How to Attract Women Sexually By 'Being Yourself'

[@matthewmaddox4924]

I bought The Flow over 10 years ago while I was back in Uni and really struggling with the confidence to approach women. I remember feeling as if though somehow I might be inconveniencing them if I were to approach! Anyway I read about a third of the book, went out and had one of the best nights of my life. I approached girls easily, and got with three girls in the same night, also getting a phone number from the hottest one. It completely changed the game for me. This was a far cry from my previous experience I can assure you! The dawning realisations for me were that girls want you to approach, they want to find someone as much as you do, and know that it is your job as a man to approach and most will give you a window to see you are compatable. Dan I still watch your videos on a regular basis - thank you, your work has helped me massively.

[@DanBacon_]

So good to hear! 😄 Thanks for sharing that Matthew. Some guys will think you're exaggerating there, but I know it's true. When I used to take guys out to approach and meet women and teach them The Flow secrets, they'd get those kind of results results. I remember one guy being so overwhelmed with the results he was getting that he had to sit down. He was shaking his head saying, "I can't believe this...I can't f**king believe it" with a huge smile on his face for 5 or so minutes and he then got right back into it. Once you know how to do it, the world of women opens up to you. It still amazes me to this day that 99% of guys don't know about this. Thanks again for sharing your success story Matthew - I really appreciate it and also appreciate hearing from you. It's so good to hear from guys who've actually put The Flow techniques into practice properly. Enjoy the great times ahead for you man! Cheers, Dan 👍

[@SlayElsair]

It's great to see the direction in which Dan's videos lead: on the path to hope and self-improvement. Not red-pill, misogyny, hate towards women, nor contempt, or even expecting women to change (even if it is "irrational" behavior) Just focusing on ourselves. Cheers, man, hope more content makers are like this.

[@spider_0892]

Hey Dan I'm 16 and have been watching you since I'm 14. I've gone through so many phases like the redpill rage etc.. But I always find myself coming back to your videos becuase your so knowledgeble and right. Anyway just wanna thank you for sharing your knowledge for all these years.😊

[@DanBacon_]

Great to hear man. If I can save some guys from ending up going from red pill to purple and black, then I'm doing a good thing. Some things about the red pill scene are good, but most of them are way too negative and just sit around complaining about women. Real men find a solution, use it and get on with enjoying life.

[@andresjimenez6282]

Perfect age to start watching Dan Bacon. Enjoy

[@Latinblood59]

How lucky for you to have found this information at your age! I didn’t learn until I was 18 and I had to read books! Lol

[@damianmatthee9745]

Damnnnn boy you lucky a f to start at this age. Anyway when I was ur age I was kinda like a natural. But not until after i lost my high school hottie due to being an asshole. Mostly physical abuse. After that I fell my natural everything I lost it idk how. Until now I struggled a bit got an average got lucky at 26 years and went straight to being insecure coz if my job etc all the bs that doesn't even matter. I couldn't understand w t f was going on lost her due to insecurities and all the crap connected with it. And I stared searching furiously online for help. Found Dan after watching his videos compared to these other fools who always introduced themselves and beg for subscribe and shit. Mann this guy makes so much sense. I had to buy the flow. And man the best thing it ever bought with my money. Am definitely gonna buy his other books as I go forward. Dan is a True Legend.

[@nalakirkwood4425]

Top shelf content. The last 5 minutes was gold, due to its authenticity

[@ccraig4399]

I watched a lot of your videos and I gotta say, you are the best dating/life coach for men. A huge study was recently released were the goal was to understand which attribute gave the most success in dating. Suprise, suprise they concluded it was humor. I immediatly thought about your video were u talked about creating that sexuall spark with humor and confidence. You are so right and its scientifically proved. Marry christmas champ!

[@DanBacon_]

Cheers man 🫡 👍 BTW: If you could share a link to that study, or let me know how to find it that would be great.

[@silversurfer7223]

Man like Dan is going through purple patch with the videos of late. This one is a proper banger. Thank you Sir! 🙏🏾

[@BADLMNOP]

Bro really is a gem. Been going no contact with this girl half my age cuz I’m a born again virgin and made oodles of errors, but she’s young and playing games and the dating scene has completely changed since I last ventured forth in 2015. So I’m on a steep learning curve. Been binging no contact videos and downloading a new mindset with girls and it leaves me kinda mad and unsettled. But you’re refreshing to hear regardless. I have the means within me and if and when that lil philly wants to step back on, she needs to come correct or it’s DOA. It’s whatevs, but I likes you brobeans. Thanks. Lots of pretty people to meet and work on my social skills with. Merry Christmas

[@talknight2]

Maaan. It took me such a long time to figure out the concept of playful teasing. After I had my first girlfriend I realized at some point that I was comfortable doing it naturally because she was already clearly interested in me.

[@vijayam1]

Dan, f*@#ng love you. The effort you take and the energy you put into these videos just so men-kind can gain the confidence they deserve. My man, we all can't thank you enough. There might to tons of Uncles and Coopers out there, but if we all know who delivers it the right way, kind way and sensible way. Happy New Year to you Dan!

[@simonthepukkapieman1387]

Great video Dan, your spot on here. From first meeting her, I've always been joking and teasing with my current girlfriend, she never knows what to expect. I say some of the most outrageous things that would make most people's jaw drop but its always from a loving place, she loves it and that's what matters. Merry Christmas!

[@beecee5668]

Brother I appreciate you!! So many times people say” just talk to her and be confident”. Like it’s so easy. To the unconfident man that statement is the moon. You have given men a “Go-by or template” to use. Thank you and god bless.

[@ralfj.1740]

Happy New Year Dan! Best wishes to you and your family! Cheers from Germany 🎆🥂

[@huckwalton2307]

You know what I like about you? You are genuinely interested in bringing out the best parts of men, and not being a manipulative playboy. Learning about and improving yourself is always a noble act.

[@dylanharrison3750]

Glad you posted for this topic, I obviously haven’t watched this video yet because it just came out, but the problem I’ve had in the past with being myself, is beforehand I had not a lot of success with women, but after watching the modern man I did have success, but before was I not being myself? It is kind of hard to explain, but at times with the modern man techniques I felt a bit of imposter syndrome, but I guess confidence is being your true self, while simultaneously becoming better, but I can say that when I’m not watching your content for extended periods of time I revert back to less confident ways. I think In the being yourself aspect, it is a bit about enhancing your personality and being less filtered, I guess just being your true, genuine, self. I’ll watch this video tomorrow when I have time off to bed now, cheers.

[@DanBacon_]

Yes, it (i.e. being a confident guy who is attractive to women) does take a bit of getting used to because you've spent most (or all) of your life not feeling that you aren't good enough. However, when you interact with attractive women and they feel attracted to you and you then have sex and/or a relationship with them, you begin to grow into your new level of personality and being. You feel aligned with the fact that you are now attractive to women and let go of the old version you who didn't know how to attract women, or didn't feel worthy of women that you found attractive. BTW: The part in your comment about being less filtered is a good point to make. The more confident you become in your attractiveness to women (i.e. because you can display the traits mentioned in the video), the less you feel the need to filter and you eventually get to the point where you are 100% being yourself around women; except it's now an attractive version of yourself. It's a beautiful stage to get to because you realize that women feel attracted to you, respect you and want to be with you based on you being yourself. You no longer feel the need to seek approval, or try hard because you know that you are attractive to women and they will feel it when they interact with you. Cheers, Dan

[@Demonico-j7x]

Imposter syndrome is something I still feel a little of from time to time. I found it was much easier to shake it when I flew solo, away from my friends. The downside of that is that you’re on your own and don’t have a wingman. It’s starting to become second nature now and I am finding it much easier to just banter with random women at the check out and make them laugh. Practice it and then translate that comfortable feeling to talking to more attractive women and the results will come.

[@Josh-fp2qn]

I’m 35 and have had social anxiety my whole life. And it only intensifies around women I like. I will even avoid women I like or cut the conversation short with attractive women just to end the interaction because I feel so uncomfortable. I’ve never had a girlfriend. I missed out on critical experiences in my youth with dating because of this and it had affected my whole life.

[@dennyx11]

This was truly a refreshing video, I will needed this as Im going into the dating market soon.

[@BloumEM]

Hi Dan, thanks for the video. I have The Flow and some other of your courses. Very mind opening, thank you. The playfully challenging humor is something I still struggle with. I understand the principle behind it, and I feel it's FUN ! So I wanna do it to. But when I am talking to a woman, I find it difficult to have any ideas to tease her... When I know someone very well it's easy to mess around. But there, I feel mostly out of ideas. And then, when I hear some exemples, it feels obvious. But not in the moment. Have you some advices to trigger ideas when talking to women, to have more intuition about it please ?

[@DanBacon_]

Hi Emmanuel - great to hear The Flow and my other programs were mind-opening for you. To fix the problem you've been experiencing, you need to use the confidence technique that I explain at the start of the section on Confidence in The Flow. If you use that, then you will feel free to playfully mess with the woman and be yourself, which will attract her and which will also make you feel free and alive. If you don't use that, then you will naturally worry and try to impress her, which will turn her off and make you feel like crap. The technique in that section is a must-use technique for natural attraction and natural confidence. In terms of coming up with examples: Use the examples from The Flow to get used to it and you will begin to come up with your own examples in the moment. However, if you want many more examples, I recommend that you listen to this: store.themodernman.com/the_ultimate_guide_to_conversation.html Cheers, Dan 👍

[@Datalanche]

This video really speaks to me. I'm a very technical guy in profession and in mindset, and just like you describe, I can talk to women and they appreciate my kindness and intelligence, but simply put, I'm never the one they wanna have sex with. And I hear it all the time like you said, just be yourself.. just put yourself out there... you're a great guy... blah blah blah. It's not wrong advice but it's missing so much information. What you say makes a lot of sense. I see a friend of mine at work who flirts and gets female attention so easily, and I guess it really is because he's willing to say something edgy, willing to make fun of them a little, willing to not take them seriously... unlike me. I will take a chance and buy The Flow and try to take it in. I just hope I have it in me to truly make those changes. At 38, I feel like I've missed out on so much already, and may not have a lot of time left to try and get out there...

[@rivercatch8216]

The world would be a better place if this was taught to ALL males at an early age!!! THANKS AGAIN! Dan Bacon for helping others including myself!

[@damianmatthee9745]

Dan the man, this guy is true alfa. He has real self independent confidence. This man dont need to introduce himself or beg anyone to subscribe to his channel. And also he doesnt need anyones approval to wheter hes title "expert" rather then "coach" fits him or not. I can say with bold confidence this man needs a bells a a 18 wheeler full of beers and the title " relationship legend". Lmfaoo this man is responsible for making my life a 1000000000000 times better. Bros buy the flow aint no way u gonna regret it. Thats book is worth a 1000s of dollars. Best 100 dollars ive ever spent.

[@DanBacon_]

So good to hear Damian - you are on the right path now and it only gets better from there my friend. Enjoy the amazing times ahead with women!!! Cheers, Dan 👍

[@brcage]

Man, the women this guy was pulling back in the day, were 5 star stunners 😶🤯

[@DanBacon_]

Cheers man. Yeah, I had many good times out there. I remember on many occasions, I'd be having sex with a hottie, she'd be on top and I'd think to myself, "I love my life..." Such a fun experience to have as a man. BTW: None of those women approached me, or 'gave me eyes' to come and approach them. The only reason I had so many attractive women is that I was willing to walk up and start a conversation and then attract them. Most guys just look at women like that, but never talk to them. When you know how to do it, you are one of the rare guys who enjoys his choice with women.

[@lambomatt2]

@@DanBacon_yep that’s it made a huge change for me too, doing that i got the numberof the hottest girl on the train and it was a full train people looked nervous to approach her but she had one of those minature bull dogs i used to get convo used the flow there approaching makes a huge difference life changing

[@pravitt4852]

Cause he's a real deal.

[@ThatsJustLikeYourOpinionMan]

Im in my late 30s and wasted my 20s on a woman i wasnt right for. Now all the women want marriage immediately. I missed my chance gents, dont make the same mistake.

[@JohnSmith-ij4xe]

lol am myself everyday around gorgeous women as I have never cared what they think and not all women want me which is fine. The difference I changed recently is paying more attention to which women are into me and make them do all the work. I never knew they will do all the work if you pay attention and don’t act needy. Basically act like you have a girlfriend so you don’t care what they think. Shocking how many women you will attract.

[@nicocaorsi08]

Awesome advice, thanks Dan. Today im 18 and about to start university; just seeking for some dating advice cause back in high school I was the typical rejected “nice guy”. Deeply inside I know I can become that secure attractive guy. This is the first video of yours I’ve ever seen, just found you trough KZbin algorithm lol. Greetings from Uruguay !

[@MrMastera]

Dan, this video directly addresses what I was thinking for the past year. Somehow you continue to magically upload a new video that directly relates to my current situation and thoughts at the perfect moment. Wish you happy holidays and cheers for more videos to come!

[@shay-doran]

Dan this is a really helpful and honest video. So many times people have said 'Just be your self.' When I watched this, it really helped me to understand what to do differently.

[@lindsaylawncareservices9641]

i hope im not the only guy currently struggling with everything this guy just said.

[@vaccianicoore1054]

This video is deeply philosophical. I sincerely believe that Dan Bacon is the preeminent philosopher of women and sexual attraction. Cheers mate and Merry Christmas.

[@davidcasson5602]

Super advice Dan , I will be sharing this , well done 👍

[@DanBacon_]

Cheers - glad you enjoyed the video David 👍

[@Steve24527]

This is your best video EVER Dan because you’ve explained the attraction attitude the man should have 👍

[@anonymissed3611]

It helps if your opening line is "Hello, I'm Bacon."

[@AbirTarafdar]

Mate, I congratulate you. This is invaluable advice delivered in a really great understandable way. This is a really important channel for a lot of young and older men. So good mate. Top stuff 👍🏽

[@mikehaisell4301]

Thank you for doing this Dan! You make me feel like there is someone in my corner in the boxing ring.

[@makimamikasa02enjoyer]

Thank you so much for this video ur an qmazing human and we all appreciate u and ur hard work. Much loge from Greece ❤️

[@GeorgeT370]

Another great video....thanks Dan....

[@tiyopaenguin]

His surname alone is irresistible.

[@richarddavidson8266]

Incredibly revelation. Epiphany !! Thank you very very much ! It’s like I’ve suddenly become 3d colourful and connected . ❤

[@DanBacon_]

Great to hear it helped you Richard 👍

[@HarshaHetti-dq6kn]

Thank you, Dan, for creating an excellent and informative video. It's evident that a lot of time and effort went into this. People worldwide appreciate your dedication. Much love, brother! 😊

[@Demonico-j7x]

I always find it funny how women will try to help you hook up with other girls but they always give the least helpful advice (on average). They mean well but they don’t understand what makes us tick in a lot of ways, kind of like how we don’t understand how to stimulate their attraction tick.

[@CarstenMoreno]

Hey Dan, I love this video as well as the e-book The Flow! I wanted to ask you something. What's the best way to start an interaction with women in a loud bar or club? I feel like I struggle with confidence in a loud bar or club because I've realized it's difficult to have a conversation with them when the music is so loud. Should I just man up and speak loudly when approaching them there? Maybe it's a matter of speaking up and using attractive conversation starters while being confident and displaying other attractive personality traits you mentioned (emotional masculinity, charm, funny, etc.). I was thinking maybe I should interact with them further away from the loud music.

[@Itsallmeagain]

Thanks man! It allowed me to remember when I was single, how I was, more relaxed and I much more fun (in a good respectful way).

[@ashrafmohammad2784]

Hi Dan just to let u know that I've been following yr work for almost about a year now and I really like it. Your principles regarding dating and attracting girls really makes sense to me now. I just had a request for u....can u kindly make the price of the flow a bit less since I am from India and it is really too much for me to afford but I am really interested to buy yr product flow. Thank you

[@danygma8410]

Superb! For me you are a milestone, thanks for your information. It is something that sometimes I did but now I got more confidence and follow a plan.

[@Shikami85]

Hey Dan was confused about something. You said talking logically and straight forward is a masculine trait, yet if women are attracted to masculine traits why in this case women don’t like the masculine energy of being serious and logical ? Sounds to me that communicating indirectly (the way women do) it’s a feminine trait so why in this case is advised to use this approach to create sexual attraction ? Isn’t this a contradiction?

[@DanBacon_]

Talking logically is fine. However, as I always say and as I said in this video, the problem is when a guy wants to talk logically all the time. When talking to a woman, you don't need to talk like a woman. Instead, you need to add in flirting or humor and do it in a masculine way, as shown in the video. It's just something that needs to be added in to create a sexual spark. If you talk to a woman and there is magically a sexual spark without you doing anything (i.e. you are getting lucky), then you usually won't need to do anything to 'create' a spark. However, if you are talking to a woman that you find attractive and want to create a spark rather than hoping to get lucky, then you need to do something to create the spark. Using flirting or humor in a masculine way is one of the easiest ways to do that. Cheers, Dan

[@lint8391]

Women are attracted to the POSITIVE masculine traits in men. In the same way that men are attracted to the POSITIVE feminine traits in women. Talking in a logical straight forward manner is a positive trait in a business setting. In a social setting it's a neutral trait (maybe even a negative trait in some circumstances). Flirting with women in the way that Dan describes is more direct than having a "job interview" type conversation with them, whilst also displaying a better level of social calibration that coming out with an ultra direct "I want to bury my penis in you."

[@Shikami85]

@@DanBacon_ Thank you very much for the reply Dan ! I understand better now what you mean, btw I share your channel with all my male friends from around the world as I speak multiple languages. It would be good if you put subtitles in different languages in your channel. This channel in Spanish promotes your content a lot ( www.youtube.com/@AlejandroPeterson )

[@RenegadeOfLight]

Dan the Man. Bloody legend cob!! Since putting your book into action five years ago Wowza so much success 🙌 lot of saying the wrong things right and getting comfortable with sexual flirting probably the biggest thing that changed my life. Big ups Dan ❤

[@Abhishek.Sharma1991]

Superb content; makes a lot of sense; loved it; great job 👏

[@OhSoLucius]

13:25 I AM CRYING LAUGHING 😭😂 this is the advice I always needed. put exactly how I need it.

[@Brunonfire]

I once watched a video and the dude there said that you need to treat women like they're 10 y/o kids because they don't want to hear about any serious stuff or about ourselves, they just want to hear about themselves, funny things, gossip, drama and the like.

[@vikingconquest77]

I feel bitter and left out. All my friends and brothers have wives and kids and I have no idea how to play the game and don't understand how to get a good woman.

[@QUICKFLIX415]

Do i have to be a challenge with women who are not that attractive and are insecure? because everytime i try to be a challenge with unattractive woman she starts to "hate" me but if i do it to someone who is above 7 they love me.

[@dimitrisbochalis663]

8:17 I used to think that soo much it’s actually a joke 😂 you’re so right on this one changed my mindset completely thanks Dan! 🙏

[@SalRubino82]

DANNY BOY!!!! I don’t have a problem with going up and initiating I can get numbers from anybody.Closing is my issue.Im not always sure what to do with her once I have the numbz.

[@jameslawton3696]

Great video, a lot of good advise. Thank you.

[@Quincy82AAC]

Excellent video Dan Bacon and I fully agree with you.

[@SuchetB]

Dan you are a hero ⛩😎🎥 Thank you for all the amazing helpful advice all through the years ☀️

[@kuldeepkumarverma7934]

More than half the battle is already won ...if u just approach them

[@kieranmccabe2729]

You are right being nice just gets you into the friendzone

[@neilbradley]

Hey Dan - love The Flow - just purchased it a couple of days ago and listened to it - twice - to/from my folks' place 300+ miles away. I'm doing well already, but I have some specific feedback that doesn't make much sense to me in terms of actionable items. Are you available for consulting? Where can I find that info assuming it exists? Thank you!

[@DanBacon_]

Awesome - that would have been a great listen and I'm sure very eye-opening for you. Regarding consulting: I would love to coach you on a call, but I simply don't have time to offer that service anymore. Please see: www.themodernman.com/phone-coaching-closed.html However, I am working on something that should be available in a year, which will give men like you access to more coaching from me. Cheers, Dan 👍

[@DanBacon_]

Also, if you have a specific question, you can ask it here and my assistant will direct you to an article or video of mine that answers the question for you: store.themodernman.com/contact_us.html

[@neilbradley]

@@DanBacon_I did exactly that - thank you!

[@neilbradley]

@@DanBacon_Thank you sir! I'm inferring, from the data, that I need to work more on the creating spark/sexual attraction part with more specifics.

[@chibuezejerry2002]

Fantastic video Lord Dan of Ireland. As usual I have some questions that I really hope your answer this time...😏 1) I'm really confused man, I meet up with women and make them feel attracted and even collect their numbers but yet, when it comes to meeting up, the women seem to develop some cold feet. Why is that? 2) What sort of rejection trick do women play, and when is a rejection actually a rejection? 3) What do you do if a woman who is attracted to you but hasn't had sex with you yet asks for a favour? How often do you communicate a woman before the first date and is it important to call her that day of the date to remind her?

[@DanBacon_]

1) You either aren't attracting them enough prior to getting the number, turning them off via text or asking for the 'date' in the wrong way. Here's a video on the topic: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eKndiXSYl7OrqMk 2) Confusing question. 3) Depends on what the favor is and if you feel like doing it. If you're a good guy and are happy to help out and are not doing it to hopefully get sex, then you wouldn't be worried. If you are an insecure guy and are worried that she'll think you're only helping to get sex, then you might overthink it. 4) That is explained (and examples provided) in my program Text Attraction: store.themodernman.com/text_attraction.html

[@chibuezejerry2002]

@@DanBacon_ What I mean by number 2 is, you normally say that sometimes a woman will put a guy through a rejection trick just to test his confidence. Now I ask, whats an example of a rejection trick and how do you differentiate between a rejection trick and an uninterested woman?

[@mrr8702]

I appreciate your vids Dan, learning lots :)

[@Anguille2]

I should listen to one of your videos everyday of the week...

[@brianbard3410]

The analogy of male cleavage is a good one Dan.

[@benjaminhum9388]

Hej Dan, I assume you have reached you goals (at least the important ones) in life therefore now you're focusing on helping men more than before. You're giving out a +30 minutes video for free, that's crazy. We do not deserve you.. Merry Christmas to you and your family, I hope your daughters would be aware of these ways of attraction therefore they will be able to resist and choose the proper guys😜! You deserve a Nobel Prize!

[@DanBacon_]

Hey Benjamin - glad you enjoyed the vid and Merry Christmas to you too. Regarding my daughters: They will feel attracted to the traits that naturally attract women; it's automatic and nothing can stop that. I do hope they find a great guy though, who will truly love and respect them the way I do their mother. Cheers, Dan 👍

[@stevenoakley1255]

Hi dan. finally some has explained this topic in detail.will it work on a woman ive known for about a year thats recently started flirting with me?

[@davebird534]

Good stuff Dan!

[@Sigma77-n2u]

Problem is people can’t be themselves

[@MaxwellFerrier]

Great vid! Question : If you were able to sleep with so many women , how many nights (on average ) a week would you say you were going out ?

[@DanBacon_]

Once a weekend usually. Sometimes stopped to have a girlfriend for 3 months, 6 months and two times for a 1 year relationship.

[@sushiloli7490]

Sir, before 5 years ago i am no idea how to attract women but randomly or lucky became some girlfriend...but now i am a confident men and can attract a lot of women when i approach or talk to girl, it's only because of you taught me a lot of things...But now i am struggling to get rid with some women.she truly love me but i don't...she force to marry with me,if i try to leave her,she continuously call me and cry...The problem is that i randomly hook up with girl but after some months, girls cannot live me,if i try to leave girls,they totally lost her emotions...do you have any tips about how can i leave girls without giving pain, please sir give me some suggestions

[@anthonyfowler2623]

Not only that….but what happens when you and your dream girl get into a disagreement about whose turn it is to take out the trash…..

[@spacepants3]

Be yourself, but there are different versions of yourself. Picture yourself in a meeting at work with your colleagues and your boss. Now picture yourself at a bar with all your closest friends. Those seem like two entirely different people, right? But that’s you. That’s you being yourself in both situations. When you’re talking to a woman, the version of yourself that you need to imitate is the version of you that’s on vacation. The easy-going guy who wants to make everyone smile and wants everyone to feel comfortable and have a good time, that’s the most attractive version of you.

[@DanBacon_]

Well said!

[@sauron73]

Being myself don't work, don't being myself also don't work. So better don't be.

[@rene8235]

you nail it man

[@Ustinmitchell]

@28:53 the coldest advice ever lol it’s so true

[@Ustinmitchell]

You’re the best Dan

[@fryncyaryorvjink2140]

I'm good at pitching absurd ideas (funny), well that work too or should I stick to teasing

[@stevenrodriguez6900]

At what point of the interaction do you open up that you are seeing multiple women or that you want something casual

[@patrick22014]

Damn, this was great. Thanks Dan.

[@royalmotivation349]

I just love your videos 😮😅🎉😂

[@lambomatt2]

Have a great Christmas and new year Dan and family 🎄🎁 🎁 Started talking a really cool girl even cooler than the one from the train but she starting to go quiet I know im getting dragged into long texting which is risky, we usually talk about rock music, horror movies and games been to her place once, met her 3 times now usually she always is hanging with her best friend, is there a good way to smoothly get calling her more or even voice messages

[@ashishchoksi3484]

Hy Dan. Struggling to keep the conversation going can u guide please??

[@oja_830]

Man that thumbnail girl!

[@zombiekidcrazy]

Hey Dan. I bought the flow on another phone but a few months ago it broke and I had to get a new one. Is there any way I can recuperate the audio book copy I have without having to pay for another one?

[@DanBacon_]

For sure. You have free, lifetime access to redownload any programs you've purchased from my store. Just log in here at any time to do so: store.themodernman.com/login.html Enjoy the great times ahead with women! Cheers, Dan

[@zombiekidcrazy]

@@DanBacon_ lifetime access? Lol good to know I can still listen to this book when I'm 99 and in my deathbed. Though I'm sure I won't need it by then. Thanks!

[@TheArcturusProject]

This video is really perfect. Apparently I act more like a 300 year old vampire that never really assimilated into modern society. I’ll try to keep the gestures that distinguish her as a woman but not do them in so formal a way… I’m handsome and fun but my manners are borderline “m’lady” (tips imaginary top hat, kills self)

[@marvin2484]

Dan, sometimes I meet women who are chasing me hard but I not neccessary need them. So if I will make the first move are there chances to get somewhere with a girl I like and not giving me clear signals or women are the ones who always pick their guys?

[@comradeking4427]

Could you make a video on how to get an avoidant ex back?

[@daneoman1000]

I am 43 with 2 kids from two different women, and I just learnt how to tease and flirt this year is it too late for me?

[@coachPalle]

damn good video Mr. Bacon

[@bosnicc]

Will you ever do live seminars again ?

[@nowcastthedie]

The reason guys tell themselves this lie that being confident, charming, good with women etc is not who they are authentically is simply because they are frightened of what becoming that person would entail. It would entail facing your fears, going out and talking to women, risking rejection, making the wrong move... and for some guys the fear of that is just so much that they need a lie to tell themselves so they can excuse themselves from every having to pursue that in a way that feels morally right. As Dan deconstructs, this idea is complete bullshit. If growth meant you were unauthentically changing yourself you'd still be a f*cking sperm.

[@jameshetfield1792]

Hi Dan...can you make a video to tell us your definition of a perfect woman...

[@duwaynelangham]

Love the simple yet detailed breakdown of REAL attraction and success with women on this misunderstood "natural" truth that only comes with maturity, keep it coming bro!

[@albertsantos9966]

Love Mr. Bacons straight to the point game. Todd valentine does way too many complex formulas scientific. Mr. Bacon 🥓 simplifies things

[@peteratton3940]

Fantastic insights thanx

[@mohamedbntayb7967]

How can I get the flow i m in Morocco thank you Dan

[@DeepakSharma-mm4xm]

Hey dan, i got a girl with your technique you taught how to get your ex back super system. But i wanna breakup with her. And i don’t wanna hurt her. Can you share how you used to breakup with your girlfriends back in the time, it will be very useful for me and other men also. Seeking some guidance Deepak

[@DanBacon_]

Here's how to do a breakup: www.themodernman.com/dating/relationships/how_to_break_up_with_your_girlfriend.html Here's to have multiple women and avoid having to do breakups: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oaOtn5aDlNJ9g7s

[@Sleeper250]

What would you say to girls at the gym?

[@John-go5ef]

Very good.

[@briancanbefound]

28:16 is hilarious Dan

[@freakinccdevilleiv380]

28:05 Lol you can actually throw some of that in half jokingly after you've established the other stuff.

[@jamalwilliams1440]

Man this guy thinks EXACTLY like me everything he said about himself in the past I say the same shit about myself today is crazy