Hmm, it’s dumbfounding how many KZbin videos bias this subject as the husband is not doing enough or not doing things just right to keep their wife interested, attracted and engaged. Believe me, as a man married 35 years to the same lovely woman, wives have plenty of things they need to improve on too.
@TheMarriageFoundation5 ай бұрын
That's for sure. But you asked what you can do, not what she can do. I let wives know what they can do when they ask.
@stevenphillips80415 ай бұрын
28 years for me
@kimberlyboldt52134 ай бұрын
Yes, this is true. Both in the marriage need to work on themselves. I've been married for 41 years and we are going through problems. No marriage is perfect. The point is how we think. Is it healthy or unhealthy. Right now my husband is very angry. Angry about everthing to the point where he is drinking heavily everynight. That enhances his anger even more. We've attempted to discuss this. I love him dearly. He says he's angry with me. I try to listen and understand. I apologize if I've genuinely offended him. I do have a stubborn streak. But this is not helping. So I try to understand his overall anger. What is causing it. Why isn't he happy? We don't have a typical marriage. I wanted to be a stay at home wife, but financial circumstances wouldn't allow it. I now work 48-50 hours a week so we can make ends meet. He is retired on Social Security. I know the economy is bad and many people are struggling out there. I've guessed part of it. He needs something meaningful to do. Every man does. I keep up my looks daily. I dress conservatively, but attractively. I cook when I can, and clean when I can, but now keeping up the house has fallen on him. And we have a small home. I get why he doesn't want to do it, but he expects me to do it now even after working 48 to 50 hours a week. This has gone on now for 3 months straight. I'm now walking on eggshells, because if I say anything now, it's taken out of context. We are not intimate. We haven't been for 2 years. I miss that closeness. I fear we are drifting apart now. So I wonder now if he wants out of the marriage. Does he feel trapped? Or is he just going through a hard time? He won't discuss his feelings with me. So the only thing I can do is be patient.
@jakestown19524 ай бұрын
You can only ever change yourself.
@dgim12314 ай бұрын
Amazing how full of shit this video is. I agree with the other response how it's always the husband's fault. The wife never has any accountability. Ridiculous video.
@richardgulan7843 жыл бұрын
My wife is a dismissive avoidant. Your ways do not work for them. I do everything you say men should with their wives. She needs counseling and doesn’t see it.
@TheMarriageFoundation3 жыл бұрын
Your wife being labeled by you, the man who promised to love her through thick and thin is lacking a husband who will treasure her. Become an ideal husband before you expect an ideal wife, Any complaining you do about her is a powerful erosion of happiness.
@m.s91462 жыл бұрын
@@TheMarriageFoundation wow! You are so right about a man taking this approach.
@youraccount70032 жыл бұрын
I've persevered for thirty plus years with my partner but I was the only one to do the research and the work needed. She just ignored the fact that we were growing apart. I always felt like she was holding something back in our relationship. I've just realised that she has "intimacy anorexia". Which is why she pulls back from throwing herself fully into the relationship. Her behaviour meets every single criteria spot on for this issue. Probably stems from the childhood trauma of her mother pushing her away. Trouble is that it is an addictive behavioural habit which she has absolutely no intention of breaking. In a nutshell, she's shutting off her ability to love and be loved.
@ecgodsmack862 жыл бұрын
Hope all works out for all husband's and wives!
@PapuchoG89 Жыл бұрын
For reals !! Ungrateful women to start off its me me me take take take entitlement entitlement … nagging
@brucek65634 ай бұрын
It's almost 7 years since we've been intimate. She doesn't even want to talk about it. I figured she doesn't love me and isn't interested in me anymore. But as soon as another woman says "hi" to me when we're out, she gets jealous. I don't understand it.
@TheMarriageFoundation4 ай бұрын
Perhaps you can learn more about women and marriage so your not befuddled? themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@tofty214 ай бұрын
Try 34 years in a sexless marriage. It’s not been easy!
@brucek65634 ай бұрын
@@tofty21 My heart goes out to you!!!
@easymacoldtown39544 ай бұрын
She misses the jealousy. Women are not particularly attracted to feeling one or two feelings, they want to feel cycles of emotional stimulation. She doesn't love you, she loves the way you make her feel. If you don't give her a roller-coaster, she'll get bored.
@philf39133 ай бұрын
Shes protecting her investment. She'll divorce you down the road and take everything she can get her claws on (401K, house, pension, investments etc !!) Get rid of her now !!. Shes probably already started a divorce fund.
@susancruz7292 жыл бұрын
Yes. It is not a set of behaviors but a disposition of the heart. An attitude, as you say. So I don’t have to feel bad if someone does not say “I love you” every time they walk out the door, or forget my birthday or our anniversary. I would trade ALL of that for the gentle hand of empathy. One flesh........
@TheMarriageFoundation2 жыл бұрын
desire is the enemy. Unconditional love is the cure
@manknowsnothing37962 жыл бұрын
I needed this!! You’re so right about western psychology and therapy. Seen so many videos about women not having sex and all of that. This is the video i was needing. I’ve watched literally hundreds of videos and this is by far the best advice i’ve gotten. Even my couples therapist isnt giving me this. Thank you so much. Im going to change my thinking. Also, i think therapy should start immediately after the honeymoon. You need the tools from the start. My goodness, just great info.
@TheMarriageFoundation2 жыл бұрын
Get the course for men, Ches, and let the couple's counselor go if you want to make super progress.
@fayezurrahman8141 Жыл бұрын
Very gentle, very amiable, very special psychological speaker, so insight so much perfect speaker. God bless him, I seldom like on line speaker, but this gentleman is the best.....
@phanglianteo68562 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Very good info, practical & most important, it is genuinely honest straight.
@1969bogdi3 жыл бұрын
You’re almost correct when you say there’s a lack of education regarding marriage in the western or more so in the American culture…. I would add more to that notion by saying that there is too much poisonous/wrong education in US regarding marriage. This negative “education” in US comes from the media, the tv series, tv shows, which provide plenty of bad examples where the idea of divorce, and happiness after divorce becomes the normality. And then the couple counselors are telling you that you have to do more , perhaps, etc…
@TheMarriageFoundation3 жыл бұрын
I agree, however, keep in mind that right education is like a light in a dark room and dispels the nonsense conveyed by the misinformed.
@TheJavsolo3 жыл бұрын
@@TheMarriageFoundation indeed you are wise, I wish to learn the ways
@kenster671007 ай бұрын
Dude is clueless. Woman will.still be miserable. The true beta male. Guy was a toxic female in another life
@timothyhenegar7484Ай бұрын
Marriage is about "love" and "happiness". Broad terms when communication, reciprocation, affection, honesty, trust, contribution, and honor in conduct to each other ARE NOT mentioned in the beginning! You want love, you show it as you expect it, you want happiness? You pull your own weight and have your partner's/spouse's back in their time of need. It's called trust and respect!
@TheMarriageFoundationАй бұрын
Well, sure, but the basis has to be love and joy, and that is not taught. We must begin with ourselves and manifest those qualities in ever-increasing ways as we become more and more identified with our true nature; the soul Look at our articles and videos here themarriagefoundation.org/
@m.s91462 жыл бұрын
His advice is amazing. This is exactly how I felt before leaving my ex husband and filing for divorce.
@tomcatdsl4 ай бұрын
It's works both ways too.
@josephrivera42333 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel. Hope it's not to late for us.
@TheMarriageFoundation3 жыл бұрын
If you are that point then it would be a good idea to look at our courses themarriagefoundation.org/
@waledawodu84423 жыл бұрын
I’m in your boat, a sinking boat, and I’m hoping the same. Hoping it is not too late.
@jt87132 жыл бұрын
any updates?? how did it go??
@josephrivera42332 жыл бұрын
@@jt8713 she’s gone, said she’s in love again. 32 years gone.
@jt87132 жыл бұрын
@@josephrivera4233 sorry to hear man i hope you find happiness if you havent already
@shaquitah19832 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what made me pull back from putting in as much effort. Thank you so much for this clarity for our marriage. For so long I thought I was overthinking it when I wasn't. Sometimes I didn't know why but now it makes sense.
@irishsavage8715 Жыл бұрын
He’s better off without you
@baconboy7697Ай бұрын
When a woman is ready to leave theres really nothing you can say to truely change her mind😢
@TheMarriageFoundationАй бұрын
In most cases, if she hasn't left yet, there is plenty you can do themarriagefoundation.org/marriage-course-for-men/
@alanpyropyro77072 жыл бұрын
I hope it's not to late for me neither just pushed my wife away due to my Insecurities I was an asshole for An Entire Week no talking being angry being negative . Now that she seems like she is done I'm dying inside feel guilty and alone
@TheMarriageFoundation2 жыл бұрын
Changing one's self is a process that requires a plan and the proper tools.
@alanpyropyro77072 жыл бұрын
@@TheMarriageFoundation Omg I'm like dying idk what to do anymore I don't know if I've lost her completely 💔
@TheMarriageFoundation2 жыл бұрын
get the course. you need much more than just the videos here
@alanpyropyro77072 жыл бұрын
I did realize One Thing . And That's just to change for the future and be a positive person . I talked to her and I took full responsibility for my actions . We are taking it Day By Day To be Stronger Then Ever 💪👌
@juanmalone80533 ай бұрын
Same
@artisc9584 ай бұрын
Shalom dear sir. I really enjoyed your down to earth heart chat about restoring a rocky marriage. Couples appear to not want to put in the work required for a successful marriage. Thank you for your encouraging thoughts.
@TheMarriageFoundation4 ай бұрын
Thank you kindly
@Rondup22 күн бұрын
After 30 years of marriage my husband has been a jerk so many times; you fall out of love.
@larryy646717 минут бұрын
It's your fault too . women take no responsibility
@palmerpowermotorsports692410 ай бұрын
Ok, what do ya do if your wife will not change, will not work on our marriage, nothing. I have been 200% for 3 years, been together 22years, I'm tired. Real tired
@TheMarriageFoundation10 ай бұрын
No matter how hard you work on your marriage untill you work on yourself and do it correctly nothing will change.
@robertgoodrich89538 ай бұрын
Divorce her. Life is too short
@barbswander91745 ай бұрын
@Teamster839 ай бұрын
Why is it always the guys problem
@TheMarriageFoundation9 ай бұрын
The problem is with the person who feels the problem and the solution is with the one who makes the right kind of effort.
@qreousm33729 ай бұрын
It is always the same story. Guys are always at fault.
@TheMarriageFoundation9 ай бұрын
Only love can replace fault finding/ Women sometimes say the same thing because it is hard to hear that we can improve ourselves, but with the proper use of will we can change our lives and our marriages.
@fsalmeron3 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!
@bacchusdionysus73452 ай бұрын
If you do too much for her she says you do too much and if you don’t do that much then you avoid her and she needs another man so which is it. Stop blaming men and start to look into it being women wanting to soak their wild oats. 😊
@allenpeters1828 Жыл бұрын
Thanks sir very good it help alot
@denniscraig20272 жыл бұрын
I like this your the real deal on this stuff.
@cnjcroya13232 жыл бұрын
I'm about to love on my wife ❤️ it was almost as if you were talking straight to me. You are so right.... I have to change some things because I have been a real dick lately. Thank you so much for your advice and my God bless you abundantly as well as your family 💯
@sarahmyob6862 Жыл бұрын
Boy I wish my husband would think this way! He won't do anything with me..
@mics16942 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or did you just list three signs that she doesn't love you instead of four? Because I'm really interested in hearing number four
@TheMarriageFoundation2 жыл бұрын
It happens, as I don't plan these talks, But, the main point of the video is that you can do something about it rather than be fatalistic.
@edwardcacho73313 ай бұрын
Very good information.
@TheMarriageFoundation3 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful for your marriage!
@olatokunbohashiru78362 жыл бұрын
Thanks I came across your site, I need this so much to advise a very troubled adopted brother whose wife is violently abusive
@finngamesknudson1457 Жыл бұрын
So far this video seems to be about fixing reparable relationships. Generally when man does not make wife feel loved enough to make effort to love back. If one is in a violently abusive relationship it is time to run. As brother you need to be prepared to accept him into your home until he can rebuild his single life. If STBex is violent enough, he needs to go to shelter specializing in abused spouses - and you need to be prepared in case she blames (and becomes violent toward) you.
@82DevilsNDisguise7 ай бұрын
What if it’s too late?
@TheMarriageFoundation7 ай бұрын
It is rarely too late but it may be. Write to our counselors (it is free) and explain what is going on and they will tell you, honestly.
@TheTaylorsVideos2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video, yeah, I’m about to walk away
@jonquebyrd31052 жыл бұрын
What if it's the wife that's the issue and the husband is doing the work? What if she's doing all the stuff your saying the husband is doing?
@TheMarriageFoundation2 жыл бұрын
The same ideas apply.
@maccliff21152 күн бұрын
1 - She has no time/interest for you. 2 - She goes out more without you 3 - She stops looking good for you. 4 -
@lovewords7 ай бұрын
Saving my marriage one video at a time ❤ thank you so much
@TheMarriageFoundation7 ай бұрын
I love to hear that. Go for it!!
@abdiabdullahi12492 жыл бұрын
thanks you so much
@zivilerasinskaite941810 ай бұрын
Could you do a video on love and what it is in general ?
@TheMarriageFoundation10 ай бұрын
Wow! You want an easy topic, don't you LOL... Start repeating "I am love, I am Joy" with ever deepening attention on your self, the soul, and you will knoow it. Words can in no way define love. You can only realize it...and you can! 🙏
@williereed5086 ай бұрын
Women will leave you in a heartbeat 😮
@TheMarriageFoundation6 ай бұрын
Men will, too. One must be educated to make their marriage work
@Zimbertica Жыл бұрын
My girlfriend of 7 years dumped me this past Mother's Day, said she didn't love me anymore. I know it's because I stopped listening to her and appreciating her and making sure she was seen and heard and validated due to problems in my own life. I lost the emotional connection that we had. I realize my mistakes and am working on changes and living my best life. We are still friends and will co-parent our child but I do hope that working on myself and rebuilding the emotional connection will reattract her.
@TheMarriageFoundation Жыл бұрын
you need to use a process for change such as what you would have from the course for men themarriagefoundation.org/
@robertlulek16342 ай бұрын
I've made my mistakes with my wife, but I've been nothing but a sweetheart and she still fights with me and wants nothing to do with me and withhold sex so what can I do in this case?
@TheMarriageFoundation2 ай бұрын
If your marriage is so far off that you are both unhappy you can revive it by using the course for men themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@bubasprint Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@cat4099 Жыл бұрын
😔 great listen Thanks
@brt-jn7kg2 ай бұрын
Been married for 32yrs. Been wife her since we were 15 and I'm currently watching the marriage implode. It's like watching a sinking submarine waiting for the crush depth!!!!! Just all this wasted time
@TheMarriageFoundation2 ай бұрын
You can save your marriage! Use the course for women themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@recycledknowledgeispower20112 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@davidmazariegos44562 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your sharing your wisdom!
@tametra_lasha Жыл бұрын
Is once a week too much for "girls night out?". Men get together at least once a week for sports. I want to understand, NOT spark a debate. Help!
@TheMarriageFoundation Жыл бұрын
If girls night out is like for Bible study or doing art together then its fine. or something else that is enriching then its a good thing. But if its going to a bar or to gossip, than it is not lady-like and is bad for your self and your marriage.
@tametra_lasha Жыл бұрын
@@TheMarriageFoundation Thanks for responding. I wholeheartedly agree!
@myc7779 Жыл бұрын
That is very bad
@robertgoodrich89538 ай бұрын
If you need the company of other people than your spouse once a week, you need another spouse
@DivorceStoppers6 ай бұрын
Very good
@stever2118 Жыл бұрын
Thanks, marriage guy!
@belle8i6 ай бұрын
My man has bouts of anger and negativity and wants to fight about the most trivial things. It's getting on my nerves and I'm losing all attraction. I feel like I'm on a rollercoaster. He wants to be around me all the time and I just need some space. He gets upset if I want to get things done or have downtime for myself after my physical job. I feel like his mother, not his wife.
@TheMarriageFoundation6 ай бұрын
Sounds like what is "normal" so get one of my books to look for ways to improve your marriage
@AeiThop5 ай бұрын
Exactly what my wife says. 😂
@imana483810 ай бұрын
Spot on
@roytoy6 ай бұрын
Lol... its always the guys fault according to yet another expert. Why do you think we golf, play video games, go to the movies alone, get outside of the house second jobs? To minimize the time we have to spend with her! We are not attracting her? It's a two way street pal.
@TheMarriageFoundation6 ай бұрын
Some men feel like you and end up miserable, not hearing that their understanding of women and marriage is off. Others dig deeper and then choose to change.
@jeffgreen7499Ай бұрын
Yeah, I get more enjoyment playing baseball, my guitar and bass, even painting the shed. We don't do anything together that is worthwhile anymore. And it's been like this for 20+ years. I don't bother asking her to do anything anymore, it's she's too tired, legs hurt, back hurts, tummy's upset, etc. We used to hike together---she won't keep up anymore---strangling behind and complaining. I can't walk that slow. It's no use, she and I share just about zero common interests. I have to pick up after her now, she won't even do that. I make the bed, feed that cats, clean their litter. Where did her energy go? Vaporized! Not fun, but it's for better or worse. Yes, it could be worse, but it could be better if she made any effort. She hasn't and she's not going to. Still, I'll be as good as I possibly can because I'm responsible for my behavior.
@maga14758 ай бұрын
Yeah... The more I tell her how beautiful she is the less interest she has towards me.
@TheMarriageFoundation8 ай бұрын
Marriage is about developing a connection between soulmates, not just saying this or that. Unless she feels your love the words will be empty to her.
@mondlimzulwini11732 ай бұрын
Am starting to feel like woman always want what you don't have. If you have the money they want affection and all that stuff if you have affection they want money if you and that they want looks if you have the looks they want adventure they if you do have that they want dangerous if you have that they want the other.
@TheMarriageFoundation2 ай бұрын
Men are.... be kind, loving, and live in joy my brother. Marriage is awesome themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@dagdabran51086 ай бұрын
Rhis is the issue with western thinking. Love as we think it should be is not how it always is. Marriage is not about live but a partnership. If you remember it is for better or worse rich or poor. It is work to be married.
@TheMarriageFoundation6 ай бұрын
You can have love in a safe environment so don't be afraid of that. Learn to love unconditionally and you will realize what marriage is all about.
@jeffgreen7499Ай бұрын
It shouldn't be difficult. It's not difficult for me to be my best self, but it is becoming more difficult because of her indifference. I married a stranger. Here is her exact comment to me 5 years ago(after married 20 years) Out of nowhere I get: "You've changed since we got married." I ask, "How have I changed?" She says, "You never used to get mad." I ask, "What else changed?" She says, "That's all, nothing else." I say, "If that's the only thing that changed, I never used to get mad, you think maybe there is a reason for that?" Silence................
@jtough7499 Жыл бұрын
Mine says she loves me. She said that she is in too much pain. Shoulders and hips. Stress from work and self-image after 4 kids that she has no drive at all. We still have intimacy, just not sex. I'm hoping we are okay.
@TheMarriageFoundation Жыл бұрын
Learning to love, unconditionally, is how to rise above the mind's inclinations, including bodily rebelion, which tend to control us. Most people love, but not deeply, from the heart, the soul. This is normal in a world that consumes us with "how are we doing" impositions, so we teach how to push the mind back and how to cultivate love from within. Then, as you learn these natural skills your love will be clear to her. At the same time we teach the rules of the marital road.... themarriagefoundation.org/ we want you to succeed!
@yusufzubeir25652 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir, indeed very good advice!
@RowlandSunday5 ай бұрын
Unfortunately everything said in this video is true. And unfortunately this speaks directly to some of us who have experienced this for real.
@TheMarriageFoundation5 ай бұрын
You CAN turn things around, don't give up themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@abdulshafaq71572 жыл бұрын
Thanks 💯
@LANOfMilk2 ай бұрын
Wish I could say it gets better. IT DOES NOT!!! You're better off walking away while you still have your sanity.
@TheMarriageFoundation2 ай бұрын
You are better off healing yourself, and your marriage! Thats the truth themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@kakandolo16 ай бұрын
Well done Paul God bless you
@TheMarriageFoundation6 ай бұрын
God bless you, too
@douglaidlaw7405 ай бұрын
All love is unconditional, otherwise it is only approval. Some couples pledge to stay together for only 5 years; we have been married for 50+.
@TheMarriageFoundation5 ай бұрын
You arre right that true soul love is unconditional when we have gotten there. But most of us are not there and so consider yourselves blessed
@genelewis2481Ай бұрын
It’s hard knowing she’s no longer into me.
@TheMarriageFoundationАй бұрын
Then change yourself so you are a better husband themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@bamassage6 ай бұрын
I used to think humans were the most intelligent creatures in the world. But are we brilliant? This kind of video makes me think we must be taught about everything, including something that is supposed to be natural, like a relationship between a man and a woman. Think about it: in the days of our grandparents, the relationship rusted for a lifetime, but they didn't have this kind of teaching. Instead, they just approached relationships naturally and traditionally. How about animals? Who teaches them? There are monogamous birds and animals... Who teaches them how to live together for a lifetime? Either we are not as bright as we want to think, or something is very wrong with modern society.
@TheMarriageFoundation6 ай бұрын
There is a lot of selective thinking in your comment. Life is simple when you learn how to love and live in joy. Otherwise, it is pretty complicated.
@yawoyfisinmedms43652 жыл бұрын
wow amazing video thank you
@davelord8039 Жыл бұрын
Wish I had heard all this many years ago
@carlodonnell1467 ай бұрын
Are women always right...and its the mans fault?
@TheMarriageFoundation7 ай бұрын
Men do think that, and women think the opposite. Learning how to bridge the gender gap is a challenge for both genders.
@colindavidson6483 Жыл бұрын
I have trouble confronting my wife about these feelings. They’re clear as day and I do so much to let her know I care. Communication is a real issue
@TheMarriageFoundation Жыл бұрын
Confrontation is never a useful tool of communication. May I suggest you look into our course for men? I think you would do very well with it. themarriagefoundation.org/
@colindavidson64832 ай бұрын
@@Ken_oh545 I don’t think you should give up. I wrote my comment 1 year ago and today we’re divorced, I caught her having an affair and I have so many regrets, I should’ve talked to her earlier, maybe we would’ve split before all this happened. This was 2 months ago, now we split time with our daughter 50/50, I haven’t gotten over her completely, I think about her betrayal every day but I am so free now. I’ve gotten rid of the heavy, stressful part of my life and I get to keep my daughter the most enjoyable part. The other half the time I’m a bachelor. Take control of your life man, you will look back on this time and wonder why you waited so long.
@jeffgreen7499Ай бұрын
@@Ken_oh545 Ken, that's exactly my life minus the kids!
@scottmoore55764 ай бұрын
If the wife has bpd none of this advice will work. She hates herself so nothing you say or do will change her attitude. Sorry pal its not always the man's fault. The only option is to move on. Churches teach the same thing. "If the husband loves his wife like Christ loves the church his wife will come around" In most cases this is true but their are contentious and abusive women where this won't work and the Bible speaks of them as well.
@TheMarriageFoundation4 ай бұрын
I assume that one does not leave his wife because of an illness but stays with her out of love. The vow is "in sickness or health" there are no "so she comes around" vows. If you want a great marriage you can still have one. themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@albertpacheco29095 ай бұрын
My wife works full time and says she wants to find a part time job.
@TheMarriageFoundation5 ай бұрын
It's time for you to improve your connection with her themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@Ironstarfish5 ай бұрын
Mine is always on tiktok but yesh its always seems to be our fault. No wonder men arnt getting married anymore
@TheMarriageFoundation5 ай бұрын
You can have a great marriage and it is not your fault because it isn't a competition but you as an individual can change the dynamics of your marriage themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@stephen-mac2 ай бұрын
I'll check more of your videos out, but I am NOT in a healthy situation. I'm convinced my wife is a full-blown covert narcissist and I just don't believe your program is helpful for that. I think there's an assumption that the other person--at some level--is self reflective and examines themselves, but that's not what I'm working with at all. Right now I'm just doing what I can to survive another year (5 kids). With Christ all things are possible, but I have to think someone at least has to repent before God can work most effectively in their life. Good luck with that. Just a bad situation for 25 years. I just thank God it's not actually me after all this time--if it was, everything would be fine bc I'm more than willing and have changed tremendously over my life and will change still
@TheMarriageFoundation2 ай бұрын
You married her and have chidren with her and are now labeling her....not good! Maybe it is you that needs the work? themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@blacksupremacy13962 ай бұрын
All the women in this chat saying " Yeah, this is why I left or divorced him " . WHat did you do to make yourself attractive. Maybe you need to take a hard look in the mirror !
@TheMarriageFoundation2 ай бұрын
It is very difficult for anyone to look at themselves, men or women, its the toughest thing to do. Then remolding ourselves to be more marriage-friendly is harder still. Usually people don't come for help until their marriage is on the brink. Good news. We can help themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@fugetabouit6634 ай бұрын
How about when the wife cheats on you. Do you continue to love her more over the beautiful innocent angels one has. 🤔
@TheMarriageFoundation4 ай бұрын
If your wife cheats and yyou have kids it is rough. Get the course for men and try to heal the marriage. If you don't have kids then get away from her, but lovingly themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@fugetabouit6634 ай бұрын
@@TheMarriageFoundation thank you for responding. 😊
@ronniepemberton19425 ай бұрын
Sounds like they have nothing in common
@817sports6 ай бұрын
Listen with 2x speed
@TheMarriageFoundation6 ай бұрын
or, calm down, be patient, and absorb what you hear😀
@triciatrish72532 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!!!! I. almost lost hope of finding men who would understand this subject of making love instead of sex.. Such important teaching!!! God help us.. Especially the young generation so exposed to the cheap thing. ..
@WiseRuler Жыл бұрын
I get it now, I experienced this a few weeks ago. My wife is a bigger girl but I was so passionate about how I got to hold her thick thighs and just enjoy her. That wasn't just sex it was love making.
@johnburroughs85322 ай бұрын
It all the man's fault. Bs. I agree you need to always be bettering yourself. And she should always do the same for you. If she has stopped, it may just be her, not you
@TheMarriageFoundation2 ай бұрын
Marriage is very different than what you may think it is. I suggest you look deeper into marriage and what it is and what it is for.
@johnburroughs85322 ай бұрын
@TheMarriageFoundation been married for 30 years
@carlodonnell1467 ай бұрын
Her girl friends are bad influence.....
@TheMarriageFoundation7 ай бұрын
That may be true but it is far from the big problem of not having learned how to connect from the heart
@neilabercrombie54302 ай бұрын
Sounds like too much work to me.
@TheMarriageFoundation2 ай бұрын
Life is too much work when you approach it correctly. The benefits that come from the work in marriage are tremendous, happiness and love off the charts themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@LastRebel19787 ай бұрын
If you make your part better she will do more of the same. Did all those things it’s never enough for a modern woman. All the have is excuses and no accountability. You can’t think you know a woman as a man. Sorry you weren’t her first choice and she’s a victim of her own fate. Princesses. Nope all of us don’t think we’re great but some give and some take
@TheMarriageFoundation7 ай бұрын
Marriage is not about give and take, Its about love and give. You can blame society if you want. Or, you can learn about marriage (take the course for men or at least read one of my books) and get happiness into your marriage
@blacksupremacy13962 ай бұрын
Why is it always about what the women want. I swear EVERY single video is about what the women want and what a man should do and not do to change and please her. Just tell her to GTFOH!
@TheMarriageFoundation2 ай бұрын
You can complain about your wife and your life or you can do sssomething about both. It is up to you themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/