How To Be Beautiful and See Beauty, My Story

After being diagnosed with breast cancer, going through chemotherapy, and then a double mastectomy with reconstruction, my views on beauty and my own self image were changed. For the better.
I hope hearing my story can help free you from some of the harsh things we tell ourselves day to day, and start to see beauty in a new light.

[@luvnalaska44]

I’ve watched this several times because it’s so true. Being 61, watching the lines appear on my face, things on my body heading south, more jiggly bits than ever before you realize it’s a privilege just to be here. To wake up in this beautiful place. I feel grateful. Kindness. Such a simple word for such a life altering thing. I’m so sorry people have been unkind. And so happy it hasn’t dimmed your light .

[@jewelm1042]

Is it possible to love a person I don't even know personally? Cos I know I love you. Yes I love you. Saying that you are an inspiration is an understatement. You are more than an inspiration. You are sent from heaven to grace us with your being 😚

[@VintageBombshell]

Jewel M thank you so much for your kindness. I have been having a rough time with people cutting me down online. Making me question putting myself out here lately. Thank you for reminding me that there are kind people out here too. People like you are the reason I’m open and make videos 💕

[@caroline0515]

@@VintageBombshell I don't know who or why someone would do that. Your audience just wants you to be around to do videos, and share your life. I know when I subscribed, it was because of how vital and interesting you are at heart. You actually enrich your subscribers, who actually think of you as a friend.

[@ms-kaus4613]

I agree with Jewel. You are a blessing to me and others. Keep being you! I love you and your videos and family. God Bless You🙏

[@debramm4433]

You are a beautiful spirit! I love you 💕 Keep being amazing you🌸I want to add, you are breathtakingly beautiful inside and out!🌿

[@cindybrown1356]

You amaze me, Selena. I’m old enough to be your mother, and still find a heart connection with you. This video is reason to love you even more. You’re wise. I pray God’s blessings and watch care over you. Xoxo

[@yolandachavez3435]

Selena, you talking about what all you went through is self healing. Seeing you cry, hurts, cause you are a cheerful gem and you seem to always be giggling in your videos. You are phenamoninal. Your beauty is inside you. You have a sweet spirit. Hugs! God bless you for sharing your testimony. Someone needed to hear it.❤

[@dianewillson3261]

My spouse was terminal at age 38. We were engaged 4 2 weeks Given 3 days 2 live. He has had 21 cancer related surgeries, chemo, radiation to the brain. My mother did chemo next door in the hospital with the same doctor, same time, of the same disease He is 75 this July 24th 2019 You r doing great,. I only share because y r a brave and lovely women ...very Best wishes

[@elizabethwhite196]

Oh Selena! You are so precious! I’m old enough to be your mom and I know this video is over 4 years old but it serendipitously came up on my phone and I felt compelled to watch it. Fast forward- watching you and Pete refurbish a seaside home and watching the lovely job you’ve done on your Victorian home- I’m so genuinely happy for you and this journey you’ve been on. Watching you with your parents, I sense you have a wonderful heart and certainly have your priorities in order. Being 65 now, into beauty as a retired hairdresser and decorative painter- I too have made a career of making things beautiful and putting a lot of weight on that. Fast forward, beauty fades even under the best of circumstances and truly being comfortable in your own skin and truly realizing what and who is important in your life is where you put your worth in. I still put on my make up every day but there’s a different women staring back at me in the mirror andI too have a sense of gratitude for what I do have as opposed to what I don’t. Life can be cruel and unfair sometimes but there’s always a silver lining a a major life lesson in even the toughest times. When you come out with that sense of gratitude then you’re ahead of the game. I’m so happy for your health. I share your passion for interior design and refurbishing beautiful old stuff because I can appreciate it. Appreciating beauty in the most simplest form is a true gift. I don’t even know if you’ll read this quite frankly because it’s such an old blog but know I’m sending you heartfelt love. Good energy is always received. It’s the law of the universe ❤.

[@jeanmarietuggle3428]

I am praying for healing for my brain from my stroke!

[@annsmith4739]

Hi Jean Marie iv just read yr message,I do hope your better now ,an are feeling better bless you sending you love an hugs Ann uk xxx

[@dorettaraap1552]

I am a sixty-four year old woman who found you through your recycled life channel. I just watched your How to be Beautiful and See Beauty, My Story on your Vintage Bombshell channel. You are just the kindest sweetest young person I have been exposed to in a long time. Your words are powerful and honest. Thank You, I will be a viewer for life!!!

[@cindymarie2475]

I know this is a 3 year old vlog, but it is refreshing to hear your words of self love as well as connecting with one’s own spirit. It just open your eyes to the reality of your soul is more precious then the shell we live in. Love you Sabrina and all you bring to us each day❤️ God bless and always protect you ❤️🙏♥️

[@joannjohnson3022]

What a touching video. I sent it to my three daughters. You are absolutely beautiful!

[@caroleprisk98]

You were never ugly. Your brave, sweet self managed to glow through it all, and sharing your story will help any woman who faces a cancer diagnosis. I am happy that you feel your experience has opened your eyes and taught you valuable lessons. Thank you for reminding us to be kind always and to love ourselves. Being a woman is so hard sometimes because we are so hard on ourselves. We want to have lovely homes, happy mates, well behaved children, fulfilling jobs, taut bodies, a well groomers appearance, terrific sex lives, exciting experiences, strong mental health and to do it all with grace and ease. It's a good thing we have each other to lean on now and then.

[@sandraOddo]

Just a quick note regarding this video. I have followed you for over a year and had no idea of your past medical challenges. It would explain why you have such a wonderful connection with your viewers. You've come a long way and I wish you many, many more years of searching for the pretty and beautiful. I look forward to them all. My best to your mom,also.

[@Miladyleela]

Selena, YOU are TRULY BEAUTIFUL!!!!

[@punkin01ful]

Hi Selena, I went through breast cancer, too, and I had the harsh chemo. I lost all of my hair on my body. I remember I was at work one morning and I was teaching preschool. I took off my winter hat before the kids got there and my coworker said, "Oh my God, Tina, your hair is coming back!" I remember quietly crying. I was so happy. And relieved.

[@TamsPlace]

Excellent video! I followed you through your cancer and continue to follow you because your a wonderful person inside and out. Thank you for sharing this, and God has truly blessed you!☺️

[@elizabethbaker6280]

You stated that beautifully. Everyone has a story. We need to be nice to each other. I was stressing with 2 sons in the military deployed overseas at the same time when a coworker pointed that out to me. He wanted to show some support. You can't always tell by looking, what people are going through. I wish you health and happiness. I enjoy your videos on health tips, making a space that brings you joy, saving money, and enjoying nature. keep it up.

[@jillbruce3624]

Sharing your experiences with others helps more than you can even imagine. I thank you, Selena, for celebrating your life and loving your imperfections.

[@shariberry3123]

Hi, we have a news anchor here where I live. She is a lovely young woman who survived breast cancer going thru chemo. She went back to anchor on air after losing her hair, no wig and I was so proud of her. I saw her recently for jury duty, turned around to congratulate her and thank her for her courage and conviction.

[@dawnlovejoy8917]

The truly beautiful are the pure of heart. 💖

[@user-mp3jy4qu9s]

I think God said it best...Isaiah 66:9 I will not cause pain without allowing something new to be born. I have been a subscriber for awhile but had no idea about your back story. I just saw a beautiful young women who gave me great joy just watching her creative channel and her interactions with her husband and parents. Oh, and of course I love thrifting. That being said, I now see you in a new light. You are just as beautiful inside as you are on the exterior. You have made this 71 yr. old "grammy" very happy. Blessings and prayers...

[@margretbjornsdottir3444]

I had cancer and had chemo for 9 months Lost all of my hair on my body. I lost one breast and some lymph nodes . God gave us the power to heal ourselves. We are living our lives everyday and when we are sick we must think and act positively because it is vey healing and I’m still here very much alive. I’m a survivor of 25 years..Thanks for sharing your story. I admire you very much and you are very talented ,,...Margaret n Iceland

[@marilynhodgkinson5299]

Hi Selena you always radiate beauty. You have a beautiful spirit. I am a breast cancer survivor, and l think it makes you more compassionate, l am just so happy to be alive. I love your channel so much. Being kind to one another is the best. Xxxxxx

[@CindyHale6161]

I saw your beautiful spirit before your gorgeous looks, your fun style your laugh, always so happy. Excellent relationship with your husband and mother. You are what they call the total package. God has Blessed you, thank you for sharing your story.

[@Clueless2019]

This year I will turn 54. I was always what others consider pretty; but due to illness, I am losing said prettiness. Thankfully, in my youth, I focused on my inner self, specifically developing 'pretty' QUALITIES. And so, no matter how skinny I am, no matter how quickly I lose my youthful looks, I know that I still have my inner beauty to proyect outwards. Thank you for this beautiful reflection that reinforces my point of view about physical beauty. God bless you!

[@stacywestly64]

I know how late I am to this video. I went through Stage IV colon cancer...lost my hair twice. I was called every name in the book by complete strangers. I decided to rock the Sinead O'Connor look during my treatment. Now I embrace my gray and don't give a crap what anyone else thinks. Big love from your neighbor (in Beaverton!).

[@holly5791]

Oh the externals...My sister was a blonde blue-eyed bombshell. Then , at age 33, she suffered a massive stroke following a surgical procedure. The woman who had received beauty titles and had artistic abilities galore, suddenly reduced to disability. The after affects...being bedridden or in a wheelchair and gained up to 280 pounds. She would say that people made her feel like a second class citizen. Why? She was still the same person, with real feelings. I used to tell my children when they were growing up, if you even think of criticizing someone, first, consider how that kind of criticism would make YOU feel. It never cost anyone a dime to be kind, but oh the cost to the person you lob your darts at. Some people don’t have the inner strength that you have Selena, but bless you for letting them know that they can. Prayers for your continued healing, both mind and body. 🙏🏻🎀

[@lisawilson8651]

More spiritual is more natural! Thank you for sharing your testimony. I've almost died 3 times but God has a purpose in all of it. It has helped me realized who i am on the inner woman and my spiritual intimacy with my creator helps me grow. I've been a selfish brat most of my life but through these life challenges I've grown more mature. Your story is helping others and we so appreciate you putting yourself out there!

[@analogkid28]

A wonderful message. You’re a bright spot on this earthly plane.

[@TheTexmomof5]

D'Ann J I rarely find another D'Ann. Blessings, D'Ann

[@analogkid28]

TheTexmomof5 I’m a Texan, too ! -D’Ann

[@rosemaryborg6860]

I’m 64 and I have watched you and your mum are so enjoyable to watch, I feel like you are my far away daughter. You are wonderfu

[@clairevagonis1873]

I’m just watching this today November 28, 2023. I’m going through your old videos. I’ve been watching you for a while but I never watched the old ones and I’ve always thought you were so beautiful. You should be a model don’t listen to what other people say ever your trolls they’re just jealous.

[@TheTinywhitedove]

Since you are being so honest I feel like I can be honest too. I have had self loathing my whole life. I was never thin enough, tall enough, pretty enough or successful enough. I tried like crazy to be all those things. I became a runner to be the ideal weight and ruined my knees thru the years. I ran so much that it was a race to get away from the negativity. I finally reached a point in my life that I just didn't care anymore what the ideal woman was supposed to be. So I know that your words are right on point. I followed you thru your cancer battles and Selena? I really thought we were gonna lose you at one point. I prayed and prayed for God not to take you home. The thought of what your family would have had to endure was too much for me to think about. It is amazing to me what all you have struggled with and you have remained so positive and loving. I appreciate your kind words and I want you to know that they struck my heart like an arrow filled with truth. Thank you Selena, thank you kindly for your precious wisdom. We love you out here and we consider ourselves lucky to be able to have you on our side. Thanks for sharing!

[@barbarateresarhiannonsreal1756]

I see in you a beautiful young lady full of life, & someone that's connected with the past & with great vintage treasures. Someone who is youthful, fun loving & living her best life. I was "floored" a few days ago when I found out about you being a cancer survivor. I haven't been through that but having ME/CFS & Covid-19 & being brought to my knees & being "revived" by watching your channel & others who love vintage... I have to say, the battle is real & you look BRAND NEW & unscathed by your trauma. Wow! Great video & what strength you have & it shows in a way that is gentle & warm & young... Not harsh, cold & tough. Wow, you've been through a lot & it doesn't show at all. I'm just so amazed at your beauty & strength. Congratulations on your strength, beauty, your relationship with your husband & parents! I WISH YOU THE BEST!

[@christinanancarrow7066]

You are so beautiful and inspirational. I’ve been watching you and your Mom for several months now. I love your spirit, joy and laugh. Thank you Selena. Keep being you honey. Love, hugs and prayers.

[@LifewithLillie23]

I found your channel in Feb 2018 as I was healing from mastectomy. I have watched you since, but typically don't comment a lot. I come back to this video, when I need to hear this, and today....I needed to hear this!

[@patriciabradford807]

Thank you Selena. I was thinking just today, “I wonder if she realized when she started this how much enjoyment she would be giving to so many strangers”? I’ve struggled with obesity all my life, and my self worth has suffered as a result of the idea of feminine beauty and the rejection I experienced. Your spirit comes through in each of your videos. I feel like we’re friends (though I’m your mom’s age) simply because you share your experiences in such an honest and delightful way. My heart broke for you when I watched your struggle with cancer and the horrible sickness with chemo. I’ve had my share of heartbreak also over the years; but girl, we just keep doing what we love, keeping it simple and giggling at ourselves. 💕

[@flowergalpower2681]

Once you have cancer your whole perspective on life changes- you don't sweat the little things anymore - you look at everything differently . It's your spirit and belief in God that gets you through it.God gets you through it. I'm a survivor since 2005.

[@willothwisplx2516]

Well I am not a breast cancer survivor, but my mom passed about two years ago from breast cancer, so I do understand somewhat where you are coming from. And I am 67 years old now. You know what, I feel like you do. I used to wear everything every hour of the day that I was awake. The eyeliner, false lashes. Hair was styled and long also. My family and friends also ribbed me about it. I always felt I had to do all that to be who I was, and to be liked and, I based everything I did and was, on how I looked and dressed. Everything had to be perfect or I would not leave my house. Now when I look back, just taking care of me was a lot of work and stress. I am glad I am more relaxed now. Still take good care of myself, but not so obsessed...lol. Life seems a bit easier now. Now I know that beauty is based on many other real things, not makeup. 🐣🌸🐞🐇🐝🌺👒🏵💐🌹💛🌻

[@SusanBRoman-ch9bm]

"In a world where you can be anything, Be Kind"

[@mariaguadagno9483]

Who could ever see something wrong with you.. You are so beautiful inside and out! I am so sorry you went through cancer. I have a prayer ministry and will pray you stay HEALTHY .Unfortunately people dont care what others go through or went through. I love your videos ...God Bless you!

[@sharaleeinsley7289]

You are so beautiful inside & out. I haven't had Cancer, my Aunt has gone through Breast Cancer twice & us being separated by several states I felt helpless. She refused to go through having her breasts taken. And this April she will be 17 years Cancer free. She went through so much & is my hero. As are her.

[@maryannbeatty8473]

You are even more beautiful today!

[@0230Raveena]

Wow, the tears are flowing. You are truly beautiful and because you have reached that place inside of yourself, it emanates from the inside out. Thanks so much for Sharing.

[@anns867]

Selena, you truly are a beautiful spirit. I have two family members who have survived cancer and kicked cancer's ASS and come out the other side. Thank you so much for this inspirational message.

[@maryhanger4519]

It is your friendly and kind demeanor that first made me want to watch you videos. You are what it is all about.

[@suzanconklin8415]

Sorry, accidentally sent to soon. 😂 Anyway, I was a high fashion model and very aware of how I carried myself and how I presented myself. Years went by and my beautiful little, petite daughter was diagnosed with incurable brain cancer. She was 28 at the time and she and her husband had a 6 yr old and a 2 year old. We were told she had 2 months to live. We were completely devastated, gutted actually. Holli used to tell me during that time “Moma, I just want to live to raise my babies”. She lost all her beautiful long blonde hair but never lost her drive and will to live. We prayed like we had never prayed before, and………that strong little angel is now 51 years old and enjoying her grand babies! We give all the glory to God🙏🏻🙏🏻 After my child became so ill I really didn’t care if I had a boob on top of my head !😂😂😂😂 I love so much. And so does Holli. You are far wiser than your years. God bless you Selina. 😘

[@VintageBombshell]

Thank you for sharing your story with me. Going through trauma definitely changes your perspective…. I’m so happy to hear Holli is well. Your families strength and prayers were powerful. Such a testimony ❤️

[@jeannemarie5878]

God 's blessings for your continued health! You are a witness and blessing to all!

[@sondracumberland3401]

Selena read ahead and never doubt yourself about anything! I can’t imagine those who are putting you down. These women have poured their heart out for you. They all love you and are as moved by this video as I am. All your walls are down and we know you and we love you! There are times you doubt Gods decision to let cancer happen to anyone. But He knows you and knows what you are all about. Selena you have helped more people than you will ever know about! That was his plan and it worked!🌹

[@michellepereira2328]

Hi, I watched this video in the past and it just showed up today. I think this is something we need to see every once in a while. It makes me appreciate all of myself and even my faults because I have never experienced such a difficult life experience in 67 years of life.

[@darnelleechols8556]

I'm sure this was a tough vlog to make, but I'm glad you did. After surviving a brain aneurysm in 2014 and being in a coma for 3 months after, I have periods when I'm down on myself. I'm almost nothing like I was. I'm not as physically strong. I'm not as energetic. I'm not graceful any more. This was one of my best attributes, in my opinion, and it's gone. I'm awkward now, sorta like being spun around too many times. It's a terrible feeling. I get so frustrated and angry. But I survived. So many people die each year from brain aneurysms it's unreal. I survived. I need to focus on that. Thanks for sharing Selena.

[@connielynch1278]

I was diagnosed with cancer January 4, 2019. I was unable to have surgery until February 4.2019. Bad weather forced me to cancel surgery three times. I was a mess to say the least. Finding your videos was so helpful for me. You are a true beauty, inside and out. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. Connie

[@terrygermany2670]

Thank you! Im going to start loving myself. All my life others have sucked the life out of me. Thank you dear Selena!

[@1966Svea]

Love you for your brave statement. My son had cancer at the age of five and my husband lost his fight three years ago. Thank you.

[@diannameyers8163]

I'm a worrier... Life is to short. I recently found a trivet with 3 words on it. ( From the Goodwill ) Be Silly... Be Honest... Be Kind. I believe it was from my sister who passed 6 months ago. I will try my very best to live by these words. She loved Mermaids, and there was a beautiful mermaid on the trivet. Selena you are STRONG WOMAN!!! Life is full of lessons.

[@katiewilliams576]

I've only been watching your Vintage thrifts for a short time...but after watching this video, now I know why! You have Powered through some heavy stuff....only to come out Shining Brighter, and sharing your Light with others ✨ You speak to my Soul, and resonate with my Spiritual side...so much is going on with so many of us in the Universe! We need more people like you to help others to stay positive 🙏 as we All push to a higher level in 2023! Thank you for sharing your Soul's journey......A Kindred Spirit, Katie

[@msdork61]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey and this very important message. I’ve always thought you were beautiful and your most beautiful feature is your laugh. 💕

[@VintageBombshell]

Thank you so much for your kindness

[@escwtfdmi]

Even though I have seen this before I am glad I rewatched it. I’m sending it to my girls. You are amazing! I really appreciate your sincerity and realism! You have a beautiful spirit, it shines all around you. You are beautiful inside and definitely outside. I love how you and Pete communicate and I see the real Love in your relationship I have a therapyst who I have been with since my car accident who has provided tools to live a purposeful clear and light existence. I now return the negative thoughts or vibes & intentions people transfer toward me back to them and not accept their hang ups and drama. I now refocus on “what else is possible” in this life. Why waste a minute dwelling on those things I used to be concerned with. We are given (if we are lucky) 89 years. How shall I live each day. And not look back in regret or concern over the past. Love God, love myself , love my family & love others. ❤❤❤

[@loramuer9314]

First of all you are so physically beautiful but your real beauty shines through in the way you interact with your mom and your husband. Second you have such a cute and quirky personality that makes me so happy every time I watch one of your videos.

[@geraldinemccormick8635]

Hi from Ireland ☘️, I've been watching your videos over the last year. I love second-hand shops or charity shops as we call them over here. I didn't know your back story. Glad you are well. I love watching you and your mum shopping. You have some brilliant shops and so many yard sales. Love it. Very inspiring lady.

[@kathyphifer7546]

I’m biracial. Not fitting into either world. I’ve been told to my face by folks, I should not have been born or should have been drowned at birth. My own family has also been ugly to me. But I now have a relationship with Jesus and His love has saved me not only from hell but from the destructive power in this world. I still don’t fit in. But I do with Him and that’s all that matters. I love your fighting spirit Selena. You are absolutely stunning inside and out. Thanks for being real.

[@user-xe2lk6qb4k]

You are such an inspiration I am so glad you survived cancer this is making me stop and appreciate my health because no one knows when that can be taken away God Bless you Selena!

[@kebergify]

Selena, I had no idea what you've gone through...I've been watching for awhile but see this was posted 3 years ago. What you've said is beautiful and so heartfelt...just like YOU! Thank-you for being you, girl.

[@Jennifer62389]

Why would anyone give you "thumbs down👎" ? There is inner beauty in everyone, you just have to find it. I think it took COURAGE for you to show us what it's like go through what you did on camera. Although I always felt like shaving my head because I'm sick of the up keep, I've never done it. We all have our inner self cutting us down, we don't need trolls or bullies doing it too. We should be bringing each other up.🤷‍♀️💖

[@naturelovestretch]

I can't believe anyone would have something negative to say about you. You're so genuine & have a heart of gold. I just stumbled upon your channel a week ago & it makes me feel happy when I'm watching a thrift haul or vlog bc you're not on here trying to be someone you're not & that's rare to find so thank you for showing us all we can thrive in being authentically ourselves.

[@ceciliadelgado6899]

Hi Selena. I am new to your channel. I always admired your positive upbeat sweet manner especially with your mom. I am 76 years old and have been thus breast cancer and Coronary artery disease. I realized we are living on borrowed time and try to be kind and helpful. I have a daughter but is estranged and when I see you with your mom I wish we could have a relationship like y'all. But I'll keep trying and praying things get better between us. God bless and keep you and family in his arms.

[@josephcharlesworby1993]

Wife replying. I lost my husband to cancer and I understand what you're saying because he knew he was going to die but you was still looking in the mirror because he still wanted to look good about his appearance. But to me that did not matter. He was still the man I married. You are one of the exceptional ladies that you always look beautiful.

[@jeanrussell8896]

You are so brave to share this part of your private life with us…Now this makes sense to me because you have such a special light around you!I love to watch all your adventures and hear you laugh,you have the sweetest personality.I found your site one night when I was really down and have binged watched ever since,love watching you and your Mom…Honey you have been very blessed with your battle with cancer,please don’t ever let someone with a miserable attitude bring you down.you seem to be living your life to the fullest,and you are a shining star in my book…You are beautiful inside and out,don’t let anyone ever take that away!one of you and your Moms biggest fans.keep on dressing up and smiling,God bless you all.

[@conniehubbard2142]

There is no possible way to please everyone. So thankful for all your videos, especially this one. You are loved by God and that is what matters.

[@cindypollock5489]

Just watched this today and want to pass on Selena you do radiate love and BEAUTY with in thank you from a two time cancer survivor we are warriors who are still here to spread love and to live in the moment indeed love to you my dear 🙏💪✌🏼💕

[@MariaFlores-ql1rg]

OMG had no idea what you have gone through. Before learning of your life challenge, what a saw a beautiful woman in a happy place in life with INCREDIBLE EXQUISITE taste, in the way you look, your decor, an unbelievable eye for detail and achieve all of that in a TINY BUDGET, that I've throughly been enjoying your videos. A beautiful soul and incredible strength that you are inspirational. You're truly blessed by GOD. MANY MANY BLESSINGS.

[@terrifiorelli9819]

Old video, but the message is outstanding. Selena, you are and have always been beautiful regardless of the experiences. We all struggle, but losing hair, breast or any other parts of us does not change who we are. This makes you an understanding woman of Gods love.

[@brandontodd3799]

Damn girl you made me cry and gave me a headache. It's nice to see somebody that's awake somebody that really really gets it love you girl

[@tinamc2820]

I didn’t know you had your own channel!!!! I had NO idea that you had been through breast cancer. I have been watching your other channel. I think you are so beautiful on the outside, but I also love your gentle, sweet spirit. If you take that away, the outside doesn’t matter anymore. I agree with and understand what you are saying. I have never had breast cancer, but I have had treatment resistant depression and anxiety for 9 years. I have lost all my friends, because they don’t understand pain and suffering at a deep level, so their lives just go on (and that’s ok). I know you must be strong to do what you do, and it is very difficult. I am very nonconfrontational and empathetic, so I have to work hard at seeing that I am still valuable. I am not saying that people can’t be thoughtless, selfish, and cruel, but you keep pushing through, because you know what is really important. That’s why I get out of bed everyday and push through, because God has my back. My soul is in his hands. Thank you for sharing your journey. I want to go back and catch up on your channel. I watch all the videos from THE RECYCLED LIFE!! Love you guys!!❤️❤️❤️

[@MithrilMagic]

Well said. You are beautiful inside and out. I used to feel so insecure about my body. I have 2 chronic illnesses. The type of Crohn’s disease I have causes me to actually gain weight. But I’ve reached a point where I have started counting my blessings. If I wake up and feel healthy and I have love and kindness inside, then it radiates through me. If you give love, you’ll get love. You are so special and lovely. And I’m so grateful for the day I clicked on one of your videos all those years ago. 💕💕💕

[@josiematthias3780]

You're such a beautiful person inside and out, and inspirational❣️ THANK YOU! I am with everyone else, you are loved. Watching your videos with your mom, makes me happy. Brings back memories of me, my sisters and mom when we used to thrift shopping. You are such a breath of fresh air!

[@dianerosario163]

Iam crying! I love you so much. Blessings. ❤

[@cosmogurl85]

Selena I too went thru breast cancer,I have the hardest time looking at the scars tho my breast were reconstructed I struggle so much with confidence, your such a inspiration to me.i love watching your videos. Your so sweet and just about the same age as my daughter. I’m glad God truly blessed you and was with you thru it. Take care sweet lady🙂

[@Joy4650B]

Wow! I have been watching you a lot lately, and have watched you and Laura many times. I have always thought you are BREATHTAKING beautiful! I have a channel too. I am 70 years old. I get mostly friendly, loving comments, but I have had some doozies too. My husband went through cancer and chemo and no hair. It changed my way of looking at things for sure. God bless you sweet girl!

[@Sandra-pm3it]

You are more beautiful now than before your diagnosis and treatment. You are a beautiful soul.

[@AbigailsArtfulAbode]

What a beautiful message. The gift in that trial is learning what's truly important early in your life. Some people reach the end of their lives without that blessing.

[@analeon908]

You are a brave woman, i went true that 3 years back 2016 . It changes your life, but all i wanted is to live. It changes the perpective that you have in life.

[@nancypeterson6347]

Thank you for sharing. I am not a vain person and thought loosing my hair was no big deal. I had to cover all our mirrors because it screamed cancer. An illness from hell. But I learned what really is important. I still have after effects so the bad days I rest the good days are even sweeter. Keep that smile coming.😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏

[@beverlyjohnson5579]

You are beautiful. My granddaughter just went through this. So now all three of us have had breast cancer.

[@frankminniti2328]

I have been watching you for a while and love your vlogs. I didn't know your whole story but always sensed your depth. Thank you for helping so many others learn to appreciate true beauty. I love your relationship with your parents as well. Many blessings and continued health and keep on sharing your beautiful finds. Marion

[@garywright4495]

True beauty on the inside out! The true meaning of graceful Women!

[@loramuer9314]

I just rewatched this video and I have to say what an astonishing message!This was something I really needed to hear at this time.Selena you are something else!

[@gretchenarrant8334]

These videos, you sharing your cancer with us have been a lesson to all of us. This one I love because you're so upbeat. You are so right about loving yourself first and it radiating from you. I always taught my children that beauty is only skin deep. If you dont have love and kindness in you, you are not at all pretty. You are a beautiful young woman inside and out, you radiate love and kindness. God bless. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Xoxo

[@sheiladyck5863]

You have been through SO MUCH Selena! What an amazing soul you are - and your beauty shines SO BRIGHT from within - back outward. You are spot on about not letting ourselves get caught up in our looks and beauty, (not only because of health issues - to which I have had many autoimmune issues over the years and I'm now 58 - but also from the aging process) because beauty does fade, but the light in our hearts can forever be beautiful - if we are happy, taking care of ourselves and have some kind of passion in our lives. I am very happy that your health is back again and I enjoy watching you and Laura and all the fun you are having together!! Come back to Montana some day 😊 - I live in Lewistown and we have a cool Antique store and several thrift stores for our smaller town. My husband and I live in, what was once a Motel - he remodeled it for us almost 40 years ago. I have guestrooms for you and Laura 🙂🙂!!

[@chrissy1310]

Why is no one saying how you look just like Mira Sorvino!!!! It took me 2 days to figure it out! About the time of Romy and Michelle, minus the 90's look LOL Your mouthz move the same! It's so cool. With beauty and looks it fades, I am 52, I see it myself. It reminds me too of 'stuff'. Our decor and things we really like. My parents are now in assisted living and us 4 kids are going thru the house and taking what we treasure and donating the rest. All that stuff we like, well! that is what happens to it in the end. You can't take it with you, it is just 'stuff'. Love your story, that was very motivational. I heard a saying...."If your going thru hell, well you better get going!" Awesome! Love your vids!

[@MaryJane-nf7yv]

Thank u for the beautiful words!! So needed to hear this!! Ur beautiful in n out!! 💜

[@viviangiese6344]

You are a champion! So beautiful inside and out. So thankful God heal you and you are still here. Keep enjoying life and b thankful for everything you have.

[@debilahaye7437]

I never would have known you went through all that by just looking at you. I love your videos and one of the favorite things I like is your snorting laugh!❤ I love you and your moms relationship and and how you do things together. God bless you. My sister has stage 4 breast cancer and she has an amazing outlook like you! And she’s doing good!

[@awendaylah]

I think you look way better as you are now than how you did in the past photos. Natural beauty for the win! And thank you for posting this video. Sometimes we as people need a speech that humbles us that listen because we live in a culture that is quick to judge, hate, and voice opinions. We all can do better. And this video is a part of the movement to be better people. So once again, thank you for sharing and giving us a much better understanding of you as well. And for being so vulnerable and real.

[@martiocallaghan1656]

Selena. Thank you again for sharing your truth. Now, because of what you yourself have experienced, you can pass on the spiritual light. God equipped you with what you lived through. I totally received the message, the Word, the Truth. Thank u again for sharing your new wisdom, after cancer. Blessings.

[@nataliejameson4495]

Wow... I didn't think I could love you any more... I was wrong.... thank you for this video... I'm going to think different now... thanks to you... I'm so happy I found you 😊

[@paulet68]

Well said! I am 50 and just celebrated 6 years breast cancer free. What you said is very much what I discovered during my cancer treatments and surgeries. I've always said I would never wish cancer on anyone, but I do wish that everyone could experience what cancer teaches you if you let it.

[@janisbrock6942]

U brought tears to my eyes. Beautiful message to live by.

[@maloumauricio2178]

Treating every person with kindness.. treating yourself with kindness.. < 3

[@sylvievicenza179]

I do know 2 women that had cancer that both husbands asked for divorce because they did not want to deal with that. You have chosen a good hubby.

[@rosamorales6330]

I LOVE YOUR NAME I HAVE STARTED FOLLOWING YOU N YOUR MOM RECENTLY ❤️ YOUR AN AMAZING BEAUTIFUL WOMAN ! KEEP UP YOUR BEAUTIFUL SMILE N LAUGHTER ❤️ YOUR CANCER SURVIVOR THANK YOU JESUS ❤️🌹ROSA 2/11/23

[@rebeccagrimsley7260]

You are a beautiful soul

[@nannalambert3980]

You are one of the few you tubers who stand out from the rest of soooo many superficial people out there. Keep growing and passing on your beautiful kindness to humanity.

[@SandyJoy13]

You are such a blessing to so many, Selena! I stumbled upon your videos just recently. I love your enthusiasm for life, family, and encouraging others! You are a strong woman! Keep spreading joy! 🦋