How to Crush Dating in your 30's (Follow these 4 Principles)

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@craigferge4702 7 ай бұрын

I just turned 31 and not in a good spot, financially, socially, career-wise, etc. I am going to strive every day to improve so I can absolutely crush it in my mid 30s (and beyond). Thanks for the inspiration.

@TheSingleGuy 7 ай бұрын

Of course man. Life is it's best when we are improving

@Youtuber19841 7 ай бұрын

You got this bro. I’m 35 and trying to improve

@JustinLazlo 6 ай бұрын

You can do it. I'm 33 and felt like life had beaten me but everyday I'm seeing progress and I know things are turning around.

@demonhalo67 6 ай бұрын

This is so so true, society will judge you on your dress, whether you work, behaviour, everything. You have got to brush it all off otherwise you'll develop anxiety. If you are single out there enjoying hobbies don't stop and don't feel guilty about being single unless a woman comes along that wants you and is not willng to change you or baby trap you or use you for money. If you are not sharp by 35 you're gonna have a tough way through it, at the very least you must have a full time job and living independently or girls are not going to want to know.

@realistrick 7 ай бұрын

Thanks Lloyd. You're a real one. I can already tell that the biggest challenge for me will be step number three. I always had friends as a kid/adolescent, then sorta settled into being a loner for much of my twenties. I'm now thirty and trying to build a new social circle from scratch.

@TheSingleGuy 7 ай бұрын

Excellent, I recommend joining my free Skool group. I'll have a link there where you can meet other guys in your area

@demonhalo67 6 ай бұрын

That was me too, I just didn't have the confidence in my twenties to do the bar and circuit thing, I saved for a house a round about 27/28 then didn't get it until 33. It took until I was 35 to actually start going out so I did leave it quite late, I missed out on the club scene but still enjoy bars, pubs and stuff now. After 35 life gets very different as a man.

@darksideofthebright4284 7 ай бұрын

I think 30' are a great moment to start again. We've all been young, stupid, reckless. Even if we made a lot of mistakes, now it's time to face them and turn into positive lessons. Also, when we men getting older, we age fine, mature and strong when put effort to tranform lifes from boy to men. And women love that. It doesn't mean you'll get all chicks but they will look at you differently, when abstain from constant masturbation and follow semen retention, work on physical appearance, mental stimulation and looking for higher purpose. Obstacles and problems to solve will be your fuel to get better. Remember, it doesn't get easier, you just getting better. Have patience and rest. Peace, Boys.

@TheSingleGuy 7 ай бұрын

Exaclty man. Love the message!

@joseafalvel 7 ай бұрын

I'm 31, this is exactly the video I need

@thesiouxside1467 7 ай бұрын

great video, great points and very true, have a great week

@80skid83 7 ай бұрын

Number 3 is a must

@AnteUp34 7 ай бұрын

I like your message bro. I am 36 and i am in a pretty good place in my life where i dont really need anything from anyone. But i am morally against putting in effort or spending money on women. I only pay the bill for my friends.

@TheSingleGuy 7 ай бұрын

The return on investment might not be immediately clear but women or a specific woman can provide immense value in a man's life

@JustinLazlo 6 ай бұрын

The not listening to society part is something I really need to keep working on because it tends to really get under my skin how everyone (especially but not just single women over 30) seems to think they're entitled to tell single men over 30 that women under 25 are off limits. Did no one ever teach these people about minding their own business and that adults can make their own decisions? This part of the culture is only going to get much worse as more and women reach 30 and are single and childless as well.

@yanyant-q1l 7 ай бұрын

lot friends are just fair weather friends. try finding a ride or die friend .

@vdl3984 7 ай бұрын

Exactly, nobody really cares about anybody else, really. As soon as you are no longer useful ppl get rid of you real fast.

@TheSingleGuy 7 ай бұрын

In my experience having a few close friends is key. Hard to find, but worth it!

@yanyant-q1l 7 ай бұрын

@@TheSingleGuy i agree. i met a lot ppl in my life but only 5 very ride or die

@TheSingleGuy 7 ай бұрын

Check out my Skool Community in the description. You can find a lot of great guys there. Community is going to grow!

@mykytaradko5776 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video. Now imagine being like me - lack of dating experience in my 20s due to my social anxiety and feeling inexperienced. Now I am turning 30 and feeling better about myself every single day, and society suddenly is telling me to settle down.....but I have NOT experienced my wild phase even yet! It has just never happened so far! So why should I settle down, - simply because of society that rejected "my game" previously? They didn't give a single F about me back then. So why should I think about their expectations of me now?

@mykytaradko5776 7 ай бұрын

Btw you look extremely good for your age. I dont know how old you are, but I want to look like you when I am your age. I am also enrolling in university this year as a 30 year old (I look like 25-ish max), and I dont care what anyone thinks about me or my decisions. Life is too short and finite for that.

@TheSingleGuy 7 ай бұрын

Yeah man just because you are on a different track than other guys does not mean you are wrong. Plenty of men can find someone and settle down by age 40. You should be doing everything to work towards your goal but not make rash decisions

@JustinLazlo 6 ай бұрын

Man I'm in a similar position (33 though) and it is like society expects you to clean up a party you weren't even invited to. Why the hell should you put yourself last and take someone your age that you want nothing to do with just as you're coming into your prime? Best of luck man, I hope it works out well for both of us!

@mykytaradko5776 6 ай бұрын

@@JustinLazlo Hear hear, godspeed brother and good luck to both of us and all people like us!

@frederico-d3l 7 ай бұрын

the only people that shame 30yo+ men that go for women below 25.... are always past the wall old women that hate they wasted their youth in parties and riding the carrousel instead of forming a big and happy family. im 32, and last girlfriend was 19 yo haha she was too narcissist and childish thou. so i dropped her for another way better looking 22 yo. having a great time. remember: YOU are the only person on this earth that really cares if you are happy or not... your family and friends want you to be safe, not happy.

@bearbeitungwo-xw6gs 7 ай бұрын

I'm 27 and would never Go for 18 or 19 anymore. They are way to childish. Finding a Potential good wife there is liek finding a gem. Very annoying to Deal with.

@zeliph 7 ай бұрын

Very interesting. I wonder if your video is part of my 32nd birthday wish.

@TheSingleGuy 7 ай бұрын

It may be :)

@Dru2maBoii 7 ай бұрын

No marriage. No kids. No cohabitation. Zero tolerance for disrespect. Protect yourself at all times. Good luck, gentlemen. 👍🏼

@IndigenousEnigma 7 ай бұрын

Shout to CGA

@aaron.social 7 ай бұрын

I just had my first real relationship breakup 2 months ago and im 30 years old. It was an amazing relationship but i self sabbotaged it and got too deep into porn and wanted to fill a void to find a better lookin women. Now i lost her and it completely crushed me and i quit my job. I know i need to focus on that but damn i really fucked up on the best thing thats ever happened too me. 💔😭

@darksideofthebright4284 7 ай бұрын

I can relate to that. I also struggled with addiction that put a nail to the end of relationship. But don't worry. Reflect on your mistakes, focus and work on yourself and you will see how it changes your everyday life. Best

@TheSingleGuy 7 ай бұрын

You sound like you're in the thick of dealing with the pain of the break up. When I was there I had a lot of self loathing. When you pull yourself out I think you'll realize that it wasn't all your fault although it is good to recognize mistakes

@aaron.social 7 ай бұрын

@TheSingleGuy it was i broke her trust and did some immature things you shouldnt do in a relationship. I did alot of things that just adds up and she was done with me. The fucked up thing is now she is talking to a guy that we all hungout with. And it makes me feel so insecure cause he has alot more to provide and offer her. So basically from the breakup she is thriving and im in crippling depression. Its been 2 months from tomorrow since we broke up:(

@poopoopeepee4233 7 ай бұрын

Bro don’t sweat her. She wasn’t an angel. Think of the men she’s gobbled. I never fall in love because of women’s past

@hams2k677 2 ай бұрын

Could u make more videos on men in their 30s?

@EatYoVitamins 7 ай бұрын

Do we email you when we have a question that you could answer?

@billjohnsonbtc 7 ай бұрын

Vry nice eye brow's

@MarcRebilletClips 7 ай бұрын

Thank you

@Bentoto97 7 ай бұрын

I think when it comes to people who only have 1 or 2 years left to live before they are in their deathbed, having unbearable regrets while having freedom is more painful than life in prison and if I am wrong then please do a video about it.

@TheSingleGuy 7 ай бұрын

I'll do a video about it and send it directly to you. Can you please send me an email at thesingleguy2017@gmail.com?

@Bentoto97 7 ай бұрын

@@TheSingleGuy I'll have to ask my parents about your email.

@Bentoto97 7 ай бұрын

@@TheSingleGuy When I comment and reply about prison for the rest of people's lives, I mean stupid things that will get anyone to deserve to be locked in prison for the rest of people's lives.

@Bentoto97 7 ай бұрын

@@TheSingleGuy The easiest for me to listen to your video about unbearable regrets while having freedom or life in prison on which is more painful for people who are gonna be in their deathbed very soon is if you upload a KZbin video in your KZbin channel.

@Bentoto97 7 ай бұрын

@@TheSingleGuy If you know who Jeffrey Dahmer is and you know he is a dangerous person to be with then I wonder if people who have unbearable regrets while they have freedom, they have been bullied a lot in their schools and now they are gonna be in their deathbed very soon may as well follow his path.