How the WORST Dubai tour turned my trip upside down!

[@travelforphoebe]

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[@massi818]

I’ve been to Dubai five times for work, and I found it the most boring place in the world. I know exactly how you feel. Thanks for being honest and really show a place exactly the way it is unlike some KZbinrs who exaggerate.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@chriswalker7972]

Yes agree 4-5 in a mini van. Very disappointing.Someone being a tourist is not fun but they sell to those who have like 1 or 2 hours in a big city.

[@badnaseebkn]

it is boring place for boring people....

[@thats_joy_with_mark]

Joy wants to go, but I'm sitting on the fence, it all seems a bit superficial am I right?

[@SA-cloud]

@@thats_joy_with_mark Who knows...depends what you want. If you're in the UK in Nov/Dec and it's grey and raining, 100% Dubai. When the sun's out and it's green, then I'm chasing dragon flies on my mountain bike. You have to know the nice places to visit in Dubai, that makes the difference.

[@autumvaught2660]

I've never had a desire to visit Dubai and everything your experiencing and sharing is exactly what I imagined. Not on the bucket list at all. I appreciate your honesty.

[@Zaabi]

What’s your bucket list

[@carolineburke8002]

You know what I immediately thought - and you know I adore your videos - this video made me love you more. It’s very obvious that you ain’t been sponsored and attempting to push certain goods or tours. I turn off some bloggers as a result. Yours is an honest review and that’s what I want and so many others.

[@gabriel3.16]

This reaction of yours is so real. Now I can honestly say when you say something is nice, is actually nice. Well done Phoebe.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you!

[@RobMagill]

Your honesty is so refreshing, Phoebe. It’s why we trust you. You’ve been open and honest and I think these two videos prove it. You gave it a chance. The hotel looked amazing and set up what seemed to be a good start. Maybe what you experienced really was “Dubai”. Hopefully, when you’re able go to it again, the advice I’ve already seen in the comments will help and, like Bangkok, Dubai will redeem itself. Curious-still glad you went? Even bad experiences I think are sometimes worth it. (Of course, it’s obvious you weren’t glad about the “small” tour-good move leaving that poop-show!) Thanks again for all your hard work and honesty. Travel is rewarding, but, when it’s your job, I can only imagine how hard and stressful it can be. Fear not-you still made two excellent and helpful videos! Ignore those that say otherwise. Rob PS: a quick story to uplift your spirits. Yesterday, I received my “Fibi” t-shirt and decided to immediately wear it. When I had to go the local grocery store, while waiting in line for a sub, a nice lady next to me asked what my shirt meant. After explaining, she logged into her KZbin account and subscribed! The shirt is very comfortable and arrived pretty quick. Glad you have them available and I’ll be sure to wear mine often!

[@travelforphoebe]

OH MY GOSH!! ROBBBB! You got a FIBI shirt! :) That just makes me soooo happy! I got the merch store up and running but haven't promoted it yet - so sweet that you not only found the store but have been wearing it. I gotta say, the Fibi stuff is my favourite hahaha if only Starbucks new what they'd started! :) Gad to hear you found the shirt comfortable and thank you so much for helping me out with some promo there!

[@BenCrathan]

I think the honesty of your video makes it good. It could well be that Dubai is the place to go if you like high end shopping, luxury brands, five star hotels etc. travellers need to know what to expect. So it was a great video :)

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much Ben xx

[@mylahbarreto5265]

Being real is the only way and that’s something we, as your subscribers, appreciate. Makes me happy we’re on the same page when it comes to these types of experiences… I can always refer to your vlogs when researching my next destination 😊

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much Mylah :)

[@atheerz.1920]

Hi Phoebe! I’m from Dubai♥️ and let me just say your journey has been so raw and inspiring darling. Wish we had known you were coming, we would have recommended so many places. I studied tourism for this exact reason, the shallowness of what is shown and how unfortunately inadequate many tour companies are, starting with the Desert Safari’s that are in no way representing our Emirati culture. If there is a next time and want to experience the UAE and its warmth🧡 i would recommend places like Al Shandigha Museum (an old neighborhood dating back aprox 200 years), Maliha (just 30 minutes from Dubai), Souq Al Marar ( a traditional souq that is not touristy), Bait Al Banat Museum (a museum in a century old house that is all about the history of the women of the Emirates), Al Jawareh restaurant and Bin Eid Restaurant for traditional cuisine. Kabab Ustadi restaurant one of our hidden gems. A stay at one of Al Fihaidi Traditional Neighborhood’s Boutique hotels (XVA Gallery) and wander around all the boutique cafes and art galleries in that area. The list is so long🙏🏻 but i hope you do give it another chance. And cant wait for more destinations!

[@travelforphoebe]

Wow I really appreciate those tips - I WISH I had known all of this before I visited! It sounds much more aligned with the reasons I travel and the kinds of things I like to experience. Thank you for sharing with me :) P x

[@atheerz.1920]

@@travelforphoebe of course🥹🤍 you take care of yourself darling, can’t wait to see where you’re headed next! Your videos have helped me plan several destinations! ♥️♥️thank you so much

[@brucehutcheson5302]

Can't blame you. Never had any interest in visiting this country. The most obvious thing is you have to like the rich style of living. Being raised in a normal hard working family environment I know and you have shown that this is not for me. Really hope your next destination is for the normal life holiday experience. ❤😊

[@scipioafricanus5871]

Phoebe visits Dubai so we don't have to!

[@e.kjaergaard9435]

This is REALLY alarming; the always delightful Phoebe get disappointed. Respect for the (travel)honesty 🚂

[@travelforphoebe]

hahaha I try my best to always see the good in everything but this day really pushed me to the brink! I couldn't believe it!

[@connielinz879]

Thanks for being so honest, that's what I love about your channel❣😊

[@travelforphoebe]

oh thank you so much :) It didn't feel great making videos that were 'negative,' but... this is exactly what happened!

[@mycolourfilledlife]

Far out, you poor thing!! Can see how hard you tried to really find the soul and culture there. If it’s so hard for a seasoned traveller like you…then I fear those of us less experienced would have a really hard time of it. Your honesty and search for culture and depth is why I love your channel. Hope you’re on your way to somewhere else and this nightmare is over. ❤🎉

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so so much :)

[@kylemills6785]

My heart goes out to you phoebe ❤ you deserve so much better. It's not your fault for this experience. I commend you for trying to make the most out of this. Wherever you go next will me better. It's only up from here

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much! :)

[@caseydargusch]

This is why we love you Phoebe!! You honesty about the places you visit. Thank you for your honest opinion on Dubai, as it made me rethink how I approach visiting there. Looking forward to nexts week’s episode ❤

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much love!! If you do plan a Dubai itinerary there are some really great recommendations in this comment section! I'll be using them if I go back :)

[@DonJ1973]

Hi Phoebe. It's been awhile since I commented on one of your videos. So sorry that this experience was so frustrating for you. I know the feeling of booking one of those garbage tourist trap tours that just wants you to spend money. I've done a few of those when I was younger and learned from them. Also, I always appreciate you being completely honest of your travels and being upfront when the experience sucks like this one. That's what makes your Vlogs so special that you want to be upfront, honest and vulnerable to your audience. I'm sure there is a "good" experience in Dubai out there and hope you'll be able to redeem the experience in the future.

[@travelforphoebe]

That was exactly it - just a garbage tourist trap tour! So bad! I always want to make a video that helps people and is entertaining in some way - felt like such a waste to go all that way to Dubai and spend so much money on flights and hotel and not be able to shoot the kind of video I love to make!

[@leisarendalls4890]

I find content like this excellent because travel doesn't always go to plan, and videos like this one can help to show what not to do and book. Keeping it real. 😊

[@frankrogerbuaroy1779]

Dear Phoebe! Thanks for your honesty! I really understand how terrible it must have felt.Dubai is the last place i would visit.You show courage with leaving that bus.Thanks a lot for sharing your emotions Phoebe.You're my favorite vlogger in the world!❤

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it :)

[@frankrogerbuaroy1779]

@@travelforphoebe Thanks Phoebe! I'm so curious where your next vlog will be!

[@travelwithchaminda4655]

Dear Phoebe, Thank you so much for your honest reviews of Dubai. I look forward to seeing you at the next Destination.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you :)

[@rachelmartin6401]

Thanks for such an honest review of Dubai!! It’s been on my travel list but definitely doesn’t look like somewhere I would want to go! 😅

[@celinererekura7116]

Love your honesty!! but have to say I was focusing so much on how AMAZING your skin looks! Would you ever show your products/routines?

[@oswaldboelcke5470]

Things do not always work out, but you are a brave person to travel and assume the risk. I am all for what you do. Your videos are awesome. Please keep doing it.

[@JunaidAzizChannel]

Hey Phoebe, I can see why you’d get disappointed to have that kind of an experience. I have been living here 24 years and for me, the beauty of Dubai is in the cultural diversity. For me, it seeing and experiencing how the richest of the rich and poorest of the poor share the same city and the city has evolved to have its own tiny community spheres. You go to Bur Dubai at Diwali and you’ll find yourself in India, you go to Satwa or Riga during a Filipino festival and you find yourself in the Philippines. You walk into Waitrose and you find a kilo of Apples for 25 AED. You walk into the fruits and vegetables markets and you get a glimpse of how the not so rich are able to afford a great quality of life. And through this, the city’s culture of co-existence, tolerance and entrepreneurship comes from. The city’s culture of Karak tea, cafeterias and shawarmas is also something to explore. If you’re planning on coming here next, I’d love to take you around and help you explore the different pockets of the city. And no I’m not a travel agent trying to sell you my services. Just wanted to share my views ✌🏻

[@nikolajmadsen5921]

Great video, nice to see it all without any filter and your raw experience. Think its time for another Copenhagen / Denmark video for some redemption on this dubai tour 🤠🤠 (pretty far to travel obviously but y ^^)

[@HaleyNoelC]

You always make a good video for us Phoebe! Your honesty and authenticity are so refreshing and unique to travel content. I hope your next adventure brings you more joy. ❤

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so so much :)

[@philipbanks8425]

I’ve only been there once, but absolutely loved it but Dubai isn’t for everyone. I do have to say choosing the right guides is definitely a task, as there are lot of bad ones. When I travelled to Dubai in 2022, they way I like to see the sites, I pick out things that are fun and memorable Like - going down a glass slide, going up the tallest tower in the world, going to the water park, going on a speed boat tour and or jet skiing seeing the sites, quad biking in the desert was so much fun. I see Dubai more as architecture, and lavish life than culture. I can’t wait to go back to Dubai, experience what they have to offer. Phoebe I love to watch your videos, as you show pure and depth and emotion to your videos that more people can relate to. Can’t wait to watch ur next video Phil

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much!

[@aynrandfan7454]

Dubai wasn’t bad at all … stayed in the jumeirah al qasr and went skydiving and skiing in the indoor mall was pretty epic. If you have some cash to splash its great

[@intrepidnurse5659]

We had a similar experience in Abu Dhabi and really did ruin the little time we had to explore. I echoed others sentiments in that you’re truly giving an honest account of your experience. Equally, I love how you pivoted the way you were dealing with it to take what is and find something to enjoy.

[@travelforphoebe]

I really appreciate that 🥹🙏🏼

[@bludicka21]

We were in UAE in March this year, booked a Gulf cruise where we were cruising overnight and spent 7 days in different destinations. I rented for us cars with drivers via Viator. Abu Dhabi, Khasab (Oman - this was an amazing traditional boat tour) and the dune bashing in Dubai were fantastic. At the second Dubai day tour where we requested specific things, they didn't get for us our requested tickets (they sold us expired tickets for a several hundreds of dollars!!!), and the company was SO rude - yes, we got the money back. Seeing your video - (I am so sorry and also glad that you just decided to do what is best for you and enjoy the moment) - we should have just got out of there and gone to the mall, I'm sure it would have been much nicer experience. Thank you for your honest review.

[@MichaelsMusicMix]

Making episodes where things turn to crap just adds to your authenticity. There's a billion travel vloggers out there who'd just not bother with bad experiences. Thank you for not being one of those! PS. Good food fixes pretty much any bad travel experience!

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much :)

[@sailing_Galileo]

Cheer up and keep up the good work. I am cheering for you from Japan. Thank you for all your wonderful videos😃

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much :)

[@VulcanRR]

I live in Dubai...its just all hype its good for certain people but not all Dubai is a car city so, I recommend getting a car for yourself and touring Dubai, keeping an itinerary on where to visit you'll enjoy that a lot more

[@JohnDoe-kw1cx]

Just take the Big Bus Tour next time, you don't have a time limit at a stop, you can hop on to the next bus if you want. They also have a guide and an audio guide The above is a good strategy for places that have a big bus tour. Day 1 : Summary Big Bus tour, figure out which places you want to visit again. Day 2 onwards : divide the places you liked on day 1 for a deep dive.

[@3_little_explorers]

Not every trip goes the way we plan or expect. Thank you for keeping it real, makes a much better channel having honest personal review 😊

[@travelforphoebe]

I really appreciate that :) Thank you!

[@ingridnh1]

Oh Phoebe! So sorry that you did not enjoy your time in Dubai! Thank you for truly giving us the honest truth about your experience…love that about you! ❤ That tour really was a nightmare! I would have left too! 😮 Everything does seem so curated for over-indulgence and that’s ok if that was your expectation. Since you went there with a difference idea of what you would experience, it ended up being a disappointment. 😔 I too would like to visit Dubai in the future but I have carefully managed my expectations about the experience. I am sure there are places there, that could have given you a different experience…just harder to find I guess. Maybe based on others’ suggestions another trip is worth a try?

[@travelforphoebe]

I feel like if you do plan a trip in the future, you'll have to come back to this comment section and mine out some of the awesome tips people shared :) I'd be open to going back with a fresh itinerary to try again!!

[@davidtong9440]

Hi Phoebe, thanks for being so authentic about your experience. It looked like the tour was just about getting your money, and made Dubai look so materialistic. It reminds me of the $99 tours in China, where they force you into factories to buy stuff and pressure you to pay their guides tips, all for 5 min photo stops. Yes, that’s how they make back their money, but it really ruins the experience. Never been to Dubai, but hopefully finding the right guides would show you what it truly has to offer. And if it doesn’t, that’s okay too. Glad you were able to salvage it somewhat at the end!

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much :)

[@LC-zi8jw]

Been to Dubai and never going back. It's overrated and outright boring. There's no culture, no hospitality food's not great and too artificial. It's a place only for transiting if you're travelling with Emirates, that's pretty much it. The same can be said for Qatar as well.

[@AO-nq3kw]

Hey Phoebe, I’m also from Oz and have lived here for 5 years, there’s so much to do in Dubai between Nov-Apr! Though, I have to admit that a lot of ‘workers’ here don’t know how to use their common sense. At all. You have to be so firm and direct with them to get through. The lack of communication is so real! Sorry for your experience and hope you come back for a more enjoyable experience!

[@LoCoAde87]

First time in Dubai in 1999 (outside of the airport), and it was amazing. Ended up working there from 2008 to 2010. I hated it. I have been there a few times since. And I am always happy leaving.

[@fuazi5833]

Support and Admiration for Your Journey Hi Phoebe, I've been a longtime viewer, recalling your captivating videos in South Africa and Vancouver. Your recent video, "Broke up and I’m moving away," moved me, and I wanted to express my admiration for your strength and resilience during this challenging time. Your unwavering determination in the face of adversity is commendable, and your positive outlook is truly inspiring. Life has a way of rewarding those who persevere, and I believe the world has incredible things in store for someone as resilient as you. Keep forging ahead, Phoebe. Your journey is a testament to your inner strength, and I'm confident that brighter days lie ahead for you. Remember, you're not alone-there are people, myself included, cheering you on. Wishing you continued strength and success. Best regards, fonzy!

[@travelforphoebe]

Thanks for watching and for the kind words :)

[@fuazi5833]

glad to see your reply ... I look forward to seeing your videos!

[@Arigatoukeka]

Good decision leaved that tour. Planning to Dubai and planning to search my own tour 😀

[@kerstinrossek]

I read through the comments and there is nothing left to say. I appreciate you. 😊

[@oswaldboelcke5470]

All experiences - even the bad ones - add to the amazing tapestry of our lives. My wife and I just returned from another Australian Gold Coast vacation. Our next vacation is probably going to be Perth and the amazing Southwest. I have a cousin who resides in Boyanup.

[@حمدالشامسي-ك5ح]

Hello Phoebe, thank you for your honesty about Dubai. I am a local from Dubai, and I want to share that the city may not be everyone's cup of tea, especially for those who enjoy exploring culture and strolling through streets. Dubai seems to cater more to luxury seekers who are inclined towards high-end vacations, booking 5-star hotels, indulging in shopping sprees, relaxing on the beach, and attending pool parties. Nevertheless, there is an array of adventures to experience, such as Dubai Parks, the Flower Park, Dubai Eye, JBR, Motiongate, IMG, Dubai Design, escape rooms, and many more. I couldn't list them all here, but there's certainly a diverse range of activities for those interested. Despite its focus on luxury, I hope you consider visiting Dubai again and have a delightful experience. I'm more than happy to assist you in discovering the city's hidden gems. Take care!

[@colettemccartan6663]

We split our time between downtown (Dubai mall area) and the marina area which we loved. There is an element of just accepting it for what it is but we also got lucky and booked a smallish tour with a local guide who took us to old town and across to the gold market, at no point did we feel like we were being forced to buy things. We also got lucky with our dessert experience by the sounds of it. 100% recommend Atlantis if you like water parks and the indoor snow experience.

[@KaymarKreations]

Well done that you still made th most of your day and I loved the aquarium ❤

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank youuuuu!

[@denisep7711]

My husband says everyone that goes there and skis at Ski Dubai has a great time. My girlfriend went to a camel beauty contest and loved it. I don't have specifics on that. Good luck. We are at Coolum Beach today, so I'm in a very happy place. I hope you will be very soon.

[@travelforphoebe]

oh wow! Sounds interesting! Thank you!

[@whentimeisnothing]

Totally appreciate the honesty about your experience!!

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you!

[@jadeeeeemily]

Aww looking forward to your next destination!! You’ve inspired me to travel more 💕 so thank you 🙏🏼

[@travelforphoebe]

Oh I love that so much :)

[@youngcrippen]

Hi again. It's really important for you to tell us when something doesn't work out, so this is good stuff. I have been on a few tours I was less than impressed with as well as some really good ones. One guy was so good that I ended up wanting to be a tour guide some day. Also - I ended up going to the London Sea Life Centre ony my own to put in a few hours. It was great, but a bit weird and uncomfortable as it is so family orientated. I'm still glad I went. That was a great watch.

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so so much! Yeah I hear you - doing family things solo can be a weird feeling haha happens to me all the time too!

[@vipulchoksi8013]

Great msg through this video, to unwind and relax on your trip abroad then just watching the tourist attractions in the tours

[@musakabiri1377]

Defo spend a day in Bur Dubai and Deira, you'll find the culture there. Take an abra boat through the creek and visit the different souks, not just the gold souk.

[@chantalvanrooyen3881]

The tour bus driver hooting at you!!! that would have SENT me...Bless the dear red velvet cupcake and the view...glad your day ended ok...

[@travelforphoebe]

hahahah I was FUMING at that point!

[@AlinaMcleod]

Thanks for sharing your insight, was considering going to Dubai soon but may hold off for a while. By the way, what camera do you shoot on? Quality looks so good!

[@travelforphoebe]

I feel like one day is enough, honestly! I film using my Nikon Z30 and my trusty iPhone 13

[@olivialazaro1729]

Hi Phoebe Just watched your Dubai episode and are sad that you did not enjoy it we lived in dubai for 6 years and my mum says Deira is the best part of dubai. She says to go there and spend time talking to the fisherman. Please do not give up on dubai.

[@roberthodgins5740]

You are being honest about your visit which is how it should be. I have been to Dubai one time when I was in US Navy on carrier it was a port call for us i went to mall there as well and a bus tour thats all I remember I Did. I do like to go back some day.

[@anisulislam1]

always recommended if anyone going anywhere always ask locals for recommendations also discover by yourself. getting onto those tourist bus is always a boring experience.

[@mgoldberg777]

I loved your honest Insights of Dubai. I guess Dubai is just the artificial illusion of superficial world and I'm glad you showed it as it is..what's amazing you end with quality rooftop moments on sunset, it's beautiful..I feel like I'm there I was almost gonna remove that frosting of your hair😅

[@markeaston7353]

Yep never yet been on a tour where they didn't drag us through a carpet, jewellery or souvenir shop. Even on a private (my wife and I) tour in Egypt last year when I said up front firmly but politely NO SHOPS we still ended up in one of each. We just self explored using the hoho bus in Dubai. We found the gold and spice souks there to be very disappointing. If there is a "vibe" in Dubai we've never managed to find it.

[@travelforphoebe]

wow that's so disappointing! I'm so sorry to hear this happens to you so often. I gotta be honest, it rarely happens to me. It made me so mad!!

[@petern6808]

I was in Dubai on a 23 hr connection…..plenty of time to reach the same conclusion you did!! Come explore more of Canada 🇨🇦 You will not be disappointed! Thanks for the great videos….

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much! I do love Canada!

[@jasoncharboneau3918]

I was just in Dubai last month. I would say look into taking a cruise. That’s what I did. It gives you a good starting point. I spent hours planning Dubai for a 2 day visit. I took the big bus hop on, hop off and did a little at each stop around Dubai. But there were a few tours that were just really bad it happens to everyone. You feel like you totally wasted your time and money.

[@tld8102]

i had a similar experience in china, guides would ask for "tips" even those were already prepaid to my travel agent... I was told these "museum shops" help subsidise the cost of the whole tour.... which was such a waste of time

[@Dreammeditaterepeat]

Yep, had a similar experience in Dubai with a tour company.. Myself and one of the 'Managers' on the phone ended up in a yelling match, which is super unlike me.. I tell you the thing that added salt to the experience, once it was all over, an 'escalation manager' contacted myself on whatsapp to 'discuss our experience' at no point did he say, well I am sorry for your experience.. Instead he proceeded to blame our driver, pretty much calling him of low education and stupid.. The driver was the only one that was trying to help.. He couldn't do anything about the problem, but at least he was trying to fix the problem.

[@quickdry3]

lol I'm going to suggest that you remember this episode's textile shop when you book any tour if you go to Cairo. The one thing that has changed from then to now, the used to show you the children rapidly churning out the rugs, now the showrooms only have 1 or 2 people slowly working the loom - and then quickly on to the selling floor.

[@Bluboy30]

That's a bummer about the tour group, I always tend to stay away from those type touristy tours. As for Dubai, I think it's one of those places where you'll either enjoy it or you don't. It's such a superficial place that some people will like and some will hate. I've been there a couple of times and I had a fun time. But I was with a significant other, so maybe for your next trip back, if you're going back to Dubai, have someone with you that you can have a good time with. 🙂

[@travelforphoebe]

I was envisioning some great tour with a local, like 5-6 people, connecting with local vendors, exploring in a more hands-on way but... nope! Straight tourist trap. Definitely eager to visit again for a redemption trip haha

[@fridaftw]

Hey Phoebe, I see where you are coming from and will try to write something that may help you or others visiting this place: As a norwegian, the need for sunshine during the winter is dire, so an easy direct flight to the UAE has been the rescue for us a couple of times. I love it for the amazing local middle eastern cuisine (you seem to have missed this part), the safety I feel not having to worry about theft, and the cleanliness. And you can rely on the sunshine to be present like no place else this time of year. It is a perfect place for sun and relaxation. Now with that said, there are some experiences there that you can do when you get bored at the beach. Just to have mentioned it: One of my absolutely favorite places in the world can be found here: the Telal Al Ain resort. It is in the middle of the desert with gazelles running around it is the ultimate peaceful haven. I. Love. It. Other faves in Dubai: Abra rides and Al Seef old town Arabian tea house there for food (Avoid the gold souks, it is like you said) The Green Planet (indoor rainforest no cage zoo) And the Aquaventure waterpark is ridiculously fun. In Abu Dhabi we visited the Mosque and felt it was soulless, but really enjoyed other places like: Qasr al Hosn (very old historical building surrounded by skyscrapers, amazing evening ambiance and lots of history to read and dive into) The Louvre museum inside and outside by the sea with the drone shows One thing that fascinates me about UAE is that they make the unthinkable happen. Dream it, it is there. As a vegetarian I didn't think I would be able to have a fully vegetarian michelin fine dining experience, until I got to visit Avatara there, an indian vegetarian 16 course experience. It was out of this world and I will never forget it. Also visiting UAE during ramadan was interesting. Going to the Iftar banquets after sunset was a fantastic experience, first listening to the prayer calls while the streets are completely quiet, and suddenly after locals and foreigners come together and have amazing food. In conclusion: Some places really do lack soul, I agree. But it is not many other places I feel safe to explore a bit of the Middle Eastern culture, and you -can- find it here. Hope this helps for you or anyone else reading.

[@travelforphoebe]

WOW! Really appreciate such a thoughtful comment packed full of great ideas :) I'm definitely keen to try again in the future and I'd love to use some of your tips when planning! THANK YOU!

[@fridaftw]

❤😊 glad to be able to help you back, as your videos help me alot when travel planning!

[@Humansrbeautiful]

I think Dubai is very materialistic, really nothing to do but to lay on the beach, and see the aquarium and the buildings. It wasn’t my favorite trip when I visited.

[@travelforphoebe]

Glad to hear it wasn't just me!

[@agnesomerez]

Hi Phoebe, I lived in Dubai for 8 yrs before moving to Sydney. Try exploring spice souk, gold souk, JBR area, Dubai Creek & Yacht Club dining areas, Grand Mosque in Abu Dhabi, Abu Dhabi Corniche Beach. There are food tours too happening around Deira in old downtown Dubai.

[@travelforphoebe]

I'd definitely like to try again and visit all the spots you mentioned!

[@touringband]

I visited Dubai once without knowing it was Ramadan. Lol. I couldn’t even drink water during the stifling hot day out in the open. But that mistake was on me. Otherwise I treated Dubai like the big amusement park that is was. I did manage a somewhat authentic moment down at Dubai Creek. Can’t hit sixes all the time with travel, but your video still shines! Cheers!

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you!

[@winnieswalk3304]

Have lived in the Middle East for 8 years. Some of them (or most of them) don't care what you said or if they understood you. They only care about what they say and what they think of it. Not the best place for tourists. Place is awesome but people? Not yet. They're still learning. Doing it your own way is much better I'd say.

[@afnanabed8192]

I understand that it can be hard to get around in the beginning, but it seems to me that your trip should have been better planned. In Dubai you can find everything from old historical places to modern luxurious ones, and all kinds of activities. You just need to make sure to do your research.

[@georgiahammond1450]

Appreciate your honesty and massively miss represented clearly x

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much :)

[@bgriffo95]

Hate that you had a bad experience in Dubai Phoebe! I feel I look for an authentic cultural experience as well so thank you for saving me money 😂 will NOT be visiting Dubai! Can't wait to see where you are off to next!! ❤

[@travelforphoebe]

Such a shame huh :( BUT I do believe in second (third?) chances so I'd be open to trying again with a different itinerary. I sense a 'Dubai Redemption Special' in my future haha

[@MW-mn1el]

Dubai is artificial, and it has another nickname not many aware of "fake city", that's many of my previous colleagues and friends describe it. It's like a giant theme parks. Modern, but lacks real identity, culture and charm.

[@Ryan-dh7rr]

Honest reactions are the best. They are genuine , but it's also good to see locals posting here on the good places to visit. These types of tours where they take you to souvenir shop after souvenir shop whilst only spending a short time at the actual destinations most westerners want to visit can be quite common in certain countries. Some 13yrs ago, my parents, brother and I did tours in China that seemed very similar to your experience on this Dubai tour. Though, given we were on an 8 day tour that cost like AU$40 per person (that's for the whole tour, NOT a daily rate) and I believe it was subsidised by the Chinese Government to help grow the tourism industry, we just put up with it. I wouldn't settle for such a tour if I paid market price.

[@travelforphoebe]

Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry to hear that!!

[@justjan1]

It takes a lot of guts to leave a tour. Well done you. I spent 3 weeks in Japan last year and it just wasn't the right fit. Now walking away, I know much better from what I want in a trip

[@lijmes]

Look at you! You have transformed into a seasoned traveller lol! Yeah the sentiments are similar, i find dxb to be a place full of bling and no soul, hot (summer for me) and a nightmare for pedestrians. Totally cracked at the DinTaiFeng part though and yep, spot on! Anyway, really love the video for the candid raw emotions, disagreements with locals (that travellers do face but seldom talk about) and if anything i'd say its one of your better vids. When it comes to your level, id say Sharjah trumps Abu Dhabi trumps Dubai. Think SF vs NYC vs Vegas... mideast edition. Keep it up, try their choco-dates & buy some sidr honey!

[@coffeeboss1912]

Rule of thumb for me is to use public transportation to really experience the vibe of the country. Deira and Bur Dubai is the old style vibe. From there you can catch the Abrars that will take you to the souks. Also a must do is the desert safari in the evening. Burj Khalifa side of Dubai is mainly designer label stores and major franchises.

[@travelforphoebe]

Interesting!! Thank you!

[@DreamTeamTravels]

I'm sorry you had a bad time in Dubai. It actually is a wonderful place with so much to see and do. You really should never do any tours as they will just take you to shopping malls and beaches. If you are ever back here or if you want to go to Abu Dhabi let us know we will show you around and you will quickly change your mind about UAE :) Dubai has unless things to do free or paid. We could easily give you a 2-week itinerary and you would still not see everything here.

[@MW-mn1el]

HK, Singapore, Japan, South Korea, NYC and even Vegas, any of them are better then Dubai.

[@caiofelipe9391]

Hello, Phoebe! I'm sorry that Dubai isn't what you expected, but I need to thank you for sharing what you're experiencing 'cause.. There are so many vlogs on this platform and most of them are exciting and etc. When you share these frustranting moments, I can understand the challenge of creat content and finally know that is some bad experiences in every kind of trip. Even if is in a luxury and expensive place like Dubai. Anyways, I'm sorry and thank you again to show us your real thoughts about every trip 😄

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much for watching :)

[@FelixCattenstart]

Hiya! I didn't like Dubai either. Out of all places I've visited the 3 worst places were Hurghada, New York and Dubai. Dubai is a city where everything is big, so even a small group tour would be a lot of people. Also the city isn't thought through. For example, as a pedestrian you have to walk 5km to get to places which would be like 200m by car, just because you can't cross a road. Abu Dhabi for example is much more mature. I liked the Yas Waterpark and the Ferrari World theme park. I'm glad you show your honest opinion. It makes you a real person and that's the reason I am still following you after years. You made me laugh at 5:49 when John Travolta appeared 🤣. I am glad you enjoyed your fried rice. It's one of my favourites too. Especially the way it's made in the Caribbean. Whenever you visit a Caribbean island, you'll have to try Caribbean Fried Rice! I think there's nothing 'authentic' of Dubai. To me it feels like they scrambled people from Pakistan and India to live there, they scrambled the big chains to be there and make it work. It seems like they haven't thought of some sort of plan. I'm always intrigued by fish and birds, I could watch it for hours as well. Worst experience I had in Dubai was celebrating NYE. First of all I was traveling with a friend, and all males were put into a sand area far away from the Burj Khalifa. Women and kids were put close in front of the Burj Khalifa. Then when it was over, everyone rushed into the metro. If you wanted to travel with the metro within the first 2-3 hours after midnight there's a big chance you'd die because of just too much people. You literally feel trapped. I did like the waterpark at Jumeirah though. Thank you for sharing your honest opinion about Dubai. I really appreciate it. Hopefully you'll have better weeks of traveling ahead 🤙

[@travelforphoebe]

Thanks so much, Felix! I'm so glad you get it!

[@daryarama]

After 20 years living in the UAE, we show to our visiting friends and family a better tour that you've had. So sorry for your experience. It was so wrong on so many levels 😅 I wrote a message to you on Instagram. If you are here next time, let me know. I'm happy to properly introduce you to Dubai and Abu Dhabi- the culture, the food, the places. My hubby is local (so is his family)- this will give you an inside look to the emirati culture as well. 4:27

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you so much!!

[@daryarama]

@@hannesRSA very strong and mostly wronh stereotype. Highly depends on the upbringing, education and accepting other cultures. In my case, I'm very fortunate to have an open minded and very friendly extended family.

[@daryarama]

@@hannesRSA well, as always, don't believe everything you see on social media. Or the cringe "reality TV" about Dubai 😬- majority of people here are normal middle class workers or business people that work hard for the money they earn. The influence of Islam is actually a good thing which keeps the place safer than anywhere in the world. But they are also very tolerant to any religion people follow- we have churches, synagogues, temples beside mosques. People celebrate Christmas, Diwali, etc in an open manner, even locals enjoy meeting Santa 😄 Very chill place. Complex place too as you have so many nationalities. You learn a lot just by being exposed to all that. Can find anything by your interest, preference, price range. When I moved here two decades back, I started with a salary of 350$ (accommodation was provided from employer) and not only I was saving, but also sending home to my parents home. That's what I love- you can live on 1k per month and on 50k - you'll find everything for everyone. Perfect? No place is perfect. Depends on what you consider pluses or minuses (pros and cons), but for me personally- pros overweight by the long shot. Safe? So far the safest place to raise kids and be a woman. Many people who ever lived here and got used to the safety, either miss the place or just coming back here😄

[@Sh4dow682]

I kind of got the impression that Dubai is built for the tourism.. its only been like a decade or 2 of Dubai becoming a thing.. before that it was not much at all. To me it comes across as a place to show off the best of the best in the world because they just throw money at everything. Didnt think there'd be much culture or history behind it

[@fredriklundholm8496]

If you don't know the hidden gems and meet normal people this is what you will experience. Hopefully next time someone will take the time to help you find you the right spots! If you like to party it also helps.

[@costasworldofmusicmemories5792]

Hello, Phoebe, Hope this message finds you well. We sent a comment to you here but forever reason it did not post. Anyway, We had mixed feelings of Dubai the first time we travel there. Dubai is a international country that attracts tourists and workers from all over the world. Very transient. It's hard to connect with true natives that can show you the history and culture of the traditions. It's obvious that the tour operator new nothing or didn't want to. Harriet and I gave it a second chance and came away with wonderful memories. We got to know the Emirati Culture in so many ways, The hospitality , The food, The history, The people etc. from locals. Phoebe, do not beat up on yourself. You deserve better treatment. You tell it like it is. Harriet and I learned many years ago not to solely rely on touring bus companies . If you truly want to know where locals go, (events , festivals etc. ) checkout the local newspaper and have the concierge at your hotel translate it into English as to what is happening there. We have been longtime subscribers of your channel from the beginning. You are a beautiful soul who is as honest and sincere as they come. Sending you much love ❤ from Richmond, Va. Harriet, Jim and Yuki

[@americanberran2527]

Sorry it wasn't the trip you hoped for. I'm sure you'll get lots of recommendations to make the next one one hundred times better:-)

[@blklaser95]

I would have told you to go to the gold, spice, and fabric souks if you were looking for some culture. You could have done the little boat trip across the river to do both parts of old Dubai. It's not a full day's worth of stuff but it is neat to see how the old Dubai used to be. Just be warned that people will try to sell you stuff.

[@travelforphoebe]

ahhhhh okay - great tips! I was meant to get to those spots on that stinky tour haha shame I missed out!

[@theoadelaidabondocabe7261]

Miss Phoebe:Thanks you so much for heading to Dubai,UAE in February of 2024❤❤❤I hope you are going to experiences a “Great Times Later After You Visited These Amazing Landmarks” in the Middle East February of 2024❤❤❤

[@Delton05]

More than anything else, it's their hazy, bad air quality with airborne silica from the desert sand that has always stopped me from going there. Can't be good for your lungs.

[@carolynboston9715]

You'll probably have a better experience if you have a local resident show you around instead of booking tours. It's the tour that messed up your experience. I hope you give Dubai another chance. I've lived there for two years and I still come back whenever I have the chance. It's not for everyone, I know. But if you venture away from the touristy places, you'll love it for sure.

[@travelforphoebe]

I think you're right on the local resident there!

[@carolynboston9715]

@@travelforphoebe I'm not sure if you've tried Airbnb Experience. That's where I usually book local guides. It's better than booking through tour agencies. I've used it in Morocco, Thailand, and many other places. So far, it worked well for me. I'm also a solo female traveller and prefer to travel independently. Tour groups don't appeal to me.

[@judyquek2362]

You better come to Singapore. From middle of June till August the 9th, we have fireworks every Saturday. It is so beautiful. Singapore is safe. You will be happy in Singapore than anywhere else. It is a peaceful and calm country. And Garden By The Bay is a garden paradise. You will love Singapore and be happy here.

[@andreas_adventures]

She was just in Singapore

[@travelforphoebe]

hahaha I'm ALWAYS in Singapore! :)

[@ChrismediaAlbury]

Interesting, I'm going there in a few weeks to see friends and some sights. I think I am over Dubai already.

[@travelforphoebe]

Hmmm maybe if you’re there with friends you’ll have a great time 😌

[@isabel3851]

Dubai is deathly as a lone traveller. I’d love to see you explore some european countries, Phoebe❤ things are so much friendlier over here xxxxxxx

[@Ribastein]

I must say I am happy I came across this video, I really do not like this place and you confirmed my feelings. I have only been through the airport and that was enough.

[@travelforphoebe]

I hear you!

[@mike01120]

Waiting 🙇🙇🙇🙇🥰🥰🥰

[@vickihambridge4462]

We went on an Arabian Adventures Desert Night Safari which we thought was amazing. 4 wheel drive dune driving, sunset in the desert then dinner camel rides, dune surfing, dinner, and a show. Maybe you chose the wrong mob.

[@travelforphoebe]

I definitely chose the wrong mob!!! Who did you book through?!

[@ChandraSekhar-zv7vj]

Hi❤ phobe❤ i understad your experiences in Dubai 😂 your voice is very great ❤ i like your honest ❤love you ❤ take care❤❤❤❤❤

[@travelforphoebe]

Thank you! You too!

[@ChandraSekhar-zv7vj]

@@travelforphoebe thank you so much dear ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@nibblebytes]

I went a few months ago for the first time. I really enjoyed it but I can understand why people feel it’s a bit of a facade.

[@travelforphoebe]

I'm glad you had a better time than I did :)

[@theoadelaidabondocabe7261]

Miss Phoebe:I am so “Sorry” for really happened to you in Dubai,UAE this week to experienced this terrible things that you are planning to leaves this amazing city in the Middle East in February of 2024❤❤❤I am hoping you are going to experience great times later after you visits the “Burj Khalifa, Dubai’s Mall, Jumeriah island,etc.” this week in February of 2024❤❤❤

[@MlleWanderlust]

Good for you Phoebe for sticking to your guts! Life is too short to spend time in uncomfortable situations if you don’t have to. I found your honesty very refreshing 😊

[@travelforphoebe]

I really appreciate that - thank you so much!