WHEN YOU DENY ACCESS TO THE NARCISSIST

[@user-rq4nk4ir6b]

They see us as weak. They don't know us very well.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏⛰️✨

[@alienspotter422]

They don't know us at all. They only see what they want to see.

[@GoddessAngelinaj]

@@user-rq4nk4ir6b sincerely! I found a strength inside of myself that I didn’t know I had. I guarantee my husband is shocked that I’ve been able to go no contact. I truly do feel like a phoenix rising!

[@Staranaise]

So true. When my mother did reply to my last NC text, she said " this doesn't sound like you wrote it". Well, congratulations, you just met your daughter.

[@GoddessAngelinaj]

@ I’m sorry… I know what it’s like to have a narc mom. She conditioned me to be such good supply for my husband for so long. Do you think you’ll always be in no contact with her? The jekyl and Hydeness of it all makes it difficult.

[@StacyMurphy-y5o]

It is so refreshing to deny access. No contact is a complete blessing. No mocking, no lies, no drama, no trauma, no rumination, no more smirking. Does anyone here miss their smirking? Does anyone here miss having your trust and integrity thrown under the bus? Ring in 2025 narc free!!!!! Does anyone miss the control? Who absolutely does not miss the rage fits?

[@SandyBrowne-tj1vh]

Happy New Year 2 all us Nark free degenerates! ❤ What a blessed n beautiful life we r now living! We're free

[@jswan312]

My ex-narc had a mini rage fit in Whole Foods, just like a little toddler having a temper tantrum. I do not miss spending my time with that narc at all! ☺️

[@susanorndorff8902]

Not lol

[@michaeloneill5877]

And STAY NO CONTACT, for you

[@Doona-z4b]

I met this guy at my girlfriends place last week & he targeted me to start up a conversation. Anyway, 6 hours later, I heard everything under the sun about how his mother gave him up at birth & his 2 ex wifes treated him so horrible. Also, he said he's been single for 4 years waiting for the right woman. Everything he was saying about how hard his life has been for the poor soul (playing the victim card) I told him that ive learnt all about people like you & dont even try that game with me. He didn't have another word to say to me. Thank god we have channels like this to get the education about these's creatures ❤ and I believe they know we know now🎉 🙏 🙌 Cheers Andrew and community 👍 best feeling to have peace& control in your own life. Bless you, Andrew 🙏

[@KCfan1587-r2u]

So happy for you !!! I wish I had this channel 45 years ago. ( or something like it) I would have known to stay clear of these jerks. Keep up the good work...and hopefully Mr. Right (NARC free) will show up and you will not have to deal with the torture that we are dealing with. Keep watching these videos.....we need need to hear this more than you know.....good luck and wishing you Light....love...and many blessings...

[@natalie73animals]

After finally getting to the point of realizing that it is a mistake to be hospitable to negative people and narcissists, I stopped feeling guilty for being "rude". When you are polite it sometimes attracts people who take that for granted. I almost scared myself at how quickly I can dismiss a narc. You build a laser sharp gut for it. It is a superpower!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏⛰️✨

[@shereebarends1997]

After a full year you still speak this wisdom to us empaths.Thank you Andrew.All the best for 2025

[@LearningtoChannel]

They can't change 💯 ...No need to be good to ungrateful people if those people were never grateful to begin with.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌🙏

[@TheNerdCinema]

Thank you. New year's coming, so many sad people need to understand that they are enough without abusive stupid people around them.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@Aquamarine7]

💯

[@Coolingfin]

👍👍

[@marieeakin8534]

That's for sure!!! 👍💥❤ 🌈🎀😘

[@annchurchill2638]

The malignant narc i was married to was a professor of psychology.Very dangerours.He would tell me what my REAL motives were, what my REAL feelings were.If I had stayed I would have gone crazy.In fact he then married a young woman who liked arguing and figting with him.After being with him for 40 years she is now psycotic.That could have been me.These people get themsleves in a position of power and they destroy others.

[@Santacruize]

I feel you - mine was a Psychologist trying to apply motives and break me down over our 5 yr relationship. Lucky for me I have super solid foundations, but the energy required to defend oneself consistently wears you out in their nasty game of mental warfare and attrition, whilst we soldier on valiantly until we can no longer mentally or physically bear their burden and finally are forced into turning our backs on them, lest we parish in their vortex of oblivion.

[@annchurchill2638]

@@Santacruize My psychnololgist ex was studying Motivation in particular!

[@Santacruize]

@@annchurchill2638 My motivation was Love and happiness. Pure and simple really. No subtext to be found there. They are fools at the end of the day - destroying the greatest gift of all. Unable to see the woods for the trees, with an axe in their hand...

[@Gamechangerpurpose]

I know from experience that one conversation with them ruins my peaceful mind . It's not even possible to have a meaningful conversation for more than a minute

[@EasyRussianLessons]

Same. Doing it right now. I'd say I blocked 6 or 7 people who threw me under the bus. No regrets.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@Aquamarine7]

Good for you

[@marieeakin8534]

Bravo!!! 👍💥❤ 🌈🎀😘

[@roslyncerro1263]

Beware gang. There are so many narcs out there. Go slowly getting to know all people. Many of them are so jealous. Blessings to each of you.❣️

[@marieeakin8534]

Hi Roslyn ❤😊

[@roslyncerro1263]

Hi back, Marie. The beat goes on.❣️

[@seameology]

Yes! I'm seeing that now.

[@JohnSzwed327]

Sadly very true

[@lindajh5672]

Seems like now there are more narcs than ever out there compared to 20 or even just 10 or 5 years ago. Does it seem that way to anyone else too?

[@blinkypushbuttons]

I'm getting really good at blocking people the minute they test a boundary or gaslight me in the slightest way. I'll start feeling annoyed/agitated and instantly feel better after I block them. It's like a fever breaking or taking a sliver out.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@KCfan1587-r2u]

How true! I felt a feeling I had never had..... blocking his entire family was the most wonderful feeling.....feeling of standing up for myself and not allowing myself to be set up over and over....I love it.

[@blinkypushbuttons]

@@KCfan1587-r2u I'm to the point now where I can usually see it right away. Their words literally sound like they're out of order because they're not being direct. It sounds like they're speaking some alien language because they're so full of crap and purposely trying to confuse me! Then I'll start laughing because they look so ridiculous.

[@desertancestry]

It's a very confusing place to be when a person who claims to love you also craves your destruction.... Now it's time to read a book write book take a class teach a class.... thank you Andrew.

[@tftcpar1012]

My mother is 88 and hasn’t changed. I’m her only daughter. I was discarded at 24 by proxy. Since then, every birthday card every Christmas card is a trigger. It’s like she knows exactly the card to send me that will cause me to feel bad and react. I’ve stopped reacting, thank God. And now I toss every card in the garbage unopened. Never open it because it’s never good. Silence is golden.

[@Doona-z4b]

I've had no contact with my narcissistic mother for 3years now. Best thing I have ever done for peace & happiness in my life. Blessings 🌞 🙌

[@Plumduff3303]

❤❤❤same my friend

[@Topdonsheikh]

What does discarded by proxy mean?

[@tftcpar1012]

@Topdonsheikh make your life a living hell so you have no choice but to leave. They know exactly what they are doing. They provoke and provoke so that you know if you stay anywhere near them, you will react in such a way that will get you in trouble. In my case she provoked and provoked, to such a degree that I knew if I did not leave, I was going to smack her. By some miracle of God, I knew if I did not leave and leave quickly, her nonsense would cost me my future. So I left and never went home again.

[@michaeloneill5877]

Return to Sender

[@tauruschorus]

Accepting I got duped was powerful.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@jessieb7290]

We all get duped over time. ❤

[@TwilaB0721]

I'm not a spring chicken, the narcissistic was not a spring rooster. I was thinking at our age, who has time to play games with feelings. I was totally wrong. I've got to keep my cup full. Thank you, Andrew🥰

[@seameology]

Right? The nex filed divorce on me at age 71 and he has a new supply. We've been separated for years. Still, his main reason was a new supply.

[@jessieb7290]

Yeah our perceptions of people are varied and can be wrong since childhood. ❤

[@lisaatkinson6276]

Narcissists get worse with age.

[@carlosrobbins9178]

No access for the narcissist in 2025. ⏰ Love and Goodness have the final word in my life!

[@lourdesecheverria6209]

When you deny access to the narcissist, you are choosing LIFE, peace, joy and serenity and an opportunity to live to your full potential. Blessings! ❤

[@franvillarreal9160]

Best decision ever made in my part. The thing was, I couldn't cut him off before because we had a son, that lived with the narcissist. One day, our teenage son had enough and I took him out of that hell hole and now we are free. God did his work and we are on the healing journey.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜😌

[@Th3odora]

Praise God 🙌

[@lizedion1393]

That's right. You do not owe them anything.

[@Doona-z4b]

Agreed 💯

[@Aquamarine7]

We certainly don't 💯

[@jessieb7290]

There’s a saying I saw on Pinterest “not my monkey, not my jungle”. They are not someone you owe even your time to anymore ❤

[@Peter-e4d9j]

You have to be a rock....you're right Andrew ✅️. Don't give an inch ,it inevitably (for empaths) quickly becomes a mile .

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜😌

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

Once we discern we are dealing with a narcissist whose actions are evil aimed at destroying good, truth, love and peace all access to that person should be denied. We must have nothing to do with evil voluntarily and once we are attacked by the narcissist or their flying monkeys who are also spreading evil, we have to protect ourselves by not engaging, not explaining, not defending or personalising anything they say or do as they project and displace their evil onto others. We should leave them in silence.

[@jswan312]

As hard as it’s been to get over my narcissistic ex-boyfriend, he was a godsend because I had to finally look at my childhood wound: my narcissistic, abusive mother. I finally-30 years after I should have-had enough and went no-contact with my mother, my enabler father, and my golden-child sister who was groomed and triangulated to hate and belittle me. It’s so much easier to process a narcissistic ex-lover than a narcissistic mother…but I am finally working on myself and building the life I’ve always wanted, free of abuse.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜😌⛰️✨

[@Doona-z4b]

Good on you ❤ 3years no contact with my narcissistic mother & sister. Never been happier & at peace 🎉

[@jswan312]

@@Doona-z4bthank you ❤️🙏🏻

[@MandyGerrans-s9u]

Thank you Andrew ❤ I'm 2 months into my second healing path. I left hiim for 7 months and stupidly he charmed me with his fake niceness again. He said we should try again as he'd given up alcohol and things would be better. I will NEVER be hoovered again and go through that cycle again. He still wore the mask...alcohol or not!! I'm slower healing and have gaining my self respect back. Happy New year everyone ❤😊🥳

[@seameology]

Yup. I moved a thousand miles. Haven't regretted it.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@NicolaiChristensen-q9w]

would´nt work with a covert cerebral narc as far as i know ....if im wrong pls say so.... thinking about how to get free

[@seameology]

@@NicolaiChristensen-q9w nex is a covert. There's no way he's coming where I'm at. He's city. I'm in the frozen rural tundra. Narcs are lazy and don't like to be inconvenienced. Find some place you know the narc wouldn't like. Then block, block, block.

[@joybarton3460]

If only you could teach and share this in schools, Andrew. It would bring awareness to those young people before they start dating, or just in general. I wish i had of known this years ago. These people are set out to destroy you, your self esteem, your health and all. Thank you for sharing this now, even after the NC with the narc, your videos help me

[@Acceptancetoday]

That really hits home. He really made sure that I never got to do many things I would have enjoyed. I’m persisting and will do wonderful things.

[@marieeakin8534]

Good for you...go for it! 👍👍👍❤ 🌈🎀😘

[@craftynikki6570]

Best thing I ever did was going full no contact with my narc mother. That enabled me to grant her absolute ZERO access to my children when they were born. I had to cut off all contact with the rest of the family in order to protect my children from her. I have zero regrets about doing that to protect my children from an abuser.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏💜

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

Sad but true they low vibrational

[@michaeloneill5877]

And that's how you do it Stay Absolute NO CONTACT

[@lululiga333]

Try to explain the reason for no contact if possible. I was accused years later of blocking contact only to ruin family. A lot of resentment still about it unfortunately.

[@craftynikki6570]

@@lisaatkinson6276 they were not upset at all - because they knew they would not have abuse.

[@thallabarentine1732]

When you love someone it's so difficult to walk away. I turned away over a year ago. The holiday season is still hard but I'm happier this year than the two years prior. I am healing...but still have a long way to go. The hurt was so deep! Thank you Andrew. Listening to you about once a week has helped me on my healing path. I hope you are healing also. I hope in 2025 you are able to find the one who deserves you. You are such a precious man. Thank you Andrew!❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏💜

[@jesusmatters4222]

It seems we all KNEW something was majorly wrong in our relationships, but without being able to pin the word “narcissist” and do it correctly, people like myself were left screaming “this person is crazy” or an asshole or whatever pajoritive you wish to attach. This channel helps a lot with identifying the slight of hand that happens from the love bomb to the discard and that helps to compartmentalize what is happening. Being able to label this stuff is very helpful

[@jamison6423]

I’m in the first steps of leaving my narcissistic husband. I have very little support at this point and honestly, I’m afraid of letting go because he has made it that he’s all I really have until now. I have an appointment tomorrow morning to get the legal help I need. This is my freedom card !

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜😌

[@marieeakin8534]

Step by step.Stay tuned in & engage with the community for support. We get it. Don't let him find any trace of you watching here. Blessings 👍 🙏❤💥 🌈🎀😘

[@michaeloneill5877]

And Don't Tell ANYONE, inch by inch impliment your plan and one day, when he goes to work you WALK OUT and go COMPLETE NO CONTACT, NEVER, EVER look back

[@lucilleengbert4197]

ALL TRUE...AND THE PEANUT BUTTER THING ACTUALLY HAPPENED TO ME!!!

[@cynthiawlaughlin5435]

He’s blocked for good. I finally felt something “ break “ and that was it

[@jeffreypmitchell]

I just blocked and deleted her.

[@marieeakin8534]

Good for you...stay tuned in & engage with the community. We understand & are at different stages of healing. The support of others will keep you going as you heal. Blessings 👍🙏❤💥 🌈🎀😘

[@Plumduff3303]

❤❤

[@marieeakin8534]

When you deny access to toxicity... you protect your precious self. A narc....is a narc....is a narc....is a narc.....DENY THEIR ACCESS!!! Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘

[@marieeakin8534]

@ESSIEMARIE1998 What a Sweetie...thanks 😘❤

[@elaine7327]

Narcs are gonna narc

[@marieeakin8534]

@elaine7327 Exactly! 👍👍👍

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

👍To the point as always! We gave enough, it's now our turn to recharge, spiritually re-generate, heal and fortify and all that "Necessary" stuff. We'll never be as exploitive and self-centered as a Narc. Happy New Year, Marie! ☕☕👍👍👍👍👐

[@marieeakin8534]

@JHavaJoe2-m1z Yes it is our turn. & we best not forget this! Wishing you a Very Very Happy New Year my sweet friend..cheers 👍☕☕❤

[@mothersandy2022]

Happy New Years🎉 Andrew and all who are on this healing journey🎉❤ You can do this hang in there!❤

[@alisonpatton5028]

People want love so much in life they will sacrifice themselves trying.The true gift is already there look within.Life is a solo test.🙏🙏

[@alisonpatton5028]

@ESSIEMARIE1998 ♥️♥️

[@lios583]

After the narcissistic relationship, the narcissist still remains in your head, as an "Introject". We were brainwashed. His voice continues to influence our live. Only when we no longer allow any contact and access with us, we will get gradually rid of it and recognize ourselves and our voices again. It is essential for the healing process. Thank you Andrew, stay safe everyone! 💜🙏

[@marieeakin8534]

The devil is a liar! 👍💥❤🕊 🌈🎀😘

[@cm4673]

I just left my toxic relationship with my narcissist husband and everything you mentioned in this video is what I experienced. I am filing for divorce on January 2, 2025; this ends ASAP. He is extremely toxic, insecure, calculated, vindictive and a liar all he wanted to do is use me and he did with his family. Everything I did there was a problem and he was so jealous of me also when I started school he the mask fell off he is a monster 💀💩💩💩 and it is over. I always felt drained around him.

[@kathleencondit1660]

Stay strong. And, silent.

[@cheloniatestudines9268]

Stay strong. Love yourself.

[@TheDaragh]

Don't make my mistake and be friends once the divorce is final. He love bombed and I felt grateful. Divorce is the end.

[@TheDaragh]

So glad I watched this right to the end. I have to set boundaries with my adult daughter now, not just me ex.

[@melanyreilly1528]

I found it hard to see so much evil in one person 💔. I learned my lesson thank you for all you do Andrew Happy New Year. 🎉

[@carolcollins3108]

And its okay to be alone, when the company during the holidays is just too toxic. Alone is peaceful and beautiful. Thank you Andrew , Namaste ❤

[@Wanderedinto]

He grabbed me by my neck, I weigh 101 pounds maybe, he is 6’5 I left right after. Going no contact at all

[@Aquamarine7]

You are an Incredible Human Being ❤️

[@i.l.9546]

My ex is desparete to gain information about me but I dont reply to his emails. I am not on social media, we didn't have mutual friends and its not possible to drive by my house to see me. The last email wasn't as fake kind as the ones before I knew he tried to provoke my reaction to the insult in it but once you know that any reaction is a gift to them its easy to not react at all. Dont give them one more minute of your lifetime they dont deserve it.

[@elinorbarnes1380]

Thank you Andrew, I Need to remember this; a family member nearly drove me crazy (in a few minutes!); had to flee..they are psychological vampires. (Get some exercise, relax some next year. Bless you!)

[@deha5084]

I was lucky because the ex narc and I did not do very much together in the year we "dated". He lived his life and didn't want me to be part of it. So, I don't have any place we went together. But, that doesn't stop him from continuing to ask me to "go for a walk with him" when he sees me. We live in a small town. I think I have ignored him for long enough that he finally gets the message, but who knows!? Thanks for the reminders, which is why I visit your channel. It is always good to remember who these monsters are.

[@hashrosinking1608]

Block em!

[@jessieb7290]

To all empaths: It’s as though we’re angels on a battlefield, wounded but not out for the count! Thats what the narcissists want. We’ve been believing their garbage for so long, we’ve forgotten our core selves…angelic; loving, empathic, powerful. You can get back up! Rise and you will will recover. You will get the self back that they wanted to take. Your soul shall be restored ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜⛰️✨

[@Aquamarine7]

I have and my life has been so much better!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@Patricia_Stewart337]

I’m doing this right now. Not picking up Not calling to “ check” Yes! 2025 for my “ A” Game 👍 100%

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@EasyRussianLessons]

Same. Doing it right now. I'd say I blocked 6 or 7 people who threw me under the bus. No regrets.

[@Patricia_Stewart337]

@@EasyRussianLessonsWe’re on a Roll

[@marieeakin8534]

Way to go! 👍❤👍❤👍 🌈🎀😘

[@lamusamuse]

This is a powerful message. I denied access six years ago and thanks to ‘the education’ by generous survivors such as you I’ve managed to block every devious type of hoover. I’m listening to you today for a top up! Have a blessed new year Andrew. Thanks so much for everything you do for this community. 🙏 🤗 🕊

[@lululiga333]

So hard when it’s an adult child. I’m going grey rock because full no contact right now is just too hard for me. This is brilliant analysis of the narcissist thank you. Spot on.

[@lisaatkinson6276]

Gray rock works great for me.

[@lululiga333]

@@lisaatkinson6276 Thanks yes its the best if no contact is too extreme. Its still very hard keeping a balance with a narcissist its like juggling with water.

[@TheDaragh]

Just coming up to 4 months free after 29 years. Just starting this journey.

[@GoddessAngelinaj]

Andrew… the brutal discard my husband of 13 years dealt me is lessened by simply knowing someone like you exists. It prevents me from being able to say to myself “F you can’t trust anyone” It’s such a mind F to have someone take everything from you and then leave you for dead. Knowing it happened to you too… someone that seems so strong and wise makes me less inclined to personalize what happened to me. Thank you for putting yourself out there. I hope you know that the heart of your message is you and that you are a bright shining light. If someone like you can be taken for granted… it makes me feel less inclined to take accountability for everything being my fault like I’ve been conditioned to do. Oh boy… how long does it take to feel “normal” again?

[@The-Vintage-Needlecrafter]

You will heal, it just takes time.

[@roslyncerro1263]

It's a new normal....much more resistant to being involved at all w/freaks!❣️

[@GoddessAngelinaj]

@ I can’t imagine wanting to be involved with anyone for at least a year if not longer. The only problem with that is the fact that I became so sexually starved in my marriage because I couldn’t bring myself to want to be intimate with him anymore due to the constant lying and expected cheating. Yeah I know this is TMI… but I sincerely wonder how other survivors cope with their needs during recovery knowing that jumping on that particular horse is what tends to get you in trouble:)

[@alienspotter422]

You are not alone. ❤️

[@RiverLillyy]

I STILL can't believe how long time it took for me to figure it out, that my ex- husband is a big narcissist!! 😮 The one and only explanation has to be that I were so young when we met. Only 17... 💔 And it took me 30 (!!) yers to find it out. But now I know!

[@nvbccjarbohum]

Finally this year is going to be over and hopefully, it will be the end of any contact with the narc. I have been silent, with no contact, for four months and now have blocked him everywhere possible, made new profiles, and got rid of everything remembering him. My feelings are still tied to him and my brain is still brainwashed and misses him and starts seeing him as the way he projected himself which was a total lie. Watching your videos helps me to keep my brain on the right track. There are positive changes as I have way less anxiety and stress and can enjoy things. Happy New Year to everyone here. ❤💛💚

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..🙏😌💜⛰️✨

[@mothersandy2022]

Yes empaths believe best even in the worst of people, they can never be pleased! No matter how you wear out your knees in prayer!😢 I am so glad Im arming myself with so much wisdom 🎉

[@Sabrina-lj7ne]

Bless you for your sneeze. I need prayers...my whole dept that I work in is filled with narcissists that I can not get away from...so much gaslighting and changing the rules HOURLY

[@Jessecraft1954]

Going on five years. It's weird at first, but not now. Happy and far less stressed without those curb dwellers. 😂

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜⛰️✨

[@stevelichtwark4259]

Energy vampires 🧛‍♂️

[@thebigh9324]

The temptation is always to confront them , but it's always a complete waste of time , all you will ever get is a torrent of abuse and wild accusations . All the love , loyalty and support you gave them will be forgotten in a second , they will stand for NOTHING ! Pulling away is ALWAYS going to be the best option , as you take all their power away . There is always the outside chance of some form of revenge , but you can't live the rest of your life in fear !!! 💪🙏❤️

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

Static interference in your head has imaginary conversations, confrontations, explanations, etc. going on for a while. All useless. These Narcs are not reasonable people.As you heal, you default to silence and giving them no energy.

[@annchurchill2638]

After a traumatic hour of attack from my Son I was crying all day for weeks.From the moment I woke up and all day.Then I just stopped having contact with him.; This included going to hear musicians at the little club I liked ( which he owns).I am living very much alone and so much better.I am processing,and watching You Tube videos that talk about Narc.abuse.It's working.Going No Contact sounds simplisitic but it works.

[@The-Vintage-Needlecrafter]

Amen🙏8 months no contact. Lord willing January 13 papers will be filed!!!!!

[@cheloniatestudines9268]

I hung up the phone on my narcissist husband on June 19 2016 - and haven't spoken to or seen him since. I am free.

[@michaeloneill5877]

And that's how you do it !!!

[@Maryam_Noor_T]

I'm divorcing him. Im out. Aging, angry, manipulative, sexually coercive. I'm done. Thank you for the information.

[@deborahrobinson6553]

I moved a thousand miles away from a really nasty narcissist. Ran smack into a few here, but got out quickly. You can't hide. Your videos speak of inner strength, and thank you so much for teaching what the hell is wrong with these people. Like you, I can still laugh at life (and myself). I hope all of us have a wonderful New Year of new beginnings and laughter.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏

[@amandahodge3809]

I’ve been no contact for exactly a YEAR (a few days ago) and WOAH has my life been so much better! Right away, there was a void-especially for my children. But I filled that void with healthy ppl, healthy places, healthy family dynamics, my children no longer want anything to do with the narc. It’s been amazing.

[@kimsteed9401]

Thanks Andrew!! I've found that the same words or messages can have a different or new impact on you as you get further along the path.

[@marilynmonheaux]

In the Midwest we say “selling Wolf Tickets.” The sacrificial lamb bought tickets to dinner with a wolf 🐺

[@Brenda-ve9qy]

So helpful. I left, he's trying to lure me back by paying my bills he created. I desperately need to cut ties but it gets so confusing. People think he is wonderful. He dresses well and is charming, helpful and fatherly. All manipulations

[@steveobaby6048]

Hey Andrew so yesterday was the party and the narcissist was there everything was going good until the unthinkable happened she poured a glass of soda on my head there was no consequences for the narcissists and then she was calling me late at night and texting me late at night but luckily I had her blocked I have learned my lesson and now I'm ready to be more educated by watching your videos

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..🙏💜😌⛰️✨

[@deborahrobinson6553]

Your party is tomorrow. Out with the old, soda pouring nasty people, and in with the new you, clean hair, clean shirt 😊.

[@Aquamarine7]

You seem like to nice of a guy to settle for anything less ☺️

[@marieeakin8534]

Her consequences are that you never give her the time of day ever again. That was rude, immature & considered an assault You owe her nothing. If this is her behavior she will only get worse. You dodged a bullet my friend breaking up with her! 👍 🌈🎀😘

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

There it is-- she is a petulant child. Dust your hands of her and hold your head up. You still maintained emotional control. Anyone who supported her ugly action let them think what they want to think. It was still ugly, unnecessary drama. Narcs need a stage.

[@flowerpower4944]

Thats the absolute truth,, 💯 Deny access to them and all the flying monkeys,,,t.y. Andrew,💎💜🦋🙏

[@MEL2theJ]

Thank you again NARCDAILY 🙏

[@PatrickGeenen]

I met a narcissist with whom I ended my relationship . The narcissist wanted to talk about termination, in which I stayed my course . Afterwards it has strengthened me by now knowing that I can do it. 👍

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜😌

[@LC-eu8tl]

Either the victim or the hero never the reason for any of their horrible behavior. The whole world owes them its so twisted and its so hard to believe that it wasn't really real. Thank you for your wisdom and for speaking out about these people. I never in my life knew what a real narcissist was. I just thought it was someone that was vain. So much deeper than that. My word, honesty and truth is what i live by. I just thought everyone felt like that. This is an extremely disordered infividual and they dont change. Its heartbreaking but its real life. Thanks again for your kind words. Happy New Year Andrew i hope 2025 is the best year for you. So much love for your strength to make these videos. You have helped me more than i can express ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@svetlanamaljkovic9433]

@@LC-eu8tl inspireing 🙏🏼

[@crystals6352]

I entered the relationship when a family member died. We were all vulnerable. I saw the gaslighting, triangulation, major control and anger issues. It was bizarre. Thank God it was not romantic. The rage fits were frightening.

[@kristinej.4182]

Hi Andrew. Your videos always validate, enlighten and heal me… thank you! 🙏 Wishing you a very happy and healthy 2025! 🎉🎉🎉

[@Glyn-r]

Deny the narcissist access to your life and definitely deny them any information about you. Its hard to rebuild your life after the narcissist, but it can definitely be done and you will become stronger and wiser, and free from toxic people.

[@justcomfeee]

Thank you Andrew I'm feeling Good about this New Year 🎉🎉🎉 and haven't felt this way in along time. God bless you for sharing ❤ I hear 🙏 you and it makes sense..... Happy New Year everyone 🎉😊🎉

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@keithhults8986]

You are awesome Andrew! Words cannot describe just how awful, evil, and how incapable they really are. My ex loved sending me subpoenas for 12yrs! The amount of subpoenas she drown me with, is her contempt of court in writing! I totally intend on hoovering my ex with my subpoena, about her contempt of family court and why I attended an abuse survivor center fod 7yrs and have lifetime lawyers only in family court. To prosecute her contempt of family court, I must force her and maybe my estranged daughter into 1st district criminal court, and nail her deceit and contempt to her forehead in front of my daughter and a judge!

[@cheryldaniel8841]

Thank you so much for all your videos this year Andrew! They gave me a lot of strength especially to get up and get to work and motivation to stay no contact. Happy new year!

[@jeffreypmitchell]

I’m just close to blocking her. I want to and I don’t want to. I’m trying to get myself to do it tomorrow.

[@seameology]

Do it! Once you do, you won't regret it.

[@SeanFit]

You know... for any one reading this.... Just know, you are an abundant supply of positivity. The fact you cut access ensures they, either wont get as much access again, or they have been forbidden from the garden. You are a source. And thats all you need to know to bounce back again. Youve always been a source. Some people mishandle you. Some, actually know how to take care of and maintain you. Both men and women. Start with bettering you appearance, inside and out. Take your time getting out of the anxiety stage

[@bonnielee7134]

Doing walks and being out in nature is good for anxieties and depression.

[@ceceliahelliwell5478]

All the best for the New Year Andrew, I am to go into a New Year because of your presence your advice and your teachings.... you are truly god blessed. 🥰

[@IdaPendleton-mn5hh]

It's difficult when these people are in your church.

[@cathysavage3750]

One of the worst things he did after we had two kids. He said"road trip". So we happily jumped in the car, living in Louisville at the time, and we drove to a theme park in Cincinnati and pulled into the parking lot. We sat there for about 15 minutes but we were all too afraid to say anything. Then he drove back to Louisville without even stopping for a burger.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💯🙏

[@deborahrobinson6553]

@@cathysavage3750 That is so messed up. I understand that these people exist, but I still am shocked how the depth of evil is a bottomless pit. His own children? This made his day? I will never wrap my head around it. I so hope you and your children have a truly amazing New Year

[@MarcM143]

@@cathysavage3750 I dint get it. You drove to a theme park and drove back? Scared to say what

[@svetlanamaljkovic9433]

Andrew thank you so so much. You opened up the carpet under which all the dirt layed since too long time. I swiped it there, hide it in order to continue defending and justifeing my narcisist modher. How much she fooled me it's outrageous. I deranged my memorys and belifes in order to putt a blame on me for all the horror she putt me trough. I thank you so much. I thank you for shareing descovering. You don't even know what you have helped me to break trough. You are so sensibile wisdom person. I'm asking my self what was your hell? What kinde of pain made you so bright? Trough what you needed to went to go out so brave and smart? Must have not been an easy task. Beside your remarkable natural talent you are also hard worker. Nothing came to you by a chance, you have earned it all, earned and deserve it. Great you are, may Universe repay you. I am so gratefull towards you. May you stay healthy and happy forewer and ewer. Keep on rolling it, you realy rull 💪🏼🙏🏼

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..😌🙏💜⛰️✨

[@svetlanamaljkovic9433]

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone wellcome ♾️

[@edwardspriggs5076]

Andrew is spot on and I know its very hard but its the best thing to do, when dealing with a predator/users. Trust and believe, you only have a better life, than dealing with them again.

[@laurenceevans1026]

Happy New Year to all of you on this site with Andrew.❤🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@mariefrancebourget1749]

It's very important to deny access to the narcs and going no contact on the healing path because even their voice can trigger you. Not only what they say but the sound of their voice also. So beware of that. have a great evening Andrew 😊💜⛰️✨️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜⛰️✨

[@Earnest-e1r]

My father had a diesel truck. 30yrs later hearing that particular type of truck triggers gut wrench and a rush of anxiety.

[@mariefrancebourget1749]

@Earnest-e1r i totally understand. ☺️

[@MarcM143]

Truuueee!! Happened to me last night and all she said was "Hi, Marc" well.. She was with her new boyfriends son too tho

[@mariefrancebourget1749]

@MarcM143 i understand. Sending positive energy your way 😊🙌✨️

[@Cre80s]

"You cannot pass... I am a servant of the Secret Fire, wielder of the Flame of Anor! The Dark Flame will not avail you, Flame of Udun! Go back to the shadow. You shall not pass!"

[@CayteBarbe]

Thank you Andrew and membe4s. I BID YOU ALL PEACE and Love and a Happy New Year, and new you!!

[@ElephantsRGrey]

Thank you, Andrew. 🌝🌞

[@ednamason4784]

I feel like I’m doing well. I was still in the fog long after the divorce. But now I’m really doing for me. 10 months now since I found so much out that he did knowing what he was doing. Still thought I did something wrong for years. But he moved us to NC from NJ to get us away from family and friends. That was a hard time, I missed my family and friends. Then only a short time later he really threw a lot at us. I finally got strength to get him out. It was so hard, but God’s strength got me to do what I needed. Thank you Andrew for the wisdom. Happy New Year!🙏🏻🎉❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜⛰️✨

[@minnieleec]

Also my friend wanted to invite him to her wedding, and she wants me to be her maid of honor. I told her i am sorry, but if he is there, i will not be able to attend, as i know i would start shaking abd fet very sick from hom there.

[@marieeakin8534]

Good for you taking care of yourself! It's honorable you were asked & people may be well meaning....but they are unaware to depth of the trauma one may be experiencing. Putting yourself first, second & third is essential now! Blessings👍❤ 🌈🎀😘

[@DENISEASTUNO-ow1qz]

❤Thank you Andrew ❤YOUR THE BEST!!!❤

[@MichaelClark-x9c]

I found this channel and two others that helped me see through the fog... Thank you Andrew 🙏

[@b8akaratn19]

This channel remains a daily need, thank you for being there so consistently, Andrew. Today i received a letter from another domestic violence training org, saying Narcspouse was enrolled in *their* course. It made me wonder: did he NOT fully pass/attend the last court-ordered DV class, from 2023? Does anyone have any ideas on this?

[@Freeeleee]

THANK YOU ANDREW!!!

[@jonfernandez8027]

The narcissist and I have a nine year old daughter so I must utilize grey rock. I will never understand dependence on others. Self reliance is a blessing, but it can only be achieved adjusting to rough times. Embrace challenges and failure.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏