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How To Do The Thing You're Afraid To Do | Start Your KZbin Channel / Sabbatical / Coaching Business, Sis! Is fear paralyzing you and preventing you from taking the steps you need to live your dreams? It's not your fault. There's a lot of hashtagfearless propoganda out there that tells us if we feel fear, we're doing something wrong.
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[@StephaniePerry]

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[@coachdonnaj]

When is the deadline to enroll for 6 Day Challenge “Get Your Next 3 Clients”?

[@rasheedahabdullah8799]

I am interested in having a 1 on 1 chat?

[@JohnWayne-xl4wu]

Dedication Anita Baker how does it feels

[@kims9256]

I am convinced that some people are getting paid to give a thumbs down. Great video Stephanie! You look great!!!👍🏾❤

[@ThaliaSanders]

Never underestimate bots 🤖 and the technology of the superseded competition. I’m pretty much neutral, and a free spirit.

[@StephaniePerry]

Thanks Kim!! 💗

[@coachdonnaj]

Courage comes before confidence!

[@StephaniePerry]

That's right! And courage isn't the opposite of fear, it's just the step after. 💗

[@ThaliaSanders]

Roar like a Lion, when you prayed; and praising God. No matter, the outcome, you shall be blessed and have favor because God gets the glory.

[@baileysraves9861]

U are the best coach ever! Your voice and words of wisdom just lifts me up!

[@StephaniePerry]

Thanks so much!! 💗

[@SANDYMILLER23]

Great video Stephanie. My fear is to have people help me. I'm used to doing everything alone. I just finished my moderate/severe special education teaching credential at 49 years old. I'm afraid to ask for advice for interviewing for a teaching assignment. But l am going to do it. Thank you. You are a Jesus sent blessing.

[@JustPlayMusic6891]

Timely. Action cures fear. Sure. But also mindset helps to build a bridge over the fear to the goal/reward on the other side. So glad this video popped up today. It was reaffirming. Thanks.

[@StephaniePerry]

Yes! And Yes!

[@anniesshenanigans3815]

thanks for you videos. An inspiration. I quit my job in May, finally!! In your intro you say you are here to help black women, but I want to tell you that I feel inspired even though I am not one.

[@StephaniePerry]

Congratulations! 👏🏿👏🏿 I'm glad you're prioritizing YOU.

[@moneycoachmalika]

You inspired me to finally start my KZbin channel. Thank you!

[@trace3254]

Stephanie, you looking good today! I keep thinking of a young Pam Grier. You got me so hyped up I am ready to go to the next challenge.

[@StephaniePerry]

Also, sorry for all the bathroom talk. 😆🧻

[@dinibell]

@Stephanie Perry - No apology necessary. It was a good story, and I know that many of us - especially those of us past a certain age - could relate 😆

[@Outlaw-Creative-Junior1]

That reminds me of my brother, he died at 16, I was 14 when he died, he was a dumpster diver, I did that too, sometimes me and him looked in dumpsters together, after he died I gave it up for years, one day I was watching videos on KZbin when a dumpster diving video was in the list of videos and I wasn't looking for videos like that, yet I watched it anyway and later when I was at town, I checked a Dollar Store dumpster, I found a small amount of stuff and it rekindled that flame which me and my brother had when we dumpster dove, now I been doing that for a-long time now, every now and then I am BLESSED when I find items in the dumpsters. THANK YOU! and BLESS YOU!

[@apriljones1381]

A therapist once gave me a mantra: “I will not be afraid. If I am afraid, I will act opposite of my fear, and I will not be afraid.”

[@Kamase318]

I'm 68 years old, Stephanie, and feeling like I'm too old and am scared to branch out. It's based on moving abroad and doing house-sitting. Thank you so much for this vid.

[@trace3254]

I get it! I am 73! I followed Stephanies guidance. I joined TH, used her template and got my first housesit (locally to build references) just yesterday!!!! Talk about fear. I felt it really strong and while my hands and stomach were shaking, I got in my car and went to the interview. I am so proud of me!!!

[@trace3254]

Hey, Kamase.....what do you think we become accountability partners???? Something to explore. I am in Cali. Where are you?

[@Kamase318]

@@trace3254 ... I'm in Washington State, Trace. Thanks for contacting me.

[@sandrasgotvoice]

@@trace3254 Trace, you are amazing, and an inspiration to me!!!!

[@trace3254]

@@sandrasgotvoice Oh, thank you so much. I learned to conquer most fears a long time ago. I was forced to. So, here is my attitude. I can be afraid......while I am doing it! In other words, jump in. They got supermarkets, doctors, schools, cities, transportation etc all over the world. America has hypnotized and scared us into thinking that she is the best country in the world!! Sometimes NOT! I wish you well, Lady.

[@sacredlady.]

I'm terrified of nursing school, but I know I'm needed. Pray for me family, I'm 44 years old navigating 2 sick parents but I'm still jumping in, so yes feel the fear and do it anyway.

[@Kamase318]

All the luck in the world to you!!

[@mechiawilson164]

You got this sis 💪🏿😉

[@thepeacefulnavigator8624]

You’re so right about fear not going away until you face it. I used to think I’d only be able to do certain things AFTER I dealt with the fear. But I learned to accept fear and do things I wanted to do like teach in Asia, travel solo, meet new people despite feeling shy, and even going paragliding in China(probably a one time thing lol). I liked hearing about your experiences from basic training. Definitely intimidating but I know having those experiences behind you to reference felt empowering. I will be using the hall of fame tip in my life. Great video!

[@leemcfree2679]

You have been a source of inspiration of blessing to me, I just want to thank you for that I am afraid of moving to Panama but like you said I won’t let fear stop me so I started my TELF today and I get my loan tomorrow, house sitting is next so listen out for a call from me. Thanks again

[@trace3254]

I have been to Panama a few times to visit Afro expats. Panama is cool....English widely spoken, US dollar accepted and lots of foreigners there who worked on building the canal and never left. One thing to always remember.....if you try it and don't think it's for you.....you can leave and go elsewhere. You won't go to jail for redirecting and shifting.

[@StephaniePerry]

Congratulations on starting your TEFL certification class! I'll be waiting to talk with you. 💗

[@reginahutchinson4057]

Yes I am with you Team Do As Little As Possible.

[@stacyisnspireddantzler9704]

Me 3

[@sylviaalexander9791]

Hello Stephanie. I'm just about ready to take that leap. I just hope I won't be a news report about an old woman was found lost in Portugal and kept mumbling "Stephanie told me I could do it!"

[@jadegreen3282]

Sylvia,I’m looking to move to Portugal also and I’m a older woman.

[@sylviaalexander9791]

@@jadegreen3282 maybe we need to go together. We could find places near each other and have a friend in our new country.

[@hammejharris267]

🤣🤣🤣

[@trace3254]

@@jadegreen3282 Me too!!! I am older too. Have been researching and planning. It's been my Covid project. Portugal is now open to Americans.

[@reginahutchinson4057]

Ok Stephanie now I am actually listening to the whole entire video. You got me unstuck I have a long way to go but girl. You moving. I am plugged in to our whole Expat tribe.

[@reginahutchinson4057]

I will probably was this more than once. You are so good at what you do. YOU are literally my blanket like Linus. Like on The old show Peanuts with Snoopy. Your voice, the way you wave your hands the way you greet us all. YOUR kindness, yet firmness your fact. And your sister girl. YOU ARE confident as a black women. SO GLAD THAT I found the channel. And you are trusting and not afraid. I FEEL like you are family. I love our whole TRIBE OF EXPATS I really do

[@blackhannahofficial]

I concur. Love Stephanie. She is surely Black Excellence in our mist.

[@stacyisnspireddantzler9704]

I posted this on one of your other videos, but someone needs this post again… I am grateful for being able to be in a space where women like me have a “Choice” to be what we want to be, so what we want to do, and have what we want to have. I travel because my mom wanted to, but wasn’t able to fulfill her travels. We talked about it many times when I was younger in my early years of adulthood. Neither of us were able to afford it at the time. But now, I know better and doing better because of my eyes being opened to so much I missed out on. So much was hidden from “us”. Now, when I “feel” like going and I go!

[@TheBESTNEWSNETWORK]

Woohooooooo! Thank you, Stephanie 🎉🙏🏾🎉! Taking one step-at-time…that’s good stuff!

[@emerald9867]

When are you having your next KZbin challenge? I'm interested 😄

[@reginahutchinson4057]

I love when you say welcome you speak and teach with such respect and classy. it is easy to learn from your channel.

[@StephaniePerry]

Thanks so much Regina. 💗

[@emmayoung924]

I really want to move to Ankara Turkey. I would love some tips on what I should do to get there. Im currently in Atlanta GA. Any advice is welcome.

[@sarahtwamley3508]

You are wonderful and I appreciate your time and energy sharing. "Picking them up and putting them down." Yes, we were hiking up a heal with all our gear and we were out of shape for the adventure, so we decided to count our steps together, out loud to see if we would get to 200. We did! We counted another 200. We made it to the top in 563 steps!

[@allgoodthingsjamaican]

That colour is beautiful.on you Stephanie Perry!

[@twinmommygenise]

Thanks for the quick kick in the butt 😅. You’re hair is 🔥🔥today.

[@nappyqueen86]

You inspire me. I hope to one day find my niche and travel the world with my hubbie and 3 year old. Subbied before watching most of the video ;)

[@nemarrealty2964]

Fear is not a bad thing. It’s a build in mechanism that’s there to keep us safe. Irrational fear is a whole another thing.

[@reginahutchinson4057]

I am learning and you and the other ladies are making a difference in my life. You are from Delaware. I am born a raised in Philadelphia always hated it. moved to the Suburbs. Now in San Antonio, Tx. I may have mentioned it before.

[@nekeholland]

hey any one from Michigan I need an accountability partner

[@hammejharris267]

I officiated my first wedding. Whew!!! 1 down.

[@patriciawright4122]

Oh my goodness! I started crying about 2 min into listening to this 😔 I have done 'fear' all my life but somehow the last couple years have been brutal in regaining my confidence. I know what my fear is and what it always has been. So I 'feel the fear and do it anyway'! I'm all signed up for next week. Kudos 2 you Stephanie for posting this video. VERY timely indeed ❤✌🏾

[@nekeholland]

Don't have to meet each other just on texting or phone doesn't matter to me I just need the help and I can give the help also

[@JohnWayne-xl4wu]

Dedication Prince money doesn't matter tonight

[@blackhannahofficial]

I fear i won't make it out of here, due to too much baggage. Stephanie, I thought I was the only one Encouraged to tears by your videos, until I read a comment below. You truly speak LIFE & Inspiration. Thank you 🙏

[@agl5132]

Well said, Stephanie. We all have fear and I certainly have had it whenever I've moved cross country or abroad. I felt it when I studied and received my certifications in Hypnosis, Master/Teacher Reiki, Meditation etc. I'm feeling it now as I'm getting ready to move 5,000 miles abroad again to Mexico. The paperwork for the dog and covid testing(that could change as I'm traveling thru other countries) is a bit much. However, I remind myself I have the tools to calm myself, regroup, and having a moment to talk to my maker brings me back into trust and balance.

[@allgoodthingsjamaican]

Stephanie is soooo generous! So how amazing is this info?!

[@ednafernandes7572]

Thank you so much Stephanie 💓 such a good topic

[@EccentricxXxShadow]

I've been thinking about starting a business for a few months, but didn't because I felt like I had no clue what to do or how to do it. This year on Juneteenth I decided to take the leap. I'm sure it'll be a terrifying, but amazing experience.

[@pamjacobs2088]

You have a community here. Share. Ask for help. You have a bunch of really savvy women right here. What is your business? Your first client/customer mght be right here. Go!

[@EccentricxXxShadow]

@@pamjacobs2088 you're right! I'm a part-time photographer, so I'll be operating locally (KY/Southern IN) for now. BUT I have opened an Etsy shop whee I'm selling some of my prints. 3CrowsPhotographyArt is the shop name of anyone is interested. I hope to be uploading new images on a regular basis.

[@exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198]

Feel the fear and do it anyway. I am fearless Awesone video.

[@askplain]

Fear can be a fantastic motivator. Our ancestors must have been terrified when they ran away into the unknown to be free. They still ran!

[@dondattaford5593]

Great topic and the enthusiasm you conjur is spot on appreciate your efforts keep up and definitely encore another touch point thanks

[@StephaniePerry]

Thanks so much Dondatta! I hope it was helpful. 💗

[@reginahutchinson4057]

ok keep picking it up and putting it Down.

[@tiphMsSophia]

I needed this. Thank you ☺️

[@creativecollaborations1510]

❤️ Beautiful Blessings

[@heal_to_evolve]

Thank you for this video. I am going to film and edit my first KZbin video this week. I am a former Air Force member. I got through basic training so I can film a KZbin video!

[@stacyisnspireddantzler9704]

I know right!!! Same here. I’ve been putting it of for 2 years now. “Busy all the time… is my excuse all the time”.

[@jesussavesyeshedoes]

Thanks Stephanie.

[@trace3254]

Stephanie, did you get my email???? I just got my first housesit yesterday!!!!! Thank you. Thank you. I do need an accountability partner.

[@astralweekend9947]

I absolutely love your realistic & practical approach to life. It’s refreshing 🥰❤️🙌🏾. Fear is an emotion that should not be FEARED lol. Everyone wants to get rid of the things that we deem as negative when the real key is to CONTROL it! You’ve inspired me so much over the past few months I’m so happy to find your content. I’m gonna start my channel! ❤️

[@Maiden_Warrior_Crone]

Hi Stephanie! As someone who left the States years ago, I just adore your channel and personality! You're just fantastic! Only if you are ever out of video ideas, I wonder if you would please consider making a video on how to be more comfortable around animals, because I see that you housesit some pretty large dogs! I'm afraid I don't find myself quite so comfortable with animals. Also, I think I've heard you mention that you travel with only a carry on. Would you be interested in making a video on what you take with you? As a middle aged woman with natural hair, keeping my belongings well-edited is a constant concern. This is a great video, as well! I have just moved again and am looking forward to taking your house-sitting course. We appreciate all that you do! Love from Croatia!

[@Tahnaiya]

I appreciate this video and your others. I’m afraid of saying like, subscribe and share on my videos. Makes me feel uncomfortable.

[@caratexas713]

Hi Stephanie! You look beautiful. Thanks for sharing helpful information.

[@AD-mn8bg]

Hi Stephanie. I’ve done so much with fear leading the way. But I still dove in. Fear, like you indicated, is always there causing bumps in the road. I’m experiencing it again with the excuses of almost seventy, somewhat recent retired and with health issues raising its head. But I’m watching you (subscribed) and researching- taking action. Thank you being available and sending out guidance.

[@Shefightsdifferent]

Definitely needed this push today. I’ve been thinking about shutting my channel down or pushing! I know my content is needed and thankful I came across your channel!

[@libralady0220]

I am SO afraid to start this weight loss channel. I've been starting this channel for months, but when I get asked I come up with an excuse. "I need to get a laptop" "I recorded myself and I sound crazy" "I don't know how to create the channel" " I don't know how to edit" " I'm scared to put myself out there" " I need to wait until I have a really good camera" ....I have all the excuses! 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@ShamaraMurray]

Stephanie!! This is such a valuable message. I’ve come to realise this about fear and action, recently. Great reminder. I’m working through my fear performance on KZbin and writing a tv show, with me potentially acting in it too. 😬 thanks for sharing ❤️

[@HiFlyer-pz7bk]

Thank you for this video I will be reaching out. Bless you !!!

[@poemsbyj7888]

Appreciated this video. Thank you🙌🏿

[@ZoeysMusings]

I love how you were realistic And positive about fear. It shouldn't stop us from achieving greatness. This is much needed, Stephanie!

[@candacedawn357]

Thank you! I will definitely be watching this again! As a house sitter do you take care of pets (cats & dogs) too?

[@StephaniePerry]

I do! I'm in Tampa right now sitting for 4 dogs.

[@candacedawn357]

@@StephaniePerry Oh my! Well, you certainly have your hands full. I've always loved dogs but have had one at a time.

[@dphd5164]

I absolutely love your videos. This one was so perfect for me because I tend to let fear cause me hesitancy or procrastination. Only, oftentimes learning later that I was way ahead of the game. So I guess fear is a natural part of the process.

[@KaylahCreative]

This is an amazing message, Stephanie. I’m dealing with this big time with my new KZbin Channel but I had never considered the step of thinking back to past embarrassments that didn’t kill me to remind myself that I can survive another new thing!

[@YogaBlissDance]

Good luck on your new channel Kaylah! You can do it, it just takes persistence and a growth mindset.

[@KaylahCreative]

@@YogaBlissDance thank you so very much!

[@deloressss350]

I’m new and love it hereeeee 😍😘😘 thanks so much

[@nadeneinmexico539]

This was great all around!! Bless you for this. 🌺

[@reginahutchinson4057]

Stephanie this is it in a NUT SHELL great video

[@StephaniePerry]

Thanks Regina. 💗

[@reginahutchinson4057]

@@StephaniePerry I love your channel. You are the reason that I am moving again at all.

[@reginahutchinson4057]

@@StephaniePerry You are very welcome.

[@reginahutchinson4057]

This big pretty house in the backgroud.

[@lorraine725]

Thanks Stephanie I needed this recorded my podcast and haven’t had the courage to edit and send it.

[@StephaniePerry]

Report back Lorraine. Have you edited your podcast episode yet?

[@lorraine725]

@@StephaniePerry no but thank you for holding me accountable it is on my calendar or this weekend. I will report back.

[@greatfulthankful1716]

@@lorraine725 You can do it! What's the best that can happen? :-)

[@leticiathomas2415]

Accept when I am afraid but roll through it. Thank you Steph! ❤️😊

[@StephaniePerry]

You're welcome Leticia! 💗

[@sonnechaud3063]

You are an inspiration! Thanks for this wonderful content. :)

[@StephaniePerry]

Thanks so much for watching. 💗

[@mma85libra]

I'm afraid that you won't help certain women due to their skin color

[@StephaniePerry]

lol

[@TheSepia1]

Yes!! This video is so needed right now. I'm building a travel life!! You've been such an inspiration to me!!! Please check your DM's on Twitter. I would like to chat with you. I asked if you only use PayPal on Twitter. I really don't trust PayPal. I've had a few issues using PayPal. Hopefully I can use CashApp instead Sis! Have a Beautiful Day!!

[@StephaniePerry]

Checking right now 💨

[@StephaniePerry]

No problem Charysse. If you CashApp me, I'll send you the calendar link to schedule our call. $Sperry302

[@TheSepia1]

@@StephaniePerry Thanku so much!! Just sent you a CashApp payment ♥️

[@dwalker6868]

Thank you so much

[@learningmisso]

Greetings from Washington DC

[@StephaniePerry]

Hi Patricia! 👋🏾

[@Kat3369]

Always so timely

[@reginahutchinson4057]

Fear Fear Fear but You did get me unstuck and I am moving and planning my move to another County. I feel that I need to visit first. I have started teaching myself Spanish and French for starters and a few other things because of you THANK YOU I will be following you and the rest of our family or TRIBE