How Sexual Rejection Affects Your Husband | Paul Friedman

[@streetprofessor275]

When you reject your husband you are conditioning him to not want you. When he starts to reject you he has already checked out.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

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[@cur244]

Exactly what happened to me. After so long you just give up and don't bother trying anymore. Then the attraction is basically gone.

[@elev8torguy130]

Yup

[@Joey2Pedals]

Same here ​@@cur244

[@omardavids8912]

TRUTH!

[@LifeReScripted-MDC]

Honestly want it all to end. I am truly without hope. Just together for the kids.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

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[@surronzak8154]

I feel you, same here .. stay strong for them, my little girl asked me why I never cry, if only she knew

[@dennisrobinson8008]

cried out@@surronzak8154

[@derrickrichfields7337]

I feel u bro. It’s sad. Very very sad

[@rayastro6587]

Just cheat man. It’s her fault anyways. Don’t deprive yourself of what you need. It’s just nature.

[@fionawhite1418]

Thank you. My husband is really important to me. I needed to hear this.

[@HeavyHaul51]

My wife needs to hear this, but she deletes anything I send her. Then gets pissed and an argument starts. In 51 years together we have had makeup sex. Before there was no sex at all, if we?had an argument it would be anywhere from 2 to 4 or more weeks before she would be interested. The last 5 years it been 2x the last 3years 0. Granted im 72 but im still good to go with no pills but no interest from her side. Talk about being frustrated and yes angry at times. I could go on about things but ill stop now.

[@joshuamac6302]

I'm sorry to hear about that, I'm sure it hurts because it does for me

[@nomernomznomz6015]

Right on sis

[@Oroo420]

Thank you for being one of the ones trying to figure it out and improve. You give me hope. I know my wife cares but I am trying to figure out how to approach this topic with her to begin with, without damaging our relationship and most importantly, without making her feel guilty for me feeling the way I do. After 14 years I still want to spend the rest of my life with her and it's certainly not an easy thing to talk about nor even understand how to approach. Might I ask, how things are going since your comment?

[@pistache28]

Your husband is lucky because very few women realise that! My wife stopped looking after me just to be a mother and now I don't want her.

[@pauldourge2123]

Thank you Mr. Friedman. Excellent video.

[@lamboknainggolan9895]

a very wise advice, hopefully there are many wives out there find this video, just hopefully.❤

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

My hope, too. But that is God's business. I can only do my best 🙏

[@amyj.4992]

I appreciate that, set aside my minds ego and get into my heart to love on my husband

[@amyj.4992]

It's hard to get in the mood when I'm stressed out, but it's something I can work on

[@amyj.4992]

I want to contribute my heart, to my marriage

[@michellerose7591]

Thank you great information, could you please do another video on this important subject and go deeper into this 🦋

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

The real topic is about creating loving connection, then this problem will solve itself

[@blancaorozco7537]

Waow! I never thought I could willingly decide how to feel about something. Your right! I have that God giving power of free will. Thank you for bringing light. ❤

[@neumoi3324]

It is all over for me. She rejected me 12 to 15 years ago. I continue to live with her because I can’t see the benefits in a divorce either, though to be frank, I considered it long and hard. Now at 70 I still stay rejected but at peace with myself and don’t want the disease of sexual desire to return to my mind. The apparatus won’t even work.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

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[@alanlaserson9035]

My wife says that I just found a video that says what I want it to say. She says I have to go for walks with her before she will have any intimacy.

[@butlerka2606]

Great video. Thank you!

[@Donnacat33]

Awesome 👍

[@hoffmanxgunnar]

Going through this right now 2 times in the last 6 months 5 times in the last year

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Look for more help here themarriagefoundation.org/

[@blancaorozco7537]

It is so painful, the same is happening to me, like 4 or 5 times a year and it’s driving me crazy, he has no sexual desire for me even though I’m in good shape, other men finds me attractive so I know this situation is no good.

[@TomikaKelly]

​​@@blancaorozco7537 Being "in good shape" (from an aesthetic standpoint) is about YOUR PARTNER'S perception of you, NOT YOUR OWN perception of your shape. That said, there are 8 BILLION people on this planet. If your husband isn't interested in sex with you and sex is something you can't live without, then you have MORE THAN ENOUGH options on the planet to choose from, provided that you both agree to open up the marriage. Sometimes we don't and can't get everything we want from one person and that's okay.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

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[@Laylah8888]

Hey guys! Blessings to all. Paul. Do you have this material, as feeling rejected as a wife? If not, Please please 🙏 can you put your input as a therapist, Godly man and as a person( Man) thanks n 🙏

[@villejohn8926]

Thanks sir. makes me feel better now.

[@PhilSpeaks]

So intelligently and wisely taught.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Thank you, I just want your marriage to be incredible

[@Destiny-Les]

What if she’s pregnant? Someone please answer this I cannot find anyone speaking on this

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

I don't understand the question but search our channel

[@vidyashproothveerajh1871]

Thank you so much🙏

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

You are welcome so much ...make your marriage wonderful!

[@brth7085]

In my situation, it all started from him not giving much attention during the day, I never get hugged, I never get kissed, in 8 years of marriage I have never been told in beautiful and very rarely get told I’m pretty or look good. In the very beginning , I would try to hug him and he didn’t like it. He would said it’s too hot for hugs. I felt like I smelled bad or something :( all those little things made me not show him affection. Yet, at night, he needs to get off, of course, so he seeks that, and it’s not what I want. Now most of the time I say no to sex. 🤷‍♀️ one thing will lead to another.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Now that you are rejecting him I am sure your marriage is getting even worse. Why not at least read one of my books so you have a better idea of what a good marriage is supposed to look like and how we are supposed to behave.

[@damianblakely788]

In your case I understand why you wouldn't want to have sex. You feel like that's all he wants you for so I don't blame you for not being into it. I'm the husband here and I am constantly telling my wife how incredibly gorgeous she is to me and how much I love her. Always hug and kiss her, grab her butt and tell her how much I want her. She does give me the routine hugs and kisses but doesn't want to have sex as often as me. I should say that we do have sex like once a week or every other week but it's gotten to the point where I feel like she's just doing it because she thinks I expect it and I don't want to feel like some charity case. Our sex life used to be way better and much more fun. I don't know what happened but it's messing my head up to the point that I'm not even going to be able to perform if she decides she does want it.

[@EliteBrothertv]

If he’s smart he’ll leave you or get it from another woman.

[@Ridingrules10000]

You need to do more things together. If you don't have anything in common, find some things and set aside time to do them. Learn something new together. Regarding sex, plan for it. Don't wait until bedtime, and don't let it be just about him. Seriously. Sit down together and make a plan to work on your sexual connection intentionally. Empty, hollow sex isn't good sex for either of you. If you plan ahead explicity, it will be easier to be present for each other in the moment.

[@javakumarmitra]

I love you description

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Thank you 🙏

[@theresadony1215]

What is the case when the man is the one rejecting/ denying the wife sex

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

It still boills down to a marriage that is not being properly lived and it needs to be rejuvinated. themarriagefoundation.org/

[@Snow-of-the-Artic]

Obviously meeting a woman who’s treated like a little sister instead of a wife hasn’t happened in your career. Yes, I’ve ( not WE due to his lack of input) had the talk about this, he changed for a day before it was back to the same old treatment. He can’t even do anything meaningful without prompting which says a lot about how he really feels. How can I sleep with my husband who acts like a big brother or roommate? It’s like how I imagine sleeping with family would be, yuck! Very awkward.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

I have no idea what point you want to make other than you sure don't like my advice LOL It's not for everyone.

[@juanalvarezjr.403]

Good information

[@rabidgator6473]

Really ????? Not every guy’s “ego”, gets hurt. I’ve been rejected by my wife time and time again. It’s not a hurt ego, I’m just tired of being rejected. So why waist my time ? I would rather have more sleep. Ego has. Nothing to do with it.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

The ego disguises so much because it protects itself from scrutiny. That being said, if you want to have a great marriage you need to know how and you need to control the mind so love is the initiator of all your actions. Try digging deeper themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/

[@rabidgator6473]

@@TheMarriageFoundationI didn’t say anything about “great”, or even “good” marriage. I’m not a proud man, I see things for what they are. When a wife with holds sex and throws out the occasional barb; along with only wanting to have sex when she wants and you have to massage her first. No….it’s not ego, when you rub her back 3 nights in a row and she falls asleep on you…..not ego. It’s tiring, and a complete waste of time. I could have gotten a few more minutes of sleep too.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

When you are perfect you can expect and will have perfection. Until then we must work toward joy and love, then our marriages are great, indeed! themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/

[@MrJaxparadize]

You can’t save a marriage when she cheats.

[@VictoriaReadsReddit]

Now where's the video on how sexual rejection affects the wife?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Search for it on the channel

[@tyroncline5978]

@@TheMarriageFoundationthey don’t want to focus on what they do wrong, they want to focus on being a victim 100%

[@Traylormade_Chief]

​@@tyroncline5978he said search it on hos channel. Meaning he has a video for it. He even said in this video that he is harder on men.

[@foggymorrnning9319]

Wow so have sex even at the expense of my own emotional state! Just for his emotions. Im responsible for his emotions he isn't. 😂 and 😢

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Your understanding of sex is conventional because we are bombarded with so much stupid information from people who simply don't get it, no matter how many degrees they have. Emotions are part of the ego, but you are a soul. You are "responsible" to love your husband with all your heart, mind, and soul because that is what you promised and that is what will fulfill your heart. No, you are not responsible for his emotions, just for your efforts to learn to love unconditionally. Learn more! You will be glad you did. I promise.

[@cur244]

Women that don't want to have sex with their husbands shouldn't have got married. No guy wants to be in married to a roommate.

[@jenniferbryant2700]

​@@TheMarriageFoundationMen also have a responsibility to their wife.. when your wife is having to work 2 jobs, she is tired. When the husband gives minimum effort, that's what he gets in kind.

[@Traylormade_Chief]

​@jenniferbryant2700 what about the husband working? U sound like u blame him. Do u desire ur husband? Do u make him feel wanted and not needed? Does how he feels matter to u? Do u ask him for sex?

[@fernandodiaz5461]

No he's responsible for his happiness, he need to go get himself 1 or 2 slides just incase the first one is broken . I carry spares all the time