How We Split House Chores and Roles In Our Marriage

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Chidera Peters

Chidera Peters

Жыл бұрын

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@xploredi3343
@xploredi3343 Жыл бұрын
I have been married for 6years. My husband does the laundry(his, mine and our kids),hovering, taking the trash out, washing the bathroom , drop off and pick up the kids, putting the kids to sleep and I do the cooking, groceries, plates and getting the kids ready for the day. 6years and the routine is same. We never talked about splitting the roles. It just happened.
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
Love that for you
@WordsPictures997
@WordsPictures997 Жыл бұрын
"whoever can does, whoever sees acts" THIS!!! LOUDER!!!
@reecebowen1362
@reecebowen1362 10 ай бұрын
That’s amazing, feels like I do everything around my house, wash dishes, cook clean be a mom, go to school then go to work!
@nikereebokpuma3406
@nikereebokpuma3406 Ай бұрын
If I was your brother, I do ALL of your chores and let you take all the credit so you get paid/praised for them. Id clean up ALL of your messes and if you have friends over...I would clean their mess also! When you do something wrong, I would take blame for it so you dont get in trouble! Id do all of your homework so you can do what you want to do! I would never argue with you! When we are both home....Id wait on you hand and foot....you would never have to lift a finger!
@universaltutor2203
@universaltutor2203 Ай бұрын
thanks for citing "the Purpose and Power of Love and Marriage", I will also grab a copy
@chisimdi
@chisimdi Жыл бұрын
First of all, thank you for joining Jason. Chidera I enjoy watching you both. It’s not hard to see what great people you both are!
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching too ❣️
@pimpnamedslickback7780
@pimpnamedslickback7780 9 ай бұрын
Thank you. I tell people this all the time it’s just about working as a team. People get so focused on roles for each gender rather than everyone just doing their part
@etormefa
@etormefa Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jason and Chidera
@GinaDanielTV
@GinaDanielTV Жыл бұрын
You guys are so cute. Such good example of godly couple. More bliss to you guys. Love the way he looks at you😂🥰
@TakidaJ
@TakidaJ 6 ай бұрын
It's him encouraging the princess treatment 😂
@AdemGlory
@AdemGlory Жыл бұрын
I loved seeing Jason here. And I absolutely loved the video! ❤
@uskdivalious
@uskdivalious Жыл бұрын
Lovely and hilarious video. Well done to you both 👏 👍 ❤
@OgochukwuAnunobi
@OgochukwuAnunobi Жыл бұрын
This was beautiful. My husband and I also made a list of roles typed it out and saved it on our drive. It's been almost a year and a lot of things have changed. Just like you said, nothing is set in stone and so some roles have changed 😅. God bless supportive men jare
@amarachiikwuagwu6921
@amarachiikwuagwu6921 Жыл бұрын
I love this conversation
@preciousauta642
@preciousauta642 Жыл бұрын
Lovely video, I just kept smiling 😊😂
@GracefullyKaren
@GracefullyKaren Жыл бұрын
Great video 🥁. This topic is very essential. I love doing chores especially washing dishes and sweeping. I love to serve others. It’s a joy to my soul 😊. Finding balance is key. Thank you for sharing 🥁
@kwameopoku3576
@kwameopoku3576 6 ай бұрын
Why do FRESH AFRICANS like to serve ppl baffles me
@maguajebeauty5025
@maguajebeauty5025 Жыл бұрын
Luv both of u. More Grace.
@faithabraham6762
@faithabraham6762 Жыл бұрын
Beautifully couple, educational content. Thumbs up
@OluwaChidimma.
@OluwaChidimma. Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed every bit!!
@eledumaresmasterpiece
@eledumaresmasterpiece Жыл бұрын
It’s the way he looks at you for me💜 And red lippy suits you so well 🥰
@OgochukwuAnunobi
@OgochukwuAnunobi Жыл бұрын
Everything you said 💯
@auntyjayne
@auntyjayne Жыл бұрын
You guys are soo cute🥰🥰 I enjoyed this video in particular!
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
Awww thank you so much Aunty Jayne 😁♥️☺️❣️
@chisomchukwudolue9774
@chisomchukwudolue9774 Жыл бұрын
Very knowledgeable video. Part 2 please 🙏🏽
@onyinyechukwu2610
@onyinyechukwu2610 5 ай бұрын
Amazing dynamics, lovely how everything is deliberate.
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
@PreciousNgdarl
@PreciousNgdarl Жыл бұрын
Love this video ❤️❤️
@olartiife
@olartiife Жыл бұрын
Chidera, you look so pretty, as always ☺️…love the top and lip colour combo 🥰
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
Awww thank you for acknowledging my effort o 😂☺️
@oduwaimade6037
@oduwaimade6037 Жыл бұрын
Y'all are lovely....
@BlizaMichael
@BlizaMichael 6 ай бұрын
I learnt something new today difference between Response ability and responsibility.
@TakidaJ
@TakidaJ 6 ай бұрын
Love this 😂❤
@FavourBabajamu
@FavourBabajamu Жыл бұрын
This was fun to watch. 06:53 had me😂😂😂🤣
@dianaaddoagyemang1231
@dianaaddoagyemang1231 Жыл бұрын
Aaaaaw Chidera🥰🥰🥰
@Awhobiwom
@Awhobiwom Жыл бұрын
Sidebar: This hair and makeup looks so so good on you!
@rachealmaxwell1232
@rachealmaxwell1232 Жыл бұрын
Chidera you look stunning 😍
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
Awww thanks Racheal ☺️♥️
@ontlametsetirelo4146
@ontlametsetirelo4146 Жыл бұрын
Love you guys.
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
Aww thank youuu
@preciousokhifoh-pz6sy
@preciousokhifoh-pz6sy Жыл бұрын
You are married to a good man
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Omahness
@Omahness Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed watching this ..And Chidera you look so pretty 🥹😍…’I love cooking’ sounded so weird😂
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
lol fish 😂
@chiomaanaeze2535
@chiomaanaeze2535 Жыл бұрын
I am loving this boogie personality...😂
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
😌☺️
@Coco-to5jj
@Coco-to5jj 4 ай бұрын
I do the laundry, dishes, take the bins out, washing, cleaning toilets, paint, wash the car, look after the kids, pick n send them from school most of the time, and work full time. Please tell me what to do? As my husband doesnt want to help any of these chores apart from changing light bulbs, mow the lawn, after i nag that the grass and weeds are too long and work full time. And complain to me when i do things wrong. Please tell me as im feel like killing myself. When i ask him nicely to help me he will bring all the things he has done for the family and why i should not talk rude to him and raise my voice
@Brown6031
@Brown6031 Жыл бұрын
Hello Chidera and Jason
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
Hiiiii
@dorcasnelson-isibor1619
@dorcasnelson-isibor1619 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple.Glad to see you two happy. But I differ in my opinion. Marriage isn't roleless. Roles aren't bad, even traditional ones. Its just that switching roles should be as situation demands. Great video😊
@Jaay2022
@Jaay2022 Жыл бұрын
First here 🎉❤ Welcome back Mr. Jason I love clean toilets but I don’t like toilet cleaning 😢
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
Lol you get it!😂
@foyinlolasworld6072
@foyinlolasworld6072 Жыл бұрын
Chidera didn't do her signature BYE-BYE 😁😁
@Brown6031
@Brown6031 Жыл бұрын
Ever popping chidera this girl is always popping
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
Aww thank youuuu
@globalblessingirabor
@globalblessingirabor Жыл бұрын
I almost said the same thing. Your personal stylist is Bombbb I will love his/her contact to help with mine when the time is set
@julietaugustine695
@julietaugustine695 6 ай бұрын
Chai chidera, Ina achakpodo this man. He's just like yeah yeah to everything you say. He's the agreeable one. You are lucky,. Land a Nigerian man and you will be as quiet as a man.
@JolaoluwajoannaOwootomo
@JolaoluwajoannaOwootomo Жыл бұрын
I loveeeeeeee you both, chidera’s energy is so unmatched. The bougue part😅😅😅😅
@momentswithfreda6962
@momentswithfreda6962 Жыл бұрын
Nice video . And ur beauty is 🎉 I must add, Jason is lucky or should I say you are meant for each other
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
Awwww stop making me blush 🤭☺️
@kwameopoku3576
@kwameopoku3576 6 ай бұрын
Jason is not lucky he can pull prettier babes
@uz8233
@uz8233 Жыл бұрын
I love your hair. Please, where/who did you buy it from? Thank you.
@disruptingthestatusquo
@disruptingthestatusquo Жыл бұрын
This was funny 😆 to watch. I like your thumbnail which software did you use for the icons on your thumbnail?
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
I use Canva to create my thumbnails and thank you
@disruptingthestatusquo
@disruptingthestatusquo Жыл бұрын
@@ChideraPeters thank you!
@Shnug946
@Shnug946 5 ай бұрын
Wow. I’m married to myself 😢
@Brown6031
@Brown6031 Жыл бұрын
It's me and my boys and do most of it🙆🏿‍♀️🙆🏿‍♀️ Jason, did your parent taught you how to clean wash room? My boys 23 and 17 has their own and I have mine in my room however I still wash both
@kwameopoku3576
@kwameopoku3576 6 ай бұрын
Teach u not taught u speak better please
@chisimdi
@chisimdi Жыл бұрын
What is this camera quality? Shishhh!!! 🔥
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
Hehehehehe 🤭
@Nubi1321
@Nubi1321 7 ай бұрын
So do you cook Nigerian food for him or Ghanaian food?
@kimberlyosse
@kimberlyosse 5 ай бұрын
Funny
@kimberlyosse
@kimberlyosse 5 ай бұрын
Lol 😂😂😂
@Brown6031
@Brown6031 Жыл бұрын
1st
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters Жыл бұрын
Thanks for showing up ♥️♥️
@moselc09
@moselc09 5 ай бұрын
I’m sending this to my man so he isn’t soooo shocked when he starts sharing the load!
@foyinlolasworld6072
@foyinlolasworld6072 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Chidera ❤😊 I love this topic 😊 everyone is contributing their quota according to their ability I'm learning ❤
@Hoppylizzy
@Hoppylizzy Жыл бұрын
I can see the glow of P! Congratulations 😘
@CHIDOMINICA
@CHIDOMINICA Жыл бұрын
its not everything your eyes see your mouth would say.. you don't know what people are facing... give them a break to make announcements by themselves
@OgochukwuAnunobi
@OgochukwuAnunobi Жыл бұрын
Honestly. I totally dislike it when people do this. She might be, she might not even be but it's up to her to announce when she's ready and not for subscribers to congratulate her into spilling the beans. I rest!
@Hoppylizzy
@Hoppylizzy Жыл бұрын
What does P means to you pls? It means Precious for me. Stop assuming anything for anyone, it is so wrong 😡
@Hoppylizzy
@Hoppylizzy Жыл бұрын
@@CHIDOMINICA I said P! Are you Pained or Provoked? Pls choose your P
@taebrown384
@taebrown384 9 ай бұрын
Fundamentally marriage does have roles! God created men a certain way and women a different way. Roles are not bad. Women generally are better at certain things eg breast feeding. Need I say more. Even in this video you both gravitate to certain things.
@kellysidney7395
@kellysidney7395 Жыл бұрын
OGA 😂😂 sorry i might sound somehow to some people but as a man black man for that matter sorry i am not doing all those things and still pay more of the bills and still sponsor you come uk bye bro breakfast dey wait for you lol 😂😂😂
@Juni_River
@Juni_River Жыл бұрын
Do what works for you
@faithabraham6762
@faithabraham6762 Жыл бұрын
Beautifully couple, educational content. Thumbs up
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