How to Be a Man ALL Men Respect & EVERY Woman Wants!

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I got an email from one of you guys that got me thinking, and I want to get my thoughts out while they're fresh. He said he's struggling and wants to become the best man he can be. This got me thinking about what it means to be a man in today's world of toxic masculinity. Everybody is trying to tell men that they're bad or not amazing. I thought it's essential for me to discuss how to be a man that other men will respect and that women will want to be with.
Earning respect from men while being desirable to women
Don't act like you're something that you're not. To be the best version of yourself, you must be honest with yourself and others.
Helping other people will monstrously change your life. Our society has become incredibly selfish, and we are only worried about ourselves. Worrying about what we can get or do for ourselves becomes irrelevant is when we stop and look for opportunities to lift up others. You will feel incredible, and they will feel fantastic too.
Being a hard-ass worker beats talent. If you're somebody that wants to be the best, you can work harder.
Getting toxic people out of your life is a hard lesson to learn. Do not be surrounded by people pulling you down and holding you back. These toxic people could be girlfriends, boyfriends, family members, and more.
Don't wait for perfect timing because it will never be ideal. Go after your goal and stop using excuses. The time is now to take action. Think of where you would be now if you had started 6 months ago.
If issues are troubling you from your past or your current situation, you could be stalled from moving forward and being happy right now. Do something about it. I used Better Help which is online therapy with licensed therapists. Get 10% off your first month and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help.
Take responsibility for your actions and stop blaming other people. Build mental toughness, so you can be the man you are destined to become. Push through the pain and hardships that life tosses at you.
Take care of your body and work out while eating right. Don't abuse drugs or alcohol. You need to be strong physically and mentally.
Being a man of your word will gain respect from others. Honor your choices & decisions, and do what you say you will do. Learn to control your anger and jealousy. Don't allow your emotions to take over.
Don't give a f*** about everything that doesn't matter. If you can't change it, why are you worried about it? Why are you consumed by something if it doesn't directly affect you? We can give only so many f****, and if you're giving your time and energy to the things that don't matter, you're missing out on the things that matter.
Make sure to respect yourself and others. Have integrity and understand that the things that you do now will impact you in the future. Do not just go along with the flow and give in to peer pressure. Get out of your own way and start thinking through your actions, realizing that the things you do and post now will impact you in the future.
Stop being narcissistic, control your urges & impulses, and understand that nothing great was accomplished because it was easy. Quit looking for the quick fix, as time is necessary to develop into an incredible man that others respect and women want to be with.

[@alpham]

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[@JL-th8sr]

A lot of comments getting shadow banned

[@asian_sammy2022]

@@JL-th8sr my thoughts exactly. Alpha m needs to start posting on rumble

[@alpabopo]

You're recycling the same content too often man. That's why you are getting lower views

[@asian_sammy2022]

@@alpabopo but a lot of comments getting shadow 🚫

[@shilpapawar2288]

Looks like u have sore throat

[@Iamsujant]

1:05 Be Real 1:25 Helping Other People 1:52 Be a Hard Worker 2:12 Remove Toxic People 2:36 Don’t Wait For Perfect Timing 3:14 Deal With Your Sh*t Ad: Better Help 5:07 Take Responsibility For Your Actions 5:20 Build Mental Toughness 5:42 Take Care Of Your Body 5:58 Be Man Of the Word 6:11 Learn To Control The Emotions 6:26 Stop Giving a F*ck About Things That Don’t Matter 6:44 Respect Others & Yourself

[@skr1661]

Was searching for this comment 😂

[@hiteshsuthar1097]

7:22 Stop Being Narcissistic

[@Don-ds3dy]

"remove toxic people from your life" What people?

[@jamesfogg3258]

I really like your voice today. It's like just the right amount of distortion on a clean guitar to give it as little thickness. What you would refer to as a crunch tone in between rhythm and lead guitar.

[@Fitness_Lorenzo]

Work hard! Discipline yourself! Be assertive! Be direct! Be respectful! Focus on goals! These are my ways. I love your point on working hard. That’s my favorite.

[@saurav.bishtt]

Not all hero wear cap 🧢

[@carlosverde-datingtips7001]

Nice summary! There’s nothing more admirable - than a man living his Purpose. A man on a Mission. Most men - people for that matter are not happy because they haven’t figured out what their Purposes in life are. And when you do figure that out - it changes everything. All of a sudden you start looking at your watch a lot more. Time becomes extremely valuable to you - because you now know why you were put on this Earth! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[@mr.bright5712]

yeah sure, if you need someone who tells you what to do like this alpha m. channel you are lost my dude

[@leviathan6431]

The greatest advice ever put out for the universe!! this channel will always be awesome.

[@patty8945]

You are awesome. Many coaches here, especially for men are toxic, teach manipulation and games. You are a breath of fresh air. Most definitely my son, when he is older, will be advised to watch your videos. Thank you for being you and having such a great insight on life.

[@freshbakedclips4659]

First of all, "manipulation" is inherently amoral, neither evil nor good. The intent behind a manipulation is what matters the most.

[@thereddstormproject1954]

Because of you i have begun a new journey of finding myself and working on myself. Thank you my brother. Your channel Is Awesome and so are you!!

[@bigdarshan]

# 2 Hleping others is so true. Dr.Karl Menninger a famous psychiatrist was asked what was someone to do if that person was def headed for nervous breakdown. Everyone expected the answer to be "consult a professional". All Dr. Karl said was to find a person in need and help that person. It will help you get out of your own way ...enough said. Help someone today!

[@simpleprogramming4671]

You know why I love your channel? you know why after reading so many books and hating most of self improvement youtube videos I still like watching your videos? because you don't put things here to attract attention! you're just honest and honestly trying to help other people! you're such a gold in this society that people mislead others all the time!

[@satwikdash6337]

Almost 6 years of listening to you Alpha !! Still the same charm and positivity.. Thanks

[@ABD11]

Hi Alpha! I’m from Saudi and wanna thank you. You really make great videos in topics we really need. As 25 years old I watch videos about experiences of men older than me. Unfortunately there are no channels speaks about alike topics in my language. Really thanks !

[@MRMEOW-ge6bi]

Alpha , you really are one of the best if not the best KZbinr out there , I’m not exaggerating at all , literally you’ve managed to inspire me which a lot of other you tubers failed doing .

[@rihan364]

I dont know if you gonna read this but i wanna thank for all the info you are giving for free, things that my dad didnt tell me. Thanks man... greetings from Brazil!

[@Llamadosalvaje]

THIS CHANEL IS PURE GOLD! CONGRATS!

[@hiteshsuthar1097]

*Be real *Helping others *Be a hard worker *Remove toxic people *Don't wait for perfect timing *Deal with your craps *Take ownership *Build mental toughness *Take care of your health and keep excising *Be a man of your word *Learn to control your emotions *Don't care about everything that doesn't matter *Respect others and yourself

[@douglasfair2146]

I started better help because of you and it is helping me become better and learning to deal with my past... thank you alpha m!!!

[@vhaleryanadamant1975]

Aaron is starting to have the same voice his hairstylist used to, haha. You the man, Aaron ;)!

[@ΑνδρέαςΣ.Τριβυζάς]

One of the best videos I've seen in my 26 years of life.. keep it up!

[@copedown]

It's you alpha...for me who is responsible for who i am today...we love you ❤️...THANKS A LOT!

[@williamcarter9066]

My mother died having me and so my great aunt raised me and she was born in 1909 and she taught me an I quote' kiss no ones ass just to get along with them an above all be yourself '' !!

[@mohammadgolkar2789]

These kind of videos that you do, just hit different, they feel more real and i find them to be really inspiring. thank you for all the content you've put out throughout all these years, you have seriously helped me be a better man. God bless you sir.

[@arturoayala470]

Alphan, I just noticed you mentioned all the concepts and guidelines suggested by the classic Stoics. That is the reason I watch some of your videos. Keep up the good work!

[@danw8012]

Hi Alpha, never commented here before......I'm 42 it's taken me many years of hard work in my career. Three step kids who's dad passed away from cancer before I entered their lives. A great missus and a boy of my own who is 4yo to understand what it is to be a man. My dad was not a good man and I had to learn it all myself. I'm still learning and always will be. But I agree with everything you say and your videos help keep me in line. Remind me about things. The most important thing I hear you say is don't bullshit anyone. Don't bulshit yourself or others. It makes men reliable to others and able to trust in their own judgement. This is most important when things are hard. Tuff times make tuff men. Tuff men and bad men are not the same thing. Being a man and a gentleman is something to aspire to. We all love you for your great content. Keep helping all the great men in this world. Your a champion 🏆

[@russiangamer98]

Thank you for this Alpha. I’ve been on my journey to becoming a better man and videos like these help on those days that you’re not feeling 100%. So far I’ve lost 25 pounds after hitting the gym consistently for about 8 months. I’ve learned to manage my anger more which was my biggest down fall. More importantly, I’ve learned to love who I am without caring what other people have to say. This has helped me tremendously. I can honestly say I’ve found peace and harmony at this point in my life.

[@flexzyzz7312]

Keep it up brother. We never stop, even when we make it to the top

[@richardpuckett8127]

Great job. Keep it up

[@stixnfeet7818]

Respect 🙏

[@1mrcool21]

Hey Alpha I wanna know your opinion on Alpha hypnosis and hypnosis in general trying to improve your life and encourage healthy habits. A video on hypnosis and its practices on becoming a better alpha would be helpful ☺️

[@Radicalorganizer]

bro what

[@joec361]

Recently sub to this channel and I must say just from watching a handful of this man's videos it has leveled me up as a man.

[@muhumuzadaniel9153]

Your content changed like alpha , you are such a blessing to the male species

[@the_viralspot]

Sir I respect you♥️..love you too and your lines in videos...which are all about real fact and inspiring too♥️.. Am 22 now... getting that mindset to be a better man🙂

[@niranjan8578]

There are his "Be a Bad boy" videos And there's his "Be a Man" videos ( I don't know if it was the voice but this one , had a unique atmosphere than the others ) Thank you Aaron for all your videos👊

[@CRYPTIX561]

This has been your realest video yet. Good shit.

[@secretbillionaire463]

A big THANK YOU bro.👍🏼

[@josemer22]

Uv been my main sorce on advice since i was like 13

[@marcin8004]

Thank you. Good moment in my life to listen such great words.

[@seansiewsarran]

Have to say, i like your attitude and approach. I'm clearly not the best with women, but coming from that stance, i admire how laid back you are regarding this topic. You don't come across as this pickup artist you tells you to adhere to these false rules, but rather tweak certain elements to become the best version of yourself. 🤛

[@ralphbrown5487]

Amazing. Even when you are down you still strive to bring us up. THANK YOU Brother

[@danielestiferson2345]

Hope you doing well, respect for you, even tho u not feeling well, you still making videos for us .

[@carlosverde-datingtips7001]

Great tips! There’s nothing more admirable - than a man living his Purpose. A man on a Mission. Most men - people for that matter are not happy because they haven’t figured out what their Purposes in life are. And when you do figure that out - it changes everything. All of a sudden you start looking at your watch a lot more. Time becomes extremely valuable to you - because you now know why you were put on this Earth! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[@mohideenhasanmubarack686]

Love you, big brother... Thanks for your good content

[@malone4735]

Respect for ourselves, guides our morals, respect for others, guides our manners. -Laurence Sterne

[@elitegolgaming]

I'll never respect women

[@jdeleon1j]

Great points! Ty for posting! Definitely reminders we all need! Ty again!

[@viscelmaisur4319]

Thanks alpham, short and swift. Regards from Romania

[@erikbrooks8089]

Alpha. Hell of a video man. One of your best. Thank you.

[@jefflep1]

Thank you Aaron. I needed to hear this today

[@bryandesrochers4908]

One of the best videos you have ever uploaded. Thank you Alpha, wish only the best for you

[@SenorAspie]

Dr Alpha has spoken.

[@abeymathews1782]

Hey Alpha, I am a long time follower and I just want to thank you for putting content like this out. Thanks a ton!

[@N810garcia]

Get better soon!

[@khushilgovind3424]

I hope your voice feels better Alpha.

[@stixnfeet7818]

58 1+ yr sober making progress dude, recent discovered & subscribed. Thank You for bringing what you do and who you are! 👊💪🙏😎

[@richardpuckett8127]

Congrats on your sobriety. I still occasionally drink for special occasions. And only had alcohol 6 times since December of 2019. I fully understand the struggle. I drank almost every single day for almost 20yrs. Life is definitely better sober, and thinking clearly. And I am proud of you. You are not the only person who has this problem. Lots of us know what this struggle is. And I respect that you have also not just acknowledged the problem. But you are progressing on fixing it. I promise you that life gets better. And life really does get better the older we get

[@stixnfeet7818]

@@richardpuckett8127 Muchas Gracias my friend 🙏

[@wolfwarrior2579]

Hey Alpha not sure if you’ve done a video on it but what about a video on things guys should know to do in a kitchen. Knowing some basic cooking skills goes a long way in impressing spicy senoritas or becoming a more confident and successful man

[@timothygarcia8619]

This is a GREAT video Aaron! Keep up the great work my friend 👍🏼 💪🏾💪🏾💯💯💯

[@MrStewys]

What a fantastic topic and a great watch. Saw this last night and alot resonated me. Thanks for putting this out there Alpha. Makes alot sense. "Be the man you're meant to be,.. respect yourself and others with integrity"

[@Pathfinder2163]

Thanks, Alpha. These things are relevant at every stage of life.

[@danlonick800]

One of the best videos you've made. Well done mate, nice work 👍

[@ajs9603]

I've slipped into a self improvement project, I've been going to the gym Monday-Friday, working part-time at BigLots, Investing on the SoFi App, but even with all of this I know that it's never going to be enough do all you can all at once it'll pay off eventually.

[@anthonylowrance3755]

THIS is the reason I like/love this Dude.Straight up no B.S. advice.

[@seinbler4177]

Bro Alpha sounds so heartbroken in this video. I wish all good for you, just so you know you have helped me enourmously these last 4 years and I am truly grateful to to you for that.😉💪

[@abhinavchaturvedi6306]

Respect your time and Respect others Time ....A recipe for You becoming a Gentleman...love alpha M❣️

[@Veselinov21]

It has been 5-6 years since I found your channel and words cannot express how grateful I am to have had you in my life. I am such a different man now and I wish you could see me and the progress I've made. Love you and thank you for everything Alpha. You are amazing. Never stop doing what you're doing you're the OG

[@davidbadihi3915]

Life is very hard if we dont start with the basics, start with schedulling your sleep when you sleep and wake up and your routines if you haven't already because those things are the foundation of your life then you can advance but the basics are the most important things and sleep is crucial for your health

[@josevidalmedina3189]

Great recap always good to be reminded thank you .keep them coming thanks for better health

[@mattmcie6914]

You nailed this one i think, good work

[@mattmcie6914]

Thanks but no thanks. Ima slide on this one. I dont even have a whats app account lol.

[@bleedblue420as]

Thank you Alpha!

[@dgk46]

This is pure gold, alpha m!

[@ReseteaLaSalud]

Please keep editing these videos as simple as that, makes a huge difference

[@diamondd2778]

We love you alpha! Love from Australia.

[@decepto911]

As always thank you for your eye opening tips. Get well soon

[@robinthomasmathew9873]

I was thinking of the same and you made a video... Made my day Alpha. Salud.

[@levalas91]

Love you dude. Take care!

[@khudanpursandeep]

From the book 'The way of men' - you need to build these 4 virtues - Strength, Courage, Mastery and Honor.

[@abhi_xx-us5ob]

Bruh ur words make something wonderful I don't know what but something positive 🙂🥺

[@MRPRODUCER_AP]

i was going throug a lot and this vedio just came on time alpha never disapoints

[@jonshawunited]

This is amazing, thanks Alpha. Jon

[@mattmiller3714]

Respect, Alpha! Great video content

[@jukkavv]

Fantastic list! Thank you!

[@blackpilledchad1927]

*Hi boyos. Today we're going to cope together again as usual*

[@josevidalmedina3189]

Hope you feel better and taking the time for vid , drank water

[@conrock1018]

This is so good. Great video, thanks Alpha!

[@KEEPGROWING123.]

Thanks for valuable information 💟

[@ckctube]

Superb! Truly amazing video. Every man should go through it properly in order to excel. Good selection of the topic & better description too. Keep it up 👍🏼

[@333abcd]

Thanks for the video. May your voice get better soon bro. I have a question not actually related to this video. As a beginner what is the best time to eat? Should we eat before workout or immediately after workout or after a few hours. Take care.

[@n3lumb0o06]

Life changing 💪 MUCH RESPECT ALPHA 🫡

[@jessedeluca599]

Thanks homie!

[@Vishnubhudda]

I really needed this..thank you. Thanks a lot

[@ivanlopezgonzalez2548]

A great one, Alpha! And, by the way, within the last two weeks the quality of your videos has improved a lot, and also the topics, keep doing it like that!

[@williamcarter9066]

Am 61 the best way to be a man is too say what you mean and mean what you say !! Live your life with an honor code and when the bullies get at you try to walk away an you can't walk away them make sure they the bully spends at least a night in the hospital AND NEVER hold your head down and when talking or listening ALWAYS look whomever in the eyes ..

[@dananjayalakshan332]

Get well soon my one ❤️

[@derek_jesio]

Biggest issue for me is, I don’t know what I want to do. I work daily to improve in many areas of my life, but have no clearly defined goal.

[@nebiyuelias1638]

Just prior to sleep pray, ask ur God what he wants you to accomplish on this earth.....you are here for a reason, he will guide you but till then don't worry too much!

[@derek_jesio]

@@nebiyuelias1638 This is a really nice message. Thank you, and God bless.

[@nebiyuelias1638]

@@derek_jesio amen🙏🏾

[@wileyallen1545]

Take care of yourself first Aaron! We can all wait for your voice to come back. Love ya, Man!

[@TheUb789]

Thank you so much, I have been watching you since middle school it feels like, always there when needed, love you Alpha!

[@johanjacob9907]

This is what i need...thank you alpha..

[@eliasalba7804]

Thanks!

[@Jonathan_39]

Man. These videos make me feel good. Thanks.

[@beatsonfire4998]

Thanks for everything you do Aaron

[@kalairajan2252]

dude you are the man you are amazing keep giving us knowledge

[@dustinschupbach2709]

Awesome video alpha 👍👍

[@josephng6084]

Get well soon alpha!

[@zakariyabalaie9278]

it was great and honest, ty.

[@pi17835]

„Be real“. Definitely the most important thing, if you want to be the best version of yourself. I mean: how can you be the best version of yourself, if you’re not yourself, if your not real?

[@baconsalad1891]

I love you sir. Thank you 🙏