HOW TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AGAIN

[@pollyjohnson-allthingsgood]

It was all and only about their wants, needs and particularly demands. I was a complete slave to the narcissist. The first week after discard I said to myself “I have no idea who I am”. That was such a revelation. I had become a complete puppet to the narcissist. I’m returning now and it’s like saying hello to a old friend. I want to sit her down and have a chat about where she’s been! I liked her a lot and she had such great trust in other people. She was happy and strong. The return of my old friend sees her different though and yet much much stronger. She’s far more educated, more spiritual and whilst she is currently injured, she’s healing and still has faith in human nature. She wants to be so strong and so healed that she can again have trust and belief in others but she’ll do it with far more kindness to herself first 🙏💙🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message Polly.. thank you for sharing this 🙏🙌💯

[@craigsmith1365]

Beautiful - beautiful - beautiful....another beautiful demerion. Your words are healing to me.

[@bradmcewen]

Awesome 👏

[@pollyjohnson-allthingsgood]

@@craigsmith1365 bless you. I hope your healing path is progressing well. Stay strong - we all have too 💙🙏💙

[@WhipRunner]

Big kiss and hug. She is the Invincible!!

[@bayoubabe6698]

Thank you for giving our tribe a place to come, listen, share and help educate those who are just realizing they’ve been trapped in a narcissistic relationship and are just beginning to extricate themselves from their situation. It’s so hard but with support from others and determination we can walk away and begin to live. Thank you🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Always Bayyoubabe66..🙌💪😊💯

[@dramafree3777]

This is so true! We are always trying to prove ourselves to them and get appreciation or recognition some kind of acknowledgement and real LOVE that NEVER COMES. You lose yourself trying to impress and get validation from them. It's so hard to believe that people can be so disturbed to treat others this way but they do. Healing vibes to everyone going through the struggle!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Yes..💯🙌🙏

[@kristenturner1222]

“Do you have the patience to wait Till your mud settles and the water is clear? Can you remain unmoving Till the right action arises by itself?” - Lao Tzu After the mud of the narcissist's influence in our lives, it can be hard to see clearly, but when going no contact, the mud settles, and we find clarity and peace pervading our lives yet again. Awakening from our Disneyland fairytale is a dark and harrowing experience that makes us question everything, but if we can emerge on the other side, we are more real and more awake to the fullness of life, and thus appreciate it even more fully.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Kristen 🙌💯🙏

[@kristenturner1222]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone You're very welcome, Andrew!

[@leticiavillafranco6347]

Wow great quote!

[@jenniferpicard7550]

GOD BLESS YOU & YOURS 😇💐

[@kristenturner1222]

@@jenniferpicard7550 God bless you too!

[@christine11347]

Post narscistic recovery know your truth. Step outside your comfort zone. Surround yourself with people who believe in you. Be comfortable knowing who you are spiritually, emotionally and physically. Always strive to push yourself higher each day. Dream big and do things that bring you fulfillment and meaning. We are all meant for greatness. Go live your best life. Embrace your second chance. This is all our temporary home so while we are here we should live it to our fullest. God bless💛

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing 🙏🙌💯

[@eloisem3214]

You go, girl! 🤸‍♀️🥰🙏

[@christine11347]

@@eloisem3214 Thank you Eloise this has been an extremely uplifting and humbling day. 💛 Looking back at these earlier comments brings me such joy and reminds me of how far I have come. As we all continue on our paths and keep our cups full it is absolutely beautiful to see the effects that our journey has on others that surround us. My coworker was just in my office with tears of happiness telling me how she feels so good putting up boundaries with her narc mother, starting a new workout program and making time for herself. She was explaining that they are not supporting this shift and her attitude, which as we all know is completely normal. Reminding her she is not alone was great comfort to her and me as well. When we share our journeys and it empowers others to make positive changes in their own lives it is amazing.

[@theanonymous6382]

I agree with you with the being groomed to be a servant, the person who pays the bill to make the narcissist life easier while they are getting new sources of supply to be my replacement 🤦🏻‍♀️ I can’t believe I was manipulated in this way 😔… Having to prove myself was another thing, wow 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely..💯🙏🙌

[@tonyroma7599]

I too am ashamed of what had happened to me. Letting the narcissist control my every moment of life. So glad I have asked her to leave. I’m still working on finding myself but I’m sure it will be worth the work. Thank you for all the videos you are making. God Bless🙏🏻

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Tony 💯🙏🙌

[@bradmcewen]

I was too but not now ! Once your knowledge confirms with absolute certainty your normality and their sickness it will be a freeing moment in time. Trauma bond breaks. They want to hurt you. Don't need that crap in your life.

[@christine11347]

The inner work and healing as you move forward along your path is 💯 worth it💛

[@cynthiafortier2540]

Tony it's crazy how we slip into their quicksand of misery. I am free now and I'm glad you are too!!

[@christine11347]

@@ellasofiejohansen7051🙏Amen. We all have to do it our way. Congratulations on your positive ending you truly deserve it after all the time and dedication you put into yourself. Thank you for sharing your victory. Enjoy your day💛

[@obviagent1161]

The strong confident women in my life; my mother , my grandmothers and my aunts were always with me in spirit while I was with him. I could almost hear them telling me to run for my life and that's exactly what I did . Nobody's fool ever again😔💜🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight 🙏💯🙌

[@DanielaPerez-yp1gb]

Morning, Ooooooh my God 🙏, C'mon, "these""⬅️➡️ LADY S"" are "just" saying to You Run for your Life!!?????? Not Funny, they didn't help YOU out?????? Sounds not Good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🤔

[@DanielaPerez-yp1gb]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone C'mon, these Lady's doesn't help him/her just saying Run for your Life....... 🙄Ähm

[@eloisem3214]

Obvi, I've heard of this and at times I picture all of them standing behind me...straight and tall...Ada, Delia, Lilian, Ruth, etc., and the thought strengthens me greatly! Thank you for the beautiful reminder! 😇🥰🙏

[@obviagent1161]

@@eloisem3214 so very welcome 🙏💜

[@Kim-ib5vj]

I went from a happy attractive successful confident woman when i met him and after his mask fell off a 1.5 yrs into the relationship. I changed ..fast forward to the end 4.5 yrs in total I was insecure ,depressed, weak and a shell of the woman I was. It took weekly therapy for 9 months and al a non as he was an alcoholic to get my self back. I completely lost myself walking this eggshell life trying to be perfect for him so I would have peace otherwise it was a fight and verbal abuse. He triangulated his ex wife in the mix as well flirting with her meanwhile engaged and living with me. It was a living hell. I started to love myself again almost a year later. I was holding on to something so toxic that once i completely let go I finally feel free. . Thank you for your insight. I felt every word.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Kim..💯🙏🙌🙏

[@nancythornton2947]

Wow. Same with me. Still working on healing. These videos help emensly.

[@dramafree3777]

A lot of this sounds like my situation I have completely lost myself with my ex. We are finally separated and I don't even know what to do with myself yet since I'm never focused on myself! So strange how this completely ruins so many things for you, giving them all your energy. I am just praying that I can stay out and make my way, it's good to hear you are feeling free now, I can't wait for that! Hugs!

[@chilloften]

This sounds exactly like my situation, yet it only lasted 5 months. It still broke my heart, seeing it happen when n front of my eyeballs and knowing. I held onto me but it’s still heartbreaking, all the ruminating.

[@allisonemig8578]

Excellent advice! As an empath, our challenge is to care for ourselves, the way we care for others!💗😊🌴

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏☀️💯

[@sewndebisdream6953]

You can believe in yourself again the moment you move on from the narcissist...life just gets better and better. It's kinda sad looking at the narcissist now and see how horrible they are living...but it's their problem not mine anymore. Thank you Jesus! They end up going to their grave a narcissist...Just so happy to be free of it now!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌

[@christine11347]

Enjoy your freedom 🦋

[@vrijmatipersaud1256]

I like your comment "end up going to their grave.' That's so right

[@beckyharrt]

Be careful what you tolerate. You are teaching people how to treat you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯💯

[@awildadavila4142]

True story Andrew! Not everyone is happy with all your goodness and belief... Narcissist hate our light... Thank God 🙏 that I'm stronger than that to let any evil spirit roam me... I'm still healing and I'm doing great mentally, emotionally and physically getting stronger... Yes educating myself everyday helps me... I love my life/path! From sunny 🌞 SW North Port Florida 😎 I love you 💞 Namaste

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏🙌💯☀️

[@ilikehair485]

So true, believe in yourself & trust your instincts, you are always on point Andrew :) I am so glad I found your channel & community

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you I like HAIR..😊🙌🙏💯

[@julieschaefer9964]

I agree!!

[@ria2192]

Thankyou Andrew. I listen to you everyday which helps me keep on my codependent and narcissist abuse recovery. I was committed to helping the addictions (alcohol, gambling and drugs) of my son. For many years I lost myself and now realize I am not a bank, food store or car dealership. I am educating myself about narcissist abuse and no longer will this happen. I am taking time to grieve the loss of both sons as I cant take the verbal abuse anymore.

[@seanzola253]

“Be the Sun” rebuild you own universe to truly know those closest to you appreciate your light. If your light was extinguished, they would know and feel you are gone. Don’t let “Ass-terroids” in your universe ever again. I’m almost 3 months out myself. I’ve made awful decisions to ultimately feed a Sun that could care less about my own universe. Stronger, faster, and better all day long with the newer universe I’m creating now. Thanks Andrew!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Sean..🙌🙏💯

[@cynthiafortier2540]

Well said!!

[@christine11347]

Be a shining light in a world of darkness, so that others may follow and find their way 💛

[@erinpaton0112]

Hi Andrew. I know and understand everyone is different on their personal journey! I must admit that I am going on 6 months no contact and narc free. Although I was groomed and an innocent victim of this man I have to say that being away from him and his toxic energy has been a huge relief in so many ways. I have not felt this good or healthy or happy in several years! I never thought I would feel like myself again and I just want to encourage everyone to focus on themselves and try to forgive themselves and know that things will get better each and every day! I have hope again and although I am definitely more cautious now I do know I am a better human for surviving and now thriving in spite of him! Thank you for your content and your encouragement! Healing feels so good 🙏🙏🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful inspirational message of empowerment 🙏🙌💯.. thank you Erin

[@bradmcewen]

The amount of good health put on hold was monumental. None of us will do that again. Catch us once, shame on them. Catch us twice .....not going to happen.

[@christine11347]

Keep thriving and living your best life. Maintaining your boundaries will help keep you safe as you continue to move forward on your path.

[@beckyharrt]

Woohoo!!!

[@paulag7108]

It’s so True Andrew! I often question my judgement now when making decisions! I don’t ever want to get duped again but it now seems like everyone is a Narcissist around me. I’m extremely sensitive to peoples odd behaviors. I don’t know if I could ever trust myself enough to entertain another relationship. Thanks Andrew for sharing your thoughts 💭🙏💗🧘‍♀️😎

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Paula..🙌🙏💯

[@BlueJeansandJellyBeans]

I feel the same way. And I also feel like there are so many artificial narcs around me. I sometimes wonder if I am reading into those around me too much because of what I've been through.

[@christine11347]

Education helps makes these predators much easier to spot. I have come into contact with many along my healing path. I would look at your awareness as a good thing. You will be able to trust again. Your comment made me think of the What Ifs. There are no guarantees in life but what if by trusting yourself again you find happiness and real love. Take your time to heal, trust your gut and know you deserve the best life has to offer.

[@vrijmatipersaud1256]

Yup that's so true. You never want to watch another male again. After all the aftermath and drama yeah. It's not an easy road, we cannot read their minds to know what they have for us ahead I get so emotional when I have talk about this. It just brings back cruel/sad memories. Don't like to think about those horrific days that I went through

[@bttrflyjoy7374]

@@BlueJeansandJellyBeans Hi Pamela, My opinion is better to be safe than sorry. Take your time. Cherish your freedom, and as Andrew says, work for the good, and use your gift to help others. From my research, these Creepy Narcs cannot keep their mask on that long, so it may be good to determine ahead of time to take your time should a new person want a close relationship. Let them earn it. Trust can only be built with time and consistency. Suggestions only: Check references and even a background check...(too many dishonest people today). And one more thing...these Narcs lie all the time...they enjoy it, but let it be their downfall. You see, liars cannot keep up with their lies...so, their inconsistencies will surface in time. Ask him to talk and share his story in groups before romantic considerations. And, then, long courtships help to discern their truthfulness and authenticity. Hope this helps 😊

[@bethkenny2362]

Thank you, Andrew for the virtual hugs, teared up. I just realized two weeks ago that I've been in the fog for 20 years. I have to stay in it for another 5 to 6 months but knowing now where I am at, at this moment. I'm not a victim, I've been independent most of my life, but I am learning so much from you. I am in the process of making plans to exit the relationship. There is no going back now that my eyes are open. I will be in the meantime preparing to take care of me prior to exiting this false relationship. My future path will be scary but exciting at the same time as I look forward to a peaceful life. When I say preparing, I know at the moment it happens, no one's truly prepared when you invested this long. I so glad I found you Andrew, namaste.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯💯🙌💪

[@hongtruong4576]

My prayers are with you. A wise woman told me a story: She was a church goer, she was one of the first women that joined the work force as a secretary on Wall Street back in the day: I was fired from my job, I was walking down the street crying and a man asked me what wrong? He came to be my husband and best friend. We were married for 50+ years. “ One door closed, another opens” Faith 🙏

[@sandracarpenter144]

Yes Andrew, I recently found your channel. You speak the truth. I never experienced a narcissist in my life. Then 12 years ago I met a narcissistic person. It’s truly been a long distance relationship. He has been in prison twice, yet I stood by him. After gaining the knowledge I am now standing up for myself. I am worthy of true love and not being a slave of his. I give myself more love daily. My gut always told me that I am not what he said I was. I am smart, giving, loving and strong. Thank you 🙏🏼 Namaste 🙏🏼

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome to the community Sandra.. thank you for sharing 💯💪🙏

[@alinashalbert6951]

I don't have to prove myself anymore. I do need to be kind to myself. Thanks Andrew

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Alina 🙌💯☀️

[@pamelalawhon3536]

“ Standing up to the narcissist“. Can’t wait to hear it. That’s all I ever did was stand up to him. It’s not like he ever got away with any of his childish behaviors. I said to him so many times, “What are you? Nine? My kids did that when they were nine!” Anyway thank you, Andrew. I am just always in awe of your ability to get all those words out that you get out, you’re a gifted and articulate speaker! And it’s coming from your heart the whole time! I’d be interested to hear more sometime on your giving up all media, etc. Because I agree it’s mostly poison. But to give it all up, goodness sakes. Pretty amazing. Thank you for all you share of yourself with us!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Pamela 🙌🙏💯

[@hongtruong4576]

Lol! My ex was competing with my son. My child is my blood, part of me! Don’t mess with Mama bear. Yes! I agree with you wholeheartedly. Andrew is a gifted speaker. He made lemonade out of lemons. He is a life saver 🙏

[@43warriormode98]

Yes yes yes ☝️👏🙌truth ...every word ....

[@eleanorreyes512]

Dear Andrew Once AGAIN you have said EVERYTHING which is soooo true!! You are soo dedicated to helping us all go forward after all this pain and trauma we have been through!! Yes for me personally it was pain and trauma. Thank you for being true, honest and dedicated to really and truly wanting to see us live our utmost best life on this earth, our purpose. I hear it in your voice, your words and I see it in your face. You are helping me sooo much, i want you to know that I am soo ready to close doors and go forward to a fulfilled, happy and peaceful life. May Father God bless you, your family and all of us.

[@rebeccarobbins6006]

I'm still dealing with the disgard, the abandonment, the worthlessness, the forgetting me, I never existed, I'm not even a thought or care. Three months of the ........disappearing of the man I loved with all my heart, not even a peep! No closure, no explanation, no goodbye, nothing. After six years of what I thought was my forever person grow old with happy like we were. I believe in my self, I just am broken and damaged now....to a capacity I never knew existed.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌🙏

[@jodaniels8097]

Needed to hear this big time today. Recently I've been feeling sorry for the narcissist 😮 you be right again Andrew about not wasting time, energy on that. It's a waste of time and only makes you sad 😔 this wisdom you are giving us is priceless 🫂 it really is! 🙏

[@stevebennett5479]

Yes it time to heal its been a year but still in it I will get healed but I had a lot of damage in 8 years thank u Andrew an every one here trying to heal keep beleaveing in yourself and thank you for all your messages an support as we know here were not alone

[@cherenebarret5024]

Absolutely SPOT ON. Thank you.

[@silviapenamaduro]

Hi! So true how you start to doubt yourself and everything you believe in when in a relationship with a narcissist and if you have the courage to go against what he wants you to believe, you are in deep trouble. We use to fight a lot because I wouldn’t stand for his BS and his demands and also put boundaries and things escalated really bad. It was exhausting. Now I feel so much in peace and free🥰

[@christine11347]

Silvia enjoy your freedom! I know exactly how you feel. It was my experience also. As you continue to move forward on your healing path remain courageous and know your worth. 🙏💪✨🕊️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙌🙏💯

[@casperinsight3524]

Truthbomb💥 we are awakened to evolve beyond narcissism. They magnetized our inner compass and we can now redirect ourselves in the right direction

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@FirstLast-uy3di]

Big Sigh Knowing and Living....GD have Mercy to complete the change...💕💗

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙏☀️💯

[@narcissismcognitivedissonance]

You are so correct in that most people don’t care about what we do or think. It is part of understanding that what they think doesn’t matter. Keep the awareness going warrior! Blessings to you! 🙏💞

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 😊🙏🙌💯

[@markdearden6631]

Good morning crew! 🙏 The unity of life is no mere concept, it's just that most people don't know enough about themselves to realize it.

[@marynye4511]

Thank you for doing this. You are really educating me. I thought maybe I was going crazy. Got divorced last week that he wanted because he couldn't train me. In his words. Trying to find an apartment but not much out there. In the mean time I'm living out of boxes in the living room. While he gives me the silent treatment and talks and laughs like a little kid to women on the phone loudly to make sure I here. He blames me for the divorce because I didnt beg him to stop it. Living with him is the hardest thing I ever had to go through mentally

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sending healing energy 💯🙏😊☀️

[@truffaut650truffaut6]

I know what you mean👌🏽💕

[@draganapasti_]

Brilliant uniiversal words that simply clarify all the vagueness, ambiguity and chaotic ambient the toxic relationship can create and provoke. Such a generous human reminder how to never forget about love & respect for one’s own self. Self esteem and dignity are core of individuality and self recognition. So important! Thank you, Andrew for reminding me who I really am. ☀️🌻❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 😊☀️🙌🙏

[@lynnoe6147]

Yes, my mother expected us to serve her!!! Thank you for this validation!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Lyn..💯🙌☀️🙏

[@robertjohnston8876]

Another great informative video I lived for years rationalizing her behavior, blaming myself and others. Wrong! She was the problem. In the name of marriage I allowed her to change me dramatically She finally left and as difficult as it was, it was a blessing. Wish she had left the first time she threatened-the day after I married her. She had set me up like a con artist. God finally rescued me

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙌🙏💯

[@naturegirl5469]

It's so true! I'm wondering if I'll ever be able to trust again. I got sooo fooled, and don't want it to happen again

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Continue on the path.. you are amazing and loved..💯🙏🙌

[@christine11347]

Self love with help you trust again. Through education and healing you can begin to trust your gut. Let your intuition and not fear be your guide. There are no guarantees in life. When you feel that your ready if you see red flags right away just say NO from the start. If you see red flags later on then just leave. Post npd recovery we can trust that if something is wrong we are not going to stick around and try to fix it. Those days are over. Our happiness and well being comes first. 💛

[@nancyjapsay-fajutrao622]

The scar of the narcissistic relationship overshadow the urge to believe in the news self. Indeed the pain is excruciating far more than the labor pains in giving birth Andrew.

[@richardmahema2728]

Richard here. I'm living proof of what you describe. I'm experiencing it right now. This is because I dared to stand up to the narcissist and called her out.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing Richard..💯🙌🙏

[@deb2319]

Narcs didn't learn how to love. And you are ready for love. I really am impressed with this video share, you're service to this community is a priceless. Thanks Andrew!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@lisarichards3853]

Spiritual hugs, love and abundance is truly what I need. Thank you for that.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Lisa..🙏🙌💯❤️

[@tamiduncan777]

Yes 💯 Truth nothing More to say. Just Free to be the real you

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Tami..🙌💯🙏

[@ianrs4685]

my heart gets me introuble

[@Pets-n-Treats]

I had a much easier time believing in myself again than believing in other people. That is where I am having issues. I used to believe that people were mostly good, not so much any more.

[@doreenr.7922]

Nobody really talks about the Real grieving process, when I went thru my 1st divorce a co worker said it’s like a death, we mourn the loss, we mourn the what cld of been we mourn our children’s pain, we mourn that for some we have to move from our homes, so ya while in these toxic relationships we doing all we can just to survive and get out of bed, now we have to go thru yet still more hurt and backstabbing cuz these types of ppl get off on seeing hurt in others

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Doreen 🙌💯☀️

[@eloisem3214]

Awesome! Thank you Andrew. 🥰🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Eloise 🙌🙏☀️

[@rorororo4950]

100 percent real the narcissist was gallivanting with the new resource since last year and then she took off on Dec31 and she left me with out rent nothing . Which was very hard for me , but it’s true the veil has been lifted and I am free!!!!!

[@mariaalexander7037]

My peace, joy and happiness is my gifts for me!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful 🙏🙌💯

[@JanSwan]

Well said. Grieving a loss, relationship, the person you were, the person you 'thought' they were... healing takes time. We must be patient with ourselves, take however much time we need to heal, BEFORE we step into another relationship. Our healthy self will make much better decisions than our wounded soul ever can. Keep up the great work. Nice to know we are not alone. Discussion of our wounds & information is invaluable & the best way to heal & grow into our best self! ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing Jan..🙏🙌💯

[@skinnybear5743]

This is a great positive video. We get so trapped in the Narc show, we forget about ourselves. It's nice 🙂 to change the channel.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful skinny bear..💯🙏🙌

[@christine11347]

🙏 Amen

[@jennyferguson5583]

Exactly! Lesson Learned❤️

[@hollylorn131]

As Always, Andrew thank you for another great and inspiring video! I can relate to so much in the video. My ex narcissist would stop talking to me for three days if I said something he didn't agree with. If I said something else to him during those three days and he was silent but didn't agree then his three day silence was extended another three days. Sometimes I couldn't even know what he didn't agree with because he shut down and was silent without letting me know what he didn't agree with. If we had to go to a social occasion during those three days of silence, he was pleasant and charming to me at the occasion with other people but when he was just with me he would be stone cold silent and had an icy stare in his eyes. Oftentimes opinions I expressed were met with rage fits as he tried to change my opinion and intimidate me and then the three day silence. The marriage was a rollercoaster of all types of emotions and a complete editing out of my personality and beliefs. I had to figure out who I was after the relationship ended. I am so glad to have found myself again after being away from the narcissistic relationship. This is a great video that I can relate to in so many ways. I'm surprised that other narcissists have the trait of shutting down and silent treatment for three days if the spouse says something the narcissist didn't agree with. Imagine that! Unfortunately that was so much a part of my marriage of 21 years right from the beginning. I said to a friend after the wedding trip was over that the marriage is not working - there's too much disagreement and too many differences. I thought I needed to get a divorce. My friend told me that the first year of marriage is an adjustment and to give it time. I disregarded my intuition to get a divorce and stayed in the marriage the first year and unfortunately it led to a 21 year marriage that was narcissistic and abusive. How I wish I listened to my intuition in 1993! A few of the years were somewhat enjoyable in second and third year but mostly it was a difficult marriage with two people who were very different in terms of values, likes/dislikes, lifestyles, and ideas about vacations. I guess I was drawn to his love of life and making the most of each day. I can still take these ideas with me even though I let go of the marriage and drama associated with it day in and day out. My wonderful relationship with my child was the best thing to emerge from the marriage.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙌🙏💯☀️

[@gayleshipp2918]

putting the value and unity back were it belongs in humanity's heart .so impowering and your work gifts and wisdom benefits all exitances thank you Andrew always .much love

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 😊☀️🙌

[@debrarayter8256]

One of YOUR BEST videos yet. I listened to this 3 times! So very good! You're an awesome comunicator.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏 🙏🙏

[@yolandasmith5997]

Yes I have injured her narcissistic relationship I very much free of it now and it feels good

[@lisaryckman22]

“Trying to prove our worth” - I think about the things I did to try to show him and his family that I mattered.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely 🙏🙌😉

[@Gitte585]

I believe in myself 🙏 I know I am to be trusted 🙏 Love and light 🙏❤️🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful 🙏💯🙌

[@carol-xk3lq]

When you stand up to these kinda people, in a relationship or at the workplace & you b e l i e v e in youself life can become goid & sunny again & we chase the gray fog away or change it to silver💫thank you

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯🙌

[@serataylor772]

Andrew, this one is powerful. I think I will listen to it every day as well as the new daily one, as it is exactly what I need to focus on. The way you describe the experience and effects of being in a narcissistic relationship are so affirming. Only someone who has been there can understand and explain it the way you do. Thank you so much for this.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Sera..🙏💯🙏

[@anniebrowning7354]

Hi Andrew! When I was a child, five yrs old, I knew than already, in my heart and soul who I was. The narcissist drugged me with his poison and for some years I was lost and out of track. But 25 yrs later I slowly started to put things together. After a few more yrs I found myself again and I understood I had always been that person. I am the same person today as I was when I were five-six. I believe in myself and I'm going forward every day. Even those days when the sky falls down on me and I feel for a second that I'm lost. I know I'm learning something important. I arise and look for the sky - and there it is! And there I am! Me, myself. The person I always was. I wont let the narcissist destroy me. My Love is too strong.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Annie..🙏💯🙌

[@anniebrowning7354]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you Andrew! I believe you can never be lost when y're around good people. That's the work I'll have to do. Stay with the positive. ❤

[@rhondawampner688]

Yes I need to believe in myself again

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@marybarton5651]

Another great video, Andrew...I have been working on applying these principles to my life more each day...and on the days when I fail, I know that I can start over. Thank you 😊

[@susannebengtsson6756]

So true everything you say. In my first and the worst narcistic relation I was so afraid. How could I not try to please when I believed he might kill me any minute? I did not believe to survive. And all the excuses I made for him and perhaps none of them real since he lied about everything. Everything. It took time to heal. Since then I have been in a few others, one a boss for example, but I never stayed long. Up and go. What I see when I listen to your videos is the importance of always be aware. The sad situation is that I was fooled again! As for today, no. Taking greater care of myself. Thank you Andrew🙏🙏❣ Love & Light

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙌💯😊

[@jenniferpicard7550]

THAT WAS MUSIC TO MY EARS .."I DON'T WATCH TV/MOVIES ,I NO LONGER FILL MY HEAD WITH THAT...S#@* !LOL AWSOME ! LOVE YOU 💖

[@karah4683]

You are a wonderful teacher, Live 💕U!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏💯🙌

[@narcissismcognitivedissonance]

It’s spiritual my fellow warrior. Narcissism is a spiritual disorder. Food for thought.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙌💯🙏

[@xyzabc3762]

Thank you Andrew, you help me be educated and move on my life ❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 💯🙌😊

[@jilliana.7593]

LOVE THIS VIDEO it’s so true ... still working on being myself again ... the narc would make fun of my faith in God but how I would turn to God when I needed my faith ... it’s only made my faith in God stronger

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙌💯🙏

[@jilliana.7593]

♥️♥️

[@jacquelinerobinson6236]

Thank you. I've just found your chanel. You could be my lifesaver.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome to the community 💯🙏☀️😊

[@sheilamurry9875]

I paused......wanting to have a 🕊,❤️and 🙂...... in all areas of life

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful 💯🙌

[@christine11347]

🙏Amen

[@yolandasmith5997]

Yes thank you for this message God bless you

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯🙏🙌

[@judybw706]

I didn’t even know what a narcissist was until the relationship was over. I was struggling to figure out what happened when a much younger person said, “Sounds like he’s a narcissist.” The search for truth began and I’m still learning what happened to me over two decades of covert manipulation and abuse.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely 💯🙌😉

[@misasmith6180]

When I try to be myself, I get called,. Ms. Goody two shoes. Wow just cause I say please and thank you to people. Wow

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Misa..💯🙌🙏

[@cynthiafortier2540]

They are so mentally ill and they love their sickness!!

[@christine11347]

Common courtesies, politeness and good manners will bring you a joy along your healing path that they will never understand.

[@irismartinez5753]

Wow, great video! I don't watch TV anymore either, the narc was addicted to watching TV and insisted having every channel there is that cost at a rate of $300 per month, and yes, sadly, I paid for that entertainment 😢

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 😌🙌💯

[@lisasweeney8789]

Thank you for your video Andrew. I'm slowly but surely getting there Andrew. Sometimes I come across a road block but I quickly get back on track. Once we have gone through Narcissistic Abuse in every form we realise we never ever want to go through anything like that ever again in life. God bless you Andrew. Lisa

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing Lisa 🙏🙌🙏

[@loriperrier5459]

Feel like all along I've always been a strong and independent person. It's in me.But I definitely lost a part of holding my head high and being happy the way I was.This person just took the life right out of me.I have moved out over two years ago so the strong independent person that I am I will never lose. But it's what inside that iam haveing a hard time with.just started following a month ago.I find watching and learning educational. It's so nice to hear others have experience all the heartening things that others have put us through. Thank you Andrew for educational videos.

[@sll110]

Thank you, lovely Andrew, always here, you are right, No1 important is to boundary and believe in myself.. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🌷🌷🌷🌷🌹🌹🌹🌹🌺🌺🌺

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful Mark Twain..💯🙌🙏

[@bryalee2782]

Right it effected my whole view on life on people on my future. They were severed from myself. Lets just say it was all pervasive and I did not know it. I

[@cathy_clarinet]

Trusting our instincts 👍

[@jettb64]

I should have trusted my instincts! I think I ignored them because I was so lonely. It had been 5 years since I was divorced. I never even went on one date, until I met the narcissist. I fell for him so hard! I think I was listening to the wrong spirit. He was nothing like I thought he was! After about 2 months he ended it. So glad it ended, but, it's been Hell for the past 5 months. But, I'm doing much better thanks to channels like yours. I deleted him from social media. Thanks for helping open up our eyes to the narcs! God bless you! 🙏❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙌🙏☀️🙌💯

[@sandracaezza7234]

Everyday there is a voice that comes to me,” I would never do that to someone.” The way he ended 24 yr was absolutely horrid. Phone messages talking about me to strangers like I was an ugly ,uneducated person. There is a place for these people. I ask myself, who are these people that believe such a person ?

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙏🙌

[@ginagoodwin5343]

Hey Andy. As a Board Certified hypnotist and certified master practitioner in NLP with my skillset I’ve still struggled to believe in myself and love myself again after cutting out my father and brother who are malignant narcissists. My brother also was and still is a flying monkey as well. Realizing who they actually are once I took the veil off of my eyes last year was the scariest and most difficult time of my entire life. The panic attacks were brutal. I’m so thankful and appreciative of your channel and your valuable insight. It’s made a world of a difference 🌎 namaste from beautiful Sedona, AZ! ✨

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Gina..🙏🙌💯🇺🇸🇨🇷🙌

[@expectamiracle.406]

Your videos are simply amazing. 🎯 I would never want to go through this again but the grooming I gained (re-discovering myself) is priceless. Thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏💯🙌

[@karenconnell4878]

Brilliant video. 👌🎯💯🙏🙏🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌💯🙏

[@carahill3622]

Wow I can so relate to this Andrew it was like we were living in Disneyland and everyone around us we trusted and since coming out of that relationship it's been a year now my beliefs have so changed and enlighten me and made me so much more aware it's like you said now we have grown and it's made us even stronger people and it's almost like a gift in a way that we had to go through that to get to this other side

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙏💯

[@vickymoore2520]

I say to myself,” now what” ? I was in a dysfunctional relationship for eight years we are now four months apart . Was he thrown into my life for some kind of punishment for something I did in life that wasn’t right ? Sometimes I thought it was better to have someone then no one . I don’t know how I put up with such cruelty . A lot of times I feel ashamed of myself to have let that happen, I wasn’t naïve . Getting through it and getting over it almost feels worse than when I was in it . Such sorrow ! And they just go on with their shallow life, no deep romances, no forever friends, no tight family bonds . The best thing about me is that I am not a narcissist and would not want to be one it seems to be a soulless journey . I got robbed of my identity , and God willing I’ll come out of this even better then before him .. it helps to listen and to talk about this, thanks Andrew for the platform .

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Vicky..💯🙌🙏

[@christine11347]

I understand how you are feeling 💯 Vicky. I experienced many of these same feelings. Be kind to yourself. The reality of abuse is very difficult. Continue to move forward on the path. Education is key to understanding what you went through. It helps to put the past in the past and keep us safe in the present. Remember you are not alone. 💛

[@sierraforever2954]

Thank you 🙏 You knew everything I’ve been through 😒

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@markyanes3857]

I love your content. Very astute.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏💯🙌

[@jennie7599]

Fog, yes. It was like a fog. The fog has lifted. 👍🙂 Ty❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely 💯🙌☀️

[@zoilavalezmoro-zr3rx]

Thank you ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome ❤️🙌😌

[@sanjanabhatia5156]

Yes, the narc would not do the same for you. No more giving to energy vampires who never change. No more FOG (fear, obligation and guilt) or people pleasing. Be the best version of you- unapologetically. Thanks Andrew! ☀️☀️☀️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Sanjana 🙌💯🙏

[@alinashalbert6951]

So true.... thank you for sharing.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Alina..🙏💯🙌

[@LethalHope]

Thank you Andrew, this is an awesome subject for me, for today in particular. I do know right from wrong now and my belief system is my power. Thank you for reminding me for today that I am not letting the behaviour of others destroy my inner peace, and not to undo the hard work that I have put into myself by being triggered and taking offence. God bless you Andrew for you have blessed me, stay beautiful 🙌🙏💚💚💚

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Suzanne 💯🙌🙏

[@robertlandis2741]

This may sound crazy but as a male that just got left by a narcissist after 14yrs of being belittled and broken down mentally. I am in the process. I will be my best again thank you. I am glad I found this Chanel.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome to the community .. you are amazing and loved Robert 🙌🙏💯

[@christine11347]

Sending you prayers for strength and light as you start out on your healing path. Everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. Be kind to yourself you deserve much better🙏💪🕊️✨💛

[@jeanwolfendale405]

This is another encouraging video and it was videos like yours which helped me piece things together. As for TV my ex was fully aware that I don't watch TV and he used some imaginative techniques to torment me which often involved the TV volume to disturb my sleep. Post relationship I accepted my losses and found a small fixer upper and also a multi talented trades man and together we built me a home. I had no prior experience of plastering or tiling walls or laying floors ect...and I did this whilst also recovering from an accident and I only managed this because I believed it was possible and also because I wasn't frightened to break a nail. May you receive many blessings and thank you.

[@christine11347]

The strength and skills we learn post narscistic recovery are empowering. Enjoy your beautiful new life. Continue to make new memories in your new home💛

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌

[@ThesySurface]

I believe in myself immensely because I’m not surrounded by psychopaths & their friends :)

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯☀️🙌

[@lenihassveasphaug9634]

Yes.. (True believer in Jesus Christ) Honest would not survive this without God. The narcs thinks they higher than God in their twisted minds Wants to be worship as Gods. Right, we have too belive in ourself again. Hardest one.. Rebuild our lives. Even learn to belive in humanity again. To trust (to certain agree). Now that one knows. And would never ever be the same again. Hopefully, better version as you says.. God Bless you too, and your channel. Blessings from Norway.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Leni.. 🇳🇴🇨🇷💯🙌🙏🙌

[@Leah-fw5kn]

Thank you Andrew for those kind words, God bless you for providing these videos. 🌷🌼🌷🌼🌷

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 💯🙌

[@bentompkins9352]

I've been working on myself now for just over a year now, I'm getting there and finally finding myself again 😊 Thank you for your great knowledge 🙏🏻💕

[@christine11347]

Keep moving forward Ben. Your doing great 💛

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙌💯☀️