How to DETACH and let go when manifesting

[@idkwhatmynameis97]

I’ve been struggling with detaching and all of the sudden this video from 6 years ago pops up in my recommended videos. Damn the universe is amazing.

[@Sunflower-qr1zp]

same 😂 7 years ago. the universe got our backs

[@kamiennykamien9578]

A revolution, revolution!

[@LoveYourself-kz4cs]

1. Let it be ok to have attachment/expectation 2. Drop the judgement and frustration towards that 3. Embrace it

[@tarkanyilmaz6905]

Dont fight it. Let it linger. Eventualy it wil go away. If you have this mindset lt will be less to deal with

[@marianna7702]

Amen.

[@arjunmrao4039]

Beautiful very very well said 👍👌

[@TheFreakyable]

helal olsun

[@themindbenderr]

Türkler her yerde 😂

[@matthewisthebest8152]

What you resist persists

[@loveandhappiness1111]

This is like reverse psychology on the subconscious mind. Well done!

[@64Magick]

Just like "FEAR". I acknowledge and accept the fear that I create, whether intentionally or unconsciously. I appreciate and love my creation and I now sever, cut, release and let it go....and it is done.........THANK YOU!

[@KailynBowman]

this is such a powerful video- watched it all the way through. Thanks so much, VERY helpful information

[@fairywings24]

OMG I LOVE UR VIDEO KAILYNNN🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤❤❤❤

[@strawberrymins]

this is actually doing wonders for my subliminals and an ex im so hung up on. thank you so much!

[@illuminatingjoy]

You're welcome :)

[@cathypham6600]

I think the more I try to fight off attachment the more fear I create within myself and the more doubt. Thank you for this video. It’s super helpful! Sometimes to get rid of a problem you have to first acknowledge it

[@ayamaria6892]

you just told me everything i needed to hear/everything that cleared up my biggest confusion in manifesting in under 10 minutes, that ive been seeking out in 30 minute videos after 30 minute videos for soooo long now lol you’re the best. 💓

[@64Magick]

EFT: "I now release and let go my attachments, contradictions and resistance to manifest." "I now release and let go my thoughts, feelings and emotions."

[@tarass8737]

I detach thinking i already have it what exists right now is a shadow of my past thoughts what will show as my manifestation in my physical reality later will be a shadow of my thoughts right now, but i have it already just not in my physical reality so why worry because it is coming anyway. I'm only just starting to manifest deliberately. I have only been able to manifest extremely small things but that gives me reasons to believe i can manifest bigger things easily too like job and my SP back. We'll all get what we want just believe and be confident and have patience. Some things come faster some slower but they do come.

[@a.nguyen9099]

This helped tremendously, a lot of law of attraction videos focus on "you have to let go in order for this to work," but this makes me feel a lot better about my situation with my own desires and it's okay to be attached. Thank you Amy!

[@illuminatingjoy]

I'm so delighted this was a synchronicity for you! I love when that happens :) Much love to you too ~

[@taylorbrady2116]

I have to admit. I am binge watching your videos for the first time ever and this is the first time in 2 months of really practicing loa that I feel at peace. You let it be known that its ok to just be ourselves in the moment. You let it be known that it's ok to be human rather than some robot which I have to control 24 hours a day. THANK YOU!! 🙌 But how do we know exactly what stage we are in?

[@bae5912]

thank you a trillion times for putting emphasis on letting resistance be okay!!!! ive not seen other manifestation coaches on yt really talk about this and i started building up this fear of instantly ruining my manifestation if god forbid i had one negative thought about it. youre my favorite channel because you always remind me to be patient and forgiving with myself and THAt is what i and a lot of others need, not just constant crazy diligence about not giving any momentum to resistance like that isnt wayyy easier said than done. i absolutely love you and im so ecstatic i found you cause your message resonates perfectly with me xxx

[@illuminatingjoy]

Thank YOU so much! I’m honored by your comment and I have found that allowing resistance and letting it be okay is a game changer. So go ahead and be human! It’s okay. 💕

[@kamiennykamien9578]

@@illuminatingjoy Yahoo! The revolution! 🎉💃

[@michaelpepper5581]

i feel 10x better after watching this. great upload.

[@chasingarches8693]

This is perfect and needs to be included in all LOA vids. Today I'm letting myself just put out my intention in the world without trying to think of HOW.

[@illuminatingjoy]

My next video is about how to release focus on the HOW so hopefully that will help :)

[@jagyaaseni]

I was almost about to give up on LOA when I found this video. I knew I was too attached to my results, that's why I was not getting the results. But now I know, that letting go actually manifests things! I feel so much more peaceful and positive right now 💛 Also, here's a tip for those manifesting: if you're manifesting a relationship restoration, focus on self love. If you're manifesting positivity and feel like crying, cry, then tell yourself after crying you'll feel positive. Happy manifesting!

[@illuminatingjoy]

Awww thank you for sharing!! Yes, what you said is so true! 💕

[@hannah0golightly]

I love you!!!! You are the BEST LoA teacher I've come across in AGES!

[@leahedmonds8650]

this is probably one if the most important videos to manifesting ever made

[@skttrbrain5344]

I can't thank you enough!I'm going to watch this so many times to keep my mind from over thinking. thank you thank you thank you!

[@illuminatingjoy]

You're welcome :) ✨ Happy Manifesting✨

[@skttrbrain5344]

illuminatingjoy I know I can because I have done it. and because I did it lead to me obsessing over it. I am struggling so hard with this right now. this video gave me so much peace! honestly I can't thank you enough! I've never seen it explained so perfectly.

[@skttrbrain5344]

Can I ask you a more specific question? As in when I begin to start thinking of it again do I tell myself to stop abruptly or just keep repeating it's okay to feel that way? I often get negative thoughts because I'm constantly over thinking.

[@illuminatingjoy]

If you can stop then stop. If you can't stop then give yourself total permission to obsess about it, literally tell yourself... "okay, if we're going to think about this, we're going to be really good at thinking about it! I'm going to be the best at obsessing!" It will lighten your energy up and once you deliberately give yourself permission and go with it, you'll find in a short period of time that your mind has moved on and is thinking about something else like what to eat for lunch or should you do your laundry.

[@skttrbrain5344]

illuminatingjoy man you are good! you make everything so easy and simplified. I'm already beginning to feel more confident and letting go feels okay with me now. especially because I know it's holding me back from manifesting. I wish I could afford a one on one with you!

[@Agpals]

WOW thank you so much :D I've had FAR TOO MUCH attachment, it's insane. I am so far in manifesting this one thing but I'm missing the last part. The detachment!! My resistance is far too high but yesterday I slowly started to let it down!

[@lorenz9255]

How is it going now?

[@lorenz9255]

Natasha Nana I agree. 😹😹

[@Agpals]

@Natasha Nana Hi! I just saw this comment 3 years later! I manifested this very thing spring of 2019- an SP which was wonderful and what I desired at the time. We no longer are together but for the manifestation itself it was surreal!

[@Agpals]

@Natasha Nana Yep, it took me that long and I remember the day I let it all go and said "f it" really. Then the manifestation came rolling in as fast as lightening.

[@Agpals]

@Natasha Nana Of course, I'm happy to answer :) It came about like a week after I let it go! I fully accepted that my manifestation wasn't going to occur and just gave up. After giving up- it happened quickly. But that was after the point that I didn't really care if it ever came or not, I didn't believe it would either. So for me, my manifesting works in opposites. Always. Letting that resistance down is KEY, however, it'll come in your own time. It took 3 years for me as you saw and there isn't any kind of time frame with the LOA!

[@divinati-tarot-and-astrology]

I love it. Part of manifestation is meeting yourself where you are and bringing yourself to where you want to be.

[@Jazzy.bluess]

Looooveeddd this. Gave such a different perspective than so many other videos. everyone says let go w/o telling you how or making you feel like it's normal

[@SuperDubess]

So funny that these videos show up exactly with the info I need. Thanks universe. I do appreciate the guidance. (Thanks to Amy too)

[@Kyduh]

This is the basis of all of manifesting. With letting it be your vibration rises and you start to visualizing and focus positively by nature

[@Kristina-zw4eb]

Wow you just changed everything. Where have you been my whole life

[@tworivers71]

Brilliant! For the first time, I've heard a new angle on manifesting...

[@dawnford]

simple and resonates with truth. acceptance is a beautiful thing. thank you

[@Fimontronia]

Thanks. I have been in alot of resistance about my family. And in resistance about resistance. I woke up today with a thought. That since everything I have asked for has been submitted, I probably don't have to do anything. I can spend each day meditating and being clear of resistant thought. Thereby, allowing everything to manifest. In terms of healing for my trauma and my family situation, in terms of physical ailments, in terms of financial. I don't have to keep bringing it up. Or even spend any time trying to figure out what I'm going to do to get it. I can just be at peace and clear my mind. I want to practice being at peace with whatever is going on. So that I'm no longer in so much in resistance. Because that's all my trauma is. Really strong resistance taking me into real bad depressive/frustrated state. Which is the opposite of being in a happy soaring inspired state.

[@doman362]

I agree with you. the first step that you mention is the most important part of "detachment".Thank you

[@camilogodoypichon517]

thank you Amy for your amazing job. Sometimes coaches go hard on people's resistance and attachment, and you help us release all that stuff in a more natural and loving way to ourselves. So thank you!

[@NoName-zb1gm]

It happens in its own time. Attach for as long as you need and when you get tired of it or the work is done you'll want to detach. I've done all the steps in manifesting without really knowing what I'm doing and knowing how long each steps takes. It just went with my gut instinct.

[@kajusinka1]

Omg thank you so much for this video! This is exactly what I needed.I've in a bad place lately cause I've obsessing over so many stuff and it literaly took control over my life and didn't know how to stop it.This helped a lot.

[@nguyennguyen8132]

I'm so glad and lucky I found this video and your channel. Thank you . You saved my life. If you read this, thank you, Amy

[@user-ej6rr2km8e]

NGUYEN NGUYEN Same. Amy’s videos have saved and elevated me too

[@TysonMichael77]

This better than what I’ve been studying

[@latestlindsey5620]

Wow. I've been trying to find a way to let go for years. It's the only step I struggle with regarding my bigger manifestations. What a great idea! Thanks for this video, I'm going to try this and see if it helps! ❤

[@knowitintobeing]

This is the best loa video ever made. Nobody else EVER talked about this. And only this way it's possible to be really ok in the moment and let go. Thank you sososososososo much! ❤

[@remar1213]

i don’t know if i’m the only crazy person, but i have this serious attachment of wanting to become my dream self in a complete new different life. i sometimes play out my new life before i go to bed and i wish everyday that i was my dream self. i’ve been trying to forget about, but i genuinely can’t but thank you for this video cause i’m trying to let go of this ridiculous dream xx

[@darlingl929]

When trying to manifest something i tend to feel anxious if i've done it right , worry my anxiety will block the manifestation process.. Also whenever someone makes me angry or when am frustrated about something i don't pay attention on the angry feeling instead i breathe in and exhale try to soothe my mind ..is that okay? or i am creating resistance just because i do not allow or let myself feel the way i should be feeling as a response to the situation ..sorry english is not my first language i hope u understand what i mean..thank you Amy😊 much love from Malaysia..

[@Cooklikegrace]

I have been trying to manifest a text and it just wasn’t happening. Once I made peace with the fact that I haven’t received it yet, I felt a need to open my sp’s texts and I realised I had them on block this whole time 😂😂😂

[@someone_weird9]

Omg 😭😭😂😂 what a disaster

[@kamiennykamien9578]

You're so weak ... 😑

[@noreenagriffin2826]

I'm intrigued 4 years later... What happened with your sp

[@rgbosteen3944]

You're my new favorite life coach transformation coach❤

[@lmerav]

Hi Amy, I began to watch your videos a few days ago, and I’m beginning to understand and learning to manifest more effectively.. THANK YOU SO MUCH!! It seems like the beginning for me on this road, but I’m exited!

[@consciouscommunity3897]

I have found this to be true - thanks!!

[@sivaprakash9448]

Universe is my side... Thank you universe

[@stopit1210]

You know what? I tried to accept my attacchement.....and it worked. It helped me suddenly detach ahah. Good job coach

[@missbel2456]

That means if you accept that you are attached it makes you detach?

[@stopit1210]

@@missbel2456 yeah kind of.....i mean i recognised the problem was me, being attached to someone Is good but if You are not emotionally healthy that becomes an issue and the sooner You realise and accept It, the Better You heal yourself and get It over

[@Reemer2]

This is one of the most brilliant videos i’ve watched on this subject, thank you 💗💗

[@dhirajdeshmukh6467]

Thanks soooooo much for this timeless video!! I come back to this again and again and it always makes sense!! ✨✨✨🌹❤️

[@sacredrebel4119]

I always come back to this video it brings me peace. Thank you 💛

[@swamibubba]

this is so true and so very needed thank you and brightest blessings

[@SB-ej7ze]

exactly everything I needed to hear. grateful xoxo

[@DavincisClock]

If you're wanting to manifest something and bring something new into your world(energy transfer) then the premise of having to accept what is while important, will NOT help bring anything new into the frame, it doesn't work that way. It will just give one time to look at the frame and know what is IN it. Yes be grateful and accept what is but the mere fact that you wish to manifest means whatever is still attached MUST be let go in order for the opportunity of new doors and pathway to a manifestation to take place. It does not mean the "want" will happen immediately, for many times "getting there" is acting on simply the highest excitement... and again, the only thing holding one back from detaching is fear. Part of letting go IS making that leap to detach... so it IS absolutely necessary to detach one thing to let another thing in. I know what you're saying about acceptance, but why hold onto fear of change if that's the ONLY thing stopping a manifestation. It doesn't have to happen any certain way either... but following highest excitement instead of putting head in the sand will move things forward to an eventual manifestation and often revealed mysteriously in ways we'd least expect the chronology to happen in.

[@katrichards6541]

I get it... by being so focused n attached..if u "let it go".by "accepting what it is"..."u being attached". Let it be ok... letting go of the attachment (the resistance).. this let go of all resistance.. then u can start to manifest Do what ever u can to be ok that yr attached

[@missbel2456]

Can you explain cause it is difficult for me to detach

[@katrichards6541]

@@missbel2456 accept that you are being attached. Once you accept it, then you can let it go

[@deejurado4600]

Thank you so much! You have made manifesting so simple and fun! Thank you 💕💕💕💕💕

[@Dana-cz1yu]

How can you detach from a more serious problem? For example, manifesting good health. If a person asks, "Will I be OK if I don't have this?" The answer is 'no' in regards to good health. I love your videos. Your explanations are the most helpful of anyone I've seen. I'm hoping you can help me with this question, too. Thanks.

[@arjunmrao4039]

I am completely attached to watching awesome videos made by Amy Westmoreland, and I whole heartedly accept that 😃✌️ Ha Ha Ha Ha

[@rgbosteen3944]

I'm on the cusp of greatness I can feel it deep within me I'm a jackpot winner I'm feeling terrified of my manifestations that I want it's like I let the genie out of the bottle or something it's so scary it's happening so fast

[@WILDFLOWERlove004]

Your videos are the best.. this whole acceptance part of attachment or fear or worry or failure.. I’m truly going to forgive myself, RELAX and practise for the day. Should be interesting as I’m spending with my folks who always trigger me .. I think if I can master with them first a lot will very much transform.. or maybe not.. whatever I accept it all :) 🙏

[@raffafan]

Experience comes before change. You cannot stay attached and know what it is your heart desires.

[@illuminatingjoy]

I keep meaning to try that, thanks for the reminder! :)

[@purplehaze165]

Brilliant! I needed this! Thank you

[@izzychilds9372]

this is exactly what i needed! thank youuu!!!

[@randallsampson1473]

Embrace yourself feeling wanted ❤❤😊

[@lasaritacortes3728]

Wow... siento que en cada vídeo que veo de ti respondes a preguntas que he tenido por muchooooooo tiempo. ¡¡¡Muchas gracias!!!

[@yassinetalbi5884]

You’re amazing thank you ! All the blessing

[@tommyRfrancis]

Such a good angle, really helps, thank you :-)

[@illuminatingjoy]

tommyRfrancis You're welcome!

[@rajking8609]

+illuminatingjoy universe does t hear the words no not don't

[@herman2096]

illuminatingjoy . .. ? . .....

[@herman2096]

illuminatingjoy ..? ..

[@scentsoftravelmeditation]

Brief and informative Nice

[@boredomsux1219]

I got this video as an advertisement and was super pleased with it's synchronicity, thank you for posting & somehow getting it to me

[@Esthersnest]

I needed this today - again

[@Mayumi2705]

You are a true gift. Thank you

[@16BelieverForever]

I love this technique however, I often have trouble being okay with resistance. I find myself overthinking it. And whenever I do find myself okay with it, it happens naturally like I have no control over when I do let go. If this makes sense at all...

[@fatimasiddiqui1585]

Joy & Pride. Try meditation to help release negativity

[@firstlight1144]

This was so helpful, thank you

[@arthurmarston102]

So when I accept I have attachment suddenly I detached from outcome ❤

[@garywilson7883]

"HELLO, IT'S AMY", WITH THE BRIGHT EYES AND BEAUTIFUL HAIR! .. .. .. You Caught Me Watching Your Videos Again, Gary

[@blessed9036]

I am truly grateful for all that I have and for all that God is blessing me with thank you..

[@itsmericci92]

Thank you for this I needed this message

[@jermane2501]

feel as if it's not that interesting so much that you don't think about it much

[@64Magick]

It sounds as if you have EFT experience OR you're probably a Programmer! I notice you are aware of every aspect and all its variables of all directions and arrays!

[@illuminatingjoy]

I know about EFT, however, I don't use it. The language EFT uses is great though :) You'll have to tell me what a Programmer is, sounds interesting!

[@64Magick]

Someone or something(another computer) that thinks and processes information in an algorithmic pattern which is way cool!!

[@mosesbajpai1640]

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[@eragonmomc6447]

Thank you! True mindfulness & self-love!

[@MaiMaiStrawberrylovely7750]

This video is amazing! Thank you!

[@illuminatingjoy]

You’re welcome!!! Thank YOU! 💖

[@dennisgodaire485]

I got your message ... understood ... thank you, Amy

[@god5535]

Sometimes I manifested a lot of things out of desperation. Makes you wonder what all these so called teachers and gurus boil down simplistically for crowds thinking they are dumb.

[@memi9839]

So I like thos boy for 4 years never talked to him face to face and only started to DM him via instagram recently. We talked a for a few days (to the point we taljed for 4 hours in one day), but niw he doesn't answer my DM's anymore. I started to constantly checking my instagram hoping he would react. He is active. He does like my posts, but he does not react at my DM's! You know what I did? I deleted instagram from my phone and said: If I want him, he will come to me no matter what. I dont need instagram, I dont need to be obsessed by hoping he will react at my DM's. If I want him he will come to me, I dont need instagram for that.

[@matthewroller5412]

I give myself permission to be attached to these outcomes I have manifested

[@nalzarirahab3910]

I am emotionally very attached to my mother although I haven't live with her for ages, and I am 51years old. I always worry about her more than she worry about me . Why do you think that is?

[@yuvaltabib17]

? When you say "release it" "let go" , you also mean to stop with visualization and affirmations

[@illuminatingjoy]

Great question! No, you don't let go of your intention/desire so you can keep affirming and visualizing as you still have the intention. What you release is your attachment to the outcome - "emotional" attachment. Emotional attachment is the idea that you NEED the outcome because you will not be okay or cannot be okay unless it happens (or in reverse, you will not be okay if the unwanted outcome happens instead). A great way to emotionally detach (after accepting if you are attached) is in this video - Trusting you'll be okay no matter what happens (emotionally):kzbin.info/www/bejne/eIvCq4qorsqZmqM

[@MsNayElle]

Thank you for all you do❤️

[@zDeka]

sounds so risky to do lol I will definately going to try it. thank u 💛

[@Hozanaa]

Are there any affirmations to detach?

[@TheMavigoz]

i cannot be detached. I tried everything.... i cannot detach.😐

[@illuminatingjoy]

That's okay! Be attached then, allow yourself to be attached :)

[@Weeeelium]

illuminatingjoy does real detachment means that u accept the truth that it might or might not happen? Like a way of giving up fighting your desire. Like oh my goodness whatever I am too tired to try and control things. Is this a good detachment?

[@GoSammyJo]

THANK YOU!

[@infamousfanclub]

Good thank you

[@DreamWizard9]

It doesn't matter what all other people do

[@darynadar6707]

What a great video! 57444 views 😍😍😍 Thank you Amy and thank you Universe!

[@Ridhi11177]

Thank you, you're Magick 💜🌹✨

[@dolphin68ray]

So helpful, thank you!

[@rgbosteen3944]

I like manifest with Missy Renee but I'm burnt out. She taught me the most Elmer locker Junior is excellent

[@Debsducky]

May I ask and this is where some of my confusion lies. If I'm trying to manifest, for example an ex back, if I'm Scripting every day or so and thinking about my desire - daily, then is this still attachment? Every now and again it pops into my head throughout the day and I start to wonder if this is normal or classed as attachment? By being detached does it mean forget about it? If so do I not script about my desire?

[@illuminatingjoy]

Attachment is the idea and feeling that you will not be okay unless it happens. So you keep scripting as though you have it (as often as you like that feels good) AND then also, like once a day or so, gently remind yourself “I’ll be okay no matter what happens” or “I want this, I don’t NEED this” as a way to stay detached. You never have to forget about your desire or stop preferring that it happens, you simply stop convincing yourself that you need this to happen in order to be okay. Hope this helps 💖

[@Debsducky]

@@illuminatingjoy this has just shifted a heap, load of resistance and makes sense now. Such a relief as I was trying not to think about it for the feeling of attachment and obsessing. This has brought me so much comfort and understanding. I'm learning so much from your videos and watch them 2-3 times, daily, as I really do appreciate your relaxed, very matter of fact way, deliverance of guidance. Thank you once again and happy manifesting 🙏🏻🌈

[@divyapinge8407]

@@Debsducky thank you so much for bringing this up. I was in such a confused state questioning if I am doing things right. Right now I am manifesting my SP and feel a sense of pure joy when I visualise, affirm, script anything to do with it. I am in no hurry of the Timeline but I also cannot stop myself from visualising and being convinced that this is going to manifest. It’s like I know it will manifest. I do not try to actively think about what if it does not because I am anyway living a happy life. Right now my confidence is so high in it manifesting that I cannot seem to imagine it will not. Does this make sense to you?

[@visul955]

after i send my vibration out to the universe what should i think when my desire(what i ve sent out to the universe) comes to my mind ??????

[@illuminatingjoy]

t really depends on your belief system in how fast and/or easy it will be and that varies person to person, desire to desire so there is no one answer that applies every time to every person. It's more than just visualizing, so check if you have resistance, learn how to release resistance (many ways), check your beliefs and attachment.

[@croodsblen1817]

I hv a qs.. I believe dat I hv got my sp and is already mine in parallel reality. So i believe dat my sp will 100% b mine in my 3d world and dat I do not need to do any work as my sp is already mine. I just need to trust d process and sit back and focus on other things. Is it correct ?