How Men Choose A Wife

[@brighterwithnzu392]

Is he atrracted to her Does she actually like him Is she healed? She's positive outlooked, not judgemental, critical in your life, are you emotionally stable, no weird meltdowns, she's confident, has her hobbies, Joy, brings peace in his life Is she supportive, in his vision, sees his vision, this includes loyalty n devotion to the family. You are not overly attached to something, MOM, parents,Bestie, church,. Whether you are feminine, rest in her femininity, encouraging, supporting his masculinity, being available.Help him bring his vision in life His synergy, how you n him are able to flow.. She can commit to her role in the marriage Positive submission - A great mother Is she responsible? Does she respond to him? She is able to respond to things that are going on. She knows how to get what she wants from him. Can you respond to children, to other people of need. What qualities do you display. How does she take care of herself The most they look for is Peace! Peace as a wholesome word! If your life is not peaceful?????? Wow that Was great!💯💖 Psalm 37:4

[@izabela.skarzynska]

A lot of expectations for women to be... what he brings to her life than?

[@beautifullyblessedandnatur7457]

Lots of women do this and still end up cheated on, betrayed and divorced

[@EloraSelah]

Suffocating as hell

[@UMMH2000]

I’m glad you clarified between male biology vs male wisdom. My brother is in a relationship with a women who doesn’t view herself as attractive. I think she’s absolutely pretty. He knew her for a while and then they dated and are now in love. He doesn’t just go by beauty, but by the qualities a woman has.

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Most sensible well raised men always went on the qualities of the woman not just the "pretty"..

[@patriciapatricia3586]

You look amazing! When I realized that men have their own very specific criteria they keep to themselves, I stopped taking rejection personally. I know of men who have met great women, but they were looking for that ONE in a woman thing in order to get married.

[@fevenalex7380]

Your dress , hair , skin, aesthetic is on point ! ❤ gorgeous!!! Wow !!! 🔥 You go girl !!! ❤🎉🌸🙏🏾🔥💎❤️😇

[@1960genius]

Always ❤

[@drmichelledaf]

Aww thank you beautiful 🤍🤍🤍

[@StunningTransformations]

Right… it’s she stunning?

[@JennaHasm]

​@@drmichelledaf Where did you get this sycophant "script"?

[@JennaHasm]

​@@drmichelledaf I gather that you haven't read David Buss's books.

[@marissamarlett1346]

I used to check with my mom a lot. My husband and I lived across the country from her after getting married. I went with him and I would call her too much. -But me and my mom were never even close to begin with. Growing up, I was made felt like I wasn't good enough. I loved school, but she wasn't involved, and then I was made to work at 16 and couldn't focus on school. I was never spoken to as a person, just lectured and had about 10 chores a day. So, I must've been always looking for approval or something. After moving back to state where my mom and family are, I started clashing again with her and have kids now and realizing I need to put my foot down and distance myself a bit and not accept this. That's helped in my relationship with my husband.

[@kaliuchie315]

I relate to this a lot. The mother wound is really deep and creates so much havoc in our personal lives. I’ve only come to understand just how enmeshed we are this year. It’s definitely not healthy. I hope you can heal too❤

[@marissamarlett1346]

@kaliuchie315 thank you. And you too❤️ Have you seen Dr. Daf's video on the past with your mother? I can't remember what it's called, but there is one with mom and one with dad issues. The mom one really helped me!

[@kaliuchie315]

@@marissamarlett1346 no I have not! Wow I have to watch the mother now. Thank you

[@brighterwithnzu392]

I'm not married but I've realized how this has gotten in between of my relationships not just romantic but mostly withh romantic relationships it matters. My excuses always had to do with parents... and this was not good. I even started to feel how it hurt my bonds...

[@cicigetthat07]

This was so gooood! U really help me be a better woman to myself and my man , he tells me he already has a ring for me in the works and I'm afraid that my toxicity will push him away. Healing has been a tough road for me.

[@drmichelledaf]

I'm glad it was helpful. I know it can be challenging but with consistency in renewing your mind and with the help of Jesus you will be healed. It's a process but you seem determined to change.God bless you!

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Are you looking after your health properly? Making sure your hormones are balanced.. Try homeopathy if you can find a good practitioner.

[@jacks4009]

If he is saying he has a ring in the works he may be bread crumming you

[@Berlanciamyrtil]

I'm currently working on making myself approachable. ❤

[@drmichelledaf]

Goood good 🤍💋

[@jessicahitchens6926]

I'd also add a good woman is the hearth of the home. So I wouldn't recommend putting all your energy into work. It's an absolute recipe for disaster. Therefore he needs to step up financially. And the woman needs to be savvy with finances too. This is old school stuff..

[@Gloriacason]

Girl YES 🥹🤎 I watched the full video while getting ready to see my man girl ♥️♥️ thank you so so much! I am engaged! And everything she is TRUE! I love love love your channel and I love that your a woman of God 🙏🏾 May God continue to bless you ☺️

[@jemimajanvier4706]

Hi Michelle, please discuss how to date. I’ve never had a boyfriend and I don’t know how to act when men are interested in me. I’d love some insight ❤

[@mynameisyamell187]

Same 😂❤

[@seekinghismind]

As a man , i think this information is excellent. Thanks dr. Daf

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you so much Michael!✨

[@missladybug73]

26:42 - I agree. But my ex isn't like when I expressed my opinion. I did submit and had no problem, but what I did have a issue with was him not allowing me to express my opinion. I simply wanted him to acknowledge my feelings. I was perfectly fine with him taking the lead. But he didn't want to accept any input from me.

[@stephchew]

thank you! want to grow as a person before getting married so that i can be the best wife i can be :)

[@missladybug73]

28:48 - OMG! He didn't like that either. He said I was too smart for my own good.

[@annie-qc9wv]

even though I dont agree with a few of the things you say, your presence is incredibly healing, the advice you give has saved me, and even just watching you without you talking would heal my brain

[@HeyItsMaori]

The attachment to family is something I am learning with my boyfriend. Well kind of. My family pretty much had access to every part of me growing up. It wasn’t until college that that started to change. But when I go home the same things are expected of me as when I was a child. So with my boyfriend my parents and grandparents expect me to answer every question about him and in detail. I have learned not to share too much and to allow my boyfriend to speak for himself. ❤

[@janellejones7894]

Hair & makeup are on point! 👌🏽 I love it!! 😍

[@Maggs3]

I clicked so fast upon seeing the title. Ready to take notes 📝

[@miyuhlee]

You look so gorgeous Michelle! Oozing high value woman aura 🌸

[@drmichelledaf]

lol thank you honey 🤍

[@taylorhannah5980]

Loveee the way your hair is shaping around your face 😍😍 so lovely

[@Tiia922]

Wow this was exactly the message I needed. Thank you for delivering this message so positively, it is inspiring. I am definitely going to apply this guidance. I have recently been quite panicky because I am turning 32 and my boyfriend (34) and I do not live together yet. He is not ready for taking the next steps and I believe the reason is that I am pressuring him. It is so hard to keep on trying when I feel like I am running out of time to have a family.

[@Lanina._]

Im always impatiently waiting for you to post a new content it’s always nothing but HELPFUL EVERYTIME . You should really consider providing 1on1 sessions with people to talk about those kind of things. I’d payyyy 😭

[@MatthewGloss-h7l]

This was wonderful content. Great for men, too. You nailed it. 🙏🏽

[@ParentingKultur]

You are looking so good on this episode.

[@KarineAlourde]

I just want to say that you look gorgeous 😍😍😍

[@drmichelledaf]

Hi my darling!! Thank you babe!!💋💋💋💋

[@dominique4432]

Really great video! I feel like it has everything! ❤🙏🏾Thank you!

[@LuxxeLady]

All of these tips were so on point 🎉Ivan literally see certain examples of each in my current relationship. I couldn’t see that in previous ones. Thank you for this video❤😊

[@FlourishingElla]

You look so beautiful Dr.Daf ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@drmichelledaf]

Oh thank you!

[@MsWillita8]

I’m glad you clarified the kind of man because I was about to say…..😅

[@QueenZsWorld]

Thanks for this! Could we get a video on how to gracefully reject a man? or what to do when we're attracting men who aren't our type? I've attracted old men (old enough to be my grandfathers), men in their 40s, and yes some who are closer in age to me, but not at all my type. and I'm in my early 20s. I'm uncomfortable with most male attention because unfortunately my experiences growing up weren't ideal in this area. I'm asking because, as much as I want to follow these steps and find my king (or, be found by my king), the last thing I want to attract EVEN MORE attention from the miscellaneous men (respectfully). obviously its impossible to ONLY attract my king, but I'm just so wary of the attention I already get that it dissuades me from trying to grow further into feminine womanhood... which is what I want to do. I want to be whole, healthy, feminine, receptive... I've just used those traits on the wrong people when really, I wanted to say "I'm not interested" but didn't know how. Now I'm so skittish, I repel a man I actually like, who is actually a gentleman I hope this makes sense 🥲

[@themalawiandiner180]

40s is not good old enough to be your grandfather lol. But I do agree that there way older for you. Perhaps take some time to evaluate "the type" traits that you are looking for, is everything on it neccessary or is it too much? (Not saying yours is too much), but sometimes some people expect too much or are overly critical of potential suitors, that they overlook perfectly good men.

[@Lilly-bw5sl]

Those heart hurts need to heal

[@Gina_16]

2nd. You look so gorgeous. 🎉

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you sweetie 💕

[@drqtgurl7]

I am literally all these things with the right man. With the wrong man, more of my masculine energy was present. You can also be all these things with the right man and not be ready yourself as a woman. This happened to me with my first boyfriend, I was the one who was not ready, especially after my dad passed away and my bf needed to mature a little, but other than that it would of ended in Marriage. My second relationship i was love bombed and this is where my masculine energy was present. But currently in a new relationship now, and as mentioned with the right man, and now that I am ready, these are all the things present. He sees it too. Its very early in the relationship, but I made it known I am dating with the intentions of long term partnership. I want the marriage, the home and children all god willing. Also prayed to God many times if this new man is not for me please remove him, but he is still here. 🙏🏽 Just remember, Love is patient, Love is kind ❤

[@brendacrawford343]

YAZZZZ!!! U look gorgeous!!!!

[@_klovely_]

Girl, this video is amazing! You are so gorgeous!! 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you darling 🤍💋

[@solutionsforcaregivers]

Thank you for all you shared. I founded helpful.❤🙏🏽

[@buyi249]

Another very informative video. I absolutely love this woman.. one of my favourite KZbinrs

[@nataliemartins3559]

Wow, you looking gorgeous Dr. Daf❤

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you love 💕

[@celestemadrigal5253]

Hi love this video ❤can we talk more about being responsible and communicating

[@loveyslensxo]

Babe!!! Another great video 🤓❤ thank you 🙏🏼

[@cinnamon88]

Love, for the last point I think you meant responsive rather than responsible but I understand your points. Beautiful video overall ❤

[@personyoudontknow9843]

I love your videos so much!! I really wanna get married one day and your videos have helped me grow a lot to becoming more feminine and open to finding the one. I used to be mad or sad a lot now I am learning to be more patient and loving especially after I found Christ. I practice patience with my family but I know I can do better and I always feel guilty if I get mad or am mean but ik I can be more graceful when it comes to difficult situations 😁💕

[@cherokeek88]

Hey Dr. DAF thank you so much for your content.. I am looking for the finer wives playlist but unable to find it linked below. Could you please direct me to the correct section.

[@drmichelledaf]

Hi love, check: kzbin.info/aero/PLzmoBLkvyP2qms7vRk5gTA_ynSbbzO1Sh&si=bvCRRIA9qSTmxAJo And kzbin.info/aero/PLzmoBLkvyP2pukij45x9drdR9g7-KM_4m&si=SmYhK2xmKETc4lxB

[@lillyl1599]

I’m working on my time management. It has become horrible since Covid really. I am late for dates, but I can make it on time to the gym and other places, so this is what I’m working on.

[@drmichelledaf]

It's great to have a goal!

[@brendacrawford343]

Thank you !! You’re my confirmation ! He says God brought us together !!!! 😅😮😮😮😅❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@latoniasmith7164]

This was a great video. Thank you

[@sheaNERD]

Thank you for this very helpful advice Dr. Daf ❤🙏🏿

[@sheilabbb3044]

Thank you so much for this information...but where can I find those mature healed men you talk about? 😅

[@lilyflower5576]

Where did You get the shirt? 👕 Wow

[@pagittens]

Thank you so much. I love your content.

[@drmichelledaf]

Aww thank you dear 💋

[@thehopestrategist]

Great topic! Thanks for sharing this Dr Daf! 🤎🤎🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@drmichelledaf]

Thanks for listening

[@lydiaandmakeup7223]

this advice is absolutely wonderful bravo sister

[@drmichelledaf]

Glad you think so! Thank you for watching

[@nyamekancapayi]

Yho, you are gorgeous ❤❤🎉!! Thank you very much for such an insightful content ❤❤❤

[@rgrandberry1234]

Hello!! Great points!!!!! I love your hair!!!!! Thank-you!!!! xoxoxo You rock!!!!!

[@drmichelledaf]

Aww you're always so sweet, thank you!

[@DiamondVisualDiary]

Great video ! ❤

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you for watching love

[@DiamondVisualDiary]

@@drmichelledaf you’re welcome ! 😇

[@jxtyra6167]

Can you do a series for being in your single season or a series on self discovery or your testimony video ❤️❤️❤️

[@zeriawhitehead9694]

Wow, very beautiful and timely video ❤️ I’ve learned so much about femininity and growing as a woman because of this channel, so thank you Dr. Daf. I’m currently working on femininity even through conflict and also having a positive attitude/submission throughout every aspect in my life. For example, like when at work how often am I aggravated when asked to do some I might not want to do, or even in my personal relationships with family and friends. If I can have a light in these areas how much easier will it be to have a positive and submissive attitude in my relationship. Thank you for what you do. May the Most High continue to bless you and your family ❤

[@nietah325]

This look is mwaah❤❤🎉

[@Summer-tk8yk]

Thank you ❤

[@drmichelledaf]

You're welcome 😊

[@MorenitaBonita19]

Love this look on you! 🥰

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you honey!!

[@MWisdomWisdom]

THEY ALWAYS SAY THAT A MAN CAN'T BE ALONE! THANK YOU FOR THiS.

[@drmichelledaf]

You're so welcome love

[@izabela.skarzynska]

Where are these healthy, mature man this days ?😅

[@PeshPatie]

Hidden in Christ

[@danielapolo7346]

@@PeshPatieAmen

[@sdothoward2743]

Learning the difference between the wife type and the unmarrigeable

[@izabela.skarzynska]

@sdothoward2743 so what's the difference than ? There are such a crazy games out there...women learn how to show off as wify material often manipulating a man...where the women with pure soul and heart on the sleeve get dumped.. as they honest and don't play games ... all mixed up these days ... and than man end up with wrong ones that were using them

[@sdothoward2743]

@izabela.skarzynska the bible describes the fruits of the Spirit as love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. If she doesn't have this she's not qualified imo

[@Iya_cook]

Hi Dr. Michelle, did you have to go to med school to become a psychologist?

[@aidapitra2408]

does point that men are not looking for, are kind relevant too. For every information expose or posted on internet does really needs to posted quite bitter, its reflected what the person whom is transmitting that a bit bitter or even resentful, does speech are or all kind of women. I don’t think being girly is excluding certain type of woman. Does kind of speech doesn’t sound feminine at all.

[@Cvjyxd44]

Will you go into more detail about how we can be more clever to get what we want ? 💖

[@sdothoward2743]

Femininity is the key that unlocks all doors. Trust me

[@ninc2518]

Hi Queen, what do you think about marrying a disable person? I have a man that is very good, intelligent and funny, but there is a probability of him turning blind at some point. I think that really would affect the roles. I am happy to know him, but sad about his condition 😢 Thank you for all your content, you really help the world ❤

[@Blueorangered]

My advice to you, Sis, is to begin to believe God for his healing. That's if you're a Christian and he is as well. You can encourage him to study the word of God on healing and receive what God has purchased for him by His blood. I'll pray for you and hope to hear good news soon.

[@ninc2518]

@@Blueorangered we are devoted Muslims. We aren't angry at God for the body he had given us. We are looking for marriage. The problem is that he has a rare eye disease and probably he would go blind. We depend on God's mercy. The thing is that I wasn't expecting to marry someone with a disability, you know :( is sad

[@Blueorangered]

@ninc2518 My heart goes out to you, my dear sis. We have to give thanks to God for everything, though it can be hard to do always. I prayed earlier for you, and I'll still pray again. I believe in God's mercy and His power to turn unfavourable situations around for our good. Keep hope alive, my dear sis. All will be well. 😊

[@ninc2518]

@@Blueorangered thank you sweet lady, I will pray for you too. God bless you

[@Blueorangered]

@@ninc2518 Thank you, Sis. ♥️

[@HeyItsMaori]

Do you talk with your husband to get these male perspectives or just God and your education?

[@kodangmodest5327]

With this thought... I want to date

[@drmichelledaf]

❤️

[@brighterwithnzu392]

Can I anyone suggest content on Communication. I'm on a constant communication battle, and trying to learn more about it.

[@andrear4954]

Maybe her video called 'the best way to speak with your man'? 😊

[@LifeCoachingwithLizzy]

Is it bad that my relationship with Good is the most important to me?

[@joimonae4090]

This is quite random but I think constantly putting relationship business all over the internet/tic tok is a huge red flag for men I see so many women putting their partner on blast one time a woman said something about her partner and weird people who ended up finding his job trying to get him fired and it was over something stupid so please stop throwing your partners to internet wolves anything can go viral

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Those women aren't wives or adult women. They are spoilt adolescents.

[@ssyy8030]

I have a question: could the title be better: „how high value masculine man choose their wives?“ it’s because I see woman, who dress okay, but a little boring and also praise for example, that they did not put any make up etc on when they were dating their now husbands. So they did not put a lot of value onto physical attraction. And they also lead a lot. Their husbands somehow seem to be okay with. Are these man still high value?

[@alexia964]

A guy who only cares about looks is high value?

[@ssyy8030]

@@alexia964 that’s actually not what I mean. I just don’t understand, how to me good man with stable, understanding and middle achieving careers pursue woman, who act total feministic openly also in social media. Or have badly daddy issues and share it online. I ask myself what is wrong with these decent man? Or what is wrong with me lol?

[@alexia964]

@@ssyy8030 that’s not what you said in your comment though. You said “no makeup, dress okay, less value in physical attraction”. Personally I do wear makeup and the rest but I would never want to date someone who is obsessed with that

[@ssyy8030]

@@alexia964 If you read further, you understand, that I have also written, that these women that I mean also like to lead. So they are not really submissive and much feminine based in there energy. PLUS not in their looks. I somehow feel that you twist my words, for whatever reason it triggers you. Forgive me, if I am wrong. I am sending you love, stay safe.

[@MichalTaylor]

Very gorgeous 😍

[@pamelalewis1598]

Amen my sister

[@kwikirizaphionah2910]

Men! Hallelujah!❤

[@angelflower176]

I’m single Christian girl aged 38 never married no kids been told I’m beautiful and intelligent but yet to meet the right guy just had bad luck with men in the past lol 😂 I’ve attracted to emotionally unavailable or guy with hidden red flags.., this is Christian guys too ! I desire marriage and kids before my biological clock runs out!

[@mgdigitalhub]

God will bless you in this area lovely.

[@emzostyles2318]

I do have a question, how do you learn to respond and bond with children and babies when you’ve grown up not liking them or feeling awkward around them?

[@danielapolo7346]

just do it show them love and mean it honestly and try to be good with the father

[@luvmecurlznall]

They’re the most unapologetic, honest, non-judgmental humans on the planet. You can have a whole conversation & learn to be free & use imagination when you leave your world and enter theirs.

[@valeriecantu9609]

I love your necklace! I looks like the sacred heart of Jesus

[@72dteel]

Greetings ❤

[@Progressanna]

The positive submission and owning up to your role as a wife is exactly what I’ve been lacking so far 🙈

[@HalaHanz]

I freaking love how in detail and in depth your videos are. I need to get back to every video and actually take notes. Thank you darling, you are a saver angel 🤍🌸

[@jamie9914]

Is it ever okay for a man to put you through intentional “tests” to see how you respond??

[@erind2261]

IMO Hell No!! I went thru that & I found myself always having to be 'on'. Things should happen organically.

[@jamie9914]

@@erind2261 Right. I completely agree too.

[@sdothoward2743]

The fast u pass ish tests the better. He has time. U don't. Men have dealt with them their whole life. Pass with flying colors. Embrace and go the extra mile. Then u not like the rest and that's worthy of a ring.

[@Lolsweetamazone123.]

Who cares…the future is not about pleasing man ladies, the future is multi relationships and men know tgat

[@jedbengalan9927]

First❤

[@brendacrawford343]

Teach me how to be a vegan wifey

[@kodangmodest5327]

You look good ma'am

[@rachelroyster5807]

❤❤❤

[@IAMLilianChanel]

🤍🤍🤍

[@monique_theheiress7201]

❤

[@danielapolo7346]

Are you married?

[@sdothoward2743]

Whether she is or isn't men agree with this.

[@saras.1912]

😂

[@cbb391]

She is

[@JAYD1476]

So it's all about a man's vision and him being admired?What about a woman's vision and her passions?You know not all women want to do chores and cook for a man. Some want to work for their goals😅. I have nth against your videos but this way of thinking sucks. Bc 10 years down the line a man is gonna be at the head of his career while the woman has done so little for herself,just house chores & kids. What ab her goals?