How to Deal With a Cheating Husband | Smart Ways To Punish A Cheating Husband | Honest advice

[@asmafakhi9401]

ThankQ so much, you're great. I tried every Soshu Tech said and it's working perfectly, flawless and i really like the way you present yourself with much confidence... Once again thank you soooo much. With lots of love and care, from Massachusetts, North-East, Boston

[@preciousashimole6507]

Don't tell him where you are going, dress well and come back late, don't cry and be bold don't feel sad or stressful

[@saranewakobarbara7921]

God help me

[@tayeakins4160]

I love all the points ! But crying for a cheater is a no for me !

[@mperisannmuthoni9086]

You've never been there, you don choose to.... But tears go,.. Eventually

[@elizaleke8373]

​@mperisannmuthoni9086 don't cry in front of him it will make him more fulfilled

[@ritahnabunya1601]

Also me I can't. Shiaaa so that he all feels good. Never

[@michellengereza904]

I woke up and told him am going swimming..something that have never done. He asked lots of questions 😅and wanted to drive me himself but I refused, told him my friends will pick me up. This man is right...exactly what am doing to him

[@gbemisolakomolafe3332]

Yes good 😅

[@VerrahPhiri]

I do mind my own business I'm not desperate.

[@millicentaswata3907]

All those tips are spot on! They actually work. Ignore him, love yourself and develop yourself. Tried and tested 💯☑️

[@anazialovelyn5429]

Thanks for this cos mine never changed.ge even follows married women

[@ja9293]

Practice self love 💕 ❤

[@irenegee8134]

There are those who are not ignorable, the worst thing is when he wants intimacy by force

[@VirginiaMwangi-kq5se]

​@@anazialovelyn5429😊😊😊😊 pp

[@VirginiaMwangi-kq5se]

😊😊😊😊😊

[@janewangeci7950]

This is it. The only drug of choice is abandoning a cheater. You will come to embrace this precious advice and apply it to your life.

[@evelyndravie8614]

Very true ❤❤

[@VeldaNkandu-bz4xp]

Never show a man you are depressed point taken 👌

[@salamawanjiru1007]

This are very practical lessons. Every married woman needs to see this.

[@wezzieneba9238]

@@salamawanjiru1007 very true and sometimes we see them but thinking it is a phase he will change but to no avail

[@akankwatsachristine119]

😂😂😂if a man starts cheating, he doesn’t care about how you feel so crying or not it won’t help you he already doesn’t care

[@saranewakobarbara7921]

True

[@mercymbachimsiska873]

Point number four, exactly kkkkk. Now i understand why doesn't want me to go out. I should stay at home so he can be free out there. Such amazing advice, notes

[@estherblessed5869]

Just apply detachment in the marriage, build yourself up and enjoy your children and home to the max. REMEMBER YOU ONCE HAD A LIFE BEGORE MEETING HIM

[@gbonjukola-balogun1362]

A stray dog will never hear the hunter's whistle .

[@masingatichilumba8263]

It really works to women who have something to build themselves with, not goal keepers

[@tladimakuse7445]

My Dear Friend you are referring to a professional man. Family Background plays a role. If a man comes from Family of polygamy, unfortunately a woman has no say. Personality also plays a role. I appreciate your advice, very educational, thank you ❤

[@WellsOfWisdom-lc1dn]

When your partner cheats please know that its not about you at all. Its about them and the demon of lust. So don't waste your tears please.

[@LakerGladysLatigo]

Amen

[@wezzieneba9238]

@@WellsOfWisdom-lc1dn I wish I knew this all along. I have cried and now at cross roads. God have mercy.

[@machariaelizabeth3254]

I was actually crying... But have seen this and let me not cry again

[@janewangeci7950]

How I wish I had known this earlier. I thank God for delivering me from narcissit's life. 😊

[@PatrickMureithiMwereria]

Please summon this man to men conference to explain why he's selling men out.

[@marywanjiku8929]

Not all, demons(narcissists) will never apologize infact they do it openly to frustrate you.

[@belindapeters2663]

Exactly dear

[@StellaNjoki]

Sure

[@beatricematildah4623]

Very true

[@SarahNkausu]

Very true

[@bethwanjuhi9323]

True..

[@grace-if6ld]

Hallelujah am in abroad, but my husband has a pregnated agirl But l told him to choose who to marry and ge was busy crying lsaid u cry crocodile tears . Thank you for the knowledge ❤❤

[@lizzyg1758]

This is magic and the advise here is very very underrated!!! This needs to get out to the world.!!! Thankful I came across the video! Bless you

[@winnieawino-v9o]

You are super good my dear, you are a very very very good councilor you man , may the Lord use more and more to teach us ladies 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@anenematola7715]

Let him find the home as cold as a freezer😂

[@titilopeshogbesan8719]

The woman too won't enjoy the home

[@MariaKanyenda-l9i]

The best way is stop asking, nagging, ignore him,love yourself,look good,work on building up yourself and trust God in the process,it will kill him. By the time you will move out,it will not hurt you but him

[@BossLady-w2g]

These tips are so helpful, wise counsel indeed

[@okekechinwe-c4c]

Very very true

[@aderonyakisi5959]

Very true I did this my husband buy for me the tickets to join him out side am with him for 4 years now he was fearing am going to marry another man yet I didn't plan for another man😅😅😅😅

[@morinelucky6981]

This man has given the best advise ever

[@EuniceEuniceMutolwa]

This lessons are poweful.Thanks for educating us women.Thanks Rev.

[@NwanneClement]

Waoooo on point but those men with pride and ego still remains who d choose to be till d enter grave. May God see d loving and caring women's through in Jesus name amen.

[@wezzieneba9238]

@@NwanneClement this is very true. No matter you try to just forgive and forget what has been done as a woman you are still on the verge of being on the wrong. Better care for yourself otherwise you will go faster than you came….

[@AMASEDONAHAGNES]

Good advice from the elder, trust your God and love your self

[@lindiwemnisi922]

This is the best medicine ever 💯 👏

[@eug_chandwa]

Easy said than done. Living with a cheating spouse is not easy

[@sarahago7328]

All this gentlemen is saying are all true I did most of them and it worked like magic

[@MiriamNdoosi]

Man of God,a munyankole man will never apologise. Stay blessed

[@kazimirijackline47]

Tukatomera

[@kamugishaemmanuel4252]

Embwezo😢

[@jescahmuhongo48]

Thank you from today am gonna do what you have taught me now, God bless you

[@PatriciaMcCann-or7co]

If I hadn’t texted his GF and asked what was the nature of her relationship with my husband, to get silence in return, he’d still be denying it. I will never regret doing that. I had to know the truth, and he was never going to tell that to me. So I bent too low.

[@samsam2409]

Good job ❤

[@berthaphiri3503]

Knowing the truth is better. You're safer if you know your enemy

[@nashnyamwiza9421]

This is so educative and it really works. Thank u for this episode

[@Zoleka-o1m]

Mine has never apologized though I've caught him a number of times, this time has told me that he's going to call a lawyer so we can sign for an open relationship, I told him it can never happen, by the way I do no longer cook for him & if I go out I spend the whole day @ the mall & find him sitting in the couch waiting for me 😂😂😂

[@ritahnabunya1601]

His facing Karma.. enjoy girl

[@gbemisolakomolafe3332]

Turn the table 😅❤

[@PamellaMukiza]

I still leave him to eat whatever he thinks is enough for him Now when he's, tired he'll come back

[@gloriabukachi1]

Traditionally to curb cheating, polygamy was practiced. To my thoughts all these points means that you start building up your own emotional independence. Once you are there you are above him.

[@hiefia8568]

Polygamy does not prevent cheating

[@UmoruTarawally]

Poygamy ineed prevent some men from cheating truly

[@SiphumuzileNyoni-h3c]

Dont stoop too law wow wow u r a life adviser BB the best info❤

[@aishaabdulkareem7186]

I treated myself through him, , Over a year now, no intimacy with him, because of cheating with many, i just pray i get rich soon to be apart.

[@adeshinaadenike8502]

Hmm, Amin Mine too That why it good to be financially fit

[@botsoeeunice2246]

Am happy for the best advice for my soul.I stopped talking about that long time

[@Perfectgifty]

Wao this is really very strong medicine to my soul going to put all this into consideration thanks very much sir

[@sylviaecke1772]

😂😂😂😂

[@ferialkhadaroo6869]

Cheating is a choice not a mistake 😢

[@LovethOkere-oy7oi]

Exactly. They always planned it

[@masikajesca7668]

Amazing

[@charletsada8779]

Correct

[@PreciousMufuka]

You are Right

[@emavwodiaeucharia8294]

I downloaded and have to come back after watching to say a big thank you for your tip of solution. They truly work.

[@FunmiSusan-k4z]

My own does not come home again. He abandoned i and the kids completely.

[@FatishFofanah-b8b]

Some men always find their way out, even when you show him or you have show him fact, they will still be arrogant and carless about you said.

[@gracesattafornah3315]

Some men even if u cut off extra pleasure he will never change from cheating. Some men just have cheating in their DNA

[@kwaneledamoyi2347]

Exactly I can wash my clothes as long you still check for children's

[@boitumelokganedi3089]

Leave!

[@memorynawa3806]

what can you do if after confronting him with facts and he accepts but he stops talking to you and wants to make you feel like you are the one at fought

[@cynthiaamaka458]

A narcissist man will frustrate you the more bc u knw the truth.

[@jalarcosmas4749]

😅😅

[@ceomeiclothings7996]

Cheaters don't like their wife attending parties, even if it's a family functions.

[@rose.wanjalachoni]

@@ceomeiclothings7996 true!

[@akwijudith3875]

Exactly

[@Christ_centric]

So true😂😂

[@C-say-haj350]

This is really helpful as I regained my composure after watching the video. before watching it though I was really depressed am was about doing the wrong things thank you so much for your counselling

[@najjukamariam1986]

Oh,sorry, I've been there I know it hurts. I've ever done such tactics and it works though as Rev. Has put it after some rime u see it again with again somebody seems new.some usually have a wife and another woman periodically. Masculine dominating world gave them an upper hand.

[@OkehGreat]

Very very True, words of wisdom 👍👍

[@nkirujoseph246]

In my opinion the last point is a big NO crying will ruin all your work, it's better to wait when he eventually comes for a conversation then you tell him it hurts, not cry to him, a man that cheats does not regard your emotions what makes you think that crying about what he did will make any difference.

[@sylviaecke1772]

true

[@okekechinwe-c4c]

Exactly, d more u cry d most he enjoys it Best thing is love urself & kids d more & pray to God to deliver him

[@loladeyetunde5536]

Such men will tell you why are u crying? Are u a baby?

[@HappyMwaigwisya]

​@@loladeyetunde5536yes exactly. Ex husband told me that. I left him for good. He now realize he lost a real wife but too late. Years gone. I moved on.

[@leaderforever6282]

It depends on the man you are with.....some men never cry

[@AlitubeeraSylvialwaki]

Wonderful message truly, i have ever used these tricks and they worked for me

[@ChebetHusnah]

Ooooh waw...this is so wonderful,,the best advice ever thanks and may God bless you 😊

[@ijeomalove7448]

God forbid i cannot cry for a man, he will feel he has won or dealt with u. My sister leave d stupid narcissist and move on with ur wife

[@gracelubanga974]

The tips work absolutely 💯. They worked for me

[@Shehrry66]

Rule number one after you find out he's cheating heal at the crime scene then leave from his house to your future husband when he least expected it 😅😅

[@jaspatty]

Looking for one ready

[@ritahnabunya1601]

I like it​@@jaspatty

[@DavineWabox]

Noted

[@marymusyoka1740]

They are cheat. Will u kp on jumping from one man to another?

[@cutie-c6b]

​@@marymusyoka1740 as long as she is happy let it not bother anyone

[@dhiziri5936]

I have subscribed. I have learnt a lot today. I am in Harare Zimbabwe

[@babyline595]

Cut off the benefits No extra care Extra key on the table No extra pleasure Go out often looking your best

[@josephinetsindole]

I support this 💯

[@botsoeeunice2246]

Don't bend too low for the side chick.Ignore the other woman

[@gracerwabaingi7616]

If you cut off benefits , he will continue going to look for them out there

[@fruitsarelife7073]

@@gracerwabaingi7616 It doesn’t matter to you anymore.

[@luckydumba3107]

​@@gracerwabaingi7616who cares

[@buyiemoyo7909]

Narcissists feed off - all this. They don’t care instead, that will be making them more pompous!

[@gwennzula]

Why play mind games to win a cheater's attention, at the risk of HIV and other STIs, instead of leaving?!

[@adikinijackline]

Then why do you even get married if u can not take a risk its God that protects and if your really Faithful HIV can never come your way.Nothing can stop ATrue Woman Mother fight for her marriage no matter what

[@shakiraameen8001]

Amen mr advicer now you are talking cut the reasonces i like it. Am on the same situation now

[@nemutlusana]

Great advices, I wish I heard it before

[@karin-blueberrytravel6359]

I need a part two of this series

[@rose.wanjalachoni]

Narcissists don't care. They feel happy when you cry 😢

[@SarahNkausu]

You are right

[@fridahiminza8659]

Pathological liars, victim playing, love bombing, gaslighting, they're good at that. Narcissists are real 😈

[@tammy690]

That's so true

[@akankwatsachristine119]

Exactly

[@supergirl225]

@rose.wanjalachoni Ya, and when they see you happy they get jealous and weird.

[@rittandlovu]

Caught my husband last year around November BT still today I don't know how to deal with it it's hurt so much

[@cutie-c6b]

Why are you still with him?? Leave for your peace of mind

[@evemasibo8009]

Exactly ave got some points from the this topic that's what i did to my husband when he married another woman n yet there's no proper care at home n he used to praise the other woman what i did i started doing some of those things no sex until i left his home but i thank God that now he wants me to

[@Royhauya-uw2kr]

The solution does not lie in punishing but in counseling based on facts.

[@ritahnabunya1601]

Counseling who? Lol

[@Bintimrembo-y1v]

The only smart way is to LEAVE HIM🙄🙄🙄 people like that never change, you keep forgiving and you end up with endless STDs and low self respect

[@CarolyneN45]

I agree

[@irenegee8134]

Exactly 😊

[@AlwayneCobourne-k8e]

EXACTLY....ONLY SOLUTION IS TO MOVE ON...

[@euniceoreno8574]

True

[@Kiara-em7xj]

So true

[@ChristianaThoronka]

Thank for this , i started feeding better in my marriage after watching this. God bless your union

[@EuniceEuniceMutolwa]

When are we having part 2 of these lessons please?very educative .Thanks so much Pastor and Rev.Akama

[@misslovedee1688]

I wish I knew this some years ago, very informative 👏🏾

[@BeaulahKalaluka]

It's true, I wish I knew this years ago😅

[@Ebi-NdieHanniBisongonoh]

No tears for a narcissistic person

[@tayeakins4160]

That cry is a no no for me

[@JIL-m3j]

How about blocked and muted phones?

[@우간다-v4y]

Wow.....wow....wow wonderful. I love that sharing. God bless u so so much.

[@Joalanetau]

Thanks for the tips because hey,the situation in my marriage is bad I am humbled

[@MercyRumbidzaiMazhata]

Thank you for your teaching

[@nomfundojele6867]

Tried confronting mine and it ddnt go well He confirmed he loved her and asked me to accept her,ive never healed 😢

[@AwilliDoreen-u9r]

Me too

[@KellyLoveth-so4tc]

Wow I love this God bless you sir

[@Realtor-Tina]

This is so unfair what if he infects you with hiv😢you are with him all in the name of marriage

[@pamelanamayi3064]

Exactly, all the time u still waiting for him to understand, HIV boom 🤯🤯

[@lucygeorgewairimu5136]

At this point u can't be intimate with him

[@marthamutua1922]

Best punishment LEAVE !!.before he brings you all the skunk from outside !!

[@gbonjukola-balogun1362]

May God help us women o

[@loladeyetunde5536]

Some women dey take things I knew of someone who her husband has been cheating years back even before I married till now the woman is still there and the man refuse to change till tomorrow,and the way thus woman carry him for head,even this man went extra miles to the extent of sleeping with his friend daughter and they dated till the lady got married,there is no how to handle a man who cheats as far as am concerned

[@marshastoute5091]

I am living with one and I did almost of your points, he is still a liar

[@zunaiandre2341]

You're lowering your value

[@ooyeniyi5300]

Pray for his salvation

[@AbundanceGrace-]

Let him pray for himself

[@jamiebrumant8512]

Pray for God to transform his heart but focus mostly on taking care of yourself dear

[@Claudine-d9d]

​@@ooyeniyi5300hope he's praying for her salvation too. We are called to obey them and be submissive yet they are not our gods.They need to know their mistakes. That's why we need to look for money money money money money you will see the difference

[@RoseKungaOnyango]

I like the facts, good teachings

[@mankamathilda7593]

Thank you so much for the teachings.Very

[@valeriebyrd70]

Let him come home to cold like a freezer 😆😆😆

[@Kenyan_RN]

😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@toyinarigbabuwo1837]

Please talk about distance relationships and how to deal with cheating man

[@tarirochimheno1534]

People differ for some it works and for some it will make things worse but if he fear God he will not do it coz God is everywhere

[@jennywinny4066]

Very right

[@AmrutaShivrajKhande]

i just got this video very late. i already left my house wit my child. I am tired of his lies, ignorance,drink, spending money out. do you have any suggestion for money.

[@GloryBisong]

Thank you so much for sharing 🙏 God bless you

[@SalomeNdjamba]

True no shouting, facts and option.

[@obiageridoris705]

I love this man ❤ U nailed it 100

[@roselee4885]

Amazing ! Spot on a lot of wusdom

[@happylwambi454]

if the fear of God is to both the man and the woman one cannot cheat being contented shuld be the key since the holy spirit of God is in you; we shld not justify a mistake which is forbidden even by God ; Remeber the judgement is there and cant be removed from book of judgement ; the commandment says do not practice adultery

[@mildredkhajidis9158]

Very true dear

[@ElizabethKachina]

May God bless you man A man like you are scares

[@nokubongasanana7217]

Woooow all those tips are spot on

[@angelamagwaro9004]

That was me never commented or asked I would continue with my life as if nothing was happening. It ate him up at times he would say please hit me hard and would say I don't have the time for that.

[@TarmishelMoyo]

Oooh i love this topic and am patiently listerning and am learning something herr❤

[@mwachofi]

Kindly do one on how to punish a cheating wife.

[@janetfoluke9426]

Divorce is the only answer they have to that 😢

[@yaneliswakhoza5901]

​@@janetfoluke9426 😂😂😂 with immediate effect

[@Tillimor]

​@@janetfoluke9426That's unfair

[@halliebie69]

No need. Once she is cheating, she has cut u off emotionally. I advise u leave if not u may die of heart attack.

[@royalfully]

How did she start to cheat?

[@olatanwa3085]

Best video you will see online today 🎉🎉🎉…. It’s 💯

[@TaffieMucheri]

Thanks for a powerful teaching.

[@SarahMuema-zf1vb]

My husband is cheating on me live and he knows i know na sasa ameniambia amequit na my problem is am 5months pregnant, advice please what am i going to do surely?? It hearts

[@cutie-c6b]

Leave him kuliko upate stress na mtoto

[@ruthanyaka7965]

Some men accept yet they are not ready to change

[@mankamathilda7593]

Not at all

[@DinahSegobola]

I cried day and night Pastor. He didn't nothing😅 I'm done crying