German Man Marries an Asian Nightmare

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[@quantomic1106]

Marry an Asian woman they said. She will be submissive they said.

[@yongkangma5537]

The one going to be submissive is you instead XD

[@Rubycella]

It's all lies lol they dont care about any guys they care about money only.

[@johannanguyen9101]

I am mexican woman married to an asian man, the women on his side on the family including his mother are very narcissistic, manipulative and controling, they are mostly interested in wealth and materialistic goals. My mother in-law's husband doesn't have a word in their marriage even when I met both of them he said the only two rules in our house is that my wife is always right no matter what, and second rule go back to the first rule. She was also extremly controling and obsesive with the children. We had to cut them offn and went legal since she was trying to make other family members to convince him to divorce me because she deslike the fact that I'm not asian and tried stalk us when he refused.

[@Lilliz91]

If a guy is that stupid to believe all that then the white guy simp deserves what he gets. I wouldn’t wanna marry an idiot like that.

[@TheTinminator]

Asian woman are. It as submissive as modern day today. They are just like or worst than their American counter part. More than half of Asian are divorced and that’s the pretty much the same as what we have here as an overall United States divorce percentage rate. Asian are usually stricter and not as leannit so good luck my friend.

[@ga4650]

If you chase the rice, you pay the price!

[@cwebbhouston]

Now that is f'ing funny

[@AthamAldecua]

Lmao

[@AmeliaHubbert]

@@Rapptor22 for a spring roll

[@rickrossi7426]

Good one 😂😂😂

[@MAHAKALAXXXV]

lol !!

[@earthredalert]

Let me add my 2 cents after several years living in China. Never fall for the stereotype that Asian women are somehow different, more feminine or "submissive". Going in with that frame is a terrible and unrealistic idea. Women in Asia work on the basis that looks and feminine traits are highly valued, more so than career and education. Therefore, Asian women are particularly good at acting into this role. They simply have to. Once you are tied in, the cracks will start to show. One other thing to note is that marrying off daughters is the holy grail for Chinese parents, they will usually pressure their daughters zealously (often in the form of social pressure, mocking, blind dates and matchmaking) from a young age to marry and as a result a Chinese women will all too often rush into a marriage just to keep her parents happy. Confucianism runs very deep and when you marry a Chinese woman you are marrying her family and will always come second to the wishes of her parents. Disclaimer: There are great Chinese women out there, don't get me wrong, but these insights hold true for a huge majority and I just wish to remind people not to fall for the stereotype this post opens with.

[@laoscuridad9275]

Amen brother. Chinese even have custom of that friends of bride overtly "demand" cash to groom. Just like korea, marriage accompany with literal "paper bag filled with cash". At least westerners start marrige with relatively light-heart, light-pocket, but in asia, espically east asia where I live, all burden, money, car, house are on you. You have to start with almost EVERYTHING. Plz do not marry asian women unless you have death wish. Plus asians look shit. I can 100% approve this message cuz I'm asian

[@Betterhose]

Well... With a population of 1,5 billion people, there'd better be some good women in China, too.

[@berndblabla4249]

Chinese Woman are great this one is an exception

[@kaptinbarfbeerd1317]

@earthredalert "Chinese women will all too often rush into a marriage just to keep her parents happy" Yup, the result is the end up marrying men they don't want. You would be surpised how many married Chinese women are willing to cheat.

[@earthredalert]

@@kaptinbarfbeerd1317 Very true.

[@ghostcar]

I married a Japanese girl thinking her background would mean she was peaceful. The first seven years were good so there’s that. Then the manipulations began. For a few years there were back and fourth arguments. Then I began documenting her actions. I knew that her true nature has been uncovered. This documenting paid off when I filed for divorce. The judge decided in my favor. I will never ever marry again.

[@yudollia]

You are so naive. No person on earth is ever willingly submissive.

[@oof36969]

"More red flags than a chinese communist parade" ahahahah

[@sdiamond5555]

My favorite description of a crazy woman!

[@lukeism2]

I think I’ve heard that line a hundred times because he has to repeat himself to these idiots so often

[@TekkLuthor]

That needs to be a rap line

[@gladiammgtow4092]

Female nature is universal!

[@puddingpudding9579]

This sounds like my brothers situation

[@zardozthehammer2023]

Counseling NEVER works. You can't negotiate desire...

[@dpstrial]

With counselling you just delay the inevitable. Why prolong the agony?

[@taunoctua245]

Counselling must happen BEFORE the marriage. Not that I would grant one, yet.

[@oldgysgt]

Marriage Counseling works very well; the Counselors make a good living at it!

[@bwbs98]

Counselling is almost always biased in the woman's favour as most counsellors know that it's the woman who's more likely to terminate the sessions if things aren't spun her way.

[@curbowman]

That's exactly the comment I expected from @Donald Trump's Space Force !! hehe

[@triggerd7385]

9 minutes in and I can't finish the video. Im going to write my next horror film with this guys story

[@Koeras16]

I may watch it.

[@aurakireina3291]

yeah this guy has got to take control back...

[@melompat]

9?? I cant even watch until 6 minutes. Bye then..

[@jamesgreen6376]

+Gman HAHA the U.S. is worse think about it need a rope and can I watch

[@alexdanailov6241]

9 minutes? I was already out by the 6 minute mark xD

[@kichigaisensei]

Tip #1...never ever ever get involved with a woman you think wants you for the visa. Tip #2...never ever ever marry anyone you haven't known for at least two years (preferably more). Tip #3...at ANY point in the relationship if you think to yourself she's acting crazy, dump her. No second chances. Tip #4...a pregnancy gives her MORE power. If you already fear you're being controlled, a kid will give her more control. Tip #5...the hotter she is, the more likelyhood that she'll be crazy.

[@threethrushes]

Good, solid advice.

[@Jared00g]

"Crazy" sex can be awesome,but when the sex is gone,all you're left with is the "Crazy"! Never stick your sick in crazy.

[@lemmerdeur666]

Things happened fast because SHE IS A BORDERLINE.

[@rafageek2013]

i think is more like narcisistic

[@shitmandood]

It makes sense though, A complete psychopath would be avoided by the Chinese, so they would reach out to marry somebody Western to try & get some kind of better life. Although they never really can because their mental state isn't correctable. Well perhaps anti-depressants might help.

[@goodyeoman4534]

i saw a video by that South African guy who lives in China and 'vlogs' from there. he explained about the nature of chinese women (based on his experience). the details of this video support what he said completely. especially the lying to the police about child 'abuse'

[@justsomeguy2943]

Co-morbid Cluster B Personality Disorders.

[@goodyeoman4534]

@@shadownet4597 yeah, that's the one. a Latvian friend got me onto him and I checked out a few of his vids. interesting stuff.

[@rosst8919]

Relationships with women are all about power. If you give them a little they always want more. So give them none.

[@justsomeguy2943]

@Fit freak and THAT is ALL the "power" they deserve- the "power" to SERVE.

[@TechieTard]

I wish your comment was viewed by everyone, this is the bottom line fact. You are a man, you have testosterone, act like one, use it, boot the bitch! I would have no issue beating the effin lights out of this woman!

[@masternoremac3738]

If you give women an ounce of power, they go crazy. They don't know what to do with it.

[@ronaldmcdonald3965]

Demonstrate your dominance early in the relationship on something you are an expert and she know nothing. Own her. And show her how little she knows. So she knows (nicely) what will happen to her if she tries to boss your around or shame you.

[@mrfixit3762]

@@btsxmbti-wwh4382 she loves him for it

[@araysfan8243]

Any marriage that involves immigration issues is a red flag.

[@araysfan8243]

@Tanmoy Debnath I love SE Asia, but don't bring over an average looking lady from a poor family to the west an expect success.

[@the-based-jew6872]

@Tanmoy Debnath bringing an Asian to the west turns them into a westerner. Remember these words. If you find a good one, live in Asia.

[@carolinaramirez3686]

Yep, mostly

[@dailyd8123]

Your last comment was dead on! Men are supposed to do the right thing, but women are suposed to do themselves....such a double standard

[@lakersphan]

Men grow up with society teaching us how to cater to women's needs. Women grow up with society telling them to be independent and that they don't need men.

[@oldgysgt]

Yes, modern American women scream, "women are equal to men", but few Divorce Courts award the ex-husband spousal support. Most women think, "what's yours is ours, but what's mine is mine".

[@coinswaptrader2915]

which is usually the wrong thing at the macro scale!

[@TheCoffeeNut711]

Men place that burden on themselves. We want to be the one to do the right thing. What's with this whining with Red pillers?

[@MultiPopculture]

"She's a Nazi... which is funny since you're the German" -- LOL, Gold!!!

[@badhabitz69]

The irony........

[@marsnz1002]

@Nav V You met all 40+ million of us huh?

[@youknowit1916]

@@marsnz1002 "You met all 40+ million of us huh?" Mann, Germany has 80+ millions inhabitants, among which way more than 40+ million "native" Germans. And that's not taking into account the German diaspora which is estimated to be more than 50 milions.

[@LegioXXI]

@@youknowit1916 "Mann, Germany has 80+ millions inhabitants" And around 50% of them are female, duh. So if you talk about "german guys" 40 million is the more accurate number.

[@whiteheart5811]

Shhh...don't mention the war!

[@edgescarborough4724]

I called George Clooney the smartest man on Earth at one time, then he got married.

[@4201818168]

That's why Leo D is winning

[@4201818168]

@Jack brad pitt and Johnny Depp both got destroyed

[@FBi_.]

Bruh....

[@lukescheller7216]

"This chick has more red flags than a communist Chinese parade" ...well played Rich

[@thatmg]

Rich went *beast mode* in this one!

[@simonenefer2876]

Holy s..t! Richard is so right on this one!

[@bellaholmes5499]

My jaw dropped when he said she threw a knife at him. I don’t care how much you think you love someone, he should have left that same night! This chick is crazy!

[@lexiegirl1494]

Have to agree that's scary and crazy

[@catman3953]

Didn't you feel better when she said she could have hit him if she'd wanted to?;-)

[@nathanbutcher7720]

Had he caught that on video, he could have put her in jail

[@jayviktor6130]

My wife is Korean. Chinese women and Koreans are similar in culture. It's kind of like comparing Americans with Britains. My wife used to threaten me with divorce. I put up with it the first month, but after that it became very tiresome. Finally, she threatened me the last time, and I threw open the front door, and told her, "You want to divorce me?! There's the fucking door! Walk your dumb ass out!" She was shocked into silence. I told her never to threaten me with divorce, just do it and shut her mouth. She never said it again.

[@sgtlucifer6883]

- Rich, bad advise to share a house with a crazy woman or a woman you are trying to divorce. - no, don't even stay for the kids. - a woman that doesn't love you or wants to be with you will figure out a way to destroy you if you insist on sharing a roof with her. - it's not worth the risk. - pack your bags, and move out - leave the kids with her - avoid chaos and acrimony. - the worst thing you can do to a woman is to just let go, and move on with your life.

[@SasaSasa-wy9wu]

😂😂

[@Ewela-et3uo]

You talked to her like that? Why you still with her?

[@Val-uj3nr]

My Ex used to do the same thing for years, she was from the states. For years every argument we had ended with her threat to divorce, it felt like psychological torture. If I could have gone back in the past I would have just filed it right away.

[@robertlong1733]

I was married to a Venezuelan girl who freaked out during an argument with me ...she grabbed a kitchen knife and stabbed me ! Fortunately my hand blocked it from going in more than an inch at my waist. A good lawyer got me free ...but I did have to swallow some debt. That was a close one ...glad I did not have any kids with her!

[@michaelcooke8665]

Was she charged with assault with a weapon?

[@robertlong1733]

@@michaelcooke8665 it was a domestic dispute that got out of hand, but no the police were not called. I called a lawyer and got divorced.

[@TerriTerriHotSauce]

@@robertlong1733 Should have pressed charges that is unacceptable

[@trevorsmith7753]

Lucky she didn't Bobbit you! How's life now, Lorena? Young Latinas are hot but they pork-out after 30.

[@di3486]

You should had press charges for Attempted murder.

[@marlenathorvald]

Any respectable women who loves their kids wouldn't try to keep them from their dad period.

[@satoshinakamoto7253]

hah, tell that to western women

[@marlenathorvald]

@@satoshinakamoto7253 that's why I said respectable women

[@rockriv2238]

Hey Richard. Stop ripping the guys off with your lectures and coaching. Anyone can learn this stuff on there own like I did. It only cost me 20yrs of a bad marriage, 3 daughters who've been completely alienated from me and utter financial ruin..... come to think of it your way might be quicker, cheaper and easier. Yup, that was the price of my tuition. Bye the way I'm a high 6 figure earning medical professional living like a pauper. Love your work, keep it up maybe some of these young guys will listen. Save the one's that can be saved. Stay strong fellas and God bless.

[@rockriv2238]

@Alex Taylor ,Thank you for the info. I'm sure there are guy's who would benefit from such a strategic reconstruction of there situation. Luckily I'm not among them and heres why. - my divorce was finalized over 3yrs ago. - I pay zero alimony, cause my exwife is self employed and refused to submit a financial disclosure statement. - my youngest child will be off child support in about 2yrs. - I became employed at my current position after my divorce was finalized, thus she can't after anything in my current employment contract. - best of all in my current position I have an almost endless supply of foreign interns to train for 6 months at a time and send back to where they came from. Just remember fellas its a long game and things for you will improve with time. Which isn't the case for the exwifes in general. Stay strong, stay positive and have faith eventually the sun will shine on a beaten dogs ass also. Mr. Taylor I the men that can benefit from your information see it and benefit. Best to listen to men like Mr Cooper and prevent the situation at all. Stay strong guy's and God bless.

[@rockriv2238]

@43 one Hope things work out for you and your girls, I havent given up hope for mine. Stay strong 👊

[@thomasc9248]

I feel lucky to learn that stuff with being 23y old. Never married, gladly. Never will.

[@RUHappyATM]

LOL, so women are all the same...Asian women like Whities!

[@driver13g27]

You're not in the position to tell him what he should or shouldn't do

[@mysteriousstranger8224]

I have a Chinese girlfriend that pushed for marriage. I could see that she would morph into the wife from hell so I said no to marriage. She's still my girlfriend but I control my money and life and there's nothing she can do but play along. PS. We have separate residences. I would never live with her.

[@lettuce1305]

she'll play along until she gets someone who'll fall for her trap and then you'll be dumped.

[@TheZDerDer]

Mysterious Stranger If you can't even live with her then why are you even dating her? It sounds like you don't really like her, to be honest.

[@renaldsunset]

W

[@ScrumptiousRump]

The girl sounds terrible But why the fuck are you even dating her?

[@michz9304]

Why are you in that relationship? How does it bring happiness in your life? If I couldn't live with my bf, I would break up right away.

[@rushwill]

COOP said it: women are told: girl you go do what's right for you! Men are told: do the right thing. There's our society in one of many nutshells ✌🏾😎

[@apontutul]

Perfectly said. Hence the agony of modern man

[@SasaSasa-wy9wu]

Cuz women have been historically oppressed.

[@hellocyrax]

Man you should hear some of the stories my friends have told me about fat wives flipping tables over not getting their way

[@mdogzino]

That's a workout, hopefully they burn a few calories.

[@FBi_.]

Lmao yoo😂😂🤦‍♀️

[@FBi_.]

@@mdogzino yall are fools im dead bruh😂😂😂😂

[@freakyfred543]

I had a three bedroom house and by the time of the divorce and bankruptcy my ex liked to put her weight to breaking the doors out of the jams whenever I tried to lock her out for a moment of peace, not a door was left in place.

[@cindychin7746]

I’ve been there brother 😬

[@robpaulson7992]

Chinese women come with a few red flags: 1. Your money is her money, her money is her money 2. Sex is not part of the deal *(see exception No. 3, below) 3. She will insist on having babies, which you must suport 4. Her family (blood relations) always come first 5. She is in charge and will insist on getting her own way in everything. If you disagree or try to stop her she will throw a tantrum and ultimately find a way to get what she wants anyway.

[@christophmunch4796]

I was together with a Chinese woman for a few months in the good ol' blue pill days and can absolutely confirm what you say. Except for the sex part - she was really into it and wanted it every night.

[@Shaolin91z]

Well there's something good to say at least. Lmao 4-5 nights a week ain't bad at all

[@threethrushes]

Sounds like they come with all the red flags.

[@speakupriseup4549]

That's all women.

[@marcoi7035]

throws a knife at him. id leave my stuff and buy new clothes. only life i have. help!!

[@bitcoindaddy748]

This guy did everything wrong that could be done, you need a special kind of skill to do this, I don't understand how a person can make so many specifically horrible mistakes in a row unless he aims to do so.

[@unassailable6138]

despair... German women are the worst in the world...

[@Dexduzdiz]

😂🤣👌

[@LaserGuidedLoogie]

it's called "fucking up by the numbers" And he's German...

[@VincentLee-kd2dd]

A lot of Asian women specifically seek out these types of weak naive guys. And the guys are all too eager to fall for the trap.

[@larrymasterspowerbuildingc4477]

Is Asian pussy THIS GOOD? mmmmmmmmmmMMMNAH! What a beta male bitch.

[@daves2520]

I have a female acquaintance from Ghana who told me an interesting story about her ex-husband (German citizen). After their divorce, her ex went hunting for an Asian wife - he finally settled on a Thai woman. After marrying her, he complained to his first wife that the Thai woman was spending all of his money. Not only did Germany lose two world wars, this guy lost two wars as well!

[@Spider-Too-Too]

>be me, german smart boi >married a dream asian waifu >living in the dream >see you later, virgins >turn out the dream is actually a NIGHTMARE

[@LayLowOfficial]

I'm 22 years old and happily single. Marriage seems like such a dated concept to me,and something quite depressing.I feel bad for this guy...

[@bigneiltoo]

You're 22? Assuming you're a man, you're at the lowest Sexual Market Value of your life. What girl would marry you? I didn't even have my first girlfriend until I was 22.

[@LayLowOfficial]

@@bigneiltoo here people marry when they hit the 23-27 age range. I personally think it's retarded. But i do appreciate your assessment of my situation,wich although not being completely accurate,still depicts my status as a "work in progress".However I still am presented with the choice to get into relationships from time to time and I just can't bring myself to do it.Freedom is a beautiful thing,one I do not wanna relinquish for anyone,with my close family being the exception.

[@Demour77]

@@LayLowOfficial Facts Man! I hope you've been doing well on your grind 2 years down the track : )

[@spiceboyog9083]

It’s not that marriage is an outdated concept but it’s been turned into a tool for women to have that amazing special day all for them and that they can divorce for no reason while the state will always take the women’s side. It’s been turned into something terrible but the fundamentals of marriage is not outdated.

[@tommm.1538]

I know married women who make jokes about divorcing their husbands. It's really bad

[@christophmunch4796]

AFTER the train wreck. To be more specific: A mass carambolage of trains. With rail tankers exploding.

[@Sebashtin]

"... and it's funny cuz you're the German dude" LoL. Stories like these sound made-up but then you quickly realize how much worse it could sound and still be true...

[@eyecred4153]

Just heard that part and I came straight to the comment section xD

[@flambelk4489]

It sounds totally legit.

[@x-fatboylifestyle589]

She makes American women looks like angels 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️😂😂😂😂.

[@limiteddna246]

Not really my sister sounds like this lady

[@reallybigbiscuit3568]

*AWALT*

[@coiledsteel8344]

Read about that bitch WENDI DENG/MURDOCH!

[@catman3953]

She makes American Pit Bulls look like angels.

[@mfriedrich2012]

Never marry. Never cohabitate.

[@olechristianhenne6583]

@Tanmoy Debnath sounds like femenism to me xD

[@brokenman232]

I married a trainwreck Asian as well. She was a Philippina. It has been a total nightmare. Don't give up your kids and stay strong.

[@professorlayabout4878]

If she becomes violent call the police on her. Then you can get her kicked out of the house.

[@alexduta7469]

Videotape EVERYTHING. Don't get anywhere in her general vicinity without a hidden camera.

[@eznosnopes5276]

@@alexduta7469 This is the right answer. Record EVERYTHING. Start mounting legal advice and have a thick folder of things to report if you need to separate from her.

[@horowizard]

The cops will take one look at you, then look at the defenseless Chinese lady, slap the cuffs on you and haul your ass in for a night in the can.

[@AndreAndFriends]

@youtube can eat my ass with a spoon quick solution.

[@juice2620]

VERY slippery slope. I would just be quiet, put up with the abuse, and then go no contact at the first chance. Any escalation a female will get the upper hand in the eyes of the law and probably most of your friends too.

[@aterventypityp]

This is so sad. I didn’t know these red pill stories could be any more real. No P ain’t that good.

[@Superrdave6303]

Dudes are still getting married? That’s wild

[@fabulousdolphin4221]

haha

[@Smoove_J]

You’d have to be a masochist to get married in the post feminist era. It’s a living hell.

[@philmehrart]

Still have people saying "you'll change your mind when you meet the one" ...... nope, not happening!

[@liuton2005]

This sounds more like a horror movie than a relationship story :D

[@Trazynn]

It sounds like an Adam Sandler comedy where he plays the Chinese girlfriend.

[@saif9amar417]

That's it... It isn't relationship, it is an ever-ending series of relationshits..

[@miguelmejia4656]

liuton2005 they should also copy and paste his story inside the walls of haunted houses around the world for attractions. it will make millions.

[@dannyantoine8472]

lol your right I feel bad for him on a serious note

[@rosharma7443]

Same difference

[@stephenkutney9626]

I'm 71. Married in 1984. Devorce proceedings started in 1992. Divorced in 1995, I was involved with a divorced mens group for years. I wish that this information was available to me. Listen to this man.

[@wattlebough]

So the Chinese girl required him to drive her everywhere. One of the non-negotiables on my checklist is that a girl I'm seeing must have a drivers license and her own car, and more than just that, she has to be a good driver. If she's over 25 and never had a drivers license, instant dismissal. It's a red flag. Do not ignore. If she does drive but she's had more than one accident where she's been at fault, and if she's dangerous when behind the wheel when in traffic, it's a red flag, do not ignore. You want to be able to trust her on road trips, right? When it's her turn to drive and you want to sleep, you want to know she's not going to get you both seriously injured or killed, right? What about when she becomes a mum and she's driving the kids around, picking them up and dropping them off at places, you want to know they're in safe hands, right? This Chinese girl is a total narcissist, if not an outright psychopath. I went out with one for about six months, I was a fool for staying with her for that long, but I was in denial to my self. Should have not seen her again after the first 2 weeks when she started to be a pain in the behind. Don't ignore red flags fellas. The short term pain of ending the relationship when you should have is less than the longer term pain of continuing the relationship when you should not have. Bite the bullet and piss her off, that is, get rid of her and don't let her back in. Cheers from Australia.

[@SFbayArea94121]

Don’t want to to sound racially insensitive but after living in SF for 10 years amongst Chinese households and all of the unnecessary yelling they do, I could never imagine being with one.

[@threethrushes]

Why are they unable to communicate civilly towards each other? I had a friend once in the UK who had a Chinese background and yelling was a thing in their household.

[@VincentLee-kd2dd]

@@threethrushes My dad told me when he was kid growing up in the good ol' Asian motherland that he once did something to piss of my grandmother so she chased him around the apartment with a butcher knife threatening to kill him hahahaha

[@fabulousdolphin4221]

YOU RAYCIS THIS IS WRONG THINK OK

[@TOF2485]

This is facts

[@recabitejehonadab2654]

Ughh! No wonder I stay single and 90% of my friends that are married are miserable and screwed for life.

[@michaelnoble2432]

Yep. Think about it - 70% of marriages end in divorce, so those were obviously miserable marriages. Of the 30% that last, I'd say no more than a third are actually happy. That gives you a 10% chance of being happy, and a 90% chance of having your life destroyed. Does that sound like a good deal?

[@recabitejehonadab2654]

Michael Noble And that’s why my mortgage is paid off, I have no debt, been saving for retirement for years, only work 3 days a week and live a healthy lifestyle ( no alcohol, tobacco, drugs, or gold diggers). Overall I have no complaints in life.

[@retiredmanager1098]

Scarlet Daze and that’s why if you find someone you rent a place, ideally on a 6 month lease or less. Then if you see warning signs you just lose a couple months rent and maybe a little furniture. I own my place outright. If I absolutely had to move in with a girl, I’d rent my place out and build an account without co-mingling any funds.

[@mso008]

That is so true hahahahhahah all my friends are married and feel miserable

[@stan2880]

They need to reform the family courts, divorce should be allowed but it shouldn't be such a grueling process

[@johannanguyen9101]

I am mexican married to an asian man, the women on his side on the family including his mother are very narcissistic, manipulative and controling, usually indeed they are interested mostly in wealth and materialistic goals. His poor husband doesn't have a word in their marriage even when i met both of them he said the only two rules in our house is that my wife is always right no matter what, and second rule go back to the first rule. Not trying to generalize but based on many friends and family and even my own experience most of asian women are that way.

[@Rezzmari]

To be fair, there are just as many Mexican women that are like this too.

[@Henry1965ism]

He should not just close the door at night but lock it as well.

[@sand0077]

...with a door alarm!

[@Betterhose]

Just for the record: We German dudes are not all like this...

[@selvii]

German dude‘s Richtig witzig

[@cwebbhouston]

You guys would salvage your life savings if would just understand that all you need from them is a massage and a happy ending.

[@goodyeoman4534]

@@khjgfxdhzf it's not german men who let migrant in, but their treacherous government. same as the UK. if there was a democratic vote we all would have voted them to be banned from coming

[@TechieTard]

dude, I'm sorry, but the problem is that yes, you are now. But if you're not, then be an example to all other guys that are.

[@Betterhose]

@@goodyeoman4534 I think that social "let all migrants and refugees get in" mentality lies in the female nature (or feminie men), while men oppose it or have a more critical opinion. Men want to protect their hunting grounds or fertile farmland from other people. That is not a matter of race, religion or whatever.

[@samsaltwell]

I can believe that he was attracted to her at the start. I can believe that he thought 6 months or so was long enough to decide to get married. But I cannot believe he stopped his MBA for her - this tells me that he is easily manipulated and not suited for marriage.

[@bobinthewest8559]

If you allow a woman to "demand" that you make such a drastic change in your "life plan"... you are not yet a man, but rather, still a boy.

[@antonthemanton3065]

As a guy that has dated 2 Chinese women I can tell you this... They are cold and heartless and can flip the switch at the drop of a hat. They are clingy to the point of obsession. They are all about the business first... romance 2nd. They typically are easy to bed but if they do, they are already working out all the ways in their head of how you are going to benefit them financially, socially. That being said, you cannot....CANNOT allow them to shit test you. You must establish dominance right away and make it clear you will walk away from the relationship the moment she challenges your control, because she is going to want control in the relationship. The clingy behavior is part of that control, always wanting to see your phone, always questioning where you were and whom you were with. Wanting to move in right away. As soon as she has an upper hand on you (marriage) she will use it against you.

[@Rezzmari]

What the fuck. lol I'm an Asian woman myself and I hate this type of behavior (whether it be from a man or woman). Way too controlling and they sound really insecure.

[@yudollia]

🤣🤣🤣 and with that, all women including asian women have sprinted away. You people are ridiculous. This just made you repulsive to all women. A true partnership does not have a power imbalance, weirdo.

[@MrSit87]

Taking kids in to daycare 5 days week is common in Germany. The "good" german thing to do is for both parents to work like horses and dump the kids in daycare. If your wife is at home, you are considered backwards.

[@chrismoore9997]

Lived through something like this and my ex accused me of having been abusive, when I wasn't. When we broke, she moved to another state and has that state helping her to hide from me so I can't even find her or my child. I have not seen my child in ten years now. It all is horrible.

[@rachelhenry4357]

Its true he needs to install a hidden camera in the house. The cameras need to be Installed when she's not there so she doesn't smash them. Dude also needs to stand up for himself and call out the girl on her BS

[@noname75013]

This guys experience is NOT uncommon with Chinese wives. Throwing knives, using the kid, controlling the husband est.

[@ellalarkin1016]

The poor guy was probably so desperate to have a sexual relationship that he didn't take the time to get to know her before he married her.

[@YogiTomasch]

As always, great work.

[@LyssLiLi]

*Just watch "The Audition (1999)", you'll know how Asian women really are like.*

[@redpillcounselling227]

Thank you for the recommendation. I will.

[@jo3165]

But they are hottt

[@jo3165]

@anglekan she's a human being like you and me and don't think she's something more than you its the dudes fault he let her manipulate him

[@LordStanley94]

Thank you for the tip. Will watch

[@yxvm]

It’s not in IMDB. Fake

[@jennifermenth-pavel1260]

A friend of mine was married to a psycho like her, he took my advice and his divorce went surprisingly well. I advised him to build a case on his wife. When she acts like a psycho call the police to establish a record. Whether or not she goes to counseling does not matter in the grand scheme of things if the marriage is over. It will however make your plight more believable to the judge. Send her to the spa and install some hidden cameras with audio while she's gone. Of the three guys who took my advice (he gave my number to a couple friends) 2 have shared custody, none went broke, they have a permanent restraining order and the third has full custody of his kids!! It's horrible that men would have to do something like that but it works. Always remember psychos are not particularly smart and they have virtually no self control. If you lay the right trap and tread carefully it doesn't take long to turn the tables then it's all down hill from that point. When she realizes her power is waning she will become a desperate, one woman, 3 ring circus that nobody respects and then the fun begins. Her world begins to crumble the judge scolds her, her lawyer drops her because of her psycho bullshit and friends step away from her because she is literally unraveling!! If she has coached the kids a professional can determine that then she has to deal with CPS!! To anyone with a diabolical, narcissistic bitch like this God bless, plan your moves well and good luck!!!! ✌😊

[@trevorsmith7753]

Excellent! Guys ... always consider why no one else has married her yet. Usually a reason. Successful Asian guys do not marry even single women over age 25. Single mums: forget it !

[@jennifermenth-pavel1260]

@@trevorsmith7753 Some guys, and girls alike, are so afraid of being alone they explain away countless red flags!! I have watched in horror as male friends married a complete monster!! One guy refused to pursue an annulment after, on their wedding night, his new wife took off with an X and spent the night!!!!! He blamed it on the booze and her bad relationships. Lol The first thing you must do to marry well is value and respect yourself.

[@SpeedyWinds]

One of the best channels on KZbin, I saw this person at an Orlando Florida conference. It was awesome, highly recommended! (Thumbs-up to your channel)

[@grumblyone3334]

I remember the start of my divorce... ah memories: I was blindsided, & TOLD to get out. Being caught way off guard, (& clueless from years of having no say under my own roof), I did. Was also TOLD that "I" had to tell the kids I was moving out... because, well, it's all my fault anyway! Moving forward a number of years, I now understand that I was never taught how to be a self sufficient man. "What YOU need to do," was common to hear from my wife, & mother. And while Dad was supportive, he wasn't "assertive." Boys need that! Otherwise, ya get what we're hearing here. If you have kids, be a MAN! Be a DAD! (You think that woman will do it for ya?!) NEVER take a back seat as a parent, unless you want to raise spineless little jellyfish, who can't stand up for themselves. IT IS THAT IMPORTANT!!! Grumbly One has spoken.

[@3DSiscool]

You speak like how you speak and your profile pic is squidward... Do your kids respect you?

[@grumblyone3334]

Kids, yes... Ex, 😆. Kids see a lot, & grasp a lot more than they get credit for.

[@3DSiscool]

@@grumblyone3334 lmao I respect it and that's true

[@foxto100]

>Asian women sweating intensely

[@_jamesbradley__]

Another great vid. Thanks! Listen up here, my Chinese wife is pretty much the same. She puts her Father first, practically worships him. If they don't get their way the first words that come out of their mouth is "I want a divorce". My story is fairly the same/similar as the vid. I know others too in this same situation. They keep ALL emotion in and then it explodes. I have seen a very dangerous side in them too. I'm in divorce prep now. Scary.

[@kaseymorris8885]

Speaking specifically to men raised in devout religious homes. Men raised in devout religious homes are indoctrinated to marry before sex. Western culture places 1st century responsibilities on men. Men marry with idealizing what the marriage should be. The problem is that women have 21st century rights, while men are still held to 1st century responsibilities. If marriage is the blockade to men's reproductive imperative, then to the religious man, marriage it must be. Then only can he learn that there is no such thing as marriage. It's a contract between two disparate people to behave. This contract is only enforceable on the man.

[@jeodee]

Damn, who has the time and energy to go through all of this nonsense? I’ve come close to marriage many times but always backed out. It terrifies me.

[@marcusmay5461]

Butters lol same here.

[@thelasthourgetready]

Never Ending Purpose lol it is nonsense all my friemds have been through all this foolishness. they are now nowhere to be seen

[@elitecreative7126]

Richard I love your channel, thank you for doing what you do. Honestly has had a massive impact on my life.

[@cabragoon4746]

🤷🏻‍♂️ what!? She wont love you long time?? I had too. Sorry 😂

[@MAHAKALAXXXV]

love him long time fucking right ! this is what happens when white dudes delude themselves thinking that non white women are more feminine and better marriage material than white ones , well what can I say , I guess he knows the truth now

[@cabragoon4746]

MAHAKALAXXXV absolutely. I’ve been pretty lucky with the women I’ve met etc. but there’s a lot of diluted everyone out there. Have fun, be good

[@mansamusa6724]

😆😆😆

[@coiledsteel8344]

@@cabragoon4746 Sad but true! Movie - FULL METAL JACKET, by Stanley Kubrick, gets it right - "Me love you long time." Which is really a very short, and expensive time!

[@jcvr732]

😀😀😀😀😀

[@RedEyeification]

She's not submissive.She's subversive.

[@IbanezKing666]

I'm in pure awe at the bad decisions this man made one after the other just because she told him to Go to a chiropractor and get a spine, dude

[@HD-Australia]

My experience living in Asia.... Chinese and Korean men want to marry a Japanese woman as they are subservient in the relationship, in the home and in the bed

[@vankeefer]

I have heard this all before with loads of guys in the U.S. and Canada. These women know exaxtly what they doing and are schooled by other women on how to take advantagr of men. They also know how work the legal system to their advantage.

[@michaelcooke8665]

Western women are mean etc try Latin women from Argentina Chile or Uruguay they're more traditional better looking too🇦🇷🇨🇱🇺🇾👍

[@PUGGDAD]

Setup a go pro in the spare bedroom he plans on sleeping in. Leave the audio record app on your cellphone anytime she wants to talk to you about anything. Screen shot all texts she sends you when you’re not home.

[@hunnyb1308]

Wow!!...Sounds like a damn nightmare😮

[@hunnyb1308]

Lighting Blade Get a life TROLL!!!

[@hunnyb1308]

Fit freak I'll have to agree with you on that one. However, gold digging doesn't last too long. It's sad though, cause women like that, makes it bad for women like myself. And that's what pisses me off.

[@regularolpoet1462]

I know this situation all too well. Narcissism on full throttle. Hope things work out.

[@robbe8858]

This was great info and advice !! Words to live by.

[@lizh4933]

One of the biggest fantasy is the "submissive, docile, obedient" Asian woman. Met up with a guy once and he told me the story of his wonderful Asian bride. He came home one day and EVERYTHING was cleaned out of the house, the police knocked on the door about HIS abuse, the kid was gone AND she poisoned his two dogs. Serves you right boys. Women aren't the only ones who buy into fairy tales.

[@DrsJacksonn]

Thanks for teaching me that marriage = buyer beware. Imma always think twice from now on.

[@bvrajlal]

Better yet, don't marry someone you've only known for a few months.

[@fractalzoomgoggles]

The thing is...you're not buying anything...if anything, it's just a lease, as more divorces are initiated by women. As a male, you're more of a product being used by her than she is used by you.

[@oscarmartinretrato2508]

Many says Chinese woman are heartless, incapable of loving in a relationship with a man.. goodluck to those guys..

[@raphaelwilliams2200]

You have my attention

[@pointcuration1278]

Allowing yourself to be mistreated is as bad as mistreating someone else. A healthy person has the responsibility to not to hurt other people and has the responsibility not to let others hurt them.

[@awad7391]

two friends of mine married Chinese women, both turned out the same way, wife was very controlling and dehumanized their husbands. They both got divorced. In Chinese culture, family structure is different, here's the order of importance: 1. Kid 2. Job 3. Home 4. Wife 5. Her Family 6. Husband

[@bennettray8465]

You're doing the lord's work rich, thank you. It's so hard to see reality objectively when you are dating someone toxic because they distort all truth and blame you for everything, it's really hard not to get sucked into their frame, especially if they are really good at playing the victim.

[@tysoncole1511]

I'm so happy I saw your video on books that men should read, "The Tactical Guide to Women" was my first buy, given that I already have the entire "Rational Male" collection you have to have a game plan!

[@winter5490]

I married a Vietnamese , it totally destroyed my whole life . I could never ever had imagined the damage to my family and my life I'll forever be so sad I did a stupid act to my life ..

[@osse1n]

*Richard, are you going totally solo from now on? Nevertheless, you have our support.*

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

I've always been a solo act, but I will always collab with people I can trust, and value.

[@osse1n]

@@EntrepreneursInCars Power comes within! Stay real, brother. Appreciate your work.

[@TheM.A.]

Hypergamy loves religious men. I’ll be seeing your story on ID channel.

[@pbarangu]

I was engaged to an Asian who was a complete narcissist. She was obsessed with money and control. Thank GOD I didn't marry that woman!

[@reymisterio9061]

Man i am addicted to you're videos

[@antonior.9255]

Man today you look really pissed off!

[@valentinevalentine3092]

I always laugh when western men tell me asian women are better lol

[@bluev7427]

Love this stuff

[@TheDarrylsellars]

Sound advice Richard 👌

[@SenorTucano]

As my ex-wife said to me ‘what’s mine is mine, what’s yours is ours.’

[@andriif.5329]

Like about "red flags on Chinese parade" )

[@teddouglas6620]

Rich Thanks again great content. Guy’s listen GET THAT BOOK

[@zerothehero123]

This is insane! Thank god this info came to me when young!

[@renatoalcides5104]

Man, hope that people listening to you, really take your words as fact not opinion, unless you suffer in the flesh what I and thousands of people suffer because of too much care for her and to much shame on ouselves. DO NOT LEAVE your house !

[@jamesballard6564]

Unless she filies a protection order against you. We all know they are granted without proof. That is when law enforcement removes you from the house. Happened to me! Its slam dunk tactic to use in family court later on.

[@traceyb.r.e5525]

My brother went through hell with an Asian. Thank God almighty his out of it but she won't share the child through access and courts are useless. My brother never dated before this person first wow what an experience.. She came after his house and money because my brother is a little slow mentally me and my sister wiped out his accounts and house turned over to me for 5 years and then when divorced all will be returned. We had to protect him she was the devil honest evil to the core. They don't know how to love

[@wade1960]

I have met a lot of guys in this situation and my neighbor is going through a very similar situation right now. I feel sorry for this guy, because it's going to get a lot worse. Talk to Asian guys, they can tell you a about dozens of cases like this and about kids that grew up in these situations. Lots of guys don't realized that many Asian women are super self centered, opportunistic and materialistic.

[@SubcideWebzine]

This video is great for anyone going through a shitty break up where kids and property are involved. I'm going to share it to a few men's support facebook groups.

[@haitianhendrix]

Do not enter long distance relationships.

[@Rezzmari]

I don't see an issue with LDRs. I met my now fiance that way - granted we both live in the USA and dated for a few years before getting engaged. International LDRs is where it can get super tricky, in my opinion. Since the easiest and most used way to close the gap is to get a marriage visa, and even then I feel like you're sorta marrying a stranger since you haven't been together in person much, if at all.

[@TimBucktooy]

There is a reason they're called Dragon Ladies....

[@dennism103]

All right Richard great gd commentary wise words bra.