How to ACTUALLY become confident| GLOW UP, know your worth and STOP CARING what people think!

I get so many questions on have a became confident, especially as a dark skin women in todays society! I wanted to share some tips and advice to help you become confident, glow up and know your worth so you can stop caring what people think!
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[@kayleewmorgan]

Girl that one GOT me, “is the judgment going to kill you or are you slowly killing yourself by not being who god has called you to be” OOOO that hit.

[@jaleccia56]

She said, “I am the bag. I secured myself.” I felt that in my soul sis. Thank you for showing up

[@reallyvivian]

To anybody reading this, you are capable and you will make it. Your past doesn’t matter anymore baby ❤

[@MakaylaLysiak]

Gina is ✨THAT GIRL ✨

[@tinabella5439]

She is ✨️THAT WOMAN✨️

[@1tachi-.]

Deuteronomy 31:6-8 Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.” Then Moses summoned Joshua and said to him in the presence of all Israel, “Be strong and courageous, for you must go with this people into the land that the LORD swore to their ancestors to give them, and you must divide it among them as their inheritance. The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.”

[@eliethfrancisco3479]

4r girl

[@cierrakae]

You hit the nail on the head with the "you are trying to put yourself down before someone gets a chance to" cause baby I do this a lot. It’s so difficult because when you’ve been picked apart for your weight, skin, hair etc. at a young age it sticks with you for a long time. You always think someone is going to criticize something about you because that’s what you were used to growing up. I’m very much traumatized unfortunately, but I’m working on it ❤️

[@kaylamonay777]

💜💜💜💜💜

[@Lia-zw6ip]

One thing i learned recently is don’t be so much in your head. And this is coming from an over thinker. Literally you thinking of the worst that can happen is you manifesting that, so always think positively! ❤

[@jaelle6993]

Literally cried throughout the entire video,thank you so much I really pray I actually listen and put into action this amazing advice you just fed us, I’m really tired of hating myself it’s gotten to a point where I can’t even bare it anymore so I’m really gonna try my best and actually listen this time hopefully I reap the benefits of this advice.

[@miacarter8097]

I know that's right. I can relate

[@tshiamotshephe]

You are going to be okay boo🤍. It's always a never ending war with self🤧, but one day at a time and have your back always eventually you'll be where you want to be ❤️

[@noway2788]

you've got this! come back to this comment section to update us. we are all praying for you. you are not the only one. i feel the same way too. we love you, Jaelle

[@LifeofNuche]

aweee , i love this !!

[@kenasssss]

you are worthy, lovely and lovable, remember that. If other people don't see that, that's on them, they don't owe you, you don't owe them either. Respect yourself and respect others. You're still *IT* , no matter what.

[@zerinacuric2613]

I am white.. I think that black girls are absolutely the most beautiful girls in the world. You should always be proud if it 😻❤️

[@cierrakae]

We are absolutely beautiful. So are you ❤️🥺

[@DaNursedoll]

that line"how does me having dark skin make me ugly" ive always asked that question growing up like kids used to tease me about my skin tone but i never seen an issue with it like i used to tell them baby i am beautiful .

[@itsdeethomas]

As a dark skin girl this video hit home 😢 thank you for this video! ❤

[@sophoniejoseph4419]

Im in tears 😭 i needed this. Need to stop caring about what people think because I think they see the flaws in me, when no i’m perfect the way I am. Thank youuu ❤️

[@t_theo2]

Your words are so perfectly articulated! But FR why hating on yourself! So inspirational ❤

[@Gina.B]

Thank you so much!! 💕

[@tracey1141]

I'm 52 years old and I wish I had her in my late teens and 20's God Bless her❤

[@ifiruledtheworld1st]

no babe because you SPOKEEE, you SPOKE!! You spoke I was like nah she IN my business right now. The Holy Spirit really used you today, let me even watch this video a second time so it SINKS into my spirit.

[@sandramish2229]

Hi Gina thanks for sharing this great info. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗

[@eiraantoinette6793]

Congratulations sis! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too

[@sandramish2229]

Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.

[@gracedaniels6172]

How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.

[@patriciakaren1226]

Congratulations to you Sandra keep it going

[@sandramish2229]

I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.

[@Shanice_Renée]

I absolutely love hearing this come from a beautiful dark skin woman 🙌🏾 now I am going to show my beautiful dark skin daughter this video. Thank you for this 🤍

[@mant8vaei314]

The whole only/mainly following dark skins girls and not watching light skin vs dark skin definitely helped because I came across a page once and saw the severity of the comments and realised that black girls that don’t do that are really out here suffering

[@TeeTeedoyouloveme90]

I’m a light skin woman with a dark skin mother she has always been my first example of what a woman should look like I could never call her skin ugly!! Ppl are so disgusting, love this video 🫶🏽

[@potatowellcox8870]

This is one of the better videos I’ve seen about confidence. For once I feel like I can soak up the information. I definitely had a problem with hating myself into things like working out and it was motivating. Now it’s a little more difficult to love myself into a workout.

[@Tuyiza_]

I’m so glad I found this video. Im been constantly struggling with my self esteem, love and confidence as a teenage dark girl. I have so many insecurities as in my teeth gap I literally avoid smiling for that reason. I genuinely can’t find it in myself to call myself beautiful because I don’t think I am. I’ve been wanting to start creating content but I always ditch on the idea. Thank you soooo much for this video. You don’t know how bad I appreciate this. Im looking forward in growing confidence with myself through out this video 💕💕

[@hillaryyeboah-akosah4413]

I'm in my first year of college and I've been dealing with so much insecurity especially recently. Thank you so much for this video you really spoke to me and I definitely need this!

[@user-rl2tq5dr1l]

I love your inspirations and words. Thank you and God bless you for this. I feel better already.

[@Gina.B]

God bless you too love 💕 glad I could help 🥰

[@MissLulu7857]

Your parents must be proud of you girl 😊 You speak so well dear

[@zaymay1303]

it's so beautiful to see a girl I went to school with as the cover , she's so pretty.

[@MissLulu7857]

I have low self confidence but after watching this video i realize that you have to love yourself first before anyone should ❤

[@niqueness2988]

This video was solo relatable. I could've been speaking because I'm dark skin too and even as a kid, I knew my beauty was beautying even though society really tried it.

[@AyitsqueenAareanna]

Girl I’ve been going through it. Toxic breakup, bad mental health annndnd man everything u covered in this was really helpful. I work at a Starbucks and i never had anything against anyone but man it’s super toxic in there, and they make me feel like I’m different. Especially when I dress up and look nice they try to intimidate me or put me down. I feel like what broke me was that toxic relationship and being abused what didn’t change was my strength 🎉. Girl I have a high calling and man I just been going through this battle but I’m not going to give up!

[@ShaiWilde]

Please let’s Get This Girl to 1M subscribers!

[@TashaMackk]

I can tell this channel going to grow very well! Love the content! 😊

[@ummumami]

whew the skinny part hit me. cuz girl yes. felt. BE DELUSIONAL is literally it. this video is soooooo good!

[@badiiephakedi9027]

everything about this video is beautiful. colorism is very traumatic. to this day I still feel like I have bit of impostor syndrome/dysmorphia regarding physical appearance bc even to conventionally attractive ppl colorists are very vile for absolutely no reason .DS women constantly being picked apart in every way.the best thing is to really stick to people and environments that humanize us, see us and make us feel cherished & respected. that's really the only energy you need to be letting penetrate your psyche ;the one that doesn't stop reiterating that you're perfect. we're IT, always been❤️. S/O Gigi you're a special one 💐💐💐.

[@nambasacissy6931]

Y'all ladies!! Agree with me, THIS WAS NEEDED!🥂🥂

[@JessKikie]

The part you said you let them win even before they judged you! It hit me. I'm glad I overcame this. I was so scared of starting a YT channel because I felt people will judge me. I did start one. Thank God! Even though I never shared it with my friends.

[@fadelasoura]

the way you articulate words is amazing. i've dealt with so much bullying for being a darker skinned girl and lately i've taken my confidence to another level. thank you!

[@shakirajonuae]

Thank you so much for this! This here is what the girls needed 🙌🏾🥳 beautifully said !

[@Theofficial.e]

The way you ate this video up! Omg its so crazy bc I needed to hear this❤

[@kikamo89]

You are a gem Gina. Thank you so much for this message. I just started following you here on YT and as a young woman you are so wise. You’re inspiring me to share my light in a way like never before. God bless you girl! 🥹

[@thehealtrix]

This was amazing Gina!🥹 Your divine wisdom, your presentation, beauty within & out just blessed me!💙

[@adaugou]

God bless you fr! I love when you said our confidence needs to be place in someone higher than ourselves. Your words were so encouraging and I thank God for you❤

[@gensai93]

You make a really good point. I think a lot of people are tired of everyone doing the same thing and looking the same, but there are just so many people out there that it's hard to stand out and having something noticeable can be a good tool. There's always going to be someone who judges no matter what you do, so you might as well do what you want lol.

[@Kalmxcape]

This literally helped me so much. I’ve been in kind of a bad place because I look back at my life and realize how low my standards were, how low my self esteem was, I let certain things happen to me, how I could’ve had so much if I would’ve just kept going at what I wanted and even had the courage to ask for help when I needed it. I stayed in a shell my entire life, but I do want better for myself. I can’t change the past, but what matters the most is what I choose to do with right now. God bless you ❤

[@uniqueadaeze]

Girl when I tell you, I was literally just thinking about “confidence” and how I needed to find a video that’d help me with that, and then I opened this app for something else actually, and I’m scrolling, and then I find your video 😭 Wow!!! Thanks for this💕💕

[@Gina.B]

Omgggg! That actually made my day 🥹❤️

[@FrankieDotCreates]

Maaaan I absolutely love that I found this channel.. Gina you be the realest Sis ✊🏾

[@Stecia_]

A Gem Packed Video❤ You’re THAT girl🎉

[@Eliokwaw]

Girll I love that I found your channel... You're giving me what need to hear. Keep shining girl!!!!

[@BassetMukeigh]

There's no way I can watch your videos and be down like period!!! I love how well spoken you are🥰

[@Beka-Nique]

Definitely having my daughters listen to this! And I needed it so much as well!!!

[@thecheeseprince]

this is SUCH an inspiring video! I can already see you growing daily you are definitely going places, keep doing you girl😌✨

[@BlissIsBritt]

I needed this! Thank you. Having a talk with God tonight to restore my faith that my worth comes from him ❤

[@Biamah]

You have no idea how much you’ve inspired me with this video. As a fellow Ghanaian I relate to this sm

[@rriver2668]

Thank you so many of us needed this❤

[@ntwanay_]

God knows I really NEEDED to hear all this, literally hit every spot ❤ just gained a new subbie ❤

[@amirabloom9702]

THE VIBES YOU GIVE, LOVE LOVE LOVE !!!!! 💙

[@NatashaNgwerume]

Okayy I loveee you I'm subscribing now💕🤭

[@iammhoneyy2494]

I’m going to start today you should too I’ll remember this video when I’m at a better place thank you for all this encouragement this is really what being an influencer is about!!👏

[@chantew5683]

God bless you for making this video. I’ve never heard ANYONE break it down like this and it quite literally changed my mindset. Thank you ❤

[@sleepsoundscape1126]

"The person you are today, is going to get you to where you wanna be" this actually touched all the cells! I LOVE this, because even if you have to change and improve it's still the person you are today; that will make the decisions and provide the foundation and canvas for that change!

[@adelinekiptoo8766]

This is the best video I've ever seen ! Coz you believe in what your saying. Love this.

[@princesspower6446]

It’s not cuz you’re bout to get your period, you’re not being sensitive or emotional. Allow yourself to cry and feel your emotions, you’re speaking a very powerful message. The ignorance we as black women are taught to have about ourselves by society and our peers CAN hurt us, and even after growing from it it still HURTS. Any kind of trauma or bad experience can still hurt even after you’ve learned and grown from it because healing is infinite. It’s okay to cry whether in private OR the internet. It’s a natural part of our emotions ❤️ great content love.

[@Gina.B]

I needed this 🥹 Thank you for shedding light on this and giving me a new perspective 💕

[@ijeBeauty]

I loved every bit of this video. You are so feminine and have such a soft spoken voice. Keep doing what you do, and as always, stay blessed 💕

[@akanidestiny6235]

I'm so glad I watched this♥️

[@journeyto657]

Ginnnna you are preaching!! ✨

[@caraminejames1664]

you inspire me so much i love you so much and dont be afarid to cry sometimes continue to love yourself

[@missionnoel6753]

GINA 😭😭😭😭 THANK YOU for this!!!

[@Dan-fn9xt]

GO AHEAD QUEEN , YOURE PERSONALITY IS GIVING SLAAAYYYY!!!!!!

[@sunnni_]

ALL OF THIS!!!! Snaps snaps. Love yourself

[@3bonyhehe]

Wait I love you already !!! You got so many points that I relate to !! Ugh thnk you queen ❤

[@filmedbybeatriz]

PREACH GIRL!!! PREACH!!!! You slayed this video 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@chaelmarcial428]

you iimmediately captivated me with your aura, i love that energy!! another gorgeous girly to look up to! thank you soo much!

[@M.Laluna]

I watched this video twice and saved it in a playlist ❤you are amazing 🙏🏼

[@zipporah99]

Wow Gina ur so amazing! Thanks to God and ur previous video (how to grow on SM) I’ve stopped caring about judgement. Once you stop caring nobody can touch you! I pray that every black girl, especially us of darker skinned, find and THRIVE in the confidence given to us by God! YOU ARE THAT GIRL NOW ACT LIKE IT!!!

[@Welcometochan]

Medaase, I appreciate this video so much, it's enlightening and comforting, God bless you abundantly for sharing this video, you've helped yet another black queen xx

[@LifeofNuche]

thank you!! I love how you incooperated faith into this

[@Hxny.KayKay]

I’m so happy that I came across this video! Thank you so much ❤

[@princessdanarcissist2726]

Thank you so much for this Gina!😭 You are genuinely responsible for the confidence I found in myself as a black girl, thank you❤️❤️❤️

[@thatsehricalashea]

Wheeew! Wow…this was amazing!

[@charmingsharmain]

I also started crying, this is beautiful continue making content and loving what you are doing and may God bless you😀😀😀

[@JasmineSymoneLove]

I know God directed me to your page to hear this message for a reason. This was so beautifully said, thank you so much for this video Gina! Had to subscribe!

[@Itsbrilavish]

As a Dark Skin Girl I completely understand this video from start to end. Thank you truly for this…God bless

[@divinembaya208]

This was so GOOD!!!

[@josietiara]

Your beautiful sis! Thanks for shinning your God given light!!

[@HelloShelay]

Thank you for this❤ & I’m sure you know but your skin is so beautiful and glOWING 😍

[@BeeXaba]

I've never been so motivated in my whole life... Wow girl... You are God sent ❤️ been watching your videos all day and I relate to each and every one of it.

[@crown_heldhigh]

My goodness! I cried watching this. You have no idea how much this video impacted me. I’m currently trying to improve to be more confident and shift my mindset and thinking. You’re Spirit is beautiful and powerful Thank you so very much❤

[@neicycarlasquire]

You are always Fire!! Let God use you because so many people need to hear what youre saying and you are a great role model to not just younger girls but older girls :)

[@enitanm1212]

Whew this spoke life into me 😭💜🫶🏾

[@boitumelomalehlogonolo199]

Wow Gina❤😭this video is so inspiring

[@ciaragilmore535]

Girl you are so right! I use to think tearing myself down before anyone else could would protect me. Boy was i wrong! Now I couldnt imagine talking to myself the way I once did.

[@UGChelenaD]

YOU ARE LITERALLY SO GORGEOUS I LOVE YOU😭 I’ve been subbed to you for a good while. I absolutely love the high energy and you know what you’re doing type content. I wish to one day be that way.

[@RealMyaNiicole]

This video brought tears to my eyes . You're amazing . thank you .

[@itsketra4948]

Gina just keep going,I love it preach baby 😍

[@tani3762]

thank you so so so much for this, one of the few confidence videos that actually spoke to me. you inspire me

[@DeasiaDenise]

I absolutely love your vibe, everything that you are saying is what I have been looking for. These are things that everyone should try to do.

[@Qyourcouplescoach]

Wowww I showed this to my daughters and took notes I love this … keep doing what you doing my love ❤

[@divine_khemi]

I love this . Thank you for this inspiring video. I found out my self concept is negative about my weight and my beauty and my personality. I now say I am beautiful and my body is unique and lovable . I love taking care of my body with physical activities , creative expressions, and foods that make me feel good

[@real_roses]

You got this Girl!! It's been hard for me too but I've been pushing through with God!

[@pinkxterrors]

This the video ! Thank you so much Gina!

[@ElliieYasmiinbratz]

Girl this video made me subscribe, continue living the life you was called for sis

[@ebhojayejuliet9728]

Gurllll I luv u sm this vid did it for me u got a new subscriber ❤️

[@mariangwembe3700]

your changing lives keep doing what your doing may God bless you