How My Igbo Nigerian Parents Accepted My Ghanaian Husband

[@GodsonChinwendu-lh1gd]

Thanks for sharing. I am also Igbo from Nigeria dating a very great Ghanaian. We’re planning on getting married and i don’t even know how to go about it. I’m already exhausted even before starting 😢

[@chrisb4629]

Wow, so much to learn from your story especially the prayers you and your husband had. Stay blessed and you’ve won a new subscriber. Great story. For your information I’m Ghanaian in us and my best friend is Nigerian.

[@rosemaryasiamah783]

Had the same challenge. I'm Ghanaian and my husband is Nigerian. My mum took longest to accept it...some of the toughest months of my life to be honest. But we're happily married now and living in the UK

[@user-bs5qr5ie4s]

Tell me your experience in a multi cultural relationship And what finally convinced your mom to accept it Please let me know

[@zigibeat3689]

Akani ba paa!! Aah!! Who have birth to you?

[@Experience_Wellness_With_Sophy]

Just came across your video and it's inspiring.. Dating a Ghanaian as well but it's be struggles, especially his family refusing he marries a Nigerian. I say Amen to your testimony and pray it happens to us too cos I love him alot.

[@Africaly_]

Looks like my head girl in high school, Command day secondary school in Kaduna. I'm a Ghanaian born in Nigeria, and i'm really glad you found love in my country. You made the right choice and i wish you all the heavens best. Good job👍🏾❤

[@pamela_ofuani]

It all ended in praise! I so love your story!

[@EdwardOduku]

I am a Ghanaian in London Your marriage story is inspiring I love you all and I ask God blessings you and husband

[@donnashreeingti1597]

Thank you so much for sharing this story. Studying abroad and finding someone special is so beautiful, I've also met a special someone and we are both undergrads. He's somone I can see spending my rest of the life with even tho he's my 1st serious relationship. Idk how I'll convince my parents cuz he's chinese but he recently told me that he told about us to his mom and his mom approves us omg I'm gonna cry 😳😭

[@Brown6031]

I say, aaaamen, I am not dating. I am Caribbean, but I love African culture, food clothes, and as 1st choice would want to marry a Nigerian 2nd Ghanian, but God's will is perfect

[@tamunoenebelema4796]

Oh Chidera thank you so much for this video, I am currently in this situation right now, in love with a Ghanaian, we met here in the UK and just like you on a dating app, I am literally scared and skeptical about the relationship cause he wants something serious and I don’t know how to relate it to my family. I for one hasn’t accepted it that I am involved with someone outside my Nationality. Thanks so much for this. God bless you

[@Jaay2022]

Help us invite Mr. Jason to share his side of the story ...

[@afia6935]

Our sister in-law please accept our request ❤

[@emmanuellaamara1876]

This video is so emotional to me because I am Ada too imagine being away from home... I cried 😭 as I watch how you were able to convince your parents.

[@jerrytema872]

God bless you my Dear, wish you all the best.

[@user-bs5qr5ie4s]

I can see why he dated u Ur gorgeous 🇬🇭🇳🇬am seeing More and more Ghana Nigerian couples in uk

[@clairelast6723]

For those asking for Jason's side of the story. I think Chidera did a video of that. At that time Jason was still carrying his dreads. Chidera actually fought it and tried calling the relationship off at a time, but she couldn't stand it and she had to give up. So happy for you Chidera may your union continue to grow in love.

[@klaw1425]

May almighty Allah bless your marriage aameen my dearest sister in law

[@EstellM]

Parent's concerns are always valid, I get it. They have the right to be concerned. I was like you. Marriage was the last thing on my mind. I grew up n England 14-23. I was 23. I had a fab job! I was independent, so when I said I was getting married, everyone was just sooo shocked that I said I was getting married! My mum was always afraid that I was not interested and that noone would want to marry a UK educated Pharmacist!! Hehe! I married a full blown Ibo man, born and bred while this girl did not know how to make a decent ofe!! Now though, my eldest is 26 and I am understanding the concerns. We talk about it often, We talk about the challenges of mixed cultural and race mariages. I am so scared to be honest! I get palpitations sometimes! I am hoping that God will feel sorry for me and us and make it easy!! SO if your parents are concerned, I hope whoever reads this will undersatnd! They want the best.. Boys are the real problem! Your parents were phenomenal! Wishing you two the very best! Thanks for sharng!

[@Jaay2022]

Amen. Parents' concern is from a place of love

[@FavourBabajamu]

So true. Parents’ concerns are always valid.

[@klaw1425]

Blessings to you

[@asiedu2869]

All Africans hv similar cultures and tradions..So,culture differences shouldn't be a problem at all..

[@EstellM]

@@asiedu2869 n Nope! That is not the case! I am Igbo, out our culture is not similar to the Yorubas or Hausas. So not true. Even within Igbo land there are differences that could be problematic. Best!

[@RoselynOsakweRobert]

Hmmmm like this now am in this same situation he his a Ghanaian and am a Nigerian. He is talking marriage I have hinted my parent my dad is cool buh my mum is like “ I no get pikin way dey lost”😮 hmmmm . Anyways she will finally believe when he comes from SA to Nigeria 🇳🇬 lolzzz waiting to see my mums expression 😂

[@bernardappiah3074]

Your parents concern were valid

[@moroabdulkarim2143]

Marriage is blessing 'I wish you happy enjoyment married

[@Maa_meAfua]

Yes, Go did it!🎉

[@senaopoku6153]

Chidera Peters note today down.... Will explain later

[@foyinlolasworld6072]

Thank you for sharing 😊

[@godwinejiofor8064]

I dont think it is because he is Ghanian but because he is not an igbo. Igbo parents are the most tribalists in Nigeria if your husband is a Nigerian and not igbo it will be the same. You are Ada and it is very difficult for them to marry their Ada to non Igbo.

[@novemberchizurumoke9556]

Yoruba parents are the most tribalistic.

[@SijiDavies]

@@novemberchizurumoke9556 ah no fa

[@afrafraasempa6357]

Always Igbo’s feeling superior over Ghanaian because we once came hustling in Nigeria and jolloff afrobeats etc and so how many Ghanaian married to Nigerians are making videos like this

[@GiftMichael-ii8wp]

Your stupidity made you to forget that Nigerian were the first to go to Ghana.and was chased out by Ghana during Biafare war

[@Eda-j5t]

Ooh my God how do i even tell my parents I'm getting married 😂😂😂 it's soo awkward😂😂😂

[@Jaay2022]

My people come online, another tori don land

[@dejideji2720]

hey chi, there is telegram closed group you advertised for on your page, i applied but have not gotten any response or may be ii is not the rigt thing i applied for, do kindly reach out. Thanks

[@sourcestvghuk9897]

Beautiful ❤❤❤😊😊😊

[@ajibade_christabel]

13 lol Thank you for sharing

[@opeyemiayeni]

Amen

[@niiadu1983]

Even the Ghana igbo king is married to Ghanaian.

[@rebeccaemeka]

And ?! Must Igbo parents want their kids to Igbo’s not Ghanaians so it’s understandable she struggled

[@eugenestrilchuk3817]

Awon amuni buni

[@deborah7830]

I hope the Ghanaian man treat you well.

[@Jaay2022]

Chi baby my mouth is scratching me to say something but I zip my mouth for now. I wish I wish...

[@ChideraPeters]

Oh please talk 😅

[@sourcestvghuk9897]

😊😊

[@Elldrop1]

Every man's fear coming in 😅

[@eugenestrilchuk3817]

Na igbos people dey make Ghanaia dey disrespect us and I just taya for them, Go to their market na Igbos people dem dey chase up and down fools

[@lilybaby4762]

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[@Jaay2022]

Welcome lily baby

[@elvisasante2479]

If he were a white man, would your parents have taken so long to accept your decision?. Am a Ghanaian and did not support intercultural marriage but after some deep reflections I have come to accept it.

[@GiftMichael-ii8wp]

Yes they will. The problem is tribe not race. I know of an Igbo parent who gave testimony in church because her daughter broke up with a white and she's marrying a Nigerian. The problem to her was she sees whites as people who doesn't know God but Nigerian men knows God the most😂😂😂. That's her mentality. But I pity her cause Nigerian men are the worst 😂😂😂.

[@Jaay2022]

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[@ChideraPeters]

Welcome Jamila ♥️♥️

[@ugonnaya___]

No 3 😁

[@ChideraPeters]

Good to see you here!♥️