Feeling Stuck? Break Through ✨ | Self Care for Black Women

[@Torahtimes3]

THANKS STEPH!! I have created two goals. One, to get TESOL certification completed by July 31st. And two, to save for my sabbatical to travel in 2022. Here’s a pic of my ‘break through’ day. Loved putting my thoughts on paper. It gives me HOPE!! You are my hero!!! Well... I could not figure out how to upload the pictures. 😊

[@StephaniePerry]

I'm so glad you reported back, Deb! You can't upload a picture on KZbin comments, but if you post it on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram, tag me! I'm @vaycarious. I love that you've set specific goals with dates. Keep making progress! 💗

[@phoenixrising1242]

I told my brother the other day that I am moving to another country and he was so negative. Made me sad. Even my 85 yo mom was more supportive than him.

[@StephaniePerry]

Not everybody gets it right away. That's why we need to be in a community of like-minded people. And then remember that sometimes the people who don't get it at first will be the ones asking you how you did it later. 💗

[@officialjocelyn9108]

My cousin keeps trying to discourage me from traveling, but I think he's afraid that if I travel, it suggests a level of success that he hasn't achieved.

[@joyellesjourneys7892]

Same here. I’m doing this all alone. Ok The first to think like this so it was unfortunate when I didn’t have the support of “yes be the first” “that’s awesome, get after your dream” But it was more like “how you gonna do that(snarky tone)” “what happens when you run out of money(snarky tone)” “why you wonna do that(snarky tone)”. But it’s just them being afraid and angry they don’t have the audacity that we do, to do this. Keep going !!!! I support you!!!!

[@phoenixrising1242]

@@joyellesjourneys7892 thank you so much! You are right. I think my brother is afraid for me. I am his baby sister. I get it, but I am not a baby anymore. I am an exhausted 47 year old woman, and I am unhappy. I need to go somewhere peaceful and clear my mind. I will support you too!

[@phoenixrising1242]

@@officialjocelyn9108 Yes, jealous people will try to stop us. Then there will be people who will project their fears onto us. I am still going! WE are still going!

[@cassandraking5852]

Hi Stephanie! Thank you so much for this video. I took a sabbatical from work when I had a near breakdown. I lost weight on my already thin frame and my lovely locs that nearly touched my derriere became thin and broke. It gave me the time I needed to stop and think about why I am driving 45 minutes one way, in heavy traffic, wearing my car down, having serious insomnia the night before, spending over 100 weekly on gas, JUST to collect a paycheck. Then, once there in that horrid red, brick building with no windows, I had to deal with the most *potent form of vampirism I have ever experienced.* I knew that there must be more to life than being sucked dry in exchange for money. My Sabbatical gave me something that I needed: Time to Think. I never went back. Now, my life is a bit easier due to the fact that I work from home 100% and my circle of companions is very, very small. The next step for me is leaving the US semi-permanently for a country where I blend in with my melanin. Your videos are helping me so much! I've been binge watching them almost daily. Thank you so much!

[@orlettacaldwell]

Keep pushing us, Sistas, to be who we were born to be! You are a blessing. My breakthrough day was last Friday. Developing processes to develop my online presence in my business so I can expatriate to the islands.

[@StephaniePerry]

I'm so glad Orletta! Keep making progress. 💗

[@phoenixrising1242]

Thank you for all you do Stephanie.

[@jessicaran148]

I’m moving, my break threw day was last week, because I’m just sick and tired of living in NY. I can’t wait to get out of here, but I was so afraid of moving for so long. I didn’t realize it, but I was making excuses not to move out of fear. I just told my landlord that I’m leaving and I’m filling out my forms to transfer my state certification since I’m a healthcare worker and I’m moving to a new state. I feel very empowered and I’m no longer afraid I’m excited now. I can’t wait to be out of NY and I’m so proud of my journey and how fare I’ve come.

[@StephaniePerry]

I'm proud of you too, Jessica! I hope your new city is welcoming and wonderful. 💗

[@jessicaran148]

@@StephaniePerry thank you

[@lorraine725]

Stephanie no matter how many times my notification pops up and I say to myself “I am not watching I am no where near ready” but here I am !!! Lol thank you for all you videos and for all you and the ladies do.

[@carolporter3831]

I really needed to stumble up on this page...Lord I thank you!!!!

[@StephaniePerry]

Welcome Carol! 💗

[@d.moniquem6341]

Hi Stephanie, thank you for your videos and sharing your experiences. I’ve been enjoying watching some of your content. In today’s video, there was one key phrase that resonated with me: over 50. I’m on a path, a second chapter if you will, and every so often the fact that I’m now over 50 pops into my head or is buzzing somewhere in the background. Hearing those words and reading your mention of being in community with like-minded persons gave me an additional boost. Blessings to you for what you’re doing and for sharing of yourself.

[@BRANDNEW715]

Glad I found your channel!!!❤

[@canniwork3332]

Hello from Texas.

[@reneehenderson6134]

This video was encouraging and to the point that it was entrancing. I was so interested, but I fell asleep during parts of it - not out of boredom, but because the information was somehow logically relaxing. Then I'd startle awake at the next numbered step. At 66 years old, I finally have a blueprint for combining a career move with personal fulfillment. I will never retire so I might as well enjoy what I do. Thanks, so much.

[@Notorious_Conundrum]

Yes, I am VERY stuck on the make money train!!😳🙂

[@beforeyougo7490]

Looking forward to my Breakthrough Day! Great way to start the journey. Thank you.

[@Susan-ds1th]

Hi Stephanie, I am going to purchase session with you because I AM READY TO TAILOR my sabbatical. You are my hero, and I need that voice-voice boost. Scheduling with you will be a task on my "breakthrough day." Also, am ready to support others on their life dreams. Also, I want to share with you what I'm doing with my hands! You are the best!

[@professlch6347]

You GAVE at the office today; goodness! Thanks for everything you've said, offered, linked, and provided.

[@clswisher5788]

I did a breakthrough day in multiple days. I will be traveling to Mexico soon for a recon. I have plans to go back to Mexico within weeks. I also realized that I want to live in many parts of Mexico and I figured a way to do it. From there, I will move to other countries using the same approach to live in different parts of the world. Its so clear now.

[@geadonnamoore2719]

Beautiful hair!

[@t.l1357]

Thx Stephanie. I need to get this online income into full swing

[@StephaniePerry]

Do you know the first step to take?

[@t.l1357]

@@StephaniePerry not at all. I'm trying to figure out if I have some sort of niche but I don't 🤦🏽‍♀️. I decided to learn more about investing in the meantime. I figure I can at least grow the money I have. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@nelliehyder8303]

(2-3-2024) My first time watching this video. Good information. Thanks for sharing.😊😊😊

[@Red_lipstick_n_locs]

Lawd....this is what I need! I'm ready to go!

[@denellwilliams2211]

You are an inspiration 😀. Thank you for all you do!

[@R-London7]

Hola Stephanie from Mexico City, You should try your hand at pottery/ceramic making. Especially here in Mexico.

[@StephaniePerry]

Gracia Roderick. 💗

[@allsmiles3281]

I have an interest in this honestly. Anything crafting.

[@reginahutchinson4057]

This such a good video

[@StephaniePerry]

Thanks so much for watching Regina! 💗

[@reginahutchinson4057]

@@StephaniePerry on the fence needing a change little money of course afraid yep feeling stuck but will to try , jump or do something as start this is why I keep watching. Stephanie you actually got me unstuck with the first video a little. I have to find the courage I need a total life career make over I will keep watching. Thank you so much for what you are doing.

[@marvettaholland6532]

Stephanie I recently started learning adult ice skating. I love it! The falling down and getting back up too. Ready for the new!!!

[@StephaniePerry]

Hey Marvetta, that sounds so fun! ⛸

[@expressiontees9676]

Another great video and topic!

[@StephaniePerry]

💗💗

[@neveralone7]

I am not a huge of Tony Robbins either but some things he says make sense

[@StephaniePerry]

I feel the same way.

[@tanyaslifeandstyle816]

Thank you Stephanie!!

[@StephaniePerry]

You're welcome Tanua! 💗

[@PamelaDoss]

Thank you!!

[@officialjocelyn9108]

Hi Stephanie! I am happy in my current situation--after work. My job is relatively easy, but I don't make the money I want. I want to vacation, but I don't know what that looks like. I'm a homebody that enjoys Asian dramas. Your videos have taught me that I don't want to go to China....maybe Thailand? What is your day to day life like? I just want to watch dramas and eat interesting foods. Should I start with a cruise?

[@StephaniePerry]

Thailand, Korea or Japan are really good choices. Hopefully the borders will open up to us again soon. Basically eating interesting foods is half my day. 😆 If you want to experience Asia, I don't know if a cruise would be a great fit. You spend most of your time on the boat, not in the country you're visiting. I hope you're working on a plan to see the place you want to see. Also I recommend the Solo Sistas Facebook group: facebook.com/groups/774183773051958

[@officialjocelyn9108]

@@StephaniePerry Thank you for responding! I feel seen and I appreciate and am thankful for you and your perspectives.

[@lindaw1750]

Hey 👋🏾

[@Humblywise]

Hi Stephanie 👋🏼 I'm interested in the worksheet. Went to your website and could not find it 😢

[@Notorious_Conundrum]

When the money gets low...is there a certain amount that you use as a threshold before deciding to go back to the US (so that you are not stuck in a foreign land unable to get back home).

[@reginahutchinson4057]

Honestly to start I would like to start house sitting in the USA and end up experiencing so travel and seeing it this is something that I could do long term. With no husband ever married, no money I would need to build create expand and pick up a new trade or skill this is ok I have always do it alone. I am a caregiver, or customer host I deal with special needs. AND HERE IS THE BIG PART BECAUSE OF ALLERGIES I want to house sit but IS THERE A COMMUNITY WHERE I CAN HOUSESIT, with no BEAUTIUFL FURRY FREND.

[@keishapowell7771]

🙌

[@magnolya8]

Your pooch don't like him neither 🤣 the second you said his name, puppy said Nope😂

[@josepha-michalwalker1261]

I don't see the link for the over 50 mindset video below. Did I miss it?m

[@flomccarther5632]

Stephanie are you on messenger I want to get a consultation with you.

[@StephaniePerry]

Hi Floretta! You can book a one-on-one call with me here: vaycarious.com/callme My DMs are in shambles. 😭

[@flomccarther5632]

@@StephaniePerry Understood. Is there a preferred time?

[@reginahutchinson4057]

Are there house sits with no animals because of my allergies I heard that is was few. If I COULD OVER THIS HUDDLE I WOULD BE IN FULL THRODDLE and I pay my bills and take care of myself work location independent. I WOULD even be will willing to create a community. Stephanie please help I know that you are experienced. THE RENT and other fee are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy over my head. I will change this life one step at a time. I feel that there is much more. And this can not be my dry life I JUST need to paint and create a new picture

[@t.l1357]

Me too. I think longer housesits may be better. I've heard people say they didn't deal with pets on those. Good luck!

[@reginahutchinson4057]

@@t.l1357 We may have to create it or maybe it's called something else. Good luck