3 Life-Changing Feminine Habits To Develop NOW! || A Feminine Impression

[@drmichelledaf]

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[@__badlilvibe9006]

Oiling my body when it's still wet has made my skin look so good.

[@vanessalinus1850]

What oil do you use, please?

[@__badlilvibe9006]

@@vanessalinus1850 Body: you can use any oil and add a little glycerine and rose water to it. I use Nice and Lovely Glycerine or cocoa butter. Lotion is good if you want to mix oils compared to body butter. Face: Watch the #60SecondRule video to learn how to wash your face. I apply rosewater on my wet face ( I have oily skin) but you can do that with what works for you. Use a little oil when applying it on wet skin.

[@vanessalinus1850]

@@__badlilvibe9006 Thanks. Greatly appreciated.

[@countyourmiracles.7734]

Absolutely works 👍. When it's moist

[@audreyskn]

vanessa linus vitamin e is the best for your body

[@tammypitts4212]

I love that you mention God, thank you because a lot people leave Him out.

[@Skaniathespartan]

Ohh yes

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you love, there is no me without Him

[@lovethybodyco7635]

Yes always put him first and he’ll bless you in your land 🙏🏽

[@suelacaste910]

@@drmichelledaf Subscribed because of this. Hope to see more content from you speaking about faith. : )

[@insertedgynamehere1648]

What if they ain't Christian or wanna be more inclusive to people who watch their videos ain't Christian.

[@dancingdivaa97]

Two showers is a MAJOR KEY LADIES. You don’t have to scrub like crazy. My morning showers are usually cold with a touch of gentle soap under the arms. Nighttime showers are my buss down

[@NelleB762]

@@Flowergoatflower Why was she against?

[@ihateyouall7026]

STEPHANIE MBAILASSEM water isn’t free, please be realistic. Also as someone who lives in California, that’s not an option.

[@Vesta0831]

Lol... I will not lie. I met my husband when I was taking two showers a day. Correlation does not equal causation though lol.

[@aseelelmowag9846]

Isn't that really bad for you

[@blackdivine6762]

Most Black ppl take two to three showers a day. We know good and well who she was getting "push back" from, lol.

[@Laporshaxo]

I try to avoid people who speak badly about themselves. It shows they don’t love themselves and I’ve already broken that habit. I don’t want to pick it up again. I also don’t need that energy around. And I will NOT give them the compliments they may be fishing for either. I’ll just distance myself.

[@drmichelledaf]

This is wise. Especially since you are working out of it. It's important that you don't get reeled in again and now you are more aware. Much love to you!

[@zaria_treasuress]

This is so me, this year my goal is to be surrounded by people who love themselves, so I won’t always have to remind them of how beautiful they are 24/7. I need to be around people who have self-confidence

[@tseesaws8599]

You have NEVER lied ma’am!!!!!! Just when you think you’re the only one that thinks this until someone else speaks on it 👏🏾

[@yordanos2739]

If they speak badly about themselves they won't have no problem doing it to you or their loved ones.

[@ischiabangura8207]

I cry all the time when I meditate with God, it's a release not excessive

[@drmichelledaf]

Yes!!! That's right!

[@vannasgran6176]

❤️ ❤️

[@infj662]

Ischia Bangura I cry when I pray/meditate too💕💕💕

[@twill1007]

I do too !

[@bellak2004]

Yessss! Glad I'm not the only one

[@Gadiel67]

My mother taught me as a child to shower in the morning so that you’re fresh for the day, at night so that you don’t take any of the germs and bacteria from the day and bring them into your bed and to freshen up mid day if needed (especially in the summer or on your period).

[@juneplumlogan]

Facts

[@cool_kid103]

I don’t have time in the day for all them showers

[@bluwater1422]

It's a fact

[@Pursuepeace0715]

thats true!

[@daisydavis399]

1.) Curated care: skin care routine, body routine. Morning and evening. Exfoliate, address, figure out what works Your body is a temple You are important You have a purpose New skin, new life. Take 2 showers a day 2.) emotional balance: U r responsibile and you need to manage your feelings Develop emotional strategies Spend time with yourself Write down your feelings You could cry, get it out Try doing it alone that's why you have God Meditate: time to pray and hear from God There's no reason why you should use your physical agression. emotions are temporary and they're a beautiful thing to feel. Allow feelings to come and go. 3.) Watch your mouth How you talk about yourself. Dont be negative. Never say " my voice is ugly, my teeth are ugly" instead say "im working on being more patient " and "im working on loving myself" rewire the way you see yourself

[@MeditatenRelax]

I concur with you using 'I Am' is empowering and thats how you're supposed to indentify yourself

[@stefannykerr1298]

Thank you for the summary!

[@bluwater1422]

I agree 100% & it's good 2 b positive & practice self care

[@Bricktown982]

thank you

[@NsoromaSimmons]

In my house I wasn't allowed to express anger, or to disagree with my parents, it was always viewed as disrespect.

[@drmichelledaf]

Yes same here and you have to now work through that as an adult because it I'm sure it also had positive effects in learning how to cope with life, but comes with a price.

[@bimirabu]

Dr. Michelle Yes, yes, yes! Thank you so much for putting this type of experience into a positive, healthy light. I’m learning as an adult that I still have that mindset of not talking back. I’m working to overcome that.

[@evaeve2152]

Same for me. I believe it's what makes us reserved and at times aloof. There is power in it. When you become passive in a conversation you'll notice people do tell on themselves.

[@victoriayvee8313]

I'm 16 year old and I am learning how to be feminine black teen and you help me a lot ❤️ whit your videos sending lots of love from Spain.

[@faithrinono2883]

@Plush in Pink me too!

[@brittanniadias565]

Same here, I am a 15 year old black girl learning a thing or two about being more feminine and applying it to my life, as always, love from Jamaica❤️

[@phoenixkore2755]

Me too 16 from the US✨✨✨

[@bd3966]

aw keep at it sis! A feminine classy woman in the making! lots of love from Cali.

[@maipaul7786]

Sameeee everything

[@Nadsbaby95]

The 2 showers a day is big in Ghanaian households. I was shocked when I found out that two showers a day isn't the norm for everyone. Personally I like to shower in the morning before I go anywhere so i feel fresh and awake. The night time shower is the most necessary because you have been out and about all day, sweating, etc and I personally cannot sleep unless i have showered!

[@blessingashanti7039]

Same!!! I'm Ghanaian and I always shower twice a day. Can't believe that some people even go some days without showering.

[@HereIAm247]

I think it makes a lot of sense in hot or humid climates! :) However, I live in Scandinavia, where it is generally colder, and we are taught to shower every morning, and after exercise. Since it is so cold, you don't sweat as much, as you would in a warmer country, so one is enough, unless you work out. :) And most people work out 2-4 times a week, so not every day.

[@juneplumlogan]

Yes I'm surprised cause in Jamaica we take showers twice a day its damn hot

[@Lina-gc9vx]

@Masingita Mushwana why are you lying? 😂😂😂😂 yho nothing like that In South Africa

[@omowhanre]

When I went to Nigeria and didn't shower st night, my aunties openly told me I dirty. You bet I showered the next night, lol 😆. I was so confused because I was used to showering once a day. But my Aunt asked me if I want my dirt and sweat from the day to be in my bed. Yup, I now show twice a day. Hahaha

[@viennamsp5926]

Hello I grew up in a troubling household where my parents have never taught me proper feminine hygiene and self care. I had to learn about shaving and everything all by myself because my mother never felt that I was old enough for it even though I am about to be 18. Thank you so much for this video. It may seem like all of this is common sense but for some of us who was never taught any of this, this video is very helpful!

[@debaratisarkar9351]

My household isn't troublesome but nobody told me about shaving and taking care of me as well. I have learnt through my friends, online articles, boyfriends and videos. I understand the necessity of someone feminine who will guide on these topics.

[@Karenmariepombagira]

So sorry she tried to limit your femininity.

[@NomzamoMatoto]

Your comment hit home. I was never taught any of this either I'm 37 in a few days and I'm still learning

[@narcabusevictimgermany9687]

Don’t shave,it scars your body. Try sugaring or similar techniques

[@BKATwigs]

We got you boo! Keep leveling up and learning, it’s never too late🥰❤️

[@BayouBarbie504]

I was doing good on my feminine journey. My brother passed away from Covid and I'm slightly despondent. I know I should be moving on but, I don't feel like taking care of myself right now. I'm stuck. This virus is really affecting me. Thanks for your video Dr. Michelle. You always make me feel like I have a feminine friend. I will get back to myself eventually.

[@marianne3054]

it’s okay,take your time my condolences

[@raspberry_dreams]

Take your time. Love peace and blessings to you during this difficult time. 🙏🏻🖤

[@debaratisarkar9351]

Take time to heal yourself sweetheart. Everything may not be like before but you will be fine. God is listening to your prayers. Stay blessed and hope your brother is in peace wherever he is.

[@Kealasadiva42]

May he Rest In Peace love

[@sh09123]

I’m so sorry for your lost🙏🏾🙏🏾 you will bounce back but take your time

[@SunFlowerGold8]

As black women we don't think about pampering ourselves. There's an ideology that's ingrained in US that if we begin to pamper ourselves then we are selfish and have unrealistic expectations of the world around us. This is so far from the truth. When you take the time to pamper yourself you send a message to the World At Large that you I worth it!

[@Joy2ThaWorld]

So so true.

[@drmichelledaf]

Yes!! So well said love.Thank you for sharing.

[@29SOLOVED]

Exactly what I said on another commit. The backlash we get for taking care of ourselves. The whole family will be a burden to our backs until we break the cycle of the female work mule mentality.

[@cool_kid103]

Not just black women either tho.

[@kaelao6920]

Waw! Thanks for this comment 🥰

[@precioussokhela6438]

I really admire how soft you sound and how you're always smiling.

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you so much honey 🤍✨

[@alethiamillner5603]

Top 2 traits of a feminine woman.

[@precioussokhela6438]

@@alethiamillner5603 definitely

[@fatimaissufo]

Can't believe people are complaining about taking 2 showers. Wow. 😁

[@spidergirl7290]

No offense but not everyone has the money (for a large water bill) or environmental allowance (because the country they live in just doesn’t supply or permit that much water to use) to be able to take 2 showers a day! We may want to take that many but we’re limited to 5 minutes of shower per day

[@fatimaissufo]

@@spidergirl7290 not offended. No worries! By the way I am from Mozambique and the most common thing here is taking At least 2 showers.😊🇲🇿

[@neptune8645]

Comic Girl I feel you, five people living in my house if we all took two showers we’d rack up over a 1k water bill😓😬

[@lilychan7981]

I've always took two showers and i'm from a country where taking 1 shower in 3 or 4 days is the norme. But since i workout i take a shower in the morning and then go to uni and stuff and once i get home i take a second shower. Literaly the people i know thinks i'm crazy hahaha even my family they find excessive....

[@imweirdniknowit]

I only realize recently, being from the Caribbean, that taking two showers isn’t a regular thing. If you’re from a cold climate I can understand but living in the tropics or during the summer.. please take two baths. Also being from a water scarce country, you don’t need to use a gallon of water to bathe. You can even bathe with a bucket if you wanna be extra conservative so this high water bill thing isn’t making much sense to me unless the rates are absolutely ridiculous.

[@vontemarquise4218]

I don’t want to make you cry BUT... I want to thank you for your content. I’ve lost myself in my past relationships and I had no one to turn to to help me remove my mental blocks. Thank you so much. You’re sooooooo appreciated. May God Bless you beautiful. 💋

[@silmm1886]

“You can’t be so closed off that people don’t even know you” 🥺

[@drmichelledaf]

It's OK babe, you just have to get in touch with your emotions

[@desireebryant9523]

Find someone you trust to talk to love yourself ❤️🙏

[@Kimberlyelayyne]

I am 34 years old and I never learned any of this growing up. I have been feeling like I am too old to start this but YOU give me hope that it isn't too late. Thank you for taking the time to teach us this. You are like the sister I never had. Sending you so much love beautiful!!❤❤

[@marlag.3075]

Same here doll 💙

[@Mom_of_the_Chickies]

As long as you’re a woman, it’s never too late ❤️ it’s your right to be feminine

[@Mom_of_the_Chickies]

This is a gift simply by being a woman

[@Kimberlyelayyne]

@@marlag.3075 sending you love!!!!❤

[@Kimberlyelayyne]

@@Mom_of_the_Chickies thank you sooooooo much!! Hugs!!🤗

[@khayymeshell4244]

My mother really never taught me anything that had to do with femininity and she was very closed off herself...I think that has really started to show now that I’m in my early 20’s. I have no one else to turn too, no sister or close friends that I feel comfortable sharing my thoughts or questions with but your videos have really helped me begin to change my life ❤️

[@Karenmariepombagira]

I used to feel ugly because I got some issue with my skin. Then I would get angry when called ugly by friend who I told I felt ugly. They were envious and used my low self esteem against me. I also tried to be fake humble to ward off envy. I don't verbally abuse myself anymore. I feel pretty whole and complete. I work on leveling up my mind even about deserving to be treated nicely by generous men. I deserve the best.

[@joycelynlewis5286]

I was raised in a Caribbean home and we bathe/shower twice a day ... standard... it's about being clean and not scrubbing like crazy as one sister mentioned ... nothing is more attractive then smelling nice and clean ... hmm. Being clean (external and internal) was taught to us (male and female) as being important just like having manners and etiquette... Love this video Sis xx

[@morenitaherrera]

I didnt realize just how necessary it is to have a good skin care and hair routine. But u can definitely see a difference between someone who does and someone who doesnt. Especially as we age.

[@drmichelledaf]

Absolutely!!

[@ailinh911]

yellow is so stunning on you! you look like a beautiful sunflower.🌻

[@drmichelledaf]

Aww thank you so much sweetheart!

[@JWoods.Prov31]

Thank you. I am in my late 40’s and going into my second divorce. I have been on a journey that began seven years ago. An evolving into a better version of myself. Trust me when I say, God led me to your page. I am a believer and I prayed about the next phase of my sense of self. He led me here. ❤️ I am on my journey to unlearning negative mindsets and learning a new mindset.

[@juanis8219]

i’m turning 18 soon and after being a childish tomboy all my life i finally feel called to really bloom into who i’m meant to be as a feminine woman because i’m growing up, figuring out who i am, working on having healthy habits, taking care of myself, helping my self esteem and confidence, starting my own life and am in a serious relationship now and embracing my femininity is really helping me in all areas of my life and you’ve truly helped me sooo much in that your content means a lot to me. i want to thank you for that. because of you i’m finally starting to feel like myself ❤️❤️ ❤️❤️ we love you too God bless you

[@chiamakanze176]

Girl I’m in the exact same position. Dr Michelle really is the best, isn’t she?! 💛💛

[@Peacebewithu34]

Chiamaka Nze yep

[@ya.h631]

I’m turning 18 in a week and this comment makes me feel better that I have been such a slob till now and reassured me that it’s not too late so thank u I hope u succeed on your journey❤️❤️❤️

[@Peacebewithu34]

Y A.H happy early birthday 😘

[@juanis8219]

@@ya.h631 thank you so much happy birthday

[@romilataylor6218]

Beautiful. This info is so needed. I’m soo tired of seeing bed hats, pajamas, bedroom slippers, I’ll-fitting clothing etc being worn by females in public. Just trashy and tacky looking. Some people don’t care how they look when they go out. It’s so nice hearing someone speak on how to bring out our “feminineness”. After being a nurse for 45+ years taking care of others I’ve retired and it’s time to take care of me. BION we really have to focus on what we can do for ourselves. Thank You for these videos. Keep them coming.

[@Solmom03]

That yellow on you...😍 Even when I didn’t workout I shower/bathe twice a day. You have to cleanse yourself in the morning to get your day going...plus people don’t want to smell last night or your bed on you at work. And my mom taught me that you don’t get in your bed with the day on you!

[@bluwater1422]

I agree 100%

[@rachelbarnes3415]

I found this just in time! I’m ready to be my best! And i just got engaged three days ago !

[@drmichelledaf]

Wow!! Congratulations babe! The time is now! I am so happy that you are here. Thank you for watching

[@teresai1877]

Congratulations Rachel!

[@TheGoalisSublime]

I created a skin care and body care routine in May and it changed my life. I never used to put lotion on. Mind you im in my late 20's. When I do my routine I feel loved and taken care of. It's a form of self love that every one needs

[@dorlisastjean4072]

I think experiencing trauma for all my 25 years of living and having to suppress my emotions to even being told that I am irrational from your own mother makes you become 🙃 like I don't want to live. However, I am starting all over and you and other channels have helped me realized this. Thank you so much and I will take this into consideration.

[@drmichelledaf]

I am sorry to hear about your pain. You are here for a purpose. God designed your life for a reason do not allow others to strip that away from you. I am happy to know that I am a part of your healing. Blessings and love

[@MsFlame2000]

So many of us feel guilty about taking a significant amount of time for ourselves. That includes taking long showers. We need to stop that we deserve time for ourselves. You can get in the shower and you're already thinking about a million things that you need to be doing when you get out of the shower. On the other hand you'll notice that men get in the shower and they're in there for half an hour at least. Sometimes they even carry their phone in there and turn on music .

[@drmichelledaf]

This is SPOT ON!! Thank you for sharing

[@joycelaurence4923]

You are a light dear. Please never dim, we love and appreciate you

[@drmichelledaf]

I love you. Thank you

[@Ms.Chan.T]

Two showers is it! The morning to wake up, the evening to get the day off of me, and relax. Emotions was an issue with me. I was raised in an environment where emotions were repressed or out of control. I repressed my emotions and never showed them. I have been called cold. But when I show my emotions, people get scared of me. So I'm learning

[@drmichelledaf]

Yes love, it is in no way easy... it is a tough balance. It's great that you realize this and are working to improve for yourself. Much love to you

[@deshanalatresa5995]

Had to stop again... whewww... I almost broke down and cried when you spoke of fighting. .... 😪 Teach, Teacher👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Joy2ThaWorld]

I’m 39 and saying taking two bathes a day is new too me. I feel dirty as I’ve never heard of this. Me and mostly everyone I know was raised on taking a bath at the end of the night. 😫

[@drmichelledaf]

That is OK. That is why you came across this video. Now you can make the changes. Much love to you

[@fabiennepdt4898]

Be blessed! I used to watch another lady, whose words I disapproved of sometimes, and then I bumped into your videos. I love the fact that you mentioned God. As we know, nothing is possible without him. Love from France!

[@dquiana]

Girl, God sent me you. Thank you! I appreciate your ministry.

[@gifty2595]

It has always been such a pleasure watching your videos. They are so therapeutic, nurturing, and healing. I haven't worn a dress in over 10 years until I started taking your feminine series seriously. I put everybody else first and just forgot about the woman I used to be. Because of you I've bought 3 cute dresses and I can't wait to wear them.God bless you richly

[@sataramays]

I’m so emotional too, I feel everything. Glad to know I’m not the only one. Thank you for such great content, your videos give me life ❤️

[@drmichelledaf]

You are not love. And thank you for your kind words and support. Much love to you 🤍🦋✨

[@sophiatrabelsi1000]

Thank you for this video. I grew up with a very emotionally unavailable mother. Always busy working, i never saw her pampering herself or nothing. But deep inside of me, i knew it wasn't the truth. I'm so happy being a woman, pampered and sexy. It's crazy how much girls are wounded in their feminity

[@ChicSabrina]

I grew up hearing my family always complaining about themselves and what they wanted to change about themselves. It wasn't until I was 21 and looked around at all of us at a family party and realized we weren't ugly. That sounds awful, but the way you speak about yourself also impacts the way others view you. It was insane having that realization one day.

[@amytomas712]

I loved how u talked about showers bc idk why people get so scared of water. And LOTION LADIES don’t be afraid of your skin being moisturized ❤️

[@lenebellaw8911]

I just discovered you and watched 2 videos already! At this point in my life I needed this change because as a mom I put everyone first then deal with myself last. So huge thank you!

[@drmichelledaf]

I am so thankful that you've discovered my channel. I am happy that you now want to begin caring for yourself. Thank you for your love and support.

[@lexiswanson8112]

Growing up I was always told I was too sensitive and too much. I was living with undiagnosed issues and my parents didn't even know, so while I don't really hold it against them I can't deny that it had a major impact on my emotions. I'm having to re-parent myself while trying to parent my two small children and it breaks me when I burst out the way it was done to me on my kids when they're emotionally upset and can't explain it... You can't teach what you don't know, thank GOD I have the sense to at least *try* to learn so I can be a better example to my kids. The cycle stops here!

[@akosua8779]

So thankful to find a strong beautiful woman to look up too. Grew up in a Ghanaian household as the only girl with 4 older brothers....now im a mother of a toddler and newborn in september i need to REALLY get it together so my daughters dont struggle like me with bad self worth esteem and negative thoughts from C-PTSD

[@TA-sj3qw]

You've got this Maame! Your daughters will be blessed to have you to look up to😘 I hope you're healing from the negative thoughts day by day💕

[@akosua8779]

@@TA-sj3qw medaase! Im working hard everyday sister. I refuse to give up.

[@marquitacalloway104]

This yellow is very pretty on you & makeup! Luv the session too!!!🙌🏽

[@afuanita4630]

I need to sit down and binge watch all your videos. Take notes , apply come back. Do a whole course ! thank you Michelle , lots of love

[@kristenraszeja663]

I don’t exercise but I work and live in the desert so two showers for me are required. I was blessed my Mother taught me how to self care as a women.

[@vannasgran6176]

I’ no longer have a menstrual cycle. I still shower in the morning and at night. I love exfoliating my skin. Sometimes I use a sugar scrub and some days I will do a dry scrub prior to showering. It is so relaxing. I had to learn to stop talking down about myself. For instance I use to refer to myself as fat, I’m too dark. It is so hard to break that habit.

[@thewritergrl]

You're always talking about colours and I'm listening to this video whilst working from home, so I can't see what you're wearing. But I just clicked on to press pause and I was blown away by the beauty, the colours you are wearing really compliment you and it made my day. Yes, just seeing your beauty made my day haha :D

[@sylkiacarmuega4673]

I’m 14 and I’ve always been really feminine. Thank you so much for your advices and tips🥰 ly girl and your videos of course. And keep making videos. They really inspire me and other women as well❤️❤️

[@jacquelinegolden974]

Sis! Your channel is The Bomb!! You drop some True JEWELS on your channel. Thank you!!! 💖💖💖

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you so much honey, that is so sweet, I am happy you feel that way! You are most welcome

[@stephanienelly90]

Soft soap has some amazing exfoliating body washes! I use it everyday!

[@888xPrettyPrima]

So awesome! 🎉🎉🎉

[@samairakaul4984]

YOU'RE AN INSPIRATION, MUCH APPRECIATED! LOVE YOU SIS

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you baby. Love you too and thank you for watching!

[@samairakaul4984]

@@drmichelledaf ur a goddess!

[@juneelle370]

“You do have to follow the urges that God gave you. To BE that person. That is so important. I don’t want you to miss that.” 🙌💜🙌

[@juneelle370]

Water needs structure (wood energy) to go somewhere... like a creek needs land, like water can make electricity when channeled with structure... wood needs water, like a tree needs rain to live, like a boat needs ocean to move and travel 🌊 & 🌲 I think are great replacement terms for femininity because we actually each need some of the others in ourselves just to function and be happy... and all of us will have different percentages and kinda of each. It’s a way a man can feel soft and kind without feeling “feminine” if he doesn’t want to. And it’s a way that feminine can be assertive and successful without feeling “masculine” if she doesn’t want to. Gender is nothing but a sexist construct. Each person should be allowed to be who they were Created to be and the urges given to them by Creator int eh body they were born in!!! Sex is a fact of DNA but gender roles are just sexist norms that keep humanity in boxes and limitations they weren’t by nature and their own evolution to have. So men can feel like men in moments of water energy... and feel connected in that polarity of water when they are in their wood energy and women can feel like women when they are in wood energy and love the polarity of wood when they are in their water. When we say the term transgender, it’s just an error from the legacy of psychology cementing the word “gender “ from established societal sexist norms (that came from the negative and really sick parts of religion... the Newton-ization of human qualities. We are all male and female... when we change the word man to mean something other than the sex MALE, we are changing the definition of every man into sexist stereotypes and visa versa. As a psychologist, wondering what you think of this? Linguistically, it allows men and women to be in the way of being they were born and their God-given gifts of urges, talents followed and developed, without changing into sexist stereotypes... why loving behaviors are often considered “feminine” for example, men will continue to be violent. That how powerful I think ideas about sex are. The diminishment of women has led to the diminishment of the qualities women are assigned through the sexist idea of gender... the diminishment of those values had led to the diminishment of love new peace and care on this planet! What men can shame, they know they can control, and sex is a powerful force. So there’s a desire diminishment “feminine” qualities for sex control. If linguistically, it were changed to water and wood... and everyone knew we all have some of both qualities, people varying in degree of water and wood qualities, like a Kinsey scale, but for feminine qualities now without the sexist assignment-so water instead of fem and wood instead of masc. Water and wood qualities are EQUAL IN RESPECT 💙 not exact but complimentary in their polarity. And just like there are positive and negative expressions of femininity and masculinity, now for water and wood. So, someone may be 30% water and 70% wood and they may be most attracted to the opposite ... it just allows for all the human expression and experience of love and it linguistically breaks us out of a jail out of this nightmare on earth of non-love that manifests itself though language, internal and external and taught through culture, family community and the over culture. I love linguistics and the philosophy/spirituality of linguistics and everything’s a mess between men and women and so everything’s a mess on earth... and I think it is created with the false understandings that started in our languages and then religions and then everything. Since you’re a doctor (I have no degree) if you’ve read this, if you feel inclined, I’d love you to hear your thoughts on this. Sorry if I went on too long 😂 I kind of got on some thoughts tonight and thought even if no one read this, I want to type it just to screen shot it for myself!!! :) new to your channel, love your soft and wise content 💛

[@juneelle370]

*correction for above-we are all male OR female (not and female, as I accidentally wrote) ... but we all do naturally have a mix of masculine and feminine qualities-so it’s really wrongly named because a man doesn’t need to feel like less of a man when in water ... because he’s in water but he’s in man water and he’s still a man and a woman can feel great in her own wood energy, guiding her own water, and feeling still, 100 woman 💚

[@babytoronto5388]

Hey gorgeous 😍😍 this is on point!! Skin care and self love is so necessary. Take care of yourselves ladies ✨💕

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you sweetie. Sure is. Thanks for watching!!

[@cr.6752]

I also take 2 to 3 showers a day or even a shower and then a bath. I need to feel fresh before bed. I love your channel you have really great tips. I am so happy I found you.

[@sydneymon]

You made a huge impact on my feminine journey! Thank you so much Michelle. You are an amazing and beautiful person in and out! Sending a big hug and love from South Korea!

[@drmichelledaf]

Aww thank you so much my love! I am so happy to know that. That touched me...and wow South Korea! Amazing!! Sending you blessings and love

[@Itsmarylynnnn]

Yesss she's really improved my feminine journey as well

[@sheenspeaks]

Wow. I really love your personality. You are very candid but speak your mind in a gentle way. I love it

[@drmichelledaf]

That is so sweet, thank you honey. I appreciate your well thought out words. Thank you for watching!

[@adaintydream8759]

Oh my lord! How perfect are you at selecting your clothing and makeup colours 💕 You look alluring ❤️ Pleaseeee make a video how we can select the colors that look best on us💕

[@mrs.tishposh-paige3570]

Hi, agree. I always have showered twice daily. When I awake and before bed❤ Thought it was a normal practice.

[@geraldinegreutert7005]

May i give a suggestion for a future video? I love the content you produce and you show me that it's nice to be feminine. I struggle with time management and the willpower to even start with my journey. This is more on the mental side of things but i'd appreciate to hear your side and how you manage your time ❤ blessings

[@audreyskn]

here for healing how bad do you want it?

[@katrinaalivya]

Yessss 2 Showers Is VERY IMPORTANT and essential!!!!

[@labelsandlife]

The whole “manage your emotions” part of this vid was sooooo 🤗🥰🙌🏽🥺

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you babe, my next few videos will be centered around emotions, stay tuned!

[@labelsandlife]

Dr. Michelle yasss. I can’t wait ❤️

[@godsgirl1977]

All I can say is thank you! I cry once a day as well....they are not always sad tears....sometimes they are just because tears.... so happy to have stumbled on your channel

[@umazillah9812]

I really dont want to make you cry😅 But you have such a beautiful soul. Im in a complicated season of my life and Im very lost. Your videos are helping me rediscover myself again and your voice just calms me down and encourages me to take on things slowly. Thank you so much! Stay healthy and safe and have a nice weekend 😇

[@LOLAALICE71]

That glytone kp kit is everything! changed my skin completely butter smooth

[@drmichelledaf]

That's awesome love! I am so happy you liked it

[@lovemarian63]

I’ve been loving your videos, truly indulging myself into the advice you give. My life is changing and I can’t wait to embody the new woman I’m becoming ✨ Blessings to you Queen 👑

[@mariemegie6225]

You have a beautiful soul and I know one when I see one. You are helping a lot of women out there. Keep up with the good work. God bless you! 🙏😊

[@drmichelledaf]

Wow, that is so sweet, thank you love!

[@Seblirose]

Curls suits you x

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you sweetheart

[@shaaidamustapha8365]

Yh it really does

[@Seblirose]

@@drmichelledaf 😘

[@stef3927]

it really does!💕

[@chiamakanze176]

My exact thoughts! I was wondering how she was going to look today, and I’m LOVING the curls and the yellow top💕

[@I_AM_PHOEBEANNE]

I simply appreciate you... very calming voice. Enjoy your videos. So not only do you advice to be our best selves, you also advice us to take care of our temples. A round of applause for you dear

[@klomax7089]

OMG this is in my feed directly after dry brushing, then soaking in epsom salt and myrrh! I love the idea of curated care. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽❤️❤️❤️

[@drmichelledaf]

Lol perfect!! Thank you for watching babe

[@desireericheymesser1951]

I'm binging your videos.Love the idea of two baths a day or shower and some should be pampering. 💜

[@joannegibson1128]

I'm from Trinidad it's hot there and in my household we take at least two or three showers a day I live in Florida now and I do the same I love you so much your videos are on point 💋🇹🇹

[@maticaburton1030]

I'm from Trinidad currently and I take a shower twice a day🇹🇹🇹🇹

[@Moon_goddess83]

🇹🇹

[@jiliciar.1423]

I'm from Trinidad too! 🇹🇹

[@rinamaya8858]

Omg I feel you! Whenever I talk to God I always get emotional! Its hard to talk to God and not cry! Because you realise how loved you are and how good things are and how supported you are! 🙏✨

[@drmichelledaf]

Yes love, it is the Holy Spirit. Thank you for sharing babe!

[@daria6624]

Thank you for talking about crying and meditation

[@drmichelledaf]

You are so welcome my love

[@NwannekaEN]

Love all the way from Nigeria! Your videos and content are amazing and super helpful. Thank you!❤❤

[@bigbadcow7726]

Thank you Dr. Michelle for always being such a powerful and inspirational force! BTW You look absolutely stunning in yellow

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you for your kind and loving comment. I truly appreciate it. So much love to you 🤍🦋✨

[@tinaweena4828]

Guuuuuurl.. that yellow shirt with your complexion is just BOMB! 💣💛 Thanks for being so down to Earth & informative. You are a strong woman & wonderful child of God. 🙏 I appreciate your insight & coaching.

[@adrianpozo6325]

I am looking forward to seeing your meditation video. I really need it.. I’ve been struggling with my emotions & it’s been impacting my relationship with my boyfriend. I really need it, thanks Dr. Michelle

[@rondymiller4044]

Just came across your site, okay Dr. Goddess Michelle. I see that yellow. Thanks for the reminder.

[@jcmommy210]

This was so lovely, so clear, and so encouraging. Thank you!

[@drmichelledaf]

I am so happy to hear that babe. You are more than welcome!

[@lisaapau2253]

Yellow is a power color on you girl! You look gorgeous 🥰

[@TinaRenea]

This top is EVERYTHING!! Love the color on you

[@heir2wellness122]

Just watched again 2yrs later... so POWERFUL... SUCH EFFECTIVE DELIVERY IN THE TENDERNESS... THANK YOU

[@danikateg]

loving your videos so much ! one of my new favourite youtubers 💕

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you so much honey. I appreciate your love and support. Blessings and love to you!

[@carlynherbert5523]

Love your voice, it encourages me to speak softer. I can be pretty voicetress, really working on that!!!

[@Lavender81250]

Thank God for this gorgeous big sister! You have helped me so much. Lots of love and prayers for you❤

[@sylviaporter-hall1501]

Hello. I just discovered your channel. So glad I did!! I will be watching!!😊

[@drmichelledaf]

I am so happy you found my channel! Welcome love

[@Hellolleh]

I love this hairstyle. This is your look! So beautiful.

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you so much honey ♥️💋✨

[@juneelle370]

Love that metaphor. Thoughts, spoken or internal, create highways, grooves in your mind that connect all over the place in your world, your life and their effects snowball by how people who surround you react to them. Drive lovely cars (thought packets) in your mind ladies! If you have to ditch bad cars, do it all the way, like she said!!! Those new pathways with new cars will create NEW highways,new connections and new pathways! You have to be very conscious when creating new highways, new grooves with your better car... because out of habit you may find yourself out on an old highway just because the grooves are deeper, so it’s more automatic. And be on guard when you’re in a funk or someone triggers you, and somehow you find yourself in a terrible car on a bad highway, remember, those old lies took you NOWHERE! In time, the new cars (beneficial, loving thoughts) will create deeper and deeper grooves and you can drive all the way to a new life and an evolving and happier YOU!!! No shame for the old thoughts, old grooves either. They were never “you.” Just toxic patterns. As we evolve, we can thank the lessons and the love and leave the rest behind... and help all our sisters!!!! 💜🌈❤️

[@sweetmaplesirupp]

Scrubs doesnt make u feminin.. ur behavior and mindset does!

[@comelyngomane3690]

That's so true

[@drops4x133]

They go hand in hand, a feminine woman is a woman who takes care of that femininity outwardly as inwardly, as within so without.

[@Jazzymama8703]

Superficial

[@shakeenakontoe2507]

Actually all the above self care and mindset which she touched on

[@Chris-oo7lr]

Some would argue that scrubbing is a type of behaviour ☺️

[@Aj-pb4mi]

You are so amazing!! Praying you continue to share the light, God has blessed you with.

[@TIrene-wy3nc]

I absolutely ❤️listening to your channel it always make me self reflect on my journey

[@pastoralexiaburgesshuart2020]

Fantastic encouragement......Thank you!

[@MariaPerez-qs6br]

You look absolutely gorgeous with your curly hair 😍😍😍 I love it

[@chinitareid8625]

I am so emotional Michelle i cry so much.

[@larrypr3cious776]

You are a blessing to me love ♥️. I love you Michelle, thank you very much for your loving teachings. You are so adorable 🌹❤️. Keep going God have more good plans for you. Am loving the new me I become, because of your teachings. Thank you ❤️❤️

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you for such loving words. I hold them dear. I appreciate your love and support babe and I'm happy to hear that you have benefitted from it. You are very welcome!

[@larrypr3cious776]

Am 18 year old girl and it really feels like you are polishing me. I am so in love ♥️ with Everything you bring out. I appreciate it very much. I love the energy and you will be come my queen of change. I will have a testimony as I will grow up to be a lady. Love you so much. God bless you.❤️❤️