All those tips are spot on! They actually work. Ignore him, love yourself and develop yourself. Tried and tested 💯☑️
@anazialovelyn54294 ай бұрын
Thanks for this cos mine never changed.ge even follows married women
@ja92932 ай бұрын
Practice self love 💕 ❤
@irenegee81342 ай бұрын
There are those who are not ignorable, the worst thing is when he wants intimacy by force
@VirginiaMwangi-kq5se2 ай бұрын
@@anazialovelyn5429😊😊😊😊 pp
@VirginiaMwangi-kq5se2 ай бұрын
😊😊😊😊😊
@rose.wanjalachoniАй бұрын
Narcissists don't care. They feel happy when you cry 😢
@SarahNkausu27 күн бұрын
You are right
@tayeakins4160Ай бұрын
I love all the points ! But crying for a cheater is a no for me !
@mperisannmuthoni9086Ай бұрын
You've never been there, you don choose to.... But tears go,.. Eventually
@janewangeci79502 ай бұрын
How I wish I had known this earlier. I thank God for delivering me from narcissit's life. 😊
@PatrickMureithiMwereria2 ай бұрын
Please summon this man to men conference to explain why he's selling men out.
@Bintimrembo-y1v2 ай бұрын
The only smart way is to LEAVE HIM🙄🙄🙄 people like that never change, you keep forgiving and you end up with endless STDs and low self respect
@CarolyneN452 ай бұрын
I agree
@irenegee81342 ай бұрын
Exactly 😊
@AlwayneCobourne-k8e2 ай бұрын
EXACTLY....ONLY SOLUTION IS TO MOVE ON...
@euniceoreno85742 ай бұрын
True
@Kiara-em7xj2 ай бұрын
So true
@ferialkhadaroo6869Ай бұрын
Cheating is a choice not a mistake 😢
@LovethOkere-oy7oiАй бұрын
Exactly. They always planned it
@salamawanjiru10072 ай бұрын
This are very practical lessons. Every married woman needs to see this.
@janewangeci79502 ай бұрын
This is it. The only drug of choice is abandoning a cheater. You will come to embrace this precious advice and apply it to your life.
@babyline5952 ай бұрын
Cut off the benefits No extra care Extra key on the table No extra pleasure Go out often looking your best
@josephinetsindole2 ай бұрын
I support this 💯
@botsoeeunice2246Ай бұрын
Don't bend too low for the side chick.Ignore the other woman
@gracerwabaingi76166 күн бұрын
If you cut off benefits , he will continue going to look for them out there
@gbonjukola-balogun13622 ай бұрын
A stray dog will never hear the hunter's whistle .
@AMASEDONAHAGNESАй бұрын
Good advice from the elder, trust your God and love your self
@marywanjiku89292 ай бұрын
Not all, demons(narcissists) will never apologize infact they do it openly to frustrate you.
@belindapeters26632 ай бұрын
Exactly dear
@StellaNjokiАй бұрын
Sure
@beatricematildah4623Ай бұрын
Very true
@SarahNkausu27 күн бұрын
Very true
@nkirujoseph2462 ай бұрын
In my opinion the last point is a big NO crying will ruin all your work, it's better to wait when he eventually comes for a conversation then you tell him it hurts, not cry to him, a man that cheats does not regard your emotions what makes you think that crying about what he did will make any difference.
@sylviaecke17722 ай бұрын
true
@okekechinwe-c4c2 ай бұрын
Exactly, d more u cry d most he enjoys it Best thing is love urself & kids d more & pray to God to deliver him
@loladeyetunde5536Ай бұрын
Such men will tell you why are u crying? Are u a baby?
@HappyMwaigwisyaАй бұрын
@@loladeyetunde5536yes exactly. Ex husband told me that. I left him for good. He now realize he lost a real wife but too late. Years gone. I moved on.
@leaderforever6282Ай бұрын
It depends on the man you are with.....some men never cry
@lizzyg17584 ай бұрын
This is magic and the advise here is very very underrated!!! This needs to get out to the world.!!! Thankful I came across the video! Bless you
@margareto.10102 ай бұрын
PLEASE NOTE: These tips DO NOT apply when dealing with a narcissistic man.
@missl17932 ай бұрын
I agree with you
@akweseblanche97752 ай бұрын
Very true
@alphonsineuzabakiriho16502 ай бұрын
True so how can you deal with this kind of man please help me
@euniceoreno85742 ай бұрын
💯 Thanks for sayn this haki😢
@batsadimolapo47632 ай бұрын
Also a demon possesd one 😂 .
@C-say-haj3503 ай бұрын
This is really helpful as I regained my composure after watching the video. before watching it though I was really depressed am was about doing the wrong things thank you so much for your counselling
@najjukamariam19862 ай бұрын
Oh,sorry, I've been there I know it hurts. I've ever done such tactics and it works though as Rev. Has put it after some rime u see it again with again somebody seems new.some usually have a wife and another woman periodically. Masculine dominating world gave them an upper hand.
@NwanneClement9 күн бұрын
Waoooo on point but those men with pride and ego still remains who d choose to be till d enter grave. May God see d loving and caring women's through in Jesus name amen.
@grace-if6ldАй бұрын
Hallelujah am in abroad, but my husband has a pregnated agirl But l told him to choose who to marry and ge was busy crying lsaid u cry crocodile tears . Thank you for the knowledge ❤❤
@tladimakuse74452 ай бұрын
My Dear Friend you are referring to a professional man. Family Background plays a role. If a man comes from Family of polygamy, unfortunately a woman has no say. Personality also plays a role. I appreciate your advice, very educational, thank you ❤
@botsoeeunice2246Ай бұрын
Am happy for the best advice for my soul.I stopped talking about that long time
@osigwelizzy54452 ай бұрын
A Narcissist can never beg you
@ayerinsarahoseyemi4376Ай бұрын
Especially a religious narcissist, they are the worse
@oliviashekinahАй бұрын
💯🎯
@omahify1470Ай бұрын
@@ayerinsarahoseyemi4376Religious narcissist are the worse set of narcissist, I dont wish any woman
@DinahSegobolaАй бұрын
Narcissist are soooooo heart🤞🤞🤞
@DinahSegobolaАй бұрын
Less
@gloriabukachi12 ай бұрын
Traditionally to curb cheating, polygamy was practiced. To my thoughts all these points means that you start building up your own emotional independence. Once you are there you are above him.
@MariaKanyenda-l9iАй бұрын
The best way is stop asking, nagging, ignore him,love yourself,look good,work on building up yourself and trust God in the process,it will kill him. By the time you will move out,it will not hurt you but him
@BossLady-w2gАй бұрын
These tips are so helpful, wise counsel indeed
@okekechinwe-c4cАй бұрын
Very very true
@marshastoute50914 ай бұрын
I am living with one and I did almost of your points, he is still a liar
@zunaiandre23412 ай бұрын
You're lowering your value
@ooyeniyi53002 ай бұрын
Pray for his salvation
@AbundanceGrace-2 ай бұрын
Let him pray for himself
@jamiebrumant85122 ай бұрын
Pray for God to transform his heart but focus mostly on taking care of yourself dear
@Claudine-d9d2 ай бұрын
@@ooyeniyi5300hope he's praying for her salvation too. We are called to obey them and be submissive yet they are not our gods.They need to know their mistakes. That's why we need to look for money money money money money you will see the difference
@babeskjo2 ай бұрын
If a man cheats on you,just give other men a chance. Omo don’t die with misery
@dymphineitete96692 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@joyc93232 ай бұрын
Or AIDS 😅
@ngozieze78262 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@leilangala93042 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 kabisa
@preciousnoko66212 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@nashnyamwiza94213 ай бұрын
This is so educative and it really works. Thank u for this episode
@emavwodiaeucharia8294Ай бұрын
I downloaded and have to come back after watching to say a big thank you for your tip of solution. They truly work.
@ChebetHusnahАй бұрын
Ooooh waw...this is so wonderful,,the best advice ever thanks and may God bless you 😊
@ChristianaThoronka2 ай бұрын
Thank for this , i started feeding better in my marriage after watching this. God bless your union
@jescahmuhongo482 ай бұрын
Thank you from today am gonna do what you have taught me now, God bless you
@Perfectgifty5 ай бұрын
Wao this is really very strong medicine to my soul going to put all this into consideration thanks very much sir
@sylviaecke17722 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@lindiwemnisi9223 ай бұрын
This is the best medicine ever 💯 👏
@Shehrry6615 күн бұрын
Rule number one after you find out he's cheating heal at the crime scene then leave from his house to your future husband when he least expected it 😅😅
@jaspattyКүн бұрын
Looking for one ready
@happylwambi4542 ай бұрын
if the fear of God is to both the man and the woman one cannot cheat being contented shuld be the key since the holy spirit of God is in you; we shld not justify a mistake which is forbidden even by God ; Remeber the judgement is there and cant be removed from book of judgement ; the commandment says do not practice adultery
@mildredkhajidis9158Ай бұрын
Very true dear
@AlitubeeraSylvialwaki2 ай бұрын
Wonderful message truly, i have ever used these tricks and they worked for me
@Realtor-Tina2 ай бұрын
This is so unfair what if he infects you with hiv😢you are with him all in the name of marriage
@pamelanamayi30642 ай бұрын
Exactly, all the time u still waiting for him to understand, HIV boom 🤯🤯
@lucygeorgewairimu51362 ай бұрын
At this point u can't be intimate with him
@marthamutua19222 ай бұрын
Best punishment LEAVE !!.before he brings you all the skunk from outside !!
@gbonjukola-balogun13622 ай бұрын
May God help us women o
@loladeyetunde5536Ай бұрын
Some women dey take things I knew of someone who her husband has been cheating years back even before I married till now the woman is still there and the man refuse to change till tomorrow,and the way thus woman carry him for head,even this man went extra miles to the extent of sleeping with his friend daughter and they dated till the lady got married,there is no how to handle a man who cheats as far as am concerned
@misslovedee16882 ай бұрын
I wish I knew this some years ago, very informative 👏🏾
@gracelubanga974Ай бұрын
The tips work absolutely 💯. They worked for me
@dhiziri59365 ай бұрын
I have subscribed. I have learnt a lot today. I am in Harare Zimbabwe
@우간다-v4yАй бұрын
Wow.....wow....wow wonderful. I love that sharing. God bless u so so much.
@Royhauya-uw2kr2 ай бұрын
The solution does not lie in punishing but in counseling based on facts.
@PatriciaMcCann-or7co2 ай бұрын
If I hadn’t texted his GF and asked what was the nature of her relationship with my husband, to get silence in return, he’d still be denying it. I will never regret doing that. I had to know the truth, and he was never going to tell that to me. So I bent too low.
@samsam2409Ай бұрын
Good job ❤
@karin-blueberrytravel63594 ай бұрын
I need a part two of this series
@OkehGreat17 күн бұрын
Very very True, words of wisdom 👍👍
@nancykisia49602 ай бұрын
Mine asked me to invite him with the lady for a conversation. I told him am not part of their love affair. I dropped it and since then 2017,he can't fulfil his conjugal rites. He never sleeps out,but I zipped my mouth and shut myself. Our relation ends at the grave.I have a better husband,my lord.
@Bintimrembo-y1v2 ай бұрын
Why block your glory on this earth over a useless man?? Divorce in the Bible is only permissible if either partner engages in an adulterous relationship outside of marriage. The more he sleeps with women, he connects you with souls, severe that bondage!!
@anitatumusiime83232 ай бұрын
Have not understood
@syntabelle2 ай бұрын
She is no longer sleeping with him
@syntabelle2 ай бұрын
She is no longer sleeping with him
@syntabelle2 ай бұрын
She is no longer sleeping with him
@tarirochimheno15342 ай бұрын
People differ for some it works and for some it will make things worse but if he fear God he will not do it coz God is everywhere
@ja92932 ай бұрын
Once a cheater always a cheater
@ifeomasandra6086Ай бұрын
Absolutely.
@euklinebayid7443Ай бұрын
@@ifeomasandra6086not true
@mabalacholamapoma352722 күн бұрын
I believe that too
@Ebi-NdieHanniBisongonohАй бұрын
No tears for a narcissistic person
@tayeakins4160Ай бұрын
That cry is a no no for me
@angelamagwaro90042 ай бұрын
That was me never commented or asked I would continue with my life as if nothing was happening. It ate him up at times he would say please hit me hard and would say I don't have the time for that.
@jescahmuhongo482 ай бұрын
It's true,he closed my business and am a housewife.Now i know
@janetwendy-rb1pt2 ай бұрын
Same thing happened to me
@okokhuetina822Ай бұрын
A man closes ur business, and you allow it? You women really give the men inur lives the right to really do noonsense. He has no right whatsoever to close ur business.
@toyinarigbabuwo183720 күн бұрын
Please talk about distance relationships and how to deal with cheating man
@shakiraameen8001Ай бұрын
Amen mr advicer now you are talking cut the reasonces i like it. Am on the same situation now
@zeeonlineworld3 ай бұрын
Sounds like he's saying the truth about how to deal with men. But, women need patience in deploying these tactics.
@mankamathilda7593Ай бұрын
Sir I cought my own husband with multiple exhibits but he couldn't apologize.He was with more than one woman out there.When I cut off the benefits started accusing me of having Men outside him.Until his sister's sister in law came serving him food on my table to my husband😢😮 absurd right.
@nunugavhi475028 күн бұрын
They're supporting what he's doing and if it happens to them they won't clap hands and dance
@evemasibo8009Ай бұрын
Exactly ave got some points from the this topic that's what i did to my husband when he married another woman n yet there's no proper care at home n he used to praise the other woman what i did i started doing some of those things no sex until i left his home but i thank God that now he wants me to
@gracesattafornah33152 ай бұрын
Some men even if u cut off extra pleasure he will never change from cheating. Some men just have cheating in their DNA
@kwaneledamoyi23472 ай бұрын
Exactly I can wash my clothes as long you still check for children's
@Zoleka-o1m14 күн бұрын
Mine has never apologized though I've caught him a number of times, this time has told me that he's going to call a lawyer so we can sign for an open relationship, I told him it can never happen, by the way I do no longer cook for him & if I go out I spend the whole day @ the mall & find him sitting in the couch waiting for me 😂😂😂
@mankamathilda7593Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the teachings.Very
@SalomeNdjamba21 күн бұрын
True no shouting, facts and option.
@MadilloLitsoane2 ай бұрын
I'm in the process of divorce because of cheating. Man don't change we have 3 children 20yrs of marriage 😢😢
@ShiruwaAnn057Ай бұрын
If you stayed for 20yrs,why giveup now
@ayerinsarahoseyemi4376Ай бұрын
Please, don't give up. I will advise you follow the points listed here and you will smile at the end, May God help you Sis
@sabosuleiman4016Ай бұрын
My friend please don't dissolve that marriage, Jesus never threw us away despite cheatings,we have had done to Him
@okekechinwe-c4cАй бұрын
Pls , no divorce especially if ur d one pushing, ignore , be happy , look good for urself. Pray for ur healing & peace of mind
@TillimorАй бұрын
@@ShiruwaAnn057Its her choice,she has taken it all and she can't take it no more.
@Flo-j9h2 ай бұрын
I got my husband with multiple facts, receipts, l, phone calls, but he never apologized.
@eghagheoyemwen6866Күн бұрын
Wow I really appreciate dis points
@skylarwaweru4852Ай бұрын
If a man cheat the good weapon is to be very smart dress well eat well and dont Show him that you re up Set yes you can feel but havea boy friend somewhere,and after few yrs move on
@GotoworkkkАй бұрын
The best weapon is divorce papers!!!!
@emmymutama23943 күн бұрын
Skylar, what kind of advice is this? Are. you Jezebel ama?
@skylarwaweru48522 күн бұрын
Mind your head youre jezebel not me
@skylarwaweru48522 күн бұрын
And dont write me am not your Husband
@emmymutama2394Күн бұрын
@@skylarwaweru4852 May GOD ALMIGHTY deliver you.
@GloryBisong3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing 🙏 God bless you
@RoseKungaOnyango2 ай бұрын
I like the facts, good teachings
@FunmiSusan-k4zАй бұрын
My own does not come home again. He abandoned i and the kids completely.
@rittandlovu2 ай бұрын
Caught my husband last year around November BT still today I don't know how to deal with it it's hurt so much
@VictoriaMgambo13 күн бұрын
Thanks for your advice❤
@ColletaChikokoАй бұрын
It only works for those who are financially stable
@kendinancy54202 ай бұрын
Very true they don't want you working am victim,i give him extra attention and no changes
@AmrutaShivrajKhande27 күн бұрын
i just got this video very late. i already left my house wit my child. I am tired of his lies, ignorance,drink, spending money out. do you have any suggestion for money.
@KellyLoveth-so4tc2 ай бұрын
Wow I love this God bless you sir
@TaffieMucheriАй бұрын
Thanks for a powerful teaching.
@ritakunnunmal42262 ай бұрын
Kick the cheaters out of your life. Divorce him.
@welisanerich53763 ай бұрын
Just file for divorce… this is not worth it
@secretofLifebyLadym.e2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@okokhuetina822Ай бұрын
Abi ooo😂😂😂
@Shehrry6615 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@winfrendambuki59142 ай бұрын
I once tried going out as he says, weeeee the beating i got is still fresh 10years+ down the line. And that's how it ended. It depends on personality
@lydiagichana42102 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@hildainziani71472 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂sorry but thats funny
@rombanilondwa44882 ай бұрын
Tell your friends not to try this at home
@msfubby9372Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂. It's funny. But it shows that he really didnt like you. So its better it ended.
@ElizabethKachinaАй бұрын
May God bless you man A man like you are scares
@UwinfАй бұрын
Some men who make sure you never be close to his phone! There is no way to have facts on messages
@ferialkhadaroo6869Ай бұрын
God open All doors.
@hannahappiah9770Ай бұрын
I tell you,mine comes home once a wk from work and he doesn’t use a smartphone unless I contact the lady
@gladyswealth5.Ай бұрын
😂😂check the phone when he sleeps.you will see facts
@valeriebyrd702 ай бұрын
Let him come home to cold like a freezer 😆😆😆
@Kenyan_RN19 күн бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅😅
@OmoAmechi3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I just subscribed
@ajibadeadeola9404Ай бұрын
This man is me because these were exactly what I did when my man was womanising. And he came back to his senses.
@modupebakare-urey9627Ай бұрын
Sure a man is family oriented, this do not apply to a covert narcissist.
@ofisheaghogho934317 күн бұрын
But he may still be doing it hidden you won't know.
@rachmulonga3999Ай бұрын
So true, i did what he said.And it works.
@PriscillaPamelaOppongАй бұрын
Thanks Rev. 👍 good tips 👌
@julianakamau5834Ай бұрын
He will jump and still comes down, the law of gravity still works on him
@KehindeTemitopeBamigbade4 күн бұрын
Wow wow wow these tips are topnotch very very true💞💐
@lovenessmashingaidze20522 ай бұрын
Spot on!! Well done...
@dalitsowanephiri4112 ай бұрын
Even with facts, hard-core evidence he'll deny...I don't know will be a reply.
@mwesigwahopenamukobefloran912 ай бұрын
It's true, u have to be smart always He will change thanks bro, be blessed
@ruthanyaka7965Ай бұрын
Some men accept yet they are not ready to change
@mankamathilda7593Ай бұрын
Not at all
@favourjanet499023 күн бұрын
I have one and I did all these things you said, still instead he became worst, am the one even providing for the family something times he not even sleep home, if you ask him he will lie
@munaberyl2 ай бұрын
Mine is never bothered with my tears,infact he will not even ask, zero emotions
@msfubby9372Ай бұрын
Start planning your exit. And if you choose not to leave, then harden your heart and focus on you and yoir children.
@mwachofi5 ай бұрын
Kindly do one on how to punish a cheating wife.
@janetfoluke94262 ай бұрын
Divorce is the only answer they have to that 😢
@yaneliswakhoza5901Ай бұрын
@@janetfoluke9426 😂😂😂 with immediate effect
@TillimorАй бұрын
@@janetfoluke9426That's unfair
@halliebie69Ай бұрын
No need. Once she is cheating, she has cut u off emotionally. I advise u leave if not u may die of heart attack.
@gladyswealth5.Ай бұрын
How did she start to cheat?
@anenematola77155 күн бұрын
Let him find the home as cold as a freezer😂
@Lucy-qo8uy14 күн бұрын
3yrs in marriage but the man is a cheater ,we have one baby ,,am in depression what should i do any advice
@MatildahDenguАй бұрын
Eish I should have learnt this way back, feel its too late