How Narcissists Act During A Divorce Case and What To Do About it

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Rebecca Zung

Rebecca Zung

Күн бұрын

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@terrid.9204
@terrid.9204 Жыл бұрын
The last words my husband's narcissist first wife ever spoke to him when he served her with divorce papers was, "I CAN RUIN YOU AND DON'T THINK I CAN'T." And she very nearly did.
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer Жыл бұрын
Whoa! That is very scary, especially when you have built a lifetime's worth of wealth with your own dedication and sweat!
@DebSchmidt-go3fw
@DebSchmidt-go3fw Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this uplifting video. Will be in court in a few months. Good to get perspective of judges. My narc is tying up selling the house.
@Jackgritty28
@Jackgritty28 Жыл бұрын
Victimised by a narcissist,you drive them wild,they'll drive you crazy,if you don't like it,escape the situation before it does you any harm🚩🆘❌💲✔️❔
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Thank you! So glad I can help!
@lightfeather6238
@lightfeather6238 Жыл бұрын
Yes they want a reaction. Video recording they do it all for evidence. Reactive Abuse was his favorite recordings . It’s so sad how the lawyers and judges are not educated on how they work
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@lisafarias5720
@lisafarias5720 29 күн бұрын
Hello my name is Lisa I just went no contact with my wife I dident know what a narcissist was till I was with her for about a year anyway I find it so hard I just want to call but I won't I started video taping and recording her I have all my texts emails and I'm so glad I did I'm going down next week to file a divorce what happens when I file a divorce and she can't be found to be served
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
I feel bad for the people that are stuck attached to a narc by reason of the fact that they have kids together. It seems like a life sentence only minimized once the kids become adults. What an awful thing to have as a constant in your life.
@bonzbeasty
@bonzbeasty Жыл бұрын
That is my life. Thank you for acknowledging this as it seems no one does. There is a lot of advice out there about dealing with a narcissist that I can't do, simply because we share a child. I've grown strong enough to take the personal abuse, but trying to deal with his abuse to her is an ongoing battle. I feel I have to be the strongest person in the universe and it's so exhausting.
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
@@bonzbeasty Yes, narcs thrive on exhausting you. I've gotten to the point where I only allot a set amount of time compiling this police report against him so that I can take better care of myself, and then come back at it stronger. Not so easy to separate like that when there's a child involved, or you live under the same roof.
@bonzbeasty
@bonzbeasty Жыл бұрын
@Lucy Braun I'm proud of you for loving yourself and staying strong. When people share their stories and have empathy, it really helps me feel less alone and stay strong myself. As a community of survivors we have to stick together! Best of luck to you💜🩵💙❤️
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
@@bonzbeasty Likewise. I so value the support here. I've become so isolated, but it's a season I have to go through until I am away from the narc and his fly monkeys. Looking forward to the day I am free!
@AgeOfGrace2023
@AgeOfGrace2023 4 ай бұрын
Its pure hell. Im there now
@Scipiogirl
@Scipiogirl 3 ай бұрын
I had to start recording every interaction with my narc. He would say all the things he wanted to have happen and then ignore my disagreeing with it. He then would proceed as if I agreed, because I didn’t say what he wanted to hear. The recordings are saving my backside in court. I only regret not getting all of the arguments on video.
@gregben
@gregben 2 ай бұрын
In some states, California included, you cannot record your conversations without first getting the assent of the person(s) you are going to record. Of course you want to be able to record without the knowledge of the narc, so that's out. But you can retain all written communication like SMS messages (texting), and emails.
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer Жыл бұрын
I just want to say, I love the 🤍"elegant and enlightened" white color on you, of your suit. Thanks for this episode, Rebecca. It helps pile more power onto me. I am not going through a divorce myself, but I am actually going through someone ELSE's divorce!!!
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
I won a few in pro per motions in my divorce from a narc. Didn't lose any. But it really burned me up that the judge wouldn't sanction him, or even give me my costs.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@JennyBascom
@JennyBascom 4 ай бұрын
I shut them down by telling the truth and stating the facts....and I get accused of lying...so absurd!!
@stgeorgelawncare7384
@stgeorgelawncare7384 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for getting right into it. Binge watch
@nanarian8388
@nanarian8388 Жыл бұрын
Rebecca, thank you so much for creating this video. Just starting my divorce process now. I feel so much better prepared!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Check this out - icanslay.com/ Keep slaying!
@krboops26
@krboops26 Жыл бұрын
Hey Ms. Zung, can you do a video about covert narcissists using other people to take you to court? I'm dealing with an ex with a covert narcissistic mother who is using him to take me to court to file for joint custody although he left me while pregnant and will not come see our child despite me trying to get him to do so. She has done this before by using another person she was controlling to take someone to court to get at them while she sat back with her hands clean. She doesn't like things like vaccinations and will try to use my ex (who could care less about our child) to fight and argue with me about things like that. He claims he can't stop our case when I know he's just afraid of her and she's paying for everything. I was only a few days out of the hospital after receiving a c-section when she tricked me into getting on the phone and started insulting me and pushing me for visitation. 1 month and a half post partum I was served papers and she had the lawyer come at me aggressively. She did this knowing I'm out of work and thought I wouldn't be at a disadvantage trying to defend myself but I found a way to get an attorney. Now I have to sit with my ex in mediation in a few days to discuss this when he could care less because he's just his mom's puppet into trying to control me. I've created a timeline, have some proof and I have people that know her willing to testify against her but it's HIS name as the plaintiff which makes this situation that more difficult.
@liepa7768
@liepa7768 Жыл бұрын
💯 true about everything!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?
@GennaroNatale-i9n
@GennaroNatale-i9n Ай бұрын
I have been victim of narcissistic abuse since I was a teenager. I am ready to go against them in court. I am 38, they built a whole case against me and manipulated me my whole life essentially. I am ready to confront their accusations in court. All I need is someone with concrete evidence of the torture I am living with since 12 years, I have been under mind control since I was a child.
@coltonjackson3425
@coltonjackson3425 3 күн бұрын
Thanks for the video… great content
@boop8127
@boop8127 2 ай бұрын
Yep mine wanted to negotiate at the kitchen table. When i said no. Lawyer assisted mediation…he blew up, bullied, intimidated, harass me. I hung up.
@LornaSGal
@LornaSGal Жыл бұрын
As a Glaswegian I'm loving Gary....brilliant....by the way.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?
@elisaDiane
@elisaDiane Жыл бұрын
Nah...My children had to be taught...they know who he is! He tried grooming them into him...and one day I woke up and started letting them know what he was doing but they were well aware
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@KQMcKinnon
@KQMcKinnon Жыл бұрын
SHUT THEM DOWN!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
TOTALLY!
@nicholecollins6126
@nicholecollins6126 13 күн бұрын
One attack that I get in my situation is trying to make me appear to be the narcissist myself all the time and as though I am the toxic one, this is because I was married to a member of the military and a common tactic when defending someone who has been in the military at least in my experience is to accuse and set up the other as mentally ill, this is part of a very malicious gas lighting approach I have dealt with going through a military divorce, there was no representation offered to me where he decided to file this divorce. If the person is very good at destroying others as a narcissist, they are building this case against you even while you are married like a chess player and when there are kids involved they are being weaponized against you when you are not aware of it, and they know exactly how to turn your own children against you. I find that my ex was building this case even as I was not thinking we were going to be divorced, I only found this out as I am still being attacked by the "flying monkeys" that came out to attack covertly after a very long 17 year marriage. I am still suffering through the accusations and a very elaborate setup was taking place long before the divorce ever was filed by him. I had suspected things that occurred he was consulting with someone he worked with way before and it seems he used this to be able to take every thing that occurred while we were married and turn it back on me for these false accusations that I am suffering from still after more than five years after he got an uncontested divorce because I had no lawyer. He still retains a lawyer whereas I have no income and cannot afford one. I feel that he is able to launch these accusations in the shadows to keep me held under this false investigation all because he was divorcing me in secret and had a lawyer who was advising him giving him an unfair advantage in every situation. This can be a very bad situation for someone who has no legal representation when that person intends to destroy the other person. In my situation, my ex has used his own various military psych evals against me as well, so that if I were to ever attempt to suggest anything along those lines, he already has been evaluated and often says that he was told he is fine, and this was even used because the military can in fact label someone falsely as mentally ill, this is often done to military wives in these toxic situations, it was attempted to portray that I have a mental disorder at every turn. If I was reporting some suspect health symptoms they tried to put on my file that I have a somatic disorder. When I had issues dealing with a deployment, they tried to initially diagnose me with schizophrenia, ultimately they decided to put down that I had a temporary adjustment disorder. The problem is diagnosing someone in and of itself seems to be weaponized by military. A person can be struggling with something overwhelming and it should not be immediately slapped with a mental health label. This is being used as a weapon. When my daughter was struggling in school, we ended up in a bad situation where she ended up in counseling and that has been used against me as well to imply that this was my fault and that I am a narcissist and she inherited it from me. When we would see her counselor, I got this sense that in their private talks, her counselor had determined somehow that I am a narcissist because it could not possibly come from the military father kind of thing. It seemed that he had also manipulated the counselor and even their staff to be looking at me as the source of the problem. She would study my body language, look at me suspiciously all of it seemed staged to me. It is very bad to go through a divorce where someone is maybe a malignant narcissist and has everyone thinking they are the good guy and convincing everyone possible that the other person is the one who is the cause of all the problems. I cannot find my way out of this situation no matter what I do, it is weaponized against me. Even when I am just not doing anything I have a sense that I am under attack and a false accusation is being created. If I am happy, there is a setup to make it so that I am not in order to use that in the ongoing case against me.
@belindavandermerwe8384
@belindavandermerwe8384 4 ай бұрын
Nobody is above the law. Doesn't matter which personality disorder you have.
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
Excellent video!!!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
@@RebeccaZungEsq New insights into managing the courtroom battle ahead. Wish I'd had them in my divorce from a narc 12 years ago.
@elstal22
@elstal22 Жыл бұрын
This is 100% my experience.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Check this out - icanslay.com/ Keep slaying!
@nicholecornes1915
@nicholecornes1915 6 ай бұрын
Ke kept track of my PERIOD! On his calendar!
@MuseLaBet
@MuseLaBet 4 ай бұрын
Same, why?
@marisazabala1319
@marisazabala1319 Ай бұрын
Wow, it's like she knows my ex personally, the accuracy.
@Jay2Tired4u
@Jay2Tired4u 24 күн бұрын
Shut them down!!!! Sincerely Alex ❤
@lukeparsons1187
@lukeparsons1187 26 күн бұрын
Biggest takeaway is to start creating the summaries of evidence based lies. She says one thing to me, the opposite to someone in authority, and then when I take action in relation to her statement to me and tries to use that against me, I’ll have evidence that she lied to me or the other person to create the situation she can use to damage my case.
@istj66360
@istj66360 4 ай бұрын
Don't let them scare you. Don't react. They need our reactions to sell their smear campaigns, even in in court.
@MuseLaBet
@MuseLaBet 4 ай бұрын
I used to be quiet, didnt worked, once i opened my mouth and started to call him names, started to play his game, he went tired. Trust me zero fear makes massive difference. But u have to act like them. In the same time u have to plan to leave him
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
I'm dealing with issues about hidden assets. Can you give us a game plan on how to get that exposed without a civil lawsuit? I know the banks where Mom's assets were held and where her various retirement income came from, so the D.A. can subpoena those records, but it's hard to know what the narc has left out. I also know where the narc banks. Reverse lifestyle analysis? Mom had 2 retirement incomes, plus rental property income, but her investments also brought in income that the narc is hiding. I have no idea how to get at that.
@mraereed
@mraereed Ай бұрын
I am shutting him down! I finally escaped after not being able to leave my home, by myself in years! He had me arrested for saying I wanted to end my life and they put me in a mental institution for 16 day. Im now at an abused women shelter. If anyone has any advice for me I would love to hear it.
@annemariegodden
@annemariegodden 3 ай бұрын
That you, Rebecca.
@HankPadilla-e3s
@HankPadilla-e3s 4 ай бұрын
Slay ...as always thank you 🙏✌️
@adelinevanmatre4008
@adelinevanmatre4008 2 ай бұрын
I have a 9 year old and she’s been with me since day one. Haven’t been with him in almost 10 years. He recently served me and he wants to be the primary parent but has not done things to do so. He barely see her on average 6 days a month gives me child support but uses it as a tool to mess with me . He’s a millionaire and has not worked in 4 years. I have a lawyer and we go to court Wednesday. Any advice?
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
Rebecca, even though you are only licensed in FL, there is a manner of practicing in another state via a pro hoc vici motion, in case something comes along outside FL where you feel compelled to get involved. I don't know all the details, but numerous times, I have seen lawyers have these motions granted fairly easily.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@belindavandermerwe8384
@belindavandermerwe8384 4 ай бұрын
If they lie under OATH it is perjury! Especially when you provide evidence to the contrary
@vlc9521
@vlc9521 Жыл бұрын
that fine i have 2000 pages of pdf files of text messagesand fb post gas lighting me, lieing, silent treatment, cursing me, causing me to have reactive abuse ect....... from 2 years total so now im going for full custody of my son
@CrystalTriedDIY
@CrystalTriedDIY Жыл бұрын
Me too it’s going on 1 year for me
@TheKezmeister2011
@TheKezmeister2011 Ай бұрын
What do you do when the narcissists solicitor ie also a narcissist? Solicitor omitted all of my evidence and cheated and ignored practice directions...surely I can have her up for misconduct with the SRA?
@krazychic
@krazychic Жыл бұрын
This has been going on behind my back and I Just got hit With 4 show causes and a Motion to have physical custody given to the father and his wife. I'm so scared. They are both drug addicts Habitual and stepmom has Been hitting our son and dad disappeared for the past 8 months but because we have joint custody and I didn't share. Doctor's appointments in school stuff with him that I purposely wasn't including him but I thought he was in jail to be honest with you. And it is too narcissist and I am terrified to go up against these allegations when they are the ones who have been abusing my son. I don't know what to do i'm so scared
@krazychic
@krazychic Жыл бұрын
How do I defend myself against their allegations that? We need a video on how to defend ourselves in court and flip it to show that. They're really the ones that are harming the child I don't know What to do and I don't want to send my son to their house? I'm afraid for him to go there and I dropped the ball because his dad just was not in the picture and he showed up in full force with a. Case ready to throw at me and I had no clue this was going on.
@missywink1504
@missywink1504 Жыл бұрын
@@krazychic I would file a report with the police and let them know you're desperate. At least you'll have a legal record. Also, contact your local news so they can start an investigation about your rights to protection if the system is not working. I escaped my abusive marriage without having to press charges, however I had a folder on file with the police just in case anything went wrong, or I got hurt. I wish you well.
@ginaqc78
@ginaqc78 Жыл бұрын
@@missywink1504 thank you for the advice ❤❤❤❤❤
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
You should get child protective services involved. They will get to the bottom of who is doing the abusing.
@mraereed
@mraereed Ай бұрын
I have been manipulated for nearly a decade by a narcissist. How will a psychological evaluation prove that when it's a combination of everything he says and does to hold me down?
@rock20055
@rock20055 2 ай бұрын
couple of questions. as we know, narcissists will project and accuse you of things that they are doing or how they feel. I learned my mother was a narcissist because she kept calling me One so I went and took a diagnostic test. The test that the therapist gave me is similar to ones that every therapist uses, so why is it that we cannot diagnose narcissism if we have concrete examples and they fit the criteria? The other thing is as we know, narcissist full therapist all the time so unless the therapist is one that specializes in it, they are actually doing a disservice because we’re trusting somebody these word who may or may not know what’s going on the person experiencing the abuse knows better than anyone. and how is it at this day and age with 51% of marriages ending in divorce that the system is still antiquated why is it that the judicial system gets away with not being up-to-date on training and educating themselves on narcissism ?
@Kari-w5v
@Kari-w5v 7 ай бұрын
Also, co-habitating is OK! JUST BE SURE TO PUT IN WRITTING EVERY STEP OR MAJOR DECISIONS MADE TOGETHER IN WRITING AND GET IT NOTARIZED. DOCUMENT DOCUMENT DOCUMENT.
@nath3271
@nath3271 Жыл бұрын
I’m so ready to shut them down
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Proud of you! You got this ❤
@jessiewalker6418
@jessiewalker6418 2 ай бұрын
SO READY TO SHUT THEM DOWN
@ruthrodriguez7694
@ruthrodriguez7694 Жыл бұрын
Omg they do use the court system. Ong. I thought when this happened to me, it was insanity first me. I had no idea. Omg.
@dmcsunshine1
@dmcsunshine1 5 ай бұрын
Yupppp!
@1Airwaving
@1Airwaving Жыл бұрын
So spot on !! Thank you. The judge in Orange County, New York , that moron Andrew B., showed poor judgment as well. At least I had finally begun DOCUMENTING ex’s behaviors. Dates, times, behavioral specifics, and names of who else knew( neighbor, friend, family member, & most important, law enforcement I had contacted!).
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
Just make sure you fully understand what it takes to get your documentation admitted into evidence. You have to be able to authenticate it, lay a foundation for it, and speak on how it is relevant to the cause of action at issue.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Please check this out for extra support - icanslay.com/
@Kari-w5v
@Kari-w5v 7 ай бұрын
No contact, no sitting around in s%$t talking, no looking for others to re-fuel the below surface hatred, look for authetic people, try to find employment that understands i look as bad as i've lived and been treated. Now that suicide idolization is no longer a factor by slowly snapping out of it. I love myself today, they didn't take my voice away and i could tell on them anyway ... music notes everywhere. 🎵
@bornreadyrecordz
@bornreadyrecordz 5 ай бұрын
My wife recently obtained her visa, brought her family to the country and now wants a divorce, seeking to take our two children with her. I’m concerned because I believe her actions may be part of a plan to secure her status here and then leave me while taking the kids. She has a history of infidelity, narcissistic behavior and pathological lying, which worries me about her ability to care for our children. I want to understand my legal options for protecting my rights while she’s wanting to coparent, (still living in the house) and ensuring the best interests of our children. I also have some evidence to support my concerns. I would appreciate your guidance on how to proceed.
@ImreadyforJesus
@ImreadyforJesus 5 ай бұрын
Mine threatened to make sure I end up in a cardboard box and I told my son and my son said do the the same thing to him and then I mistakingly told him what my son said and he got angry and said my son has failed me my son is a failure because my son is on my side at the end of the day. ... I guess after years of him saying even so and so said and even so and so said and even your son said He doesn't see how my son could possibly actually care about me...
@Kari-w5v
@Kari-w5v 7 ай бұрын
One issue that absolutely daggered and skewed, my diabled daughter was given to the ex partner to be given over to facility care ( no offer of help to me to care for her), and 12 people were paid upwards of $ 60,000/year in that facility to keep her. After 23 years of not being allowed to know where she was, i was allowed to go see her. The person that let me in to see her ssid , oh look, there's a mom, a look of a imbasil on her face , i asked for some water to place drops on her lips ( they were dried to cracking and bleeding), the imbasil gave me mouthwash. I hope that $70,000.00 a year she made for a cushy life makes them baffled as to why the system out did their own jobs.
@Kari-w5v
@Kari-w5v 7 ай бұрын
Typo" 13 years and disabled daughter, she also had no side rails on her bed , she had cerebral palsy, fell out of that bed and broke her fever. Now that suggests my daughter completely disabled, couldn't walk talk or see suffered like she was christ himself. Disgusting .
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
They put lots of lies in the court record. My ex did this non-stop to where he was quadrupling the amount of time I had to put in by proving the lies. It was insane all the crap he made up & put in the court record without a shred of evidence to prove what he would state. And don't think for a second that if you prove their lies that the court will sanction them, or prosecute them for perjury. It won't. You're supposed to just eat all that time & expense you put into proving their lies. If you can, skip court, and just get away from them, or else they will devastate your finances! And the judge doesn't give a damn.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@CrystalTriedDIY
@CrystalTriedDIY Жыл бұрын
I wish I could afford an attorney like you I’m being tortured during this custody dispute and the judge keeps postponing my case causing my son and I more and more stress
@AfrocenteredLife
@AfrocenteredLife Ай бұрын
@@CrystalTriedDIY I get it🙏🏾🤦🏽‍♀️
@lauraniemann-veach1024
@lauraniemann-veach1024 2 ай бұрын
Slaying
@katceeee
@katceeee 2 ай бұрын
What do you do when the judge is biased?
@Fun.with.Elizabeth
@Fun.with.Elizabeth Жыл бұрын
Help. Happening right this moment, iam strong.
@DebSchmidt-go3fw
@DebSchmidt-go3fw Жыл бұрын
Be strong, be good to yourself! Put a protective shield around you ❤
@elisaDiane
@elisaDiane Жыл бұрын
Pray fast and meditate
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
You got this! 💪
@msgottaneedtoknow
@msgottaneedtoknow Жыл бұрын
SLAY ..!!!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Keep SLAYing!
@ImreadyforJesus
@ImreadyforJesus 5 ай бұрын
Shut them down!
@Xavier-sd1bm
@Xavier-sd1bm 4 ай бұрын
Penalty of perjury( risk)...evidence evidence evidence...rules of discovery...rules of evidence
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
How can I force the narc to pay the late fees that got assessed against my property because he paid the Decedent's 5/6 share of property taxes late? It was so ridiculous. He tried to con me into believing that I owed ALL the taxes when I only owed 1/6 of them. I DIDN'T TAKE THE BAIT! The told him he had to pay the Decedent's 5/6 share but his delay stunt caused the late fees, and now, he's refusing to pay the late fees he caused on my property.
@AprilJones-Robertson
@AprilJones-Robertson 7 ай бұрын
There seems to be a lot of people suffering and benefitting from these tactics and society's games long before my time. It's never been a game, not with all the lives lost and being lost on this planet and wherever else. Apparently no sincere care, love, morals, values, respect or concern for human life regardless of color or sex. Eyes wide open or closed; it's still the same; the blind/deaf man uses other senses and still what they call a Game simply ABUSES/BULLIES THEM...SMH..STANDARDS/SUPPORT SYSTEMS/RESOURCES MANIPULATED AND MISUSED.🎉LOVE OPINIONATED 🎉🎉
@specialsmithchick
@specialsmithchick Ай бұрын
Don’t overlook red flags just because you think you’re in love. Seems like we all do it at least once, but try not to do it a second time.
@helenewebster-sisk2407
@helenewebster-sisk2407 Жыл бұрын
It's time to shut them down!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Totally agree!
@rosacanocurrie8314
@rosacanocurrie8314 3 ай бұрын
He is going to use everything Against me but i have strong evidence
@Kari-w5v
@Kari-w5v 7 ай бұрын
I'm bloody angry, not a narcassist.
@MuseLaBet
@MuseLaBet 4 ай бұрын
Its normal to be angry, best way is to leave them
@latinalife2458
@latinalife2458 3 ай бұрын
@@MuseLaBetthe problem is the kids that will be abuse till they leave . And that means more narcs in the world !
@MuseLaBet
@MuseLaBet 3 ай бұрын
@@latinalife2458 i ve been raised by NPD family. I ve been abused so badly. And i never abused one person. I remeber myself as teen girl, i promissed myself that i will be the best mum, and best friend. Being raised by NPD u can become one too, or u will be vurnable, and others will abuse u again. This is what happened to me. I ve been too good to be true, and my ex abused me. So, again i let people abused me, bully me, but i ve never abuse one person. After so many years of abuse, i became angry, but only angry for myself, hard to forgive myself, people played me hard.
@boop8127
@boop8127 2 ай бұрын
The narc is an emotionally dangerous person. Its one step away from a murderer.
@enzoonymus3084
@enzoonymus3084 Жыл бұрын
GOD DAMN . My wife lied so much. She's a narcissist. She got a free lawyer Western Mass legal associates . I had zero. She got OUR son , my house. To show what kind of mother she is. Our son died of an over dose. at the age of 21. When our son was eight years old she shut me out of his life. I'm his FATHER. SHE, a nacissist, did the most terrible thing. Very sad. She, "BETH", Always referred to Danny, our son, as" her " son. Oh yeah, HER SON! What a narcissist. Awful, terrible. We all lose. I think of Danny every single day. It's the worst thing to happen to a parent. Danny is dead. At least , I have a wonderful wife now. "BETH" has zero. This should NOT have happened. FORGIVENESS would've stopped this from happening. Divorce and death. Forgiveness. Divorce and death. Which one would you choose? Forgiveness of course! Please learn from our mistakes.
@terrid.9204
@terrid.9204 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry. My husband suffered all the things you did at the hands of his first wife. Except that none of the kids died. They are now 4 useless adult narcissists now doing the same crap to their children.
@-fv5rx
@-fv5rx Жыл бұрын
Yes yes it’s time shut them down
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer Жыл бұрын
It is time to SHUT THEM DOWN.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Please check this out for extra support - icanslay.com/
@brendamccready2928
@brendamccready2928 2 ай бұрын
Shut them down.
@brendagadson9618
@brendagadson9618 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
You got this! 💪
@ginabaker9764
@ginabaker9764 Жыл бұрын
Shut them down!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Louder Gina! 👏
@Cici_85
@Cici_85 Жыл бұрын
Shut them down!?!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Proud of you! You got this ❤
@nina19275
@nina19275 6 ай бұрын
Oops I meant can I have one to one session with you
@karenharris6138
@karenharris6138 4 ай бұрын
SHUT THEM DOWN!
@nina19275
@nina19275 6 ай бұрын
Can I gave have one to one session with you.
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
I have visions of him bringing character witnesses for himself and those he has turned against me with his lies. But that's not the issue. There is no character B.S. that can counter his embezzlements.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@matise889
@matise889 Жыл бұрын
Shut them down!!!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
So glad you found them helpful! Keep Slaying!
@BruceMeyer-e6f
@BruceMeyer-e6f 3 ай бұрын
My wife is a narcissist and trying to divorce her.
@helenewebster-sisk2407
@helenewebster-sisk2407 Жыл бұрын
"Slay the Nar"
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@mclaysr
@mclaysr 5 ай бұрын
Shut them down
@CrystalTriedDIY
@CrystalTriedDIY Жыл бұрын
Slay
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@dejaywiz
@dejaywiz 5 ай бұрын
Shut them down !!! 👇😠
@LisaWeakley-mz6hi
@LisaWeakley-mz6hi 6 ай бұрын
Shut them down. I'm sick of it. 9 years of marriage.
@kat-75
@kat-75 Жыл бұрын
As my LORD writes down his case's against all of them...😂
@gingertully3505
@gingertully3505 Жыл бұрын
Shut them down.!!!!!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Louder!
@Xavier-sd1bm
@Xavier-sd1bm 4 ай бұрын
There is nothing in your marriage license that discloses narcissism...
@ckn9503
@ckn9503 3 ай бұрын
SHUT THEM DOWN
@leticia_m_soto
@leticia_m_soto Жыл бұрын
Shut them down
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
I'm glad to be helping! What is one point that you start using today?
@surlif
@surlif Жыл бұрын
SHUT THEM DOWN1!!!! Why is it so hard for me not to take the bait?? Probably has to do with born in a different era, and in a culture where women were taught they were supid and needed a man to make it through life. YES! I lived during those times and in that place. Trauma bonded. ughhh... I was so conditioned... So ture.. All of this information from MS Zung is true for me. n
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@MuseLaBet
@MuseLaBet 4 ай бұрын
Istnnot about different era. Its all about u. U have to leave, No matter what
@nicholecornes1915
@nicholecornes1915 6 ай бұрын
Oh how wonderful they truly are not@😂
@TEAMGETHELP
@TEAMGETHELP 4 ай бұрын
A narcissist is just someone you don't like.
@KennethKephart-xo3vy
@KennethKephart-xo3vy Жыл бұрын
Shut them down 😂
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Proud of you! You got this ❤
@nicholecornes1915
@nicholecornes1915 6 ай бұрын
Snakes
@FambaMotors
@FambaMotors 3 ай бұрын
😂 divorce is not a good smell
@lauraniemann-veach1024
@lauraniemann-veach1024 2 ай бұрын
Outrageous lier
@boop8127
@boop8127 2 ай бұрын
The narc is an emotionally dangerous person. Its one step away from a murderer.
@ryanoconnell6055
@ryanoconnell6055 2 ай бұрын
SHUT THEM DOWN!
@ZelmaEverson
@ZelmaEverson 5 ай бұрын
Shut them down!
@0.0pumpkin0.0
@0.0pumpkin0.0 Жыл бұрын
Shut them down!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Totally agree!
@MariePaudois-d1d
@MariePaudois-d1d 4 ай бұрын
Shut them down
@CrystalTriedDIY
@CrystalTriedDIY Жыл бұрын
Shut them down
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