Being able to say “Screw it” is a sign of confidence. It is walking into a room and KNOWING that other peoples opinions of you do not matter. Learn to be indifferent to what and who make no difference.
@dominicboisvert95193 жыл бұрын
I’m always lik e that i am only Me knows and I’m Dom but free love to give light. I feel only that getting women to know that they finally found the one lost saoul waiting to be found
@frankytarheel3 жыл бұрын
Facts #Wisdom
@hensleyhensley5113 жыл бұрын
Thank you Richard
@hec2313 жыл бұрын
That was so well said! I still think you’re awesome, Richard.
@realistic.optimist3 жыл бұрын
@@hec231 the statement being indifferent is from Emperor Marcus Aurelius; thank you
@j.r.p.58503 жыл бұрын
I was once in a bar playing pool with a co-worker. I kept seeing this lady with beautiful blue eyes. So, I strolled over to her and told her, "You have the kind of eyes I could fall in love with!" I smiled and then went back to playing pool. As she was leaving, she walked up to me and asked me if I have a ride home . . . I told her no . . . and she took me home . . . . . to her house!
@ethosterros94303 жыл бұрын
Nice to know shes good at being fooled into one night stands.
@doxholiday13723 жыл бұрын
That woman was me. Plot twist, I was born male.
@xiijinpingthesupremeleader13493 жыл бұрын
@@doxholiday1372 *another plot twist* :you were born female but your gender surgery to male was done when you were baby. So you think you were born male
@counsela92403 жыл бұрын
@@doxholiday1372 🤭
@kabysummit58013 жыл бұрын
These replies are disruptive to the feel good fantasy story with many holes. But who's counting
@RDCstrengthandfitness3 жыл бұрын
I like to randomly scream at the gym "stop staring at me!" When there is nobody actually looking. Makes everyone confused.
@luckylefty813 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 i have to try this
@ritira20mila3 жыл бұрын
I do that, but when I am talking to myself in the mirror of the gym
@Melna20243 жыл бұрын
Well if there nobody around how do people stare at you
@timothykearns22323 жыл бұрын
ha!
@scottengel61663 жыл бұрын
I do that when lifting in my garage by myself.
@gerrick58034 жыл бұрын
My answer: Focus on yourself, be happy and confident. Females love that
@pagamenews4 жыл бұрын
I had a friend that was somewhat of an egocentric, megalomaniac. He had a live-in girlfriend for many years. So, when cell phones became affordable, he decided to get one. If it were me? I would have bought it for the girlfriend so that I would know she was safe, in case she broke down along a lonely highway or needed it for some other emergency. But my egotistical friend? No way. He bought it for HIMSELF. Big, masculine, tough guy that thought the world of himself.
@stevetreloar66023 жыл бұрын
Your gay right?
@stylez26793 жыл бұрын
Lol what if they don't notice how happy you are? Lmao what about when nobody cares? 💀
@bossmanbossman27543 жыл бұрын
@@stylez2679 then you are not happy find ways to make yourself happy become freely
@lepetitchat1232 жыл бұрын
This is a dating video for lesbians?
@guillervz2 жыл бұрын
My advice is: feel good wherever you go, listen to the music that motivates you, wear your favorite clothes everyday, just be yourself and have fun and make friends with everyone you meet, never avoid eye contact, try to make jokes with colleagues at work, even with the ones that you don't usually meet, be always nice to your family and pets. That will increase your confidence 1000%. Give also genuine compliments to the people you like: tell a female friend she looks great, tell a male friend he is awesome at his favorite hobby, tell your boss you respect their work.
@48some2 жыл бұрын
im 41 and i can tell you this is the best advice i ever gave and you are spot on!
@hueso5071 Жыл бұрын
I’ve done all that and still can’t get a date. 😂
@30daychallenge6 Жыл бұрын
@@hueso5071 Go out more, see and meet more women, seduction is like learning how to ride a bike, yeah you will fail but after after practicing youll get it
@WomenHitTheWall4 жыл бұрын
“It is not what you say to a women, but It is HOW you talk to them” Be confident and comfortable with The YOU.
@PeterParker-ff7ub Жыл бұрын
so you could say you will eat her
@jackkruese99294 жыл бұрын
Here’s a very good tip a wiser man than me told me once. If you chat to women you’ve never met before, like in a bar, it’s very important to make sure you leave the conversation and walk away FIRST and not her but say something like nice talking to you next time I see you I ll buy you a drink, very casually. Then 2 things will have happened, first she’ll see that she wasn’t in control of the conversation, situation but you were. And secondly you won’t have come across as either needy or predatory, which she ll like because you didn’t try and hit on her. Chances are the next time if she sees you she ll feel much more comfortable approaching you as a result. This really does work.
@billygoat18833 жыл бұрын
Sounds good to me. Good advice.
@ballhawk3873 жыл бұрын
As long as she's someone you're overwhelmingly likely to meet again.
@Ari-cb8pf3 жыл бұрын
@@BaltTV youre a simp
@Ari-cb8pf3 жыл бұрын
@@BaltTV who cares
@salzerilli47893 жыл бұрын
Another strategy that is more lazy that I use, is to talk to all the women around you that come near you by just making small talk and it can just be useless stuff like.. "Oh you drink angry orchard... I can't believe it.. [some stupid shit here]" . Each woman you talk small talk with, the one that was interested in you may actually walk up to you because she will notice you've talked to multiple women and she doesn't want to lose the chance to talk with you.
@Durgrim_4 жыл бұрын
I’m a singer and I was actually in the car today, singing locked out of heaven, just vibing and there was a girl who was listening. She started singing along and then I got her number😂😂😂
@karabomothupi97594 жыл бұрын
Pathetic
@handoverthejewgoldkyle33214 жыл бұрын
Did you leave the nuts hanging out
@pennywiser96073 жыл бұрын
“I’m 5’7” and went from total reject to eye candy by becoming skinny (shed 60 pounds and lost the belly and double chin) and dressing incredibly fashionable and smelling FABULOUS. Now I have a chiseled face and nice trimmed beard and wear fashionable glasses. The difference is night and day! I went from 100% of desirable women REJECTING me to women now APPROACHING and FLIRTING with me!! My life has completely changed!”
@TheR3negadeMaster3 жыл бұрын
Same brother I’m 5’8 and I’ve lost around 60lbs and started wearing real nice clothes…and I can vouch. Women actually check me out a lot and approach me nowadays.
@pennywiser96073 жыл бұрын
@@TheR3negadeMaster Congrats man it's good to hear about the changes that work in our favor!
@H3H3.podcast2 жыл бұрын
@@TheR3negadeMaster im 3 feet tall and can confirm
@mladenpavletic4068 Жыл бұрын
I have lost weight too. But everything remained the same with women.
@Abhijeetraurale12342 жыл бұрын
Summary: 1. Increase your Courage because women love Confidence. 2. Be friendly and open because women love friendly men. 3.If the girl doesn't like even after this, move on find someone else. Actions:. 1. Courage Affirmations. 2. Smile more often (friendly expressions.)
@Free-j3t4 жыл бұрын
Don’t let a deer tell you how to hunt
@lokesh26074 жыл бұрын
Very underrated comment BRUh
@Ken-iu2zp4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Erschado4 жыл бұрын
So much truth in this comment.
@alexmajors79154 жыл бұрын
Priceless.
@stevenpaplan71544 жыл бұрын
Good advice is good advise. No set gender can give you good advice over another. If you have trouble with women and are under this mindset, that's probably one of your biggest problems.
@BigORat5 жыл бұрын
It's illegal to flirt with women now. You just can't do it anymore or you'll get fired, or get sued, or get arrested.
@Des_.5 жыл бұрын
Lol that's because a lot of men come of as creepy and most women usually just want to do their job. The best way is start out as a friend and make your way up instead of pushing your feelings on her and expect a postive reaction.
@williamonderlinde51075 жыл бұрын
But this is primarily in a work/business//gov't work/ business environment. Harmless flirting? Hmmm.... the male pigs, the rich & powerful types (ailes, Trump, Moonves, etc.) went too far, WAY too far and basically set up a confrontational mindset or environment; a minefield /boobytrap (no pun intended).
@aldadragon34645 жыл бұрын
It all depends how you look. Sexual assault with these bitches today is easy to be called when you’re ugly. Ask Harvey Weinstein...
@eyevincast54405 жыл бұрын
Bigorat if that’s what you believe then you’re a quitter! M said a bunch gibberish nonsense but honestly what she was really saying is to embrace your masculinity and have the balls to walk over to a woman and flirt with her and MAKE her feel that she’s is attractive. That’s it. The rest is up to you.
@1perfectstrangerr5 жыл бұрын
You forgot Clinton & Kennedy..
@kroninn5 жыл бұрын
I tried all that but, a bunch of gay guys started hitting on me.
@Tripl33335 жыл бұрын
lol lol lol
@quinn125 жыл бұрын
Ha ha
@JohnM...5 жыл бұрын
They're not really gay - they just pretent to be to get girlfriends - ever notice how ONE "gay" guy is always surrounded by girls?
@matador16165 жыл бұрын
Poor guy
@Demon-Psychiatrist4 жыл бұрын
Stop bragging
@yourrboyfriend.3 жыл бұрын
Bruh I searched up “how to get your hamster to stop biting you-“
@rdhudon74694 жыл бұрын
I remember a few decades ago when I was young and single , I was in a club with friends . The music was really loud and I was bored as I always prefer joints with bands . I see these three girls all dressed to the nines and looking good . I observed guy after guy walk up to them and leave looking dejected and the girls would chatter and giggle among themselves as the dejected souls took their leave . I pointed this out to a couple of my amigos and they observed the same phenomenon . We all wondered why they were there if they are rejecting everyone . We thought this must be some sick sport to them . Being a sporting kinda guy I suggested my friends watch what I was about to do and enjoy. I walked up to the three ladies and asked the head honcho "Would you like to dance ? " She immediately rejected me with a snobby look said "No" I looked at her all confused and said "no what ?" She then said "I don't want to dance with you " I replied startled and confused "Dance ?" I said " You look fat in those pants !" and I returned to my friends . I started to laugh . They could see them talking and looking over at us and within a half hour they came over and joined our party . Lol .....true story
@fredwiggill3113 жыл бұрын
Good! you my man, i love what you dit.
@teamhuman23 жыл бұрын
Nice one fam the boomaring effects pump 👌👏👍💪stayed on got having !!,,
@JohnM...5 жыл бұрын
"...worth our time or not..." God, do women have a high opinion of themselves!
@lennysaunders72415 жыл бұрын
Don't we men do the same?
@nathanhummel26654 жыл бұрын
Actually, they are extremely insecure and then go on to objectify themselves.
@dkncd4 жыл бұрын
This is a video on how to attract women, why are you here if you don't like what's being said?
@dkncd4 жыл бұрын
@Mean To Girls ? your username tells me everything
@cameronwiltz874 жыл бұрын
Yes they do
@versatilelord88935 жыл бұрын
Great video marni. Women respond positively to a guy who’s bringing out a relaxed and chill vibe. The interactions just flow so smoothly and it’s easy for the both of you leading into courtship
@mtlicq2 жыл бұрын
_"bringing out a relaxed and chill vibe"_ -- and the women thought "he's not interested", got impatient, bored, and left
@bluegiant134 жыл бұрын
That part about the feeling of what you say being amplified 10 times more for women was exceptionally insightful. Thank you.
@treewisemenllc72814 жыл бұрын
After years of a relationship with the same partner, and becoming rocky.. This is exactly what I needed. Because that's who she was attracted to originally. You're a blessing, darlin ;)
@OmerAsh4 жыл бұрын
Title: how to attract women without saying a word Video: how to talk to women
@stevenrogersfineart42244 жыл бұрын
From one of the missing Sex and the City cast members :P
@igor93603 жыл бұрын
Be hot. Be tall. Be Rich. Be expert in social skills. Don't be nice but don't be mean either.
@DoodleDoo3 жыл бұрын
Women logic. And none of this shit will work if you're short, bald or ugly with no money. If you're handsome, you could just say hi, and she'd wanna bang.
@jbach72743 жыл бұрын
If you’re tall and handsome, you could take a dump on a random doorstep, light it on fire, hide in a bush.. and if the girl living there catches glimpse of you hiding while stomping out flaming sh!t covered in gasoline.. you’de definitely get laid over the short ugly guy that spent way too much time and energy trying to perfect unique boundaries.
@jerseysteelfitness69273 жыл бұрын
Shes so annoying
@Snap-Anzahl5 жыл бұрын
My go to line is "if you lower your standards I'll buy the beers". Works every time.
@TrueArcBaron5 жыл бұрын
No way lol
@GOONDA82115 жыл бұрын
yah .. they will have the beers and walk off lol
@fender10001004 жыл бұрын
No you fool its if you lower your PANTIES I will buy the beers. You get is wrong everytime BUTT HEAD.
@fender10001004 жыл бұрын
@Alexander Supertramp I dont. You are just jealous.
@actionpac.5374 жыл бұрын
@@fender1000100 hahaha
@cloakofanonymity4 жыл бұрын
Women like bad boys. I bring my parole officer with me on first dates.
@JO-ly3hi4 жыл бұрын
You mean your mom?
@jennifersmith96564 жыл бұрын
Your a loser bad boys are always full of themselves most unattractive thing ever you did knob
@jennifersmith96564 жыл бұрын
I mean dik knob
@JO-ly3hi4 жыл бұрын
@@jennifersmith9656 *you're
@JO-ly3hi4 жыл бұрын
@@jennifersmith9656 *dick
@johnf3975 жыл бұрын
Social conditioning, pop culture, the education system, and feminism has made a minefield of dating and relationships.
@michaelalguire4195 жыл бұрын
Yes, every now and then a woman will bite your head off. I try not to think about it however I wouldn't try anything at work.
@ryedubs17895 жыл бұрын
women have become the opposite of what was intended.... men too. it's a failed species.
@williamonderlinde51075 жыл бұрын
I agree. I commented below to "BigORat".
@tedsell14554 жыл бұрын
To much work and games 🐪💣
@jamelz4 жыл бұрын
Very good point it's true as if it's not hard enough somtimes then there's porn n masterbate on
@lawrenceyundt84894 жыл бұрын
Marni I'm 72 and my dress blues from the 66 still fit. The threads are a little thin on my black speedo from service in Rome 1970. I'm very comfortable in the community pool, just being the playful me, and it feels great! You are spot on. The ladies love it, and some men are quite inspired. They're making greater efforts to be fitter, to be healthier for their partners. My partner is ON, most of the time. Confidence is king! You're information is spot on. Simply be us, be playful and respectful and enjoy being fun to be with. Exude one's solid confidence. Marni, thank you
@adrishbasu16444 жыл бұрын
I did something no one can imagine. I on valentine's day went on the street downtown Atlanta and picked up a sign board which read looking for a valentine. So this one girl came up to me gave her number, and next month we are getting married. Btw this happened in 2014
@seekernotlost38155 жыл бұрын
I watched this vid with the volume off. Enjoyed it.
@salshamsi5 жыл бұрын
She's hot
@GrillaStyle4 жыл бұрын
She was speaking??
@Sports_Geek4 жыл бұрын
@@GrillaStyle your a jokestar? 😂😁😂
@GrillaStyle4 жыл бұрын
@@Sports_Geek i maybe saw her lips move but i didnt expect anything tangible
@donaldfisher30474 жыл бұрын
No she isn’t!
@Ghanaba235 жыл бұрын
Be successful and rich in whatever you are doing and women will flock to you...
@abra.hui.5 жыл бұрын
negativity will kill. If you would like to get women then work your ass and be successfull and rich. too negativity will get you more loser.
@LordHaragnok5 жыл бұрын
Well if you're successful then you're worth being with lol not necessarily because of the money you earn but because of the skills necessary to be successful being mostly attractive traits for men to have.
@Ghanaba235 жыл бұрын
@@LordHaragnok you nailed it!
@bitoyau5 жыл бұрын
This is glorious, I have been researching "what attracts man to woman" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Weyrayden Qiyvelyn Framework - (search on google ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my brother in law got cool success with it.
@alastor80915 жыл бұрын
@@LordHaragnok bs. It's all about the money. Plenty of motivated broke guys out there. You don't see them with mountains of arm candy.
@d.carpenter75195 жыл бұрын
Woman : You act heartless. Me : I had a heart of gold until you got your shovel out.
@redwingsfan36215 жыл бұрын
LMAO!!
@Yt_xrider5 жыл бұрын
Legend🤘👍
@UpInYourGrills5 жыл бұрын
Oh snap!
@rekless18755 жыл бұрын
Thats funny as
@najibcasa27455 жыл бұрын
This was great, thanks, been searching for "men attracted women" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Weyrayden Qiyvelyn Framework - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some incredible things about it and my buddy got amazing results with it.
@farshadfaghihi53462 жыл бұрын
You built my self-confidence with women.I love you Marni!! My wing woman.
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
She did the same thing too me
@bradwilliams49213 жыл бұрын
I enjoy listening to you, Marni. Confidence is the key. I have a critical problem. I can be confident around women that I am not attracted but I lose it when I run across a woman that I am attracted to. Net result.....I am 48 and single.
@Val-uj3nr Жыл бұрын
Single is generally better status anyway. You are free. I enjoy always having options to explore but not being tied down or having to answer to anyone.
@pauljcritchfieldiii73624 жыл бұрын
Man i did what these videos say , and i been slapped 3 times kicked once maced 15 times and arrested 3 times i give up ! Im going fishing .........
@danmandubwah4133 жыл бұрын
:-D
@jaswerner4193 жыл бұрын
,tooooo funny
@m.o.b.50113 жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
@coreymiller73173 жыл бұрын
lol if you say some of the stuff she suggests and aren't good looking you will for sure just be a creep, she never really mentions it's step 1: Be good looking.
@HollowXKnight83 жыл бұрын
lol
@ricomajestic5 жыл бұрын
I broke out into song on the subway and started yelling random shit and was taken away in a strait jacket. Thanks a lot Marni!
@masterlessmaster4 жыл бұрын
who told u to do that?
@Nobody924214 жыл бұрын
LMAO. Good one bro. The whole "make me happy" routine is like... over. Entertain yourself B. Or Chad and Tyrone will. Not me.. or my wallet. Sup?
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
💀💀💀
@dennism1035 жыл бұрын
We are sick of women's gd head games, we are walking away in record numbers...
@1jw2985 жыл бұрын
Dennis Morris not really, those statistics are blown out of proportion. Where there are women there will be men. Both sides need each other.
@jackjohnson73965 жыл бұрын
Correct, running away..
@lostmartyr68285 жыл бұрын
1jw2 you talk out of your ass thus you lie to people. You can look on youtube search records or google trends and easily see how many men are watching mgtow videos often. About 70%.
@lloydbishun435 жыл бұрын
Right, nothing is blowing out of proportion. This millennial generation has kind of ruined everything. Statistics now show Millennials aren't having sex, and also there's less babies being born now. It's because they themselves have put In-Place this me too, feminism movement. The women aren't old school social, like human anymore. The simple thing that could bring us back to normal, the women won't do. That's if you are an available person, and you stare and smile at a single available woman, 99 point nine percent of the time they will not reciprocate. This is the first step to any conversation. Isn't a smile better than a frown? Doesn't matter if you look good, cuz today they don't know how to take that either. You look good, they stare and quickly turn away...
@RM-nj3dz5 жыл бұрын
MGTOW ALL THE WAY
@keithbarnhart69524 жыл бұрын
What this really boils down to is that: men chase women, women know this. Being pursued leads to FAR more intimate encounters for the person being pursued over the person pursuING. Ergo, women can get laid whenever they want, so they have the luxury of being picky and doing things like focusing on the nebulous details of attitude, timbre, style, vibe, instead of the actual detailed constructs of what is being said. Desperation drives people to do things outside of the margins: A desperate mother needing to feed her child may prostitute herself, a man in danger of losing his home may turn to dealing drugs, a man desperate for intimacy may exhibit an attitude that turns off women, because SHE isn't desperate.
@targettarget33747 ай бұрын
I always hit the closed caption function when watching her videos. I need that edge because I swear this woman talks 100 miles an hour!
@Musician-r5q5 жыл бұрын
"How to attract women without saying a word." 1st story a guy approaches a beautiful woman, introduces himself and starts talking. Huh ???
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
💀💀💀💀💀
@bobinthewest85593 жыл бұрын
The only way to attract women without saying a word... is to sit quietly in a corner licking your eyebrows.
@TheGamer-eh2uz3 жыл бұрын
@@bobinthewest8559 😁😁😁😁
@ionly68055 жыл бұрын
I met my gf in a Walmart check out line... We hooked up,dumped our gf and bf and lived together since that first day... That was 4+ years and twins ago
@nighttimeguru51804 жыл бұрын
IonlyROBwhite DrugDealers breh rip yo gf and her bf. Ya both snitches
@yongpoop74094 жыл бұрын
@@nighttimeguru5180 how they snitchers??
@Nobody924214 жыл бұрын
Sigh... Clearly you are trolling. Almost got me. LOL.
@nathanhummel26654 жыл бұрын
Lol classic walmart trailer trash love story... God would be proud...
@bobinthewest85593 жыл бұрын
" ... and lived together since that first day..." ... right there in that Walmart parking lot. It's like our own little slice of... heaven.
@peterdayton39985 жыл бұрын
I get more hints and ideas from the comments than from the lady telling me that women crave chase and desire me !!
@Jefleopard4 жыл бұрын
Peter Dayton 👍
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
Haha, I always go straight to the comments.. 🔑
@abdourobust28904 жыл бұрын
This was great, I have been researching "why are young men attracted to older women" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Weyrayden Qiyvelyn Framework - (search on google ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my friend got excellent results with it.
@joetroutt74253 жыл бұрын
@@abdourobust2890 bs. Get out of here with that shit.
@howardg24352 жыл бұрын
One of the biggest things about embracing yourself, is getting away from negative people and influences in your life. Sometimes being by yourself, to really experience yourself, means being away from people. Just love yourself for the individual you are, because you are that way by nature. That's what people want to see, the true individual person, rather than someone trying to get approval from someone else's ideal of what they think you should be. People treat people this way, because they are insecure about themselves.
@samcotten24164 жыл бұрын
Been watching your videos and listening to your advice for a couple of years now, and I’ve only just now gotten the opportunity to actually use it. Got to admit, seems to work pretty damn well.
@modigbeowulf54825 жыл бұрын
I recovered from my broken heart. Thanks for all that gave advice, it really helped. Great vid M, thanks.
@ToCatchaCheater5 жыл бұрын
I was the guy hitting on her at the Grocery Store 😉
@raymckigney21184 жыл бұрын
It is not safe to say “I’m flirting with you” to a woman in public. Some may be ok with it, but others will have a metoo meltdown.
@Jonathan-qv6ch4 жыл бұрын
Bruh! On the vegetable Ile?
@rakjy56284 жыл бұрын
What did you buy in the produce store? cucumber? ;)
@JDrocks4ever4 жыл бұрын
But would you consider that cheating?
@cydwelllings55833 жыл бұрын
Lokl really .Good for you
@MC-vk2zp5 жыл бұрын
I'm going to go watch a video on how to understand my pet better 😂😁😂
@LuisRamirez-by2ci4 жыл бұрын
Agree
@anshitkumar63474 жыл бұрын
Bet you have a cat
@Nobody924214 жыл бұрын
If you want loyalty... Get a dog. You sure as f won't get that from a woman. She is never your girl. Just your turn.
@nickscanlon38294 жыл бұрын
Least you know your pet wont be fucking your best friend while you are at work.
@fredwiggill3113 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭
@sid42514 жыл бұрын
I use "I hear you're into bad boys, that's good because I'm bad at everything to begin with".. Good conversation starter
@williammawk17203 жыл бұрын
Years ago I woried about what to say to women that wouldn't we them off. I became a bartender and decided not to worry about what to say. When I stopped caring what they thought of me no matter what I said or how I said it they responded. I thought wow this is crazy
@ThePeacemaker8485 жыл бұрын
Summary of this video is basically Joey from friends: "how you doin?"
@Jefleopard4 жыл бұрын
ThePeacemaker848 👍👍👍👍👍LOL
@andrewmaher1423 жыл бұрын
ahaha
@joyalsaju88783 жыл бұрын
Yea man😂
@taariqkhanoflegend46223 жыл бұрын
But trouble is we all cant do it just like Joey😂
@dllort695 жыл бұрын
Marni, I got into your program out of curiosity.. I've studied pick up for a long time and I like the way your method on flirting.. flirting is the most powerful thing. You got a lot of good points that we should always consider when meeting women.. so I give you that. I do have to make a correction, its not about the attitude behind the words, its about the "feeling" behind the words.. ( Bruce Lee also talks about the importance of the "feeling" behind our words and actions) over the years I have noticed that whenever I "feel" with deep emotion what I say to a woman, either very sexual or romantic she gets instantly turned on.. that is the "vibe" behind the words... if I say the same words to another woman without this "feeling" then she won't feel connected to me... I am not sure how or why this works.. but this is the reason why cheesy lines DO WORK when used correctly... like you say, its not what we say but how we say it... I like your channel a lot. And you. ))
@TheTiger8815 жыл бұрын
I do get it. It’s called neuro linguistic programming or NLP. We emit our energy to others. Smiling is the key.
@nathanhummel26654 жыл бұрын
Smiling too much comes off creepy too...
@deivchoi3 жыл бұрын
I love the tips but acting like a weirdo in the street is NOT the way to boost mens' self confidence. I built up my self confidence learning to accept who I was and trying to work with what life gave me. Also, I did some things to improve myself like working out and researching stuff that would be interesting for women. Amazing content regardless.
@WilsonGreg17 Жыл бұрын
I bought a pair of wireless earphones the other day and would listen to music as I walked back and forth to the central mailbox on our street. At times, I felt so joyful listening to the music that I just broke out in dance on the way there and back. I've noticed now that some of my female neighbors 'just happen' to open their front doors and even walk down to the sidewalk. I was somewhat curious and I see a similar effect when I'm at the gym on the elliptical rocking out. Your C-Zone Effect explains what I've been experiencing. Wow!
@Sports_Geek4 жыл бұрын
Marni: gives great advice Me: no way in hell, i'm doing that
@RichardWilliamDamien3 жыл бұрын
That’s sad because that’s really the one video you have to applied to get you laid.
@blackbaron25723 жыл бұрын
@@RichardWilliamDamien and then get aids. The best get laid advice is practice guitar, become a multi-millionaire rock star. 100% success rate.
@RichardWilliamDamien3 жыл бұрын
@@blackbaron2572 I build my confidence mainly by cold approaching people. I’m still no millionnaire, no guitar player, not having aids... Basically you have to live to be proud of yourself and liking your life. And then when you meet a girl you have her attention. If there is a bit a of mental connection, you can get laid if you escalate physically.
@GallowsPole8055 жыл бұрын
“It puts the lotion in the basket.... It puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again”.....works for me every time when I whisper that into her ear.
@JonnyJDavidson5 жыл бұрын
Ha ha!!
@IAML84aD8now5 жыл бұрын
Nice Ahahaha
@carvedwooddesignbespokekit8665 жыл бұрын
Fucking awesome!
@gregsmith85945 жыл бұрын
Classic.(Period)
@tstjohn7774 жыл бұрын
Lol
@DRAVIN534 жыл бұрын
I practiced singing at my job. I work the drive thru and when I sang “ you’ve lost that loving feeling” an 18 year old girl started crying and gave me her number. I’m single but 45 what do I do please? I don’t want to break her heart and she comes visits every 2 days. She’s the perfect girl only younger.
@chumps79743 жыл бұрын
18 is legal. What's the problem?
@superbobmuffin4 жыл бұрын
Focus on yourself and be kind to everyone eventually a woman will notice you and approach.
@severrnijKGU3 жыл бұрын
yesh. thats a very good start. but it has to be a genuine goodness. if theres a hint of 'dont they know how hard i work for them??' or 'i need someone to help me with my sexual fantasies. they are pretty common so it may not be too objectionable' . or 'i dont need to repay my city's kindness to me.' you're gonna have huge problems.
@levonjenerette29013 жыл бұрын
Marni... I just want say how impressed I am with the 'quality of the videos that you put together, the 'quantity of information that is pack into them, and the impressively 'quaint personality (persona) that you have in delivering, narrating, them! ("It's just so ultra smooth, yes, absolutly' sexy. yet 'very calming, and educational, with this essence of 'empowering your viewers/ listeners!") And I've only watched two of your videos, and I'm already subscribed, and a believer! Now I've been following another female coach on KZbin for maybe a couple of months now that seems to be pretty good. But I really love, and admire the energy, and passion, that you project, that just makes me BELIEVE!...So, I'm hooked! "Thank You, for what type doing!" & I can't wait to learn more, and try some of these lessons out.... Please____ Keep up,👣 the good work!
@kurstone85115 жыл бұрын
Does your bf ever get jealous by you admitting you’re flattered/“get chills”when other guys flirt with you?
@JohnM...5 жыл бұрын
He's probably a knuckle dragger...
@Neptune9974 жыл бұрын
I tried this in a college bar when I was in grad school. I got banned.
@privateprivate66534 жыл бұрын
A guy try to hit on my sister when we were at a pub, and said: "I would like to get into your pants" My sister replied: "Why"? "Did you shit yours or something"....
A woman in said to me "You are not very well endowed are you?" I said "I have never entered a Cathedral before"!
@Timber812 жыл бұрын
I was on an elevator with four others i did not know. I suddenly said, "Thank You all for being here Today!" The tension was profound in that elevator but i felt better! Thank You Marni
@frostyhardison18243 жыл бұрын
Thank you Marni. This explains a lot. I actually ended up and married 2 women that I unknowingly did this to, because I was NOT that attracted to them in the beginning and that made me a challenge to them so they tried harder... of course 2 years down the road, it was like they owned me and didn't even have to try anymore so they let themselves go, got fat, lazy and entitled... and we divorced. But yeah, now I get it! Duh. It was right there in front of me the whole time. Butterflies? You don't have butterflies when you don't have any attraction to a woman... you can talk to them like they're in the friend zone and be cool, layed back and don't have to walk on eggshells. One of them actually told me she felt so comfortable with me that she felt she could tell me anything.... and yeah she could, I had no vested interest and I treated her like nothing more than a casual acquaintance. I asked her questions like a therapist would - just to keep the conversation going... nothing more. CRAZY. I wasted 10 years married to a 300 lb woman, when (if I knew what I was doing) I could have found someone far better looking and way more my equal in health, fitness, education etc... if only, right?
@axaflaxar5 жыл бұрын
Great insight! I have been using your techniques on my significant other to boost our relationship and we are having fun! It’s showing her something new!
@playerhaterr61725 жыл бұрын
Remember big bro, its all in the hips its all in the hips!
@fransabado64885 жыл бұрын
Practice makes perfect until you feel natural and until it's 2nd nature. This makes conversation more natural and where you feel comfortable about everything about you inside and out. Thanks for everything...
@KJ-pu8dw5 жыл бұрын
It’s about how good looking you are and what wealth and status you can display giving the strong first impressions that will determine if she will be interested in you.
@waynebrown68805 жыл бұрын
Very true
@andredarin89665 жыл бұрын
Bullshit. On my best day on I think I'm a six. Some women, obviously with major myopia might think I'm a seven. When a met my wife who in her 40's is till approached by guys in their 20's, she had far more money AND status. I was out of work (the airline I flew for filed chapter 11 and furloughed me.) When she asked me what I did I said, "I fly for food." When she didn't get the joke, I said, "I'm a ground instructor for a small business." She was an OBY/GYN. MGTOWS have a dire psychological need to believe that it's all about wealth and status because then they don't have to take responsibility for their toxic belief system that results in misogyny or their fear of rejection. "Hey. I don't have money or status. Why try?" Just once I'd like to hear a MGTOW call it like it is: "If I'm constantly frustrated by women maybe I'm missing something about me that I don't want to admit."
@unassailable61385 жыл бұрын
@@andredarin8966 I think MGTOW premises are a little different than what you are portraying. It's the awareness that women can't really love a man, but only what a man can DO for them, protecting, providing, procreating. Most men when they get sick or lose their jobs get the boot. It's something alone these lines. I'm a 6'3 guy with a square jaw and built like a linebacker, but totally broke, needless to say I haven't had much luck with women, btw I have a pretty relaxed body language so this video makes me a little skeptic.
@boyo41725 жыл бұрын
That's all pure nonsense. You'd realize every single incel talking point was garbage if you weren't so out of touch with reality. Ugly and even fat dudes get chicks all the time. Incels don't realize that women are also people with thoughts and emotions, and they think they're entitled to screwing anyone they see. They get rejected once or twice (Probably for good reason) and suddenly all women are heartless demons. They never learn how to communicate with people and they remain delusional children well into their 20's and 30's unfortunately. And they watch videos like this all day long desperate for a secret to end their suffering.
@renegonzalez53535 жыл бұрын
@Andre Darin, definitely you don't know what you are talking about. One things are the MGTOW and another things the PUAS. Maybe the later are the ones you are referring to.
@s.beccari46782 жыл бұрын
The delivery is crucial. Without tonality (as in a text, with or without emojis) it can be misunderstood/come across flat or crass
@martinmcgimpsey97503 жыл бұрын
Hi Marni, haven’t seen you in awhile. I was streaming on my phone and your video popped up. What a pleasant surprise. It was good seeing you again!
@anthonyc705 жыл бұрын
I walk away after I say hello!
@greyberet14 жыл бұрын
@Károly Papp You, by chance, mean 17 children from 3 fathers; more chance of those numbers ...
@rudy19994 жыл бұрын
Nothing beats that African woman who has 44 kids, even government stepped in and forbid her giving birth xD
@bhjoshscentz4 жыл бұрын
I started rapping out of nowhere and a pretty lady joined in with me lol #DoWhatYouDo 🙏🏾❤️
@cwalt44835 жыл бұрын
Just think of women as objects and everything will be aright.
@kuy93145 жыл бұрын
c walt hahahahha best comment 😂
@steveaguiar19344 жыл бұрын
Amen
@johnsonbobo23764 жыл бұрын
What else could they be???
@CCCC-tq8yo4 жыл бұрын
Whow
@zhikenquo13534 жыл бұрын
It's actually true, though. Women love to be treated like shit. I've been getting women like that xD
@ssspit3 жыл бұрын
I love the tips you gave about being free I personally was already singing loudly and finding myself just being more comfortable with doing shit that folks who worry too much wouldn’t it makes my life more fun lol
@travismorse47623 жыл бұрын
i say what i mean. focusing on how i say it or my body language, tone of voice, or anything else, will only make you wrong about me. all that matters is my words. read them, hear them, understand them, accept them, obey them.
@frederickburke99445 жыл бұрын
Where are the videos teaching women about what men want versus what they say they want? Wait... never mind.
@Nobody924214 жыл бұрын
LMAO. I know, right?!?!?
@aanthanyj4 жыл бұрын
Bahahahahaha
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
#MatthewHussey & #REDEFINEDTV 💎
@xsteveconwayx5 жыл бұрын
I realized this when I was married and stopped giving a crap about how I came off to anybody because I was already married. I didn't need to attract women. Someone how that lack of caring made them more interested than they ever were before I was married. I didn't wear a ring or anything. I actually had to start dropping "my wife" in conversations to hint that I was married so they'd know I wasn't available. Now that I'm single I stuck with that same attitude I had when I was married and it works very well. That "I don't care how this conversation turns out" feeling attracts women. I've tried explaining this to other men and they all claim they do this. Then I probe a little more and it becomes obvious that they still don't have any real confidence inside, so they're not really doing it at all. Then when I explain this, they dismiss me and continue being alone and miserable. Some people just refuse to believe they're still doing it wrong.
@masterlessmaster4 жыл бұрын
expect nothing and u won't be disappointed but women live in an entirely different world than men (look at the Kardashians, only worried about having babies houses the high life and bbc's)
@apme12345 жыл бұрын
Just walk around with 100 dollar bills sticking out of your pocket.
@visaman5 жыл бұрын
No, that will just attract hobos looking for a hand out.
@willco6015 жыл бұрын
Don't be too flashy, though. Just pull out your wad, when your at the local Starbucks. Pay for your latte, with a bill and leave a $2-3 tip.
@jaimem.26155 жыл бұрын
🤣😂😅👍
@jaredfinney73905 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHAHA
@sanjsanj755 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@elramswood3 жыл бұрын
You just said at the 4:00 min. mark it's about who and how you deliver the line... Well the who we men can't change. I think that's the main thing to guys is that some think they aren't able to be that confident, ladies man that these women would be attracted to. So the how you deliver the line doesn't make up for things like you're short, hairy, balding... see what i mean.. No matter how we deliver some tall tattooed dude will just attract women away from and make them forget what you were saying.
@rajkoelguapo123 жыл бұрын
Learning that 90% of the equation is your vibe was a game changer for me. No more social anxiety trying to think of what to say next, not being in the moment listening and processing what they are saying (because you're struggling to come up with the next topic)....just maintaining and focusing on having a relaxed, chill energy (with a few jokes/teases thrown in) is the key. It's amazing how this simple shift in focus has allowed my brain to do the work for me...I never struggle with what to say now or experience pregnant pauses -- it's so natural now. If you can somehow facilitate this "mental click" change, you're on your way fellas.
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
You should joke with her
@tightirl4 жыл бұрын
this girl's not nearly hot enough to hold my interest. next.
@capcityreuploads84684 жыл бұрын
orange boy
@garymorrison91794 жыл бұрын
Nick Lemon that’s alright. I happen to think the young lady is a good catch, highly intelligent and charming besides having an uncommon beauty.
@tysonbaker45563 жыл бұрын
I mean she looks good for her age ngl
@tysonbaker45563 жыл бұрын
Then again I have no clue how old she is so nvm
@charliejeans24135 жыл бұрын
You forgot to say, once you got the girl/guy stop with one liners.
@carlsbadbeach90885 жыл бұрын
Love it self-confidence is one of the major things woman likes thank you so much that helps me a lot God bless you
@nyterpfan2 жыл бұрын
All you have to do is ONE thing--be comfortable with yourself at all times!! Only YOU can do that!! (A confident dude who has personality and lets things flow will always attract somebody, somewhere--the universe will align when it is meant to align.) "Love is not a possession, it is a state of being" (Osho)
@carlogolf58344 жыл бұрын
Today I was at the supermarket and I talked to a friend of mine in a very weird accent for the whole time, and didn't gave a " ... " what others thought about this! It felt so good!!
@tyronewilliams19725 жыл бұрын
I love this advice , and never thought of it from this point of view. Thank you Marni for sharing!
@SirJorge5 жыл бұрын
I tried this. It literally has never worked. :(
@ILikeHotMoms15 жыл бұрын
You were practicing. Perfect practice makes perfect. If you never experience defeat. You will never appreciate victory.
@joecook92434 жыл бұрын
It only works on girls who need attention or are hit on constantly say you go to bar see the girl rejecting guys left and right you buy a beer and say loudly get her something don't say anything else just sit don't look at her. She starts bumping into you look real quick then drink your beer wait till the 4th accidental bump lightly grab her arm and say lets get the fuck out here. It only works on certain types of girls. Won 500 one night picking up this chick everyone was hitting on just like that.
@nottjohn94185 жыл бұрын
A "don't care" thing I did was take a shit at the side of the road.
@edp74765 жыл бұрын
OMG, I actually saw a girl do that once. Not kidding, she was running and just had to GO!
@henryhaven10293 жыл бұрын
I was in a bar once and was leaving when a beautiful.lady walked in past me , i stood for a moment outside then went back inside walked up to her and said " "you know , you're going to love me ! You have a nice evening ! I gave her a smile then turned around and left . She showed up in my town (30 miles away ) 2 days later looking for me (her freind knew me ) , she said she couldn't stop thinking about what i had said to her and it was the sexiest thing any man had ever done to her ! Calm , confidence and boldness wins most every time ! 😁
@tangerinestation90074 жыл бұрын
This is literally how i live my life. It doesnt work without looks or money, I promise. I do believe there is a secret, but this ain't it.
@SSimms-vn7ul3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Ali-Zaidi1005 жыл бұрын
the other day i played a trick i behaved like i am stranger in the city (visitor)i asked a beautiful girl .. whom i had eye contact .. i pushed my self forward and asked very formal way .. Excuse me!!! took a pause for a second continued watching in her Eyes ... do you know any good buffet restaurant near by ? she intentionally said Yes ,she knows a good restaurant near by .. she tried to explain adress ..go straight then take right then second left bla bla ..... in lighter mode, i said oh its confusing totally!!! if you dont mind can i offer you lunch lets go there i ll pay for you :) she agreed .. and then ... hahahaha
@thezombiemuffins5 жыл бұрын
And then *** what happened Ali :)
@SkyreeXScalabar5 жыл бұрын
@@thezombiemuffins he woke up
@inhouseadmin91925 жыл бұрын
@@SkyreeXScalabar 😂🤣
@jdhed15 жыл бұрын
Another corpse found stuffed in a dumpster?
@tonypham75894 жыл бұрын
Lol sure bud
@curiousrex51834 жыл бұрын
"how to attract women without saying a word ?".. don't say anything at all.. isn't that what the title means ?
@nathanhummel26654 жыл бұрын
Lol right then she goes to say you have to say something... I literally have picked up a woman saying very little anything. Less is more.
@dimase864 жыл бұрын
Hahaha she's not right in the head 😆😂😆
@Godedu13 жыл бұрын
@@dimase86 Her voice is annoying too.
@reginaldmcnab32655 жыл бұрын
When you speak you are so dynamic, it is beautiful, I love it!
@jonathantaylor98812 жыл бұрын
Sadly in today's world we can't approach women without fear of harassment charges.
@pieterhuylenbroeck12154 жыл бұрын
One day I was so confident, I walk naked in the street with my head held high. Then I entered a police station and pissed on the floor. Then I walk out as quickly as possible, and I didn't care whatever they thought of me.. All based on attracting those women who find no comfort in the social structures and can see through the lies of society...
@mabatommy5 жыл бұрын
Those men are the ones that OWE back child support.
@leviramirez37653 жыл бұрын
Be respectful, and positive, smile and be calm, cool and collected. Be mature and a balanced extrovert, speak of interesting thing's, and confidence is a must! And those are what I stick to when approaching woman or around someone I like.
@motherhoodsbeauty92792 жыл бұрын
Amen my man.
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
Amen my man
@ElverGalarga-pt8oz5 жыл бұрын
I don’t think it’s good idea to reveal the intention like saying you are flirting
@shadowr2d22 жыл бұрын
At the local gym 💪 Y.M.C.A. doing my treadmill workout. I put my headphones 🎧 on. To hear some funky music 🎶. So I was dancing 🕺 on the treadmill. I did a whole hour. Out lasted guys 1/2 my age. I'm 56 years old man. The woman in the back lane. I know where checking me out.. Thank you for posting 📫 this video..
@ddbulley33 жыл бұрын
In reference to the tonality of the man at the store, I get myself into that mode by just having fun and trying to tease. I've noticed expressing my attraction towards a woman "subliminally" or naturally, whatever, seems to just release energy they pick up on. Small giggles or blushing this past week has been a big plus. Loving just flirting around too lmao Much love for the vids Marni. Thanks 😉
@adh33722 жыл бұрын
What’s teasing?
@dennisreeve6270 Жыл бұрын
Oh tye
@edwinhernandez22435 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice young lady self esteem and confidence go a long way 😊
@COPPERMOUNTAINCOINS.5 жыл бұрын
How to attract women without saying a word, show them your bank statement. I own a cattle ranch, if I'm in my blue jeans and a t shirt and work boots driving my pickup women wouldn't give me the time of day, if I have business to attend to and I'm driving my Mercedes and dressed in my business suit I get hit on all the time, it's a joke women only want a guy who will treat them like crap. It a guy treats them like a queen they dont like that and will cheat on them. Women dont really know what they want in the end.
@ianjackson72943 жыл бұрын
Do all that "out of your comfort zone" exercises she mentioned in the UK and you'll be sectioned within 5 minutes by the coppers... or dead if someone has called the anti terrorist response team lol
@stevens27063 жыл бұрын
Love that, so true! "What they want vs what they say they want"! Women need to come with instruction manuals!