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[@CrazyLampLady]

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[@KarisParadiseVintage]

Bless his heart. So sad. His wife obviously had a problem with spending and he just tried to love her through it. I hope he has plenty of money left to take care of himself in his old age. This is hard to listen to, but maybe it will serve as a reminder to all of us that money and things can't buy happiness. And at some point we need to ask ourselves, how much is enough?

[@susancosta9390]

Have a little compassion folks! We all think our collections are worth a lot more than they are and he is sentimental about his wife's collections 🥰

[@kellygeiger7656]

He misses his sweet wife and CLL gave him the gift of her time and they both listened. Personally i think hes a lovely man and i bet they were extremely happy together.

[@GuyWithTheDogs]

Well! That's a part of the business that few people get to see. I applaud you for posting this video, even though I have a feeling that you knew that the comments section would be full of criticisms, complaints, and judgmental know-it-alls who can't seem to grasp what it's like being on either side of that transaction.

[@crystalcaffrey9788]

I am so shocked by some of the comments on this video. It’s such a shame. He clearly loved his wife and was proud she could buy these things.

[@debishaw9355]

😂. This is why I’m giving my stuff away before I die.

[@deborahstone9696]

I already have names on the bottom of the item.😂❤❤

[@dikoehler4255]

Thats what I say, we spend our youth getting things and when we're older we're trying to get rid of them.

[@erinnswan7063]

I would suggest putting it all in your will what goes to who. My mother passed last year and I got nothing my Mother wanted me to have of my one my brothers. Since my father is still alive but has dementia he is my fathers executor. I was unable to get things my mother wanted to me to have because she did not put them in her will and everything she owned legally belonged to my Father. Also she wanted me to care for her cat as she didn't want my Father to be responsible for him with his dementia. Well she didn't put this in her will wither and my Father has her cat. Even though I feel he can't take care of a pet , I have no recourse. Hopefully your children aren't like my brother. My Mother had ceramic Christmas trees that she wanted to my sister and I . We didn't get these either. I miss my Mom more then to his materialistic things but any flying of value she wanted to go to other sibling my brother went through the lawyer and we couldn't get them because it wasn't legally done in her will. It only takes one person in a family. Unfortunately there usually one in every family who takes advantage.

[@TheLilliBlue]

Me too.

[@debishaw9355]

@@erinnswan7063, we have an only child. So she can pick whatever, if anything, she wants and toss the rest. I won’t even care! 😊

[@amberjade528]

You and Jacob have the patience of a saint 😂

[@LindaKayHolevas]

The comments on this video are sad & frustrating. Has nobody ever spent time with an older person who has suffered loss, or just an older person in general? Yes, this man was emotionally attached to the things, but they belonged to his deceased wife, of course he’s going to be attached to them. What is wrong with letting an old man talk? He was obviously very proud of how he cared for his wife, regardless if he’s out of touch with the reality of the market. I personally really enjoyed listening to him. Our elderly, in my opinion, are our nation’s treasures. They have so much wisdom & so many stories. Thank you, Jocelyn, for sharing this video with us. I have full confidence that you know what you’re doing. 😊❤

[@deborahmannino3775]

I agree. Alot of the comments were just cruel. They are going to get old one day. This man lost his wife and wants to talk about her proudly. Just because he isn't up on what things our worth is no reason to be mean in the comments. I love talking to the elderly. He's grieving and is left with a collection that is overwhelming.

[@sherrytdallastreasures]

Guy got retail written all over him. Thank him for his time & leave empty handed. Resellers are not stupid!

[@eileenbecker9245]

Thank you Jocelyn for showing the reality of scamming the vulnerable people! And you and Jacob are always respective and honest!❤

[@deannawiggins9992]

He sounds like a loving and doting husband. So glad she had a wonderful life.

[@cindyneel328]

Wow and double wow!! Bless his heart, his job must have been very lucrative for his wife to be able to have so much fun!! Most of the time when you are out hunting treasure it's not so well laid out and in a lovely clean space.

[@susanfraser6371]

This is quite a complex situation. On the one hand, the husband had no problem with the money that his late wife spent over the years. He's happy to have made her happy, and it sounds like she very much enjoyed her treasure hunt! But $100k is a lot of money and it sounds like he wants to recoup that money now. I'm not so sure he's being realistic. 🤷

[@connie2558]

Exactly, just like yard sale wanting what people CAN get on Ebay ECT doesn't work that way.

[@jakebluethunder]

Agreed. 💯

[@angelv527]

I totally agree. I also agree with Jocelyn that the lady didn't pay those prices but she looked up what they were valued at.

[@susanfraser6371]

@@connie2558 Exactly! Yard sales are limited by whoever happens to stop at them. EBay and other online venues have a potential global market, and bidding systems.

[@thriftingwithrebecca]

He was expecting way too much for some these things.

[@jerseyshell9571]

Jacob is so patient and kind.

[@user-dv1ey3ld5v]

I only have one comment Where do I find a man that doesn’t question me spending 100000 on items I need him in my life

[@deborahmannino3775]

You and me both! I would love to imagine a man telling me, you want it,buy it! How great would that be.

[@cynthiarafferty7662]

​@@deborahmannino3775 Me three!!! My husband always said, " You DON'T need THAT!" Kind of spoils the mood for shopping. LOL!

[@SC-hr6hi]

Interesting stories….every time I watch estate “buys”, I think of passing on my treasures sooner rather than later. Thanks CLL. This video had some good lessons in it.

[@Faith-qp8us]

this is why people hirer estate sale companies..they are too emotionally connected to the items.. I helped a neighbor with a similar collection after his wife died..he was the same way,.,,.

[@kelly2669]

Thank you Jocelyn for this video. You have provided us with a realistic view of what happens on a house call.

[@MissDickens]

I think you are correct Jocelyn regarding the stickers on the bottom. If she really did pay those prices, he would have needed to be making at minimum half a million a year. He would have noticed all of that money being drained from their accounts too. It's sad that he will always think that was all lost money because in reality, he may be making money on some of her things. He sounds like he loved her very much though because even though he believes she spent so much, he never said a bad word about her. I pray he is able to adjust to her loss. She had a great eye for beautiful things!❤

[@susanm9824]

Kudos to you and Jacob for handling the transaction with class!

[@tiredandretired]

I'm glad the woman enjoyed her treasures. Many don't have that chance. I loved Jocelyn's comment at the end.

[@PointerDogs]

I actually like listening to him. Hearing people's life story is important and fascinating. Keep story telling sir. ❤

[@crystalcaffrey9788]

I agree!! I’m surprised people are judging him so harshly

[@SherryAnnOfTheWest]

I don't "judge" him harshly, but I do think he's a little out of touch with reality. He obviously hasn't done proper research and he's letting his kids influence him. That's what happens when you are too emotionally connected to the situation and he also seems to be hungry for human connection.

[@pattiarnold794]

Also- what would my husband say about all my weird stuff I collect… “here are her mother’s dentures in this curio cabinet here and they are NOT for sale. “

[@user-re6il6uw6n]

😂

[@valerieblouch5409]

Preach!!😂

[@katherinelarini8514]

everything has a price... I really need new dentures, so what will it take for you to sell?..

[@alisonbeiko2050]

I feel this seller was trying to let the dealers know that he knew the value of what he was selling. I cannot believe his wife paid what was on the bottom of the items, that was what her collection of antique and collectible price guides were telling her. She priced them accordingly as she purchased so that the family didn’t box them up and donate after she was gone.

[@lisamyers8407]

God Bless this man! He obviously is lonely and missing his wife and why some of the items he is not letting go of. It’s a shame that so many of our elderly people fall for false advertisements/frauds being perpetrated against them. Anyways.. Jocelyn I’m with you on the stickers. She obviously was a collector and wanted to leave her family valuable items and for them to know what the value of each item was or could be based on her research.

[@crystalcaffrey9788]

I agree, I’m so surprised people are judging him so harshly. I also think the values are not what she paid but are book values. He may not know that though. She clearly loved to shop, he saw the bills but let her shop because it made her happy. It’s hard to part with those memories

[@lisamyers8407]

@@crystalcaffrey9788 we’re sisters of another mother!! God Bless.. 💙💙

[@onlyluvisreal6691]

Jocelyn, yes I agree that she was putting values on her gems. It was very popular to do that 😅❤

[@YOSOBOHO]

Was that Hank Hill? (King of the Hill) 😂 Peggy was a BIG spender. 💸 I bet Meri had to catch her breath after seeing that counter of cow creamers.

[@thatisapalmtreejudy]

I went through the comments looking for this! 😂😂😂 I was waiting for him to discuss propane!😂x

[@YOSOBOHO]

@@thatisapalmtreejudy propane and propane accessories 😂🤣😂

[@thatisapalmtreejudy]

@@YOSOBOHO 🤣🤣🤣x

[@melisablack7920]

I agree with you on the tags - she was putting what she thought the value would be - not what she paid

[@karenhayes1461]

When it has sentimental value we always think it’s worth more but it’s only worth what someone is willing to pay!

[@ninasgriccia4652]

I can’t watch this either - too depressing. I’m sure Berner Brothers hears prices expectations like these often from owners.

[@judithoden]

This is so sad. Beautiful things but just stuff. So much time spent on shopping. Truly hope this gave her joy.

[@deannaray4837]

Sounds like he thinks all that stuff is going to go for what he paid. He will never get all that money back. So glad you were because you know the worth. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@suzannemorgan6697]

The story of people taking advantage of the wife brought back lots of bad memories of the last year my mom was alive n how a live in helper ripped her off. But I think the husband truly wanted his wife happy and was willing to let her buy everything she wanted! But you really want to kick the asses of those that took advantage of her!!!

[@TheKimykali]

Yes, my grandmother had several live in "helpers" that helped themselves to her valuables because she was basically blind the last few years. Sad that folks are predators of elderly.

[@cfreeman1014]

He’s trying to get better prices to get rid of all of the collections by telling a sob story how his wife was taken advantage of. He knows that most of it isn’t worth much. I think Jocelyn nailed it, she was thrifty and she was looking up comps in the newspaper because she didn’t have EBay and Worthpoint.

[@gabbott944]

This is fun

[@angelv527]

Exactly

[@cindyl542]

My mom thought all of her collectibles and old “antique” furniture was worth a fortune, unfortunately not. So much of her things were no longer in style and we practically had to give it away at the estate sale, so sad. It’s a hard pill to swallow when you think by collecting you are saving for retirement.

[@FossilForwardFinds]

Wow that was a tough one. Great collection though.

[@keldaogg2157]

I hope she enjoyed the hell out of it all.

[@valerieblouch5409]

So interesting to see what catches other people's fancy. I would have enjoyed hearing her take on things. I'm glad he didn't spoil her fun. Rest in peace, sweet lady. Your treasures are in good hands now.😇🪽

[@pattiarnold794]

He’s lonely and wants to talk about her. 😢 if he sells everything all at once, who will he tell these stories to? I love him.

[@symptomoftheuniverse3862]

But what he said was negative

[@amberarmstrong2576]

My grandpa used to talk like that about my step grandma, he still loves/loved her, just thought she was naive at times (both have dementia and one is in hospice now so they don't really remember each other very well anymore) He just liked to complain lol

[@symptomoftheuniverse3862]

House calls are hard, because the owner wants to explain everything in the house, where they got it, how much they paid and so on. When you want to get in there and make calculations and decisions.

[@TheKimykali]

Wow, there were so many mean comments on today's video. Here is this elderly man working through grief, probably lonely, and trying to honor his wife's memory by not just throwing all her stuff away. Jocelyn and Berner bro (can't remember his name) are really doing him a favor, and also doing what they are good at, and everyone will make some money in the end. I just don't understand why people think that being rude about someone's voice, or mannerisms is necessary to publicly comment on, especially in this venue.

[@jeninegrasc8414]

My sister in law just passed and had basically a horde. We are mostly donating things. Even some of the good stuff. You just can’t keep everything. It’s amazing how much stuff you can accumulate over a lifetime.

[@reneeflanagan2773]

Instead of donating, check to see if you have consignment shops nearby. You could still make some money from your items if they interest the consignment owner. If your only option is donation, you can be certain that you will be making any number of people happy.

[@kiki9618]

So, how did you finally get a price for what you were interested in?

[@maryanncannon8978]

Hmm sounds like he really didn’t want to sell anything!

[@crystalcaffrey9788]

These types of conversations are very common when picking. As a buyer you need to let them talk and then make an emotional connection to them. They want to share their story and it’s important you listen. This is their life journey, that’s not something to take lightly and be flippant about. He clearly loved his wife, he was willing to part with a lot. He just needs to make a human to human connection with the people buying. Obviously they ended up buying things and hopefully when they left he felt good about the interaction. This is how my husband and I approach buying collections. Let them tell their stories. Along the way you compliment their collection and engage in their stories. You empathize with them. When you start actually talking money they feel better about selling to you.

[@janrossetti3571]

Thank you for this post. I feel the same way. Just let them talk. Jacob and Jocelyn are professionals, they know what they’re doing.

[@laurasmith1445]

❤OMG❤ JIMMIDY CRICKET What awesome treasures this lady had!! I imagine she had lots of Fun searching for what is treasures to her Great Eye!!This was a special couple and tell by him talking about her..They loved ..laughed and enjoyed life together Looking forward yo see the treasures on the shows ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@crystalcaffrey9788]

I think people are being way too harsh on this man. We are judging him by today’s standards not understanding the value of things pre internet. I feel like he loved his wife and wanted her to have all the things she loved. In the 70s, 80s and 90s there was still a high value on most of these things. Women (and men) who had things passed down to them saw the value in those old family heirlooms. The prices hadn’t collapsed yet. Once the internet hit values went WAY down because now you could find things so much easier. Because things did have value this is also when lots of fakes started and this was the first time people got taken quite frequently, this is another reason prices started to crash. People started to question the authenticity of things. It’s a complex situation that we judge people on without understanding how things were during this time. I feel like he loved his wife and these things all have memories. I’m shocked people are judging him so harshly. He clearly loved her and when he said he was happy she she didn’t try to sell her things, I felt his love for her. We also need to remember some of his family could see these videos. They know him, we don’t, I think some of the comments are a way too judgmental. Often these people just want to know you appreciate the things, they want to see you have an emotional connection. One time we went to a home to pick and the man wanted $50 to $70 for Salt and pepper sets. We let him talk and share his collection and eventually he told us to pick out 10 to 20 sets and we could have them for $5 a set. Plus he sold us quite a bit of other things that were local history at reasonable prices. Sometimes you just need to let people talk. He obviously worked hard to provide for his family

[@user-re6il6uw6n]

Well said

[@deborahmannino3775]

I agree. I can't believe what some people are saying. It's so impolite. Like you said,some family members are going to read these. He's elderly and loved his wife. Just wait,some of you will be elderly and will feel the same with your collections. He's letting go pieces of her every time he sells something. So sad.

[@SylviaPapac-mp7zl]

I love your videos, but oh my!

[@elenalydon-tuomey7755]

Me also but gosh this was dreadful..she should have put a voice over . ❤😂

[@1incutheta]

He did talk a lot, but I'm sure part of that was that HIS WIFE DIED AND HE'S LONELY! He wasn't trying to gouge them, he stated, more than once, that he didn't know what things were worth. Also, who doesn't want to get as much as they can?

[@korencollections349]

Sounds to me like he’s really not ready to sell. Plus he should just let them look without talking. He also sounds like he expects more than what his wife paid. Prices and worth changes.

[@janrossetti3571]

Thank you for taking this video , there was some stunning pieces there.

[@pennyskelton1851]

Beautiful items

[@conniemast450]

I enjoy this type of video. So interesting!

[@sandrabrown6326]

Wish you all the best with the sale.

[@LeftLaneFinds]

Wow, amazing collections. Thanks for showing us this estate sale.

[@hollyjohnson5468]

You two are soooo patient. It is hard to stay tuned in. That guy goes on too much

[@NailsJamieBeeReSeller]

Super special walk thou! Thank you. ❤😊

[@laceyrasmussen9723]

I loved that first set of birds so much!!

[@gissyb1]

Fantastic insight into your business.. meeting people and dealing with their needs & being respectful 😊😊 This opd man came from a generation of talking & getting to know people. Hes interesting 😊❤

[@christinacordero4624]

This was a great video. Wow, all those treasures. 😊

[@Bodiy]

The green bird paperweight matched your green nail polish

[@Venomousvoodoo]

I'm eyeing so much uranium, slag glass and Burmese stuff! Sigh I love the glowy stuff!!!

[@claudiairons5566]

Yay you found your marbles! 😉❤️

[@joannejohnston3996]

Wow, that was fun!

[@brendal9976]

This is what I always say. It’s only worth what the next fool is willing to pay for the item. It’s just like the Stanley cups. It’s only someone’s opinion.

[@farmlifethrifter5732]

Wow! What a haul.

[@lucindawalkerakavintasticf9425]

So fun! I agree with you, she researched them. The husband wasn’t involved and didn’t know until afterwards. He said he just wanted her to be happy. Wowza, 100,000 happy in six months?

[@traceytwardowski1491]

Wow! That’s a lot of pretty jewelry. I love the scorpion, Cameo😍,see through necklace pendant💖 ,dog pin, bracelets, orange/black vase.the Angels💖😇🪽and that blue round thing. I couldn’t see what it was. Oh and the Matchey, Matchey perfume bottles.

[@lizmohan5885]

Jocelyn, ohh I love the bears!! so much I collect bears 🐻 thanks for this video ❤

[@carolmiller7310]

Thanks 😊

[@stacywallace6187]

He LOVED his wife, there’s no doubt about it! She made some big mistakes in buying but he noted she was so happy and he was glad she didn’t try and sell it while she was alive..What a treasure they both were and are!!!! How sweet!!!!!

[@cynthiagreen4472]

Thank you for picking up the Pigeon Forge Pottery bears! There is a Pigeon Forge Pottery Collector's Club, so we will be on the lookout for it! You missed a piece however. When you picked up the 2 piece chicken set, there was a PF Pottery swan right beside it! Thanks for making more people aware of this lovely pottery.

[@MM-ek8sp]

Read comments before actually watched the video. Thanks for the heads up. Turned volume off and looked at all the pretty things. 😂😂😂

[@jakebluethunder]

I watched the entire thing and wish I had done the same. 😆

[@stephaniesharkey3538]

Wow! I think u r right Jocelyn about her pricing! That’s a lot of merch he has!

[@mollyswanner1607]

This is a real challenge when people want to liquidate but have a notion that each piece has to go for a large amount. Impossible situation.

[@JustinHappenstance]

omg that jewlery, worth a yacht load! I would have bought that whole lot. $3600 what a steal...

[@karenpruitt9845]

“ I don’t really want to sale that but I could be convinced for the right price “ You both have so much patience

[@todamont]

hahaha I have that exact Fenton blue Hen on a Nest and he guards the butter in my fridge for me.

[@kimkirksey562]

Thank you for picking up the amethyst shoe

[@karlaglover9693]

What an interesting walk through. I am so glad you are knowledgeable about another of things. I did feel a bit sorry for the husband. But I think he was trying to take advantage. Please Stay Safe Happy and Healthy Have A Wonderful Day

[@bettymunguia2136]

Hey Jocelyn, enjoy ❤😊

[@SUZANNECARPENTER-ou3je]

I seen a lot 9f great jewelry pieces.

[@Jane_Dow]

I hope you are right about the lady being thrifty & looking up those $'s herself, same with the news paper clippings she had. The lady had So many beautiful things, I can't imaging how she displayed them all. I do hope the gentleman is able to sell or keep them all in the family. Thank you for showing all those wonderful things, they brought back such good memories ! :~)

[@harriljl]

That Santa in car salt and pepper shaker in the front is Napco and I sold one with chippy paint for $100!

[@ShannaFae2023]

I think Hank Hill is sellin off Peggys goodies. Ha!

[@rikkemeek1506]

😂

[@autumnfall8829]

What a fun husband lol, she was a lucky lady.

[@catty2chatty]

😂

[@autumnfall8829]

@@HRHQueenAngelita it's jokes, calm down

[@michellebacik9708]

Awwwwww. I'm so sad that people took advantage of his wife. 💔 They do have a lot of beautiful and interesting peices and it must be hard for him to part with things that his wife cherished.

[@lindsaymohn3043]

The matching pieces at 14:42 are probably Orient & Flume.

[@lauraeichler611]

Well that was nuts!🙄 Not sure he really wants to let anything go?!

[@megansfo]

Wow! I thought I was high class hoarder. When my husband died I turned to things for comfort. The amount I had doesnt compare to this though and most of it has been donated at this point. Even so, if I could go back 20 years Id put all that cash into the stock market. You can't take it with you whether it's money or stuff. The life story this guy just goes on and on.

[@SheShedVintage]

You have to have a lot of patience to do what Berner does. Total admiration there. It was very difficult to listen to. I do see, however, he loved and cherished his wife. Im sorry for his loss.

[@brendagaskill6595]

WOW .... just ..WOW!

[@carolhamilton6126]

Went through as similar situation with mother -in law who was a treasure buyer. She spent thousands sold for pennies in the dollar. As gentleman said these ladies would be heartbroken as their intentions were meant for good.

[@MelanieGolisch]

People r horrible to each other. Just amazes me. So sorry for her

[@karenwilson6506]

Wow! Of course! Jocelyn, YOU are a freaking genius! That observation regarding the lady's labeling not being what she paid, but their approx worth & her source! Excellent! 👍❣️ BTW kudos to you two! I feel for the guy, but you guys have the proverbial "patience of a saint!" 😇😊

[@sheblyne]

There are definite treasure hidden all over. So much vintage costume jewlery by certain makers is very valuable. I agree very much with Jocelyn. She was seeing the valuable pieces just popping out to her but I do think she's right about the woman not paying those prices.

[@user-xf3bo9wx8d]

Hello from Mexico 👋

[@ladonsmith639]

Wow! Beautiful collections. So sad she was taken advantage of! Amazing pieces!

[@WetheBest96]

This guy is the reason I charge for my time after the 1st half hour of an Estate Sale house call…just wants to talk about everything but doesn’t actually want to sell…

[@charlenegirouard901]

You get invited to all the best places 🎉

[@jeanzyskowski827]

Just omg!