How Should I Deal With A Difficult Person?

How Should I Deal With A Difficult Person?
Prayer does not remove our problems with people, it gives us grace to deal with them. Prayer produces peace. The Christian life is not trying to avoid pain, it’s learning to embrace it.
Betrayal is what people do to us, but bitterness is what we do to ourselves.
Time doesn’t heal wounds, forgiveness does. When you feel offended, pause and ponder instead of trying to prove and defend.
Don’t let your pain stop your purpose; don’t let your misery block your ministry. The devil will use people to hurt you; God will use people to heal you.
Chapters
0:00 - Intro
0:52 - Jesus prayed before dealing with difficult people
1:49 - Jesus used self-control
2:51 - Jesus took the beating
4:14 - Jesus poured out His heart to the Father
4:46 - Forgive before your offenders apologize
5:31 - Jesus responded to the Father
6:25 - Jesus ministered to people while He was suffering
7:48 - Jesus received help from others
9:15 - Jesus avoided the Pharisees after His resurrection
10:45 - Jesus rose again
11:59 - Final thoughts
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[@live1telescope795]

Why would a Ukrainian born man spell his name in Russian? 🔰

[@fjhaydn6047]

"You should distance yourself from people that are not repentant in their toxic behavior." - He just confirmed a decision of mines.

[@toniachantell8002]

I'm saving this to listen to it over and over. Jesus shows us how to not be so easily offended. Sometimes we are the only light the difficult people encounter and how we respond can make a difference in their eternal lives! My feelings don't matter. Pastor Vlad does it again. I learn so much from his videos.

[@AnnaChristianMinistries]

HE'S AMAZING 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

[@lovelyjanecohen2637]

Offense is a major stumbling block satan uses to trip people up with but identifying and confessing strongholds in our lives, and repenting and asking God's forgiveness and renouncing that thinking and behavior along with Gods faithfulness, Holy Spirit will give us His grace to overcome and do what we cannot do alone.

[@alextay416]

“Pain makes you selfish” this really stood out to me. I have a neighbour like this and I believe God has placed him in my life to show me what I could become if I don’t focus on him

[@AnnaChristianMinistries]

GREAT REALISATION 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

[@patrice6287]

It’s my husband. A narcissist. I didn’t know what narcissism was til about 8 years in. I just knew that things were not normal, and that I was never going to be treated like I should be ! We don’t believe in divorce, so I just pray a lot and do my best to keep a calm house

[@rooster555555]

Every unrepentant person is going to show bad qualities. I pray your situation improves

[@ronellgerber777]

Agree, walk away from toxic people after you sowed your seed. GOD, THE HOLY SPIRIT is the only one who let grow.

[@OfftheChainz]

Number 9 has been my main sticking point as I learn to let go of unforgiveness. The guilt is crushing at times but I find myself praying for them a lot more nowadays. The Lord is capable of anything.

[@cpgaming4835]

prayers will ready do miracle. Everytime I will go to work as a nurse, I will start it with prayers especially I know that I will deal with difficult and suffering people.

[@eleftheriasyrmaloglou9914]

As an orthodox Christian I totally agree to everything I heard in this video.Thank you!

[@ChildofGod98765]

Father God, my strength is gone. Your Word says I can do all thing through your son Jesus Christ. Give me strength. I trust in you even as I constantly struggle to pay my rent and as I constantly struggle to provide groceries for my children! Walking with faith is the most important thing us christian’s must do. As a single mom, things are tough on me. Both of my sons are autistic. I’m constantly struggling to provide for my boys. I’m overwhelmed and so ashamed and now that I’m home schooling them I’m having trouble getting their school supplies. Heavenly and merciful Father, I come before your glorious throne today, in humble adoration please help me overcome my struggles and my constant fear of homelessness. I have faith you will get me through this hard time. Amen. ❤ 0:05

[@AliceinHollywood]

God Bless You beautiful soul, Jesus loves you so much and he will never forsake you. I am praying for you and your children 🙏🏻

[@handofgrace5066]

Please go to some churches and explain your situation to them. They can help you get groceries and help guide you to social programs that offer help. It is the body of Christ that is obligated in love to offer help to one another where there is such a need as you are expressing. 1John 3:17,18. Don't feel ashamed to ask for help, love does not look down on people who need and ask for help. The body of Christ (the people in his true church) has the heart of Jesus and take joy in helping others. We are his hands and feet and love expressing in this world. If anyone looks down on you for needing help and asking for help, they do not have the love of God in their heart and are their attitude is a sin. People who walk in love will be happy to help you in any way they can. By asking and receiving help from others you bring joy and fulfillment to them by trusting them and giving them the opportunity to express their love in helping those who need their help and being able to show their love to you and your children. God will bless and answer your prayers. Do your part, and ask his people for the help you need. ♥

[@babyremo3374]

🙏🙏🙏

[@patriciasepulveda2513]

Amen, it’s Great to start my morning with A positive Word of Our Lord Jesus. In the mighty name of Jesus We pray Amen.

[@Anyakolokol]

I was getting nervous regarding the pain and persecution in a walk with the Lord, but then He reminded me that He would not put on me more than I can bear.

[@mariadaniel148]

Pastor Vlad, you are so right. The gift of self-control is one of our greatest gifts.

[@Bunnygottalive]

When that person is your sister and every conversation you try to make she turns it into an insult ,and that into an argument.Than you just gotta walk away to keep some of your own dignity and honor ,you can’t even defend yourself against those people… I’m happy and lucky that God tells us how to behave ,I’d be lost otherwise ❤

[@KnowThySelf1097]

You are absolutely incredible. The Christ shining through you is purely wonderful. I needed this more than you could ever realize. I love you and this ministry in Christ. Thank you may The Lord God bless you and your ministry.

[@blueskies382]

There are different types of difficult people. But the truth is many times it's a test. Only as you fill yourself with the word can you handle situations. Speaking with different types of people helps you as you continue forward and need to help others. Mostly you distance yourself in some way if possible but really it helps in your walk when you come across all sorts of people. The anointing divides, so don't be suprized when it highlights things; it is to help you. God bless 🙏

[@terrenceebert7212]

When u tell the truth about Christ to family u get disown.

[@NmpLilChucky]

Yupp👍

[@roxannamostatabi7791]

My entire family are unbelievers. And one of my closest friends just decided to go back to her abusive partner and has since shut me completely out of her life. I feel lonely and cut off from my loved ones a lot of the time, but I pray that Ill learn how to endure and forgive them for they know not what they do. 😢Please pray for me.

[@locaahhhh]

Please don't take it to heart. I was just on the other end of this and we hide because we don't want to hear the judgment from our loved ones. Just pray for your friend and let her know you're a safe place 🙏

[@Canal.2-qz3qq]

I love how simple this song is. Such a good way to get to the heart of worship.

[@montibrattain5739]

This came to me at a great time. My son is verbally abusive and I get so upset I shout back. I feel so bad when I do that. It never helps. I’m following your advice. I have also started listening to your wife and have shared both of you guys’ videos. Again, thank you both and God bless y’all. ❤

[@montibrattain5739]

@Vladhungrygen- I don’t understand your question

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[@terrenceebert7212]

Forgive and walk away

[@AnnaChristianMinistries]

GOOD ADVICE 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

[@Em1ly949]

Well this 1 roomate of mine that I’ve had to live with for 10+ years is definitely one of these “ difficult “ people! But I’m afraid I don’t act very nice or Christ- like all the time 😞. She makes it extremely hard I must say

[@KetzalySantos]

I know how you feel! It’s good that you are wondering if you were acting Christ-like. I get that. Take deep breaths and say “Lord, forgive me of being offended. Help me please. Help me be Christ-like.”

[@Em1ly949]

@@KetzalySantos I’ve tried praying that so many times 😞& whenever I tell my parents the horror stories about her ( wich they’re well & tired of hearing about after all these years) they always tell me “ why can’t you be more understanding & realize that she’s just Sick ( us roomate all have mental illness) so she basically can’t help her behavior “. I say it’s easy to say that when you don’t live with the person & experience their bouts of Yelling, banging, slamming their door so hard repeatedly, scaring you, & getting mad & often accusing us other roommates of doing things & taking things we haven’t, wich has caused me much stress & anxiety living with that

[@HasanUnknown]

Islam is a religion who makes us to Believe in Jesus, We Muslims 100% Believes in Jesus, We Muslims Believes that Jesus is the Christ, We Muslims Believes that Jesus will Come Again to this World, Jesus did Miracles by the Permission of Allah, Jesus himself Never said “Im God” also Never he said anyone to “Worship Me” Jesus was Just a Prophet and Messenger Of Allah Only to Guide The People of Israel, ----------------------- *Jesus Denies Being God* | Read ⬇️ ----------------------- "My Father is greater than me." [John 14:28] “I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to My God and your God.” [John 20:17] “Jesus said: 'Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.” [Mark 12:29] “Jesus, Fell with his face to the ground and Prayed.” [Matthew 26:39] “Jesus said, “My teaching is not my own, It comes from the one who has sent me.” [John 7:16] “I can of mine own self do nothing: as I hear, I judge: and my judgement is just because I seek not my own will, but the will of the Father who has sent me." [John 5:30] “The crowd answered, This is Jesus, the Prophet.” [Matthew 21:10-11] --------------------- *The Coming Of Prophet Muhammad In Bible* --------------------- “I still have many things to say to you, but you cannot bear them now. When he the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on his own authority, but whatever he hears he will speak, and he will declare to you the things that are to come, He will glorify me, for he will take what is mine and declare it to you.” [John 16:12-14] --------------------- *Allah Clears About Jesus* --------------------- [Quran:- 5:72]:- “Jesus has said, "O Children of Israel, worship Allah, my Lord and your Lord." [Quran:- 19:30]:- “Jesus has said, "Indeed, I am the servant of Allah. He has given me the Scripture and made me a Prophet.” [Quran:- 4:171]:- “Christ Jesus the son of Mary was no more than a messenger of Allah, So believe in Allah and His messengers. Say not "Trinity" desist: it will be better for you: for Allah is one Allah: -------------------

[@jeanettemitchell6357]

You can overcome this. Keep praying and focusing on godly responses and you will gain the victory. We grow in grace and in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. I’m a witness as one who has had to endure a difficult mother all my life. I recently decided that I was not going to respond in kind to her, but show her love and kindness regardless of her constant railings, criticisms, and rejection of me. It’s paying off for me because I now have an abundance of love for her and peace of mind. Keep trying so you can win her over. It’s not her, but the enemy of her soul working in her and God placed you in her life to be a witness. God placed me in difficult situations so that others would see a Christ. In many, not all of those circumstances, God gave me the victory and souls were led into the kingdom of God. That’s why we’re called, to be a light in the world and lead others to Christ. You can do this with God’s help.

[@delphinamary0254]

Please pray for me and my family 🙏

[@tanjabrown5543]

Such wonderful teaching! Liberating. Amen

[@madisonyoung16]

Glory to God, thank you. God bless you. Following Jesus's ways will lead to life, I choose life I choose Jesus

[@user-qm3vx6of7b]

Thank you for your help. I've had so much rejection and I don't have a Sense of belonging. I have no family and am astranged with my daughter. She said I was dead to her. I'm finding out the past several years I have no friends especially any of encouragement or interested in how I am doing. I make a decision everyday to be happy towards others and get none in return. I've depended on Jesus and I am loved and I listen to preaching all day and fall asleep to utube preaching. Thank you for saying that I can suffer as Jesus. Your message will be repeated . Thank you for your help

[@jeanettemitchell6357]

You are not alone in this journey of rejection. I too have lived a life of rejection from the people I love the most, family. My daughter hasn’t spoke to me in nine years. I’ve gotten over the pain of not seeing my grandchildren and have move into a life of praise and thanksgiving to God for a truly blessed life. Instead of focusing on the rejection, I focus on the goodness of God. I think on the things of Philippines 4:8 - true, lovely, honest, just, pure, virtuous, and praiseworthy. Those are the things that enable me to keep holding on and trusting in the God of my salvation and the hope of eternal life with Him. Be blessed!

[@debraybarra5669]

Thank you Vlad. I follow a few what I consider anointed pastors but I truly feel the Word of God is coming not just from your heart but the Holy Spirit himself. My life has more meaning when I understand things from a biblical perspective and I thank you!

[@tittimarchetti]

Ti ringrazio tantissimo le tue parole in questo video sembrano dette apposta per me e la situazione difficile che sto vivendo con un familiare.Dio ti benedica

[@childofthemosthigh958]

This is literally 1 of the best videos I've ever seen. I NEEDED this, I feel like this was written to me 🥰🙏

[@AnnaChristianMinistries]

HE'S AMAZING ISN'T HE 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

[@SaranyaS-hk4xz]

Very useful . Thank you Jesus from Tamil Nadu , one of the states in India..... I have been watching his from 1 month

[@christinemclatchie]

God bless you!! I love Pastor Vlads teaching, and I believe he’s a wonderful man of God. Blessings from Australia 🙏

[@EphemeralProductions]

I have several difficult people in my life, but probably the main one is my coworker, who is loud, overbearing, micromanaging and rude (and crass). She attends my church; we both work for a friend that ALSO goes to my church, so trying to distance myself from her wouldn’t work were I to quit. She’d probably confront me if I stopped talking to her; that’s her kind of way. But I realize now, after 4 years of dealing with her and my boss (who’s also hard to deal with) that maybe God is trying to teach me something through this.

[@nicoleburbano6414]

Wow I needed to hear this! Thank you ❤

[@AmandathePandaBooks]

Let the dead bury the dead. You follow me! - Jesus.

[@estelleVGR]

This was what I needed to hear. Disciplined, but encouraged.

[@christinemclatchie]

Praise God! 🙏

[@terrenceebert7212]

My family has became my enemies

[@dennisdelfina]

Don't worry God is removing them for a reason. Same here. I used to be sad, but now I am so happy. Blessings 🙌

[@christopherleah7253]

Same here

[@christopherleah7253]

They use you drain you and discard you , unbelievable when we had good intentions always towards them but not all people are like us

[@christopherleah7253]

I hope we get better

[@NmpLilChucky]

Same here That's how it be when you're set apart...

[@moonbasharat862]

God! bless you all abundantly!❤

[@AnnaChristianMinistries]

I RECEIVE IN LORD JESUS CHRIST'S MIGHTY NAME 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

[@xysxyz236]

Amen! Thank you I needed to hear this pastor vlad 🙏

[@deelaw803]

I received it actually think God for blessing you to be able to share god, the creator of all true words in righteous ways with others I needed this God bless you and your family, in Jesus name

[@colleennocera8759]

Good word - thank you and God bless you ❤

[@martamccurdy1379]

This is what I’ve been needing, Thank you!

[@chibvongodzelovemore]

Thank You Jesus Christ 🔥🔥🔥🇬🇧

[@CookinItaly77]

❤i i needed this to handle the situation around me.. sometimes become very difficult with problematic people 🙏🏼

[@riimak4575]

Amen🙏 much needed. Thank you Pastor Vlad.

[@amethystrosemaclaren5853]

Amen! Thank you!

[@valwalker9606]

Thank you for this message!

[@Mrsbeautyc]

I really needed to hear this. Thanks for the awesome message!

[@SonofGod_7]

Much needed words for now. Thank you Vlad. God bless you

[@jovanagavin7423]

Thanks 😉 Pastor Vlad, for the words of encouragement

[@NatalieShahi]

Thank you Pastor Vlad! Your videos always come up when I need it!

[@christinechinniah5921]

Thank you Pastor Amen

[@ItsDania2023]

Thank you I needed to hear this!

[@melindaadam3572]

Yes. Indeed are great all these words pointing to the truth

[@debraelramey5254]

Thank you brother Vlad for this empowering message. Gratitude and blessings.

[@kimunknown3761]

Thank you kindly for your taking the time to share your wise words with us. TRULY appreciated! I wrote them all down to study and revise. May GOD Bless You!! 🙏❤

[@DaughterofKINGJesus75]

This message really blessed me this morning, thank you..

[@bonitaphillips359]

So much great content again Vlad. Thank you brother for sharing your wisdom and insights.

[@patriciam7949]

Thank you for this! Very helpful reminder. God bless 🙏

[@jaylockkamwanza3592]

Thank you so much! God is amazing...He knows everything. God bless you

[@marimariana7661]

Thank u for sharing this! At work I feel my coleagus are like wolves ,manny times I was thinking how I should deal with those People, it is very hard

[@lo-ul8nq]

Thank you Pastor Vlad, you're so right about everything. Its so very true. Amen

[@GabriellaTafoya]

Thank you for this wonderful advice/teaching. God’s blessings to you and your family ❤✝️💖

[@robinahcleopatranamboyera819]

Thanks pastor Vlad for this topic

[@margaretpidi9718]

Thank you so much. I needed this . Its been so difficult and its within ministry. God bless.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@michellegardner6284]

This was a wonderful teaching. I really took it to heart. Thank you. 🙏🏻

[@melindaadam3572]

God is using you mightly pastor Vlad.

[@blakemcknight4942]

Thanks Pastor

[@ronellgerber777]

Amen, we need to pray for one another.

[@christiajohnson1355]

Thank you Lord ❤

[@rachelleebueza1724]

A very timely message!

[@m.gwuapo_]

My mom….

[@MikeDavidson-hi6nm]

Forgiving is the best Yet the mistake is people empower others on churvh to continue in sin against them

[@AmandathePandaBooks]

Avoid them. Even Paul shook the dust off his feet. Etc. just avoid them. They are not going to listen anyway. Cutting off relationships is sometimes necessary. That includes relatives.

[@delphinamary0254]

Praise the Lord 🙌

[@rebekahjoseph6617]

Amen.May God bless us all..

[@eloisewiggins8198]

TY for these Life changing principles in the Word of JESUS😇

[@twoforone_]

This is really good. Really. Amen.

[@caroleolivette8143]

Thank you!!

[@PoSHEmediaglobal]

Dear God, increase my capacity to suffer because I encounter too many difficult bosses

[@vivianobengfrimpong2030]

God richly bless you

[@williamamor9612]

Awsome message! Glory to God Alone! JesuschristiscomeinDAflesh!

[@tanjabrown5543]

Good advice, especially in relation to the toxic people including toxic relationships.

[@handofgrace5066]

Excellent teaching points so clearly presented and insightful, expressing the teachings and heart of Jesus as to how best to handle difficult people in love and wisdom and with understanding of proper boundaries. It was a truly inspired and balanced message. Thank you. God bless you, ♥

[@zeilaporto9504]

9:35 That is very important cause ,I think , the general idea of a Christian being always forgiving , accepting anything " and taking to the Lord in prayer♡" has been twisted up. It never meant for us to be passive but to take action on what Jesus , wise council and our conscience tells us to do. Great study. Thank you.

[@A.Delizia]

Always on time.

[@dinaaquino3108]

Just what I needed to hear. Thank you, Pastor Vlad!

[@christie7613]

Just what I needed to hear! Your preaching is always such a blessing!

[@stevebonar8496]

Love N CHRIST...thankyou

[@lynnettecook6973]

JOY = Jesus, Others, Yourself

[@fitrunner1317]

Nor verbal beating, and there comes a time when after praying and being led by the Holy Spirit speak to the difficult hard headed person who is making bad choices that’s affecting their children and others trying to help. Sometimes the suffering is due to our choices and the choices of others that we don’t have to tolerate, there’s times we need to set boundaries with difficult people. Jesus did set boundaries too. That’s good that yes, I react to the difficult person instead of responding to the Father

[@prettyheart7353]

Amen!!!!

[@luciana-hs8cg]

Thank you Pst Vlad for encourage me in this new understanding. Thank you so much you really bring me back after all the failure and distance of the truth after got some emotional pain. Now I become open to the root cause. Need I block the number?

[@annecheetham6223]

I needed to hear this today .thank you Vlad .

[@mariadaniel148]

Thank you Lord for the "Anointing to Ignore"...

[@blessymathew6490]

🔥🔥🔥

[@7.62Damond]

Man I needed this

[@teamrelentless2239]

This depends. Staying quiet with a verbal abusive isn't good. To me you have to cut that person off immediately..

[@terrenceebert7212]

Family disowned me

[@christinemclatchie]

I’m so sorry to hear that brother… I have lost a major part of mine because of lies, but I am so thankful to have the Lord in my life, as I don’t know how I would cope. He surely is our comforter 🙏

[@CRAIGTEMPLATEXCHRIST]

Thanks! Again KZbin gives me the video I needed NOW!

[@mason2800]

Once their revenues shrink, they will all be gone from here ✝️.

[@vivianobengfrimpong2030]

Amen