As justice lord Batman would say: "If you want people to respect the big laws, you gotta enforce the small ones." Likewise, if you dont adress small disrespects, they will eventually snowball into big disrespects. If she gives you bad attitude, let her know immediately: "There's the door, you can leave anytime you want." Be ready to leave at any moment, and as cold and composed as possible. Don't let them see any weakness/vulnerability. If she oversteps your boundaries in a big way, or a small way but does not apologise, just matter-of-factly end it, send her stuff to her mom, change the keys, block her number and ghost her. Modern women are children, and children need to be taught responsibility and consequences to their actions. Remember, they have daddy issues, and you're not her father. Teach her her lesson, she needs it.
@random-content69696 ай бұрын
Bro I want to be friends with you. You know your shit
@historyunder60secondsofficial3 ай бұрын
Thanks dude! I needed this!
@up-2date Жыл бұрын
Indifference is key. Learnt that from Dad TL.
@sh-zaidi Жыл бұрын
Indifference is huge in sales too! It's a very perennial soft skill that influences multiple facets of your life of which dating and relationships are no exceptions ;) No wonder assholes thrive in both 😜
@captainiceberg863711 ай бұрын
Wish my dad would have taught me some stuff
@denkverlag116 күн бұрын
If you have a backbone… women run away to the next liar…
@paulcooper5748 Жыл бұрын
So true brother never be scared to walk away from a toxic situation good vid.
@aboutthat5539 Жыл бұрын
Paul, great to hear from you brother. Spot on. Sad it takes many of us as men to grow to this point. All part of the walk of life I suppose. Hope you are well out there in the world today my man.
@paulcooper5748 Жыл бұрын
@@aboutthat5539 Sad but true that it has to come to this with dealing with women.
@XxxX-wx3er3 ай бұрын
Yeah but you can’t complain of a toxic situation if it’s you who’s the asshole. Sounds like you’re the problem and toxic to be around.
@BloodyHeck Жыл бұрын
If being an asshole is NOT treating her badly and that’s not what you mean, why is it I’ve seen unemployed alcoholics who beat and cheat on their wives seem to have their absolute devotion and they won’t leave him for anything?
@aboutthat5539 Жыл бұрын
Bitches be crazy
@Akrazzyy Жыл бұрын
Divorce matters for women a lot Cuz their Age matters Society matters They get more negative emotions Not saying they shouldn’t leave , they should leave for better. But once someone is trapped like that, they need external help to guide them through.
@devilsadvocacy Жыл бұрын
It goes farther than that. Think about how hot they get for notorious criminals. The more heinous their crimes, the better. Hybristophilia is the name for it
@flookie7685 Жыл бұрын
Attachment and fear of rejection.
@Stumbo99 Жыл бұрын
This sounds like a fusion of a few different concepts that the OG, Patrice O'Neal used to talk about: In your heart of hearts, what would you miss if she left aside from her body and sex? Nothing, most likely. Knowing you're better than her because of all the work you've put into your life to get where you are and what you have. And, once she knows you will righteously leve she will righteously stay. This was a great video, man. Thanks
@aboutthat5539 Жыл бұрын
Rob, thanks so much for tuning in and adding some valuable perspective. I appreciate your presence here my friend. Hope you are well out there in the world today. Mike
@TGP109Ай бұрын
Nice way of saying you value nothing but sex-little wonder women are refusing to date or get married.
@MikeSmith-fe3ng Жыл бұрын
The weak minded simps that don't value, respect, stand up for themself, and are afraid to say "NO" (when needed) are those that say, "Man, how does an asshole like that get all the girls? I could never treat a girl like that." A woman wants to look UP to a man, gain his approval and respect, not the other way around. If you're always putting someone up on a pedestal, how can they look up to you and respect you? They can only look down on you as you're only putting them up and above you. Loving, respecting and valuing yourself shouldn't be perceived as being an asshole as this is a misconception among the beta simps. It's how every confident man should be. Being mean, disrespectful, and putting them down isn't the way to go even though it works on a good %age of women, especially if they're damaged.
@reoferha3118 Жыл бұрын
well put
@nelsonhibbert5267 Жыл бұрын
Yeah. But a lot of the time they're going out with guys that are actual assholes.
@calvinlandry038 ай бұрын
@nelsonhibbert5267 Exactly bro.....and they Love, Worship, and Adore those guys and love every minute of being treated like Dried Dogg $hit.
@Cousinbiddy12 ай бұрын
@@nelsonhibbert5267only minority of women do
@TGP109Ай бұрын
NO ONE, male or female, likes a slavering dog looking for pats all day. Women don't want ''to look up to a man'' they want to be around people they respect-just as you do. A little more common sense and less RP memes.
@hslhrd707Күн бұрын
The problem is security. Not enough patrols and they should put more security cams around the complexes.
@notmgtowyet84422 ай бұрын
Seek out mutualistic relationships. Reject parasitic relationships.
@aboutthat5539Ай бұрын
I love this
@user-ky5dy5hl4d7 ай бұрын
I think it's women that made men that way.
@joshuajones775411 ай бұрын
Good advice! Value yourself men 💪
@aboutthat553911 ай бұрын
Appreciate it! Thanks for checking in Joshua. Be good out there my man
@copperpumpkin26485 ай бұрын
I'm so grateful I stopped giving the world a shit I stopped carrying a woman I stopped caring about Society I just stopped giving a rat's ass of a fucking everything it was the greatest thing that ever happened to me.
@aboutthat55394 ай бұрын
Hang in there brother!
@drleo64093 ай бұрын
As Clark Gable said in “Gone with The Wind “ Frankly I don’t give a damm My wife gave me pure misery off and on for over a year. Then she threaten to divorce me. I said “ok” she had a complete turn around.
@aboutthat55393 ай бұрын
Ah yes, the gone with the wind line. Is this not one of the greatest moments in cinema ever made? More importantly this is a depiction of this concept. So accurate. Thanks for tuning in my friend.
@mannyt409 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being blunt
@denkverlag116 күн бұрын
as long as women have any power… you cannot win this stupid game…
@1pcmedic2 ай бұрын
If all she has in the cart is beauty, bail out ASAP. Nobody is doing you a favor except yourself.
@aboutthat55392 ай бұрын
I agree my friend. A woman's beauty can only take her so far, with a strong minded man that is. Many of us cave to the kryptonite for a long time. Lord knows I'm guilty. Thanks so much for commenting brother. I hope you're well out there in the world today.
@imdiyu Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video. I worked in Bhutan for two years. Bhutan is also known as the land of peaceful thunder dragon. Not just any dragon but thunder dragon. It aligns with the idea that men should be monsters and know how to control it. You are dangerous, but benevolent. Only then you gain respect.
@aboutthat5539 Жыл бұрын
Hey Imdiyu, thanks so much for your comment brother. I really like this analogy. I always love to hear from other men from other cultures and other parts of the world to learn new things. I really appreciate you. Your channel looks great btw! You have a real creative talent. Follow that my man. I'm certain it will take you to amazing places. Best regards.. Mike
@imdiyu Жыл бұрын
@@aboutthat5539 I shall follow my dreams. Thanks man
@aboutthat5539 Жыл бұрын
What part of the world are you living in? I'm so fascinated by your film making
@imdiyu Жыл бұрын
@@aboutthat5539 India
@calvinlandry038 ай бұрын
Jordan Peterson talks about that exact analogy. It is spot on.
@tonydiesel3444 Жыл бұрын
They are sexually attracted to the dark Triad traits psychopathy machiavellianism neuroticism and one other I can't remember
@aboutthat5539 Жыл бұрын
Well said Tony, thanks for tuning in my friend. Hope you are well out there in the world today.
@devilsadvocacy Жыл бұрын
Narcissism is the missing corner you’re looking for
@BlakesPipes7 ай бұрын
Thank you, sent this to my ex wife
@MrRayopt9 ай бұрын
Proof: A different KZbin called The Insulting Librarian
@DavidWilliams-nl2lw2 ай бұрын
Prat em . Fake rejection to increase desire. From the Days of Iceberg Slim.
@Teimo_Pielinen01 Жыл бұрын
1 step: You should be a man 2 step: check the result
@herbertvonsauerkrautunterh2513 Жыл бұрын
Tom leykis explains it really good 😛👍
@aboutthat5539 Жыл бұрын
Hey Herbert, I like Tom, good call on that one. Hope you're well out there in the world today my friend.
@herbertvonsauerkrautunterh2513 Жыл бұрын
He can be a bit krass though and rude but that's life
@aboutthat5539 Жыл бұрын
I agree!
@mikegarrens52862 ай бұрын
I don't care what anybody says when you meet a woman she will always first try to put you in friend zone!!! Dealing with her emotions taken her phone calls every minute of the day. being available too much. Fixing tires. Take care of this stage first before you move on to what this guy saying. And this guy makes sense.
@motormouthalmighty Жыл бұрын
I ALREADY AM.IT JUST COMES NATURALLY!
@MH-zg5yw Жыл бұрын
Acting mean? Hahaha
@Alani-cv4li Жыл бұрын
Hey, great job this sounds like it’s all based on Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire. And yes, that’s the material you need to have him resonating with erotic electricity at your will. Sounds like too much IK, but just for the basics it's worth go'ogling her ;)
@douglasbriel6103 Жыл бұрын
Teasing.
@nelsonhibbert5267 Жыл бұрын
Touch my bum......gently.
@Cousinbiddy12 ай бұрын
Step 1: Don’t be a jerk to women , just be nice and be a gentlemen to her
@SantaAnaGeorgeJ2 ай бұрын
Sure, and get walked over constantly like a doormat.
@Cousinbiddy12 ай бұрын
@@SantaAnaGeorgeJ ok not that , u also have to stand up for urself as well
@flookie7685 Жыл бұрын
It goes the same way back to women too. If I’m able to just leave and go whenever I want, how much respect you think I’m gonna have for her? Zero. I treated my ex like shit and came and went all the time cause SHE allowed it. The core of relationships are boundaries which are your personal rules for how you wish to be treated. Set strong boundaries and you set a strong relationship.