Social Media can make me unhappy because a lot of people on the internet make me angry with their stupidity and nonsense. I consider the majority of social media to have been overrun with the worst aspects of Mankind. A place for stupidity, anger, hatred, jealousy and spite to fester and spread.
@slaybyraeofficial4 жыл бұрын
100%
@deleonsimmons10673 жыл бұрын
Factsss 💯 I get mad asff you not da only one it’s just full of hatred jealousy n anger I hate other peoples options to
@haaxxx93 жыл бұрын
Don't forget that idiots and retards also ruin any enjoyment of social media. It's better to just delete all the accounts that you have and avoid all of the idiots.
@retrovcr7773 жыл бұрын
The best most logical comments always the least likes
@ericcalicci87753 жыл бұрын
@Tino I heard it was invented so you can keep in touch with your friends.
@ashleyrobertson9585 жыл бұрын
People always lie on social media so they could made themselves look good. They even lie about who they are, where they work, etc.
@darthmaul27424 жыл бұрын
That’s what I try to tell people. They don’t listen mostly. I want to live in the moment and learn new things, not be on a phone constantly.
@alyssajones43684 жыл бұрын
Exactly. They want that validation asap.
@deconstructedshorts18482 жыл бұрын
The brutal reality of IG REELS : kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXLMppihirSKb80
@erikavaleries2 жыл бұрын
Or they brag in a sickening way
@ninjapirate123 Жыл бұрын
I use social media on laptop though not on my phone
@Juliaa__T5 жыл бұрын
I went off social media for 17 days now because I was getting sucked into the vicious cycle of painting my life in a perfect way. It was becoming negative and toxic. At first it felt so bizarre not browsing, like it was some sort of addiction. Now I just live my life and start journaling without having to share it
@latoyacoppedge41065 жыл бұрын
Julia T amazing 😉
@RedditNovelties5 жыл бұрын
In 8 days from now I will be officially off of social media for an entire month!
@weswhitworth46745 жыл бұрын
Social media is truely the greatest addiction of the past few years. I got off Facebook after the holidays.
@Juliaa__T5 жыл бұрын
Naraian Cepeda yes!! It’s been 28 days :) glad to report no urge in checking back in
@weswhitworth46745 жыл бұрын
@@Juliaa__T Awesome job. Believe you're not missing anything by not being on there. You've probably actually gain something; a little piece of mind.
@BDolla2195 жыл бұрын
Social Media is the most narcissistic environment I've ever seen PERIOD. Facebook should have their logo next to narcissism in the damn Dictionary.
@aaronbradley32324 жыл бұрын
Yes narcissism and censorship
@WhateverWhenever8884 жыл бұрын
So should KZbin...
@aaronbradley32324 жыл бұрын
@@WhateverWhenever888 well KZbin is a huge part of social media so
@aaronbradley32324 жыл бұрын
I gave this a thumbs up like a week ago but this is one of the most underrated comments on KZbin
@monicacalais10394 жыл бұрын
Lmao so true
@osse1n5 жыл бұрын
*Social Media is a tool* Unfortunately, in this stressed out and fast paced life, we become easily restless and bored, thus cultivate a highly addictive personalities.
@Frugal6375 жыл бұрын
Exactly we look for instant gratification.
@kadeemjohnson41475 жыл бұрын
Our lives aren't really fast paced we've been manipulated into believing that sleeping on the street feeling lazy now how the hell is that fast paced
@aaronbradley32324 жыл бұрын
I have about the highest degree of addictive personality in the world. It's like I was bred for it but this has negatively affected my life but I've gotten on top of it now there's just one thing I have to make right. And my lawsuits go well I can get some of the money back I had from 2012 to 2019 live off the grid somewhere. I think there's one person doing something worthwhile among the young people. Then there are important channels like oh what is it foundation for economic freedom or foundation for economic education then there are the freedom tunes and sky news Australia there are important channels out there it's good entertainment many different kinds but I don't use Facebook at all almost never have it's stupid and it is ruining the world. And there are no avengers to save us from Ultron when he comes. no one ever read Frankenstein apparently no one ever watch the original Terminator and no one watched age of Ultron and more importantly no one read the comic storyline but I don't know if this is a terribly failed experiment
@chae15574 жыл бұрын
Fast paced environments are a culprit for many issues
@gvis82173 жыл бұрын
@@kadeemjohnson4147 Don't know where you live but I don't see that happening here.
@alyssajones43683 жыл бұрын
Social media can definitely fuck you up. I've seen it happen to friends, family members and even classmates. They aren't getting enough followers, views, likes, etc their dopamine is utterly shattered. Sad world we live in 💔
@deconstructedshorts18482 жыл бұрын
The brutal reality of IG REELS : kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXLMppihirSKb80
@rafiq65215 жыл бұрын
No FB/IG/twitter since the beginning :D People think its weird... I think its awesome
@latoyacoppedge41065 жыл бұрын
Rafiq amazing 😉
@juliussonny87045 жыл бұрын
Same here. Only have youtube to watch various things. Thts it!
@lahlor53525 жыл бұрын
Julius Sonny KZbin is different you can actually learn good stuff on it
@TheAlexLamberty4 жыл бұрын
I gave up Instagram, Facebook and TikTok (never used Twitter) and I feel amazing.
@analvss79653 жыл бұрын
Just step on your road don't let others tell you what to do.👍
@Detonat0r5 жыл бұрын
i realised on my own that social media especialy instagram are toxic. I delete them all and i realy havent missed them at all.
@cinnamorollgirl084 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@diegosocold47674 жыл бұрын
Most people I know are starting to value virtual connections more than real ones
@ashtizzle073 жыл бұрын
Sad to say this is me 🥺🥺🥺
@ajdynamo71665 жыл бұрын
That last one especially. It is so hard to have a conversation with certain people these days because they're too busy updating their Instagrams.
@heartfixer965 жыл бұрын
Very accurate! These are the reasons why I decided to quit facebook, instagram and twitter. The bottomline is that it's not really good for our mental health. Even if some people would argue and say that it's their way to stay updated with the news, I highly suggest everyone to install other apps specifically for news update. Also, for those people who can't really help themselves from taking pictures whatever they are doing, maybe it's time to reflect that not every picture is worth posting or maybe they should just keep it in their phones. Right??
@weswhitworth46745 жыл бұрын
Facebook is nothing but a drama fest. High school for adults. Instagram isn't that bad yet, but give it time. I like KZbin because I can watch videos drama free. But even too much of it can be bad.
@anahiv90825 жыл бұрын
Agree! I’m 15 and have been social media free (expect KZbin, I don’t count it like Instagram) since august! Best thing I did (:
@juliussonny87045 жыл бұрын
I dont have any social media accounts. I jus watch youtube lol
@seppyq36724 жыл бұрын
I officially deleted my Facebook a month ago. I've taken way less photos of things now, and enjoy my time a ton more out and about
@clairemarie39874 жыл бұрын
Me too x
@stevensjoseph955 жыл бұрын
The irony in this video is we're using social media to watch it 😭.
@audreysmit37315 жыл бұрын
we don't have to use social media though
@eXpunge085 жыл бұрын
Yeah youtube is a social media but not like facebook, instagram and twitter where jealousy can stirrup very quickly😉
@kbthegoat8245 жыл бұрын
@@eXpunge08 how about all the videos of people traveling, and living their best lives? KZbin is probably the worst of all, especially when it comes to wasting time.
@materialistadialectico48845 жыл бұрын
The problem is not social media, It's how you use it and how the system convinces you it should be used. The irony is not understanding something as simple as that.
@eXpunge085 жыл бұрын
@@kbthegoat824 Yup youtube is also a social media and a candidate for TIME WASTER but it is up to you if you're gonna waste your time watching nonsense videos rather than educational videos 😉
@AKR-bu6tm4 жыл бұрын
This is so freaking true and finally said bye to social media!!
@nataliqstoeva77865 жыл бұрын
I don't have Facebook and Instagram for more than 3 or 4 years and I feel really good and my social skills got better. But my grandma is very addicted to Facebook and it's very annoying. :D
@Lord_Sammy5 жыл бұрын
Same here. I haven't been on Instagram in a long time. Almost 4 months and honestly I dont need that shit.
@cedricdamon65814 жыл бұрын
Adults on social media are annoying in general !
@sr07164 жыл бұрын
That's a shame just keep trying to wake her up
@yakhochipui38583 жыл бұрын
I'm still trying hard to get rid of using social media since now I feel social is making my way wrong direction ↔ where I don't want to turn towards there. if possible please share with me of your pass experienced of leaving social media.
@FastLif33 жыл бұрын
I'm only here because i fasted from social media for 21 days and was happy and content. and then i got back on and felt like trash. my whole mood changed completely.
@jackcarraway47074 жыл бұрын
Other underlying things about social media that no one talks about is that it: 1. Completely warped the meaning of the word "friend". 2. Gives us an unhealthy and unnatural 24/7 hour access to these "friends". 3. It doesn't let relationships die naturally. By this mean we let people stay on our friends list even though we may haven't seen this person in years.
@deconstructedshorts18482 жыл бұрын
The brutal reality of IG REELS : kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXLMppihirSKb80
@erikavaleries2 жыл бұрын
Fake friends who need to chat to strangers 24/7, as a convenience. Then you are ghosted
@djshockafrica43305 жыл бұрын
So much truth to this, offline is the new luxury. Thank you for making this video, it's liberating!
@deconstructedshorts18482 жыл бұрын
The brutal reality of IG REELS : kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXLMppihirSKb80
@bn85794 жыл бұрын
I broke up with my ex and found myself constantly posting pictures for him to see. It was so toxic
@trollmcclure26593 жыл бұрын
You can send pictures to me if you want
@waynesworld6863 жыл бұрын
@@trollmcclure2659 😂😂😂
@deconstructedshorts18482 жыл бұрын
The brutal reality of IG REELS : kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXLMppihirSKb80
@jamesniagu2745 жыл бұрын
I'm on FB less than 5 mins a day and cut out youtube from 7 hrs a day to an hr. It really makes a difference
@firestorm79775 жыл бұрын
I agree with this. Humanity is by nature a social species and ever since brought about social media we have become so disconnected it’s unreal. Where we now look for self gratification and likes. In some ways it’s made us a prison in our own minds and leading so many mental health issues like anxiety which was never a major problem before social media. We have even starting using dating apps to meet people instead of the old way of meeting people. I’ve personally started deleting my Facebook and Twitter apps to limit my time and if I want to look I need to force myself to down load it again and again so I give up.
@deconstructedshorts18482 жыл бұрын
The brutal reality of IG REELS : kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXLMppihirSKb80
@catherinemartinez21152 жыл бұрын
I am so glad that every time I get on my phone I learn something new everyday not to get on social media or Facebook and all of that no more
@amb17iousdr1ver45 жыл бұрын
I have friends I would hang out with and they would always be on their phones while I would want to talk about ideas, plans, and try to motivate them but they see social media as a bigger priority I guess 🤷♂️
@ismailhamza47215 жыл бұрын
C. Hall damn bro can i be your friend
@amb17iousdr1ver45 жыл бұрын
@@ismailhamza4721 sure I need your height, favorite color, first crush's name, & your dog's middle name then allow me two business days to get back to you for final results lmao 😂🤣
@ismailhamza47215 жыл бұрын
Amb17ious Dr1ver 😂😂
@AWholeLottaLola4 жыл бұрын
Amb17ious Dr1ver _happened to me but with a game instead of social media... some people use their phone too much nowadays, I bet they couldn’t live without it..._
@AWholeLottaLola4 жыл бұрын
Mariam Tsehay _honestly. It sucks. I use my phone a lot but I know when to put it away. Some people don’t._
@nc-ze2hj5 жыл бұрын
Never had a Facebook or Instagram. No regrets.
@agustinquijano13574 жыл бұрын
Same
@randyjon2243 жыл бұрын
Your not missing a thing.
@clayryan1196 Жыл бұрын
I deleted Facebook and Instagram over 2 months ago. It felt empty at first but now it's fulfilling.
@TheOnemanmoshpit4 жыл бұрын
I cancelled Christmas with my family this year to spend it with a friend who would otherwise have been alone "and sooo depressed". She spent the whole fu🤬ing day staring at her phone and saying: huh? Every time I said something for the 3rd time! 🙄 So glad I made the effort! Not.
@jamescassaniti96943 жыл бұрын
No wonder she would of been alone otherwise. I can’t stand that garbage.
@deconstructedshorts18482 жыл бұрын
The brutal reality of IG REELS : kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXLMppihirSKb80
@akashicrose55512 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry that happened I know how you feel.
@javierjaime9386 Жыл бұрын
Wow
@I_am_Evangeline2 жыл бұрын
I have deleted all of my social media accounts except Facebook( for some reasons) . I don’t use FB frequently but whenever I log into it, it feels horrible. Then I come back to KZbin to watch some' social media Detox ' videos 😁 which might tell that what I have seen on Fb is just the highlighted parts of people's life. KZbin isn’t a time waster for me. KZbin is the place where I can learn.
@charlottekay7723 жыл бұрын
I was one of those people who didn’t care to lie or exaggerate on social media and it only brought me issues. It’s insane how many wrong assumptions people will make about you if you dont care to portray yourself in the best possible light. What I realized is that most people are so obssessed with only putting their absolute best on social media that if you don’t care to and just do casual posts people will then assume that IS your best.
@_travelgoddess2 жыл бұрын
So true! Love this.
@erikavaleries2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯 this was me too
@erikavaleries2 жыл бұрын
They think you are boring, underachieving, or a loser if you talk about normal life instead of make your life a brand to sell
@bluebull3994 жыл бұрын
I cannot respect anybody who needs llikes from strangers for activities such as eating, drinking and maintaining homeostasis. Social media users are weak, feeble minded and incapable of controlling their own destiny.
@royadair59564 жыл бұрын
It is extremely difficult to make friends with people offline because everyone nowadays are online searching for the same thing. People do need real relationships with real people . I gave up most of my Social media apps because the people were only your friend while being online.
@madhu_kaushikk4 жыл бұрын
It's the complete and true reality... Thanks a lot for this video...
@seqenenretaoii57224 жыл бұрын
With Instagram, every chick thinks she's a model now. That's all I see when scroll down my search feed, T&A. Social media has definitely brought out the vanity and narcissism in people.
@cinnamorollgirl084 жыл бұрын
Yes I completely agree, I have also been seeing a lot of “Body Positivity” but people are actually eating themselves to death, I am so for being confident in you but once it comes to being very unhealthy, that is self abuse and shouldn’t be taut to younger people.
@Classified5643 жыл бұрын
Same with men.
@Adeyum643 жыл бұрын
@@cinnamorollgirl08 Body positivity is a damn joke anyway, for someone who is underweight. For some reason, it only applies to overweight people. But when you‘re underweight, it is apparently fine to laugh about it? What the fuck?
@THEDOORIZCLOSED2 жыл бұрын
Vanity and narcissism. I definitely blame women for being behind most of the toxicity online. Most of us are using it to express ourselves or “go live” during or to discuss toxic situations. Or we blast other people online and start hate groups. We also drag other women by peering into their photo backgrounds and criticizing items in the background. We drag a woman whose makeup isnt done right or her wig or feet dont look right and then it goes viral. Some of the gays are guilty of this behavior too. Women bash other business women and then compare and compete with other brands. Or they fight over men. Men have their messy ways but i think the brunt of the toxicity is bc of females. Im female myself and have to own it.
@AyeZo5 жыл бұрын
Gotta take breaks from Social Media for sure
@CaylynAdamko4 жыл бұрын
Social media is something we need to learn how to use. Thanks for sharing!
@28MUSE4 жыл бұрын
Yup, Social Media is the Future ... It will soon come in education. It has already come in Work and Business. You cannot escape it. BUT THERE ARE HAPPIER WAYS TO HACK IT. Watch this, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pIKWlJeQbt5rhcU I think you'd like it
@stephenbarnes72415 жыл бұрын
I've learned to curate my online presence better. Unfollowed the "influencers", thirst trappers, and basically fake and/or unattainable lives of others. In place, I'm following art galleries, space agencies, travel places, Nat geo, and food blogs. It feels more wholesome and less like we need to one up on each other. In addition, I've also started balancing what I post as well. Balancing the positive experiences with the negatives. Sure it might feel somewhat embarrassing to post a bad experience, but posting only your positive experiences only hinders the original goal of creating a better online experience for everyone. Try it! You'll feel good :)
@johnturtle66493 жыл бұрын
Careful with Nat Geo, social and political agendas are seeping into everything. But, I agree with your intent.
@THEDOORIZCLOSED2 жыл бұрын
I follow business owners, authors, animal videos, photographers and only 1-2 influencers just for marketing ideas and housekeeping ideas. Even so, I have to unplug bc its never ending content and can be distracting
@stephenbarnes72412 жыл бұрын
@@THEDOORIZCLOSED since my original post, i’ve deleted my facebook account over a year ago and hardly use instagram anymore. I’ve found better use of my time in other hobbies and am at better peace :)
@THEDOORIZCLOSED2 жыл бұрын
@@stephenbarnes7241 yeah i left facebook in 2016. You can imagine why lol
@deconstructedshorts18482 жыл бұрын
The brutal reality of IG REELS : kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXLMppihirSKb80
@00kidney5 жыл бұрын
Yeah. So true Top Think.
@dmitrywonderboychechnyaiii54704 жыл бұрын
Hey maybe we should hang out hehehe and stop using social media 😁🤣
@DanielSelk5 жыл бұрын
I've taken a break from social media, not posting much if at all anymore and not "having" to see what others are posting...it's SO freeing =)
@FLHerbologistLaura5 жыл бұрын
Daniel Selk so have I! 6 months now and I have no desire to go back to that insanity😂🙌
@anthonyh31295 жыл бұрын
Same. I said I’d only take a break for about a month. It’s been 2 now and truth be told I’m not missing it much. Still need time to find myself and I’ll get back to it whenever that happens. No rush :)
@non.chalant.15 жыл бұрын
Daniel Selk I feel the same too
@yashparmar875 жыл бұрын
Perfectly said I have the same feeling from past 3 months now
@goldenokoko32115 жыл бұрын
Same as well we ahead of the game 💪🏿
@cinnamorollgirl084 жыл бұрын
After deleting my social media well besides KZbin I have been so much happier. Also, once I did so many ads for it started to pop up and I feel like that’s also another way they try to draw you back into it
@jaybramer37434 жыл бұрын
Im off all social media for the first time. Reading books...listening to music....enjoying live interactions without distraction
@garyshaw40933 жыл бұрын
I think I deleted my social media when I was in my mid 20's . I never particularly used it a lot but I'll never forget the day I ended up looking at photos of a friends friends cousin WHO I didn't know from Adam! I knew there and then it had to stop . I've now not had an account for about 17years . I have now got 2 beautiful daughters that are desperate for ether Snapchat, Facebook or tiktok. I'll never let them have whilst living at home . I try to explain the why's but unfortunately they don't get it yet ... they will and I know they will thank me one day. Please think twice and save your youngens
@aliahmedmir9135 жыл бұрын
All social media platforms should limit their service time . Like maximum 5 to 6 hours per day only ! But it's impossible !
@JourneyToJustice-withT5 жыл бұрын
ALI AHMED Mir amazing idea
@cinnamorollgirl084 жыл бұрын
@Aaron O ' Cathain what about messaging?
@eventeklay46183 жыл бұрын
Bro they want money they don’t care about us
@yakhochipui38583 жыл бұрын
yes brother, I also thinking the same to limit so but I can't what I want from early morning.
@patrickbatemanfromohio2 жыл бұрын
5-6 hours is more than enough broo 1 hour is enough to spend time on internet
@kashmere9014 жыл бұрын
Yes everything on here is so true! I believe it 100 percent.
@raytotherose101015 жыл бұрын
i was aware of this since 2005.. everyone else is just late to this party
@Leahsaksonova274 жыл бұрын
That’s when I was born LOL
@kevinsjournal5 жыл бұрын
I think it depends on balance, many folks binge on it so it does end up distracting them from working on other areas of life, but for others it's an incredible way to network and stay in touch with folks, so it really does depend more on how it's used, than simply social media itself.
@luismiguelmartinezsanchez40693 жыл бұрын
eso era antes ahora es un nido de postureo
@anahiv90825 жыл бұрын
My biggest recommendation is to delete all socials, I did it in august & it feels amazing. Gotta live life while you’re here (:
@eventeklay46183 жыл бұрын
But u didn’t delete KZbin
@marriah3 жыл бұрын
@@eventeklay4618 KZbin isn’t really the same. And I think it really depends what you use the social media apps for.
@peterrogers72723 жыл бұрын
@@marriah youtube have benefits unlike fb you can learn something from from yt 😁
@peterrogers72723 жыл бұрын
@@eventeklay4618 you can learn something from yt
@ninjapirate123 Жыл бұрын
did u use it again today
@tremainenelms21655 жыл бұрын
I admit ive been guilty of this too just saying thank you so much for this video Mr Troy W. Hudson thank you
@huzaifac1373 жыл бұрын
Dude this is so much relatable i can relate 100 percent to almost everything you said
@TARO-p8k Жыл бұрын
True true since I quite social media I start to feeling alive again 😌
@christopherottinger82703 жыл бұрын
I haven't seen a better description of this addiction than this video.
@Mostsanefrankierofan4 жыл бұрын
I quit instagram and Twitter on August 25, 2020. It's September 13, 2020. I feel so free! I didn't realise how into my phone I was. I would go on virtual dance meets and just go on my phone. I stopped that and started learning more dances. I remember back at the airport at 2018 everyone sitting down was on their phone or iPad. EVERYONE. I also have snapchat and tik tok but I don't know if I'm going to delete those.
@THEDOORIZCLOSED2 жыл бұрын
The cycle of jealousy is sooooo strong. Had me in bed depressed for weeks
@deconstructedshorts18482 жыл бұрын
The brutal reality of IG REELS : kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXLMppihirSKb80
@sarudatrongtrairat17543 жыл бұрын
I really like the presentation of this clip, it made me better understand disadvantages of media. In addition, I think media has both advantages and disadvantages, but it depends on how we use it appropriately without adversely affecting us
@marcduchamp55123 жыл бұрын
The text messenger is also a terrible communicating device. People always misunderstood the contents and contexts
@mostafashawky5055 жыл бұрын
Now you have to tell us how to get away from social media
@ThisIsWellMalik5 жыл бұрын
yeah
@darthmaul27424 жыл бұрын
Pickup up new hobbies and things that find you happy. For me it was bowling, exercise, and just exploring.
@ainaharis16954 жыл бұрын
yup
@irememberla64605 жыл бұрын
Interesting to see how in 30 years how social will affect society and lives with regards to relationships and contentment
@jessesdomain4445 жыл бұрын
If were even around then...
@neerajajain21204 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video..I really needed this..I think it saved my life!
@debrastaples13402 жыл бұрын
I'm not on social media that much once a week if that. I think people use social media too much and their lives are just their lives, not mine, plus its too time-consuming I don't have enough time in my day to see what's going on with others, so I agree with the things that are said on the video
@elsarams94023 жыл бұрын
I feel like i receive a lot of negativity from many friends on social media because i can feel their attempts at evoking jealousy and envy thru their posts trying to paint a perfect life for themselves and bragging about everything it’s really annoying I stopped posting photos on ky timeline a long time ago it was very disfunctional
@redox84195 жыл бұрын
This is so true
@charley39433 жыл бұрын
Now learning what really matters in life
@souvikcseiitk2 жыл бұрын
I'm out of social media for over an year now, believe me it's much better...
@ashleyrobertson9585 жыл бұрын
Cut down on social media folks.
@jessesdomain4445 жыл бұрын
Id say cut it out completely
@Lord_Sammy5 жыл бұрын
@@jessesdomain444 facts. U can live without it.
@jimmyhuesandthehouserocker10692 жыл бұрын
I'm 68 and what much, much saddens me is how love as gone the way of cassette tapes. Love has been just about completely driven out of today's world, with high tech, stranger danger and hollywood pyscho killers. People today have no clue as to what love is, and how it's the greatest of all things in live. Love is based in trust, innocence and social interaction, things that no loner exist in today's world. The saddest thing is, a life without love is like a life without sex, or without music, or without enjoyment of the arts.
@apirakaekthanakij15813 жыл бұрын
In the past couple years, I almost forgot to live in reality. I was using too much social media trying to be well-known on instagram but I lose to be myself in reality.
@jamaicaorlando1982 жыл бұрын
I hate it when I am on a trip with friends or family and all of them are holding their phones while I am staring at them. So pathetic!
@ashishbahure35783 жыл бұрын
Yeah.. today I did experience some of the points you mentioned in this video.
@judesteers84593 жыл бұрын
My child’s mother was just posting a picture of our newborn in a WhatsApp group, posting the same close up picture of our baby, I literally was just asking why she was posting basically the same pictures over and over and getting the same responses from the same people. “How cute! So handsome! Very sweet!” The picture wasn’t even from that moment, and just after I was telling her it’s the same pictures and the same responses from the same people she dropped her phone and hit him in the head and made him cry. Then she got a notification from someone in the group saying how cute he was... is it really worth it? I almost whipped her phone across the house. She is also the type that will be at a cool place and want me to take a picture of her doing some stupid fucking yoga pose and if it doesn’t “look right” she has me retake it. I think I might “accidentally” start dropping her phone.
@deconstructedshorts18482 жыл бұрын
The brutal reality of IG REELS : kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXLMppihirSKb80
@erikavaleries2 жыл бұрын
Cut off her phone plan
@weswhitworth46745 жыл бұрын
Social media isn't the problem , it's people's mindset. It's your own personal responsibility whether to get on social media and stay all day posting and looking for likes. I deleted Facebook off my phone, but kept messager in case someone need to get in touch with me. I like watching videos on KZbin, I don't watch them all day long, I have other things to do during the day. The internet is just a tool , and the way you use it is up to you alone.
@RelentlessOhiox3 жыл бұрын
You missed the whole point my guy. There are people like us. I don't have a Facebook. Or Twitter. Or anything other than YT. But there are other people, mostly teens and young adults, that base every facet of their life based on whatever the biggest TikTok star is doing or whatever. In our day it was just for meeting new people, lighthearted chat, etc. But now these kids see it literally as a way to live their life. They don't watch TV anymore. They learn from what they see on apps and their phones.
@bebrittanyable3 жыл бұрын
I agree and disagree-your mindset is being shaped on an ongoing basis based off what you allow to be put into your mind everyday-by scrolling on social media everyday-you allow these images and content to enter into your "mindset" -it becomes a part of how you think-maybe not intentionally but it does-I feel like we could all benefit from social media as long as it is mainly used as a tool-otherwise I feel time could be better spent in "real life." This is just my opinion though!
@deconstructedshorts18482 жыл бұрын
The brutal reality of IG REELS : kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXLMppihirSKb80
@AWholeLottaLola4 жыл бұрын
_social media is a highlight reel, it’s not reality! ⭐️ the happiest people online could be the most depressed in real life- once you realise this, you’ll be so much happier in life ! :)_
@Fullygone12 жыл бұрын
💯
@Fullygone12 жыл бұрын
Instagram is one of the most non-realistic apps , whatsapp is better than insta
@deconstructedshorts18482 жыл бұрын
The brutal reality of IG REELS : kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXLMppihirSKb80
@risindacurve7994 жыл бұрын
I still struggle with cutting back on social media and people's opinions😒
@C.Zacarias-Main4 жыл бұрын
Don't change your life to look like your perfect self and to impress other people that don't care. Focus on doing what is right 100% of time!!
@deconstructedshorts18482 жыл бұрын
The brutal reality of IG REELS : kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXLMppihirSKb80
@phuonganhdinh40424 жыл бұрын
I did use Facebook every hour and I have changed in 2020 during Covid-19. Now I use it under 15 minutes each day.
@ninjapirate123 Жыл бұрын
u still use it though
@erikavaleries2 жыл бұрын
I was in denial that it is for social climbing, attention, cheating, comparing. Not authentic connecting. I tried to ignore it and stay offline, but I would lose ranking and visibility. All the posts got stupider and more obnoxious. Then I realized I don’t even show up on the radar to others in competition for views. I wanted a real conversation not a private therapy session by someone who will ghost me.
@R739493 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right sir
@vinaymulukutla3584 жыл бұрын
What people forget is that by looking at someone else's profile and feeling jealous etc when they show themselves doing activities such as going on holidays, having a fancy dinner in a restaurant, at parties, spending time with girlfriends, boyfriends, spouses, kids etc, you're seeing only what they want you to see and that is usually airbrushed to perfection. You never see or hear of their struggles, gloomy moments or even when they get out of bed looking like a train wreck. It's pretty much a "grass is greener on the other side" manipulation tactic from the dynamics of social media to keep us watching, scrolling etc.
@luismiguelmartinezsanchez40693 жыл бұрын
hoy en dia el esfuerzo del resultado final en la vida son las redes sociales solo por la envidia nada mas que eso
@vinaymulukutla3583 жыл бұрын
@@luismiguelmartinezsanchez4069 I'm sorry but I do not understand. Do you speak English or Latvian?
@marsolcleaningcompany2075 жыл бұрын
Its a race for attention. Sometimes i feel good and my first instinct is to go there. I've observed that after it i felt like crap.
@piyushchandane32232 жыл бұрын
some of us are so addicted that they dont even get that dopamine ….. its like a sudden urge of checking it whether they like it or not ….if they dont check they’ll anxious …they just scroll like robots …. its scary !!
@angunamoyong12913 жыл бұрын
I wish people could actually UNDERSTAND this video. Everything they mention in this video is truth. Social media effects in thoughts,moods, create jealously, the more jealous people became the more they hate you, perfectionsim.
@GhostsAndGarbagePailKids4 жыл бұрын
Seriously thank you for all of your videos!
@MindBrainTalks5 жыл бұрын
This video raises very good points! Excellent video!
@pat_rach4 жыл бұрын
Totally sad but true, nowadays many people including myself are not appreciating in ourselves because of the impact of social media. Moreover, using it also be a waste of time for doing many things. Thanks for making this video!!
@brookebishop20923 жыл бұрын
Social Media does destroy us. All it ever does is show us everyone’s life, who blocks us, ignores us, does not add us, and does not bother with us. It also shows us who gets likes and comments on their stuff. So upsetting.
@shifty73713 жыл бұрын
if someone's already insecure and they see these fake personas and how perfect someone's life is or how good someone looks they might judge themselves off of what they see online we humans have this big problem where we compare our lives to these fake versions of people who make their lives look more interesting then they actually are no one wants to share the bad aspects of life so when people see how "perfect" these people's life's are they may feel alone like no one understands them ik that's what happened to me a couple of years ago and it was a horrible feeling
@elliemartin65034 жыл бұрын
The envy cycle is SO TRUE omg
@djdarlabeathebest3 жыл бұрын
Just what I needed to hear/see
@sabrinawanderer75604 жыл бұрын
Yeah..spot on. It pisses me off when i was only the one clicking the Like button for my FB friends but they don't for me like Hello? Well, nothing's wrong with Social media so long as people don't dwell too much on impressing people they don't like..
@muminhussein76044 жыл бұрын
I deleted my whatsapp, Facebook and instagram account last night due to when I found wasting my time every single day
@djbss66673 жыл бұрын
@@Osc1llateW1ldly WhatsApp is bad because they track your location and what you do because they read your messages trust me WhatsApp is bad
@gratitude63683 жыл бұрын
@@Osc1llateW1ldly WhatsApp is social média, i dont like it because everyone posting their pictures on WhatsApp status and their opinions
@Inspirator_AG1122 жыл бұрын
The double-edged sword of the Internet is that content of any interest exists. Social media is best used for interest-based communities, not addiction.
@Mamadghodsiable4 жыл бұрын
when I tell people that I don't have Facebook,Tweeter or Instagram they act like if I have disease or something.
@pianomusics66084 жыл бұрын
😄😄😂yes
@julianoble3 жыл бұрын
😀
@Andrea_Green5 жыл бұрын
I deactivate my accounts regularly lol but I go back cause I like taking pictures and keeping up with family who live out of town....what made a huge difference if you want balance is getting rid of the mobile app cause you don’t have to deal with checking those little red notifications it sounds weird but it works
@doc.zaid9492 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! I used to think that I am alone who has these thoughts, but seems no 😀 I was always good at school when social media still didn't enter our lives this much, but sence then I have always been struggling with anxiety , stress, depression, distraction-easily, lack of focus and self esteem etc etc etc Half year ago I had a big exam in my career and I decided to shutdown social media for 2 months , it was hard at the beginning , but after 2 weeks I realized how peaceful I can live without them! I got my focus , self respect, strength back again and I passed the exam! After that I made the biggest decision in my life to kill this addiction I have toward social media, and deleted my self permanently from all those applications (Facebook, instagram,vk) !!! Nowadays when I meet with my friends or colleges especially that 99% of them are addicted to social media, they consider me as an alien from another planet hahaha but inside me I really feel pity for them, and wish everyone would take this step to realize how great and beautiful our lives can be without this addiction
@deconstructedshorts18482 жыл бұрын
The brutal reality of IG REELS : kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXLMppihirSKb80
@piyushchandane32232 жыл бұрын
looks like im going to same path as yours ….. social media just drains your brain completely!! its insane .
@doc.zaid9492 жыл бұрын
@@piyushchandane3223 I agree it literally does!!! Do it, and I promise you will feel sooooooooo much better, you will be FREE!))
@piyushchandane32232 жыл бұрын
@@doc.zaid949 on my way bro !! wish me luck !!😅
@doc.zaid9492 жыл бұрын
@@piyushchandane3223 All the best brotha 🔥
@armyshope3 жыл бұрын
I think one of things it does it makes you detached from your own feelings
@JRob5945 жыл бұрын
On the other hand social media can be helpful if used properly but like he said we spend hours using it and it has basically taking over our lives
@mostafashawky5055 жыл бұрын
Please can you talk about types of learners and which ways should work for each one of them Ex: auditory, visual, interpersonal..
@Jeanius3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I feel like spend too much time looking on others people posts on Instagram, and that kinda make me exhausted for no reason. Maybe my brain just worked too much for that.
@cptray-steam5 жыл бұрын
😕 I'm sad. How did this happen?
@candaceroman5844 жыл бұрын
I completely understand the jealousy part. I see "happiness" and confidence when I look at other people's posts/profiles and -whoa ho - when I see fitness images...Well I pull my pack of cookies and tub of ice cream so they can accompany me in my blanket fort where I wallow in my lack of self confidence. 😆
@TheOneAft5 жыл бұрын
Este video tiene muchos puntos de interés con respecto a las redes sociales. Estoy de acuerdo porque hace unos 20 años no había nada de eso y la gente estaba más tranquila. Ahora sólo quieren que unos "amigos" virtuales les den Like a cualquiera de las cosas que suben a alguna red social. Gente se mata por hacerse una selfie, chicas bailan en Tik Tok mostrando sus atributos para ganar seguidores, jóvenes usan KZbin como si fuese un capítulo de Jackass, etc. Como diría una canción de Reel Big Fish... "Everything sucks!"
@Aiden2145 жыл бұрын
Depends how you use it. People don't seem to use it much for personal life anymore, they mostly share around memes. I post what I want, like a diary for my record and to show anyone who cares what I'm up to (usually the great outdoors) and perhaps inspire them to go out and do the same. It's a tool use it in a healthy way and is fine.
@luismiguelmartinezsanchez40693 жыл бұрын
no se puede inspirar a una persona si esa persona no puede no se llama inspiracion se llama narcisismo comparacion ego y postureo
@WVMothman5 жыл бұрын
It took about 10 years of facebook use, but my friends are cold and distant now. Even when I see them out they just scroll and take photos.
@erikavaleries2 жыл бұрын
Me too, judging from a phone
@islymoniquee5 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo when he say you lay in bed on social media and you look up & it’s 2am 😂 guilty