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@dodeaantonio90955 жыл бұрын
I just want to thank you for what you're doing. Keep doing because you improve people's lives. Thank you!
@logangomez12093 жыл бұрын
I already do this by saying 108 positive affirmations every day but Vishen Lakhiani and mindvalley have changed my life
@Macaroni9173 жыл бұрын
I love your words So much.you make me feel So much better &So warm in my heart😭🙇💖Thank you So much.
@huntresskrystle6 жыл бұрын
"Critical people, I promise you, have the most criticism reserved for themselves." 🙏🏻🙌🏻👍🏻
@uzmawaseem20295 жыл бұрын
Very true.
@gautam39873 жыл бұрын
So so true 👍🙌
@outofsomewhereoutofnowhere3751 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@est9949 Жыл бұрын
English isn't my first language. What does that mean pls?
@gemmadidit41186 жыл бұрын
I grew up with a great deal of mean criticism...but somehow that released me from caring what people say. I realized that others will try to make you small so they can feel large. If you don't care what they say...if you SEE THROUGH them to the insecurity that makes them act that way...they have no power over you. I've learned to love myself without outside validation...a very powerful thing. The way people act when they're desperate for attention is really quite sad.
@WiseEyes3135 жыл бұрын
GEMMA Didit i really wished I could be like that and NOT care what people think or say about me. But their words just remain stuck in my head on autoplay. Any advice?
@gemmadidit41185 жыл бұрын
CONSIDER THE SOURCE. They are trying to take your power from you. If you give them the satisfaction of acting crushed.They win. Remember it's not about you. They clearly do this to anyone they can victimize. Do not engage because this UGLY behaviour is their home ground. Why wrestle with pigs when they're the one who enjoy all the dirt. Quietly judge and dismiss them. When you get stronger you can even just smile and say...yeh, I should be more like YOU...right? Whenever your mind dwells on what they said CONSIDER THE SOURCE. Cruelty is NOT a sign of good character. If you feel that any part of what they say is true...FORGIVE YOURSELF and decide if it's something you want to work on. We are all in transition. Don't let criticism be your motivating factor. Hope that helps, love. Be well...be strong.
@WiseEyes3135 жыл бұрын
GEMMA Didit thanks I really love that advice
@haniahanu5 жыл бұрын
Same things happened to me..but i make it my strength..now i'm strong
@rachelngatia37535 жыл бұрын
@@gemmadidit4118 thank you for this because today one of my classmates who is now a makeup artist told me how I do my makeup is a no that I am trying but its not good and yet the fact that I am posting on KZbin to her that looks wrong ? I wondered when I began YT I didn't ask for anyone's permission so now I should stop because I do my brows wrong yet I am learning and growing ? Her advice to me sounded both good and bad but I decided to take it as positive. She said she's not yet a processional one but she's here making me look like the worst just because of brows I shall improve, practise and not give up
@Amy-tw3zh4 жыл бұрын
It's extremely helpful to not get defensive and just say "Thanks for the feedback, I do have some room to improve" or "I'm sorry you feel this way, I do have room to improve". This makes the person who criticizes you less aggressive because you just agreed with them, and didn't add to the fire.
@ComplexityIsTheNewSimplicity6 жыл бұрын
I love how she transforms negative into positive! This lady is a kind person. I managed to hear her talk live during 'Wake up - day' this year and have got a dedicated book from her. Very inspiring.:)
@sherrielane16026 жыл бұрын
Betti Kersak i
@LonjeMarie76 жыл бұрын
Excellent,her voice is very soothing
@rachelngatia37535 жыл бұрын
True
@lucileblanqui98865 жыл бұрын
Thank you, dear Marissa..It helps me to deal with my own toxic family that criticize and offend me all the time...
@Amy-tw3zh4 жыл бұрын
For some reason criticism from parents just doesn't seem as constructive most of the time.
@vokun8646 жыл бұрын
I watch videos of her when I get anxiety... just listening to her talk and the music it's so calm and soothing and warm and it just makes me feel comfortable. Lol
@chiaraco90434 жыл бұрын
0:34 It's so true. These kind of comments have been echoing in my brain and tear my social relationships and working efficiency. I dun know why, but drops of tears come out of my eyes at the moment of the video. It's like somebody hear my inner voice out.
@Maraziko6 жыл бұрын
This woman is so soothing
@vokun8646 жыл бұрын
Asiyah Elh ikr
@ananth2273 жыл бұрын
I have wondered why criticisms always hurt my feelings.why is it soo difficult for me to deal with it without having a mental breakdown? What i have learned is that distinguishing criticisms from one to another is a continous process and it takes time for someone who has been vulnerable to criticism for so long.its not as easy as it sounds but you will get better at it eventually:)
@shanenicole95523 жыл бұрын
The destructive criticism is the hardest, even when I try to be polite they throw the saying that I'm offended. I just need to just say nothing and move on.
@venesasacco63445 жыл бұрын
I want to thank you Marisa because you have helped me see things from a different perspective. I use so many of your tools and I am able to help people on their journey. Once again, you are a blessing and I appreciate what you do for the world.
@LonjeMarie76 жыл бұрын
She’s amazing,I love her voice
@kenny0128755 жыл бұрын
When I have trouble practising this and doubt if it works, I come back and watch again and it strengthens my belief every single time I watch this.
@NathanWBrown4 жыл бұрын
This made me cry in a wonderful way and I needed this. 💖 Thank you
@blessedhandsasmr75506 жыл бұрын
I Honestly feel like this is almost a hypnotizing session to be "bulletproof" against negative comment. Thank you! there should be a "session" for people that need to get mentally prepared to be around their own family (or Mom-*whisper) that gossips alot😉😁😧😩😔
@humanyoda6 жыл бұрын
Please share your results with us.
@khushalkumarsain55366 жыл бұрын
The way of explaining is awesome
@TheOriginalWB5 жыл бұрын
This is the best video I have seen from Marisa Peer, she certainly has improved over time. Well done Marisa.
@kalachuchi95925 жыл бұрын
I want to say thank you for this video, mindvalley! And thank you to Marisa as well.This is very precious to me and I will return to her advice when ever I'll find myself going back to my old behavioral patterns. I will be on a Marisa Peer video marathon. I love her. She is one of my inspirations now. I want to have a manner of speaking like her. Very calming to a listener.
@LonjeMarie76 жыл бұрын
I can’t watch this video enough,you are a tremendous blessing!!!
@traceyedwards31712 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you so much.. I have recognised something in myself that I didn't like... and this short video has taught me something so valuable.. 🙏 love this!
@hadeeld15845 жыл бұрын
I loved the aspiration and motivation this lady is giving! She absolutely made my day. Hopefully I will listen to her everyday
@ekkamailax Жыл бұрын
Here's the problem with this advice.. often times, when people give you "constructive criticism," it's actually a form of abuse because they are envious of you. They'll tell you that you are not good at something because they can actually see your potential, and they're scared that you'll outshine them. Bosses do this all the time - they can't stand the idea of you getting promoted over them. So they'll find news ways of criticizing you to make it seem like you're not deserving of a promotion even though you are. If you boss says "you're good at marketing but you're terrible at presenting" what that really means is "you have a natural talent for presenting, and I'm afraid you'll outshine me in this area if I give you more opportunities to present.
@wendycorrea16 жыл бұрын
Thank you Marissa, great pointers. Wish you Success, Happiness and love always.
@corradopilenghi51755 жыл бұрын
Marisa, you are a light in the dark! Thank you 💕
@NaomiBuskila5 жыл бұрын
I like how you validate that it's okay to make mistakes
@lisadelahaye61156 жыл бұрын
Thank you! ☺️ loving all the valuable info
@elizabethpalacio79435 жыл бұрын
This just popped up and i just stopped and find myself watching till the end. Her voice and encouraging words can definitely heal negative vibes in every hearts.❤️
@Xxheaven142 жыл бұрын
Lost for words. Best advice I've ever heard. I didn't get it tell now. 40 years . A perfectionist. Watch this over and over. Drill those words In your head.
@ramadhankareem57674 жыл бұрын
this is really a life-changing advice.
@jainechapman69385 жыл бұрын
Oh wow this was me.. All points of this conversation is what ive been doing to myself.. Self-sabotaging been doing it all my life an always either shutting down or going into defense mode... Im about to change that now Thank you so much an thank you to my mentor Janine for sending this to me 😁🌹😁🌹
@MamaLily2022 Жыл бұрын
What a Calm and Comforting voice ... i already feel much better just listening to you👌🏽💚🤗
@HeathifyMyLife6 жыл бұрын
I call it "contributive feedback" ....always welcome. Greetings there 🙌
@42634846 жыл бұрын
Very helpful. I have to keep this in mind next time that destructive little voice comes into my head
@vivekdesai85006 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Good lecture
@mylesbankhead13846 жыл бұрын
The Ann Murray of motivational speaking. So soothing
@codergirl15185 жыл бұрын
It's best practice to become immune to criticizism and also compliments. Not feeling any need for outside gratification.
@morrischristopher53667 ай бұрын
It is perfectly acceptable to acknowledge that different people will have opinions based on their own experiences and knowledge even if those opinions differ from yours or seem incomplete by your standards. In some cases they may even bring up valid points that challenge your perspective and offer opportunities for growth and understanding.** This openness to diverse viewpoints and respectful communication are essential for fostering learning and connection. However,** not all criticism is created equal.** Some criticism is unfortunately delivered in a bullying or abusive manner, and in such cases,** acceptance or respectful communication are not appropriate responses.** If this is a recurring pattern,** it is important to take action to protect yourself.** You can do this by politely communicating your boundaries and requesting changes in the manner and frequency of the criticism, or by limiting your exposure to the individuals or environment where the bullying behavior occurs.** It is important to remember that you cannot control the speed at which others change their behavior,** but you can control your own responses and choose to not engage with harmful interactions.** With love to fellow beings. ✌️
@JaneNewAuthor2 ай бұрын
Downloading this so I can play it on repeat. Your voice is so soothing.
@Mindvalley2 ай бұрын
😍
@pgetheelderscrollsturkiye686 жыл бұрын
one of the best ad
@arjunjain57144 жыл бұрын
I have a question. Suppose it's a public speech. Now ideally if my critic is my friend, does that mean I will feel NO FEAR? Critics job is to protect us, so if it is my cheerleader, does that mean I will constantly be powerful, or will there be a fight and I have to choose to cheerlead? Can anyone care to throw some light on this? I am willing to explore the answer to this. So excited to grow! Tons of positivity and miracles coming your way.
@DrMaikaSteinborn4 жыл бұрын
I think it can be specifically challenging to accept criticism from a friend because they know us best and if they're a good friend they want the best for us so when we hear the criticism we know that it is very likely something to consider and we might be afraid of that.
@jhoannalisanty31554 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this words. If you see a 👎 in this video in spanish it is not valid, i put it by accident.
@satoru_gojo_720 Жыл бұрын
That 4:29 minutes video was just more than enough to change someone's life🙌❤
@hasanalmaliki16333 жыл бұрын
3:29 it wasn’t napoleon it was Theodore Roosevelt... I loved that quote so much
@yuvaliko6 жыл бұрын
You are a pure talent.
@nareshkumarthalal44925 жыл бұрын
Thankful to you and love to all
@Aveuwin6 жыл бұрын
Thanks you Marisa 😍
@mziqbal20035 жыл бұрын
It is a valuable advice for all to overcome negativity by constructive criticism in the our lives and career Thank you Marissa ✨🌠
@ishraqsaoudi4 жыл бұрын
I hate people who are smailing with you and critising you in the same Time it's like we are good but this is you reality
@sunshine20495 жыл бұрын
I don’t always believe you should except someone’s criticism as it could be coming from their own tainted minds, I have never had criticism work in my favor, it is only a hindrance
@AhimsaPorterSumchaiMD3 жыл бұрын
That was the most concise and useful information I have heard all month!
@al-shariffaguil77864 жыл бұрын
Very well said ❤️ ❤️❤️❤️
@shweta1764 жыл бұрын
Damn amazing .... impactful person she is!!
@lightofthecross45132 жыл бұрын
Thank you ma'am for your lovely msg.
@colehutchinson32925 жыл бұрын
I'm really wandering wether or not I'm stuck right now. I'm a self critic, and I learnt from y intuitive flow of high confidence almost like writing down your self critic. Yet...understanding my self critic, put me into a state of flow when I'm writing my two critics down. And how I try and learn is from listening to way to much self discipline videos and I can't seem to get the two critics to constructively mimic each other's self talk. I'd really love a understanding practical emphasizing of these two for it to click. Thanks, Cole.
@colehutchinson32925 жыл бұрын
Higher conciense not confidence*
@luckystarpiano6 жыл бұрын
Great points 👍🏻👍🏻
@tinavargas32456 жыл бұрын
I learn n grow
@adamlovejo6 жыл бұрын
IT WAS SUPERB,I LOVE IT,PLEASE KEEP DOING,THANK YOU.
@knownstranger25702 жыл бұрын
People simply put me down out of jealousy or something and even after knowing all that, yet their nasty comments hurt
@strongself375 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Much love and light. 💛✨💛
@dramoradevils39245 жыл бұрын
it is okay to make mistakes if it will hurt you only people should not hurt by your mistakes
@excusesbegone6 жыл бұрын
the is a song called MY INNER CRITIC
@sheilamore32613 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing you’re a lot of help🥰💕
@hussey7464 жыл бұрын
Life saving. Thanks lady.
@Areare3493 жыл бұрын
God bless this amazing woman ♥️
@mz6367 Жыл бұрын
I tend to criticism myself and i tend to predict the worst about myself
@ramadhankareem57674 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@thewayneschannel13 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@JulianJunior4 жыл бұрын
why did i cry?
@perutraveltour11675 жыл бұрын
thank you so much Marisa
@johannagl5 жыл бұрын
In love with Marisa Peer 🥰 What an amazing experience to learn from her. I discover her a few days ago and I am in love
@kingdomreign715 жыл бұрын
Thats a great video, watched three times. Excellent words Marissa!
@prathimads28765 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@mohammadasraf25705 жыл бұрын
Maam your sentences are great just like you
@ah57214 жыл бұрын
Ithis is wonderful! Ive had great bosses and horrible bosses. The best bosses I've had give me positive feedback how to improve things I'm not great about and how to be better at it and I can feel that they care. The Worst boses get huffy and don't give positive constructive criticism they just get upset that you can't do it right the first time or when you continue to make mistakes.
@harishkg12625 жыл бұрын
Thank you...
@miteshbhagwant46155 жыл бұрын
Love You Marisa ❤❤❤❤
@nicodemusmogere53134 жыл бұрын
Very important tips in life.
@winnersneverquits25703 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻💫💥
@erzafahmifasya2635 жыл бұрын
I CANT SKIP THIS AD!
@RegineBrady4 жыл бұрын
Excellent! Thanks Marisa
@houssin41994 жыл бұрын
I love this woman
@jaymbali22173 жыл бұрын
I needed this
@Arunkumar-er8gd4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this great video.
@AnitaAnita-du5wr5 жыл бұрын
Very helpful thank you 😊
@heelsandtoes095 жыл бұрын
Whats the deal behind repetitive mistakes?
@rexrender40953 жыл бұрын
I post pictures of myself that i like myself but everybody thinks i look really bad and some say that those photos are shit, its not like they say it in a harsh tone, they'll just say something really mean but cover it up with "no offense" and although i try super hard to not let it get to me, it ends up ruining my self esteem :(
@Neko-ui4mf5 жыл бұрын
It hits me!
@rachelngatia37535 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
@chaseariohd77004 жыл бұрын
How do you deal with personal criticism in a debate?
@AliRaza-zq2wi5 жыл бұрын
Excellent way mam i appreciated
@sheyonglearntoletgo97143 жыл бұрын
0:40 3:00 3:29 4:01 4:05
@shewanderlost3 жыл бұрын
some people criticize in a good way but add a judgement for doing a mistake, thats hurt
@humanyoda6 жыл бұрын
It's easy to say, "Don't let it in", but who can follow that advice? It's a strong conditional reflex.
@woundedbutterfly3 жыл бұрын
I love this video.very well done. But why everyone saying to not get defensive whats so wrong with getting defensive i find it a good thing...