How To Become More Attractive || A Feminine Impression

[@drmichelledaf]

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[@belleexotic]

I love ❤️ this

[@TheFuschiaDragonfly]

My crush literally told me that my kind manners are the most attractive things about me, don't underestimate the power of manners ladies

[@drmichelledaf]

Thanks for sharing love!

[@QueenAmour8888]

Very true

[@lwhite474]

Yep true

[@Mzlizzy]

On point

[@redc5429]

Then why is he still a crush lol

[@jaydenplays3182]

Be mysterious, confident, open, look good, be nice, chill, a lady with manners, and friendly

[@jaydenplays3182]

And stay busy

[@deidreevans2777]

Definition of myself lol

[@picapauhip8577]

Yes 👏👏👏

[@Preciousdocumentaries]

I see myself in this comment!!😭Not to brag😹😹💃

[@melvawilliams4279]

The way you speak..., like you

[@janibae150]

A boy i know told me a few days ago that whenever i enter a room, there is sunshine and honestly that was the most beautiful compliment i‘ve ever got🥺

[@drmichelledaf]

That really is a beautiful compliment

[@ephxphany2346]

awwwww

[@Wellnesswithtyla]

Awww I love that, that’s so sweet

[@someoneswig1263]

Woww and how do you do that?

[@janibae150]

@@someoneswig1263 I would say that kindness is the key :)

[@SoulPreservation00]

I am generally a person who has good aura but I was born with an angry face😭😂 when I'm quiet and minding my own business I look angry😂

[@darakristi]

I saw a Twitter post that has circulated its way around IG and Facebook that said something to the affect of “I love girls who look like bitches but are total sweethearts when you actually talk to them” and that post got lots of agreement! I think being extra kind when you interact with others will make people second guess their assumptions about people.

[@SweeterThanHoney22]

I believe they call it "resting bitch face"....I have that too. It doesn't help that I wear black all the time so I come off as angry and unapproachable 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@desimichelle]

Me too! I’m always getting asked are you okay?, or what’s wrong? It’s annoying. How do I fix that? 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Nikencycollects]

@@SweeterThanHoney22 omg me too T.T i Just love black though and people be asking me if i am sad or ' you look like you don't wana be here ' like ugh shut up and mind your own business lol it's just my face.

[@SweeterThanHoney22]

@@Nikencycollects 🤣🤣 exactly!

[@DeeplyDivinePodcast]

I’ve never understood why children were always so drawn to me and my space until I learned about auras and energy. One thing I know for sure is some people(especially children) are very sensitive to energy and can sense a persons aura/vibe before they even open their mouth.

[@drmichelledaf]

ABSOLUTELY! They are they greatest test. Thank you for pointing that out.

[@cleopatramyers6134]

Omg same, kids love me and I love the kids! They know a real one for sure!

[@hunny585]

yess all the kids n babies r like my own..drawn to me :D

[@nessparadis6948]

Children and older people have always been very drawn to me, even in public spaces where I don’t know them. Many parents who’ve had temperamental children have been amazed that their toddlers open up to me.

[@StormyFMelodies]

I've always wondered this about myself,but now I know we must have great aura because children are the the truth.

[@SunsetGlowASMR]

What you wear is VERY important to men. They tend to remember your outfits IN DETAIL when they’re attracted to you. I’m normally flattered by that, but still catches me off guard.

[@drmichelledaf]

You are absolutely right. It's astonishing but they keep note!!!

[@honeylemon2372]

Same with nails lol

[@ajohonly3721]

Honey Lemon girl don’t even say nails right now 🤣 during this time. But yes its very important.

[@just1desi]

I’ve had men remember my shoes and toenail color. It’s frankly disconcerting. Lol

[@cocoastyling]

So useful to plan your outfits a day before 🙌

[@lifewithnicks4904]

“You can be very beautiful, but not attractive.” Thank you for speaking on the importance on cultivating and flourishing on the inside!! 🙌🏾💕🔥

[@drmichelledaf]

Absolutely! Thanks for watching love!

[@blaakcoffee]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@erikajones6802]

Facts 💯💪 👊👑

[@AllThingsBri]

This video was an eye opener for me. Imma start applying this methods when I go out

[@mycatsheenacashappid4240]

Nice to know. I attract women, and not men.

[@mystinaaaaa]

I’m naturally like this I don’t tell ppl everything I’m very private everyone doesn’t get the same version as me

[@Heyyahhoohh]

M y s t i same here mysti same here I dont believe everyone deserves

[@drmichelledaf]

Good on you! This is the healthiest way to live and it frees you from chaos.

[@ebonyausharae2319]

M y s t i I’m the same way!!

[@simplyredislandgirl]

Totally Agree with this philosophy! I live a very mysterious life! I'm not the same person with everyone to a certain degree like you mentioned M y s t i. 👍😃

[@MarcoHernandez-tc9ji]

Same

[@melithuh]

I wanna see men pay more attention to how THEY look, smell, dress, live their lives, take care of themselves. Women are 100x more caring about that type of thing for themselves, why don't men worry about their own personal appearance/lifestyle? Women are the harder ones to impress lol. I feel like there are waaaay more women who care about their own "allure" than men do, if they even notice at all.

[@justarandomperson9023]

I agree

[@lovelylondon3652]

Yes they especially need to take care of their oral hygiene

[@sheppin_]

I think it’s because men aren’t taught about these things as often as women are. It isn’t stressed enough that they themselves need to take care of their hygiene. Ignorance rather than not putting in effort.

[@Devilishka7]

Yes!! And when you're a woman who takes care of yourself, have got manners, good hygiene and most of the time try to look well, and then comes a guy who's the opposite and thinks he can score... Like, I don't wanna look down on some, but cop on... And stinky breath is such a turn off at the very start.

[@zfox4743]

L

[@wendyfryar6483]

Charm is deceitful , beauty is vain but a woman who fears the Lord shall be praised. I appreciate the good tips ! Thank You!

[@beautyshines2124]

AMEN! 👍🙏🥰

[@kristenmoonrise]

I'm a naturally chill person, but I'm empathic too. I realize people seem to open up to me a lot when they are frustrated, and I end up absorbing some of that frustration and it messes up my aura/vibe! I have to isolate (perfect time now) and turn my phone off to get back to my chill zone.

[@KrisyKreme]

Kristen you’re an empath 💙

[@DemureDarlings]

Yes! I’m a INFJ empath as well, and it’s exhausting 😩

[@drmichelledaf]

Hi love, yes although you are bringing light into the world with your willingness to be a listening ear. However, you must put limits on this because of how it impacts you. Sometimes you simply cannot be there for them and it's important to know how to detach even when listening. Much love!

[@kristenmoonrise]

@@KrisyKreme you're right!

[@kristenmoonrise]

@@DemureDarlings so exhausting!! 😫😫😫

[@lalalalaaAa123]

I love how you talk about women finding their OWN allure and vibe. I’ve learned that part of my allure is being youthful and sweet- I’m 25 but I have the face and height of a 16 year old. 😂 I’m naturally very smiley, and I thought that innocence would be a turn off. Men only want mature women in stilettos, right? Turns out, my allure also attracts masculine men who want to protect and provide, they just like sweet-type girls. Who knew! 👏🏾

[@cristinap273]

Same. I'm simply not like that sexy type. I wear modest clothing and I'm very sweet and awkward

[@drmichelledaf]

Love that! This is why you must stay true to yourself. Much love!

[@a.b.2405]

Wynnie M yes I’m almost 25 and I still look like I’m in high school lol.

[@lalalalaaAa123]

✨SadCat✨ I found ways to look a little more “grown” so that kids stay away from me and men know they can approach- I love heels with a dress that has some sort of sweet element like ruffle sleeves or a flowy skirt. Even though I’m still in my version of allure, high schoolers know I’m not ACTUALLY one of them haha!

[@cleopatramyers6134]

I am right there with you. I thought my youthful look (32 years) and "baby voice" was off putting to masculine men, turns out it's not. They will protect and provide sweetness! Imma use this organic honey girl!

[@BaltimoreSuperstar]

This is so spot on. I am someone who loves smiling. When i walk into a room i speak to everyone and smile, no matter how i feel. I listen when people talk. I try to remember what they are passionate about. People are drawn to you when you take an interest i them. Even if it’s superficial. They remember that you made them feel interesting and special. They want to do things for you. They want to make exceptions for you. I’m not saying that you have to put on a show for people or fake like you’re happy all the time. But when you make a habit of smiling and engaging people, you are allowed more grace when you aren’t feeling your best. When I’m at work and I’m not having the best day, i find that people want to cater to me in efforts to make me feel better because they notice my energy is off. Your feminine energy really can boost every aspect of your life.

[@ishwaryak9155]

So true 💫

[@BaltimoreSuperstar]

Ada Émile yes! Most people are self absorbed. So when they get to talk about themselves they feel energized because that’s their favorite topic. Adding a feminine touch to that draws people to you.

[@drmichelledaf]

You nailed it girl! Thanks for sharing!

[@1infoful]

That's me too. Despite the trauma I've experienced.

[@angelstarfire]

I want that. I feel so de-energised when I socialise with people to the point I feel sick. Sure it's hard but I still try to smile and talk to anyone I can. But it feels forced sometimes

[@jackieaina]

happy 100K babyyyy!!! love you

[@drmichelledaf]

Jackie Aina Aww thank you so much babe✨I love you girl!!💗🦋🌿🌊

[@blessing2135]

@@drmichelledaf love you ghana goddess

[@drmichelledaf]

Bless Ing I love you too honey 💕

[@DeeDee-dl9wk]

I love me some Jackie and Denis 💕

[@rehemamutheu6949]

Jackiiieeeee😪😭😭❤️❤️

[@mallary1012]

As cliche as it sounds, I’d say confidence is definitely the answer.

[@you.lurking]

I think that's the main thing. It'll exude from your pores

[@Glo_up576]

I’d say kindness

[@supermakeupable]

I’d say confidence too because in order to be kind to others you truly have to be confident in yourself. If someone is insecure, they will be less likely to be able to give to others.

[@user-yc6iw7gm9q]

No it's not lmao idk why y'all keep saying this. Everytime an ug*y person has confidence people make comments like "who's gonna tell her". "Stop acting like you're all that" . Confidence only works for attractive people, for some reason when it's an ug*y person y'all are offended by it.

[@tanya.222]

​​@@user-yc6iw7gm9q that's true people that say that are haters that's why, they just don't want that person to feel good about themselves

[@kikelomo8640]

There's a reason why Rihanna pops up recurringly in this video. She is an ICON.

[@drmichelledaf]

This is true.

[@purpleunicorn5310]

I agree,but she doesn't have long healthy relationships

[@genevieveugorji5626]

@@purpleunicorn5310 but those are her choices. When she let men like Chris Brown go and realized her self wort, she started dating a BILLIONARE! Leagues above all those tacky rappers.

[@melaniebrown1443]

I’m a little confused on how Rihanna exudes feminine energy. She curses quite a lot, her music can be very sexual at times, she wears very revealing clothes, and I hear she’s a little rude.

[@crackasscrackle]

@@melaniebrown1443 she's sexually alluring...das it

[@strawberry-soju]

I think once you take up meditation Maybe every morning, you'll have the calm aura naturally, it's very attractive

[@drmichelledaf]

Yes, it is wonderful and very helpful!

[@ilalai1843]

it has a greater inpact than people realise

[@charlita25]

Yes I believe in perfume. When I wear the perfect scent I feel my outfit and vibe is complete.

[@drmichelledaf]

Yes, exactly!! Thank you for watching babe!

[@nikim.5533]

She knows what she is talking about. There's nothing like confidence, appropriateness and mystery. Spend some time learning yourself. Knowing one's self builds self-esteem and self-love. It makes for a better happier you. Also, create a life of your own, outside of your relationships. It makes you more interesting. I learned from my own mistakes, so I have no regrets. The teaching builds character. Continue to find the person God created you to be and share that with the world.

[@KaRiNa-pj9sb]

I like everything you said and I appreciate you sharing this with us...but can you explain your last one with an example please thank you.🌹❤️👏🏼

[@nikim.5533]

@@KaRiNa-pj9sb always be on the journey of self exploration and love. Be the best version of yourself. Do what's going to make you feel proud and bring you self-satisfaction and confidence. When you're attractive to yourself, you're going to be attractive to others. GB One ❤ always.

[@MorganDanielleBeauty]

I needed to see this! This comment really just brought me out of a negative thought I was having for myself 🤎✨ I hope you’re having a good day! And thank you

[@nikim.5533]

@@MorganDanielleBeautyYou're welcome. I'm so glad my words was able to help you. You're not alone in this struggle. I have my days too. Know that you are loved and cared for. God got you sis. I'm praying for you 1❤

[@MalaysiaR00]

Be yourself and you will attract the man that is meant for you. Don’t adjust yourself to be a people pleaser. Do what is comfortable to you.

[@CeCe-yo3el]

Number one rule on how to become more attractive. Learn to love yourself! I can not stress this enough! Once you start to love who you really are on the inside as well as the out (this includes loving and accepting your shadow side as well), you will start to radiate and vibrate higher. Therefore, attracting love! And love looks so damn good on everybody!

[@ukhtiiiojo9186]

Soo cute!!

[@Ela_v8]

I agree 100% thank you for such a powerful message Christina!

[@jo-lillies7972]

More attractive for me means, being happy in your own skin and natural beauty is the best. The number one start is Spiritual confidence and Freedom.

[@laurennicole290]

I’m working on becoming more feminine because i know it’ll help me try harder with my appearance and will help with my confidence. Also my love life is honestly trash and I’ve dated incorrectly because I’ve made myself waaay too available for these men. During this journey i wanna be single and work on myself until I’m ready to get back out there in the dating game.

[@drmichelledaf]

Don't worry baby, I'm about to help you out with alll of that. Just keep watching. Much love!

[@abeerrahman7330]

You don't need man to be happy. If u live with that mentality u are gonna attract trash men Telling it from my experience.

[@SuccessSignsChannel]

Keep your self for God and go celibate, he will give you a good husband

[@tanya.222]

​@@SuccessSignsChannel amen

[@valenciadarling5522]

I am 18, have only started out on my leveling up journey to become more feminine and high quality as a woman. I have been watching a lot of your feminine videos and I really love the advices you give. Not to mention that you lead by example. Your channel has become one of my favorite lately ❤️❤️❤️

[@chiamakanze176]

Same. I had never heard of femininity until now, so I’ve been binge watching all types of videos about femininity. But I have to say that Dr Michelle’s channel is one of my favourites🤎🤎

[@ipak002]

Sameeeee

[@kachyn_]

Me tooo

[@miriamcarpenter2240]

Same girlllll

[@lisabella6687]

Dear Valencia, @ChiamakaNze, @IpandaKalyata, @kachyn, and MiriamCarpenter, I am so proud of and happy for you young women for recognizing the truth and seeking to learn more. It is important to understand the full package in order to get it right. Understand the core of how and why you were created, otherwise it is easy to get confused. May God bless your journey and may His love and peace fill your hearts. God bless @Dr.MichelleDaf too for educating women in this way. Our culture is in sure need of clarity on femininity.

[@fitnfab6522]

Men are visuals no matter what your vibe is. Appearance comes first for men, then the vibe. But...Always love and dress for yourself. I did an entire transformation on myself for myself. I started with what I wear to bed because this makes you feel different. The transformation will take time! Start now because it can take 1yr to transform to become a new person/personality. Our thoughts are everything, and when you start to change your appearance you will start to believe...I changed a lot. I am single, and did it all for myself, and now when I meet the man for me, I will have it already mastered, and not needing to want to change when I met someone. ALL FOR MYSELF, FOR YOURSELF IS THE KEY!

[@milakibibi8312]

I’ve been encouraging my sisters/friend women on the same thing. Learn how to be authentic and intentional. Know your worth and put value on it.

[@drmichelledaf]

That's wonderful that you are doing that for them. Blessings!

[@ohyeah2269]

Its so true about stillness. My relationship with God has taught me this and depends on this. Its changed me to glow up as a valuable person inside out especially in journaling reflecting e.t.c

[@countrygirlxo7188]

When I use to waitress everyone would tell me that they felt so relieved once I walked into the room. One girl told me I raise everyone else’s vibes 💕 I really appreciate that compliment, probably will never forget it

[@belizegal29]

I’ve been told that as well; former waitress.😂

[@natashachisenga9524]

What's your secret please tell me

[@countrygirlxo7188]

@@natashachisenga9524 just be kind. Sometimes I imagine if I could be a princess or queen what kind of queen I would want to be. And I try to live up to those standards on day to day life.

[@PyongProductionsXXI]

I’m so lucky that my mom is the epitome of all of what you’re saying! It’s probably why men still hit on her and she’s married and pushing 60! 😂 but people just come to her. I almost feel like I’ve inherited this based on how she raised me. So thankful! I can still improve though! Thank you for this video!

[@alannac.7392]

My mom is the same. She’s 50 now but she looks younger and people always gravitate to her and complement her physical appearance. I really aspire to be like her :)

[@al9827]

Here I am, 4am on a school night trying to learn how to be myself and love myself...

[@TammyTheQueenBee]

I think my allure is my youthful appearance, my smile, my hair, my work ethic, and because I'm shy and quiet. Because I'm quiet and keep to myself, I think people take that as me being mysterious and they like that. When I first met my boyfriend, he told me that one of the things he liked about me was how "everything about me was a mystery". Since I stopped straightening my hair about nearly ten years ago and stated wearing afros, I've been getting compliments from men and women constantly. Every time I'm working, people always compliment and say they love how I do nothing but work. I'm also very kind.

[@ericamarss3613]

I will admit that I love and admire women take really embrace their femininity as well as keeping themselves well groomed .. however when it come to taking care of my self .. well .. I fall short ... I am working and going to try to bring it out more for ultimately I am confident and know my worth just need to polish out my rough edges.. thank you for these types of videos .. I love the content..

[@RiseAndReflectWithSherah]

My sister, this was the first video that I watched about being attractive and feminine that don’t talk about changing your complete self ! I don’t like when the way of femininity is presented in a way, as you need to be someone else. The point that you called out of not trying to be like someone on the internet or your circle REALLY inspired me ! I really enjoyed this video and I will take it at heart. I’ve never really grew up with a feminine energy and never had the chance to learn it and on top I’ve been a single mom for 4 years and been completely lost in the thinking that I’m just that and a tomboy.😀 I married since 3 years now and I really need to get that back and you help me a lot ! I think healing is also a very important aspect as you mentioned. Leaving the negativity etc. behind ! Thank you ✨✨

[@blessgodess5146]

God is good for sending me to this video!!

[@drmichelledaf]

That right girl!

[@QueenAmour8888]

Amen

[@kaite.soliel1167]

Yes girl

[@roxannem1457]

Stephanie Thornton amen

[@kaylacardona7499]

Sis teaching us today

[@Iam_ramankaur]

Finally, a channel where a woman is speaking about inner beauty in such a good way. Everyone says about inner beauty but how? No one explains. You explained in such a good way. You are an amazing woman! :)

[@LittleMissSunshine721]

A woman offered the advice to walk as if you’re on a pretty pink cloud and to walk at a slower pace. This made me stop in my tracks because I always walk at a fast, quick pace. Edit: So, this is my first time visiting this channel and I must say that you have such a calming, beautiful aura. I learned a lot from this one video & I’m highly confident that if I adapt what you suggest here, that I will be even more successful in adding to my femininity. Thank you very much!

[@bellanamii]

"Clean prestine home" ~looks at pile of clothes on chair~ Well shit. lmao

[@samyahknotts4728]

Isabella Lopez me rn 😂😂

[@sararodgers3217]

@@samyahknotts4728 SAMEEEEEEEE

[@grahamcrackerjay]

Seconds this😆

[@111TreeofLife]

me2 😂

[@shemeher3380]

This comment 🤣

[@KrisyKreme]

Sis you’re glowing 😍😍✨

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you!!

[@saimaasiya99]

Ive been watching these videos for the past 3 evenings at work. Im 44 years old.... and ive already noticed a change in how i am handling myself during the day. Its lovely

[@gastalini]

I went from wearing makeup as an expression to cutting my hair off completely and not wearing anything anymore, but I feel I want to balance in between again. I lost myself during hard times and just coming back step by step. I gotta own my beauty and also accepting compliments. Thank you for this video

[@aprilmay4992]

❤❤❤

[@sweetvonbettie1]

i tend to overshare.. thank you this helps so much.!!! love and light !

[@drmichelledaf]

You are welcome, you are working towards a change and that is what matters. Blessings to you!

[@EdenGold]

My boyfriend has told me that my maturity and the fact that he can see me being the mother to his children because I have a lot of maternal qualities about me is so attractive. I've never had a relationship with someone genuinely seeing the more adult, mature side of things. I am 22, so it's an interesting stage of life for sure in relationship development.

[@ms.kristine1819]

Omg you're so pretty! I'm really thankful for this channel. I have been a single mom in the hood since I was 16. Having to be mom and dad to 4 kids and living where I would have to fight all the time made me so masculine. At 40, I still have a hard time being soft. It doesn't feel safe. My hardness kept me from getting killed more than once and even though I been out the hood for 10 years, old habits and mindsets creep up anytime I feel threatened, even if the threat is just vulnerability. I'd almost rather be murdered than be emotionally vulnerable. Am I the only one?

[@inezchin7601]

I feel you😢

[@Teeliciousstyle]

All her reference photos of Ri Ri are on point. I love the fact that she includes different sizes of beauty in her clips along with a calm manner in delivering her messages. Pretty relaxing. Thank you for the video.

[@TheeMimiDeshun]

This is the definition of me. Not to sound any way. But individuals seem to find me so mesmerizing. No matter what I do.. wear.. say.. so it’s definitely deeper than beauty. I agree 100% with this video!!

[@drmichelledaf]

That's a blessing and I hope you do good with it. Much love to you!

[@TheeMimiDeshun]

Dr. Michelle definitely! Always use it for good. 🥂

[@ten25.]

You’re beautiful, inside and out.

[@drmichelledaf]

Aww thank you so much!

[@blessing2135]

@@drmichelledaf Ghanaian Goddess, so in love!!

[@nebraskaaysen]

Quarantine got me watching all types of KZbin videos!

[@wandan]

DR MICHELLLE. ALLL your make up looks are amazing. you're so beautiful wow. thank you for the amazing content, you're really helping out more than you know. you're highly appreciated.

[@drmichelledaf]

Lol! Thank you so much!! You are most welcome love. I'm truly elated to hear that. Much love to you!

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

Mystery is boring, and makes you seem closed off and disinterested. Self sacrifice gets people in trouble. Being kind is always good. But your on point about energy, and stillness is great as well.

[@tanyaserna5967]

Yup. I’m not necessarily the most physically beautiful woman, but people constantly approach me. I’m definitely a very alluring person. 🤍

[@tristybrooke33]

Could you do a series on marriage please- as opposed to dating. How do these points apply to a person who you live with, have children with, and have known for years?

[@drmichelledaf]

Yes, I will get to that later down the line. In marriage it's important to keep the allure by the way you act (attitude), how you dress, changing your look, changing your routine. Not being predictable and taking on new hobbies. I will elaborate in the future. Thanks for watching.

[@WilliamsPinch]

Look up Monique Head. She’s been doing videos on Feminine Allure for years and she’s married with children 🤍

[@curli-lettey4319]

@lavidavi That's because they got married for the wrong reasons or too soon.

[@curli-lettey4319]

A person you live with and have kids with is not marriage. That's playing house.

[@tristybrooke33]

curli-lettey I don’t know who you had kids with or who you live with, but I live with my husband who I have kids with. That’s why I asked that question

[@julijakeit]

I would love to see feminine, attractive, alluring woman of color in mainstream media.

[@drmichelledaf]

There are a number in mainstream media (Kerry Washington, Meagan Good, Erykah Badu, Rihanna... just to name a few) but in all honesty, more examples would be appreciated.

[@valarmorghulis3773]

No more tiffany haddish and lizzo types🤮 We arent all loud and obese

[@sungoddess5548]

@@valarmorghulis3773 Tiffany is so beautiful and has a beautiful personality just wish she could be feminine and still be herself.

[@amyj.4992]

My ability to be soft and loving towards others, makes me attractive enough

[@bernadine6695]

Always heard people talk about how you can feel someone's energy and never thought it was true, until me and my step brother left the gym one day and he went to talk to a girl. I only talked to her for about 4 seconds but could feel she had a warm glow around her and when my step brother got in the car he also started talking about how she has a warm and friendly energy around her. This made me realize how important the energy we give off is

[@TheeMimiDeshun]

Yes!!! You can be beautiful and not attractive. I felt that!! I agree 100%. It’s truly deeper than that.

[@Adennative]

I don’t understand how you don’t have millions of subscribers. You truly are very wise because you are truthful. It’s great that ladies like you still exist (articulate, spiritual, nurture, and beauty).

[@Blissful_Gia]

This is so true I’m “talking “ to a guy that I’ve been interested in for a while and although we don’t live in the same state we have gotten to know each other for the past 2 months and he lost his mind when he found out I could sing . Lol now I sing to him once a week whenever we talk. I think the distance has helped me build a better sense for myself when it comes to dating.

[@jiliciar.1423]

@Christ's Anointed & Beloved Same! ☺

[@ilalai1843]

this is so sweet very romantic

[@charlita25]

I needed this advice 10 years ago. I don’t even want to date anymore at this point.

[@xxEmmeline.Laurier]

Hi Michelle, I’ve recently discovered your channel. I have to say, it’s amazing! I’ve enjoyed your videos so much ❤❤❤ thank youuuu 🙏

[@latashawashington8484]

Glad I ran Across your video because I’m glad you explained this..people love my vibe but then I get a lot of hate because I’m free minded at heart.

[@AntonsClass]

Very interesting. I'm watching this as a man, and thought it was all great, valuable information for ladies. Anyway, I appreciate the images of black love you selected for the video.

[@ruru004]

No matter who you are, you’re totally special in your own way! There are interesting things about you, trust me, there will be a person to go crazy for you just the way you are honey❤️

[@StJames1938]

Yes! Having multiple streams of beautiful aspects at once … truly is a “vibe”

[@hannahlee8186]

I am so glad I stumbled on your videos. My husband and I have had a fairly rough 20+ years together with many obstacles and it didn't have to be that way. This is helping me teach my teenage daughter so she doesn't go through the same difficulties I faced before finding this out the hard way 30 years too late. I truly hope you understand that you are helping create a tremendous ripple in mental health and awareness. Countless men and women may be touched in some way by this through ripples of kindness. You are honestly blessed with a beautiful talent, Thank you for sharing 😊

[@drmichelledaf]

@@hannahlee8186 these words mean so much to me. Thank you 🤍 I am so thankful it is helping you and your daughter will gain so much from what you are teaching her. God bless you 💕

[@thelessiknowthebetter6098]

I wish i had someone like you in my life to encourage me. I love my friends but when i ask them for advice, I often end up feeling drained because my mind has to always be prepared for the worst scenario and insecurities steam from overthinking so much. But it's the people like you that make me want to change and not regret things ❤️ i might just talk to that boy now lmao

[@kinyatta1534]

Modestly dressing is my favorite! Ive gotten so many compliments bc of my attire. Also my scented body oil...Black Woman. It lingers forever and it's so unforgettable 💓 and stays on! All Day! My smile is inviting, I've been told. Wow, the video was "IT". I'm just going to keep doing what I do and expand 😉💖

[@YessiWaters]

Girl this video was amazing!

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you so much for watching love

[@SOULarLioness]

The Queen of ALLURE, ATTRACTIVENESS, FEMININITY, MYSTERY, & BEAUTY...is none other than...AALIYAH, may she rest in eternal peace.

[@ilalai1843]

yessss! she imbodied it all pefectly, i've always saw her as a pefect balance of ying and yang.

[@GG-jv1vp]

The epitome. If I were a guy she would be my dream girlfriend. RIP 🙏🏾

[@antoinette4995]

​@@ilalai1843yes I feel Aaliyah was a perfect balance of ying and yang as well. Seeing her be so beautiful and sexy yet chill/cool with a thin, non-curvy frame actually helped me to appreciate my slender body. Energy/personality really will compliment and work in tandem with. everything else about a person 🌹

[@amyj.4992]

My aura is so magnetic, I don't want any smoke with anyone. I love interacting with people of different backgrounds, who are just as excited to meet me and I want to share helpful holistic tips with helping them through any problems they may experience or help them solve a problem if they are ever in need of support an authentic advocacy. My inner child greets others inner children. Being grateful to share energy with other bright souls. I am a raised cultured student, military brat, and multi genre artist with poise, etiquette, and manners( queen mama hovering me lol) shared in bite sizes. I catch people by surprise, all the time when they underestimate me☺️🥰

[@TreJ999]

Measuring your words, thinking about how they will land and being kind is always attractive!

[@Cutthecamerasdeadass1899]

So basically...Be more happier and more outgoing. Don't be upset, shy, sad, content, antisocial or whatever else that isn't bubbly, happy, or super outgoing. Mask your true feelings and personality to get people to like you...I'm antisocial, I'm happy depending on my mood but I'm always reserved. No everyone deserves my attention and deserves to know my personality, they earn it.

[@lovelynay774]

Facts

[@stephy4missy]

AndroidWith SickCoinTricks i think raw honest people like this are such nice energy to be around though! I enjoy knowing that I’m getting a genuine response instead of just what I want. So it’s really true- every person has their own aura & as long as you’re embracing it it’s a beautiful thing!💜

[@Diana72910]

People get intimidated, what do you expect? But try to look “nice”. Anyway, stay true to yourself but it doesn’t mean you should be mad and look mad all the time

[@sweetspice9120]

You are right and the video is also right. You can be introverted and alluring too. Not every gorgeous person is bubbly and being overly bubbly can take away from your allure too. There is a delicate balance. I think the key is to be happy and joyous that is radiates even when you are not speaking or smiling

[@roselife8797]

I don’t think trying to mask your true feelings and personality is going to help anything tbh.

[@raya7939]

I appreciate all of the wisdom 💛 I personally view the last section about modesty for the desirability of men as a societal construct. The dichotomy of an “innocent vs. promiscuous” woman goes hand in hand now a days- considering the very new role of women in modern society & the almost always constant role of women throughout history. We are finally able to be free, and in being able to do so, we have societal restrictions and boundaries placed upon us that reflect mainly the primal desires and constructs of a patriarchy. Basically, there is no winning or losing as a woman, so might as well express freely in clothing...

[@AishaIsrael_Benjamite]

There is always Winning with us sis bcuz WE are in control of our destiny. Wear things that make you feel great tho.... but let me tell you talking to men, a little bit of mystery is always a good thing. I always think of Janet Jackson. She is beautiful! But she wears a sexy crop with loose pants for vice versa. I think ppl are in awe bcuz of her sweet and kindness in her talk and walk. I always noticed that about her and I like that. I know societal norms have a big influence on how we see life but you can totally tell yourself, “I am me. I love me. And I won’t let social media or my cell phone control how I feel or what I think”! You are already a beautiful woman. You could wear a sweatsuit and men would STILL be interested 😊♥️!

[@coachlisa0869]

Just started watching this was absolutely beautiful. I am 50 years old and I love being a woman .... although I’m more athletic and laid back in my dress I crave comfort but love looking attractive. I offer a twist of femininity .... yes your vibe/aura is super important I attract all types of people because I believe my energy .... aura says hey 👋🏼 how are you doing? Friendly even with workout clothes or a dress I attract great people!

[@shantaiii]

This is one of the best videos I’ve seen on “how to be more feminine/beautiful” .. it’s not just surface level bullcrap.. I appreciate your words

[@neema1]

Wow I tell you Riri is the ultimate embodiment of femininity and above all confidence

[@collegegrad2955]

I love your videos but you are in a unique and rare position because you seem to have been raised in a healthy and loving environment. I know you dont have to cater to women who come from a broken environment and home but those things affect your ability to be feminine. I will say I come from a home that appears to be "healthy or put togther" because my parents been married for 26 years but my mother is very emotionally abusive and belittles me so it makes it hard for me to be a authentic self. It is SO EXHAUSTING ARGUING with her. Please do a video for girls who come from this environment because I think this is more common in the black community but it holds me back from being a TRUE FEMININE woman. I have been getting better with the art of being still, quiet, working on my manners(being less mean with my words ). Minding my business,being less unavailabile to people. I do live a pretty busy life with school,house chores etc. But it is hard to not to think about being married because it is a huge dream and goal of mine to be a great wife and mom to a amazing man and family.

[@thewadeeffect]

Are you still living with your parents? I have learned to not tell my mom everything to avoid arguing.

[@collegegrad2955]

@Ada Émile thank you so much sis!!! I been practicing that recently.

[@sinayomphithi994]

Get therapy

[@SH-vj2ce]

Listen to Chloe_ she does videos on toxic mothers. I second getting therapy and limiting interactions with her until you can move out. I'm sorry. A lot of young women have issues with their moms. Look into therapy if you can.Take care.

[@collegegrad2955]

@@SH-vj2ce thank you

[@nattyalexander]

Love this series, these videos are great! Yes, sometime people adore you and they don't even know why. It's because of your aura. That's why it's very important to do the inner work. What's happening inside will radiate on the outside.

[@brentpeddy5234]

Wow Dr Michelle!! Thank you for this channel!! It's so refreshing to see a woman teaching women about femininity. I just found your channel last night and I've watched a handful of videos already. Sooo good!! And especially thank you for also giving glory to God! Keep changing women back into the women they were created to be and helping us guys find the woman we desire 😃

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you so much for your kind words!

[@sokimari9891]

I like how you made it clear not to over share ❤ if I had seen this a year ago I wouldn’t have been so scarred. Thank you so much for helping others and I 😊.

[@yourfavoriteoompaloompa139]

I love the little silver in the inner conners of your eyes, that itself for me is something that’s alluring

[@TheQueenOfGreatness]

The only thing I don't like about myself: When I'm upset, I don't hold back and I may cuss someone out to put them in their place. It's something I need to work on😔

[@drmichelledaf]

Yes baby, you need to set internal boundaries and allow your thoughts to flow and have self control over your words. We will work on this. Much love!

[@nilnil7325]

The language a person uses when thinking is often what spills out during highly emotional times. So if a person frequently uses cuss words when they are thinking about people or situations that are negative or stressful, then that type of language will naturally flow out during an angry outburst because the emotional stress makes us become less inhibited. One of the best ways to fix this is to not use cuss words in our everyday thoughts or speech. Instead of thinking 'She's a b****' you can say 'She's manipulative' or 'She's underhanded'.. whatever describes the person. Try to cut the cuss words out of your vocabulary all together, even in ways that you view as being harmless, and you'll find that you will never reach for those words when you are angry.

[@crystalo8603]

I know this was not meant to be funny, but 😂... I’m sorry

[@brooklynloca1]

I'm on that same journey and would like to share what I've learned. Understanding. Mastering understanding will stop you from getting to that point. I am able to pinpoint the reason behind the actions or words of the person and 9 times out of 10 it has nothing to do with me. They are projecting their personal stuff on to me and that's not my fault. Once I came to that understanding, I will "oh okay" you to death and/remove myself. I have had some weak moments where I went there with people, but I'm being kind to myself because I'm a work in progress. ❤

[@supervegitok956]

Your video straight to the point well addressed in a classy sophisticated way and without the superficial crap and your quite alluring yourself good video sis💖

[@drmichelledaf]

That's so sweet, thank you so much.

[@kylieshields1599]

The happier you are, the more you bring to the table ♡

[@sarahbathelemy]

Why do I have to change parts of myself, what I like, just to find someone to love me. This video brings me so much sadness because I feel like I have to change what I like, and my personality just to cater to someone else. I’ve struggled with beauty for so long and this video fuels my insecurities because I feel like myself isn’t up to standard. This video probably has helped other and I’m glad for that, but for me personally I feel like I’m never gonna be like this.

[@dabambini2528]

Same here ...😔

[@deeinsights]

I was almost at a point thinking I waste money in my perfumes and candles even if they make me feel good.....but this vedio just reinforced my predilections.....Love.

[@karenb7474]

❤️thankful for your videos❤️ I started watching your videos a few days ago. I have been bitter, angry and sad for a long time and haven’t been able to see beauty in life. I feel lighter just by watching you. Your advices are great and I feel like I’m on the right path 🥰

[@drmichelledaf]

Wow what a moving testimony. I am so thankful that you were able to be lifted. I wish you godspeed on your journey and I hope it's the beginning to your freedom. Blessings to you!

[@candysade]

Beautiful completely true I already thought this way for years, my advice is if ppl try to make you upset to change your aura just forgive and let it go be happy and free and yourself no matter what someone tells you to upset or discourage you, get back to the real free you

[@drmichelledaf]

Yes love, great advice.Thanks for sharing!

[@beau4588]

You look drop dead gorgeous in this video Girl!!! The colors of your blouse and lipstick are soo it for you! And Jur makeup looks bombb💛⭐

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you so much honey!

[@lifelessonswithjo]

I agree! I love it!

[@minawaaak]

yess that lipstick is so amazing on her and those earring are just *chefs kiss* 💛

[@queenbaddie4695]

@@drmichelledaf You are beautiful on the inside as outside. Your advice is so motivational and positive. Keep it up. 😁

[@SimBits]

When I searched up how to be more attractive I scrolled past all the men and clicked on your video, I value your opinion way more lol

[@belisimatony3229]

A guy once told me, when I am around in any place that is fun, he said it like going to enjoy the park full of flowers but all the flowers are all gone because where ever you are you bring beauty 🤗

[@amber8349]

You even have a good vibe through the screen, that’s the kinda vibe I want 😌😌

[@sharainewing]

I find that when it comes to relationships and men, I seem to attract those whom of which want to take advantage of me and get whatever they can get out of me without ever committing. This has caused me to become very reserved and observant. The flip side of that though is i've also put up a positive, pristine shield or block over myself. Now when it comes to friendships and meeting new people, I seem to attract people who instantly suck onto me like suckerfishes... most of them are the ones who only know how to have one sided friendships. I always end up being more like a therapist then a friend and it's really very exhausting! Sometimes I need someone to talk to/ vent to too! What i've decided to do is... be more selective of the company I keep, take more time to and for myself for my sanity sake. And with men i've just decided to practaice abstinence.

[@UrbanNobility]

Sharaine Ewing same!!

[@samyahknotts4728]

This is literally me and I don’t understand why I attract men who want to take advantage

[@artiswilkins306]

Sounds like you need to change the circles that you travel in and choose quality places to go to/attend. Stop going to the club. Go to the nicer dining places in upscale areas. You can nurse a wine spritzer all night, put your phone down and just people watch with a pleasant look on her face. I’ve had to leave broke people alone. I’ve had acquaintances tell me that I go to “high-end places”🙄 Girl bye. Look cute and “shop” in a high end grocery store. You’d be surprised just how bold some men can be when they are grocery shopping 😳. I’ve had several step up and say “hi” Put a smile on your face and say “hi” back. Insanity= doing the same thing over and over again hoping to get new or better results. Make some changes and travel under the radar. Don’t tell folks your business either--see how that works for you. GL✌🏾

[@SincerelyChelle]

Yay!! I have a good aura. Literally everywhere I've ever gone or worked, people told me that they loved being around me!

[@drmichelledaf]

That's wonderful! I'm happy you bring light to those around you.

[@arualybur2222]

i clicked on this video so fast because of your beauty and aura. i was like she MUST KNOW what she’s talking about. loved this so much. thank you beautiful soul 🥰❤️✨

[@kathrynpowell8732]

I LOVE the pictures you chose. They’re not stereotypical Instagram models, but they’re absolutely gorgeous and inspiring.

[@isabellel5048]

I’m so happy I found this!! I am 15 and I can’t wait to become an elegant feminine!!

[@diamondd83]

Thank you 🙏🏾 definitely taking the “quarantine time “ for Me. I am my own assignment. Be safe and well 🙏🏾

[@officiallyKES]

These are powerful tips! “ You can be beautiful but not attractive “ - that was a big takeaway ‼️

[@QueenBAfrica]

I am so glad I came across this video tonight. I am recently engaged but it seems that after I said yes, the "honeymoon" was over. The things he did that I fell in Love with AGAIN (we have history from 5 yrs ago 🤷🏽) dwindled down gradually. That left me feeling unwanted, a bother, IN LOVE...alone, and sad. Today was a hard day for me but watching this video reminded me that I AM all those things that you mentioned. I just gave too much, shared too much, fell too soon, and forgot about ME...and the woman I worked hard on for the last 5 years. Thank you Soooo much for affirming women and our, often unforgotten, femininity. I will be watching your other videos and I have subscribed to your channel...Thanks again!