How THIS Man's Life Changed After Marrying an Asian Woman

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@caterinadelgalles8783
@caterinadelgalles8783 Жыл бұрын
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@georgemode3694
@georgemode3694 Жыл бұрын
I am not an attorney or a trust attorney; this is not legal advice. Asset protection trusts are shielded from creditors and lawsuits. That means if you find yourself getting sued, the resources will not be considered as belonging to you, and the creditor won’t be able to demand payment or transfer of the asset. Assets held in a foreign trust can also be protected from divorce claims and civil actions. Person could put all of their money, houses, cars etc... in a Trusts and set up a business trusts into those trusts in which all there work pay is paid into the business trust. And all pay from there on out gets paid into that person’s Business trust. then child support may be redone as the person business trusts pays him minimum wage at part time hours for his work. Then said person can go back to a judge and show his pay from that point on, then this person should go to the judge again and get the child support rest set to a much lower level, then it is now, and all jobs from there on are paid to the business trust in a foreign trust in a trust. Basically trust Inception. I am not an attorney or a trust attorney; this is not legal advice.
@blossom7801
@blossom7801 Жыл бұрын
I see this KZbin as a character attack on Asian women. Asian women are popular as wife material, that’s why , this is attack to diminish its positive popularity.
@malakatan3235
@malakatan3235 Жыл бұрын
It isn't Chinese culture, it is westernized Chinese, just like Westernized other Asian groups
@cosmictreason2242
@cosmictreason2242 Жыл бұрын
1. This guy’s first mistake was sex out of wedlock 2. This shows why Passport Bros isn’t an answer 3. She evidently married him fraudulently, which is a justification for divorce 4. China is an enemy state and you should suspect all of their women to essentially be subversive spies designed to weaken America - what do you call siphoning funds overseas and taking the place of an American woman by occupying and ruining an American man?
@tacoconch7678
@tacoconch7678 Жыл бұрын
I had a coworker in Texas who married a Chinese woman. They were in the middle of a divorce and things weren't going exactly her way. In a fit of rage, she straight up told him, "My friend told me all I had to do was move to America, marry a white man, divorce him and I could make a lot of money." I'm paraphrasing but that was the gist of it. Dude was so crushed and I couldn't even believe he told me that.
@Killajmj
@Killajmj Жыл бұрын
HAHA THEY REALLY THOUGHT THEY LIKED HIM FOR HIM
@zuhairreza
@zuhairreza Жыл бұрын
@@KillajmjYou laughing??!! 😢😢
@Curdledmayonnaise
@Curdledmayonnaise Жыл бұрын
in a way it's the guys fault for not properly vetting the girl and being with her for years and years. i bet he married her soon. as soon as the guy offers the girl a contract, all the power goes to her if she wants because she can destroy it if she chooses to
@Killajmj
@Killajmj Жыл бұрын
@@zuhairreza YES! DELUDED BETAS BTFO
@funmilayoaina2658
@funmilayoaina2658 Жыл бұрын
The grass isn't greener on the other side. It is greener where you water it. He found out too late. So sad😥
@scotthugins7672
@scotthugins7672 2 ай бұрын
Young men, Pleaseee listen to this….. Any woman that needs you to petition for her U.S. citizenship is a huge risk !!!
@mdiaz6110
@mdiaz6110 2 ай бұрын
Agreed! Same applies for men in need of a U.S. Citizenship no matter what country they’re from. 😢
@kirinsama2959
@kirinsama2959 2 ай бұрын
Yes, that is humongous red flag. No doubt about it 👌 💯
@alexneigh7089
@alexneigh7089 2 ай бұрын
I would shorten it to "Any woman is a huge risk". The institute of marriage is dead.
@kirinsama2959
@kirinsama2959 2 ай бұрын
@@alexneigh7089 true 👍🏻
@glenn6583
@glenn6583 2 ай бұрын
What about the sideways female organs they have? Are they good?
@rosered3919
@rosered3919 2 ай бұрын
My Dad remarried a Chinese in Australia, they are boomers. He told me Chinese women marry for Business, not Romance. It's purely a strategic business decision .
@xxxxxxxxx3944
@xxxxxxxxx3944 Ай бұрын
For older Chinese women, yup. Younger ones marry for status as well.
@User1975-
@User1975- Ай бұрын
Gross 🤢 I’m Aussie and would not go near one with a barge pole !
@kyokasanagi
@kyokasanagi 15 күн бұрын
Very true, they tend to be very traditional and conservative minded. To a lot of them a husband must provide, if he can't then that's a problem.
@jjman533
@jjman533 11 күн бұрын
Sleeper spies.
@bevs9995
@bevs9995 10 күн бұрын
why is she divorced?
@Blufftonbeatch4602
@Blufftonbeatch4602 6 күн бұрын
If you go somewhere to pick a wife, solely because all you have to offer is money and a green card, why are you surprised at this turn out? Do you think these women are choosing you for your character? Because they love you??
@polycarp9897
@polycarp9897 4 күн бұрын
Facts!
@rhuonaChanel
@rhuonaChanel 4 күн бұрын
😂
@dominionian7193
@dominionian7193 4 күн бұрын
Well said
@gothikasweb3685
@gothikasweb3685 2 күн бұрын
American people should at least learn other cultures to understand who's compatible or not... Go to school 👍🏻
@ipromisethatserendipityisa9656
@ipromisethatserendipityisa9656 2 күн бұрын
Hey, dont call out people who likes to play victim in their narrative!
@dialac1
@dialac1 Жыл бұрын
I’m a male nurse and I work with Asian women (Filipina and Chinese). If you think Asian women are sugar, spice and everything nice, I have a lakefront property to sell you in Arizona. They can be the most difficult people to work with and I mean it in every sense. Out of every 10, there are maybe 2-3 pleasant ones. The rest are very very stubborn and just not the best. This is my lived experience. I worked as a travel nurse in Texas two years ago and an Asian nurse was always trying to find faults in my work when I was giving her shift report in the morning. So one evening, when I came in to start my shift, I realized she hadn’t started prepping the patient for surgery the next day and she was behind on a lot of medications. I reported her to the unit manager and the surgeon and got her in serious trouble cos if it was the other way round, she would have done the same to me.
@JustNo8808
@JustNo8808 Жыл бұрын
The difference is is a lot of the mothers, fathers, grandparents, aunts, uncles, siblings, nephews, nieces will excommunicate her from the family if she is a piece of s***. In many other parts of the world family members won't do that.
@PoyTroy
@PoyTroy Жыл бұрын
I heard they are extremely passive aggressive and can play submissive very well for years and just hit a switch once they get you. Heard alot of stories of this happening a whole lot.
@JustNo8808
@JustNo8808 Жыл бұрын
@@PoyTroy I'm thinking about finding a Filipino for a wife, refuse to get her pregnant by not saying about my vasectomy, putting my little kids and major stakes of my corporation, never telling her how much money I make, and saying if she wants to send money to her family members so they don't have to work She can get a job.
@TomNook.
@TomNook. Жыл бұрын
Legend
@salvaahthesageofficial2457
@salvaahthesageofficial2457 Жыл бұрын
“Lakefront property in Arizona”😂😂😂😂😂
@miamukbangeatingshow
@miamukbangeatingshow 11 ай бұрын
Chinese men don't even wanna marry chinese women, you are so brave.
@HECTORMONTALVO-le9cn
@HECTORMONTALVO-le9cn 2 ай бұрын
That is true I have read reports that Chinese men are not dating or marrying Chinese women. Marriages are at an all time low. Now it's the other way around the overpopulation has reversed and there's less births.🤔
@BigBoaby-sg1yo
@BigBoaby-sg1yo 2 ай бұрын
On their wedding night mama is supposed to be present - wow ! If a toothless old hag watching over you as you put the ball in the back of the net 😮
2 ай бұрын
@@BigBoaby-sg1yo Wow, that is scarey.
@BigBoaby-sg1yo
@BigBoaby-sg1yo 2 ай бұрын
Yup ! Nothing worse than back seat drivers 😂
@WillemTheUnsilent
@WillemTheUnsilent 2 ай бұрын
Honestly
@Tech_Traveler
@Tech_Traveler 16 күн бұрын
No matter what: Keep your boundaries strong.
@ssieJons-nx52si
@ssieJons-nx52si 16 күн бұрын
I'm a Black woman I had a best friend white man, he wasn't rich but he was okay, I talk to him one day ask what was he doing he was on the computer talking to a Chinese woman, I told him them not to do this, only because you don't know what you getting, Lord in behold this thing for a woman came to USA , first got married then she hit herself called the police said he did to her which was a lie, police threw him out his house, this thing drain his bank account she did so much to this man, this is why I Will never look at someone that has to have a green card, you get your mind off me because you will never get one, Hell to the No, not as relationship goes, this white man was young when this thing got thought with him he had age looking like a old man in a young man body😮😢❤
@shadowdraqon2479
@shadowdraqon2479 8 күн бұрын
Thats what he gets for fetishizing and lusting and stealing our women
@shadowdraqon2479
@shadowdraqon2479 8 күн бұрын
He should have married his own people
@soniamichelle2393
@soniamichelle2393 6 күн бұрын
​​​@@shadowdraqon2479we are all the same species/human race so we're all our own people. The problem is familial and culture. In that woman's family/culture, she was taught and believed that finding a white man to secure a green card and money is more important than morals.
@Woodman-Spare-that-tree
@Woodman-Spare-that-tree 5 күн бұрын
I know of a woman who did that. Hit herself then ran into the road screaming. All the neighbours came out of their houses to see what the noise was. She asked them to call the police. She ended up with the house, that she had never put a penny into, and her husband, who had bought the house, was made homeless because the Court would not allow him to return to it.
@sw4841
@sw4841 5 күн бұрын
She needs to go permanently and that’s how the rest of them learn not to try this
@andrewcolleyproperties4211
@andrewcolleyproperties4211 2 ай бұрын
I went speed dating and met a Vietnamese woman she was only interested in how much money I had nothing else. I told one of the other men to tell her he was worth $40, 000,000 just to see her face light up. It was hilarious because that’s exactly what happened Tics on a dog!
@user-tk1xd9js1z
@user-tk1xd9js1z 2 ай бұрын
There is a lot of poor 🍆 in her own country, among her own people. Why would she want a poor stranger?
@caravanlifenz
@caravanlifenz 2 ай бұрын
That's standard though; in Asian cultures, women tell their daughters they must marry the richest man they can get. A guy I know asked out a Chinese woman who was working at a shop on minimum wage and she said no because he was too poor (he was a graduate IT guy). She told him to come back when he was rich. After 5 years, he was earning good money, so he went back to her shop and she finally accepted him after he showed his income. They got married, but I think he's insane for marrying her. The arrogance of her, insisting he has to earn a lot when she earns minimum wage and has no qualifications. He scraped the bottom of the barrel.
@PhilmiiNutsakz
@PhilmiiNutsakz 2 ай бұрын
Disgusting behaviour, they are the type of woman u run far far from.
@tracym6652
@tracym6652 2 ай бұрын
Oh man. I am so embarrassed to be a vietnamese woman
@jasonkoroma4323
@jasonkoroma4323 2 ай бұрын
@@caravanlifenz Most men are beyond saving. What a fool!
@apollogeerman8063
@apollogeerman8063 Жыл бұрын
I sponsored a Filipina dentist via a K1 visa and i am glad that I did not marry her. Her visiting me and me visiting her home, many things were rosy and she understood that my hobbies,model plane building and remote control planes, was a big and important part of my life. Visa approved and she stateside she decided to throw away my toys saying that it was childish and i will be a married man soon. A week before the wedding i presented her a plane ticket to her home. I understand that i would be comfortable,not rich, but i would be very unhappy through life. I am glad that i stayed single then. Now i have a wonderful wife who enjoys the fact that i enjoy a hobby now.
@carolinaramirez3686
@carolinaramirez3686 Жыл бұрын
You did right
@covercalls88
@covercalls88 11 ай бұрын
I learned a long time, men and women need to keep their hobbies before they get married. I have many hobbies one of them is flying RC aircraft (planes, drones, and helis), since 1972,. Having more than 200 aircraft. So I know how much a hobby can be a part of your life.
@trevorsmith7753
@trevorsmith7753 11 ай бұрын
The dentist was a Filipina-Chinese. QED. There was a reason she was still single. Don't marry over 25s ... Asian men don't.
@wolvesarecoming022
@wolvesarecoming022 11 ай бұрын
It's hard to find good women that aren't culturally background into a certain standard which resents anything new and revolutionary. Mostly all are dead inside with dreams of grandeur and eccentric characters. Unable to see the higher values and principles that have profound understanding in our everyday society and culture.
@catholicfemininity2126
@catholicfemininity2126 9 ай бұрын
Wow, that's awful throwing out your hobbies like that.
@terencearchuleta1560
@terencearchuleta1560 4 күн бұрын
I got lucky with my Filipina , 25 years of marriage ,and two fine sons. Sadly she lost her battle with cancer last year. I am not foolish enough to think I could find the same success again, so staying single.
@ayodeleyoosuf8951
@ayodeleyoosuf8951 2 ай бұрын
Let the American men learn to work things out with the American women. Looking outside hasn't helped you guys, look inwards
@alanlee8590
@alanlee8590 Жыл бұрын
Seriously, as an Asian guy living in Australia, i remember the first time i heard the term "passport bro", I was like "wait a second, you guys really think Asian chicks are angels?" . To be honest, I think all women are pretty much the same across the world
@lukei6255
@lukei6255 Жыл бұрын
I agree. I live in Australia as well. I am a European guy married to an Asian woman for the last 25 years. Not always smooth but we are still in love. Much smoother than my sister married to a Croatian Australian guy or my brother to a Polish woman. There is no golden rule. It is about personalities, common goals, sense of humour, standing together for good and bad etc.
@FracturedReality777
@FracturedReality777 Жыл бұрын
It's the polite public face they put on. People mistake that farce for their real personality.
@jacksquat4140
@jacksquat4140 4 ай бұрын
Women are women the world around.
@PaulTrippy-bj8ho
@PaulTrippy-bj8ho 4 ай бұрын
that;s why they make great Salesman in business. ppl are suckers for an innocent young feminine face. its human nature @@FracturedReality777
@KeandraDavis
@KeandraDavis 4 ай бұрын
As a southeast asian woman myself, i was wondering why we get this stereotype a lot! All of this is just untrue. Seriously it depends on her and her family personality. Asia is a huge continent, we're kinda different by appearance and can be so different on so many things and for our safety, let's not generalize much. 🙇‍♀️🤭
@armycommando6076
@armycommando6076 Жыл бұрын
My story is similar to this guy. I’m a 6’2 36 year old ABC (American born Chinese) and married to an Eastern European wife ten years ago. I met my ex wife overseas and brought her back to America and improved her life tremendously as she came from a poor background. To make the long story short, nothing was ever enough, sex was only given if I bought her expensive clothes, shoes, purses, watches, or jewelry because otherwise she wouldn’t put out and say that she didn’t feel like it. I worked many hours of overtime to improve our lives. In the end I was taken to the cleaners and she took our family home our 6 bedrooms 3 bathroom house, a 2/1 rental condo, and a 1/1 condo. Also my Mustang, Audi, and Honda. She also has my two antique Rolexes that was given to me by my parents before they passed away. She has full custody of my son and I pay her 30% child support each month. She now brought her whole family to live with her in our house and she is dating a doctor in the hospital she works at. I’m now feeling happier but my net worth had dropped by 80%. I hope guys reading this don’t ever go through what I went through.
@Kneeanderthal
@Kneeanderthal Жыл бұрын
How is her getting 3 houses, 2 codos and 3 cars seen as fair in the eyes of the law?
@michaelsix9684
@michaelsix9684 Жыл бұрын
wow, what a story
@ekanata
@ekanata Жыл бұрын
The judge and myself would be dead in that event
@jamesw7072
@jamesw7072 Жыл бұрын
I hope the doctor she's with wasn't her gynecologist..
@jimmyfleetwood1118
@jimmyfleetwood1118 Жыл бұрын
@@Kneeanderthal Sounds like CA. I have a neighbor, who was in a similar situation. The Court awarded her MORE than he earned in support, and when he couldn't pay, they put him in jail. How did that solve the problem? Just BS.
@SMMUNIZ
@SMMUNIZ 2 ай бұрын
I wholeheartedly disagree with the notion that the problem in a relationship is solely attributed to women from specific regions like South America or Asia. Speaking from my own personal experience, I, as a South American woman, had to deal with a nightmare situation when I discovered that my then-husband, an American, was using my identity to apply for multiple credit cards, which severely damaged my credit. Divorcing him was an uphill battle, as he refused to let go and even tried to reconcile by offering apologies for his mistake. I told him that it was not a one-time mistake, but rather a pattern of several repeated offenses. I firmly believe that trust, fidelity, and respect are the three most important pillars of any relationship outside of love. If any of these elements are missing, then it's time to end things and move on. I am not willing to stay with someone I cannot trust. I know that some women might not agree with me, but I stand by my belief that a manipulative woman with children can be a toxic combination for any relationship. It's not fair to label every man as an aggressor and every woman as a victim.
@joanofarcxxi
@joanofarcxxi Ай бұрын
A lot of these men have issues, that is why they try to get women from outside their culture. I am foreign and married an American when I was very young. I had no idea what kind of man he was. He nearly killed me. Some (many) of the women these men marry are manipulators, and some are full of regrets for marrying men who are not capable of sustaining healthy relationships. Western men think foreign women are more easily controlled and have lower expectations than emancipated western women. Often times, these men end up shocked. Times have changed. Everyone should learn to really get to know someone before making the decision to marry, and that's very hard to do when people are from different continents.
@daniting493
@daniting493 9 күн бұрын
This!!! I was scrolling through the toxic comments hoping to see this. Thank you!
@Skepticof
@Skepticof 8 күн бұрын
Cultural bias happens for a reason. So because you are one in a million, it doesn't refute the reality.
@iamcase1245
@iamcase1245 5 күн бұрын
Latinas are dangerous and materialistic but they're not the only ones. Asian women are just as bad. African women are materialistic HOWEVER if you keep them happy they will respect you. The more you give into the demands of a Latina Or Asian woman, the more they want and the more it takes to keep them happy. And in the end... they both divorce you once it's convenient
@iamcase1245
@iamcase1245 5 күн бұрын
That was your situation, and that's actually not common. If you American partner was a degenerate credit thief, that's him. That's not reasoning to act as if Latinas and Asian women are not a problem. You know they extremely interested women and the financial nightmares men fall into with them are very common.
@GodWokeMeUp
@GodWokeMeUp 2 ай бұрын
There's good and bad in every race. I could tell you stories about men I dated that were mixed race, white, asian... Middle Eastern...😂 There's some really crazy ones in all races. It's the same with women. Instead of dating women for their looks, their culture, etc. try to find someone that you genuinely get along with and can be honest with. ❤
@kevinstroup
@kevinstroup 8 күн бұрын
Yah, but that would make sense.
@helenestiernstrand6575
@helenestiernstrand6575 4 күн бұрын
Its not a race thing. Try to realize that China has been a communist dictatorship for _generations_. Those people are materialistic survivors. Hearts of stone.
@richardnorton9918
@richardnorton9918 Күн бұрын
@@kevinstroup And she won't be an American most likely
@Katrn30
@Katrn30 2 ай бұрын
A friend of mine was very shy with women, so he sent for a Chinese woman to marry. He was willing to work hard to support her in order to have a family. What really happened was she married him, demanded he bring all her relatives to Canada, at his expense, refused to have sex with him, and was very cold to him. It was hard to watch this kind man be destroyed by this monster. They are divorced now and it cost him dearly. Be careful about foreign brides…
@diy5729
@diy5729 2 ай бұрын
Be careful of any women that are not of your own tribe.......silly Americans lol
@xgtwb6473
@xgtwb6473 2 ай бұрын
What a beta
@Katrn30
@Katrn30 2 ай бұрын
@@xgtwb6473 yes he is a beta, that is why he had to buy a foreign wife.
@verucasalt9182
@verucasalt9182 2 ай бұрын
Chinese women are precisely known to have big characters and are not submissive .
@FoundSheep-AN
@FoundSheep-AN 2 ай бұрын
Why did he looked for a foreign woman in the first place? Marrying a stranger from another country … for Chinese men it’s normal to take care of the family of the wife
@katyb8677
@katyb8677 Жыл бұрын
My best friend's father (in his late 70's now) married a woman from China. He met her online and then brought her back to Canada to marry her about 7 years ago. She divorced him recently, and in the divorce she won his house, an additional rental property, car and more than half of his retirement checks. He now lives in a basement apartment with no windows. It is all he can afford. And his entire inheritance - which should have gone to his daughter who loves him, is now in the hands of his Chinese ex-wife. He lost everything simply because he was so desperate to dip his quill in the ink jar, that he allowed himself to be tricked and robbed of his life's financial security. And yes...she has brought over many of her family members to Canada - and they ALL LIVE IN HIS HOUSE.
@Purplepinkmom
@Purplepinkmom Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear about this. I will lift this man up in prayer. I don't understand why a man would marry a cantankerous woman. The bible has clear warnings about this. I am so grateful to be with my husband of 26 yrs. I tell him every day that I appreciate him and what he does for us and our marriage. I often council young women who are struggling in their marriage. I am surprised that so many find pleasure in beating their man into a corner verbally as often as they can. I tell them, find something that your man does right, and thank him for it. How can they expect a man to be "a good man" if you don't give him stable ground to stand on. It's such a shame.
@kauffrau6764
@kauffrau6764 Жыл бұрын
That poor guy; that is so wrong that he is left with virtually nothing. The laws need to change. I don't understand how she got everything!!!
@Majorhavoktv
@Majorhavoktv 11 ай бұрын
I hear this alot...marriage is not for the faint of heart.
@RYAN97639
@RYAN97639 11 ай бұрын
I’m Chinese and that makes me mad…. Men really need to start thinking with their heads instead of their dicks
@taktsang5563
@taktsang5563 11 ай бұрын
As a Chinese young man myself , if I ever get a chance to look at your miserable friend and give him one advice . " Don't do it " would be what I say , some or most Asian bitches just AIN'T WORTH IT
@shasta1730
@shasta1730 2 ай бұрын
I was a military spouse for 20 years. Asian spouses were the worst. Extremely rude and nasty. You’d wait in the line at the commissary and they would try and butt in front of you. Can’t tell you how many times they got called out for it and they would argue. Don’t get me started on their driving 🙄
@ransomemckissick8184
@ransomemckissick8184 17 күн бұрын
I had a Chinese lady as my protege at San Jose State University, and she asked me to teach her driving as well, and so I obliged. Needless to say, it was much easier to teach her linear algebra than driving!
@thrustinthrottle652
@thrustinthrottle652 13 күн бұрын
As an ex-Army brat I can confirm this is true 😂.
@ErynElayne
@ErynElayne 10 күн бұрын
I had some lady back into me with her car once at a grocery store as I was walking in. Lo and behold, she was Asian... God confirmed the stereotype right there. 😅
@LuckyCharms777
@LuckyCharms777 2 ай бұрын
All foreigners send money back to their family. You will be supporting her parents, siblings, and extended family. Not only do they feel an obligation to help them, but they’re also extremely pressured by their family to send money. It’s no different than marrying a single mom and supporting her kid. And their family will always come first, not you.
@shadowdraqon2479
@shadowdraqon2479 8 күн бұрын
I see it as justice as these WM with asian fetishes are finally getting punished for stealing our women.
@olepalebay
@olepalebay 6 күн бұрын
Facts
@Dianthuschinensis
@Dianthuschinensis 5 күн бұрын
Isn’t it understandable in this context ? Like the rest of the world are living in harsh conditions because of the American empire so no wonder why people want a share of it
@LuckyCharms777
@LuckyCharms777 5 күн бұрын
@@Dianthuschinensis Where did I say it’s not understandable? My point is, just because her family is poor doesn’t mean it’s my obligation to support them. A man’s duty is to the welfare of his own family, not his wife’s extended family. How isn’t that understandable to you?
@Dianthuschinensis
@Dianthuschinensis 5 күн бұрын
@@LuckyCharms777 No need to be hostile dude I just expressed my opinion without opposing yours !? I don’t get why people are so hostile online
@donaldbest7621
@donaldbest7621 Жыл бұрын
I had a Brazilian wife like this. She sent all the money I made to her family…..she tried taking our daughter, I hired an attorney, and got custody. It took a while, but I finally convinced the court I was the better parent.
@ruslan-pe3wx
@ruslan-pe3wx Жыл бұрын
You got lucky because courts turned against an immigrant woman. With American wife you would lose that court 100%.
@JohnnyKnackertache.
@JohnnyKnackertache. 4 ай бұрын
Yes, Was badly burnt by a middle class Brazilian woman, She did bad domestic violence to me four times in two months. Polizia were called last two times by the neighbours. I refused to press charges but said the last time to kick her out of apartment. Then she stalked me and we got back together. Then after a few more months of madness, had high blood pressure and headaches from nervous tension. So I decided to leave her and be homeless so as not to pay bills pay for me, her and her Son in university. Living as a vagabundo has caused many problems and have been close to death many times since I left her in March 2023. But hey, Am merely an unfashionable mayonnaise monkey so the MSM and the nerds on the Internet say that it's all my fault and I must deserve it. Well, There are more of them than me so they must be right. 🙂
@devadii24
@devadii24 2 ай бұрын
My husband is Brazilian and did not marry Brazilian for that reason 😂 They send money to lazy relatives that have better phones and better cars than we do 😂
@maikolim37
@maikolim37 2 ай бұрын
I'm Hispanic, but I live in Canada. I went to my home country to marry a Hispanic woman from there. I brought her to Canada so far. She has been good, but we have the same problem that you have. She sends all her money to her family. I told her that we are her family. Her family is not the one in her home country anymore. But she has to worry more about me and our 2 kids. But she's stubborn and she only works to send money back to our country for her sisters who are already married. But I'm always asking her for money.
@ZootyZoFo
@ZootyZoFo 2 ай бұрын
I married a wonderful Brazilian woman, meet her in Europe where she had moved to many years before, I couldn’t ask for a better woman or human being and all her siblings are professionally employed and well off so no issues there, have a beautiful house to stay there when we visit, really wonderful people but have to be careful, the violence there is off the charts which is why my wife left years before.
@pachacuti8403
@pachacuti8403 Жыл бұрын
Train your brain to recognize women like this and have an abundance mindset (even if you dont actually have abundance) to walk away without a second thought from crazy/scheming/garbage women
@user-kp3eq1uj8e
@user-kp3eq1uj8e Жыл бұрын
Prepare to be divorce raped by a woman thousands of miles from home.
@marvincolon
@marvincolon Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@friendlystranger6463
@friendlystranger6463 Жыл бұрын
I need to print this and put it on my mirror.
@Serg_R
@Serg_R Жыл бұрын
🫡
@robertbodner4390
@robertbodner4390 Жыл бұрын
BEAUTIFUL comment!
@Tybourne1991
@Tybourne1991 5 күн бұрын
Be cautious. My wife isn’t Chinese or Asian, but she has similar behaviours. People are people. Consider using matchmakers.
@johnlove6194
@johnlove6194 Күн бұрын
I have bad experience from matchmakers. I think I would get great results if I just tell the lady that I need to have sex twice a week. And if she can't do it, she should get me a sex partner on her 'non-sex days'
@slendsunny8272
@slendsunny8272 2 ай бұрын
Before marry to Asian woman, better to have an have a good conversation with an Asian friend , especially from similar cultural /geographical back ground.
@anonanon7713
@anonanon7713 5 күн бұрын
Go for Russian or Indian..
@giovannituber2827
@giovannituber2827 5 күн бұрын
Indian? Lol..
@anonanon7713
@anonanon7713 4 күн бұрын
@@giovannituber2827 ???
@neoreign
@neoreign Жыл бұрын
Let's be real, no matter how much you vet, every woman knows the RULES.
@Joe-gl8sr
@Joe-gl8sr Жыл бұрын
Especially when they use this thing called Google.
@lovewhitey4462
@lovewhitey4462 Жыл бұрын
True
@cedricbethea
@cedricbethea Жыл бұрын
In other words, 99.9 percent of women in the world are feminists by default. Stay single to avoid destroying your life.
@Hechangethnot
@Hechangethnot Жыл бұрын
​@@Joe-gl8srthen be 3 steps ahead. Smart men don't marry their souls to the state ever.
@expatwealthasia8702
@expatwealthasia8702 Жыл бұрын
@@Hechangethnotso true
@markflierl1624
@markflierl1624 10 ай бұрын
I had an Asian man tell me that younger Asian woman hate the submissive Asian woman stereotype. Because of this, the younger generations have all become extremely controlling.
@bellcoolmountain6650
@bellcoolmountain6650 2 ай бұрын
You mean they became feminists
@caravanlifenz
@caravanlifenz 2 ай бұрын
No, an elderly relative aged 85 has a Thai wife, and she's extremely controlling, so it's not just the younger generations. The way Asian women have explained it to me is that in Asian cultures the women control the money and finances (so the man works and the woman's job is to manage the money). The person who controls the money always has more power. In Western cultures, the man traditionally earned more and always managed the finances too, so men are used to being in control in Western cultures. Asian women are also more controlling with their men to stop him from cheating, but in Western cultures (particularly in countries like France) having a bit on the side was just something a wife turned a blind eye to.
@PhilmiiNutsakz
@PhilmiiNutsakz 2 ай бұрын
It's mainly the 1's born in the West. They are lazy & entitled. 1's born overseas are usually nice n respectful n will luv u n treat u right, unless they are chinee.
@novideostoday
@novideostoday 2 ай бұрын
@caravanlifenz Well, you have been lied to. You better talk to Asian men.
@HANUMAN7454
@HANUMAN7454 2 ай бұрын
The ones who where raised here and poisoned by 3rd wave f e m e n I sm. Sure.
@rosem7042
@rosem7042 2 ай бұрын
One of my dearest mentors found out about this the hard way. He survived, but man could you tell the difference when she was a part of his life. He's doing much better now.
@seamusburke9101
@seamusburke9101 2 ай бұрын
This is top advice, I've been through the mill and theres nothing I can add.
@RickySpanish-
@RickySpanish- Жыл бұрын
Honestly, this is just from my personal experience from traveling. The Chinese women I’ve encountered have made the most entitled American women look like Mother Teresa.
@davetrotter258
@davetrotter258 Жыл бұрын
shit, that's a good one..........
@daves2520
@daves2520 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I have heard from various sources that Asian women are very materialistic.
@malakatan3235
@malakatan3235 Жыл бұрын
It isn't Chinese culture, it is westernized Chinese, just like Westernized other Asian groups
@stephenpowstinger733
@stephenpowstinger733 Жыл бұрын
A friend married a Chinese woman. They had a child and she quickly morphed into a control-freak. I’ve encountered several female Chinese massage therapists and they damn sure want big tips - even demanding it.
@AndRei-yc3ti
@AndRei-yc3ti Жыл бұрын
​@stephenpowstinger733 what do you expect from Chinese "masseusses" from "spas". It's not just Chinese masseuses that do that
@michaelpf08
@michaelpf08 Жыл бұрын
Once you married an Asian wife, equals to married to her whole family, you have to take care of not just her, also including her parents, siblings, etc
@ZeroRoze1052
@ZeroRoze1052 Жыл бұрын
Its not a bad thing. If you make a baby, that's your baby's clan. Its a good thing. I've made babies with two asians- one jap and one filipina- and neither of their families ever asked me for a cent.
@HdHd-hp6qz
@HdHd-hp6qz Жыл бұрын
@SatanzRoze Well no because her family isn’t looking after your family. You have a mom a dad and siblings that need looking after but your resources are now going to people that have zero interest in your wellbeing. Terrible idea.
@janeznovak7589
@janeznovak7589 Жыл бұрын
Nonsense. They send money over years and I use their assets as colleretal for my business. Don't marry someone from poor family neither marry gold diggers.
@ZeroRoze1052
@ZeroRoze1052 Жыл бұрын
@@HdHd-hp6qz their families are definitely looking after my kids; that's what a clan is all about. As for who spends their money where and on what; everybody is different. Some guys bitch about shit that I don't even notice.
@UniDeathRaven
@UniDeathRaven Жыл бұрын
haha, wow
@boxelder9147
@boxelder9147 2 ай бұрын
Good stuff Rich. Im really on board with your take on burning desire as an absolute must
@aeiou0123
@aeiou0123 2 ай бұрын
I keep telling people to take each person you meet as an individual not a stereoptype. Lots of men r deceived by the soft looking faces of Asian and other similar women. Women/ppl generally need to be chosen based on how compatible they r with you. This compatibility can come from within or without your culture. Jumping around to look for women outside your race/nationality instead of looking at each person based on their personal character traits, values n shared beliefs will only land you in misery cos you will be picking blindly.
@savasi24
@savasi24 6 күн бұрын
The most appropriate comment
@uniktbrukernavn
@uniktbrukernavn 3 ай бұрын
Here in Norway a lot of men get in trouble with their "Philippino wife" because of their family traditions; they literally bring their whole family over and expect it to be fine to all live together. It's what they do over there and they don't adjust to living in the west. You are the breadwinner and her family wins the lottery. You don't want that.
@slickedrightback
@slickedrightback 2 ай бұрын
If u have to do it only marry a poor(foreigner or not) if she is super beautiful, smart , a good worker, a slut in the bedroom , a chef in the kitchen AND an only child who is also an orphan....m
@J.James-Bowkey2830
@J.James-Bowkey2830 2 ай бұрын
Why would they leave a sunny tropical home, for a cold, bleak, gray one like Norway? Typically, passport bros stay and live in the Asian country, not the other way around
@jasonlee8156
@jasonlee8156 2 ай бұрын
@@J.James-Bowkey2830 Maybe because their sunny tropical home is a 3rd world place?
@uniktbrukernavn
@uniktbrukernavn 2 ай бұрын
@@J.James-Bowkey2830 I don't know what's typical or not but you can't simply move to another country and expect to keep all the perk of living in Norway, like free healthcare. I agree that Norway is cold and bleak 😁
@J.James-Bowkey2830
@J.James-Bowkey2830 2 ай бұрын
@jasonlee8156 it's home to them. Besides ..Scandinavia is becoming third-world as well, thanks to feminism
@Alvin_Vivian
@Alvin_Vivian 8 ай бұрын
I'm a Chinese man. I would NEVER NEVER NEVER in a million years date -- let alone marry and have kids with -- a Chinese woman.
@witchreturns2263
@witchreturns2263 2 ай бұрын
Why, they are mean?
@Alvin_Vivian
@Alvin_Vivian 2 ай бұрын
@@witchreturns2263 No, they're incapable of liking you as a person. All they see is dollar signs and what they can extract out of you. They're mercenaries.
@paulfri1569
@paulfri1569 2 ай бұрын
Why are they Money 🤑 obsessed?
@buzzlightyear9256
@buzzlightyear9256 2 ай бұрын
As a Chinese man I agree. It's all about money money money. The greed will beat any western women
@vidaacheampong2563
@vidaacheampong2563 2 ай бұрын
You must be Chinese American
@RoxaneCha
@RoxaneCha 2 ай бұрын
your videos not only inform but also inspire!
@scarlettwoman7880
@scarlettwoman7880 2 ай бұрын
Very good advice to this situation. I hope he hears this feedback.
@RacerX888
@RacerX888 2 ай бұрын
I know a lot of Chinese couples and lived in Asia for years. Chinese marriages are competitions and business partnerships that result in kids. That's how its viewed by most men and women in China, although they will not openly admit it. I am also fluent in Mandarin, and can understand conversations that I am not supposed to hear in public, and they are all the same.
@vincer7824
@vincer7824 2 ай бұрын
Can you elaborate on the unique marriage expectations and dynamics?
@DougMcTitties6969
@DougMcTitties6969 2 ай бұрын
It's CCP China so it's obvious. I don't like CCP influence of Chinese people cuz their brainwashing make them terrible people.
@jamahlrawls3520
@jamahlrawls3520 2 ай бұрын
@@vincer7824 Second
@rossana8958
@rossana8958 2 ай бұрын
Second the comment above and other themes that you have hear on those conversations
@lisad56
@lisad56 Ай бұрын
My friend got married by an arranged marriage. He say the same thing. It’s a business partnership. His parents and the girl’s parents know each other and they decided it was a a good partnership. I didn’t know arranged marriage happened in china.
@smcv8365
@smcv8365 11 ай бұрын
Men from the west, who think that women from asia (Chinese, indians) are very sweet, docile, feminine, etc. deserve this. They are the most manipulative of the lot. I'm an Indian woman. Before switching to writing, i was a practising lawyer. Indian women can be dangerously manipulative. Your typical western woman will confront you directly. That's actually much easier to deal with. A solid good prenuptial agreement will take care of most issues. Not with an asian woman.
@lamentate07
@lamentate07 8 ай бұрын
I don't know about Indian women, but I've had enough experience with Chinese women to know you are speaking the truth. Western women are definitely more confrontational. Asian women, on the other hand, play incredible mind games. I had to see a therapist after being involved with one.
@clavicanimor5510
@clavicanimor5510 2 ай бұрын
Marriage is difficult enough as it is on top of overcoming cultural barriers. White women, Mexican women, Black women, Middle Eastern women can also be rude, selfish and narcissitic who make equally bad partners. Sorry you felt like you had met some women you didnt like, but its unfair to take the qualities of a person and then generalize and speaking negatively about an entire race of women.
@paulfri1569
@paulfri1569 2 ай бұрын
Not really 😢
@marblox9300
@marblox9300 2 ай бұрын
All people kind of suck. Men, women, any culture, any sexual orientation. That's why I stay single.
@lauren-qb9cf
@lauren-qb9cf 2 ай бұрын
Reminds me of Steven Universe. if I was a man. I rather learn to be happy with singleness.
@user-ue4ru5sf9x
@user-ue4ru5sf9x 2 ай бұрын
My eldest son married a woman from The Philippines, her mother is Chinese but still lives in The Philippines. What an absolute disaster. Today he is living with us, his mum and dad. He had a house, fully furnished, she deliberately got pregnant, said she was on the pill, lied about that. Pretended she was loaded with money and spent accordingly, it was my son’s money which he worked hard long hours to earn. He finally left her, 2 kids later, took him for everything he had. She had isolated him from friends, relations etc. wouldn’t let him attend his Grandfather’s or Cousin’s funeral and he’s still paying off the $50,000 debt she left him with. She still treats him like dirt. 🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺
@nikicarrie4071
@nikicarrie4071 17 күн бұрын
Ok do you see anything your son did wrong????? 🙄 she can't physically stop him from going anywhere, he should have made sure HE didn't have unprotected sex with her bc bc can fail if you miss a dose. He was feeling too good and didn't care ATM. You didn't raise him to think critically and you trained him to be a pushover. He is an adult and a man. He should be secure in himself to make good decisions and not blame everything on being tricked. I guess he's not very intelligent 😕
@slanginandbangingtactical1829
@slanginandbangingtactical1829 9 күн бұрын
@@nikicarrie4071 ooo you must be the wife this dude is talking about 😊
@nikicarrie4071
@nikicarrie4071 9 күн бұрын
@@slanginandbangingtactical1829 her son is grown ..... and I see why it went down the way it did
@shadowdraqon2479
@shadowdraqon2479 8 күн бұрын
Some AW are self hating and want o marry a white guy to pretend to be better than Asian people, and some will marry a white guy to steal their money. Now u know
@tabithan2978
@tabithan2978 7 күн бұрын
Marry an Asian female and understand they usually see you as a meal ticket, nothing more.
@Cici_mimi
@Cici_mimi 2 ай бұрын
What camera you are using? This is the clearest and cleanest video I've seen on KZbin. Good luck!
@zx10rguyable
@zx10rguyable Жыл бұрын
My situation is similar to this guy's. In my case, I'm Asian and the ex wife is from a Eastern European block country. I had the same issues being a plugged in beta. I substantially improved the ex wife's life and her immediate family. I got nothing but contempt from her after we got married and had a kid. Nothing I did was good enough. All of this despite going through cancer twice where by she was MIA during my second cancer situation. I had that decision to make whether to stay for my kid or leave. Ultimately, I filed for divorce. Rich is correct about getting out. I should have gotten out sooner. With the sexless marriage thing, I went through 5 to 6 years of no sex while still married. Being divorced now over 3 years, things are so much better. Yes, there are still issues with the ex controlling my access to our kid. But at least there are defined legal guard rails now. Not an arbitrary setup the ex defines on a whim. For a while, I too was worried about the ex running off to her native country with our kid but that fear has now subsided for a number of reasons. One of which is she no longer can do this. The passport our kid had has expired and I refuse to sign the State Department form authorizing a new passport. So there's no way she can leave the country with our kid aside from trying to illegally smuggling our kid out. I wished I had discovered Rich's content before I got married. This is a warning to those that are still plugged in that your life is already paved with future tears and anguish. Since waking up, I've been spoiled for choice with women and have been living up life. I realized that I'm the prize and many women can see this. Per Rich's definition of a high value man, I have a good career making very good money. I'm into interesting things where women want to be a part of. Own various toys: motorcycles, cars, and sailboat. Have a beach home. I'm jacked for my age of 52 at 6'5" weighing in at 205 lbs. The only component that was missing was my mental. Which Rich fixed. I can't thank Rich enough for what he's done for the men's community.
@samtarvc4155
@samtarvc4155 Жыл бұрын
Congrats man, I’m glad you made it to the other side. The mental part, I agree. Especially if there are kids involved and she brainwashed them against you. It’ll be a problem you’ll have to deal with for a long time if not the rest of your life.
@00_UU
@00_UU Жыл бұрын
Why did you even get married? Since I was in high school I knew marriage was a trap and I always avoided it. Enjoy life and solitude.
@Norm475
@Norm475 Жыл бұрын
A 6'5" Asian? That is extremely rare for a caucasian and even less for an Asian.
@zx10rguyable
@zx10rguyable Жыл бұрын
@@00_UU If you read carefully my post, I was plugged in. I thought it was the right thing to do from my religious and cultural upbringing. I know better now.
@zx10rguyable
@zx10rguyable Жыл бұрын
@@samtarvc4155 Oh I get that. I've learned how to deal with the ex's shenanigans. And you are correct as to how the ex was doing something to our kid to make my kid turn against me. It took me a year of solid work to undo the damage. My attorney said most men would have given up early on and applauded me for my perseverance. Things are good with my kid now.
@rodneyshackelford7529
@rodneyshackelford7529 Жыл бұрын
This was hard to watch. I had a girlfriend from Guangzho. She was a complete control freak, she embarrassed me in public, and refused to learn English or study anything. After a while I couldn't stand anything about her. I was extremely lonely and wanted a girlfriend. I feel blessed everyday now that I did not marry her. She married the guy she was seeing behind my back.....poor idiot.
@23293
@23293 3 ай бұрын
this is what women do, when they treat you harshly they letting you know that they have already replaced you. SMH
@PinkyHYNg
@PinkyHYNg 2 ай бұрын
My relative's Beijing wife is also like this 😢
@remainanonymous93
@remainanonymous93 Ай бұрын
As they say, the best revenge is to let him keep her. 😂😂👍👍
@nikicarrie4071
@nikicarrie4071 17 күн бұрын
She probably loved him , she was treating you bad bc she didn't like you
@rodneyshackelford7529
@rodneyshackelford7529 17 күн бұрын
@@nikicarrie4071 She wanted to marry me, so if she disliked me and wanted to marry, she was strange. She married the man who had US citizenship and would marry her. I was the second man to turn her down. She eventually got what she wanted.
@DonaldGMyers
@DonaldGMyers 2 ай бұрын
I’ve spent the last 40 years married to a wonderful Filipina and never had any regrets
@JoseGomez-cz1vc
@JoseGomez-cz1vc 2 ай бұрын
Great advice! Thank you, I couldn’t think of any other solution
@edwizard62
@edwizard62 5 ай бұрын
In the military we call that "Americanized". That happened to my Korean ex-wife. As soon as she made friends with other Korean women here in the U.S., she changed overnight. Luckily I was transferred to Texas and the divorce was fast and no spousal support.
@ggl2947
@ggl2947 2 ай бұрын
Dude, men should get real and look themselves in the mirror with total honesty and think, if you can't get a "hot babe" in the US, why would any woman from anywhere in the world would chose you unless you have something they can take advantage from? You're not young, good-looking, or rich. Why would a "model looking woman" would set her eyes on you? Yeah, a residence permit, you silly slob
@davidholden4543
@davidholden4543 2 ай бұрын
They'll gossip at the PX while you're deployed to some war zone
@tracym6652
@tracym6652 2 ай бұрын
Oh she must've been pissed
@sc33h3o3
@sc33h3o3 2 ай бұрын
"she changed overnight"? or maybe you projected things onto her, there was a language barrier preventing you from getting to know her very well, and assumed things about her you wanted to be true? women do tend towards getting progressive, while men tend to want to cling to certain ways.
@LifewithErika.
@LifewithErika. 2 ай бұрын
@@sc33h3o3true people don’t change overnight..
@thomaswehrmeyer9641
@thomaswehrmeyer9641 Жыл бұрын
I had a friend that in his mid-forties divorces his wife and the mother of his two sons. He marries a young woman from Viet Nam. He comes home from work one day and finds she has left the country. He also discovers that his bank account has been emptied. Sometime later he ends his own life. This stuff really happens.
@hobo1704
@hobo1704 Жыл бұрын
Sad
@TheALLisMind.TheMindisALL
@TheALLisMind.TheMindisALL Жыл бұрын
im vietnaemse american and have been in vn for a few years. the pretty girls are very gold diggers. religion and god doesnt exist here and they want the best life just because they have a nice face,,, i never go for these girls
@josephinetracy1485
@josephinetracy1485 Жыл бұрын
"Had a friend" means that it was actually you.
@SirHargreeves
@SirHargreeves Жыл бұрын
@@josephinetracy1485Ghosts are on KZbin?
@lynx70123
@lynx70123 Жыл бұрын
@@josephinetracy1485 Oh, so he rose from the grave to make this post?
@Darrida
@Darrida 2 ай бұрын
In Russia, there's a term inkwell. This is when a woman or man is not in demand with the opposite sex because of their looks and because of desperation they marry or get married outside their race. Si they use you to write the book of their life, figuratively speaking.
@JackAndTheBeanstalkr
@JackAndTheBeanstalkr 11 күн бұрын
is this the same Russia where the life expectancy of men is 12 years less than the West because they drink and smoke themselves to death? In Canada the term we use for that is Hoser.
@savasi24
@savasi24 6 күн бұрын
In Russia, it is customary for Russians to insult people of other countries and races, for example, Asians are called “chocks”, Caucasians are called “khachiks”, Ukrainians are called crests, Georgians are called “rodents”, Central Asians are called “masturbeks”, Jews are called “kikes”, Americans are called “stupid pendos” ", in the early 2000s, there were humorous programs on television by Mikhail Zadornov ridiculing Americans)))
@alemalmaz9466
@alemalmaz9466 2 ай бұрын
I'm a single mom of three teen s in all honesty I fear for their future when I hear this men going through horrible situations it's heartbreaking that I actually have to teach them about red flags but this is the life we live in glad your channel popped up on my feeds I'm definitely subbing that was a good advice
@yudollia
@yudollia 6 күн бұрын
You have peen juice in your brain. Teach your sons to be honorable and discerning so that they arent foolish enough to believe that an impoverished woman is his ticket for ego validation
@njd271
@njd271 2 ай бұрын
As an asian in asia, my number 1 suggestion is look at their parents. They are the ones who puts in the logics in your potential wife's brain. Big redflag are if they ask for dowry, even ceremonial ones in this day and age.
@alllivesmatter785
@alllivesmatter785 2 ай бұрын
💯 agree. Hard to convince my fellow Americans to see the huge influences the parents have on their kids. A lot of people get married even without ever meeting their future spouse’s parents 😅. In Asia, it’s almost impossible to get married without getting to know each other’s families first.
@Valhalla_Heathen
@Valhalla_Heathen 2 ай бұрын
Quite common in Thailand and the Philippines
@chanonwisanmongkol2254
@chanonwisanmongkol2254 2 ай бұрын
As a SEA guy I’m so curious about passport bros. They come all the way from another part of the world just to date trash women here. Some are lucky to have a good one but most of them are not. I saw some passport bros video talking about women here like they are angel from heaven, that’s delusional as f. Nobody ever warn these passport bros about women in ultra-traditional country always have two faces. Poor thing.
@whokilledjr3719
@whokilledjr3719 2 ай бұрын
As a foreigner married to an Asian women, I completely agree with you.
@yourikhi
@yourikhi 2 ай бұрын
99%asian parents won't approve interracial marriage... I am I indian male... Even I will never be allowed interracial marriage...
@WarriorNoldor
@WarriorNoldor Жыл бұрын
A person who is never happy tends to be a narcissist.
@rejectwokeness1314
@rejectwokeness1314 Жыл бұрын
That's like ALL women
@remainanonymous93
@remainanonymous93 Ай бұрын
That is true, bro. Wise words. 👍👍
@Dan_Ben_Michael
@Dan_Ben_Michael 6 күн бұрын
I’m married to a Filipina and have dated plenty of Asian girls before I settled down with her. She’s the best wife ever. It just depends on the individual as there’s good and bad in every race, and if you believe stereotypes or generalisations you will disappointed if you think every Asian woman is going to be the submissive, domestic goddess, man pleasers. I’m very fortunate that I have a very loving and supportive wife and have the happiest marriage ever. Long story short, don’t just do your nuts over the first pretty Asian girl who shows you attention and don’t disregard red flags.
@rhuonaChanel
@rhuonaChanel 4 күн бұрын
Exactly, I've seen a lot of guys too eager to put women around them down, and say marry foreign women. They severely underestimate the attitude of these women because of assumptions. They are real people too, not idealised demographics
@User1975-
@User1975- 3 күн бұрын
@@rhuonaChanel Yeh nah read the bloody room why don't ya
@kobby616
@kobby616 3 күн бұрын
Big difference when it comes to chinese and fillipino women but i get it
@sudoym3484
@sudoym3484 2 күн бұрын
Yeah… Filipinas are most good. Not all, but mostly.
@polyxenikoutla134
@polyxenikoutla134 2 ай бұрын
"The girl may leave the village but the village will not leave the girl"
@arewestilldoingphrasing6490
@arewestilldoingphrasing6490 Жыл бұрын
The toughest lesson a man must learn is knowing when to walk away. I used to be mad that my dad never stayed. Now I dont blame him. Its sounds hard and tough but its not too late to start over. Dont let your fears dictate your complacency.
@pantherman8719
@pantherman8719 Жыл бұрын
Love that avatar lol
@shitmandood
@shitmandood Жыл бұрын
It’s a tough lesson because the problem doesn’t happen to everyone, if they married well.
@gillaybhutia2727
@gillaybhutia2727 Жыл бұрын
I work away from my narcissist wife after a decade of hoping and trying that light may shine somewhere. I never wanted to break our relationship and brought up my child in broken house but I was left with no choice. Presently my son is not happy with what I did but I hope someday he realizes what I was put through.
@gillaybhutia2727
@gillaybhutia2727 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes thetoughest thing in life is to choose whether to hold on or to let go.
@daydreamdirty
@daydreamdirty Жыл бұрын
Perfectly said. Also men aren’t taught when or where to stop either. We usually learn that the hard way…
@bossdog1480
@bossdog1480 2 ай бұрын
"It is better to live on the corner of the roof than inside with a contentious wife."
@madhukarsonawane6203
@madhukarsonawane6203 2 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣True
@danballe
@danballe 2 ай бұрын
FrRoght out from Scriptures. To anybody that are in the same situation this guy in this horrible story is. I would go Kayser Sozee (without the k*lling and shit of course) Just leave and have her take the kids. I wonder if she (them nightmare broads) would fell for "Lets move to a better house, in hoping to move to a state that may or may NOT be friendlier to Men during divorce, not knowing for sure if that is EVEN going to work! Having to involve Lawyers... Pay Alimony... and shit! Drinking all that disgusting "Juice"
@veeen-y-cee2750
@veeen-y-cee2750 2 ай бұрын
💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿👍🏿👍🏿💪🏿💪🏿
@Randy-lg1qo
@Randy-lg1qo 27 күн бұрын
Psalms 😂
@paulsimovich9157
@paulsimovich9157 23 күн бұрын
​@@Randy-lg1qo ...nope Proverbs 21:9....Solomon knew a thing or two about women....he has 300 wives!
@angelofamillionyears4599
@angelofamillionyears4599 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@JoeMoss83
@JoeMoss83 Жыл бұрын
Settling down with someone with no cultural similarities rarely ends well.
@ArghMatey
@ArghMatey Жыл бұрын
Yup! Not sure how a relationship or marriage works if you don't even speak the same language! Communication is key, along with sex of course
@imdon8920
@imdon8920 Жыл бұрын
Fvck settling down with anyone period. Stay single. Don't sign a marriage certificate, nor put a baby in anyone and you will be safe from this shyte. Have kids by surr0gacy if you need them.
@jasonlee8156
@jasonlee8156 Жыл бұрын
Yet I hear that many Westerners go to Thailand and the Philippines to look for their wives since they think that western women are too feminist, spoiled and too self-entitled. They see the Asian women as more traditional and more respectful to men then Western ones. I'm skeptical about this but that seems the general attitude of all your passport bros.
@raddadization
@raddadization Жыл бұрын
settling down rarely ends well. Once you settle you're basically dead.
@TChalla007
@TChalla007 Жыл бұрын
Has nothing to do with culture. I'm black, my wife is East Indian. Been married 26 years. I have friends who played overseas, still married to his foreign woman. 50% of American marriage end in divorce a very small minority are from foreign women. 80% of those divorces are filed by women.
@user-lt7zh4lv3b
@user-lt7zh4lv3b Жыл бұрын
As a woman, I must say that men need to start putting looks and personality on the same level. Many men just go for the looks and yes absolutely looks are important but marriage material requires character! Get to know your women well before marrying and having kids because most of the behaviour you will despise was there in different form when you’re dating
@greatguy2141
@greatguy2141 Жыл бұрын
True. That's why smart men look for women who are beautiful on the inside AND outside.
@theharshtruthoutthere
@theharshtruthoutthere Жыл бұрын
@@greatguy2141 May you and your loved ones and your subs(friends), have the boldness and curiosity, to find out what BIBLE speaks about. Mr. ROBERT BREAKERS videos can be used as audio book for learning. Life's 3 meanings: 1.) Get to know GOD and Get right with GOD, 2.) Expose masons (the evil) 3.) Live HOLY.
@chuckmartel1874
@chuckmartel1874 Жыл бұрын
Well the components of personality are pretty straightforward - boobs, butt, thighs, etc. I value all of them equally
@AcidicJO
@AcidicJO Жыл бұрын
This is excellent advice.
@faa1412
@faa1412 Жыл бұрын
This is why sometimes I'm on the fence about feeling sorry for men. Alot of them don't have dyck control. They fall fast for the prettiest girl that gives them an ounce of attention. Like I get it, men are visual creatures, but it takes a level-headed man to look past her looks and actually take it slow and let the red flags reveal themselves.
@madmamamerrymary
@madmamamerrymary 2 ай бұрын
2:08 😂😂😂 the result of following textbook thinking w your little head
@ChrisPhoenix
@ChrisPhoenix 2 ай бұрын
Hey!! Thanks for sharing such words of wisdom. Although I am not caucasian but a latino, can tell similar story. Married twice, to a latino women first, then to an American, mutatis mutandi, same story. So warning must involve all women, no matter national, cultural, race, etc. origins.. Your red flags are superb! Won't ever disregad them again. My welbeing and happiness is at stake here!
@sptrader6316
@sptrader6316 Жыл бұрын
Mine is a similar story, only with a Pilipino. She started hanging out with modern independent women. She had nothing, I bought a house, her dream car etc. We were married for 7 years and she ran off with my best friend. I kicked her Azz out, the night that I caught her cheating. Luckily no kids. She's back to nothing. I'm happy again.
@ceasarwright7567
@ceasarwright7567 Жыл бұрын
I thought phillipinas were good
@petertosh4748
@petertosh4748 Жыл бұрын
​@ceasarwright7567 play them Don't marry or knock them up. You keep the frame..
@earthwormjim3269
@earthwormjim3269 Жыл бұрын
There's no such thing as "Pilipino". A woman from the phillipines is a Filipina.
@00_UU
@00_UU Жыл бұрын
Don’t ever marry them and live in their country. It is simple.
@zakosist
@zakosist Жыл бұрын
@@ceasarwright7567 there is no country in the world where every person in it is good. People are individuals. I dont know too much about philipine culture, but its important to always actually research the culture more than surface level. If you're from a rich country and dating someone from a poor country, its also natural to assume they may be gold diggers to some extent or looking mainly for a passport. That does not make for genuinely good relationships
@Rgh71fish
@Rgh71fish Жыл бұрын
Got a buddy who went to the philipines, found a gal, got married, brought her back to the western world and had a kid with her. All was fine until she started living the good life and her local circle of influence (the women she worked with) taught her how to party and cheat. Long story short, they got divorced and he gave her $100k and a car in the settlement. Pretty good deal for a chick that came from the Philipines with nothing. Fast forward 15 years, my same buddy went back to the Philipines, found a gal and got married. Hoping for the best...but obviously not holding my breath. What was Einstein's definition of insanity again?🍿
@ModelJames13
@ModelJames13 Жыл бұрын
He shouldn't have given her anything.
@Rgh71fish
@Rgh71fish Жыл бұрын
@@ModelJames13 obviously not, but the law doesnt care about our opinions, which is a big reason this channel exists. To stop us from thinking with our beta brained dicks and getting into these situations in the first place
@map3384
@map3384 Жыл бұрын
It’s amazing how American wives will teach other how to cheat. You wonder why marriage is dead.
@hobo1704
@hobo1704 Жыл бұрын
​@@ModelJames13you obviously haven't gone through the family court system..
@ricksmith4736
@ricksmith4736 Жыл бұрын
Annd all of America suffers with these unwanteds also...... Thanks
@serendipity9944
@serendipity9944 2 ай бұрын
Yep, I’m seeing this with my brother….these women, especially Filipino, Korean, Thai and of course Chinese marry European men, pop out a few babies so they are concrete and then the tables turn. It absolutely pisses me off
@shadowdraqon2479
@shadowdraqon2479 8 күн бұрын
It pisses u off? How do u think Asian men feel when white guys steal their women? This is justice in my eyes.
@Notmycatsanctuary
@Notmycatsanctuary 6 күн бұрын
I am an American Asian from Florida. My husband will tell you I’m not like most women. My kids will too. Rules I have: you dirty it you clean it. I do all the everyday chores and cook. Anything beyond that is your responsibility. Share your location in case something happens. You have a right to privacy. I’ll always handle the truth with grace a lie is asking for it. We don’t yell, name call, or accuse each other. Sit down talk and compromise. Be quit until you can discuss calmly. And NO SHOES in the house ever, I don’t use the dishwasher except as storage, respect me and I’ll respect you. I don’t like drama or chaos so I will throw my flip flop at your head.
@mcdaddy2011
@mcdaddy2011 Күн бұрын
Ur not like most women? So u have two vaginas?
@Panda-gu9wz
@Panda-gu9wz Жыл бұрын
Out of altruism, I married a Chinese girl and did everything I could to help her out in financial and immigration. In the end, she cooked a case against me in court.
@rzrpwr
@rzrpwr Жыл бұрын
Brutal Beta Move. It happens to guys all the time.
@ntwalipat2
@ntwalipat2 Жыл бұрын
Damn, so you also lived the same exact story as the gentleman being discussed in the video! It must be a common occurrence as he mentioned!
@chuckh4077
@chuckh4077 Жыл бұрын
Prenuptial is so important.
@daviddeveloper44
@daviddeveloper44 Жыл бұрын
goodluck. when i hear good people being abused - it is sad. you can rebuild. start with building yourself up.
@xgtwb6473
@xgtwb6473 Жыл бұрын
Should have read Ayn Rand, who tf marries out of altruism lmao
@PeterMasalski93
@PeterMasalski93 Жыл бұрын
I think the problem starts at the screening process. When I met my wife (Asian), she was from a middle class family, her parents chipped in for half the apartment we bought together. She works as hard as me, she is a great housewife and doesn't spend any of my money on anything. If she wants something, it's because she really needs it. We lived together for 3-4 years before we got married. She has no social media She doesn't like to go shopping She doesn't ask for anything but essentials She has a minimalist lifestyle. We have been accumulating wealth together, and it's been going great for 7 years now. She never showed any materialism, greed or anything. She always did half. If we end up divorced, she will get half because she deserves half. If she hadn't been like that, I wouldn't have gotten married. So you really need to screen your candidates thoroughly.
@commentarytalk1446
@commentarytalk1446 Жыл бұрын
Make sure you both have children as you'll be a blessing to the childrens' live having good parents. Have a good life.
@captainalex157
@captainalex157 Жыл бұрын
dude you got a unicorn, congrats!
@commentarytalk1446
@commentarytalk1446 Жыл бұрын
@@captainalex157 And if he has a couple of daughters, in 20 years time he'll be a "Unicorn Rancher"!
@captainalex157
@captainalex157 Жыл бұрын
@@commentarytalk1446 thats the capitalist spirit i like to see!
@kavishhurbungs3152
@kavishhurbungs3152 Жыл бұрын
Congrats
@troyandapivonia7934
@troyandapivonia7934 2 ай бұрын
Good advice
@cmack90
@cmack90 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for this
@TheBulian1
@TheBulian1 Жыл бұрын
My experience with Chinese culture is that it’s inherently narcissistic, because of shame avoidance. I’m being very lose and general here, as not all Chinese people are narcissistic. But within the culture is an engrained avoidance of shame, which doesn’t allow people to integrate shame as part of their identity. What this looks like is perceiving slights by things that aren’t actually slights, trying to outwardly appear the best through superficial means, and being obsessed with social status. They avoid accountability because they avoid the shame it would bring.
@smann7236
@smann7236 Жыл бұрын
Spot on all about status..very phony culture
@mjwmontgomery
@mjwmontgomery Жыл бұрын
Yes, my experience too
@letsgolistentobrandon385
@letsgolistentobrandon385 Жыл бұрын
Chinese culture = inherently narcissistic ... ? Hmm sounds spot on considering this country throws its own civilianry under the bus then externally to foreigners now that yesterday i saw on the 60 min Australia that the chinese now have "police agencies" in countries that are not even theirs and have their own government gang stalking programs and death threat operations. Its like holy hell dude these nature of people know no limit to their narcissistic negativity and completes constant bias upon others..... not that i want to make a biased remark here but i belive a good chunk of them are cancer to the rest of us and the ones who comply or dont do anything and hide in cowardice are also the problem not just a part of it no matter what odds are against them the fact this dictatorship goes on is flabergasting.
@israelayoade
@israelayoade Жыл бұрын
So true! 😄
@victoriacorcoran1258
@victoriacorcoran1258 Жыл бұрын
Saving face is something they really need to deal with.
@sparshrastogi2646
@sparshrastogi2646 Жыл бұрын
My Asian fiancé (now my ex) was abit like this too. Extremely stubborn and very money minded. Didn’t want to be intimate often and made life hell. Thank god I got out of that before we got married
@rejectwokeness1314
@rejectwokeness1314 Жыл бұрын
Asian women are even more materialistic than any other women in the world
@michaelsix9684
@michaelsix9684 Жыл бұрын
lucky you
@vector3d654
@vector3d654 Жыл бұрын
Aren't u an Indian? Aren't Indian women discouraged to have xes before marriage?
@MoltenMetalGod7
@MoltenMetalGod7 Жыл бұрын
similar experience. no intimacy issues, but glad i dodged that bullet.
@colinblaine3552
@colinblaine3552 Жыл бұрын
Asians are fun… until they’re not 😂
@fsa5826
@fsa5826 2 ай бұрын
As an asian woman the most risk the guys face here from asian women are, they will use you to get here and then her whole family, relatives, and your money to not only look after her but her family needs parents siblings.
@johnpornovets8132
@johnpornovets8132 23 күн бұрын
Is that what you did???
@Socialist88
@Socialist88 4 күн бұрын
Will the Koreans do asmr???
@stevenwelp7165
@stevenwelp7165 Ай бұрын
I've seen this exactly several times and is indeed "death by a thousand cuts".
@juliagarb
@juliagarb 10 ай бұрын
Had an Asian boss and a team at work. That was ENOUGH. Stayed clear ever since.
@user-dk3up2nl1m
@user-dk3up2nl1m 2 ай бұрын
Excellent advice!
@jaykemiller1461
@jaykemiller1461 2 ай бұрын
Please tell me more
@kensha1643
@kensha1643 2 ай бұрын
Male or female
@embeddedprojects2336
@embeddedprojects2336 2 ай бұрын
@@jaykemiller1461in Asia specifically Vietnam and China working hours are ridiculous , plus the boss expects you to be available 24hrs , I was supporting one project and customer site team in Vietnam would call me any hour of day if there goods get stuck in warehouse, I would then keep my phone at airplane mode after 10pm till 6am in morning.
@GeepeBrow
@GeepeBrow 2 ай бұрын
@@kensha1643 Must be female
@drjjpak
@drjjpak 10 ай бұрын
I had a friend married to a Vietnamese woman. For years he kept trying to set me up with a younger girl from her village in 'Nam. The sales pitch: "She will do your laundry, clean your house, cook your meals, and f**k nobody but you, guaranteed." There were several other guys who had actually taken him up on this offer. I kept saying NO as I gradually realized that the real operator was his Dragon Wife, who planned to control my money and assets the way she controlled his. He even, unasked, brought one to our town supposedly for me: a 50 something divorced mother with 4 kids, bad teeth, no speak English, and I was supposed to support them all (along with an unknown number of relatives) and pay for them to spend two months a year in 'Nam. That introductory meeting was over in 5 minutes and I told him to never, ever bring this shit up again.
@agentorange1291
@agentorange1291 3 ай бұрын
And it was a friend that tried to do that with you?
@masnur7007
@masnur7007 3 ай бұрын
​@@agentorange1291... His wife is operating a Marriage Agency. Make good money for every successful match up.
@rhuiden4086
@rhuiden4086 2 ай бұрын
​@@agentorange1291 the zombie friend enslaved to a bish from hell
@hayaq9991
@hayaq9991 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@projectkod
@projectkod 2 ай бұрын
that ain't no friend, that was a salesman working for his wife lol
@AlexKellogg-pv4qk
@AlexKellogg-pv4qk 2 ай бұрын
Wow, I needed this. I never got married and it seems sad sometimes, but no wife and kids is better than this
@anymn8134
@anymn8134 Ай бұрын
Great advice.
@tim7517
@tim7517 Жыл бұрын
Leave. Immediately. I’m a Black American man who was married to a Japanese woman from Tokyo for 7 years (divorced now). I met her when I lived there. Brought her to the US. She hated America so she made my life hell in order to pressure me into moving back to Japan (ignoring that my career is based in the US). She alienated my family; she was a complete narcissist; she was money hoarding (all my money, of course ); selfish and provided no intimacy for 2-years. We slept in separate bedrooms at the end. She Didn’t want to go to therapy (because she didn’t like to face truth). Luckily we didn’t have kids. Pack yo shit and jump on the first thing smokin (or zoomin’ if it’s EV) 😂
@castheeuwes1085
@castheeuwes1085 Жыл бұрын
You didn't have kids?? Why zehell it took you so long to leave her...?
@Don_40
@Don_40 Жыл бұрын
White and Black guys like yourself don't want to admit your faults in the relationship. Always blaming the women. Ah I don't want American White Black women There too independent and domineering. I am sure the woman is to blame too what ever their ethnic background but the man has some blame in the relationship unless the spouse is secretly cheating or the husband is abusive.
@tim7517
@tim7517 Жыл бұрын
@@castheeuwes1085 It never starts off with the bullshit... things were rosey and then the honeymoon period cooled off after about 3-4 years. I also was like this guy, I wanted to make my marriage work. I was never a quitter. I thought she was "the one" SMH. Then you realize you can never make this bitch happy. I bought into the Disney blue pill dumb shit... but I learned. Now, I'm in the best shape ever, starting my own business and spinning plates. Never again. Never.
@sebastianeberle9738
@sebastianeberle9738 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations for getting out of her 😜
@puppyparty2327
@puppyparty2327 Жыл бұрын
mental and emotional illness is like the invisible enemy -
@danb2622
@danb2622 3 ай бұрын
I married a woman from Thailand nearly 20 years ago. Solid choice! We’re both 100% loyal, never cheated on each other, our finances are fantastic and we have zero debt. Our daughter is a wonderful teenager with her life in great forward motion. True story. We’re very happy together, I’m very blessed. It is possible, but I realize it’s rare. It’s taken work and we’ve had our share of conflicts, but we’ve worked them out and respect each other’s space. I know I will die a happy man.
@Dahlen4Dummies
@Dahlen4Dummies 2 ай бұрын
You never know if your partner is loyal. Only if you are loyal to your partner.
@IsaacGabriel-kh5ds
@IsaacGabriel-kh5ds 2 ай бұрын
​@@Dahlen4DummiesDoesn't matter if it works for him. You aren't living his life.
@dom2661
@dom2661 2 ай бұрын
@danb2622: it could be all your story fake🤷‍♂️
@TruthSeeker714
@TruthSeeker714 2 ай бұрын
And your daughter looks nothing like you. She looks Asian.
@Blondie77128
@Blondie77128 2 ай бұрын
Great to hear a happy situation here! Many blessings to you and your family!
@Billybloop
@Billybloop 14 күн бұрын
I'm a white woman married to a Chinese man. He is very straightforward and not sentimental, at all. It's one of the things I like about him but I definitely don't and can't turn to him for emotional support. He strongly believes in traditional gender rolls even if he won't outright say that he does. 'death by a thousand cuts' is a really good way to describe the way he can be sometimes. If he's in a bad mood, I'm doing everything wrong. He always has some kind of criticism when it comes to everything. He's a very good provider and I wouldn't have the life I have married to the Caucasian men I had to choose from. Chinese men are also very physically attractive, at least for me, personally. Do I love him? Yes I do, we have been through a lot together and he's the only person who loves our kids as much as I do. Does he love me? The answer is, I don't know. If he did, he would never show it or tell me outright. Sometimes I think he's with me because it's practical for him. To be honest, I'm way more focused on my kids and my crafting hobbies. I don't make him my whole life and identity or center him in everything I do despite the fact that I am grateful towards him and I often follow what he tells me to do. I love myself even if he doesn't love me. The most important thing to me is that I got to have kids, I wasn't poor and I would be a sahm. I think Chinese culture can be very mechanical. There are pros and cons to this. I think even if your Chinese spouse doesn't show 'love' in the traditional sense, Chinese spouses are often very dedicated because those are the values they have been taught. Of course things are changing with gen Z.
@VanityDivined
@VanityDivined 7 күн бұрын
Sounds like one of those Asian movies.
@BWT599
@BWT599 7 күн бұрын
Yea it's a hard one to crack. I grew up second gen Chinese in Canada and I never saw my parents hug or kiss each other. My parents also did not show me that typical western parent support either via hugs, positive encouragement etc. But they did do everything they could for our family and were always there for us with a hot meal, providing for the family etc. Some of that lack of warmth did carry over to some of my early relationships but over time I did a 180. Being married now to another mixed Asian wife (Japanese/Filipina) has been wonderful with great kids. My wife also grew up in a similar household, so although she is fantastic with our kids, very loving etc, we've had to work on really connecting as a husband/wife. It happens in a lot of marriages when life is busy etc, but the suppression of emotions growing up can linger into adulthood. I say, be yourself and try to reach out to your husband in small gestures that are perhaps beyond what is "expected". If he's from mainland China, his upbringing and that of his parents could have been really regimented even though the younger generations are a little bit more open.
@nikitaw1982
@nikitaw1982 7 күн бұрын
Lol. Let's hear his side of things.
@Billybloop
@Billybloop 7 күн бұрын
@@nikitaw1982 you sound like a pathetic pick me. Always looking for discourse between men and women so you can come in and be so not like the other girls. You won't get treated better than other women, in fact you will attract predatory men with your attitude.
@Billybloop
@Billybloop 7 күн бұрын
@@nikitaw1982 what's funny about anything that I wrote? I can't help but feel your comment is in poor taste.
@blu3chav3z8
@blu3chav3z8 2 ай бұрын
I watch content like this to see what the environment is like out there
@0r14n583lt
@0r14n583lt Жыл бұрын
There is a reason why the courting phase exists. That's dating without physical intimacy, just incase some don't understand. It gives you time and a clear mind to properly assess the woman and her family before you make a lifetime commitment.
@nathanbutcher7720
@nathanbutcher7720 Жыл бұрын
It's actually the opposite. The clarity you get after the sex is over should give you a clear mind. Otherwise she's counting on breaking your resolve by withholding sex to get you to commit.
@olusegunadebayo5306
@olusegunadebayo5306 Жыл бұрын
You can never know them too well.
@thecrownprince888
@thecrownprince888 Жыл бұрын
@@nathanbutcher7720shut up please
@Icemario87
@Icemario87 Жыл бұрын
@@nathanbutcher7720 Ok, but how do you break up with a woman after sex? I don't mean one night stands. I mean what this guy is referring to: dating for commitment.
@truthandnothingbut
@truthandnothingbut Жыл бұрын
As the Muslims do. ❤
@manuelruiz9189
@manuelruiz9189 Жыл бұрын
I'm a Mexican-American man who regularly has contact with my family from that country on my dad's side. I grew up multicultural and bilingual. I thought I knew a thing or two about Mexican women through my interactions with my female relatives until I started dating women from Mexico. My God, did I get an education. I wasted my best years trying desperately to find out what was wrong with me all the while not realizing what should have been so obvious from the start; I'm an American. I was dealing with an entirely different culture with its own set of rules of engagement. You think I would have known that from my years of interacting with relatives, but, no. I was absolutely clueless. The mind games I exposed myself to did a lot of damage to my self esteem and my sanity and in end I ended up empty handed. Anyway, that's been my experience.
@riyadougla539
@riyadougla539 11 ай бұрын
What were Mexican women like?
@cadcad-jm3pf
@cadcad-jm3pf 10 ай бұрын
I'm Russian and had a perfectly normal relationship with a Mexican woman in Mexico. No cultural differences to speak of. Just my 2cents.
@azucenavillarroel9526
@azucenavillarroel9526 2 ай бұрын
I guess it could be different social backgrounds, educated Latinos from middle and upper backgrounds fit well Westerners but it can't be said the same of other backgrounds. Differences exist in the same country.
@d.f.9064
@d.f.9064 2 ай бұрын
Now you know. You're stronger for it.
@maikolim37
@maikolim37 2 ай бұрын
I'm Salvadoran and I grew up in the USA since I was 8 years old now. I'm 35 now and went to El Salvador recently, with the target to meet a Salvadoran woman and wow do they want to take advantage of me. As long as they know that you're from up North. I met these women that have 3 kids from 3 different men. And they expect me to be their guardian angel and take care of their kids. And they won't let me touch them until I marry them. They never married the scummbags that fathered their kids, so why are they demanding that from me?
@sand0077
@sand0077 6 күн бұрын
I agree on all your points and advice. I've encountered the legendary Chinese Wanna-Be Wife online and they are very insistent in moving things along too fast. Many red flags with my instinct saying Sayonara! Btw, I burst out laughing when you mentioned Dragon Lady as that's what I had going through my mind all the while dealing with them. 😂
@markmaresca4066
@markmaresca4066 2 ай бұрын
Our culture tells men "Do what's right." Our culture tells women "Do what's right for YOU." Very profound & accurate statement 💯
@joanofarcxxi
@joanofarcxxi Ай бұрын
Your culture tells men to do what's right, and they still don't. You marry dragon women because you think with your lower heads, not the one on the shoulders. Then you complain because you were not wise. It's YOUR problem, and you shall reap what you sow.
@yudollia
@yudollia 6 күн бұрын
And yet men never do whats right ! Committing crime out of the belief that they are entitled to a womans body! Assault is EVERYWHERE. Women are the prize!
@alacazaba
@alacazaba Жыл бұрын
Mine was Korean, having an immigrant wife doing destructo crazy bull crap gives special meaning to the term “border line” personality disorder. One issue with foreign women is that they can obscure their issues with some kind of vague cultural habitual misunderstanding, but given time, it becomes undeniable what it is. I only wish my story was so tame as this guy’s, One of the big dangers with foreign women, the reason why she’s surfing men abroad is because the guys at home have less interest in her, i.e. she’s a problem in their regard.
@C783H
@C783H Жыл бұрын
What is your story? I am married to a Korean and sometimes I am starting to think wtf have I done... the anger and attitude is unbearable sometimes. Very controlling 😶
@VapourSword
@VapourSword Жыл бұрын
Good point on the foreign hunters being the locals leftovers
@QH96
@QH96 Жыл бұрын
@@C783H you are the man, dont let her lead. put down boundaries. dont reward bad behaviour.
@happycarnivore..
@happycarnivore.. Жыл бұрын
Actually the women preferring a foreign husband are the ones who have rejected or given up on their own men, most for good reason.
@graceomakada5082
@graceomakada5082 Жыл бұрын
​@@happycarnivore..The reverse is also true
@lonrichards8824
@lonrichards8824 2 ай бұрын
I married a woman from China, turned out to be an absolute nightmare. Sent her back to San Francisco to visit her son (one way ticket) and divorced her while she was there. I now married to a Japanese woman, and she is the jackpot. Wonderful lady, it's the difference in culture.
@ianstephens333
@ianstephens333 2 ай бұрын
Japan>china
@Valhalla_Heathen
@Valhalla_Heathen 2 ай бұрын
Good job comrade! I myself would much rather be with a Japanese sweetheart instead of a Chinese broad.
@chino436
@chino436 2 ай бұрын
You like them asian woman 😂😂
@Soldano999
@Soldano999 2 ай бұрын
There are quite a few horror stories with japanese wives as well.
@roncougar1
@roncougar1 2 ай бұрын
Some never learn.
@rogeramezquita5685
@rogeramezquita5685 6 күн бұрын
I think is a cultural difference , I have many Chinese friends and their family dynamic is very cold unless if is a Chinese American with generations already living the states
@doyathink49
@doyathink49 2 ай бұрын
100% correct take.
@dwtees
@dwtees Жыл бұрын
I dated many Asain women. I have found every Chinese woman I dated had an agenda as described in this video. Rich gives excellent advise.
@karriem5666
@karriem5666 Жыл бұрын
Women are survivors.
@jasonlee8156
@jasonlee8156 Жыл бұрын
@@karriem5666 They survive by preying on men and using them. That's their survival tactic.
@edwinholcombe2741
@edwinholcombe2741 Жыл бұрын
Yes. I have lived. In Asia for 40 years in China and Philippines. Married and divorced a Chinese wife. They say Asians are best wives but I can not find one that is interested me but rather what she can get from me. I would rather live alone and lonely in my peaceful house than with a wife who makes me feel unwelcome in my own home.
@dwtees
@dwtees Жыл бұрын
@@edwinholcombe2741 I agree with you 100 percent. I married a Thai woman. After a few years it was hell in my own house. I hated coming home and I felt unwelcome in my own house. I was never so happy as the day they left, Wife, 27 year old Son, 19 year old daughter. Being single is the good life!!!
@edwinholcombe2741
@edwinholcombe2741 Жыл бұрын
@dwtees Totally agree! I do not plan to give control of my life and peaceful life to anyone again. I do NOT plan to marry again. I am happy being single and with the peace it brings. That does not mean I live as a hermit. I am very active with people, but no one has any certificate with which to exert control over me and make me miserable, although many have tried even without any legal right to do so.
@51lanka
@51lanka Жыл бұрын
True. I am an Asian (Srilankan ) man. My exwife, a Sri Lankan women was exactly like that . I was married for 18 years and every day was like that. Trying to make unhappy person happy . Now divorced for 9 years . Never married again. I am better off like this.
@IngridduPreez
@IngridduPreez 2 ай бұрын
West and East is like oil and water. It just can't mix. I know, because I've lived in Asia for 23 years. My best advice ever, is, PLEASE marry within your own race. And it's got nothing to do with racism. It's just that every race understands their own race (habits, beliefs, cultural practices, and behaviors) the best. Plus. Children born from two different races, are often left confused and upset. I've heard so many of them say, they feel like they don't fit in anywhere. Many say, they are neither Western or Eastern. Or neither black nor white. They often become bullied at school, for being from a mixed race. SAD situation!
@redeemedbychrist4025
@redeemedbychrist4025 2 ай бұрын
Funny enough, American people when they marry they own kind tend to kill each other a lot too 😅. I think the solution is to get fear God and get someone who fears God too, because no matter the race or culture, the bible says: the heart is deceitful and evil.... not only other races heart, all heart.
@beckspark5548
@beckspark5548 Ай бұрын
that is quite an uneducated comment imo.. Race" and cultural practices, beliefs, etc. are not automatically linked... I am adopted from Korea, raised in Sweden. Culturally, I am more Swedish than Korean.. according to your "logic", I should only marry within my own race..( Koreans) due to the same culture and beliefs.. which is incorrect in my case.. and in many other cases (2nd generation immigrants). Race is not an issue here.. it is the religion, beliefs, traditions, social class and culture that determines our behavior and mindset... not race ...
@doorguru168888
@doorguru168888 20 күн бұрын
Untrue. I have been married 48 years to my Thai wife. We are quite happy.
@manuelvikingo7767
@manuelvikingo7767 10 күн бұрын
@@beckspark5548 YOUR COMMENT IS STUPID
@hiturbo1918
@hiturbo1918 4 күн бұрын
Your Beard is PERFECT !!!
@grahamblack1961
@grahamblack1961 Жыл бұрын
I'm from the UK and live in China. I know a lot of guys who have Chinese wives, none of them seem particularly happy with it. Chinese women are all about money. In China it's common practice for Chinese men to hand over all their salary to their wives every month. I know a British guy doing that and it seems crazy to me, he's not saving anything for himself. I find it laughable when people portray Chinese women as submissive. Another guy had a Chinese girlfriend and broke up with her, she went batch*t crazy and tried f his life up.
@lamentate07
@lamentate07 8 ай бұрын
They are the complete opposite of submissive. In some respects they are even more aggressive than western women. The mind fucking is on another level. When you break up with them or stop talking to them, all bets are off. I got entangled with one that would message bomb me and act very aggressively whenever I saw her after going no contact. It was honestly the most intimidating experience I've ever had with a woman. Western women generally leave you alone after the relationship ends if there is nothing to gain financially. Chinese women, on the other hand, go straight for the jugular.
@Miii1009
@Miii1009 6 ай бұрын
Women managing the finance at home is the culture for generations, obviously you don’t understand the culture well…this applies to Chinese men, not just to your friends… it’s just the norm. Stop blaming other culture when it is different from yours. You don’t have to marry them lol Btw, now more and more couple choose joint accounts. In fact, managing finance is also an additional work which requires time and energy. now many women don’t want to take this responsibility alone.
@ttt97
@ttt97 3 ай бұрын
You are 100% right they are all about the money. Marry Viet
@23ofSeptember
@23ofSeptember Жыл бұрын
I married a Japanese woman. We had two kids together. I haven't been able to see them in almost two years. Same sorta thing. She hoarded all her money but demanded control of mine. Its my son's 13th birthday tomorrow. I will try and see him on his way to school tomorrow to give him a card.
@keithharrold7262
@keithharrold7262 Жыл бұрын
Sadly sounds accurate.
@ricksmith4736
@ricksmith4736 Жыл бұрын
thanks for bringing this problem to America
@zfgnerdlife7193
@zfgnerdlife7193 Жыл бұрын
Heartbreaking dude, good luck to you.
@eamonhannon1103
@eamonhannon1103 Жыл бұрын
Sad story ! Men are being abused by these women !
@smann7236
@smann7236 Жыл бұрын
Jesus so many same stories
@lanapham4177
@lanapham4177 2 ай бұрын
I think not everybody like that. There are alway a bad seed in any countries. I m Asian, married to a white, country like person. I had lived in the states for a long time. Been married once for a long time to an Asian person. I was not happy. Now I m very happy.
@MW-eg4gu
@MW-eg4gu 15 күн бұрын
My Chinese wife and I - I am Caucasian American male - celebrated our 50th wedding anniversary. What can I say? Yes, I've known many Chinese who are very materialistic. What I observed id they study hard, work hard, but spend money as fast as they make it. Lots of showing off. My wife has been constantly teased by her family that she is tight with the money. We both are Catholic and most Chinese I know are indifferent to Christianity. So, you live in their country or bring her to the States (We live in Florida), KNOW REALLY WHO SHE IS! KNOW BEFORE THAT WEDDING DAY! THAT'S THE KEY. Most all of her family are now divorced - married in their own race - and in late middle age are broke!
@motojl
@motojl Жыл бұрын
BTW, if these children are US Citizens they will need a US passport to exit the country. The airlines will not board them without one. The application for a US passport requires the signature of the parents. Make sure your lawyer and local law enforcement are aware of the threat to leave the US with these minor children. It may be a crime in your state. This may help you in your custody battle.
@johnross6314
@johnross6314 Жыл бұрын
Nope. Chinese airlines do not. The “requirement” does not apply to foreign national airlines. Plus they can go passport free to CA and MX. From there anywhere.
@wngimageanddesign9546
@wngimageanddesign9546 Жыл бұрын
They may have dual passports at the moment and she can take them back to China.
@5831a
@5831a Жыл бұрын
@@johnross6314 u need a passport to go to Canada or Mexico. And even if u somehow could u are not leaving without one, lol!
@jayviktor6130
@jayviktor6130 Жыл бұрын
Or, they can just tell you it's a two week vacation, and not return. My wife took my kids to Korea on a two week vacation, and kept them there for over three months. I told her to bring my kinds back, and threatened to cut off her money.
@ontheroad5555
@ontheroad5555 Жыл бұрын
@@5831a You can cross the border with a border card it's not like a passport but it will get you across land borders.
@Accentor100
@Accentor100 Жыл бұрын
Rich Cooper, my intro into the RP space still giving good info. A lot of Asian women, not all but a lot can be very hard to deal with. Chinese women in particular. Red flags to look out for with Asian women is how they communicate with you in the beginning. They tend to ask a lot of questions, almost like they are interviewing you. If you get that, especially when it comes to your lifestyle, run!
@rejectwokeness1314
@rejectwokeness1314 Жыл бұрын
Yes Chinese women who I matched online always ask financial related questions during dates and u know if u failed if she ghosts you right away
@michaelsix9684
@michaelsix9684 Жыл бұрын
Am. women do this too
@Accentor100
@Accentor100 Жыл бұрын
@@rejectwokeness1314 Exactly!
@michaelr1989
@michaelr1989 Жыл бұрын
They will always put their immediate family first. There is social pressure to achieve and 'succeed', and women do this by syphoning money from their husbands into their immediate family to prove their (the women's) worthiness.
@zaq1337
@zaq1337 Жыл бұрын
Gold digger 🚩🚩🚩
@joelvaldez5577
@joelvaldez5577 7 күн бұрын
Women change in a blink of an eye. Even the "genuine burning desire", you won't know what she will and can do next, especially in this day and age. I myself am a single dad, and im so blessed to have my child with me.
@user-gz2vq1qx2n
@user-gz2vq1qx2n 2 ай бұрын
Been there, Done That!
@BindairDundat
@BindairDundat 14 күн бұрын
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