How to do Home Schooling of Your Children | Sahil Adeem | Ask Sahil

[@tameemhassan3246]

Aap ka point bilkul valid hai. Pakistan mein joint family system mein rehna, khas tor par ek aurat ke liye, jo aksar kitchen aur ghar ke doosray kaamon mein masroof hoti hai, homeschooling mushkil ho sakta hai. Is culture mein, jab ek aurat apne ghar walon aur in-laws ki zimmedariyan utha rahi ho, to us ke liye apne bachon ke liye homeschooling manage karna kafi challenging ho jata hai. Homeschooling ke liye, aisa environment zaroori hota hai jahan maa ko apne bachon par puri tawajju dene ka mauqa mile. Is ke lie yeh zaroori hai ke maa ke paas time aur energy ho, jo aksar traditional joint family system mein available nahi hoti. Yeh system aksar aurton par ghar ke kaamon ka bohat ziada bojh dal deta hai, jisse homeschooling jaisi zimmedariyan nibhana mushkil ho jata hai. Homeschooling ka faisla aksar un logon ke liye asan hota hai jo separate rehte hain, jahan ghar ke maamlaat mein interference nahi hota. Yahan tak ke joint family system mein bhi agar khandan ka support ho aur time manage karne ka tareeqa ho, to homeschooling mumkin ho sakti hai, magar yeh aksar ideal conditions mein hi possible hota hai.

[@LearnWithAmatullah1]

Homeschooling k sath QUR'AN tajveed ki teaching b krwaen .it is also very important.

[@MuhammadShahbaz-ui4ck]

It is good concept in my opinion

[@talibeilm8104]

May allah blessed sir sahil in this wordly life as well as hereafter

[@fouziamurtaza8046]

I think that if the curriculum for home schooling is applied on the current school and college education system,then in less time we can teach our students at least till master level along with covering all main subjects belonging to all groups like science,humanities,commerce also very important studies for astronomy. No.of students can be kept as less as is possible in one class room and if no.of working hours per day is increased while decreasing the no. of working days ,students can do other physical activities and trainings like swimming.horse riding etc. It would be helpful for those students whose parents are not very well educated. Till seven years only languages can be focussed through good resource material environment .Even mothers might be allowed to come with their youngsters.

[@ashabesuffaofficial7416]

HOMESCHOOING is the best option, no one can understand kids better then a mother, learning style, pace and problems in learning process

[@cookingwithsidra7463]

Right

[@mumtazhussain4053]

I am also a big fan of homeschooling concept, we need it badly here in Pakistan, as our education system is not for education but it has become a status symbol and a type of business

[@zaidxdesign4744]

You start it as afather for your own kids. Start with self!

[@mumtazhussain4053]

@@zaidxdesign4744 I have no kids

[@raafiagulzaar6583]

How to start is the main question?n what to teach .i hv tried bt ultimately have to come to regular school system.

[@mumtazhussain4053]

@@raafiagulzaar6583 what is the age of your kid?

[@WALEED_000]

@@raafiagulzaar6583 first of all languages

[@rabiaanwar6429]

❤ great question ..i face this situation daily,i have mashallah 4 kids

[@erumsgoodlife9582]

I hv two daughters 5 n 3 years old n Alhamdulliah i hv been doing homschooling successfuly..❤

[@quranmeaningandtranslation444]

How's 😮

[@mamoonakhalid-fu4wu]

How

[@rukhsanashahbaz4016]

What is homeschooling plz guaid me Thanks a lot

[@erumsgoodlife9582]

@@quranmeaningandtranslation444 buy the books according to ur childs age..than start teaching... N soon i will make the video on homeschooling on my channel.

[@khurramsaeed2327]

JazakAllah,

[@rukayanabi459]

Assalamu alaikum warahamatu LLAHI wabarakatahu OMG sir u hv touched my heart by saying we are in pakistan sir m from pulwama kashmir i want to meet you nd mke my ustaad

[@zambeel21]

Salaam I am watching your video from long time you speak well

[@Syedda2812]

5:00 excellent 👍

[@MalikAbdulrehmanAwan-z4k]

Ji bikul main b yehi soch rhi hon

[@habibtheonly]

I do homeschool I have been extremely successful, but it hasn't been very fast; it's been steady and slow. I am completely satisfied with what I am doing, however, I found out that Satan stays everywhere inside the home, in schools, and even in the masjid. I am absolutely sure about one thing Allah is always with you if our intentions are great.

[@saadwali2996]

Plz tell me about the curriculum that u r using

[@saadwali2996]

I have 3 and 4 years old boys plz help me from where i can get the curriculum

[@tabindazaren5936]

Can you please guide others how to where to start for very beginners as I have 3 daughters ages 4, 2.5 and 1 I want to homeschool but no idea where and what to start

[@habibtheonly]

@@saadwali2996 NORMAL SCHOOL CURRICULUM BUT I SKIP WHEN I NEED TO

[@habibtheonly]

@@saadwali2996 WHATSAPP ME

[@classicaldream689]

Sir plz launch a full course on youtube about home schoolin we badly need it

[@bintekhalill]

بالکل صحیح Home schooling k naam se ghar main sab se pehlay batain shuru hoti hain sab yahi kehtay hain k ya kia karnay ja rahi ho kesay karo ge abhi bacho k zehan main mat daloooo

[@cookingwithsidra7463]

Hame APNA soch na h koi kch b soche tention ni Leni chaiye

[@shehzadi7574]

I homeschool my kids too alhumdulillah.

[@sidrarana2768]

How do you teach n how long will you home schooling them?? What curriculum you are using?? Kindly guide may Allah swt blessed you for this

[@shehzadi7574]

@sidra rana I have been homeschooling for the last 2 years. I only teach them reading writing and math. This is the core. If a child is good at reading writing and math he can learn any subject himself in future.

[@shehzadi7574]

@@sidrarana2768 and also I don't follow any schedule. Whenever I feel that they are ready to learn something I sit with them and teach as long as they want. If they don't want I dont force them. My kids are 6 and 4.

[@shehzadi7574]

Other than this I weekly go to the library and borrow kids books and read to them. Lots of reading stories and books and little school work.

[@Truth-a_hard_pill]

​@@shehzadi7574 May I ask the age of your kids. I think my kid has already lost the homeschooling foundation opportunity. He's 8 years

[@ghazalaehsan6965]

ماشاءاللہ بیٹی ارونق آپ بہت اچھا کام شروع کر رہی ہیں۔میں ساحل صاحب کو بھی بہت سنتی ہوں۔اعلی مقاصد۔ استاذہ نگہت ہاشمی بہت پہلے سے ہوم سکولنگ کر رہی ہیں۔آپ وہاں سے بھی رہنمائی لے سکتی ہیں۔"النور انٹرنیشنل"

[@ajaibkhana-5999]

Quite Informative Jazak Allah Khairan

[@naimaahmad1080]

People are asking from a person who just knows to strew up the mind and Emaan.

[@saminasamina5985]

Ma Sha Allah

[@FishFarmingGuide]

I have 3 kids alhamdulillah elder daughter is in grade 10 2nd daughter in grade 8 while the youngest son in class 5 I have also taught O levels and college school students more then 20 years... my point of veiw in this regard..... is main 2 angles hain 1. aj kl k bachay parents ki us tra ni maantay jaisay we were 80,s 90's kids thy....so bacho ko smjhana pir execute krana buhat difficult hay specifically dopamine bacho ko tiknay ni deta ....they could not controlled themselves....in spare time (when its not obligatory to answer infront of someone like teacher) they are not willing to do positive things... 2. The schooling is obviously wasting much time of the student as lots of lots of information skills is present through internet etc. but contrary to this its providing a real platform for not only socialising our kids but also making them composed towards learning... Main nay ye experience kia jb meri bari beti ko meray transfer ki waja say privately 10th ki prep home schooling k through krni pari.... mera conclusion ye hay k ap rightly keh raaye k home schooling best hay but ap bachay ko thora sakhti say bachpan say lay kr chalain ... but never took off from middle of his education...

[@ibrahimahmed7858]

Asalamualikum ma na apni 6th class ki bachi ko school sa hata liya ha ab kasy study karwai jay

[@mahinansari6053]

Please please explain homeschooling and how to do it.

[@amjadfiaz4830]

❤❤❤

[@HammadAli-rq7zt]

Jo uneducated parents hen wo kesy kare gen?

[@shaddapehlwan1281]

We badly need Sir Saahil's "Parenting Application".

[@lovleen00]

He has a complete talk on parenting on youtube.

[@shaddapehlwan1281]

@@lovleen00 I know dear but one of his aim is also to develop a parenting application for Muslims specifically.That's why I'm asking for that

[@lovleen00]

@@shaddapehlwan1281 yes a complete course on parenting is going to come on source code by next year In'shaAllah. Thats what i heard in one of his talks

[@MohammadHassan-se4pg]

​@@shaddapehlwan1281 😅l😊😊😊o😊😊l

[@aWanderersKitchen]

I homeschool my 5 years old as I believe we should never over burden our kids and never make them sit for 5-6 hours, it's too difficult for them instead they should learn practically.

[@wafa-e-abbas9521]

Whr are you from?

[@aWanderersKitchen]

@@wafa-e-abbas9521 From Pakistan but living in Saudi Arabia

[@wafa-e-abbas9521]

Tou apne Saudi k hisab se Kia houga curriculum set?

[@wafa-e-abbas9521]

Do you have any id or number? I have many questions regarding homeschooling

[@Hinagoodf]

Can you guide me...I need help for my daughter

[@bismillahallah]

I would like to add up my experience regarding the conversation between Sahil Adeem and Raunaq Hashmi, in the UK, one of my Grade 6 student appeared the examination of IGCSE in Mathematics.... UK never bound age with the qualification you want to earn.

[@khurram3616]

mashallah 👍

[@Muneebawan650]

Salam walekum sir main aapki information chahti hun aap bacchon ko clean dene ke bare mein

[@asmaqasim3544]

I have 3 kids 5 4 and 3 year boys, my elder son started to go school but i am not satisfied from the school, and i want to do homeschooling but i dont know how to start,what agenda should i take ? Rether to get help from different articels or any thing else. Please guide me the source from where i can learn basics of homeschooling

[@Shabesahar]

Me aapnay chotay baitay homeschooling me satrt kar chuki... Mujhay jo 2 bacahy school jatay hn un say bahtar karahi hn... In just 2 hours😊 Bc yeh 2 hours bacahy k hi hotay hn

[@erumalikhan275]

When I started homeschooling my kids in 2011, our families thought they we are crazy.

[@alfurqan3665]

Hello sister home did u manage

[@Umeed-Saher]

How is it going so far. I'm planning to home school my kids.

[@moomalfatima8394]

How was the experience how did you learn how to do homeschooling.

[@tiyajiya1]

Hi dear, plz explain us how u do homeschooling...?

[@usmankiani9979]

Assalamualikum I have also started homeschoolingof my 2 kids. I just started few days back. Can u plz help me in it. Plzz

[@socialmediasecrets4333]

Sir ap na kaha k home schooling main maths parhane k ilawa bhi dosri technique ha wo kia ha

[@begumshazia4061]

Mashallah barakallahu feeh Alhamdulillah, clearity hai is vedio me . Is topic par aur sessions kare aur vedioes upload kare please. Iam from india.

[@mubashirhashmi-zr8yg]

Its new thing for me. Though i am in favor of new trend, not as our parents did, but i know one thing which i try to follow 1se 7 sal tk bchy k nokr bn k rho, 7 se 10 sal tk bachy k hakim bn k raho, 10 sal k bad bachy k dost bn k rho(Hazrat Ali RA)

[@mindovermatter3604]

My son is 6 and I am home schooling him . Here in London I feel insecure about schools specially RHSE .

[@umehani9025]

Important thing is teaching, curriculum either it is home or regular schooling....

[@kamranchohan4516]

Koi batayega k karachi main kahn hi home schooling

[@silversilhouette6764]

It's easier said than done, i want to homeschool my kids so bad but i can't afford, financially and time n energy wise. I live in london no help with anything.i don't hv relatives or friends.only few friends who are bz wth jobs. I can't afford baby sitter or cleaners. I have 4 kids, twins 5.5 years old, a 3.5 year old and a newborn. Husband comes late from work to make the ends meet. In this scenario i am barely able to clean, feed n take basic care of kids plus religious taleem that i teach myself alhamdolillah. I dont have time with a newborn n all this cz he has no routine to homeschool 3 kids of dfrnt ages.

[@WilsonRose-fn2zc]

AoA sir Mera beta 4 and half ka ha m khud pargati hu mere pas bchy turion k Leye aaty hain sth wo b prta bus moody ha kbi prta kbi ni r usko school jany ka shoq bht ha

[@islamcompletewayoflife4136]

Asalamoalykum brother If we r going to home school to our child ..where from we will get syllabus..plz rply

[@Anadilvlogs]

Good for mother's

[@saeedansar3841]

raunaq hashmi salute u mam salute u god bless u

[@zainabbhat8438]

Can anyone tell me plz what is homeschooling n when should we start it... Another thing sahil sir language s sikhani ki baat kr rahe han 7 yrs tk bachon ko ab yahan hamae srf apni mother tongue k ilawa zyda se zyda Urdu hi ati ha to kese sikhaye r ghr me b srf mother tongue k ilawa koi r tareeqe se baat nahi krskta like hamare parents wagera..

[@zayankhan2544]

Sab kuch pozoble hai dear.... Alhamduliaah my kids r 7 n 10 they both learning Arabic grammer language..... Masha allah main ne jo 30 year main seekha wo mera beta 8 sal main s eekh gaya...... Still long way to go... Dua karain sab

[@zainabbhat8438]

@@zayankhan2544 Arabic kese sikhayi unko i mean teacher lagaya ...to mtlb meri 2 yr ki beti ha me uskelia teacher lagawun Arabic n English klia?plz guide

[@ladyboss5491]

please ek baar sana sk diaries ka video check kar lein for homeschooling

[@shahanazanjum8398]

Tazkiyai nafs ke bare men btain

[@naimaminhas655]

M glad. V all r working for dame cause. Shabash.

[@humairaaftab3535]

How to ask questions from Sahil sir

[@raeeswajabaloch7164]

Assalamu Alaikum sir Sahil Adeem se bat kase Karen plz help me

[@hoorainfatima810]

Meri Beti b 3 years and 6 month ki ha but mein nahi school nahi bajh rahi khud parhti hn

[@namranasir8185]

kis age tk homeschooling krni chahiye?

[@begumshazia4061]

Iam from india, Iam active mother of 5childrens, Alhamdulillah. 3yr to 10 yrs kids i have.please guide me how i set a schedule for kids. Help me please. Jazakallahu khair.

[@Bharatiya234]

If you have children like litters how will your problem be solved

[@ladyboss5491]

please ek baar sana sk diaries ka video check kar lein for homeschooling

[@zuhaibullahofficial220]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@mrstahircuisineaw3875]

Ek house wife jo pura din ghr k kaam krti hai or bachay bhi sanbhalti hai wo bachon ko homeschooling kesy karay

[@Shaista.Raja.786.]

True...

[@tayyabshahid161]

Tutor hire kary

[@mindovermatter3604]

You don’t need to replicate school or classroom at home . Home learning is different .

[@sabihaali6660]

Assalamualaikum dear sis how you have joined him from india.can we have link of sahil adeems sessions

[@homestudy7078]

Salam I have 2 kids 7 yr and 10 yr boys inko subject age wise kia parhaye jaien mein arbi eng or maths p ficus ker rhi bus apki help chahiye.

[@hussainmuzammil4543]

Sahil sahib what other things is to be required by child brain having to 7 to 10 years child

[@ashu2205]

Sahil ji aap India me ho.

[@theanticlock8684]

I am living in UK...I want to start homeschooling of my 5 year old...from where can I get the curriculum???

[@erumsgoodlife9582]

Curriculum is available on youtube according to your childs age...

[@thehomelylife]

There is no fixed curriculum in the UK that you have to follow by law when home educating. You can choose the national curriculum if you wish or any other. I did this and have been doing so for nearly 12 years. My eldest is completing her gcse's now and and has done some earlier, achieving A's and A*'s. She will soon be also starting A levels then a degree and will do dars e nizami. Message me if you need any advice. I'd be happy to help.

[@razamughal9095]

@@thehomelylife i knew i would be rubbish at home schooling, so i threw money at my kids and put them through islamic schools instead.

[@thehomelylife]

@@razamughal9095 If it works it works! May اللہ سبحانہ وتعالی make them the light of your eyes.

[@razamughal9095]

@@thehomelylife thank you so much. They are doing well, but i just dont understand how parents can sit there teaching them chemistry and maths.

[@uzmaimran3640]

Sar ap Sy rabta Kesy Karn apna fun nab ya tim ka nalbar saken par den

[@Bharatiya234]

Rauanq Hashmi was in Indian Kashmir and the POK will be soon in our control.

[@frengsapien2722]

Rounaq Hashmi can I comnect with you to seek guidance on homeschooling my daughter

[@socialmediasecrets4333]

Ap na kaha k ap public session main nai discuss karin ga us ko but why

[@mariakhanam1072]

From Bangladesh

[@lintaimran4590]

Age Ki limit lagana bohat bura Hy Mari bati NY iss bat ko suffer keya

[@faizayaqub396]

With due respect though I appreciate his thoughts and initiative on homeschooling etc. But I have yet to find a single clip or video where he is not distracted by his own opinions and thoughts when it comes to answering a simple question. I have yet to find a simple answer of a simple question in his videos. And then if you want to ask him directly then there are insane prices of session on the website. Okay so we don't send the kid to school then what? Are your mothers educated enough to decide where to start and what to choose? If you have a platform, make it easier to approach the right people. His videos always leave me confused honestly. Like in this particular video where are the answers? Where is the answer to her first question?

[@Haidar_71]

You are so right. It feels like he is bombarding the other person with knowledge and I'll never chose him as my child's mentor reason being he will leave him confused. Idk he has knowledge but doesn't know how to communicate. Always telling people that their questions are wrong their thinking is wrong. There is no patience and to the point answer.

[@foseem-mi5fr]

Sir plz plz QURAN HIFZ student k leye b btyn

[@sanasayed3468]

❤

[@sameerhassan7652]

Aslam Alikum wa Rahmatullah??? To everyone.... Basically I m from kashmir (anantnag) glad to have that finally my thinking is coincidence with someone in kashmir .... This message is particularly to that very person (Raunaq Hashmi) will you just tell me anantnag mai app kaha reta hu app.. waiting for your answer ????

[@irshadbhatofficial2759]

I am also from kashmir

[@AdnanKhan-jn8dz]

Bhai aapko mila unka contact??

[@kocengineering769]

As Salaam alaikum sir Ji bohot zaroori hai Magar log WEIRD

[@ayeshazahra7614]

Study is not an easy task home schooling is good for obedient and theta type students

[@erumsgoodlife9582]

Doing homeschooling becoz i feel maaon ko active hone ki zarurat hai bs....

[@mayaali144]

True

[@frengsapien2722]

Assalamualaikum, can you please help me how can I learn about this concept, how are you going about it.

[@kinghussain10]

May I know how to contact sahil to ask question

[@raffatperveen3150]

This is the way to think as a Muslim not identity yourr self on the bases o country but as a Muslim

[@lovleen00]

I am in Kashmir and would like to ger in touch with this sister, but i dont know how 😔

[@amnaasim3342]

Is anyone doing homeschooling in isb... So we can contact

[@nusrattasneem5671]

Home schooling kaise ki jaye ,ye toe iss ne bataya hi nahi.

[@anilaaamir9360]

I am in canada,I want my son to join,pls guide me

[@shahanazanjum8398]

Sahil jab bhi koi banda jami jamai tahzeeb ko chenge Lana chahta hai log uske Dushman ho jate Hain hamare Nabi ki misal hamko yehi to batati hai.

[@raahimgameing4752]

Jo ek cheez or uska dimagh mangraha hai wo ap kab batae gy i want to know

[@syedwasim9236]

Sir, It is too hard......

[@sabihaali6660]

Plz any one answer me i am from India

[@abrargill9458]

7 to 10th Age tk Computer Programming b seekhani chaye Math k sath sath, I think wo formulas b math k hen or agy life may ja k kam b aye gy

[@tayyibaqudsia1846]

السلام علکیم ،سر پلیز آپ بتا سکتے ہیں آپ کا سکول پاکستان میں کہاں ہیں ؟ اور آپ کی ٹیچرز آن لائن ہمارے بچوں کو پڑھا سکتی ہیں_

[@zainabamin7408]

He is in Islamabad ,I this his school is in islmabad

[@humaadnan6361]

Address

[@shehrbano8483]

میرے تین بچے ہیں ،میرا بہت دل کرتا ہے کہ بچوں کو ہوم سکولنگ کراؤں۔۔۔ پر یقین کریں کہ بچے بعض اوقات اتنا تنگ کرتے ہیں کہ بندے سے ڈانٹ ایسے سرزد ہوتی ہے کہ بندہ قابو ہی نہیں کر پاتا۔ تو مجھے اس سائیکالوجسٹ کا کہا یاد آتا ہے کہ ایک پتھیٹک ماں بچے کو شاید فائدے سے زیادہ نقصان دے دیتی ہے۔ تو یہ ہر بندے کے بس کی بات نہیں ہے، جب تک آپ خود کو اس لائق ثابت نہیں کر پاتے یا سمجھتے تب تک یہ فیصلہ ہرگز نہ لیں۔ اور آپ کو ساتھ کوئی سپورٹ ہو، مطلب یہ کہ چوبیس گھنٹے ماں کے ساتھ بچے بندھے رہیں تو ماں بحیثیت انسان تھکتی ہے۔ اور پھر فرینکلی وہ اتنی آئیڈیل نہیں رہتی جتنی کہ لٹریچر میں پائی جاتی ہے۔ اور ساحل بھائی کی یہ آنٹیوں والی بات ٹھیک ہے کہ جب تک بچے پالنے کا ذاتی تجربہ نہ ہو تب تک ہوم سکولنگ کا نہ کسی کو مشورہ دیں، نہ خود کریں۔

[@m.ibrahimshahidm.shahid303]

100 agree . Me aaj kl khud isi halt sy guzr rai hn

[@WritesUrdu]

Yes u r right dear sis...ghar k kamm aur responcibilities....bachoo k bahviour ka notice to kr leti hn .but no time for kids like a good teacher

[@Gamerbhai666]

Ma apnay kid KO namaz e fajar k bad parhate the

[@sadiagul9724]

Ohhho mn v

[@Maryamkamagic]

I think deen ko mukammal taleem ma ko deni chahiye mukammal aur asal deen ki sirf ibadat ki nhi...aur isme bhi puri family ka cooperate zruri h

[@zuhaabdullah9861]

Schools should be 3 days a week ... It will be enff

[@Muneebawan650]

Aoa

[@maryamusman2373-vlog-]

Muje Pakistan ma apny bachoun k ley koi acha home schooling chahey

[@naziaalishah6311]

How to learn home schooling??? My son is 2.5 years I want to home school him.

[@naziaalishah6311]

@@ladyboss5491 Sana sk diaries on KZbin?

[@ladyboss5491]

@@naziaalishah6311 yes

[@Muhammed_Talha71023]

Check out alasna institute they have courses on homeschooling

[@marifatelahi-n6s]

Assalamualaikum sir i am also from Kashmir u told that We r free but whole world knows We r occupied abt 3 million forces r present here u also know how We r going through how We consider ourselves we r free plz reply plzzzz

[@naveed4274]

Our identity should be displayed as a Muslim, that’s how we are free…. First of all we are Muslim Neil se le kr tabkhak e kashghar

[@lifewithsarosh]

Ager bachy gher beth kr perhny ma serious hu kr k na krn tu kya krn

[@jahanara3536]

Raunaq hahmi...I want to contact how u go through home schooling I desperately want to have ideas about that

[@rehanatufail4096]

School boht zaroori hain religious education waldain ki zimmadaari hai us ki home schooling karain

[@shahanazanjum8398]

Yes 🥰😂✅👍

[@jahanara3536]

Raunaq hshmi

[@Tippy257]

I don’t think you should encourage parents to homeschool. Some parents are just not equipped to teach. Plus you don’t want kids at home all the time, they need to develop social skills or they will get depressed and won’t be able to function properly in the world. Kids should go to school, then when they come Home parents can help with homework etc or get tutors help. But keeping them at home all the time is not right, the child belongs to us for their safety but the are also individuals, they need to develop confidence around other children. Plus in Islam there is a concept of teacher and teaching , teachers don’t have to be parents when in comes to education . But yes parents have to teach other stuff like respect, manners etc.

[@shoz2491]

A lot of ppl in the west r turning to homeschooling also Cos the curriculum is just useless

[@afaqashraf9955]

An other education disaster …. Home Education rather to work or start Grooming From Home along with conventional Edu

[@Motivatedyoutuber23344]

Inka answer kbhi clear nahi hota