a schmuck who's good at titillating modern women's imaginations to entice her to swipe right. This is a recipe for long term relationship disaster. And again, a paid sponsorship for Tinder, effectively.

[@robin6921]

Bro, you didn't just get through all of this, just to say near the end "I didn't see any of these girls" 😭 They literally could have flaked on the date itself

[@austinbenner]

Conquered the hardest part getting matches. Work on your rizz. You could 5x your results doing these 6 things & getting better at texting. 1. Never double text match her energy and time it takes to respond. Ie she takes an hour to respond you take an hour to respond 2. Tell her what to do don’t ask. You want to assume the sale. Asking creates doubt/questioning 3. Never message anything boring or filler stuff like “good morning” “how’s your day” 4. Ideally you want most messages to be emotionally stimulating and fresh/unique 5. All your messages seemed to be pull messages. You also want to mix in push messages 6. After you match get her attracted first then get the date. Your messages just went from match to asking her if she’ll go on a date with her Hope this helps! Not hating just trying to help. Love your videos!

[@effectively0]

You didn't elaborate on the end results with each girl - how many dates, if you had a fun time, if you thought their personalities were relationship material, etc. Presumably this has to do with my previous question, but what was the reason for rating Diu mid purity?

[@JohnLoKie]

He never met up with any of them. What did he proven exactly? Maybe not 5 but try to get one date and show up. Pointless.

[@bobdjo5664]

You are not average looking, you are at least a 6 maybe even 7. So why do you use this as an example for an average guy?

[@rbnola3340]

I don’t think you actually went on dates with the women, there’s a good chance they would simply not show up. Another thing you have to keep in mind is that most guys won’t pay for tinder.

[@MIchaelSybi]

What do you mean most guys won't pay for tinder? Why is that?

[@rbnola3340]

@@MIchaelSybi when people are given the choice between a free but lesser version of something and a payed version of something most will choose the free version. Especially when you can bypass the payed benefit by simply making a new account.

[@itsoktobehappy461]

As many as you have time for. I think the problem is on dating apps is you get messages from so many people that is hard to put any decent effort into any one person, you are constantly distracted by new women messaging you. You start to place less importance on each person, you start to view them as completely replaceable. You talk to hundreds but never really get to know anyone.

[@ArisenMind]

Well, I will tell you that this DID NOT work for me. I'm 40, bald, 5'7'', and black. I've NEVER received anything even remotely close to this. I've taken professional photos as well. With the data that I've gathered, my conclusions (respective to people within my looks range), it isn't worth it.

[@nickst0ne]

Great video and unexpected conclusion. Also, living in a million-people city does help a ton. For the flakiness upon logistics, I think it's down to a few stupid mistakes: - phrasing the meetup as a question. If you phrased it like "let's meet on Monday, 6pm, at cafe XYZ", it could sound more assertive while the question is a bit submissive. - also, keeping it tight into 1 single message would seem better than 3 consecutive texts, which evoke more of a teenager's lack of structure - and WTF is this obsession with mid-afternoon? When I was a student, I had class all day. Why not inviting girls at late afternoon or early evening? It sounds like terrible timing to me. I may sound harsh but I love your work. Cheers!

[@ThomasFoolery8]

The single message isn’t as good because she has an ocean of DMs from men that are left on read. In most of these dating apps, if you message 3x then it shows a 3 next to your messages which catches the girl’s attention.

[@abdulmajeedalrouqi6791]

The photo with the snow you look gigchad, only need eyebrow

[@TheEloquentEye]

They are all dealing with so many different guys that all of this makes total sense to me.

[@Beupeu]

King Charles is a chad. 9/10 face.

[@MIchaelSybi]

You're right, as long as you think you will have an advantage of showing yourself in real life, i.e you're a good communicator

[@victorstoica5655]

bro youve friendzoned urself with these messages and respondet too fast otherwise interesting experiment

[@Channel-is-deleted]

Jbw in full effect. He's way above average anyway. An actual average guy (myself) got 8 matches. 4 numbers. 1 date. No sex. No second date. And that was a month with tinder plus. I've had multiple gfs and ONS irl but can't get fuck all on Tinder.

[@EuropeDatingOnlineTips]

*_often guys don't optimize their profile well enough to stand out on Tinder. Your profile needs to be on point guys_*

[@anonymeidentity1005]

I agree i m working on my profile because my profile was bad + i m not a model by anymeans 😂

[@anonymeidentity1005]

So i got 0 likes i was there for 4 months 😂

[@Dominik40301]

Second conversation, 8:12, you are not mirroring her text lenght, you are sending bigger texts. Also, you should be direct and to the point, metioning that you are super excited was nail in the coffin, which shows that you are needy and weak. When you get her number, you dont text too much, you simply just organize date. And no texting between dates, other than setting new one. If she reaches out in few days after date, then you use that opportunity to set new date. No excessive texting, phone is just for setting dates, conversation is iRL.

[@mangss9602]

still flawed because you are a niche (a ginger) + averageish looking, and as a result, you have an advantage in the dating app since if a girl really likes red hair (roughly 1% of girls) they will be pretty much a guaranteed swipe. An average guy is not white, blue eyes, red hair. In fact, having blue eyes and red hair is about as rare as being 6’7. Certainly not an “average” tinder profile. Try being a 5’10 brown or black hair guy who is htn in the face; we are a dime a dozen wheat.

[@bobmoneyman]

how crazy matches dont mean much if u actually are trying to get dates

[@spartanghost9713]

💯💯💯

[@boldisordorin9010]

"Average man" bro you don't look average at all in those photos. Justin make you look like chad especially in the first picture, i imagine the girls would be at least a little less attractive once you saw each other in real life, at least thanks to the catfishing you were able to get to know each other so maybe you will still have a chance now that you like each other for more than looks. Justin mvp though for real. I thaught the photos were edited and the experiment is going to be about what will it be like if you look like a chad using edited photos

[@MrAlexLowen]

Man you have to improve your texting game a lot. Conversion from match to date is a highly demanding process in terms of skills.

[@ShatterNWO]

Your text game sucks. Don't tell a girl you've never met and only send a few bland texts to that "its been great talking to you," sounds desperate and weak. Your responses are too long, you need to tease and make it flirty. When a girl says your nice, almost always a bad sign.

[@Leukick]

8:44 TBH I think the women stop responding because your messages sound WAY too logistical and transactional... like you're conducting a business meeting, or sending out a cheesy work email about an upcoming meeting. This is a turn off, it's the opposite of attractive to them. It makes you sound like a square. I'm not sure if things are diff in the UK but I doubt it, women still prefer the "bad boys" and chads out there too. You should portray yourself as a lot more cool, relaxed and partially nonchalant.

[@xCaRnRAGEx]

He texts like each text is his only chance. He even put his signature in the opening text as if he’s some boomer

[@mr.fantastic4403]

This honestly blows my mind. 98 matches over a span of a week!?!?! I’ve got only some 30 matches over a span of 1 1/2 years.

[@spartanghost9713]

He paid for " Tinder Platinum ".

[@danwarner7816]

15 in year. If I'm being honest some were fake/bots

[@JordanTelezino]

make sure your in shape, have a good haircut and dont look like a creep, like your personality shiine but dont be too pushy

[@hhkk6155]

​@@danwarner7816 out of his 98 matches a lot were bots 100%

[@lewiswilson4083]

@@noname-un3tpany tips for “better photos”?

[@raceteamgui871]

I'm not at all suprised that 22 women said "yes" to a date. I'd be suprised if half, or even a quarter of those 22 women actually followed up with, and went on the date with you. In my experience the biggest difficulty in online dating is when you try to transition from the app to real life. The majority of people would flake out last minute, ghost or something else would get in the way of making the date a reality. It's really easy to make plans when you don't have real concequences when you flake out. You don't even know them in real life, if they ghost you there's nothing you can do about it, no akward interactions when you see them in your day to day. I used apps for about 2 years, talked to many women, "set up" dates with many women, only ended up going on 2 dates in total with the app. 1 date a year using the app about 10 mins a day max. Just my experience, your results may vary. I think the most important thing to do when using dating apps is to not invest any of your self worth or expectations into the experiences and convorsations you have until they become tangible, as in you actually meet the person face to face. Not only til then is it worth worrying about.

[@abrahamovicovski]

Bro's inner Casanova is released. Hide your wife and kids 😅

[@gameon2000]

I don't think, Waffles was catfishing. Especially compared to what women do on the daily basis i.e. via makeup, the "Bold Glamour" Instagram filter, FaceTune / FaceApp etc. The photographer just did a good job, perfecting the given curcumstances, while keeping it casual. A male fake / catfishing would be going the "Tinder Swindler" route, making photos in a private jet, on a yacht, fancy suits, exotic locations and supercars.

[@harryharry9602]

Are the "easy" ethnic dates because of JBW?

[@basedlibertarianz910]

probably, I got matched on hinge (only match i ever had) with a chinese girl, cute but she lived too far away

[@Rafael-iv4mw]

I had the same result with good pics But the pic tip is still bullshit, let me explain why: Everyone tells you to not take selfies, and only use high quality pics (as if you're doing a photoshoot as a model for a magazine lol), but I see a lot of females using selfies all the time, mirror selfies hiding half of their face. Of course being the average male I am, I still got 3 dates and not a lot of matches. Then I made a fake account on Bumble using selfies of a good looking guy, with NO BIO, and I got 200+ likes and a bunch of matches.

[@KaiserBP]

Yip! And if you think flaking is bad...imagine when they see the real normie wheat on the 1st date? They would leave halfway through the date. Frauding your pics to this level will blow up in your face.

[@thinkoutsidethecontainer]

So wait a minute is it safe to say that this video you've made is basically sponsored by Tinder? Because if men don't use Tinder then men won't hire your sponsor: the Tinder photographer. Lmao

[@Warbr33d]

There are other apps obviously so that isn't true. I reckon the dates went badly or many of them flaked, so, to make it look more favourable for him, he excluded the outcome. It's either a paid Tinder advertisement, him obscuring the outcome or a bit of hopium for his audience.

[@Dominik40301]

8:57 she literally showed that she is not interested into seeing you, and then you overpursued her to push her away even more. If person does not give alternate time to meet, you move on. If she was interested she would say some another day when she can meet up. Also, when she literally wrote short 'definitely', your block of text just pushed her interest to below 0 To add last comment, these 9 "dates", you dont know if they would flake out and say some excuse before day of date, women can do it too.

[@polpol1005]

Why are guys so obsessed with dating apps?!! Very few women use them compared to guys so it's obvious why they might not get chances. Meet people in real life and through social circles

[@DrPotatoX]

THIS!

[@DavidW-ng5zv]

Women don't want to meet men irl anymore.

[@DavidW-ng5zv]

Dating apps are reality now.

[@polpol1005]

@@DavidW-ng5zv not true, who told you that?

[@ENZOxDV9]

​@polpol1005 some girls will outright say they don't want any man approaching them irl. Other girls might be "open" to that but when you get specific like asking a girl out at the gym or shopping etc they will say you shouldn't because they're 'busy'. It's a known fact now though most relationships start through something online (over 50%), so it's obvious why dudes are going to do everything to try and increase their success rate through online dating

[@davidcasson5602]

Good work , I dated and eventually married,, an Asian ( Chinese) girl 15 yrs ago . I used back then internet dating , but the issues I had back then are the same ,, I could get British girls to chat , but ,, when it came to meeting up they would evaporate, so I came to assume, that ???? Some women are flirting only for likes ??? others have fake photos??? and don ‘t exist as profiled ??? and could be 70 yrs old etc .who knows? Oddly the Asian women I met were all good dates psychologically sound girls and true to their profile. Today they say young men are invisible,, but no one says young woman only exist as false pixels.

[@spartanghost9713]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@CybrZone]

I think your channel is great but surely the title is completely misleading? if you've enhanced your pictures, you technically no longer 'average'?

[@loverofhumanity]

exactky! he legit enhanced his photos to a chad level. This is absurd. How the hell would this mean average guy can get girls on tinder? This is just bizarre. He's no longer average

[@melonytoni9016]

You are an average guy, but in your photos you are not. Especially the 5% photo is chad like for sure. No wonder you got positive feedback. You are your profile, so if you are enhancing your photos to the point that it looks like a better version of you, then you are not average guy on tinder. I agree tho that putting alot of effort in your photos is common sense.

[@leescuderi8331]

Some people literally photograph horribly. Im one of them. I have zero problems in real live but in photos I don't look nearly as good. Woman have even commented. This guy photographs really well so it helps online.

[@xCaRnRAGEx]

@@leescuderi8331he looks nothing like his pictures except for the picture of him in the kayak and petting the dog. He’s like a 4

[@austinsandlin862]

He sais how bad tinder is but the fact that he got 9 dates in 7 days is beyond. I was on tinder for over a year.. i never got 5 dates. And i swiped right over 10000 times

[@JoseCJou]

So You advertise a 'improved pics' service to get more dates, and then once you got the dates, you do NOT show up!!! Because you know they'll be disappointed. What's the point then? Sketchy move, mate, sad.

[@sevalrathod7117]

Props to you for being open to changing your mind based on the data. From your previous videos, I'd totally understand scrapping the video. Big respect for being consistent with your claims.