How Should Parents Behave with Married Son? - Dr. Khalid Jamil

[@sabranaz8367]

اسلام علیکم ڈاکٹر آج آپ نےدل خوش کردیا بہت کم لوگوں کی اتنی اچھی سوچ ھوتی ھے اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو سلامت رکھے لمبی عمر دے آمین صابرہ

[@pervaizniazi3365]

Sir Mashallah I am Allah blessed me with one son . He is living happily with his wife and kids abroad and we are enjoying that they are happy. I always take my daughter in law side and encourage my son to always behave good and keep her happy. He sometimes say amijan it looks that you are not my mother. I always pray from the core of my heart. Ameen

[@izzahpatoli-567]

Mashaallah mashaallah

[@LifewithAyesha04]

Meray husbnd b aik hi hain par parents apni mrzi say unko chlatay hain hum apni mrzi say kuch ni kr sktay

[@zohraimam]

آپ کے شوہر کیا دودھ پیتے بچے ہیں کہ عقل سے کام نہیں لیتے اور نہیں سوچتے کہ آپ ان کی بیوی ہیں اس کے والدین کو آپ کا بھی والدین بنا چاہئے یا کم از کم آ​پ یہ سوچ کر شوہر کے والدین کے ساتھ پیش آئیں کہ شوہر کے والدین آپ کے بھی والدین ہیں اور والدین کو آف بھی نہیں کہنا چاہیئے والدین کا احترام لازم ہے@@LifewithAyesha04

[@AounBukhari-q4e]

Bohat achi baat AP ni btai hai ❤❤❤ Allah AP ko b ollad ka sukh day.

[@ZeeNasir1]

great sir. very important issue

[@humairashaiman489]

Well said Sir, جزاک اللہ خیرا کثیرا

[@ZainubJalal]

ڈاکٹر صاحب نے اہم موضوع پر بات کی پلیز یہ ضرور گائڈ کیجیے کہ اج کے دور میں اولاد والدین کو بوجھ کب سمجھتی ہے اولڈ ہاوس کے واقعات خوف ذدہ کردیتے ہیں

[@nazishbilal3160]

Absolutely right....very well said...very good video

[@rabiashaheen9542]

I personally think once son got married, parents should ask them to settle separately, otherwise, their wives will create problems for other kids.

[@mubarakalisanjrani1946]

Highly appreciated

[@izzahpatoli-567]

Assalamualaikum Sir buhath qeemthi bathein aap nay bathayi Allah aap se Razi ho Ameen summa Ameen

[@pervaizahmad6569]

Excelent, Sachi Batain 👌

[@nadeemakhtar3886]

Great Sir.pl tell How shuld parents behave wd married daughters

[@uzmahannan1879]

Agreed and i did it .

[@MustafaKhan-gl7dc]

جزاک اللہ خیرا کثیرا

[@humashahid6924]

Very well analyzed, Dr Sahib

[@Mr67385]

Important information ℹ️ ❤

[@nadiaraza319]

Very informative as in near future i am going to be a saas😊

[@hasnainmustafa1702]

Good

[@atifkhaleeq]

شادی کے بعد اولاد کو تھوڑا بہت سمجھاتے رہنا بھی ضروری ہے کیونکہ ایسا کرنے سے بعض اوقات وہ زندگی کے کسی اہم فیصلے میں غلطی سے بچ سکتے

[@humeraahmed6477]

One thing should be added that as your son is grown up ,before getting him married parent's guidance to his son must be completed so that after marriage parents couldn't interfere in the name of grooming of their child.Grooming of son must be finished before marriage.Anyhow,thanks for sharing your thoughts over this issue.

[@LifewithAyesha04]

Hmaray haan shadi k bd i terfair krna apna haq smjhtay hain

[@RaheelATahirkheli]

Yes sir I’m hundred percent agree with you but one of your best friend family make my only daughters life miserable for 11 years she start taking anti-depression pills for last ten year but thanks God she’s happy now not with them with the other man😌

[@yumkitchen25]

Sir absolutely right 👍 Mash Allah

[@ishratmubarik6731]

Parents should give advice when asked and not interfere in their matters ,which make their life hell .

[@cococrisp430]

Reasons and actions that over pressure your married children (specifically sons)are in my opinion: 1-jealousy 2- unnecessary attention seeking 3- taking advantage of your Islamic status and reminding kids of that in smaller mistakes 4- mistreating your daughter or son in law according to their low financial position regardless of how well behaved they are with you. 5- insecurity of losing your children to their spouses 6- being selfish in just making your own married daughter son or daughter happy by hook or by crook 7- forcing your daughter or son in law to rename the relationships ‘calling you ‘Ammee or Abbu’ while being total unable to give them those rights of a parent 8- thinking yourself to be the best and most intelligent in the world being older 9- giving unsolicited advice 10- always sneaking in their earnings 11- being unjust with children - treating your daughters like princesses and forcing daughters in law to slave them and their kids 12- being disrespectful to both son or daughter in law in front of others following the wrong norms of society 13- Talking ill of your son and daughter in law to relatives, neighbors and everyone 14- trying to get more information from your daughter in law’s family 15- finding excuses to taunt your daughter or son in law based on anything you know about them 16- using sensitive information given by your children about their spouses against them publicly or privately 17- making different rules for your own children and for their spouses- your daughters can do everything they want but daughter in law is not allowed If we follow the Islamic teachings, then these things will never happen. I pray that Allah guides us all , parents and children to the right path and we build a healthy family together.

[@mm-qg6oq]

Good analysis every thing is 100 per centre true

[@riffatshuja6199]

Very nice Dr Sahib

[@shabanariaz1491]

Agreed 👍

[@duaenoor1669]

After divorce Larki apna depression kese khatm Karen is pr zarur video banayen jald

[@cutedollsani]

Koi job kro khud ki BZ rakhoi plz

[@abdulwajid6096]

sabar nmaz

[@abdulwajid6096]

waqt lgy ga niklny ky liye ma bhe guzra ho is pain sy

[@zainebmasood4169]

Thank you for your guidance.

[@mrssajid7263]

Well said sir

[@sakinaqayyum2189]

bohat acha

[@Tasneemkousar-l4k]

Lkn hm log bacho chahy wo beta ho ya beti hm one azaad kr dete h jise hm independent ka name dete h lkn bv ko sari zindgi apne isharo p nachwate h even k saans b wo bechari apni mrzi s ni le pati or osy neem pagal kr dete h fir kahte h ort azadi chahti h or azadi s murad hmare ha badkirdari s li jati h halank jb ort ki shadi hoti h os klye shohr s ziada kuj ni hota lkn afsos shohr hi osy izzt ni deta

[@humazafar512]

I have hardly seen any man keeping a balance.

[@ifficrazy3204]

Kbi dr sb app ko ptv pe Sun kr school jate the

[@zohraimam]

رشتوں میں درگزر سے کام لیں جہاں جہاں ہم درگزر کرتے ہیں اللّٰہ تعالیٰ خوب جانتا ہے فکر نہیں کیا کریں اپنی طرف سے رشتے نبھاتے رہیں اور یاد رکھیں اللّٰہ تعالیٰ آپ کی کوشش دیکھے گا زندگی امتحان ہے نتیجہ آخرت میں نکلے گا زندگی میں نکلے تو صبر سے کام لیں اور اللّٰہ تعالیٰ سے معافی مانگ لیا کریں

[@zohraimam]

اولاد کو بد دعا نہ دینا انبیاء کی سنت ہے آپ کو اولاد اللّٰہ تعالیٰ نے عطا کی ہے اولاد سے محبت کرتا چاہئے اور محبت میں اولاد پر سختی کرنا اولاد کو Strong کرتا ہے یعنی کامیاب کرتا ہے

[@ZaferLubn]

She is pregnant 🤰 with haraam relationship she is yayah of raiz niazi hospital Mubarak hoo she has twins children in Jang road byshraaam yayah hai she love him

[@alizamalik4013]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@humazafar512]

There are many people who ruin the life of their sons only for their ego and to keep their supremacy 😢

[@mubarakalisanjrani1946]

❤🎉

[@munimshakoor3474]

what advise for fathers disinheriting daughters in life so they may not litigate brothers for inheritence share after father death.

[@pervaizniazi3365]

Every one study quran with translation and in sura Nisa every thing is clear about this.

[@saadshafaqat6206]

First comment

[@Chamomileflower-r9p]

aulad ko instructions de jati hai jab wo bilkul sust aur time zaya kernay lagty hain. kia oun ko oun k hal pai chor den

[@Chamomileflower-r9p]

shadi k baad key aur baat hai

[@ZaferLubn]

Sajda sabha Mubarak hoo she is pregnant with haraam relationship

[@saeedakidwai4756]

ڈاکٹر صاحب ! آپ کس دور کی بات کر رہے ہیں اس دور میں تو یہ حال ہے کہ ماں جو بات 30 سال میں نہیں سمجھا سکی وہ بیوی 30۔ دن میں سمجھا لیتی ہے

[@zohraimam]

تو بیٹے کی بیوی کو اپنی بیٹی سمجھ لیا کریں دل ٹھنڈا رہے گا 🎉

[@hananahmadzia3962]

Dr sahab meri behan ko kaan ka bht masla ha kindly apna WhatsApp no de ta k ma tafseel c bayan karon