How To Be His Priority, Not An Option (7 Steps That ALWAYS Work!)

Learn how to be a man's priority (not an option) in this livestream with Helena Hart and her husband, Tom.
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[@HelenaHartCoaching]

If you'd like to attend my podcast recordings live and get your personal questions answered, download the Bullhorn podcast app from the App Store or Google Play here (it's 100% FREE!): onelink.to/gw2bn8 Once you've downloaded the Bullhorn podcast app, search for and FOLLOW my "Master Your Magnetism" podcast to get notified when I go live. Looking forward to connecting with you and talking to you personally! 💞

[@lovepositivity2632]

My problem is whenever I date a guy I put him on a pedestal and I idolize him like there is nothing or no one better than him on earth and he treats me poorly but once I leave him n move on he comes behind me and I have the problem of disappearing in my fantasy world when I date a guy I'm hating this habit I donno how to get rid of this

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

@@lovepositivity2632 This is exactly what we talked about in our recent live broadcast! You can listen to the replay on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/6X0EkQoNwCLcU2s7teG9Rt?si=-e-Zht-MSWOrU2rnYDFSmQ&context=spotify%3Ashow%3A2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3&dl_branch=1 …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000537286533 I’d also highly recommend watching these videos: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pXfZl4GjjLKom6c, kzbin.info/www/bejne/d2K1qYNuba-nq5o, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYfRm5ppiquMmrs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/g3XZaaGjab5oe80.

[@fleurreid5183]

I am feeling quite nervous and anxious at the moment and that has significantly impacted on my relationship with an amazing loving kind guy. I’m looking for how to find ways to pick myself back up, calm my energy, find positivity and find my spark again. Any tips?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Absolutely, these videos should be helpful for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rGOxnHiGjruirKM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHvbnHiYnadogKs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nImXZWyul91_pdk, kzbin.info/www/bejne/q6Cud59rlK5gadk, kzbin.info/www/bejne/g6q0o2qaZ7OGmaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nZu7ipeDbpWVibc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/iZ7VkHV3ia9raZI.

[@rietterust9874]

...m......mmonmmó

[@rinawilliams6249]

Helena, it's so obvious that you two were destined to be together. I'm so amazed by how Tom is just locking into your kind of work....and he's doing it so effortlessly. God bless your union.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much, Rina! ❤️

[@AS-ru7kf]

You both are just so adorable! Love how Tom can’t stop looking at you with such adoration. You are both blessed!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💞

[@allinotte4263]

What a great team! Love how Tom knows your message and how he looks at you! Amazing! Someone is out there for me too! I shouldn’t waste energy thanks for the reminder!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Alli! I’m glad you enjoyed this. 💞

[@gad6347]

Great point about watching his actions: My dad was not much of a talker or saying, I love you, but his actions spoke volumes ( I knew he loved and cared for me through his actions.) My ex-husband was always good with saying I love you, but HIS ACTIONS spoke volumes and his words were just that... words.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! I know many people can relate. 💞

[@BeeRejuvenatedStudio]

Loving that Tom also gives his perspective (a man’s perspective) . His maturity and input are an asset and also give value along with your amazing work and advice. It’s wonderful to see him coming onboard with you and showing an interest in your work.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Michelle! Here are a few more videos we’ve recorded together if anyone would like to check them out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/n5DFZGeJfL-Imck, kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaGQd4CtmNx8j6c, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk, kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJ-7oH6JgqaHpaM and kzbin.info/www/bejne/j3WwoayNoL6Hj68.

[@lana4442]

This information is absolute gold to me right now. I’m done being the pursuer for this guy. I’m done putting him on a pedestal, and I’m DONE accepting crumbs when I give the whole damn basket of cookies! I’m breaking up with him tonight and I’m gonna let go of control. If he wants me, he’s gonna HAVE to beg for me. Thankyou so much Helena, your work is so incredibly important for us women in gaining and taking back our feminine power!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Lana! 💗 These videos should also be helpful for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nKvcm4CihKlmpcU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJTNd6Sqlqydabs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaGQd4CtmNx8j6c.

[@jenbodhi1133]

I did this last week, I broke up with him for the same reasons last week, I blocked him too, if he wants to talk to me, he can come to my damn house to talk in person, not one line idiotic texts 12 hours after I text

[@BBGshop7]

"I would never tolerate this from another guy".. Hmmm. Wait a minute.why do I feel the need to tolerate it from this guy.. such a great point and it really made me think things over.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this gave you a new perspective! This video might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/g3XZaaGjab5oe80

[@kathrynmcgovern4242]

It’s so sweet the way your husband looks at you when you are speaking 🤗

[@SleeplessinOC]

Tom is becoming quite the relationship coach !!

[@annfl07]

Watching from Argentina! ♡ I looove how Tom is more focused on you than looking at himself in camera. So humble and cute!!. Also he sounds more comfortable, secure and much less shy when he speaks. Thank u Tom for ur info too! Helena, you are amazingggg, clear, full of useful info as usual. Thank u so so much for sharing all of this ♡♡♡ Uve been very helpful for me since 2020.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! ❤️

[@BBGshop7]

I loved hearing you say your "husband Tom" that is so amazing. coached by the best.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💞

[@1christinafantini]

Helena, Tom looks at you with adoration. It’s beautiful

[@B3llaLim]

Tom cant get his eyes off Helena the whole time ❤️❤️

[@MaryNAdam]

Lol it's actually kind of creepy.

[@doramoraiti701]

Super video!!! It is very important to "see" people's actions and not words. The actions show whether somebody is an emotionally available person or not!Words are easy, most damage cases say that they want to get married and have a family😉🤣

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💞

[@jcanangel]

Always so happy to see both of you on! Tom your wisdom is so appreciated!! Thank you both of you!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! ❤️

[@crystallam7335]

My new favourite content of yours are the ones you do with Tom now 😘😘🤫🤫 He’s a lovely presence with you and you guys have been inspiring me to search for my own Tom!! I have been working on reconnecting with myself and be in a receiving mood ever since I came into contact with your work and Adrienne‘s work on femininity. The result is that my happiness and joy levels have never been higher 😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰 Thank you, your work is so valuable dearest Helena 💖 I love your new content on Bullhorn!! The talk with Rori was FANTASTIC!!! I joined your new live today! (Great engaging content despite the 5am start for me in Hong Kong!)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Crystal! I’m so happy to hear that, thanks for sharing your experience here! Looking forward to connecting with you during my live broadcasts on Bullhorn. ❤️

[@rox3ana]

This is like the best video ever!! Thank you so much both of you. It was hard for me listening and realizing… so many things. It’s so painful feeling not wanted 😢

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️ I’m glad you enjoyed it. These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.infok8eb_r5tjtE?si=-kfPolbIo7rwIcpt, kzbin.info/www/bejne/q6HOpqmtp9GcbaMsi=HaIljPgGgDhyNrGC, kzbin.info/www/bejne/p53WeGecl8-krbcsi=yVe8Oksii_EhNxSU and kzbin.info/www/bejne/mmG4nmaNrtN_qMUsi=bb0iH1suwgsy1T2V.

[@judyb0216]

It's quite the challenge when your heart gets involved.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing, Judy! 💜 I will say that with the right person it’s incredibly easy because he’ll be showing you with his consistent ACTIONS that he’s serious about you and ready to move things forward. These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmGwl6pqqcemm9k, kzbin.info/www/bejne/oKLHkmxtqrWFp6s, kzbin.infornXoKSMAToA?feature=share and kzbin.infoCuWhh-DnLJY?feature=share.

[@n8vscience842]

Thank you. I am letting him go. It gets easier. I wish him well.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@karinau185]

I’d like to hear your advice on this… I used to jump in whole heartedly to relationships but now I’m older and damaged from being treated badly over and over, I’m not sure how to be open to a guy again. I’m worried I’ll push away good guys because of my fears. A video on this would help ☺️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Karina, this video should be really helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sJami4Wqnpanl7s

[@acmb6763]

You changed my life helena, but please have tom always in videos!! I like his opinions more than the professionals in channel ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that! 💜 Here are a few of our recent videos if anyone would like to check them out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lXWWaHSGfLSsbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/bHzWmGOZeK53lZo, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZmfapaGZbK6cpck, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nHbcep2GjpJojJo and kzbin.info/www/bejne/q6HOpqmtp9GcbaM.

[@user-xc4ky8le5y]

Thank you u two! Absolutely had no idea that putting on makeup, being bubbly wasn’t being In feminine energy but in my masculine. Please Please do an episode on this topic (last 5ish minutes of this video). Valuable info- the whole video is valuable!Thank you both soo soo much!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! ❤️ We did a podcast episode on that topic - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/7h4I3RvCgP9pT0HKyeu4zM?si=_gyWcF-xSIm_j9jNmTU2Rg …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000545863040

[@mirzabeg2274]

This is excellent! It literally felt like listening to an audiobook on relationships! Worth re listening to it daily! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💗 Here are a few more videos we’ve recorded together if you’d like to check them out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaGQd4CtmNx8j6c, kzbin.info/www/bejne/n5DFZGeJfL-Imck, kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZLLpY2On8l5m6M, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hZiYYZ1qia-nd68, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk, and kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJ-7oH6JgqaHpaM.

[@angelikathespacewithinandb2418]

I love how Tom is looking at you quite often Helen throughout the recording!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Aww thanks Angelina! 💞

[@wheatstonebridge]

It's really irritating and mad it hard to watch

[@angelikathespacewithinandb2418]

@@wheatstonebridge I disagree totally! It shows live how man is interested in a woman , how he behaves when he listens to her and it is beautiful to observe that between them and have them both as an example! 🥰🙌🌸

[@womenwhodate7643]

Wow, super valuable video. It was nice that you answered a lot of questions because people are in such many and difficult situations that many times you cannot predict them, and it was interesting listening you answer them.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed this! 💛

[@annfl07]

17:22 is a priceless piece of advice!!! ♡♡

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞

[@JS-ld2qd]

Thank you. Loved Tom's inputs. Yes, please make a series of both of you 'from a man's perspective '

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed this! Here are a few more videos we’ve recorded together if you’d like to check them out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk, kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZLLpY2On8l5m6M, kzbin.info/www/bejne/n5DFZGeJfL-Imck, kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaGQd4CtmNx8j6c, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mpOtoXhsiLeKr80 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJ-7oH6JgqaHpaM.

[@BetsyT4782]

Thank you both, and Helena - your hair looks particularly 🔥 in this one! 😍

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Betsy! 💖

[@carriesweeney1873]

What a great team! Great advice. Thank you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Carrie! 💞

[@deirdrearnold]

Thank you both so much ❤️❤️ Can hear you perfectly here in Ireland 🇮🇪

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Deirdre! 💚

[@julias6782]

Thank you for this video! I realized a guy wasn't going to prioritize me so I let him go.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Julia! These videos should also be helpful for future reference: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaGQd4CtmNx8j6c, kzbin.info/www/bejne/p53WeGecl8-krbc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk, kzbin.info/www/bejne/p33Elaybnq12kMk, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mmG4nmaNrtN_qMU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hGaUYYOsr5Wmrpo and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k.

[@laurenkil]

My favorite power couple! Love the different flowers. 🥰

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Lauren! 💐

[@ashleyoverholt449]

What if the guy is a fast pacer, and he start, being fully committed to early, in the relationship. Could that lead to something more serious, during the relationship. Or would the relationship end all together. I would love to here from the, guy's point of view on this subject as well.

[@jjc2323]

This was very helpful. Thank you both 🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I’m glad it was helpful. 💝

[@suzi9913]

Love this-THANK you both for the insight!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Suzi! I’m glad you enjoyed it. 💕

[@AmyElizabethBehnke]

Hello beautiful people!! #Everything is unfolding as it should, and it's #all used for good, whether we believe it or not. When we surrender to the Truth, we are set free from the defiled 😇 I enjoy your shares, Helena😇❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Amy! 💖

[@BrittanyEliseMb]

This is the most amazing video and I needed this to affirm my intuition around these things ahh!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Brittany! ❤️ These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaGQd4CtmNx8j6c, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hpu5hKStn8qcnas, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mmG4nmaNrtN_qMU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k, and kzbin.info/www/bejne/p33Elaybnq12kMk.

[@karinau185]

So helpful as usual. Thanks to you I have hope for my future love life.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m happy to hear that! ❤️

[@cc1383]

You got lucky. The guys that want a relationship with me are old and I'm not attracted to them. I know they say it takes time for chemistry to build, but I just can't date a guy that is 15 years older than me just because they have the same relationship goals as me.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, some people think I just “got lucky” meeting my husband. Those people who’ve been watching my videos for awhile know that I’d actually been creating content for over a year during my non-dating/healing phase recommending that women tell themselves they’re the luckiest person in the world, find evidence to support that new belief, and then follow their IMPULSES from that place once they’re ready. Here are a few examples that were recorded before I met my husband that might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZnIY32kbbZkbZY, kzbin.info/www/bejne/rpzai61olNapm9k, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nnOlZJWudsRpeac, kzbin.info/www/bejne/f2SaZ2V7oaeGb68, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJPceXqmjKd8odE and kzbin.info/www/bejne/oGS8qZiOYrVjgJY.

[@AD-hh6dd]

I appreciate Helena’s content but I think it can make people feel ashamed if they happen to not have the outcome you do. There are going to be people who do everything right and still don’t end up in a relationship. I think when we do find someone, there should be room for humility in recognizing there is an element of luck. There’s a wonderful saying, “luck is where opportunity meets preparation”. I think you prepared Helena, but you also had an opportunity. Not everyone has the same opportunity if they happen to not meet a man there is mutual attraction with even if they try.

[@angelfire402]

This describe me 100%. but I feel this is the best I can do.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this resonated with you! These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaGQd4CtmNx8j6c, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hpu5hKStn8qcnas, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mmG4nmaNrtN_qMU and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k.

[@alysehiltbrunner7184]

I have a question. Did y’all have the talk about when to talk exclusively? Or if you were talking to other people?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, we did talk about that. I can’t remember exactly when, but sometime within the first couple months he told me that he didn’t meet up with anyone else after our first date. He wanted to focus his energy and see where things would go. 💙

[@Wooddweller]

i needed this

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWnIk5Koatmdqqc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/p53WeGecl8-krbc.

[@leolady8114]

I've backed off from a 4-year relationship with clearly stating I need more affection. How long do I wait before he comes around or decides to call it quits? We have each others items yet so eventually, we have to meet up to give each other's items back to each other, if nothing else.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I recently recorded a podcast episode that might be helpful for your situation - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/4X0QHejFTKLJAiXhPR9OdY?si=XZVhAsyNTOGVImu8ab1nTg&dl_branch=1 …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000535607362

[@leolady8114]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you so much!!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@thechickylala]

y'all are just like *sweet wise owls* 🦉 & *Spitting PEARLS* 💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! ❤️

[@Zizo629]

How can I apply this to a marriage? Thanks for your videos!

[@jamiehughes6755]

Love you both, thank you!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Jamie! ❤️ Here are a few videos we recorded together recently if anyone would like to check them out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lXWWaHSGfLSsbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/bHzWmGOZeK53lZo, kzbin.info/www/bejne/q6HOpqmtp9GcbaM and kzbin.info/www/bejne/gH7JYZSBm9Z2eNU.

[@dh.maitrijit4462]

Thank you so much Helena, love you both :)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! ❤️

[@lisasollenberger3822]

Omg how awesome! Love the two of you together--just beautiful! ;)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Lisa! ❤️

[@acmb6763]

My date is driving 2 hours in traffic to pick me up for a date because i don’t like to drive 💅🏽 i make sure to tell him how special it makes me feel though ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💞

[@juliefrecker3811]

Yes watch his actions

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, that’s so important! 💞

[@leolady8114]

I would love to get your insight on blending families when it comes to adult children and creating a balance of both!

[@KWk-dg9uc]

Yeah good subject to talk about. I've split up with my partner because he wasn't able to balance between being a dad and being a partner. I was often left feeling as a back burner and I will not tolerate that ever again. He simply was on a different page then me. His daughters are aged 18 and 21 and he was making me not come over often when he spent time with them. He was on the phone every single day with them and I felt like he's got little demanding kids he has no boundaries with. I myself have a 22 years old son whom I have really good relationship with. He cooks is polite and understanding, my ex kids they're like princesses and he runs around them even with glass of water.. I have not seen them cooking for him even once.. I felt i can only be with him on his terms but why would I choose that? I left.

[@leolady8114]

@@KWk-dg9uc Oh boy - so sorry to hear this! My situation is different but the premise of having adult children still has various challenges!

[@deborahwoodyard8895]

Good morning Helena & Tom. It's Deborah from Arkansas.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Deborah, thanks for watching! 💜

[@DatingstoriesRea]

Doemloaded the app. Hope the timing is a good time in the UK!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Awesome! I’m trying to schedule them at different times of the day to accommodate different time zones. You’ll see the live broadcasts I currently have scheduled at the top of the homepage - you can click “Remind Me” on the ones you want to attend. ❤️

[@naturalbeauty9202]

What about when he says he's super busy and not prioritizing you, but he's made it clear he likes you? He started off strong but now tells me he has other "competing priorities"? Also we never had the exclusivity talk, so I'm ready to see other people. He's talked a future with me and connection, and his desire to spend quality time with me but the actions and words aren't matching up.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

If his actions and words aren’t matching up, I’d watch his ACTIONS as that will tell you pretty much everything you need to know about his intentions and interest level. These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk, kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k, kzbin.info/www/bejne/sHyooKZrd75lpKM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXelcqZ-pLGGhaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nKvcm4CihKlmpcU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/p33Elaybnq12kMk, kzbin.info/www/bejne/gH7JYZSBm9Z2eNU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/iamXpad7gLp_has and kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU.

[@rosalysmartinez2153]

Great video! ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💕

[@MajesticEmpressLove]

Do you ever talk about “the collective” of higher dimensional beings masculine and feminine energies (aka divine counterparts/divine lightworkers, not not necessarily the gender of the bodies) and what wave or cycle is happening and how that affects a current relationship? I’ve been trying to match up the planetary movements and those cycles with what is happening with those who are going through the same themes/events/connection issues/healing processes/purging generational patterns. It can be very intense of a situation. It is often that people suddenly are hit with a healing that is necessary and can affect the relationship because it isn’t always coming from their current lifetime or to them. It can be long ago ancestors issues/patterns that block things.

[@meganwildhood3893]

But how does someone even meet men at all? Online dating has yielded zero results despite working with coaches (and paying a lot of money for it) and people in my area are too afraid to meet anyone in person. I'm willing to move - finding my husband is my absolute highest priority but I haven't met a single man in a year despite my efforts. (I've done so much therapy/inner work/work on myself and don't know how to get past the blocks I have that could be causing this, particularly social anxiety, fear of setting boundaries due to really stuck feelings of inferiority and really not enjoying/wanting to date. I just want my person).

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Megan, if you read your comment back you can probably see what’s going on here. You’re resonating very strongly with the ABSENCE of what you want (rather than the presence of what you want) - and it also sounds like you’re stuck in the “healing trap.” 💙

[@meganwildhood3893]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Yes, I think all the work I'm trying to do now is reinforcing this stuff. I don't know what else to do, though. I see women all around me getting what I have longed for my whole life and been afraid my whole life I won't get.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’d listen to the second part of this podcast episode and see if it resonates with you (starting at about 20 minutes in) - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/5HMcOKMZdpi8R6t5hmwKGQ?si=wPjPQAQLSX-BcPm0LYl3Ug&context=spotify%3Ashow%3A2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3&dl_branch=1 …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000537409273

[@alicelight9015]

What if the first 6 months were good, got key to his house, made a suggestion of moving in together after a bit kore than 6 months. After that, he lost his house, took 6 weeks to move into a new house and the relationship never really recovered..

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Alice. I’d say that if your relationship couldn’t survive something like that, he’s not the right man for you. 💜

[@sueedser1763]

You guys are so cute! Loved hearing both sides

[@arnelabih1845]

Thank you for this perfect timing needed to hear this.💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜

[@FreePalestine123-b1x]

Great topic and lots of helpful advice, thanks for sharing 🙏 💖. What would you do if you are talking to a guy online, he says he's going to call but then there's no follow through. Would you jus walk away from that situation or give him more time to step up? How long is too long? I feel like I may be being impatient but equally feel like if he was committed to putting in effort, he'd not wait around!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! Personally, I wouldn’t “wait” for him at all - I’d just keep moving forward! He knows how to get ahold of you if he wants to. If a man needs your “help” to follow through on what he says he’s going to do this early on, that’s not a good sign in my opinion. 💕

[@sarahb6758]

The is great content thank u ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Sarah! 💕

[@raerivera5676]

Atlanta Georgia ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for watching! 💕

[@DatingstoriesRea]

@helena is suggesting to have a call after 3 days of texting is making something happen?

[@tiffanyn143]

What about doctors or medical field professionals?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Tiffany, the answer always lies in how the relationship dynamic feels to YOU. In other words, do you feel good in this relationship exactly as it is right now - or do you feel like you’re settling for “scraps”? These videos might help give you some clarity: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKCpeGBoh9Rnbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI.

[@ChiChi-td9qm]

Actions proves why words mean nothing

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💚

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

What if he did the push and pull?! Like once I lose interest, THAT'S when he wants to connect? I think he's playing games 😞

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

That’s a red flag, in my opinion. I talk more about that at the end of this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b524amp5qM97aLcsi=WYlMiZIdproRA3jp

[@Makeupsokayy]

I have a question...so when you’re dating casually how much should we expect the man to text/call or date. I’m currently in a situation where we date at least 1 a week which is totally fine with me and he texts/calls every 2/3 days or so. How do we progress or should we as women keep it slow. Been dating for abt 2 months

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

19:42 Lol my last ex (who ultimately broke things off with me after only five and a half months), judged me and not the relationship..

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💙

[@Christine-zu7fi]

I have a stupid unclear situation. My guy contacts me everyday on the phone ., sometimes twice and we can talk for up to 2.5 hrs a day. He texts too. Our contact to each other is probably slighlty skewed with him contacting me more. We see each other every second weekend with an overnight together and the off weekend his son stays over on the weekend at his. On the weekend just past my guy invited me over to meet his son and his childish 21 year old son did not want to meet me- saying it’s weird. So that hot cancelled. My guy asked me before asking his son. On that weekend he has his son we see each other about 90 percent of the time on the Sunday night. During the week we see each other maybe once a week. I’m about to quit this though because I told him we need more time together in person. It has been discussed twice and I think if he misses me he should want more time together. A very weird situation this one. To add to this my guy has a disability and I’m not sure how much the disability is effecting this- in terms of his energy levels. We have been together 6 months and known each other 9

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos might be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p53WeGecl8-krbc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWnIk5Koatmdqqc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZLLpY2On8l5m6M, kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5XZo3SHhL9obMk, kzbin.info/www/bejne/rHbNg2aeZ9N1gLs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGaUeZxriKebl6c.

[@christinejenkins4414]

Thanks for the good advice.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Christine! 💕

[@annstar2793]

About busy people- what if I’m busy as well and only can see him 2 x per month, and partly because I have a lot of health issues that take over most of my time, but I still want some kind of relationship even if it isn’t the full thing necessarily. I want more but I can’t really give it more either to a point….

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

It’s important to clarify what you’re looking for (and what you’re available for) to make sure the two of you are on the same page. This video might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJ23fXWwpqySisk

[@kasiah3452]

I'm watching from Poland. Hello+

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Kasia, thanks for watching! 💕

[@juliefrecker3811]

Is texting - checking in - breadcrumbing? Is it a bad sign if he asks me to hang out with his female friend?

[@FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz]

Exactly what is happening to me right now he said we are friends but he's getting emotionally attached to me according to him but he is not commiting nor giving more..but I want a real relationship and I want him to prioritize me... He also told me that he love me that why am I not showing him love too but we haven't been on a date before it's about 3months now and I don't really know what he really wants either.. though he invited me to visit & I guess that should be his house but I declined. can I speak to him about it or should I leave everything the way it is an then walk away when the time comes??

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💜 These episodes might help give you some clarity: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZmfapaGZbK6cpcksi=ll_6L8X653fDnZpS, kzbin.info/www/bejne/lXWWaHSGfLSsbrssi=o2AMxRFEE93-DY0r, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mmG4nmaNrtN_qMUsi=dGCcy3T6kZs17z9E and kzbin.info/www/bejne/q6HOpqmtp9GcbaMsi=dBe54p8pGTSvcuED.

[@juliefrecker3811]

I’m the secretary spouting out the excuses lol

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nJqnaZKrppubhsU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/qIPJmGWwr9Cch8U, kzbin.info/www/bejne/gH7JYZSBm9Z2eNU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3jOc5xmos-meaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/jGS9Y4pvmN6CbKM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k.

[@anellemackinlay2624]

QUESTION: I know you're not talking about twin flame right now... but do you think that the concept of the chaser vs the runner is an excuse for one of the party's bad behaviour?? Ps. Hello from Johannesburg 💚

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

In my opinion, the focus should be on how a man’s behavior feels to YOU (and whether or not it’s in alignment with what you truly want and deserve). I share more of my perspective in these videos: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJTNd6Sqlqydabs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/aGPTpIaanKedask.

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

Said "I love you"? After two months only? Damn, I couldn't even get my last ex to say that after almostt SIX months.. very interesting.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Men typically know whether or not they’re interested in pursuing you for something serious pretty quickly. We talked more about that in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lXWWaHSGfLSsbrssi=XqVVW46K1b-ri67I

[@GiePena]

But we are not in the same place anymore. We are in a long distance now. So it’s hard not to make things happen

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. Even if you’re long distance, he should still be putting in effort and making the relationship a priority - that includes making plans for the two of you to be together in person again. While I don’t know the details of your situation, these videos might be helpful: kzbin.info_Rm3bi1DNT8?feature=share and kzbin.infob6yUgQCtrzE?feature=share.

[@Jellybeanjam1991]

Hey Helena what do you think of a guy canceling on a first date because the girl isn’t vaccinated?

[@K1111A]

I’d say if you don’t want to be vaccinated you shouldn’t change who you are for him. He’s probably the wrong person, and also doesn’t have an open mind. That would be a no for me.

[@Floridagal_657]

All I can say is be careful. I saw video proof from a renowned gynecologist of things that can happen from having sex with covid vaxxed men. At least wear a condom if you date someone that has received a vax and you decide to be intimate.

[@jennifermccoy5325]

what about their attachment style

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Jennifer, this video might be helpful (I’d also make sure that he’s showing you with his consistent actions that he WANTS to be a good partner to you, no matter what his attachment style is): kzbin.info/www/bejne/rqacnoRsotmZmbc

[@melissabarrett3088]

❤❤

[@kathysutton2631]

You met Tom 1 hour away???? When first dated?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

We lived about an hour away from each other, but he drove to my area for our first few dates. 💞

[@shruthijayavenukumar]

❤️

[@haleyelizabeth8378]

Ugh. I really need a translator who speaks fluent avoidant.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

While I don’t know the details of your situation, this video might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rqacnoRsotmZmbc

[@dr.arunimarohatgiofficial4189]

Omg so true !

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💕

[@udoncat]

🤍💙🤍💙🤍💙🤍