Dealing With A Narcissist In Court? Here’s How To Beat Them!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@djbond6241]

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[@djbond6241]

I CAN & WILL SLAY ....

[@djbond6241]

EXPOSING THE TRUTH

[@johnsonjames702]

I want to appreciate those that recommended *Dr Sabo love* the on this channel, he's very good when it comes to spell casting, I can testify that....

[@Darthtakeda]

Thanks to your videos I had my first win in court, I exposed the narcissist.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

YES it works. Glad that helped you out! Keep SLAYing!! 🙌❤

[@emustaro]

Congratulations! Please tell us what exactly worked for you.

[@ginaqc78]

Great 👍🏻 good for you!!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@saracarroll9356]

When getting documentation ready is it better to be by date or incidents?? I’ve kept records of everything and going for a restraining order tomorrow.

[@saracarroll9356]

Is it better to have documentation ready by dates or incidents. I’m going for a restraining order tomorrow.

[@brent5027]

This is my life right now dealing with divorcing a narcissist , perfect timing for this video thank you for taking your time to post everything you do !

[@michelleheald9108]

Brent, me too so I feel your pain. I’ve been doing this for over two years. Had court Thursday but didn’t finish. Go back Monday. Hope yours goes well.

[@brent5027]

@@michelleheald9108 oh its a game i drive 15 hrs to get there and she lives 2 minutes for court and postpones day before , thats happened twice. Shes dragging it out so ill quit fighting but now shes tortured me for so long that i refuse to quit , shes relit that fire. Keep fighting michelle :)

[@johnsonjames702]

I want to appreciate those that recommended *Dr Sabo love* the on this channel, he's very good when it comes to spell casting, I can testify that....

[@makathanassiou8415]

My narcissistic abuser ex was stalking me after trying to leave and luckily I was able to go to court and get a restraining order in place. The judge stated in front of him she believed me and he wouldn’t get away with what he did. I was so terrified before appearing that he would discredit my story.

[@shelleynamdar7103]

Really appreciated how she talked about Judges needing to leave their emotions/biases to the side when making rulings and do what's right by the law. I've seen several Judges who have sided with parties, based solely on how they feel about the role those individuals play. For example, if it's grandparents suing a parent for visitation, these judges seem to think that all grandparents are good and that they are so important in their grandchildren's lives, no matter the circumstances and regardless of the false pretenses the grandparents used to drag the parent to court. This bias is compounded further when the Judge is a grandparent, themselves, or they've had positive experiences in their own lives regarding the grandparent role. I've got one thing to say to that: Not all grandparents are good people, and not all good people are grandparents. You can't superimpose your lens on other's experiences. This Judge seems to have valuable insight and I wish more of them did. So glad she spoke to this. Expose the truth!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Appreciate your kind words! What is something that you are grateful for? 😊

[@suzypeace7777]

You are speaking to us who are waking up to having been abused maybe their whole lives

[@ruthrodriguez7694]

Thank you Rebecca!!!!!!!! You have a judge on your podcast. I am greatful. Your truly a gifted woman and helping us, your community.

[@missesangry]

Thank you for this video! As a survivor I wanted to put this out there - getting out of the swamp of off the merry-go-round is a process. Get yourself a small trusted support system and heal yourself!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Awesome!! Happy to help! 😊

[@jillr759]

He’s smeared every person in my life.

[@debraortiz8331]

Amen! We desperately need help. After three years, & thousands of $, my son keeps having setbacks. He and I (his mom) have worked many days, weeks and months for his case only to have his overnights taken away, and trial postponed for 8 months! Every lawyer has failed him. The judge and minor’s council seem to be biased against men. He needs a good female attorney in Los Angeles. Where are you located?

[@erikavaleries]

This is such a nightmare. I am so grateful to be single & child free.

[@NatalieScherer-i2f]

This is completely on point. I have been dealing with this for 15yrs.

[@keepingupwyas]

I won my protective order and he appealed it! I’m not stopping!! Honestly was so nice to hear the judge “I believe her and the evidence” he denied the medical report was accurate, insane! I have 4 court dates this month with him but I will stand strong.

[@scottbrandts610]

Oh, God! What a brilliant exchange - and an incredibly worthy discussion. Rebecca, you are to be congratulated for bringing Ms Toler to your table and getting her insight, as a judge, on the entire system - the mechanics, the framework, the approach, the people who fill the courtroom and their treatment of each of these elements. To be watching an engagement between two great women here - whom I admire immensely - one a lawyer, the other a judge; speaking from their two different places, and two different angles, according to their roles inside a courtroom, is incredibly eye-opening and cathartic! Thank-you, both, for this very insightful presentation!

[@jillian-pheonix]

Thank you so much for this. I'm in the process right now and from this video , I'm on the right track. That great intuition and following wisdom. This was very resourceful. Thank you

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

I'm glad to be helping! What is one point that you start using today?

[@darlaandel6516]

One of the BEST VIDEOS IVE EVER SEEN!!!!!!

[@leeleslie5518]

Thank you so much for advice. Expose the truth in March 2023 I'm ready to go to small claim court with narc neighbor. I got documents, videos and witness . Wish me luck 🙏💯🔥

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Proud of you! You got this ❤

[@PianoForJesus]

Hearing Tina’s efforts on her own made me so emotional! So amazing - good job mamma!

[@stephaniethelovely1]

Segment with Tina Swithin and Dr. Ramani is very good, I'd love to see more with both of them, they're well known in this space.

[@citizenjags1309]

I was getting burnt in court, UNTIL!, my Ex-W started talking in front of the court, Judge was no fool.. Thank God they are how they are.

[@EBMB21]

I want to thank you for your informative videos. So much to learn. I appreciate you! As a result of not giving up, just telling the truth and being involved with my case, my spousal support is finally re instated. He intentionally stopped paying for ten months. I then filed contempt of court which will be heard in March. He has been indicted on 9 counts, faces 45 days of jail time if the court found him guilty unless he starts negotiating. The worst part about this is, he himself, mstbx is also a lawyer. The worse kind of narcissistic opponent. He is EXPOSED! We expect him to negotiate his arrears and legal fees. Leverage leverage leverage. I have more leverage after this contempt. I’m hopeful I’m making headway. 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

[@PrincessGinaR]

Expose The Truth!!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Yeah baby! What’s one thing you can feel grateful for today?

[@TheRugghead]

Watched about 3 hours of your content.. subbed imma watch all of it.

[@Alexandriaofchicago]

Omg i love both of these women ❤️

[@irinadumitru9088]

Same here!

[@arthurtimberlakeiii4831]

The male lawyer I paid to represent me was basically representing her. It was horrible.

[@carpathianken]

I bet he still accepted your money for the "professional service" that he provided you too. That would shit me.

[@marissarust9847]

This was my divorce lawyer. He got everything, including legal custody of our son. He never really cares to spend time with him when we were married, found it odd he fought so hard. I figured he has just trying to hurt me. Turns out he needed legal custody to gain social security benefits.

[@heathersoper6923]

Congratulations on your achievements, Tina!!!!

[@rterrigino]

My lawyer was NOT prepared for court... then told me I needed to act as his Paralegal after we were sitting in court.

[@codymitchell837]

Wow

[@turnthepage867]

I've got 19 evidence exhibits, and I'm using an anti-trust statute.

[@darrelljoevenazzo9105]

Where was this advice 40 years ago when my daughter was kept from me… after divorcing my wife! she made up horrendous lies… and used her charm to convince councillors!!!

[@christinechan675]

Rebecca, I am from Hong Kong, a daughter of narcissistic mother and I have intention to beat her by legal actions, to get back what I deserve. However, the resource in Hong Kong is very limited, and I have to be the plaintiff in person. I need extra support😢

[@cindyjohnson4378]

Love your videos. Very knowledgeable! Thank you so much

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Thank you. Glad I can help!

[@stinkypawsinc6351]

I was so emotional in the beginning when he started dating his coworker immediately I sent alot of texts and I'm scared this will go against me now if we go to court!!

[@swetagupta7018]

When I was in a relationship with him, any interaction would lead me to have a panic attack at which point he would promptly leave and I would react by sending texts. They were all preserved by him to try and use it against me in court. However they didn't even question me about it as they probably realised it was reactive abuse.

[@Allin1source]

I know my husband had a lot of drama, even the lost of our daughter hit him hard. This been getting worst. Right now he has a new supplier it’s his son and now talking of separation. His son is also involved. I have been learning about this subject for past few years.

[@jenneur2]

absolute it takes/took some time to figure naricistic people and story's out!

[@heathersoper6923]

How do I keep my emotions in check, for 7 years I've held anger. I'm traumatised, chronically stressed and anxious and this has given me psychogenic tremor, it's going to hard for me but I know i have to do it. I am going to have to be factual and feel like it's happened to somebody else. This will be hard, but I do have a witness. Btw I Love your glasses!

[@ReRe_642]

Mine before my case was heard. Said what more does she want. Some Judges are narsacist as well. He got everything he wanted. Unbelievable I did everything you said to do Rebecca. Thank you for your video. This was clearly bias . My attorney said we could not get rid of her. She had a case on the news where she was biased. In believable.

[@megminor13]

Hmm. Yeah. I'm going through this. He walked out and cut me off financially. Without my family I would be homeless and with nothing but EBT. My cats would be taken away. He lied in court already when I went for a PO. The judge didn't see it and messed up my statement. I looked crazy because he brought a scum bag lawyer. He refuses alimony and walked out on a bed ridden wife. Now the case won't even be heard for alimony until MARCH. He left in December 2023. How is this fair?

[@pamelabangs7244]

That was awesome my sister is isolated my mother from her family and solar condominium in turn electricity off has her locked in memory care God worked it out I have the best attorney in Georgia I trust him and I'm doing everything that you're telling in this video so I know 100% we've got so much stuff on her that we will win

[@arthurtimberlakeiii4831]

The courts gave my daughter mom and me 50/50 custody after she tried committing suicide in front of her 2 children(1 being biologically mine) and I had my daughter solely for 8 months and my daughter mom said because I had her for those 8 months that she will file a modification of custody order and keep my daughter away from me so now come May of this year we have to answer to this modification hearing. Smh

[@saw727]

Anyone in Florida near Daytona Beach going through a divorce/custody battle Ross and Andreassi are amazing lawyers! i highly recommend their firm

[@irinadumitru9088]

Rebecca ...what would you do if a narcissistic lawsuit would be suing in the Court?

[@bonnue1]

I'm 52 and had been carrying for mom and my father who past in 2018. My mother was taken from our home over a year ago when I was diagnosed with full blow. AIDS. At the same time my mother of 77 years was showing signs of dementia and I had told my sister then not to worry it may be gabapentin that she takes for nerv pain. I nolonger have access to information from her doctor witch are new and none of my family will asewer my calls. She's parading my mother saying I beat her and wr were a team taking care of dad and she's my best friend and I really don't know what to do. I feel I failed mom...

[@ReRe_642]

My judge said before hearing the case said what more does she want? My lawyer did nothing. Long story short she ruled for him. Can this be reopened. Found out this judge was ordered sanctioned for bias on another case. Can someone advise.

[@emustaro]

Judge Lynn Toyer : "We feel far faster than we think."

[@staceybrim579]

It’s been 10 years I have been divorced from him. Through the legal system it has been one Custody modification after another. He stops at nothing. He didn’t get his way in the state we live in so he filed it in a complete different state because he was arrested in the state. This was due to the constant police calling on me due to our son not being at the phone call at 7p for him …he is hoping I lose my home. He is mad. And is playing the victim. I am working two jobs and raining two boys. Two attorneys which are hard to pay every month.

[@latinalife2458]

The system is not helping woman and children when it comes to cheaper attorneys and make sure they don’t continue abusing kids emotionally or fiscally. 99% of the time a mother doesn’t have money to pay a good attorney

[@rterrigino]

I had copies of EVERYTHING!!! Judge refused to even lookbat it or accept it.

[@sharerrie2010]

@rterrigino you had documentation, receipts, notes? And the judge never looked at the paperwork? I have over $50k in his house, (receipts) bought a work van (on his word to repay) told him I NEED reimbursement and he refused. Now I need to take him to court to try and retrieve some of my monetary losses. I will have my paperwork from A-Z in order.

[@rterrigino]

@@sharerrie2010 I had E.V E R.Y.T.H.I.N.G.!!! I would have protested the final verdict, but... because we o.n.l.y. have ONE Judge in this District, it just would have gone before him again. No sense wasting my money.

[@sharerrie2010]

@@rterrigino sorry the judge didn't take the time to review your paperwork. Seems to me there was some bias on his part. And one judge oh my...

[@asterabebe14]

Hi Rebecca, my name is Aster who is a mother of two and lost my parental rights with out justice. Please please I’ll looking forward from you to provide me the right information to address my issues. Thanks

[@criquethamrick7255]

I am in a same situation.

[@amberphilhower576]

There are programs you can put on your devices (iPad, iPhone, Etc) which I’ve had. I also have every iPhone I’ve ever owned. Audio/Video/etc. All I have are FACTS! I believe in the TRUTH & the TRUTH WILL BE TOLD! I’ve been abused since I was very little.

[@EdwardTorres-ms9vu]

❤wove ya thank you 🙏🏻💪

[@saw727]

In Florida, i don;t know that anyone can go into the courtroom during a family hearing

[@SondraEisenman]

What happens if you documented a child telling you about abuse and neglect and then reported it to DSS and then you received a TPO against you saying you threatened your kids to make claims and that the DSS socialworker and her boss told the person to file the TPO against you?

[@secretscorpio-gf8vm]

Expose the truth!!💪

[@fitbully6286]

What if the narc is lying about needing a public defender? Is it acceptable to tell the judge in court that the narc is lying about his income?

[@Manyfires_BurningBrightly]

Greetings Rebecca! Wondering if you can give us some guidance on estate settlements, co-executrixes, siblings, elder is full blown narc and making this process tortuous from day 1. Not sure how much wiggle room I have because moms LW&T stated 50-50 split. Suggestions? Will Contest time frame up on Feb 3, actually would be very hard to prove influence or capacity since Will is from 2003. Thank you #KeepOnSLAYing ❤️🙏🏻🔥

[@johnsonjames702]

I want to appreciate those that recommended *Dr Sabo love* the on this channel, he's very good when it comes to spell casting, I can testify that....

[@KarenSteelMusic]

I’m involved with a narc who bullied my mother to change her will and trust when she was 92. I have been managing her care and finances for 6 years and the sibling is suing me financial elder abuse, stealing my mothers money, and that I should be disinherited completely. He’s only interested in her money. We go back to court next month where both siblings are fighting over being appointed conservatorship of the estate.

[@Manyfires_BurningBrightly]

@@KarenSteelMusic oh I'm so sorry😢💔 it's awful going thru this crap. Money is the root of all evil. Prayers for you Karen🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@irinadumitru9088]

Rebecca ...you re definitely right....a narcissistic in the Court is prrety much like a kid with very immature behaviors and attitudes!😅

[@zanahoynik]

YOUR AMAZING THANK YOU

[@Mstads-wx1zc]

I want to defeat my ex narcissist please share your strategy for the exposing him. I have endured enough emotional abuse and am ready for this chameleon to learn his lesson 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@ElizabethRobins-er2pn]

what about protection orders for domestic violence with the childs name on the application, to take to a custody trial. Judges cannot prove safety and the perp is well-vetted and not given custody. I just did that in Australia.

[@heathersoper6923]

He did call me, luckily I was on the phone.

[@jenniferhendricks9567]

...and I can really relate to this video.

[@kimbamw6713]

I divorced my narc a couple of years ago. I made sure not to try to one up my narc in court. But the judge and his attorney heard the ex's blantant lies and saw the arrogrance--the narc said was an involved father with our sons but couldn't remember what college the son attended or if the son's car was leased. The narc defied court temporary orders. My question is the martial divorce agreement awarded us both a timeshare...he refused to sign the quitclaim deeds, even defying his attorney..What can I do? I have sent a certified copy of the dissolution sgreement to the company. His attorney no longer represents him. No contact with the narc as he's delusional and has been violent in the past

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Sorry to hear about what you've been through. You got this! Keep SLAYing! Please check this out for extra support - icanslay.com/

[@saw727]

I loved your video with judge Toler!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Appreciate your kind words! What is something that you are grateful for? 😊

[@saw727]

@@RebeccaZungEsq my children's health

[@heathersoper6923]

What about like me, that I don't have a solicitor? I want the judge to make his own mind up, I don't want to anger the judge. I have written that in my opinion he is a disordered personality, that no one normal would have behaved like this, I hope I haven't done wrong in doing that?

[@jenamirgholi6004]

Someone who cares about this country needs you and your verification. A certain someone. peace love and happiness friend

[@suzypeace7777]

Saying someone is a narcissist in a subjective way in court and throw that label around is fucked up. Having been through this it won’t work for the person being abused by the narc and the court. The motion should be an evaluation and a psychological diagnosis for the narc for NPD

[@heathersoper6923]

Do judges always read the case files in America, before the case?

[@EneangEZ1]

How to unlock on the phone ?

[@JulieSnowstudiojuliesnow3698]

22:50

[@houseofkungfu2543]

Hey Rebecca do you do long distance attorney help? I'm in Ohio

[@markyoung6036]

Expose the truth !! ❤

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

YES! What was your favorite part of the video?

[@archiehendricks6093]

What if I now know what their shame is, can i rub it in. Can I show no mercy.

[@OO-bw5on]

My soon to be ex doesn’t want to pay spousal support but I have videos of him gambling and partying with his ex wife can I use this for my case also have pictures of him with my 17 yr old daughter at the bars taking shots

[@rochelleraven4923]

Expose the narcissist!

[@dennisswanberg1718]

Expose the truth 😊

[@willkraus4233]

Court...

[@jenniferhendricks9567]

omg i took my well one of them to court and he didnt even show up. he called the judge and made me look like the "bad guy"...omg...courts dont really work ....just leave walk out and dont look back on the relationship. (I should really write my book)

[@blackbart9515]

What if she HAS a clinical diagnosis?

[@ADORABEL25]

Howww can somebody tell us how

[@danielwoodard4949]

Expose the Truth

[@cherylhillskemper7564]

I spent $60K on therapy treating my PTSD. I got the money from a QDRO account. That is all I got from the divorce. He never paid child support or spousal support. It wasn't computerized in 1998 when my divorce became final after 3 years. So, I bought a car, some school clothes for my 3 children, a downpayment on an apartment and therapy. I know exactly how much I spent, because that is the amount the judge said I was supposed to get. My ex was supposed to pay for the transfer of the money and all court costs. I waited one year, but ex never did. So, those costs came out of my portion of the QDRO too. I paid for the transfer because my 2 youngest sons & I were living in my aunt's garage that she had converted into a makeshift apartment. My cars kept getting rear ended when I would try to go to work so I could pay rent. I got fired from 4 jobs because I was always in court, so I had to work temp jobs. 10 years later I took the ex to court to see if I could get some form of child support. Again, there was a series of car accidents that were not my fault, my garage door kept breaking, my apartment & cars were broken into weekly. I found out at that time from my attorney that my ex, during the course of my marriage, had been putting money, investments, another home, vehicles, in another woman's name. I should have filed charges or tried to do something at that time, but I was seriously afraid for my life. Yes, I did have a restraining order, that the ex violated over 100 times, which is where I stopped counting. But, because my cars kept getting rear ended and t-boned, I was tired of getting broken bones. I could not prove my ex was a part of it., & at the time I was living on the bare minimum with no assets, not even a phone because my rent was 75% of my take home pay. What I do know is that when my ex fell off a roof while he was off on disability from work (so he wouldn't have to pay support), he broke his hip, his back, his leg, ribs........it was at that time that all my "accidents" no longer occurred. I would love to take him back to court, but, of course, statute of limitations expired long ago....probably 20 years ago.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Please check this out for extra support - icanslay.com/

[@soojinchoung8996]

How about when you have a parenting coordinator who is also narcissistic and biased towards hard working Asian women?

[@Progamers0.0]

expose the truth

[@juliemacleod-michel197]

Exposure the narcissist

[@amberphilhower576]

Do you still practice law?

[@90jagadish]

In Texas, police says that they can’t take any action on narcissistic abuse

[@jillr759]

I’m sure here in the Bay Area it would be a flat no as well.

[@LifetalksandTales]

Why do lawyers show each other evidence my daughters lawyer had enough evidence to prove him unfit and he kept showing the evidence to his lawyer and then his lawyer would show it to him. so they had time to make up excuses

[@johnsonjames702]

I want to appreciate those that recommended *Dr Sabo love* the on this channel, he's very good when it comes to spell casting, I can testify that...

[@heathersoper6923]

He won't mediate, says he's done nothing wrong. He's written contradictions, good evidence. I'm using his evidence against him.

[@kfg7248]

Expose the truth!

[@ADORABEL25]

I feeling like giving up. He lie so much. Gaslighting so much. I don’t even know where to begin to show prove he is lying. He twist everything. Playing the victim I’m so tired q😢

[@carafloydpresley6584]

Expose the truth!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

YES! What is something that brings you joy?

[@laurajean8857]

What if he or she can't afford an Attorney?

[@miket713]

What do you mean

[@carlosalvarado5729]

@@miket713 what if you have no money to hire an attorney....simple question.

[@joemckernan]

AMEN!

[@danski1576]

Expose the Truth !!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Yes! Do you have a good support system in place? 🙌

[@amberphilhower576]

EXPOSE THE TRUTH!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Louder!

[@ElizabethRobins-er2pn]

Knock 'em dead. Tomorrow, court, the narc breached an undertaking by not paying child support, that's coercive control, is provable and an offense in Australia. I'm asking for cash, as he disowned my girl on paper,, He can pay to get his name removed from the birth certificate in an undertaking instead of a 5-year charge, to him, his mum, and dad. (who pretended to be solicitors over 12 yrs to intimidate me, but they are not). Boom

[@joannabenedict5076]

Knockem DeaDD

[@heathersoper6923]

AMEN.

[@rterrigino]

AMEN!!!!

[@heathersoper6923]

That is my fear, that the judge will believe his lies.

[@carpathianken]

That's why it's so important that your case is principally based on evidence & facts , that way the judge won't be influenced by his lies.

[@taraelmegreen5527]

Sounding gr8!! The ass__Ole is suing me for when I lived with him!!! And I have had to bring a VPO against him because he will NOT stop harassing and stalking me!!😡😡

[@bee3ceo]

Judges just human 🤷🏻‍♂️ with a fancy college degree who tries to play god roles.