Nobody’s shallow for taking care of themselves. Maam when I tell you that you just healed 39 years of me. Wow. Thank you
@helenaBeau8 ай бұрын
Yep, I was 160 and came down to 135 and I still wanted to lose more weight. My sister and friends all gave me grief and told me I was anorexic and I cared too much and didn’t respect my feelings about wanting to do better. I cut people out of my life. I’m 5’4 and very curvy so weight shows on me. My parents and a lot of relatives all pass from cancer. If possible I’d like to eradicate that possibility for my future.
@AbbyBabiee8 ай бұрын
@@helenaBeaukeep going girl...ppl that try to discourage others on their weight loss journey are often those that liked u better when u weren't your best self...and most probably got an ego boost from u being bigger...cut them all OFF and keep going!!👏👏
@ashlaraque41358 ай бұрын
@@helenaBeau it’s honestly insane to me when people want to become armchair ED doctors. At the end of the day, they were just jealous that you were doing some thing that they couldn’t, and you were holding a mirror to them. Looking at you and your size force them to realize that they either have low self-esteem and only feel secure around people they think are beneath them OR that their size is unappealing. I experienced both.
@iidentifyasjeffbezos8 ай бұрын
I'm not trying to be rude, I'm curious, why did you ever think that? I'm 22 and I think like this slightly, I'm just trying to see if both of our reasons are the same.
@GetElevatedWithMe8 ай бұрын
@@iidentifyasjeffbezos you’re not rude at all honey! I’m actually working and want to respond with a quality comment so when I’ve got some free time I’ll be back 🩷🩷🩷 sending you good vibes
@faeray10168 ай бұрын
As someone who went from being an overweight "pick me" to a "no waist gang" baddie, then back tracking to jaded and chubby... she's right. Looks do matter.
@Mmmmkaaay8 ай бұрын
It's astonishing how differently people treat us as a size 10 versus size 14. I was raised to treat everyone the same, but sadly for many, they didn't get the memo.
@RP-uu7oq8 ай бұрын
For me it was both better and way, way worse when I was skinny. Sure I don't get free stuff anymore, but I still get flirted with, people still take my cart back for me. People still hold the door, and allow me to pass them in the aisle. They still frequently jump in to help at the first sign of confusion or inability to reach a product. And I'm not just fat, I'm obese. Size 18 (just lost 20lb!), and very short, so I look even fatter. When I was skinny, people fell over to do those things for me. But men also aggressively treated my body as an object without any regard and women aggressively approached me about how terrible I was for getting surgeries I obviously never had because I had barley even reached teen years (which continued to happen until I got very fat). Maybe it's because I never lost my skinny attitude. Maybe it's because I buy clothes that fit and make me feel comfortable. Idk. The treatment is different, but being delulu still works exceedingly well.
@Mmmmkaaay8 ай бұрын
@@RP-uu7oq It pains me to hear about women being cruel to other women. I would never comment on a person's body unless it was a compliment. I believe you about the confidence part. I have a big friend who has NEVER been fat shamed, yet I've been shamed by family, friends, strangers since 12 years old, no matter what size I was. Sometimes I wonder what mean things people would say if I was thin. 🙄
@RP-uu7oq8 ай бұрын
@@Mmmmkaaay They will definitely say mean things babes. You're around the wrong crowd. Even if they're nice when you get skinny, what will happen if you get fat again? Positioning is just as important, if not moreso than all the other advice. Get delulu now. You're obviously gorgeous or why would you be so kind and loving? You deserve self love. You deserve to feel soft and glowy with moisturizer. You deserve spa days. You deserve hot outfits that compliment your shape and make you feel lovely at the grocery store. You deserve it when a man holds the door for you *simply* because of your gorgeous light. I'm rooting for you bestie 💅. And thank you for being so kind 😭🫶
@Mmmmkaaay8 ай бұрын
@@RP-uu7oq Thanks so much! You made my day! 🥰
@Dgtlbath8 ай бұрын
One more tip: DRINK WATERRRRRR. I’m currently drinking 80-100 oz of water a day with a cute bottle my sister gave me and I seriously feel different, I look brighter, I sleep better, my breath smells better, etc. Drink water girls!!
@Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook7 ай бұрын
Hydration prevents strokes. So ladies drink up.
@alyxxa61827 ай бұрын
Careful, you can overdose on water. And also, deplete your body of electrolytes. You need sodium, magnesium, potassium etc.
@Rimaddux6 ай бұрын
Also please don’t forget that too much water can cause you to pass out as it flushes all the salt out of your body. 70 oz of water a day would be ideal.
@AncestralGratitude855 ай бұрын
WITH electrolytes, especially if you have headaches/migraines. Sugar-free, called KetoChow.
@Val.Kyrie.2 ай бұрын
Don’t strip your electrolytes. I only drink salt water. I like LMNT, but relyte is good too and cheaper.
@funnygirlever8 ай бұрын
Glow up in your 20s, 30s, 40, 50s, 60s. Make each era memorable. ❤. I am feeling better in my 40s. Turning 41 is like the new 30s but wiser. ❤. I can't wait to glow in my 40s. I got this! Anyone going through these changes shows that you're growing to the best version of you. Get to know everything about yourself. It's so peaceful and becoming so much happier. ❤
@melissamoonchild92168 ай бұрын
love this! ❤
@sarahwales62767 ай бұрын
Same! ❤
@saraharabia36407 ай бұрын
Hot hot hot ❤❤
@elizabethserna75127 ай бұрын
Yasssss!!❤❤❤
@twinkletoes15077 ай бұрын
70’s, 80’s & beyond!
@Neonravekid8 ай бұрын
You don't have to be the most drop dead gorgeous person in the world. But if you put yourself together and show you care about your appearance, it sends a very clear message to others without even saying a word. If you care about your appearance and take care of yourself, what else do you take care of. If you take yourself seriously, what else to do you take seriously. If you're confident people will flock to you. If you look put together and have finesse, people will want to be around you. You will become a magnet.
@mstwelvedeadlycyns8 ай бұрын
Last thing I need is to be a magnet. Looking good is a must.
@VickitaTrivedi6 ай бұрын
thissss
@nkechiofurum318220 күн бұрын
Yes very true you don’t have to be the most beautiful you just have to care for yourself enough
@anashah4538 ай бұрын
The intervention: 2:02 Hair 4:01 Skin 5:50 Body: 9:41 Style: 12:38 Makeup: 14:24 Hygiene: 17:24 Bonus: 18:40 *Just to make it easier to jump to
@crissycloey8 ай бұрын
🙏 thank you
@arif60038 ай бұрын
Thank you
@kennedymeador10158 ай бұрын
Thank you so much🖤
@funnygirlever8 ай бұрын
Amen!
@ibnsharmouta95478 ай бұрын
bless
@kaitemarie54048 ай бұрын
Please do glow up but please be mindful of the limits of enhancing your physical appearance. Do not depend on it. One, it doesn’t matter how beautiful you are, you will be old news to anyone who sees you on a regular basis. Your beauty can be downgraded by lacking internal growth and beauty. Having a bad personality or being stuck in various forms of trauma will cancel your best efforts and cause you to always have attraction but no connection with others. Looking pretty will NOT automatically attract good men. It will attract men. period. You can still be mistreated, used, or be hurt and win Miss America. Beauty does not entitle you to anything. Look good for yourself FIRST. Do not try to look like someone else: figure out YOUR style.,
@how_you_talk7 ай бұрын
Brilliantly put. With maturity looks become secondary. Your integrity and character will get you the respect you truly deserve.
@theclassyconsultant.8 ай бұрын
Ever since I started glowing up, things have changed. The other day my food came faster than normal (I have a regular order) and when the guy brought it to me he said "your food, ma'am" with a big smile on his face. Cheers to dressing classier!
@niratomas5798 ай бұрын
It’s life changing🗣️
@fightingram8 ай бұрын
Firm believer in when we look good, we feel good!
@VickitaTrivedi8 ай бұрын
Amen!!!!
@Desi_Laine8 ай бұрын
I have learned at 43,the way you treat yourself,is literally how others will treat you.❤
@scarlettkhan96672 ай бұрын
Great saying
@kyliestone5888 ай бұрын
I did laser hair removal 3 years ago for my legs Brazilian and underarms and LET ME TELL YOU I feel better, cleaner, and more confident since. I say cleaner bc my skin was so sensitive when I shaved that I would get actual welts that were painful and icky. So happy I did it.
@diving.deep.8 ай бұрын
One session did it for you ? 😮
@sarausage8 ай бұрын
did u ever shave or wax
@aviana38418 ай бұрын
I’m in the process of laser as well and I love it! Had only one time so far and hair is already growing so slow I even forget it
@Slachelle11238 ай бұрын
@@aviana3841how does laser work? Like how often do you do it and how much does it usually cost you?
@kyliestone5888 ай бұрын
@@diving.deep. no I did one full series (8 treatments) and then got 2 maintenance that I haven’t even needed yet
@mgr53968 ай бұрын
Females that I work with in my office make comments about me all of the time and look at me in a negative way because im the only one who is overweight doesn't get her hair and nails done and it really sucks. I'm a very down to earth person so it was never something I felt that I needed to do. One day, the nicer one of the group basically pulled me aside and said my husband needs to let me have a self care day because she was worried im not prioritizing myself especially since im a mom. Truly that perspective changed what I thought was vanity and rudeness to am I actually giving myself free time.
@Val.Kyrie.2 ай бұрын
Carnivore diet. XL to M in six months.
@aliciakayartsandcrafts2 ай бұрын
As a mom of 3 myself - it is very much needed! I felt the way you did for a very long time and finally decided to put myself first at age 37. I’m a much better mom because of it. It spills over into every part of your life. We take care of everyone else all the time. We deserve to take care of ourselves too. ♥️
@MelancholyofMere098 ай бұрын
"If it's not a heck yes, it's a no" 100% this. Not even for just shopping for new clothes but when getting dressed daily. Even an item in your closet that you may normally feel great in, there may be some days you just aren't feeling it and it shows! It's so important to feel confident in what you're wearing every day.
@ritagreenwood93978 ай бұрын
I will be 50 this year and feel I have only just, in these last few months, given myself the green light to do better. For too long I was fighting with ideas around dress vs. vanity, weakness, motherhood, femininity etc for myself, but appreciating elegance in other women. 2024, will finally be different! 😊
@funnygirlever8 ай бұрын
You got this! I turned 41. I'm planning to make my 40s my best. I have grown so much the last 11 years. I got this! We got this! ❤
@ritagreenwood93978 ай бұрын
@funnygirlever Love your reply, it made me laugh! 😄 You are right. We got this!! If anyone tries to stop it, they don't have our backs! Thank you and very best wishes!💪🥂❤️
@funnygirlever8 ай бұрын
@@ritagreenwood9397 whatever year it is. Make it the best years. This is your chapter. You're journey. Someone who understands this and gone through themselves will only see greatness. You're very welcome. ❤
@Telltalesign8 ай бұрын
Imma take this as a sign to improve myself physically this year. We need to be pretty!!
@Jessica-ko1eg8 ай бұрын
Thank you I needed this. I just spent a fortune on my hair. I lost 70 lbs by working out and eating healthy and I started a journey of self love years ago after neglecting myself for years. I attracted a wonderful man who has lately been saying I don’t need to do what I do to my hair… he likes natural..and yet what I’m doing is what attracted him in the first place… hmmmm
@BrooklynBaby1008 ай бұрын
Don’t listen to anyone but yourself. If that hair makes you feel sexy and hot AF, keep it! ❤💞🫶🏼🤗
@ayumisae68648 ай бұрын
@@squreshi8413👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@Jessica-ko1eg8 ай бұрын
@@BrooklynBaby100 thank you 😘
@Jessica-ko1eg8 ай бұрын
@@squreshi8413 👍
@Fotography_by_jenn7 ай бұрын
He wasn't attracted to your hair, he was attracted to the confidence the hair gave you. I
@yoongoboongo2318 ай бұрын
i recently started investing a lot of money and time into my skincare and haircare, but worried that i was becoming too vain. thank you for this video, and i feel a lot more confident and happy putting energy into my external self
@PreMal20232 ай бұрын
Since when taking care of your body is considered vain?
@maddyG74148 ай бұрын
Found you on Hailey Gamba’s video. Absolutely love the idea of ELEVATING and ENHANCING what you already have, rather than trying to change your looks to suit arbitrary external standards. I want to pour into the best external version of ME, rather than trying to get a body shape that isn’t natural for me, hair and makeup that doesn’t suit my personality and clothes that aren’t cohesive with my lifestyle. It’s also interesting how different people can be in what they find attractive. For example, you said you aren’t an ‘8’ but I looked at you and immediately found you to be very above average in terms of attractiveness.
@MMPutnam774 ай бұрын
Hailey is awesome! Also, check out Jaz Turner.
@Mmmmkaaay8 ай бұрын
I'm 50lbs. and a rhinoplasty away from being a solid 7. 🤣 Pro tip: if eyeshadow application intimidates you, try cream shadows. They blend much better than powder and are more forgiving.
@kako64178 ай бұрын
Girl just move to europe here we think big or slanted noses are beautiful, as well as any other features that make you special😂 i trully as european dont understand normalizing doing surgery for "beauty"
@Mmmmkaaay8 ай бұрын
@@kako6417 It's not slanted or has a bump...it is wide and rectangular at the bottom like a pig snout instead of coming to an elegant point. I would love to live in Europe, but getting a work visa is damn near impossible!
@alexdalton45358 ай бұрын
@@kako6417moving to Europe isn’t gonna help with the weight issue tho, everyone’s skinnier there
@kako64178 ай бұрын
@@Mmmmkaaay im sure you look majestic ❤️
@kako64178 ай бұрын
@@alexdalton4535 true. I have no idea why tbh. I mean everybody i see on yt go to gym and watch what they eat... here almost nobody goes to gmy and also eats bread f9r breakfast (mandatory), pasta and even soup with pasta and bread haha still skinny. I would say its walking I mean we walk everwhere and most historic city centers where majority people go to work cant be appoached with cars only pedestrians.. so i walk for like 3 hours total min a day but you dont feel it hope this helps so yea you would get skinny in europe haha
@Aloha6988 ай бұрын
I lost 10kg from August to December 2023 , it’s totally possible, and I feel 1000% prettier ❤ also , I feel so powerful for have done it
@madhushreedas4128 ай бұрын
She deserves a million subscribers😮❤❤❤.... Girl you are better than every single one on KZbin😮
@natashajoyy42238 ай бұрын
pleaaase do more videos on clothing and such, lets analyze pictures, lets do body types, lets do colours and building your wardrobe practical tips
@VickitaTrivedi8 ай бұрын
I have a whole video detailing all of that!! But this weeks video I will focus on building the wardrobe :)
@ElisePink8 ай бұрын
Thank You 💜🌟💎 I have experienced my body glow up. In June 2023, I got a basic fitness gym membership. Each week or each month, I have lost weight. This has taught me to value my body + myself + to practice self love. My jeans feel looser. I am happy that I have learned to be disciplined to lose the excess body weight. I have learned to help my natural curves to look their best, without obesity. Thanks for creating this video. This is encouraging.
@zeinaraya37613 ай бұрын
"it's a breath of fresh air for other people to look at something they've never seen before" Thank you so much for this ❤ That will definitely stay with me 😊
@isalisa9098 ай бұрын
Another thing that people always forget about skincare is what they put in their body. A lot of sugar can cause acne. Get the right vitamins into your body and drink more water than soda. Try to sweat as well by moving your body. You will notice the difference when people notice it
@rubylove94758 ай бұрын
💯 I learn this last year and change my whole diet, it’s a life changer. I tell my friends all the time.
@sarausage8 ай бұрын
first of all its the bare minimum to drink water I dont know why u have to tell people this unless u weren't doing it urself and I dont understand people that drink soda I dont like soda never did from the age of 16 and on to me it felt like I was drinking sugar when I could eat if from candy whenever I felt thirsty I drank water but water doesnt get rid of acne it just helps drinking it for ur body to not feel dehydrated
@m.mancarr7458 ай бұрын
You're speaking facts!!! Thank you for coming straight to the point. I also love your strict tone, it's way more effective than coddling someone with false hopes! You are so amazing and helping me so much, I'm gonna cry 😭😄❤
@Ariel-wk3ol8 ай бұрын
I really appreciate the high quality content. And the cherry on top is that you're not pushing sponsored items at us all throughout the video. Much love to you🙏🥰
@styledoll37004 ай бұрын
Just so you know, the channel “feminine retreat” published a glow up video from two months ago that used the exact same words you did in your video here
@Cookie-wt4uz8 ай бұрын
Beware before whitening your teeth using whitening toothpaste or something very exfoliating because it causes sensitivity and reveals the inner layers which is actually yellow in colour so it will be a loop . So consider decreasing consumption of substances that can cause yellowing. Just saying incase anyone needed to know 😁
@missdee1238 ай бұрын
Thank you, I've been wondering why my teeth are now looking yellow when I've been using whitening toothpaste.
@jennahenry44268 ай бұрын
Your teeth absorb stains. I had Zoom whitening done last year, and I was told not to drink coffee, eat chocolate, and stay away from red sauce for 3 days. That way, my teeth wouldn't absorb the stains again. Now, the whitening tooth paste work the way it's supposed to.
@oxjuliaaaxo7 ай бұрын
Whitening toothpaste makes my teeth so sensitive 😬 it's horrible
@fembot5218 ай бұрын
The trick is that people who love themselves fully also look wonderful!
@MysticaFaery8 ай бұрын
Some encouragement, it is possible to go from thin to thick, longer hair naturally. Even with fine hair. This was my hair goal in 2023 and the difference is huge. Natural and heat less care worked wonders. Time time and work, but completely doable. Bonus advice- get yourself a pretty mirror. Makes hair and make time more fun. Framing the beautiful woman you are.
@juhi_yadavv8 ай бұрын
Make more videos about style I am a 20 year old girl and let me tell you the thing I am learning from you is making me a new person i always compare myself with ig girls but now i unfollowed all girls and more positive about myself and ready to transform myself all i want to say thankyou ❤️ you are like my big sister now love form India ❤️
@MHcp87 ай бұрын
I'm reminded of the glow up part of the movie My Big, Fat Greek Wedding where she transformed from self-described "frump girl" by making targeted changes in her posture, dress, and makeup that made her FEEL more confident. And she didn't have to look like the carbon copy of all the white girls she previously compared herself to! I think the key here is to do whatever makes you personally feel the best about yourself (because the feeling is the secret) and definitely lean into what makes you unique.
@AdriannaDominik-gc7ijАй бұрын
Girl! Wow! Thank you for saying out loud what most of us think
@mpch62988 ай бұрын
If anyone STILL has any doubt, remember what V said showcasing internal through taking care of external, "what is not SEEN, goes UNNOTICED". Point blank period.
@ShaySunshyne8 ай бұрын
This video validated so many things that I’ve been trying to help others with. I did all of these tips these last few years & I am happier & attract MUCH better men.
@ericaferrer7 ай бұрын
I'm a feminist and I absolutely love your videos. There is nothing wrong with being feminine and desiring the male gaze whilst also being a strong, self reliant woman. Since I've been existing in this divine feminine space, I've landed a masculine, yet sensitive, loving, leading man who makes me feel so naturally soft.
@andreacharais80708 ай бұрын
Already set my self-care goals for 2024, but I'm going to love following you and getting these amazing tips along the way!! Thank you for helping us women build the best version of ourselves :)
@sonalimartinii8 ай бұрын
I LOVE how zero bullshit this video 🥹🥹🤍🤍🤍🤍 Thank you queen.
@vikki86998 ай бұрын
One thing I have learned is, food is fuel not comfort. So now, I eat when I am hungry and drink plenty of fluids. These tips are great! For hair, I use Function of Beauty products which I can modify the formula to my hair type and my hair is so much more healthy! I recommend it! :D Thank you for this video ❤
@emberk398 ай бұрын
Its so vital to feel confident in your exterior. Love this
@tereza52118 ай бұрын
I have been using coconut oil for my skin all over body everyday after shower (instead of vaseline). It's the best. People think I look over a decade younger 😆
@a.b.24052 ай бұрын
Omg I do the same!!
@godschild87518 ай бұрын
What you said about how you dress is backed by science! They found that the more skin you show the more likely you are to be seen as short term partner (fling, one night stand) and the less flesh you show the more likely you will be perceived as a long term partner (wife.) The book is why men want sex and women need love. It also has a section that helps you to increase your mating rating, it breaks down what men and women prioritize in both a short term and long term partner
@Anavaeebaee8 ай бұрын
Watching this video as I’m doing my makeup and getting ready, helps so much ✨✨
@LadyMinNYCАй бұрын
I have always maintained that one's appearance significantly influences how they are perceived by others. The current widespread promotion of body positivity appears to be a marketing strategy utilized by companies to capitalize on the insecurities of women.
@Mhmm_Laken7 ай бұрын
I like that your advice is bold, but respectful & encompassing of others. A+
@AhsokaTano1016 ай бұрын
i thank you for being straight forward. stubborn people like me need this
@karlad.65066 ай бұрын
Assessing myself in photos has really helped me determine what needs to be improved.
@Plottoberry8 ай бұрын
Im buying better clothes, picking the ones that really fit my body well and colors that look nice on me. I feel much classier. I used to look messy and didnt really care. The only thing I still struggle with is my hair. It bounces around everywhere and not in a cute manner. Its less frizzy and more volume (I have wavy thin hair) but now I guess I need to learn how to style it. At age 33.
@sarah.j.7778 ай бұрын
And the main importance of this is opportunities. If you look like shit, people are going to treat you like shit. Sad reality but still REALITY.
@JulietRosa8 ай бұрын
When you look good you feel good 🧚♀️✨
@MB-xv7er8 ай бұрын
This is why I’m happy I invested in a lot of plastic surgery. Beauty has opened doors for me. Don’t believe the lies of feminism and body positivity lol… being hot has seriously changed my life compared to before
@Maggiebenjee8 ай бұрын
OK sir. Obvious troll is Obvious.
@MB-xv7er8 ай бұрын
@ newbeginningz23 I am a woman so don’t call me sir. There’s nothing that I said that’s “trolling” lol the truth is being prettier does change people’s life; deal with it
@MB-xv7er8 ай бұрын
@ newbeginningz23 I am a woman so don’t call me sir. There’s nothing that I said that’s “trolling” lol the truth is being prettier does change people’s life; deal with it
@fairygodmother1398 ай бұрын
Tf has feminism gotta go with it
@MB-xv7er8 ай бұрын
@ fairygodmother139 Read the comment sections of videos where girls got plastic surgery and look at what feminists say to them. That’s all I’m gonna say
@artisticblue3626 ай бұрын
For anyone who wants to up their hair game, the blowout professor on youtube has been ✨️ life changing ✨️ for me! I have had colored hair since I was 12 but my hair feels so soft and silky and unbelievers shiny now despite still doing rainbow colors 😊
@Desi_Laine8 ай бұрын
What do you suggest when your mental health is so bad, you don't care/can't take care of yourself?? Will you make a video on that please?? I love your videos!❤
@wafa_xo8 ай бұрын
Your mental health starts to improve when you start to take care of yourself. You don't need a video, you just need to pick one thing in your life and start somewhere small, build momentum, and keep it going. You've got this. 🎉
@tula14338 ай бұрын
One day at a time helps me. Instead of thinking about the whole plan, and getting overwhelmed i just worry about the day in front of me. It’s way easier to tell myself “okay tonite I will shower and shave my legs and put on amazing smelling lotion” then saying that, while also adding 10 extra tasks that I can’t get done that day like “loosing 40 lbs” or “growing my hair 10 inches” haha just focus on the little victories and don’t overwhelm yourself with a huge list of things that can’t get done in one day!
@tula14338 ай бұрын
Start by getting a box of hair dye. Whenever I dye my hair (even by myself) I feel like refreshed and ready to start fresh! Even if you don’t have greys etc, a fresh color in a shade darker or lighter can totally change your vibe! And it’s cheap!
@TLW3698 ай бұрын
Personal Observation: Folks were irritated by me in the first place, so my glow-up is REALLY driving them insane (and yes, I love knowing that it does). 😂🙃👸🏻
@IsKaiOkay8 ай бұрын
wow. needed this. AND you made a workbook with product links... you're truly an angel thank you so much
@sarahw33236 ай бұрын
1. I really, really wanted to clutch my pearls and be angry about this content, but I can't be, because you're absolutely right. Our external appearance matters. 2. I can't help but notice how many middle-aged women (my 46 yr old self included) and older are commenting on videos like yours and other younger creators. Thank you for making your content accessible and inclusive! We can all learn from one another regardless of when we were born ❤️
@VickitaTrivedi6 ай бұрын
im glad you gave the video a chance and found it valuable :)
@tritdel97588 ай бұрын
I just discovered your page and I'm already obsessed with all your content. So much useful information, I can't wait to watch all your videos. 🤩
@aviana38418 ай бұрын
Laser hair removal is such a life hack. I love it
@corrine.talbot88 ай бұрын
I'm in the UK for like 3 months, or so, and haven't put makeup on me during this time. This video is making me realise the mistake I made. From tomorrow I start putting makeup on!!!!!
@DollarsandCollars8 ай бұрын
I love how organized and intelligent you are 😍 so helpful and beautiful 👏
@Sidera178 ай бұрын
I have been stuck in the house chronically ill for 6 years. Part of the illness affects my skin and hair and causes a hypersensitivity reaction to almost all hair/beauty products. (For those curious, google MCAS). I had given up on my style and appearance in favor of practicality of maintenance, and instead did a lot of internal work. (I'm still far from complete there). I attempted to meet people last year without doing the physical work and had my butt handed to me. I bought SO much into the internal stuff that I forgot that external still mattered. I'm glad you're finally talking openly about it. Looks are weighted more for women in society. They aren't the be all and end all, but appearance does dictate how we get ACCESS to spaces. Once we get access, the internal work is what we bring to the table. But we have to get in the door first. For me, taking care of myself beauty-wise is Hard Mode, but since I've slowly started, noticing the improvements have encouraged me to keep pushing. When the external starts to reflect the internal, you feel so much more confident in yourself. Thank you for the chart and the inspiration!
@elledabrow8 ай бұрын
Cocoa Butter, Coconut Oil, Olive Oil or even Castor Oil are much better natural options for moisturizing the body then Vaseline which has petroleum jelly in it and tends to just sit on the surface of the skin. The more natural the better! Love this video but some of the specific product recommendations I'm surprised by and like nah ah.
@VickitaTrivedi8 ай бұрын
Thanks for these recs!! I had no idea about Vaseline as it's been passed down for generations in my Indian family 😅 Always open to learning new things/alternatives!
@CeeJay.S8 ай бұрын
I was looking for this comment!! I personally love shea butter. Bless!
@sundaylibre8 ай бұрын
"The more natural" isn't necessarily better. In many instances, natural is just toxic.
@alicefla818 ай бұрын
But that's what Vaseline is for, creating this barrier, preventing the loss of hydration.
@melaniebroome75767 ай бұрын
Vaseline is not healthy for us to be absorbing into out skin. I agree with Shea butter, cocoa butter, grapeseed oil, jojoba oil, or coconut oil!!
@MoonLightt578 ай бұрын
You're truly helping me go through tough times❤ love from India 🌸
@stephanielafever76803 ай бұрын
I love this I’m always afraid to tell people that looks matter and can be optimized
@aycinosman5 ай бұрын
As a 16-year-old girl, you helped me out a lot with this video. Thank you!
@scribe_87338 ай бұрын
The bonus was bomb. Let alone the rest. Gold mine thanks a million
@briannarios13018 ай бұрын
Ironically, I’m watching you as I’m working out! 😌
@evb1601Ай бұрын
I am enjoying and, actually, binge watching your videos. I am almost 70 and feel like 40! I am learning things that I never learned. I have a question for you. What is that lovely necklace you wear? It is so very pretty and it really suits you. Thank you and bless you.
@thenursebey388 ай бұрын
I'm so glad I just found your channel! I'm looking forward to so binge watching your videos and applying your tips! ❤
@Jordan-db2og8 ай бұрын
Im a 4 thats BEEN a 7 😭 im getting her back this year i swear
@Emilygrace20238 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤ comment and liked before I even finished the video. Just so excited for my 2024 Glow Up.
@bethaminkhan49516 ай бұрын
Love her and her videos... Just amazing.. Now I just need the tongue scraper.
@VickitaTrivedi6 ай бұрын
Thank you Beth! Tonge scraper is key!
@hannahdaniels56408 ай бұрын
Omggg as I was binging your videos last night! I posted on TT and tagged you recently one of your quotes that has stuck with me! So happy to see you've posted. Keep shining boo! 💋
@prufrock769720 күн бұрын
SO cool and interesting about the tongue scraper in Indian culture - getting that and face tape ASAP thanks
@happilyhired6227 ай бұрын
Such amazing content! Just ordered the at home peel- all for DIY treatments
@dineosibiya2123Ай бұрын
Love your honesty..looks matter ,but we to be patience and not expect magic ,like skin care and exercise ,just subscribed ,watching from South Africa..thank you
@Peridot078 ай бұрын
To all those wondering the best and most effective skin care is the most simple one
@timelessredlipstick7 ай бұрын
I love microneedling and will choose it over peel. Microneedling has done wonders for my skin and I love it.
@theMadame.M8 ай бұрын
Just discovered you last weekend. Have been listening to you religiously! Thank you for all of this direct, no frills, helpful info! 🙏🏽
@jessnstovall20108 ай бұрын
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR!!! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU ❤❤❤
@SirenaSpades8 ай бұрын
1. Lose weight. Being fat is not ok. 2. Go back to number 1. No amount of makeup or positivity can make anyone overlook how much you've eaten.
@jj-og9nl8 ай бұрын
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@tula14338 ай бұрын
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@emmakusian87386 ай бұрын
You are absolutely amazing! ❤ Thank you for this video 😊 This really helps me!
@avenginggoddess8 ай бұрын
Thank you for the info on castor oil and tanning drops. I'd love a video of more of these kinds of very small things that have a cumulative huge impact.
@BreMue8 ай бұрын
Amen, take care of your body, but not at the expense of your mind
@SheDetective4 ай бұрын
Extensions leads to bald spots over time, especially for people with thin / fine hair. Stick to shoulder length styles, volume mousse. Braid it for waves, curl rarely to prevent breakage. If you must get extensions, only use a halo! Do not get bonds, tape, glue extensions or you’ll ruin your hair
@XenaDarlene5 ай бұрын
If you truly love yourself, you wouldn’t be neglecting your body. The mind, body, and spirit is all connected. One cannot thrive with the neglected.
@moonlightstargem10068 ай бұрын
Some people do not need a lot of work done to them. Sometimes it’s good to know when to stop. If you already have good eyebrows you don’t need to improve them
@VickitaTrivedi8 ай бұрын
Definitely agree! Important to outline strengths as well
@deepti24802 ай бұрын
Hi Vickita, i keep coming back to this video…. There are so many tips to learn…face tanning or face taping is relatively new here in India. It would be great if u could do a video of ur night routine n also ur makeup video. Great content. Keep it coming!!!
@rosasumilepalermogofredo83337 ай бұрын
Subscribed ❤ Been binge watching your videos cos you’re like the glow up sister we need in our lives 😉❤️
@ccclllaaaiiirrreee8 ай бұрын
You’re the big sister I’ve never had ❤️ and you’re gorgeous
@CaramellaXOxo12208 ай бұрын
I’m so glad Hailey Gamba put me onto Vickita❤
@asavvina8 ай бұрын
Love your videos. You’re so well spoken and truly understand what quality in a person is, from the inside out. Thank you for speaking up in the age of celebrating unhealthy bodies and habits.
@cdtv925 ай бұрын
Excuse you, you’re a freaking TEN out of ten 🤩 great video! I just subscribed 😎
@Samira-k4t7 ай бұрын
I was happy surprised - girl did the inner work and collected good knowlege! Thank you for sharing your work! ❤👍🏻
@xyz-gx9oyАй бұрын
Great advice! Thank you! 💕
@hilu10238 ай бұрын
Girl you are 10++!!
@ebeley947 ай бұрын
You're giving me elder-sister energy 👏
@vvn03058 ай бұрын
Money & looks matter more than people like to admit. Great video!