7 things women do to manipulate and control men

Some women can be master Manipulators so if you're not quick to see through and recognize manipulation, you could be neck deep in relationship drama before you say 'Jack"
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00:00 - Intro
01:28 - Number 1
03:04 - Number 2
04:02 - Number 3
05:30 - Number 4
06:45 - Number 5
07:33 - Number 6
09:30 - Number 7
10:47 - What to do when you're facing manipulation
11:23 - Solution 2
12:06 - Solution 3

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[@kennedyeprosper4868]

What do I do,I have a Kid with a big manipulator, currently I moved out of my rented apartment for her,she has children before we started and she also lied about her age, emotionally, physically and financially I have invested on the relationship, discovering all these on my own am losing it,what do I do😭😭😭😭

[@kennedyeprosper4868]

Am 25,but it seems she's close to 40 she lied about her age, almost everything!!

[@ahiaduchris2645]

I Just Love You Soo Much. God bless you for us

[@z8nethelabel476]

What about she call you a next man’s name?? 😓

[@sundaymuchika763]

Thanks for the eye opener

[@360withGod]

As a woman this is teaching me to do better in my relationship and be mindful of my actions. Thank you

[@philipphilip1144]

Good disposition

[@samuelbennett6981]

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Thanks *johnsonspy* for the remote access into target's complete phone activities

[@fadhilikyalo2572]

Thanks

[@kennethgithinji5631]

Quick question. Can the manipulation be also sub-concious most of the time

[@osamaqtaitat]

I was badly manipulated emotionally and financially by the first woman i love! This will create a complex towards women, and honestly a lot of this are true! I was stupidly loving , innocent and honest! And i’m a pessimist mostly! These things reassure my pessimism!!

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Top 7 Baby!.. Jess keeps it real..No BS here..the truth and nothing but the truth..She cares about her subbys..God Bless You for spreading the knowledge..most appreciated my friend. Enjoy your weekend. 🙏. Lets get this lady to 100,000 and beyond subs..she deserves it..

[@jockamofeno7632]

This makes me think that getting into any relationship with a woman means entering into a power struggle.

[@jockamofeno7632]

It also makes me think that I should never take anything any woman says at face value. Sort of like if I hired a felon to help me with my business.

[@CyberPunkBadGuy]

Its almost like its because it is those things.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

@@jockamofeno7632 A "no trust" situation

[@cloverfield2723]

That’s how it is…

[@spiritphingaz_]

There'll always be that power struggle but a man has gotta be a man

[@geraldgrecilien4835]

I needed it! Thanks Jess🙏🏽

[@eddiemontgomery7088]

Jessica, I have experienced fellow pastors encourage wives to use the very tactics on their husbands. Thank you for this clarity.

[@anderikusjuadi]

Your explanations are flowing and excellent, thank you

[@ebenezerazinatettehnartey6822]

This is exactly what is happening to me now. Thanks for your advice. God bless you

[@senesiethomas7141]

I don’t know how I learnt all these traits without ever having listened to anyone teach me them. Watching Jessica break them down just as I thought of them gives me the confidence that there is something about my thought and observation that is unique and it may be a gift. I am a student of life and by just observing human behavior and psychology which for me is a deep subject matter in the game of life, I have be able to self-teach myself by observation.

[@oniasmusa9653]

same here.....i'm thankful to God for such. Im so quick to pick and thwart them

[@xrpinmywallet421]

Media movies and the united comradeship of Oprah and Tyler Perry.. I thought Beyonce would be that good influencer but Beyonce is a woman of the highest quality... marriage, career, and a nuclear family unit.....she obviously was not easily lead astray. Oh yeah and she's pro-black . Love her no Cap

[@khobbysticks7A]

You must be a Gemini I guess

[@adebayoomotoshoprincesage]

Same here. Thanks to Jessica for confirming it

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@@khobbysticks7A 😂😂😂😂😂

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Jess is always on point. Insightful! 💯

[@riderofthe4thseal]

A lot of good information here. Thank you for posting!

[@EkeneRichard]

They have been dealing with us, thank ma’am for all these revelations.

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[@Moses_MoyoMbewe20]

Always on point and insightful.Thank you madam Jessica!!!

[@pilato6862]

I've encountered this just this month and I'm out of that relationship... Jessica you're really doing a very good job, your research is superb and accurate and your tips helps a lot.

[@calebedziedavidson4866]

You nailed it Jess! 100% spot on🎯 Thank you!

[@adembaalex3501]

I was once controlled but then i learnt to value my self and moved on, thankyou Jessica

[@Introvertedalpha]

🙌

[@JohnHarrison-on1yu]

Thank you I wi don't want to but I will

[@mamdi122003]

Very honest!! Thank you so much for your insight about this.

[@thecarloveshow5403]

I needed this particular one all along....great job Jessy...Nigeria

[@Kats_ronnie]

Ever since I started following this channel I decided to chill love and work for my self

[@waltergoodwin7463]

Second wife very manipulating an extremely pleasant with it. on my side was 23 years of experience with her. Year two of marriage I knew what she was doing and told her it was not needed but to talk to me. When she didn’t talk I decided that enough was enough. She became violent even tried to get me arrested. Had an order to keep me out of my own home. Divorced in April 2016. Have built n improve myself since. Love yourself enough to say no without hurting them (emotionally) if you can. She still tried to manipulate her way into getting part of my tax refunds after more than a year apart. Some are extremely violent and deadly when they can not get their way. 🌷

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Jessica OS on point as always!! You are appreciated!

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[@chatvendertechnology]

Great Knowledge, thank you

[@johnkomesa5713]

Very insightful. Thanks Jessica! Keep up with the great work.

[@awat2262]

Good morning. Thanks for your insight and knowledge . I'm in a relationship that I'm not sure what is going on. These tips help me to identify some things I didn't understand. You are a blessing.

[@calebedziedavidson4866]

Thank you Jessica! God bless you for these insights ❤

[@davidroussell5118]

Your voice, energy and presence is so calming!

[@flyingstump2938]

With great power comes great responsibility. She could manipulate and get anything from a guy, but uses her wisdom for good. Bravo

[@renataaddy9059]

Jessica you are smart, Intelligent and very eloquent.You hit the nail right on the head

[@donnaleehinds2514]

You’re almost at Judge Toler’s level. Keep sending these videos. I’m getting medicine from every video. 🙏🏽

[@BlackSolutions7532]

Toler is a bias 🤡

[@intergalactic11]

Great exposition! Easy to perceive and assimilate!

[@eleazargapare1856]

Thanks for the powerful points.... God bless you auntie Jessica 👌

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I love everything about your content Jess... Can't wait to meet you IRL someday 😌😌

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I love it when you say ‘MY GUY’ . JOS , it pains me a lot of Africans don’t have access to your wealth of wisdom. I need to be with you. 💋

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Daniel, you're very right

[@osamudiamendanielodaro6165]

@@ademolatolulope9444 you welcome

[@nathiradebe4467]

I had replay the whole clip to ensure it's instilled in my brain. Thanks Jess

[@MADINAHHOODTV]

Am happy to be here with Jessica

[@stevesteinman1152]

The "Silent Treatment" is also a manipulative tactic.

[@apoloallanson3266]

This is right, I've faced this emotional blackmail from ma somebody...

[@jsewava]

I missed a number of your inspirations , but just know i admire your work, your inspiring, keep doing it...its worth watching. Soon i will on your panel!

[@DEACONPETERWATSON]

Real talk, thanks for keeping it real, we need more men studying the word of God.

[@fiklyrics6071]

My favorite on this one🥰🥰As usual.

[@oto-obongrobert9005]

Thank you for being honest and objective.

[@kinggeorge5210]

This is another beautiful piece, am most grateful dear

[@lakachanhassan4558]

Thank you Jessica for these info. You're doing great. Keep it up.

[@simbanyangumbe]

Never have I come here & left uninformed ♥️🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@THENAGES]

It's amazing how @Jessica is well informed 🥰

[@Jalloboy]

I really need this video at this point in time. Thank you Jessica

[@y7k31]

Look sharp my guys!!! So sweet thanks as usual.

[@bethelightbringer8004]

She hit a lot of points. One is saying NO narcissistic women hate that word and they'll call you names, expose their hands, I found out a lady was cheating on me all because I said NO.. She spazzed out. She confirmed everything I had always suspected

[@rujwan3918]

wow..crazy

[@scproductions9878]

You did the right thing all it takes two lettered word "no". And watch their actions you have achieved in staying in your power.

[@lavytechworld6192]

I believe no one can manipulate or try to control anyone if they love them.. if someone tries such behaviors, just run for yo life coz I believe LOVE is just being free and enjoying each other.

[@carlosverde-datingtips7001]

I hear ya - LAVY! This is a good example why you have to be very careful who you get involved with - because they could possibly ruin your life, and the career that you’ve worked so hard for. You have to pay really close attention early on in the relationship, to see if you can spot any red flags before it’s too late. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[@leefromkenya]

Mehn 💥

[@nblake7777]

💯🎯✅

[@Healthywealty]

This was really great, the way it was said and all that was said and expounded upon.

[@kunledeji656]

I sincerely do appreciate you for this counsel . Its the word for the moment

[@t-panda808]

Absolutely amazing 🤯 this sounds exactly like my last relationship for more than a 8 years. I was gaslighted and manipulated, been apart now for three years and still trying to reprogram my mind from all the toxic… you’re always on point by the way 🥰. Have a wonderful weekend!

[@daviedood2503]

I'm a year out from 13 years of it. Wasn't left with anywhere to go and had to just stick it out. Hoping it's just S.T.O.P. enjoyed good days, waited out bad days was the routine..

[@t-panda808]

@@daviedood2503 That's a long time, stay positive man.. wishing you peace and happiness from here on out.

[@daviedood2503]

@@t-panda808 thanks man. Just focus on u. Never feel guilty for choosing YOU especially FIRST. Who cares if u put YOU over some chick first.

[@t-panda808]

@@daviedood2503 Facts 💯... You need to be happy with your self before you can make anyone else happy. There are many women out there, It's just a matter of when you are ready and willing to start another relationship. Honestly I'm happy being single at the moment, could be for a long while. Peace out bro ✌

[@daviedood2503]

@@t-panda808 same man. I'm not getting involved with that 80% divorce rate. I'm just glad I didn't have children with her nor marry her. I'd be up a creek with no paddle. 😂

[@Introvertedalpha]

You explained emotional manipulation really well; thanks for this advice.

[@danielflores5255]

I love your videos!! You are so on point every time.

[@bsummer]

never knw Jessica had this much presence on KZbin ..OMG!! Girl uve been working she close to a Mill Subs.. Big Ups!!

[@abdulkareemissaololele3862]

Honestly the manipulation in my relationship is getting worse every day and I'm fed up. Thank you for your advice

[@keidonke]

i feel the same way😭😭

[@KimsCS124]

My advice is to leave. I made the mistake of putting up with it, since I didn’t know I was being manipulated. I blame myself for it everyday

[@infrekwent]

Same 😭 I have been dealing with this for years but I just don’t want to leave my daughter.

[@0382isaac]

@@infrekwent sorry

[@fanoftheart3619]

Man I been stuck for 10 years cause I dont wanna leave my babies, but Im miserable 😭😭😭

[@martinmusokem5765]

Talk about tears Jessica . That is the most used tactic among many women to manipulate men. Thank you Jessica preciate

[@musoni33]

Jessica, you are admirable. A good teacher and leader. Bravo.

[@nicholassenge9185]

You're great in the way you Annalise these issues.

[@pascalsugri562]

Great piece! It's about time our society (Ghana) especially get to know these manipulators (narcissistic sociopaths/personality disordered beings, etc) exist, the serious (mostly permanent) psychological damages they can cause and how to identify them.

[@SethTyus]

AMEN HALLE'LU'YAH!!!

[@emmanuelmoyani2306]

Thank you so much, I am in the same boat and trying very hard to leave because we have children. It's been many years of perseverance with a hope that things will change😢

[@anniehills3580]

Listen, every day you stay with him, is a day you lost with your children. You can change that by asking legal advice now. Have him removed, ask for alimony and child support. You are going to feel way better than you are calling the shots in your life. Your children are going thru the abuse with you both now. Give them a chance to have a life without abuse!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@gregm3224]

This is a good video, I like your content. You are giving out the truth about toxicity in relationships, so kudos for that.

[@flourishdeemusiq]

You are the best Jessy. Thank you.

[@SC-or2ek]

Marry for 30 years the last 6 years was the worst She withholding sex or Any intermatcy So I just ignored her Now she said I'm gay 😪😪😪 Now she try to get intermate I just said no I told her to save it for her next life I don't really care anymore

[@martycech5844]

Relax. Sit down with each other and talk it out. Try 100% to make your marriage work again. Happily

[@nhlakaniphohlelakazulu5763]

30 years broe....please see if there's a way to solve it sometimes the unwise don't believe they need to learn

[@tamarakepreyeomgbuayakimi.1379]

Wow,"Rip as in you were like save it for the next life". 😭😭😭😂

[@iffysd9864]

Why didn't you leave her before?

[@thomasagorhom1139]

I am gone past that stage where a woman cries or insults me or withhold sex to get me to do something. The simple thing is to learn to say NO when necessary and stick by it, it works.

[@albertjr.656]

Glad I am free from an emotionally abusive relationship. God!! Thanks for putting my experience into proper context Jess💅💅 Now I know for sure that I made the right call😇

[@martiniloh1349]

You're just as honest as possible. I'm impressed by your teaching.

[@brielle4471]

Great thanks, Jessica! you are on point...... however I have one thing to comment on here....and... that is, your beautiful and sweet voice, coming along with a great command of the English language ... I really enjoy listening to you.

[@GodBlessTheChild1]

Though your title describes manipulative women it is, as you also mentioned, the traits of manipulative people. I’ve had and seen men do EXACTLY the same thing. I’m not a woman, but i’ve seen a manipulative character up close. Instead of tears used by manipulative women, it was an outburst of rage on an object by the man, to get the outcome they desired without compromising. Compromising is the key word. ANYONE wishing to get me to do something with little to no compromise about my objection, is manipulative. “Thank You!” for sharing this. ❤️🖤💚

[@femiogunjobi4900]

I love the last solution to dealing with manipulative women: learn to say NO. That has saved me so much integrity. Even if you decide to say YES, its better to first say No, than to say YES initially and later change it to NO. Jessica is a good at discussing this relationship matters,

[@SHOWERSTVBIZ]

Good stuff as always. Keep them coming

[@AndongGK]

Hey Jessica OS, that's good stuff. Keep on keeping up.

[@josepholdham1159]

Thank you so much for releasing this video. I have identified several women who are in my life that use the manipulative strategies that were highlighted to either force me to do what they want or to degrade/emasculate me. Please keep doing what you are doing Jessica OS 🙏🙏🙏

[@madinabrantleybrantley1646]

No

[@josepholdham1159]

@@serenitysmith352 agreed. It wasn't my intention to come across as misogynistic, it just so happens that the two main people who have relied on these strategies happen to be females.

[@miamiflorida2043]

This is so sad & she is so right that is why I don't want a relationship I rather be single....

[@bujo255]

I have subscribed to this channel a while ago.. Atlast I just bumped into a video that says 90% of my relationship.. Ubarikiwe sana Jessica..

[@SPANTANALE]

This is so educative.thank you so much.lesson learnt

[@rujwan3918]

I just heard about this Channel and I believe that it's definitely a channel that men need to have. I've seen a lot of men manipulated over the years and it makes me so sick. I'm the type of person who does not like to see anyone being manipulated but I find that women tend to do it more than the opposite sex and have caused a lot of grief in not only men's lives but even in the Church, workplace, etc. I firmly believe that mothers need to teach their sons what to look out for but most do not. I appreciate this channel.

[@shegelee]

I have been into such relationship. She used emotional blackmail, sex, always wanting me to prove I loved her while she wouldn't do anything of such, easily bursting into tears at any slightest argument.

[@awumemcdonaldsonalex1646]

Auntie Jessica, thank you very much for the advise

[@elvissambamo897]

This is true! Watching from Zambia

[@fonzworthbentley7455]

They tell you that you're being insecure when you confront them about their negative behavior. Also the "if you loved me, you'd..." And "All you want from me is sex"

[@davidjohnson5243]

All her points were great! The one thing I don't agree with what she said was about not taking life seriously. I take life very seriously because we only get one and we are not promised tomorrow. But we have to have balance also and not enjoying this beautiful life that was giving to us can cause significant trauma in our lives. Can't take life so serious that we don't have fun and enjoy it. But also not being so loose with life to the point we take it for granted and not appreciate it.

[@TheAustrianPainter87]

"If you love me you'd.. " every guy has heard these words😆. Women ain't shyyyt.

[@Enzy662]

❤😂 you said it all ..they complain insecure when you confront them . My partner will always complain that all I want is SEX! I feel bad cos is not true , I just need that bonding but at a point I learnt to damn the sex , unless she wants it but it's not SAFE to the relationship..what do u think ?

[@mariog3326]

Thank you Jessica! This is truly a very well made video with the content all being true! My ex was very manipulative, deceitful and selfish. She had and did everything you mentioned. Thanks again!

[@philemonakanji4465]

Thumbs up, Aunt Jess 💖💖💖

[@amusEcode]

I really appreciate this Jessie... ones a guy do a great thing for a lady or some other things, she will be the most happiest woman on Earth...by the time you know it, she is carried away by her emotions...she starts doing stupid and crazy things...like calling you sweet names, things she has never tell you before...she becomes talkative...she is not her real self that moment... by the time you know it, you're being manipulated...you can be so deceived to the fact that, you'll do more more things for her...when you come back to your logical thinking,you regret and noticed you were trapped...Guys let be wise for women knows how to trap we guys...

[@josephnguma3386]

Found her lighting my gas cooker, That's definitely Gaslighting 😂😂😂 I'm out

[@xlentb9733]

the most annoying part is there is nothing you gain from such women and relationships you only get used, manipulated and tormented using the love you have for her against you. i keep wondering how women can use a man so rough for years bcs he loves her without feeling pity. but what they dont know is love is a spirit and once you abuse love wait for pay back. i thank God i know this all long once they cant control,use or manipulate you for their satisfaction come and see anger and hate from them. most importantly if her friend is ising her boyfriend anyhow and she cant use you like that some will go diabolical but it is ok let her try if you know how to keep God's law. innocent people need to wake up and stand strong these days satan move through opposite sex to destroy them.

[@snOags]

#4... i know it as "if...then" statements. You describe it so accurately. Its so destructive.

[@leratomaloka503]

This was very informative. Thank you 👌🏽❤️

[@papayaw717]

Whenever I listen to Jessica I see the other version of today’s woman(feminist extremist).If she really does what he preaches then I can say men should be careful with women of that type--I mean take them seriously when you have one. For this version of women they really take their men very seriously. Whatever a man requires in a relationship they never disappoint. But be ware! They are independent and can’t be trampled on just like that. Women who advises men to open their eyes on women men should not be taken for granted. I know many women disapprove what she stands for , especially in this generation. But women Jessica is not ANTI-WOMEN. Her brain is of different calibre. I LOVE YOU JESSICA. Keep keeping up what you are doing. Only some few mothers would even give this weapons to their sons.👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿

[@newmanamuki613]

Thank you Jess. I must say I am truly been manipulated for some time now , I have waisted my Time, Money and Emotions on this woman I am currently dating. Most things you mentioned are evident, I see that most times. I think I have a clear stand now on how to deal with it cause it has been affecting my mental health for almost 6 months now. I truly appreciate your work and advices . thank you. Regards, Newman ~God bless you~

[@JessicaOS]

It is well

[@isaacaryeetey9862]

Many guy I now understand why most of the fathers die and leave the mothers behind so much stress hmmmm God help men🤦🏼‍♂️

[@mimi-vb5ny]

@@isaacaryeetey9862 Men die early for so many reasons such as 1) Most of them are older than their wives. 2) Stress from work ,life or even society 3) Men have more dangerous jobs women and could run into accidents 4) Men have more secrets to cover up , especially the unfaithful ones and are sometimes over stressed from these. 5) Men don't take care of themselves, they are used to people taking care of them and picking up after them and the list goes on.

[@felixperry]

Thanks for thɛ Advised ♥♥♥

[@franklinreticent241]

Hey Jessica ..nmegonja sana " I have been waiting for it'' great job...💯

[@itzchuksy2117]

My ex have all this, I thought I was wrong leaving her, I thought I was wrong thinking she is manipulating, but the fact is that I wasn't happy at all, she made me act crazy hitting walls cause I don't want to hit her, now I know I made the right decision leaving her

[@Menofvalor14]

I have to leave!!! I have had enough

[@hillowheavenz9831]

*Emotional blackmail *Sex *Excessive compliments *Need for Love proof *Dramatic statements *Just joking always *Croc' tears..... Wow.... Just Subscribed😍

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Am binge watching you videos! Thumbs up and subscribed!

[@JessicaOS]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@haggaichibwe9103]

You are always on point,your tips are very helpful

[@robertchristopher1898]

I Love your posts because in the Past I used to think I over think too much and my friend would say I’m too observant but now I know I’m on the right path. Thanks for validating my thoughts

[@carolinesmith8316]

Always look out for sociopaths, psychopath and narcissist they are master manipulators

[@shemcaster2125]

Aka, ALPHA

[@TheFriendlyPsychopath]

@@Mfil What do you want to know?

[@Letrefl]

you have been a blessing to my life Jessica

[@davidngunda9973]

Super talk, I now understand how it works.. Thanks, all the way from Tanzania.