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@thetruthtopower45132 жыл бұрын
Therapy is for the weak
@Orca_Bm2 жыл бұрын
Alpha m 💪✌️
@lawrenceparker9692 жыл бұрын
great advice dude, i'm so sick of pleasing people, so scared no one will like me if i say no. fuck that, time to change!
@TravisAndrews-lb1kk Жыл бұрын
@population-_-420 yes they do
@Iamsujant2 жыл бұрын
0:54 Focus on Your Character 1:27 Stop Trying To Please Other People 1:59 Stand Up For Yourself 2:24 Stop Being a Victim Ad: BetterHelp 5:13 Get Rid Of Toxic People 6:06 Be Around Truthful People 6:55 Smell Amazing 7:37 Talk To Yourself 7:58 Stop Being Idiots
@true67902 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@MixingMagicDJ2 жыл бұрын
69th liker😏
@Radu_Mihai_212 жыл бұрын
@@MixingMagicDJ you are cringe
@TravisAndrews-lb1kk Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@betteralphaadvice15672 жыл бұрын
Practice keeping your word everyday you’ll really gain confidence. Every time you say you’re gonna do something and don’t do it, your self-esteem diminishes no matter how meaningless the task may seem. Take your word very serious.
@carmentascione48022 жыл бұрын
Doesn't it say new videos every week on your page.. I guess we all have moments of lacking confidence. Thanks tho
@OneJuan06332 жыл бұрын
@@carmentascione4802 lmfaooo
@TravisAndrews-lb1kk Жыл бұрын
Does this work?
@DreadusShadows2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for always running this channel. After a few toxic relationships my self-esteem took a few hits.
@TravisAndrews-lb1kk Жыл бұрын
Definitely bro
@Psmgamer2 жыл бұрын
I agree on stop trying to please people. In life you aren't going to please everyone no matter if you keep trying to live up to their expectations.
@israelrivera80252 жыл бұрын
Thanks man. Thanks for being the dad that we never had for many of us. I love your videos. I've been watching you since the Shark Tank days. Through therapy and KZbinrs like you, I'm feeling pretty damn good. Keep them coming.
@TravisAndrews-lb1kk Жыл бұрын
Definitely keep them good
@malone47352 жыл бұрын
Confidence isn’t:They Will Like Me Confidence is:I’ll be Fine even If They Don’t💯
@TravisAndrews-lb1kk Жыл бұрын
Facts
@Trigger-uh9xk2 жыл бұрын
I love the straight forward information and explanations he gives simple basic and easy to understand ,its done in a semi humorous way i love it good advice good channel
@jackdaniel37842 жыл бұрын
I seen one of your ads on tv the other day for the first time. Coincidentally it was while pitching my business idea to two IT guys for a Fortune 500 company. I had to tell’em “That man inspired me” and it’s true. I had watched your recent upload for side hustles and took the leap. All of this to say Thank you for the inspiration and doing what you do. You’re greatly appreciated.
@Federer20Goat2 жыл бұрын
Today will be the first day of my sobriety . I am a very confident person at is. But I have beer everyday. It doesn’t change me and I’m still same person but my health is pathetic bc if it. I keep telling myself I will stop but haven’t . So today I will try . Send prayers thank you …
@johnfeminella98392 жыл бұрын
you're advice helps! I think your right it's starts with you and holding yourself accountable and being the best version of yourself take care of yourself and all the rest will fall into place! It's all connected. I get it! Thanks alpha M!!
@EightshGames2 жыл бұрын
Aaron & Alex are quite possibly my 2 favourite people in the world. From fashion to fitness; mental health to self-confidence. They have changed the way I view myself and approach life. Thank you 🙏🏼 Sincerely Hagan
@TravisAndrews-lb1kk Жыл бұрын
There my favorites too
@GrowthMindsetChannel2 жыл бұрын
"Experience tells you what to do; confidence allows you to do it." ~ Stan Smith 💪🏻🚀
@TravisAndrews-lb1kk Жыл бұрын
Yes it does
@AltronZero2 жыл бұрын
Alpha is going HAM. Good stuff mann 💪
@survivorturnover2 жыл бұрын
confidence is legendary
@paulcassidy77322 жыл бұрын
I started Better help the other day. It seems really good, as I sometimes find life difficult, and have low views on myself. Thank you AlphaM!
@zaharianicolae98282 жыл бұрын
Good job with the bold white text emphasising the point you're trying to make. It is a really good idea and a nice touch!
@lanovedzo13472 жыл бұрын
Thank you for those motivation. It does help me my handsome egoself.
@chrisxavier3147 Жыл бұрын
"Stop worrying" - Imagine if it were that easy?
@instrong2 жыл бұрын
Main quality Alpha taught me is to do no metter how! No excuses. Now filming workouts form Ukraine and want to say thank you for motivating me all this years!
@ChefSidorov2 жыл бұрын
Слава Украине! 🇺🇦
@CorvetteZ06owner2 жыл бұрын
Instead of filming workouts, go join the fight and save your country
@SevenHunnid2 жыл бұрын
I do food videos while high af on my KZbin channel.😮
@nmercenary2 жыл бұрын
Omg yes! Can you do a video “how to workout when you’re country is under attack”. That would make for some killer content 🌚
@instrong2 жыл бұрын
@@ChefSidorov Героям Слава брате!
@christophertaylor27382 жыл бұрын
Yep I'm sick of pleasing people and there's no way I will be pressured or influenced to do something I'm not finna do sadly it's why people or most guys live to please other people or women its why they stop taking care of themselves and deal with bullshit 💯
@vinniemartinez61252 жыл бұрын
I had a stroke recently last year i almost died from. And since I had the stroke that almost killed me, it made me more confident, made me a much better person. It also helped me to realize that life is to precious to waste and to always worry about people are going to think or say about you. It made me realize fuck what people say and think. Do what you want to do go after what you want in life let nothing get in your way or ever stop you. Keep going after what you want in life whether if its a spicy senorita or a job. Fuck what people say or think if they don't like it then they can kiss my ass attitude. Live life for you and fuck what people say or have to think about your actions. That's the way to live right there. 🤘😎 🍻 🥂 🍻
@tvblue30102 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Alpha.
@MuahMan2 жыл бұрын
My self-esteem and self-confidence are rocked right now. Just turned 50, not a millionaire like essentially every one of my friends/acquaintances I grew up with. Probably a solid 7, 6', 168 pounds. Right around 6 digit income, but it's still wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy harder out there than it's ever been. Especially dating.
@JokerF.A.S.E.2 жыл бұрын
Been vibing with your content since I saw you tribute KS, even though you weren't really tight. You showed respect nevertheless. I found that very cool. Your energy is contagious. I appreciate you. Thanks, Man.
@insomniacresurrected10002 жыл бұрын
I moved to the countryside, and live among lumberjacks. That made this city boy stronger, fresh air was also helpful.
@israelquito30722 жыл бұрын
THANKS FOR THE INFO "ALPHA",I GOT IT!!👍👍👍👍
@kylesear87182 жыл бұрын
Thanks Alpha
@cpmow8312 жыл бұрын
It’s fact that I AUTOMATICALLY 👍 the video before Aaron says anything more than “What’s up gentlemen?” Because I KNOW it’ll be gold
@aakashkapoor89332 жыл бұрын
Thanks you, once again!
@smileyface31072 жыл бұрын
How could someone else want to see you fall so they can control you, that seems so f*cked up. I'm experiencing that with a "friend" and it doesn't make you feel good. unfortunately I work with him but I'm tired of putting up with his disrespect and immaturity. Crazy how when you're doing good they get jealous then when you fall you can see that jealousy is less obvious so messed up
@Keverything992 жыл бұрын
Number 4 was the most accurate thing this world needs
@aldeanblair97272 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Alpha M that make me feel better and Powerful 🙂
@thebugbouncer2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the wise words brother, I can relate, I was a people pleaser a long time, then woke up and had to rebuild, reinvent myself because I never had structure growing up. 🙏
@joshbarreras72552 жыл бұрын
Fixed: Arrogant Growth: Humble
@ThunderousNinja10 ай бұрын
I need to stand up for myself at work. Done with this toxic job treatment
@ernestoseoane78962 жыл бұрын
You’re TRULY ONE OF A KIND MAN 👊🏻😉👌🏻 keep up the great work my brother!!!
@wileyallen15452 жыл бұрын
Right on Alpha! Dig hard and exude confidence and esteem. Who cares what others think? Right! Not this cat because I could not give a $#/+ what others think. Everybody puts their socks on one at a time… Own the room, own the situation, own it all! Self esteem and self confidence go hand in hand…
@justinengland98142 жыл бұрын
He's right!
@JawadTajwar2 жыл бұрын
Back to your channel again and the contents keep getting better and better.
@akhtars96022 жыл бұрын
Thanks alpha for the advice, you rock!
@sharoncabecy85922 жыл бұрын
You are the inspiration to many bro... KUDOS!
@joshbarreras72552 жыл бұрын
Even if I said “My Life Is A Movie” like I’m good enough to be extremely better than people because when I first started to change into a best version of me. But daily, jumbles my memory parts out of my thoughts to become a quiet person but I wouldn’t like that at all. Whenever how my self esteem or my strong conversations always distorted not to be confident enough and that’s what mean is that I was thinking like “I’m the robot” or “a god” that turns me arrogant instead of being humbled.
@DistortedShelf02 жыл бұрын
An excellent book to read is The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden... it will change your life!
@stayhardhub2 жыл бұрын
You're so amazing Alpha.🙏🔥
@farhanbinraihan30502 жыл бұрын
Desperately needed this video
@georgelush19982 жыл бұрын
Stop playing the victim card. I didn’t think I did that. But then I did some therapy to get rid of baggage from the past. It dawned on me I was indeed playing the victim. So I took ownership of my part in what happened. Guess what? My self-confidence soared.
@chrisexperience72 жыл бұрын
Ditto!
@adamallee2 жыл бұрын
What’s up Alpha! It’s been a few weeks and I’ve noticed the key word subtitles added in your videos. I like that highlighting of key points! 👍🏽👆🏽
@fluffyracer2 жыл бұрын
Great advice, you give solid advice @alpha m.
@shivamphulia2 жыл бұрын
Amazing It just made my day❤❤
@hayabuza832 жыл бұрын
I agree with most of what you said..but.."rude" friends are not necessarily bad for you..I preffer one friend which is honest than one which is dishonest and says what I want to hear..of course the truth is in the middle..of course we want an uplifting friend but in the same time we want a friend which is honest about our flaws and toxic traits, because yes..we can be toxic too
@Giroux682 жыл бұрын
This is a great video, alpha!
@drsamscott2 жыл бұрын
Fantastic content, as always! Thank you.🙏🏼☺️
@SaaduMia2 жыл бұрын
man i wanna save this in my alarm so that I can wake up in the morning and start being optimistic
@captain41662 жыл бұрын
be confident 🤞
@SpeedCloudSolutions2 жыл бұрын
Aaron is the man
@SanFrantixXx2 жыл бұрын
The best way to be confident is to take care of your face...Teige Hanley...no just me? Oh ok. Lol
@CharanjitSingh07772 жыл бұрын
I am proud of following u long Time❤💪
@frankizard4512 жыл бұрын
ALPHA MY NINJA
@malone47352 жыл бұрын
Insecurities are Loud But Confidence is Silence💯
@waniruhail17092 жыл бұрын
You r dope🤟... Man
@Jolzy2 жыл бұрын
I am officially the most Broke Alpha Male after purchasing all his products 👍
@williamcorrigan56972 жыл бұрын
True that. Rid your life of all the bull shit and toxic people, and life is more grand.
@ajay-x3p2g2 жыл бұрын
Well said
@heywardfi2 жыл бұрын
You forgot one. Trying to impress people with expensive things or showing off ones money. You know how people with money will buy expensive cars or build a house or houses they don’t need. They do this to show off.
@jamesethier78572 жыл бұрын
I just got a sample of Villain along with some other Pete and Pedro products they're fucking awesome. Buyer beware though 2 squirts is more than enough I did 3 this morning and it was a little strong 😂. Keep up the good work Aaron men need you now more than ever!
@Raghav-gr6qr2 жыл бұрын
Alpha ♥️ you
@TiggZ_2 жыл бұрын
Damn... i was literally destroyed in the first 15 seconds 🤣
@Dirtyfrequence2 жыл бұрын
Alpha, did you ever read about the stoics? If yes, maybe a new video idea? This philosophy is the ultimate alpha way
@hunterkiller14402 жыл бұрын
I love using Alpha's advice in practicing confidence by wearing an ugly shirt and slowly learn to not care about what others think.
@tarunvenugopal92762 жыл бұрын
need more videos like this one!!!!!
@Xghost4632 жыл бұрын
I always do this
@raven980312 жыл бұрын
Ok Tony
@Marco-yv1fo2 жыл бұрын
Great video
@zone57862 жыл бұрын
TY a lot 👍🏼
@thegreendog2 жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with talking to yourself. What's wrong is when you talk to yourself and begin finding out new things
@adrielvergara57222 жыл бұрын
no one: alpha: *always starts his video intros with *GENTLEMAN*
@ayushtiwari43862 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah 👍...
@sunbrookheath2 жыл бұрын
Strong Men Create Good Times Good Times Create Weak Men Weak Men Create Hard Times - we are here. Hard Times Create Strong Men
@sahilsharma72632 жыл бұрын
Big fan ❤️❤️❤️
@shivrajsarvaiya7592 жыл бұрын
Love from india.. 💝🙌 Benn watching u since 2 years and helped me a lot to be a man. 🙏
@SULTAN-y4s5z2 жыл бұрын
Perfect
@blitzed52102 жыл бұрын
Key takeaway from thumbnail: If I ever get nervous in a school meeting, just flip everybody off
@thomaskanakos11252 жыл бұрын
Legend. Men get strong, get some money, get a wolf pack and be honorable. Be a monster and learn to control it.
@mr.dccomics90182 жыл бұрын
Kobe Bryant probably has the best video ever about confidence.
@yessir62822 жыл бұрын
Ahahabh what I tell myself when feeling “smaller”/weaker” is say “I’m literally a soldier, I am the one who’s gonna save this mans ass so I can’t be weaker” lol
@theavengers.2 жыл бұрын
Alpha finger 💪🏻🔥
@thatoneguy9852 жыл бұрын
Alpha M the man myth and legend
@vincecash15132 жыл бұрын
Common Aaron W
@dukedevil9102 жыл бұрын
Just because you don’t know how to deal with something or someone doesn’t mean they are toxic. There’s is a solution to everything and everyone, whether you like that solution or not. Stop calling everything you don’t like toxic. That in itself is victim mentality. Next time you call someone toxic, how about just talking to them about what you feel is their “toxic behavior”. Ask why they do what they do or so specific things you feel are toxic.
@kartikchaturvedi78682 жыл бұрын
Superrrb Awesome Fantastic video
@lovelyrics36562 жыл бұрын
Weird uncle Barry 😂
@salmanhussein42922 жыл бұрын
self-esteem is appreciating your own value self-confidence is your belief in your ability America is great and wealth From Milwaukee Wisconsin Give me like if you live in America
@정의훈-t6h2 жыл бұрын
title is wrong in every way why do you need to be confident when there’s weak guys around plus, do YOU thing you are not one of em weak guys
@MalcolmRandall2 жыл бұрын
I don't know if others brought it up, but if they Didn't.... Alpha, Aaron, you need to be _Consistent_ with your Discretion of profanity. Sometimes you Don't bleep the Fbomb, 2:11 sometimes you Do. 8:41 Doesn't affect me either way, censor fully or No, but, you gotta pick a side.
@jamesgordons73763 ай бұрын
Yes🎉
@JOHN_WICK_1012 жыл бұрын
Hey you can’t say SUPER FRESH!!!
@722guy2 жыл бұрын
Man's trying to act like Tate 😂 😂
@muayboran6111 Жыл бұрын
I am weak… but i’ve made the commitment to not stay this way
@White_wolf..-2 жыл бұрын
Am I the only o e looking for the comment which lists all the points