HOW MY LOW BUY CHANGED MY LIFE | HOW TO STOP SHOPPING 💸

[@Christinamychas]

Are you planning to do a Low Buy this 2020? What will yours look like? Xo

[@annloftus2141]

I feel inspired by your honesty. It is tough to stick to some goals.

[@AvaTheAdventurer]

I have noticed in myself an urge to shop every time I don’t like my appearance and a belief that new, better clothes will bring the confidence I’m looking for and will make me feel beautiful. Clothes can have that effect, but I’ll never be satisfied until I work on being satisfied with my appearance first. So I’m trying a low buy until my birthday in May and I’ll pursue counseling and fitness in the meantime!

[@58iksnaS]

I will definitely keep no buy year in 2020. I have splurged over 3700 euros to one single online store this year. If I have spend that much only to one online store, how much I've spent all together this year, if I count all my online purchases... I really do need some shopping detox! I have used shopping as an escape from stress and encountering difficult situations. I need to face my fears and take responsibility, like finish my degree and after that try to make progress on my career. Your vlog has confirmed my decision to keep no buy year, so a big thanks to you Christina! 💖 I really do hope that you continue making videos, especially about outfits and possibly about capsule wardrobe. I wish you all the best! 💖 Best Regards, Sanna from Finland 🇫🇮

[@joannamaxwell7636]

I knew I needed to do this and keep having intentions. Having seen this and giving it a name makes me feel more motivated. I am impulsive and emotional when shopping. My goal is to do this in 2020 your video has made me feel less anxious about it taking time! It's a journey not a punishment x

[@Christinamychas]

Joanna Maxwell couldn’t have said it better ❤️

[@shadesofsky5109]

“Too much month left at the end of the money” felt that lol.

[@Christinamychas]

Haha I can’t take credit for that one - that’s tried and true Dave Ramsey jargon 🤗😂

[@kathleenbarron7654]

Not coveting things is a powerful spiritual freedom. You’ve overcome the world’s view on consumerism. That’s amazing!

[@Casscapri]

True!!!

[@33Jenesis]

I don’t think I have a shopping problem because I save money, have no consumer debt, and always find incredible bargains. However, I realize that I constantly find excuses to buy something. If I said no clothes, I’d move on to kitchen stuff. I just bought a portable generator and a solar penal. My area never has power outage and I’ve not done a camping trip in 6 years. YT brought your low buy video to my front page. I listened to your story and realized that I do have a shopping problem, regardless if it affects my finance or not. I am going to stick to no shopping in 2020. I have enough shoes, outfits, craft/art supplies, and skincare to last me 5 years honestly. The high I get from finding and buying incredible bargains is false and never lasts. The cycle is not going to end unless I do something about it.

[@PlzCa1mDown]

Jen 33 I am literally the EXACT same way. It is so scary how I will convince myself I need this or that. I have no debt and live comfortably, but instead of saving TONS of money, I only save a little of it and find reasons to spend the rest. How are you doing on your No buy?

[@NiesLife]

I completely relate.. I'm save invest and don't have consumer debt. Yet I feel like I never have what I want and constantly find an excuse to buy something. Skincare, clothes, kitchen and household, gifts to family members I'm not seeing till next year. This is a new issue for me.. I wasn't like this until recently. My low buy year starts today

[@noireknight3013]

Yes i feel the same urges to spend.i thought i was over that.

[@lookingatdaisies9901]

This is me and I only realised after a forced time of being broke, that I could have saved more, just because I had savings doesn't mean the rest of the money was going to good things.

[@starbuggle]

I can relate 100%. I actually swore off buying clothes for 3 years and felt really good about it, but then I went to get new jeans and ended up picking up a whole bunch of other clothes (that were nice, and that I did end up wearing a lot, but honestly didn't need). And that started this whole spiral of looking for more things to buy. The power of spending "therapy" is insane! I am rooting for you and for me too - here's to more intentional buys and more savings 🙏🏽

[@Courtney6]

I’ve done low/no buy for almost 3 years now. I just bought myself 2 new shirts, the first clothing items I’ve bought for myself in over 2 years!

[@Christinamychas]

Amaaaaazing!!!

[@ajen1270]

Wow!!!!!

[@carlypickard4962]

That’s incredible!!

[@miryreina925]

Wow!! Bravooo! Make a video ans teach us!

[@Courtney6]

Miry Reina Thank you! I should think about it 😅

[@chercher4679]

I bought so many clothes this year to mask that I hate my body. Every item I buy is to make me feel better and then I’m still sad afterwards. 2020 I’m focusing on changing myself so I don’t need new clothes for self esteem.

[@Ramya519]

So relate to this.

[@MyLifeInTheDesert]

I do the same thing but with jewelry not clothes

[@gerlindelang]

o man can i relate!

[@olagerta8199]

Therapy?

[@rach5516]

This is me completely x

[@josephinewinter]

i realised i'm sick of my greed, that's why i want to stop shopping, just constant munch munch munch want want want, not food but things, greed greed greed, it's just like being a mindless stomach instead of a heart and brain

[@Sistacurls]

“Bought stuff on the toilet!” Yep. Guilty too. Love your honestly and frankness. You’re inspiring me to get a handle on my own emotional shopping. Thank you for sharing.

[@Christinamychas]

💩💩 yup 😅 - thank you! And I’m so honored you’re inspired!

[@GwenMotoGirl]

Same here!

[@temporarilyblond]

I’m planning a lowbuy for 2020, at the moment I’m the person you were last year, I hope to be the person you are now in 1 year’s time.

[@Stillworking1]

Mara R I am exactly the same 🙌

[@cristinamagurean]

Mara R Same here!!!!!! Good luck!!!

[@SimoneS1000]

I have been watching a lot of videos about decluttering, organising and minimising. However you made me realise that my focus needs to be on not buying crap in the first place! Thank you for this video and your openness.

[@carlairons3573]

I’m so proud of you. I use to shop to ignore loneliness.

[@Angelized1st]

I feel like you're reading my mind! Shopping is how I deal with stress and depression. I now have so much clutter, things I don't need, and no savings. I'm planning a no buy year for 2020, to rewire my thinking. Your videos are inspiring.

[@olagerta8199]

I think that cognitive-behavioral therapy would help you with depression.

[@marionkine]

I just discovered your channel. I'm french, 44 years old, and started a more minimalist way of living (moving, ending a long and toxic relationship, working on re-finding my own self ...) I used to be a makeup addict and buy everything i would find beautiful. I ended owning more than i could ever put on my face and it made me feel very guilty and anxious. So i first stopped buying makeup. And then i felt the need to own only what i really loved and used, for personal and environmental reasons. I feel better this way. I feel true to myself and love it although it's not all a bed of roses. I will still buy only what i really need, mostly second hand. Thank you for your honesty around the impulse of buying 🙏

[@yoritrance]

I agree with you, especially on the makeup and skin care products. I’m sure many women are in this situation. The industry is making us believe we “need” a lot of products to be beautiful. But many can be replaced with more natural or homemade alternatives.

[@marionkine]

@@yoritrance to me it was more like "it's so beautiful, so unique, i have to have it !" Although it doesn't really fit me, or i don't need it, or i already have something similar. Anxiety is so targeted with limited éditions too ... i never really believed in the best mascara or the anti wrinkle cream. now i can see something nice wothout feeling the need to own it

[@lindsb3541]

@@yoritrance Absolutely - many of these habits are fostered and encouraged by companies that stand to profit immensely from it. I really applaud the ability for her to take responsibility for her choices, though I do think that the crippling debt from post-secondary education (that many North American's have acquired) is unnecessary as there could be much more government investment/priority in developing education programs that build the capacity of citizens, and give them the ability to save and reinvest rather than throwing into the 'debt hole'.

[@impossiblenonsense]

My husband and I are on a no buy this year because we want to buy a house for cash at the beginning of 2021. Thank you for your inspiration!

[@likeargamanflaming940]

May you have success in your endeavor!!!

[@giuseppeapproves2822]

That is inspiring.

[@Parsleystem]

hope you made it!

[@CourtneyyMorriss]

Update please!

[@impossiblenonsense]

We did buy a house, however we did end up only paying 50% in cash.

[@druannahunt3590]

This year is going to be MY year! 2019 was the worst year of my life. I lost my father, I gained weight, my diet spiralled out of control alongside my mental and physical health. I went into major debt, I got sick a lot... I want to live a more intentional and sustainable life. I want financial freedom so I don’t feel trapped. I want to get healthy and focus on self care. I want to have a better relationship with myself as a whole, to learn and grow as well as invest my time and money on building healthy relationships with others. To explore my passions and talents, to go outside of my comfort zone. To limit my use of social media and electronics. Look out 2020, this gal is coming out of hibernation! This year I will invest in myself! Thank you for your inspirational video. It honestly has given me a lot of confidence in my goals for the new year!

[@Christinamychas]

SO MUCH YES! You can DO IT! I’m so sorry for your loss - I can’t even imagine the gap that loss makes in ones life. Make 2020 yours and keep it yours. Much love - I’m rooting for you. ❤️

[@sslilac]

I relate to your post and what you wrote got me super excited. I wish you best of luck and success on your endeavor. Stick to your goals and I'm sure you can do it 🖤

[@erikaroldan4889]

I resonate with your post on so many levels and I am here to cheer you on! You got this!!! Cheers and all the best in the new year 💛

[@carolelylewhite]

🤗

[@druannahunt3590]

Thank you everyone for all of your love and support! Look at the beautiful safe and supportive space you have created! 💕 I’m rooting for you all too! It’s amazing to know I’m not alone.

[@Aida_aj]

I've been in a low buy for almost 2 years. I only buy something new to replace something else. Many things that I use up or finish won't even get replaced because I never needed them in the first place. Instead of shopping, I've been spending my time with crocheting or knitting.

[@terrilowe3530]

I am a retired lady who is going on a journey this year to see where my money is going. Will do a low buy especially on books, clothing and skin care. Have just created a real working budget system for the first time in my life. Will hone my library skills instead of using Amazon and happy wanders in book stores. It feels kind of scary, but I know it will bring freedom and joy in the long run. I really have just discovered uTube and all you encouraging counter-cultural ladies. (And listening a little more to Dave Ramsey.) so, here we go 2020!

[@pamcamcris]

I absolutely love my library! I was still borrowing physical book then started borrowing audiobooks via CDs and listened to them while commuting and have transitioned to online borrowing through my library! Also, if you're an Amazon Prime user, they offer a free book a month so I don't even subscribe to Kindle Unlimited or Audible. I love books but don't feel the need to have to subscribe monthly just to read because hello, they're free from the library! 😁📚❤

[@gerlindelang]

so, how is it going?

[@terrilowe3530]

So much has happened since then! have been working more on getting rid of things I don't use anymore than being concerned about my budget issues.

[@user-dq2ym1nn9k]

@@terrilowe3530 Love this Terri!

[@LexiDarcel]

The part where you spoke about how much you think about shopping is exactly how I feel about eating. I would eat for any occasion for any reason pretty much all the time

[@jessicadelgado8473]

Me too, especially this year. Now, I’m eating in a more healthy way but not wanting to cook at home. It’s a work in progress!

[@hayze13]

I know I am late to the game, but this video is JUST what I needed for my life reset. I love how you focused on hobbies to add something with positive value rather than just "eliminating" shopping. It makes it much more attainable and appealing, as well. You rock!

[@annebrown3538]

I have had an epiphany, I am a spender not a saver... my New Years resolution is to flip this, thanks so much 🙏

[@prva846]

Finally, a KZbinr with substance! Your sincerity (not just in your revelations and vulnerability, but in your style of expression) are refreshing. I truly hope that you and others who relate to you aren’t too hard on yourselves...a lot of mindless consumer behaviour is dictated by greedy corporations who evangelize the shopping experience as a basic need. Sadly, we will always be bombarded by messages marketing the latest “it” thing. But like you remind us, we can take control over our finances (and our time+labor)...it’s not easy but it’s worth it.

[@lyndseynorman9366]

Buying clothes all the time was my problem too. Thank you for your encouragement, and you sound just like me! It's hard to admit that we have an addiction or that we are using something to fill a void or to mask our perceived inadequacies. That realisation is life changing though. I honestly really thought I NEEDED some of the things I've purchased in the past, but usually ended up selling them on or the novelty wore off almost immediately. I ended up with so many striped tops, white shirts etc etc because I needed the perfect one (quite funny isn't it?). I still find it difficult when I see someone looking amazing on social media though, so I am working on that. However, through minimising my spending on meaningless things I don't need, paying off the balance of my credit cards and saving properly, I have just purchased my first car with no help!! The pride I feel and the independence I will have is priceless. "if you change nothing, nothing changes' - I was feeling stuck and masked it with buying things, not realising it was perpetuating the cycle of being stuck! Thanks again from a new subscriber in the UK!

[@Christinamychas]

Lyndsey Norman that is AMAZING! Congratulations on your car purchase and coming to all these realizations. I’m so proud of you from all the way here in Toronto. You remind me of me and I’m sure a lot of us on this channel. Congratulations ❤️❤️❤️ you rock

[@panpan6222]

I am planning to do a low-buy year in 2020. Same reasons as to why you started yours. I could never work full time because of health challenges, but now that I have had my surgery, I am working a lot now. I used to be really good with not buying in excess or making myself wait, and saving money.. but once I stopped working all together I felt deprived. When I started working again, I felt like I needed to spend money on things I couldn't have when I was unemployed. I have had nothing to show for my job, that I love and put hard work into. I am a minimalist, so it made me wonder, "I am practicing minimalism in every area of my life except my finances." and I just felt this weight of 'how did I not see this?'. I mean, I should have thousands of dollars in my savings, but I don't. So this year, I'm going for it. I already had a budget and I am pretty good at it, but sometimes I don't get my paycheck right away and it hurts me bc I still spend too much. I am going to have less categories in my budget, and essentially only buy what a need with a few exceptions. I am really excited and glad that you made this video. It encourages me more that this is the right decision. xx

[@Celines8887]

I realized I had a shopping problem when I started to hate opening packages..left unopened (amazon)boxes in a room for months..just realized my issues are more emotional will evaluate what the real issues are...starting a new me!!!

[@jennyherzog9872]

I'm trying a low buy until May and my trick is making list of the things that I think I need and wait a month. After that time I usually forget about them so they were wants. I do not let myself buy duplicates or clothing that I'm not wanna wear next day (not special occasion clothing). Also I signed up for the gym and every time I need the urge to shop I just go to the gym. I love your videos, they're really expiring! Thank you for making them!

[@retiredbooknerd]

We embraced minimalism in 2017 and we continue to learn and grow from our experience. I must say, since I watch TONS of videos of this type, that this is the most heartfelt video that I have seen. I often see people that are still looking at this type of thing as some “gimmick” for views or just a way to make any video. But, I can see that it has truly been a life altering one for you. This warms my heart.😊I think that we all have so much more than we need and after a time we start to believe that we deserve it ALL! The key is learning that we are more than our “stuff.” Thanks for sharing this! I’m a new subscriber now and will be keeping up with you as you learn and grow! Happy New Year! 🎊🎆🤗

[@Christinamychas]

Retired Book Nerd omg thank you so much for this beautiful comment and for noticing ❤️❤️ I’m slowly embracing minimalism and see the value in that viewpoint on stuff and happiness - thank you so much! Congratulations on your own journey and happy new year! Xo

[@gayleritter1199]

Thank you, thank you, this has been wonderful. You've given us alternatives rather than just saying "stop". I see myself in so many of your comments. I'm looking forward to saving that shopping money. Mentally, I can see how much better I'd feel and the benefit of not shopping. Thank you again.

[@Christinamychas]

Gayle Ritter thank you gayle! ❤️❤️

[@cristinamagurean]

I just found your video and I feel it is going to change my life. I decided to go on a low buy year because I am a spender and I am sick of it. I am a new subscriber and I felt so inspired by your journey that I am decided to follow your lead. I can resonate with 90 % of what you are saying in this video...and how amazing that I just "stumbled" on your channel by accident....or not...Thank you !!!!!!

[@sandral5342]

Wow I just came across your channel and I am 7 minutes in and every single thing you’ve said I resonate with it all. Sounds like my exact situation and I too want and need to change. So happy I found this video and your channel ❤️

[@cristinamagurean]

Sandra L. My thoughts exactly!!!!

[@casenglish]

2020 is going to be my low buy year - and you have been the biggest inspiration for it. Thank you for all that you do, you’re literally changing lives ❤️

[@Christinamychas]

casenglish I’m honored and YES YOU CAN! 2020 is yours ❤️

[@aval6601]

This is my go to video when I have a moment of weakness. Thank you so much for your honesty.

[@madeleinesvensson-m3y]

My low buy year of 2020 is soon about to start! I am decluttering as I am moving on january 4th! :)

[@sherrih55]

I have been thinking about this the past 2 months and I really needed to see your video. This has been me and i have gotten out of control! Thank you so very much for taking the time to share!! I just found you and cant wait to hear more.

[@emmabown9751]

We was more careful last year spending. So much so we saved enough to pay our mortgage off early buy 9 and a half years! I am 43 and have 2 children. Budget, budget, budget and one tip is in the budgeting make sure you put 25% of your earnings away if you can. If not even the smallest amount mounts up and don’t have credit cards, store cards, catalogues, loans extra. You can do this!

[@pugluvnapril79]

This spoke to me on so many levels. I was definitely living the life of too much month and not enough money. I was forced to quit my job and move 1,000+ miles away in December and here we are at the end of Jan and I am still jobless. This has forced me into a shopping detox. I am 40 with no retirement and that needs to change. I’m job hunting now and the goal is saving, saving, saving. Thank you so much for this video!

[@danielleargent9064]

Thank you Christina. I have been binge watching your videos for about two weeks now. It's unbelievable how relatable your videos are to me!! - Dani 32yo Australia

[@Mimi-cq4bg]

So stoked to start my low/no buy2020 I started early.... haven't spent a penny since December 27th. It has shaken me, how much I think about spending money on non essential needs. My weakness is the gigantic dollar store next to the grocery.... its five or six bucks.... every time. Not this year. I got a new laptop last summer. Finally got around to it and reset my old laptop and sold it online.... had bought it on sale (40% off) for 375 and am selling it for 400. Am considering selling my wedding dress too. Instead of what I can buy.... what do I have that i can sell? I can surely find one thing a month that I can part with... even if only for the first six months of the year.

[@SonyaandSidney]

You've been an inspiration to me. I am finishing a 6-month shopping ban. I wasn't 100% successful in following it, but it did change my shopping habits, so I'm considering it a success! I'm not sure if I'll do a low buy next year or not. I'm going to keep trying to follow the "do I need it and will I use it" questioning which has become a habit, but not specifically keeping myself to a no-buy other than that and staying within my budget.

[@Christinamychas]

That sounds perfect to me! ❤️❤️

[@s.b.5591]

Even if it wasn't 100 percent perfect that sounds like a success. To me 30 percent better sounds like a great success. Congrats

[@kimberlylee48]

I began my journey 8 years ago. I live on a budget/life plan that transformed my thinking and way of looking at money. I'm so thankful for Dave Ramsey and his ministry. I cannot imagine going back to living without intention. I'm new to your channel and enjoyed your inspiring video.

[@Christinamychas]

Kimberly Lee Dave is the best! Intention is the key I’m learning. I love it. Thank you!

[@ThyNguyen-gw4xl]

I am so proud of you Christina! I believe in you and am so inspired of following your financial journey alongside you. Congratulations for being another step closer to being debt free! Wishing you all the best!

[@soniavelez1478]

YES budgeting is key! So much of my anxiety revolved around money and I didn’t realize it until I started budgeting.

[@libraryminnie7674]

How motivating this is! Can you imagine how many ways you can use that money to build a fabulous future? I did the Ramsey plan, except I allowed myself to work on my emergency fund while I paid off the last 10k. I still had more to save to complete my emergency fund once I erased my consumer debt. The $1000 made me nervous and seeing money grow in an account gave me that extra kick to make it over the finish line with my emergency fund. You are a bright star for the masses who struggle with student debt. Looking forward to following your progress!

[@brie93]

Wow, I relate so much to everything you're saying. Besides the student debt. Don't have that. But I'm definetly living paycheck to paycheck- or even beyond my means- and every time I save anything I deplete it again when I spend too much on my credit and then have to pay it off. I think about shopping non stop and I love to buy stuff. But I often just end up feeling the same or worse after all my money is spent. And so even though it terrifies me I'm going to tiptoe into change by making January a no spend month. Pray for me. Lol.

[@rachaelgraziotto686]

I’m starting a low buy this year so I can save enough for my first down payment by the end of 2020! Can’t wait to save my money so that I can be a homeowner in the next 12 months!

[@andreab9351]

You described how your low-buy year has changed you so eloquently. You have made me more determined to have a go myself in 2020 although I know that I will find it very challenging as I am like you were a year ago. I’m intelligent enough to realise why I shop, particularly for clothes and jewellery (many of the same reasons you talk about), but yet I still find it so difficult to stop myself. Thanks for sharing your experiences. It does help to know we’re not on our own in this consumerist world which targets us from all angles.

[@MellowJourney4Life]

Thank you for inspiring me to commit to a no-buy/low-buy year in 2020. Ahead of the challenge, I cleaned out all of my closets to see what I have and to organize it. I also did got a major reality check by scouring through my 2019 bank statements, credit card statements, and my 2019 Amazon purchases. Yikes!!! I did put 20% of my income into retirement savings last year, but that doesn't address the wasted money I have been shelling out in credit card interest and I have no liquid savings for emergencies. Next step, make a budget on Everydollar. It's very emotional 😭😭😭

[@kkouz45]

Already had my low buy mapped out for clothes and makeup. Think I need to take it a step further. Great video!

[@carolinebennett5615]

I so enjoyed this video. I’ve been approaching the same thing from a different direction - decluttering - but your story fits where I need to go next. As I get rid of “stuff” it’s increasingly clear I can’t just replace it with more so was exploring my own sort of ‘low buy’. But so helpful to learn from someone else’s journey so thank you so much for sharing this. I fell into the patterns you describe much later in life after years of successful self sufficiency but am now finding my way back. Thank you again from a new sub.

[@Stillworking1]

This is so courageous of you! Shopping is definitely my default as well...I’m bored; I shop, I’m happy; I shop, I’m angry; I shop, I want to procrastinate; I shop. I spent $30k on handbags last year. 😳🤦‍♀️ I’ve officially started my LOW BUY YEAR and I already have discovered things about myself I didn’t realize. Thank you for voicing our inner thoughts and allowing us to not feel alone. 💞🙌

[@DeborahSutherlandDebinPei]

I am at that - I just dont know what to do now time in life. I hear you. It sounds like me 💯 I just need to jump in, baby steps is not working for me anymore. 2020 is my year of control with a no buy. Thank you for being so raw and truthful 🤟💜🇨🇦

[@Christinamychas]

You can do it!

[@denaparaison6616]

So glad for you. Low buy for me Jan to end of March. Then a small stipend for April and low buy another 3 months and so on. Ur an inspiration. I used to exercise instead of sit in my phone. I want back to it.

[@Christinamychas]

And you will! Xo thank you. I love the intervals youre choosing to break up your low buy into. Very reasonable and achievable ✌🏻

[@deborah7121]

This has been the best video that I have watched on KZbin in a very long time. Thank you for this. Thank you.

[@christinacanfield4898]

You are so very brave facing these issues. Thank you for sharing.

[@Christinamychas]

🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@sarcasticlady000]

I have to do a low buy year. I really need to stop spending money everyday and your video inspired me.

[@nancyferrier8609]

Just want I what I needed as I start a Low Buy 2020. Retired, no longer need a work wardrobe, culled my wardrobe of clothes I no longer need, want or doesn't serve my lifestyle. Goals are to pay off bills and then use excess to travel and enjoy cultural events and an occasional fine cuisine treat. It's also a good idea to build a little financial cushion in these uncertain times. There's no better time to start Low Buy than when you make a lifestyle change, retirement, job change, relationship change, family configuration change. Sharing your experience is invaluable. Thanks so much.

[@amyjohnson4543]

I just found you, probably because I listen to HLP. I'm in a different time of life, and shopping issues are newer to me. Maybe it was the pandemic that kicked me over the edge, I just remember ordering stuff and the good feeling. I am 41 days into a very strict low buy, I buy for a family so I can't stop completely. But my problem area, make up is full stop. I know just from this start it will be life changing. I am happy to have found you, I unsubscribed from lots of beauty channels so having another encouraging one to watch is good. I am working on culling my wardrobe, my issue is I no longer need the beautiful professional clothes I own, but I can not bear to part with. I bought quality and timeless so its all still viable. I will just have to figure it out. I am no buy on clothes too, I didn't want to transfer my buying from makeup to clothes. Thanks for the great content, I am looking forward to watching all your videos.

[@wildflower2462]

I was never a spender until I got my baby in 2019. The amount of stuff and the cost of it, the shoving down the throat of educational, healthy, fashionable, developmental, "must have" items, without which my baby would just wilt like an unwatered flower, descended upon me like an avalanche. I got anxious, got some those items, but I don't feel better nor see any benefits. That makes even more insecure & want to buy different things! But really, my baby still plays with kitchen utensils and scrap cardboard. I believe the lowliest form of marketing is te one geared to/for children, and influencers (moms themselves) from their insta playrooms are shamelessly cranking up mom insecurities and fragility, as we know that is the time when all the shits and voids resurface. I'm looking forward to the budgeting video, as I need to know where the money's going. When it was just me, it was easy. I love how eloquent and sincere you are about the real causes. That is what we need on YT!

[@Kiyonce.Kartier]

If this is your first, it’s almost inevitable because you’re so excited and you want them to have everything. If you decide to have more, the spending will be more restrained.

[@lilydinh6059]

I stopped following social media recently, it was the most freeing thing in my life, I stopped spending money.

[@Victoriacariad]

Don't be afraid to ask extended members of your family for clothes etc? Frequently my (big, extended) family group chat is just my cousins, second cousins aunties and uncles trying to give away things, mainly baby stuff. The last one was a very nice cot!

[@csikomas8910]

Wow, I just love the way you articulate the points. I've found this vid very useful and inspiring. You've obviously landed on something suited to you, that is building a life for you, which also benefits others. Good for you. For myself and since you asked, I am doing a no buy lo buy for the exact reasons you mentioned. I am tired of all the stress of minimum payments on credit cards and STILL not having the one thing I wanted, which is I don't even know anymore. The debt really stops me from enjoying any aspect of my life. I think the worst thing is its made me a super liar, not only to myself, as I never am honest with myself about the damage I've done, but towards my partner, who has no idea I carry/deal with this debt every single day. I want to live authentically. I really do. I hope replacing my time dreaming of stuff to spend money on with vids like this will help to change my mindset. Thanks. Will follow you. C

[@celire888]

THANK YOU for such a raw and honest video - especially about that crushing feeling from student loans and how it infiltrates your headspace and life. Appreciate you putting this kind of much needed message out to the world. "You are not stuck, every choice you make is yours!"

[@rachelmcauley]

You are such an inspiration! Every time I 'think' I need to buy something, I just re-watch this video and I think to myself, what's really more important, financial freedom or more 'stuff'!!! Thank you for sharing your story. Keep the videos coming! I also love the FB page you set up too! Great advice there and helps me to feel motivated 👍😉😘

[@OfficialJaclynSteele]

I love this! I think this message is so important to be sharing. This is very inspiring so thank you for sharing!

[@Susanb89]

Omg, you explaining your shopping habits is sooooo me! Congrats on your success! I am getting there and it’s been painful 😂 I had to ask myself some deep, hard questions. Here’s to 2020...I hope you and all who are needing this, many blessings and an awesome year ❤️

[@Christinamychas]

Susan B. Thank you Susan! You got this and you have support here ❤️

[@GraceHappens]

I found your channel via Dave Ramsey and KZbin recommendations. Creating a budget was such an eye opener! It forced a low buy naturally when I saw how much money was being wasted. Your videos have kept me motivated. Cheers!

[@Christinamychas]

Thank you so much! The budget literally saved me. So needed. And that’s amazing on your natural low buy - I agree budgeting does that ! Happy 2020! Xo

[@chereemechelle5308]

You go girl! No seriously... thank you for being so authentic and candid. I’m inspired and ready for my no buy year!!!! Thank you!

[@insertnamehereee]

Just discovered this channel and love it! Goes against everything else I watch on KZbin always telling me to buy, buy, buy!

[@haileyqueen6115]

I'm currently doing a no buy month, but I've been really inspired by your no buy/low buy year and others that I've seen and I'm really considering it!

[@peste2138]

You have inspired me so much. I love your videos, your struggling, everything, you are so courageous to put it in videos. I think I have a problem, but I have managed to keep it undercover, and I feel so ashamed of it, I am not in debt, but I know I have huge issues with my spending habits since the last months of 2017 (I already had those, but they went overboard in 2017) I go on and off with my low buy habits but I definitely think I am so much better since I see videos like yours.

[@Christinamychas]

lala27 you’ve come to a huge realization and that is amazing! The habits are tough and embarrassing to face, but you can only grow from them even when it’s hard and a struggle. You got this and you can do it ❤️

[@lindseyheringer2641]

Yes these sort of channels are the best influence to watch on KZbin as a spender. I am in the same boat.

[@mihaelapascu4484]

It’s incredible how we can pay our debts in 2-3 years or pay for our houses in 7 years instead of 20 or 30 just by budgeting and spending way less. Congrats on everything, you convinced me to try a no buy year (I have enough clothing, some get no wear at all) and use my money to pay debt and also into an account for a new house.

[@margiepacheco6901]

You can do it Mihaela! It's a mindset.

[@thenopedetective]

Some people at least. Housing is still pretty unaffordable for many of us 😅

[@daniellecharming]

You've quickly become my favorite KZbinr. So grateful for your channel. And you are absolutely gorgeous 💕

[@jerihartzell9300]

I can do relate to your story. I'm in my 50's now and have been debit free 3 times over my adult life. I have found that addressing getting out of debt and self control aren't enough. I've found for myself, I have to have long term and short term goals for myself financially, spiritually, physically and emotionally. I don't think the average debt freedom guru thinks about how to maintain discipline. Good for you for thinking beyond debt freedom.

[@vinniogrodet7060]

when you said “had too much month left of the money” there I saw myself - I am a shopaholic, I have spent so much money, and have both loans for consumption, student debt and house loans. you inspire me sooooo much, you make me believe I can too, give me hope. so thank you for sharing your journey.

[@sophiecroteau211]

Gosh I relate to everything you’ve explained so much. Maybe not necessarily the money concept because I’ve been working on that well but my perspective and how I treat myself. This was very well done and prepared, thank you.

[@lizziebkennedy7505]

You’re just starting from a much higher base and to be honest I find that really inspiring.

[@brittney1950]

Thank you Christina for updating us on this year’s low buy. Your motivation determination to pay down debt keeps me accountable on my journey

[@bethyant1192]

I just happened to stumble across this video and I seriously feel like you were telling my story! I have struggled with this for years and continue to struggle with it. Sadly my husband does too! We have actually had "housechurch" in our home where Financial Peace Uni was being taught and did not adhere to Dave Ramsey's teaching because it was "too restrictive". 13 years after being in our home we are losing it. I no had I and my husband made better decisions we would not be in this predicament. I just wanted to say that your story or testimony is amazing

[@hayleylaidlaw3037]

I really relate to this. The biggest fear I have around going low-buy is the anxiety of not being able to "have what I want". I really want to shift my perception from not being able to have what I want to me being in control of where my money goes. Thank you for this content and inspiring me!

[@Christinamychas]

I felt the same anxiety and still do often. But it’s surprising how much you forget about what you wanted when you simply stall or delay it. And if you do buy it with saved cash and you wait, it often feels more worth it and ends up getting more use. I can’t count how many times I bought something bc I wanted it now and completely forgot about it. I hope that helps! Xo

[@hayleylaidlaw3037]

@@Christinamychas That totally makes sense. Thanks for the tips :)

[@marcelata8078]

Thank your!... This is my goal for 2020 and you are a GREAT inspiration 😃

[@caitk6016]

You have motivated me to do a no buy/low buy in 2020. I have similar shopping habits to what you have explained and I also have student debt that I need to work on paying off to work on financial freedom. Thank you for the motivation! 💗

[@AmberSlemmer]

Fantastic video. Very real and super brave. I LOVE that low buy is no longer a year challenge but a lifestyle for you. I am definitely doing a low buy this year for a specific reason: tired of apartment living and the constant construction noise is really fucking with my peace of mind. So we've decided to really really step up our savings game so we can buy a house. I would super appreciate it if you would make a video in more detail about the kinds of strategies/ideas/activities you do that replace the shopping habit. I feel like this is extremely important! When we do an activity that takes up a generous amount of our time and then we suddenly cut that activity out of our lives, we need something to fill that space, otherwise we might creep back into that destructive lifestyle. For example, me and my hubby got sober a few years back, and instead of going to the bars (which took a SIGNIFICANT amount of our time) we now go to different coffee shops and listen to live music, play cards, and drink a mega ton of coffee. So far, it's worked great. Please share more about what activities you do instead of shopping. Happy New Year!! xoxo

[@Christinamychas]

Amber Slemmer I definitely will! I talked about it a little but in this video but now I spend more time learning how to edit and create videos, working out and classes, cooking and learning about self-development + lifestyle design stuff (Eg podcasts, audiobooks on that topic) 🤗 - take some time to think about pursue an interest outside of shopping as a start xo

[@Christinamychas]

Amber Slemmer and congratulations on your choice to buy a house and your sobriety!

[@AmberSlemmer]

@@Christinamychas Thank you my dear!! Both things are way hard to do, but worth it. Also, I forgot to mention this before but your makeup/hair/jewelry game is ON POINT. You look fresh and lovely in this viddy :)

[@sarahthatcher123]

Wow! Amazing transformation...so much growth, awareness and responsibility taking...you are such an inspiration. I really appreciate your videos,.

[@myname7303]

Im so glad I found your channel. Thank you for sharing and for being honest. I’m staring no buy 6 months and then low buy six months. You’ll be one of my inspirations for 2020. It is scary how we become slaves of money and consumption

[@Christinamychas]

It really is - we are bombarded constantly whether we like it or not. I refuse to let stuff dictate the course of my self worth and thoughts any longer. We got this ❤️❤️ - I love how you’ve decided to break your challenge up into sections. It makes it doable long term! Xo

[@iamkateo]

2019 was my semi-low buy but 2020 will be my no-buy. My main motivator is really how terrible buying clothes is for the environment. I bought a few things during Black Friday/Boxing Day which I regret (more just to use up store credit 🙈) but I’ve decided that I really don’t need anything else. If I do need anything, my goal is to try to buy more secondhand items as well. I started watching your Aritzia hauls but I am so happy to see your channel grow and differentiate itself from everyone else. Keep up the amazing work! 💪

[@Christinamychas]

I love it, Kate! Thank you! I agree, sustainability was another thing I learned from my low buy that I forgot to include in this video. It’s such a huge part of it and another great reason to buy less and use more of what we have. Cheers to your 2020!

[@anacedres4566]

2020 is going to be my no buy year! Thank you for your advice and perspective on this ♥️

[@koalacaline2]

I'm planning a low buy for 2024 and I've been following you since 2020. PS : You're so preetttyyyy ! Thank you for saving my bank account !

[@PritySingh]

This is so courageous of you! You’ve done great so far and you’ll be great ahead too. The moment we start taking responsibilities for our own wrong choices, we are capable to fight them too. I’ve already started a low buy from this year only and will continue it through out my life hopefully. Love prity xx

[@hanny7375]

I stopped the video and realized how upset I was. I turned it on again and still didn't want to listen to you. I did listen until the end and was not happy about how I felt. I'm committed to concentrating on a no buy year. I have been thinking about this for the last few months but didn't know how I would go about it. Thanks for the push.

[@debypoole7079]

This video is the best video I've seen so far on this topic. Thank you! Im a lot like you used to be right now and this will be the year i break it!

[@jackieporter8801]

So happy to hear someone else did what I was doing.. easy when you are caught up.. on utube and get caught up with spending but in saying that I now look at purchasing quality over quantity which is what I am looking at doing.. but still don’t want to buy because influencers are promoting.. thank you

[@kathycrawford4719]

Awesome! I am starting a no buy year in 2020. Your videos have encouraged me to start. Thank you!

[@rebecca_stone]

This is a beautiful video and even though I've watched several of your videos this is the one that has really opened my eyes to how I've been in denial about my spending choices and the insecurities that are driving them. You've made me realise that doing a low buy and tackling budgeting is the next step in facing myself and self growth. Thank you. 💜

[@Christinamychas]

You got this!

[@Joy-e6e]

I'm new to your channel but thanks for sharing. It's gonna be my 3rd year of low buy in 2020!!! Feeling so good about it. And yes, at first it was just an experiment and just wanna see if I can actually control my desire of shopping, but gradually it turns out to be a lifestyle and I'm definitely enjoying living this way.

[@faeriesmak]

I really love your content. A lot of what you say really resonates with me and makes me really think about things that I have not considered before. Thank you! Plus you are just the nicest and truthful person ever.

[@bezaurojona9743]

currently doing my 3 month no buy challenge :) thanks for inspiration

[@JennaKennedy]

I love this video and your honesty! Glad I found your channel!

[@merinasanzana7673]

Thank you for sharing. Really inspired. I decide to start 2020 with a low-buy goal. I will try hard.

[@alicedotkay]

Your point about wanting to shop when you feel good/bored/awful/etc. really rang with me because that's exactly what I'm going through right now. Everytime I'm bored or feel anxiety, I immediately feel this need to purchase something. It's awful! I'm trying to be more mindful of how I spend my money this year - big new year resolution for 2020!

[@tanyabaldwin9707]

I am so glad I came across this video or KZbin suggested it, more like it! I will be doing a low-buy year. So much of what you mentioned resonated with me and I am looking forward to being financially balanced. I honestly do not have any debt however, I am a spender and it is tied to; boredom and lack of self control. I want to be able to not constantly think about what my next purchase is going to be and how “happy” I will feel once I have that item. I want to purchase with intention. Thanks for sharing this video! 🥰

[@williamkazak]

This is good. I have learned to stop shopping online. Getting emails from my favorite stores has been a constant temptation but i have decided to only get what I NEED. Time saved from going into stores has allowed me to get some much needed rest. I don't have to figure it all out right this minute. I can wait and go where it brings me joy.

[@angelahegarty5438]

You have really given me hope. You addressed every single issue I have been struggling with. My 2020 started with decluttering just my stuff, not buying, and deciding what's important to me. Thank you.

[@amiraloves04]

I have been tracking every purchase I have made in the past 6 months and most definitely need to have a low-buy year. I have created a detailed spreadsheet with categories and budgets for food, needs and wants. I definitely need to detox. This sounds very much like me, "I need to treat myself." I have student debt as well, so I definitely need to get out of that. I have been watching your journey for the past year and its amazing! Good for you girl, keep going!! Can't wait to see where else your finances and shopping goes xo!

[@elenidimitriou9685]

I want to Thank You so much for your wonderful video,I was planning to do something for myself like you ,as you described , I had had a very bad habit always shopping to disguise my unhappiness,it wasn’t always like that but something happened and unknowingly I was shopping to cover up my unhappiness,and the rest of the time trying to fit it my wardrobe,constantly,not remembering what I had, and now that I finished working ,it all came to ahead ,I started reading about my bad habits,and why ,I’m now dealing with my self worth and many other issues,that I want change,so your video was exactly what will keep me focus Have a very Happy New Year and keep up the wonderful work you are doing Regards E❤️😀👍💋