How My Ex Stole Everything | The Lies and Deception That Left Me Broken ( THE EX STORY) with Ijoya

In this eye-opening episode of The Ex Story, Ijoya shares her harrowing experience with a toxic relationship that left her scammed, heartbroken, and in despair. She reveals how her ex-boyfriend stole her phone, lied repeatedly, and ultimately destroyed her life. Struggling with depression, hunger, and even physical abuse from her neighbors, she opens up about the darkest moments of her journey and how she found the strength to survive. If you've ever faced betrayal or been a victim of a scam, this story will resonate with you. Don't miss this powerful testimony of resilience and recovery."
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[@oravbierejessica5768]

Do not trust the humility of a broke man , especially when you have what they are looking for .

[@lindaechem2789]

You said it all

[@olamidecoker7904]

God bless you 🙏

[@emehogechi8118]

God bless you

[@OluwatosinAjayi-cd2ud]

Gbam😂

[@kingacot4391]

@@oravbierejessica5768 what about the humility of a woman that is desperate to be a wife😏

[@OgechiBlessing-vu8my]

I’m 30+ a hardworking lady! But will never house any man that’s not legally married to me. And after watching this video, I’m never settling for less…

[@preacher492]

Lol. Its funny how this video experience could actually be the reason you may never get a husband anymore because of how much it has awakened your spirit. You may become over sensitive and that's how you ruin whst you thought you were protecting

[@RichardOlusolaAkinnowo]

Everyone can't be the same

[@user-py3hr7yt1m]

Excertly

[@YellowStarz-205]

See your face 😅😅

[@bimmer1988]

The lesson for being a neighbors keeper... Always have a good relationship with your neighbors because they are always/mostly your first contact during difficulties

[@shantelyinka]

@@bimmer1988 exactly ooo For them to still bully her, Despite her predicament.. She sef no really be better person. Abba

[@hadiza888]

Exactly

[@helennwiba7412]

Once a man ask you for money… it’s a big red flag

[@dollarman2302]

Same with a lady... Biggest red flag ever

[@miraclekk4288]

​@@dollarman2302stingy man be capping nonsense 😅

[@princessmosu9848]

Yes yes

[@dollarman2302]

@@miraclekk4288 stingy and wicked woman capping nonsense ✌️

[@ranibelkizzeey6116]

When you tell a guy what happened to your previous relationship you’re definitely giving him a heads up on our to treat you! He’s gonna be worst!

[@markjeffery8389]

Not all

[@olamidecoker7904]

Lesson.......

[@emehogechi8118]

Exactly, that's what happened to me

[@emehogechi8118]

Exactly, that's what happened to me

[@oyinade7426]

I am a firm believer that your past stays in your past especially if it involves your vulnerabilities.

[@AbigailOgburie]

Coming from TikTok 👋 Honestly,she needs to relocate from that environment for the sake of her mental health I feel sorry for her 😢🤦‍♀️

[@shantelyinka]

@@AbigailOgburie what if na she no get better attitude? Because, how can the people in the area bully her despite knowing what she is going through

[@patasmah9905]

He needs to be reported and arrested. We have laws use it

[@IsaiahAdeosun]

The Guy’s picture and full name needs to be posted. So that justice can prevail on the Bastard Man .

[@dilinyelumary-ann255]

I came from Tiktok. One thing I can say about this is " Do not drop your standard for anyone and give no ear to family pressure about relationships and marriage because when the ships are down, family won't be sharing the trauma with you. Be ready mentally and emotionally before venturing into any of those. Ijoya darling you are a strong queen, you will come out of this stronger 💪 hugs 🫂 ❤

[@RareDiamondCEONabil]

this is the reality of most ladies that you think you are 25 years or going to 30, you are desperate for love & relationship, this exact same thing will happen to you and you will not realize until you are broken, don't allow society pressure you, when it's your turn to find love, you will find it. This story is very common trust me, I saw 5% of what she saw few years ago when I was desperate and think I'm getting old, and I can count more than 5 women too that experience more 50% of this and they are already married and will go through this maybe for life, you think they care about you when they pressure you for marriage abi, until you start suffering, only you will go through it.

[@360Parenting]

Give us the guys name,let online searchlight fish him out. Stay strong baby girl,you still have a beautiful life ahead, you're just 30 o, not 55, you will still find a good husband, just be patient. And for now, focus on loving yourself, and don't be desperate,men can smell desperation in women, and most of them will take advantage.

[@Nulixxx]

Thank God for your life sis, a man that could do that could have killed you without blinking. Let's not invite strangers into our home PLEASE.

[@macbrownbookings]

You never know how strong you are until things happen. At least drop her social media handle lets follow her. I really feel her pain. She needs to leave that area ASAP. Surely she will bounce back stronger and her critics will hide their faces.

[@mercyberry6593]

If u are coming from Tiktok pls Hug my comment 😂

[@kennethomini]

Am just coming from tiktok

[@ayshasyraj]

🤗

[@Mercyshort5]

Am coming from tiktok 😜

[@ngoziegwumba181]

​@Mercyshort5 I am coming from tiktok

[@abbeygold9030]

Coming from tiktok..I had to come listen to the full story

[@mhizangelbeauty1381]

Never trust the loyalty of a broke guy

[@DavidLagon-x4i]

Once you realize that your relationship is perfect just know something is wrong somewhere

[@ayetimama6134]

I think I supported you

[@urisonuoha4471]

Omo! Once a guy starts asking me for money, my fraud alert antenna goes wild.

[@user-yh9px7pr9o]

No be only you my sister 😂😂😂😂 never 👎

[@ivy8645]

Same here

[@nehemiembombo9912]

I wish i knew this 6 months ago

[@edithsalami]

Honestly

[@oyinade7426]

A huge deterrent for me. The love will just fly out the window! A real man, even if you offer him, will turn it down.

[@ozoanionyinyechi9630]

Coming from TikTok

[@IsraelOnadare]

Thanks for joining in

[@WondaOkechukwu]

Even me too

[@AtkinsonWilson]

Same here lol

[@mbabazilindah-ef7yp]

Me too

[@obialorkingsleysopuruchi7320]

Me too ooh

[@Bmw_of_Lagos]

This is really sad 😢, the guy will never know peace.

[@bukolaevergreen]

Amen

[@itunuOluwaCharles]

Amen

[@JenniferJune-r8x]

She needs to leave her environment for the sake of her mental health💔…sending her love and light❤️

[@nakanjakosarah6755]

Straight away from tiktok....the interviewer looks like ebuka of bigbrother...much love from uganda

[@sharuamaria1385]

I almost got scammed the same way…but the inability of giving a man money while I’m only getting to know you …made me wrote him off. The moment a man is comfortable coming to pass the night at my place ..I am not seeing you the same again

[@greatmindstudios]

I'm happy God saved you

[@AnthonyEmeka-r9f]

Can't believe this story ended without telling us how he was arrested

[@wodlthedaughteroftheking8062]

All the way from Tiktok to Learn More. Father God i pray this young Lady. Father Please show her mercy and Favor with peace she Needs and the right Love..❤❤

[@ChiamakaJoy-y1k]

Girl u are beautiful ❤️ n u need to leave that environment coz ur metal health is really important, God will punish that guy where ever he is 🙏fear men ooooo women,so emotional 😢😢 trust nobody my dear

[@selormgh8637]

Be nice and friendly to your neighbours, saying you don't talk to them is not a flex. So sorry you experienced this, turn your pain to power.

[@ozoanionyinyechi9630]

I pray this video go viral so u will meet people that will help get justice

[@harike1019]

I’m glad she learn her lesson of not lowering her standards for anything 😢 You’re gonna bouns back Queen 👸 and found a man who’ll love you genuinely and care for you sweetheart 🫂

[@swazzybaby1166]

Amen 🙏 ijn

[@NewLifeJourney24]

Thank you for encouraging me too. Some men are so evil. My igbo "husband" of 12 years with our 4 children...lied from jump. I'm just now finding out. I feel so stupid, but I thank God for opening my eyes after I asked for clarity.

[@isaacbenjamin6314]

The mistake Ladies make is telling guys about ur ex. U re just telling them how to stab u at ur back

[@AnnyDanieltv]

I have trust issues I don’t reveal my weakness You can’t know when I’m vulnerable I don’t play my emotions out 😢😢😢😢

[@emehogechi8118]

I learnt the hard way

[@uduemomitchellucky2280]

Dey play 🙄

[@Qisata]

She is not stupid; society pressured her into being desperate.

[@olayinkaadebesin7558]

I am 30 plus ad my daddy Always tell me I should never lower my standard for anyone….sorry dear u really pass through alot. Pls forget abt relationship for now n luv urself d more

[@RuthieCouture-wf2mp]

This story will go a very long way, God bless you for sharing 🙏

[@georginanathan8423]

Sister, I know that what you went through is painful, and I've had my share of it. This will only strengthen you. Your finances will get better. God will provide you with your own husband. Believe me, there are good men. The guy will pay for what he did to you because "karma" is real

[@joshuaokpom3379]

Ijoya, am sorry for the experience, but trust me you are close to the best part of your life. I went through similar experience before I met my wife and now I am happy. God knows what you have been through and He will satisfy you. I hear you talk about revenge, trust me you can't do it the way God will. Just try to relegate all that concerns him and God will surprise you with His blessings.

[@NewLifeJourney24]

Whew, thank you for this!

[@aderonkeosinniran8648]

I’m glad for you that he didn’t leave you with a child

[@pekiglowskincare8208]

Very true

[@esterluve9657]

Isreal's composure and body language are giving the vibes of not believing her storyline

[@okochemichael9528]

This is really sad and i can feel every pain this lady is feeling and because am a guy who had also been in similar situation is very heartbreaking please sis just be happy and live for you.

[@TemmyZeema-vm4ri]

We ladies need to understand that no matter how much u love someone there should be boundaries there are some things that are suppose to be private all dis lazy men are always going for d independent lady

[@dollarman2302]

Ladies do this more than men.... Men are learning from you ladies.... I hope she heals quickly

[@hadiza888]

Always

[@nwajichidi1504]

Track that phone and get that idiot arrested

[@user-hn7dx1jr7l]

this is a lesson for all singles 😭😭

[@damilolaakeredolu4791]

Serious lesson

[@queenetteharbhimbolar4251]

Something like this happened to a friend but we later got him arrested the judge adjourned the case till 6weeks time before the judgement but he later died in at kirikiri when he spent 3weeks it was later we now got to know tht he has been doing it for years before my frnd own na so adeyemi lost his life

[@bukolaevergreen]

Change environment? Owo da? Dear, you know what you will do? Pray out loud and praise God, let your neighbors hear. Then, forget the past, be happy and greet everybody no matter what they say about you.

[@biolasaka9183]

I think she should go to her bank to report the issues so that all her account can be blocked to avoid the bastard having access to her money again ,he must be arrested no matter how long

[@MaryjoyOnyimadu]

This is heartbreaking 💔 No one deserves to go through this 😢 I wish you come out stronger soon but that guy will never see any good thing in his life.

[@margaretetop6077]

You are really strong. It takes only a strong person to love unconditionally. Be strong sis.

[@soipirinyeallison7646]

Never trust or buy to the humility of a broke guy, especially when you are far better than him or have all that they are looking for

[@MiriamAudu-m6m]

Track him and get him arrested

[@BigBrazz-v6l]

I don’t know why I always cry for people I don’t even know 😢 we all have a sad story to tell ❤

[@mummyvee7986]

I love the fact that you are not blaming yourself,

[@faithjoseph3161]

My dear you will be fine I pick myself up after I was defrauded I told myself I will never fall victim ever again You will be fine I am fine now and you just need to heal and put this behind you I am married now to the best man in the world I was skeptical at first but I had to learn to trust again

[@obianujuvivian8932]

This is sad The guy should be arrested .that's robbery

[@bukolababasanya3509]

My lovely sister you're not a fool at all. Please stand up again and you will see what God will do. I love you my queen 👑👑👑👑.

[@georgebanigo923]

That is what most guys do they target ladies above 30+...

[@oriyomikafayat6376]

Please report that guy to human rights activist or oriyomi hamzat, the guy the need to be taught a lesson. That's aside, you look so beautiful, and pls don't lower your standard for any guy.

[@okoduwajoy4838]

Thank you

[@phostinemulongo9051]

Im here from tiktok😢 this is so sad for her. Weeeh Trust broke men at your own risk. I mean date a man whom u give your everything😢even hosting him. Gives big redflags. Ladies its ok to be single when u have not gotten your match yet. Do not rush😢 and be trapped.

[@nzubechisuccessnwaimo4926]

This is almost what happened to me last year, with prophecies from some church people , after one year, i lost half of my savings and im in debts of what im not using, ladies be alert this days , some men dont know what they realy want these days, let this Interview go rival to help good hard working ladies out there.

[@mhizangelbeauty1381]

If you are coming from Facebook hit the love button

[@idowuflorence5583]

She needs to leave her environment ASAP. Her mental health is at stake . I pray you get all the help you need.

[@flonma]

Watched part of the video on TikTok and came here

[@OfficallyMay123]

I advice she cancelled all her bankcard, change all her pins and kneel down and talk to God. Pray for mercy and restoration, keep moving forward and in that 6 months time that he was talking about, he will be looking up to you. You are something, you are a child of God. The lady seems ashamed, abeg, we have all had our hearts broken, at that time it seems like it was over but when you hold into God and you keep moving forward, you will be fine. May God bless her and uphold her. Madam hold your head up.

[@edunolabisioluwafunmilayo2517]

All the way from TikTok I pray u find help and stand on your feet back

[@AdagunodoTofunmi]

I know what she’s feeling cos my mom was in a situation like this when my stepdad used her 😢💔

[@bigwest-fb2fx]

Love is wicked 😢 I pray you find someone who will love you unconditionally

[@designedbylewa6870]

Amen

[@harrietboateng5239]

loving the wrong person is wicked

[@user-oz6ik3lu1h]

Sorry baby girl the lord is ur strength 😢coming from TikTok

[@abidemiabi]

His picture needs to be posted, and he needs to be dealt with

[@rosayasmine]

She cannot see his pictures, bcos she no get phone

[@hadiza888]

Yes all the social media

[@obimaryann5209]

My thought

[@faithalabi8880]

@@rosayasmine😂😂

[@DeborahEssien-xs7eg]

I ve similar story 😢 if not that she said the guy is a Nigerian, I would have said he is the one, because this story looks so familiar with mine 😓😓😓. I can feel the emotional trauma she is going through now

[@estherjohn3051]

Wow! The audacity of that thief! It will never be well with him and his family or those playing his family

[@virtueubani7261]

This is really sad. Ijoya I pray to God to help u heal from this wickedness from the guy. He will meet his Waterloo.

[@SGofLagos]

I will not understand why a woman will be gullible to let a man sell off your property like this in whatever guise ! So sorry for your experience but the red flag was there !

[@brightchisomworld]

This phase shall pass dear. You're not dead so you will come out strong. I can imagine the pain and trauma.

[@justlunch409]

Here from TikTok...... I have been victim to one too but I put an end to it before I lost my mind and all my money

[@nehemilia5033]

That’s why it’s always important to self esteem and know who you are in Christ if not stories like this will not be far from you.

[@yetundeadeyinka7294]

I felt tears listening to her words .. The power of love got her doomed

[@ajumobioluwaseun8712]

Dear Mr Israel, if you could reach out to Ms Ijoya i think you should advise her to press charges against the stupid boy, everything he did is punishable, he's not invincible and would be tracked easily tbh , Nobody deserves to be punished like this all cos they genuinely loved someone . That rabid dog needs to be put behind bars tbh

[@victorinyang6001]

That's why is good to be in a good terms with your neighbours, but it's soo bad of him.

[@lynda2598]

You didn't have family members? That guy is cold! Some people will be suffering u dont know what they are going through! This guy has no soul! That's his work SCAM! He must have jinxed u. I feel so sorry for u. He will never receive help from anyone! Wicked individual!

[@bonnybonny8396]

I cried , l love you Idera

[@exponetial1641]

Forgive yourself Involve the police Move out of the neighborhood Meet a therapist or you may look for a support group that can help. Connect more with you family if they are supportive It’s well with you!

[@newyork4360]

Why didn't she report him to the police?!!

[@uwandujustina9520]

Asin oo😂😂 Dem Dey whine me ser🙃

[@JammyTunji]

That's guy needs to be tracked down what annoyed me most was when he said she can't amount to anything and that he used her you are still saying that to her face the guy doesn't have consence he needs to be disgraced azap please post this picture I beg let track this bastard down honestly I was watching this I almost sheard tears for her that guy is an animal in human skin what he did is more than killing someone dude the lady almost committed suicide the guy can't just go like that he needs to pay for this he is a beast.

[@mummyvee7986]

Don't have fears, you will still find love.

[@RuthieCouture-wf2mp]

Life always gives us the chance to start all over so dear leave that environment and start your life over again 🙏

[@angelraphfatoba9972]

Can we pls get this guy and deal with him 😢

[@WondaOkechukwu]

This is so heartbreaking , and the environments are not helping at all

[@lawsonsegun5271]

Hmm this deep but what I will say is that don't let evil people turn you evil like themselves,just focus on God .All will be well

[@olumohabdulfatai9635]

You can get your Sim back by collecting police report and go to network office with it, the line we be blocked and you will do the welcome back by your self

[@comely-Affiliate90]

Thank God you didn't end up being one of his baby mama in the process. Stay strong💪

[@LateefatAbdulwahab]

Coming from TikTok dis is so heartbreaking 😢😢😢

[@GLORYSUNDAY-m6w]

My same kind of story , I will love to document my story for the world to see

[@NewLifeJourney24]

Same!

[@IsraelOnadare]

Kind Send me a message on whatsapp [phone]

[@OgokeAmarachi-y5p]

Coming all the way from TikTok

[@newyork4360]

I thought the 1st thing she would do is close her bank account!! And block her sim card!! She is sooo.....

[@uwandujustina9520]

Looks scripted 😢 Looking for food for your cat when you no get any source of income, you no go bank ,4days ,1 week, Una Dey whine me.

[@akinlesifunke]

With the phone and the receipt of the new house the guy rented,he can be arrested and jailed for the act.

[@oyinkansolajoju9376]

All the way from TikTok God will heal you ma

[@muritalaabdullah]

Omoooo😢😢😢😢😢 he go hard for this girl to love up again cause guyss have showed her shege banza 😢😢😢😢

[@MirabelDaniels]

Hmmmmmmm I don’t even know what to say, cos for dis life I go think say u be lover girl, u be mumu for love and all that but wen u see another person u go knw say ur mumu Dey learn work

[@girl_like_nana1693]

I feel so bad yo.....the neighbors are a heartless bunch💔

[@bridgetyankson718]

He will never amount to anything honestly

[@tolakaiyewu4973]

Coming from Facebook, thanks for sharing.

[@beautytee]

Me too..😢

[@EloLoveth]

Forgive urself n heal sweetheart, alot of guys out there will do anything to have you

[@saburiadekunlelawal4439]

He need to be arrested this is four much day light robbery my sister you need to report him to Authority