Being one of your dive buddies who knew Melanie and watched this unfold, I can attest that no "funny business" was going on between you and Melanie. I will say that this was equally hard on Melanie as well, as your ex-wife decided to confront her, and threatened to ruin her marriage as well. Very unfortunate, I'm saddened that this happened to you, and to Melanie. Let's go diving and plan our next motorcycle adventure together, as life is too short to dwell on the past!