how to find your aesthetic + style *reinventing yourself*

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M U S I C C R E D I T S
Intro & outro: Always on My Mind - Paper Twins
Background: Good Look (Instrumental Version) - Lasse Lyx
F A Q
Where are you from?
I was born and raised in the Netherlands, this is also where I currently live. However, I’m half Nigerian.
How old are you?
I’m 20 years old, my birthday is on August 12.
What camera do you use?
For my main videos use the Canon M50 and I vlog using the Canon G7X.

[@nneomaa.572]

i'm currently on a journey of coming into my own and being unapologetically me, so this video is really helpful. Thank you!

[@helenacipolla9602]

n’chanted the way you’ve put into words exactly what i think :0

[@THEGREATESTOFALLTIME17]

you got this girl be yourself :)

[@nneomaa.572]

R U T H ❤️❤️

[@nicole.k5700]

same, really be out here watching every ‘how to find your style/ confidence’ videos

[@LisaOnuoha]

🤍🤍🤍

[@jean-ox4gv]

never compare your living, breathing, beautiful self to someone else's controlled online content

[@reaunasims]

1:16 I love this part when you talked about changing who you are on the inside before you change the outside. I love that you talked about your struggles when you were younger it made me relate to you more 💜.

[@Mookayla._]

Wow, I’m trying to come into my own style too. I’ve been thrift shopping a lot recently because I feel like shopping in certain stores can distort my decision about the clothes that I buy vs the clothes that I actually love making me wanna fit into trends (which isn’t bad because everyone loves a good trend) but wearing clothes that YOU love is the best. plus it’s cheaper ☺️ and sometimes you can have amazing finds. So if you wanna experiment, or just wanna try things out without breaking the bank, I highly recommend thrift shopping. Remember that your aesthetic is who you are and what you love 💕

[@leahthomas1268]

Unpopular opinion: I think having one "aesthetic" is stupid. It limits what fabrics and colors you can or "should" wear. To me fashion is wearing whatever the heck you want to regardless of what you wore the day before.

[@leahthomas1268]

@Melody Kwok I get where you're coming from

[@LisaOnuoha]

like i said in the video it’s definitely not necessary to have an aesthetic and u also don’t have to fit into one category! some people will enjoy it and some won’t..for me personally it just creates structure which i like a lot! :)

[@foggylenses91]

You can have more than one aesthetic. Also creating an aesthetic for yourself can boost your confidence and comfort. When who you are on the inside is displayed on the outside It will attract people who share those interests with you and will help you grow. It also gets rid of decision fatigue when everything in ur closet can be worn together and have similar styles, instead of having to pick a style for each day.

@@rosebud6116 ikr

[@nadinecassar11]

I respect your opinion but some people prefer being "aesthetically organized"even to the way they dress to feel more confident ect.ra!

[@emilykramny8660]

I feel like a lot of people focus on “finding them selfs” and it stresses them way to much! I think that u will find ur self with time and u don’t have to do it asap. What I want to say is, that I think that u should focus on things that bring u joy and don’t stress u out

[@xierra3741]

Yesss I agree, when you focus on things that bring you joy everything else just falls in place 💛

[@shayleent]

thanks for this reminder! i recently realized that i don’t really know who i am, and i’ve been stressing about it so much that i’m blocking myself from truly figuring it out. 😬

[@simplybran]

By the time you learn who you are you’re already changing. You should only strive to understand you will never really know and you’re so much bigger than words can describe. Learn to love who you are when you are that person and find peace in understanding that it’s ok and you can reinvent and recreate that person whenever you want. Other times life will force you to change and once you accept that you can better accept others who change as well.

[@lilibi3732]

This is like so inspirin and such a positive video. Most people just explain different type of aesthetics. Wasnt expecting this!! Thank you sooo much

[@cjyayaya]

God bless you! Jesus loves you! remember its never to late to come to him or come back to him. he loves you so much and cares for you. "If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me" Revelation 3:20 💗✨

[@DezTheSlayer]

Lately I’ve felt stuck and seem to be radiating some negativity w out even noticing. I also find myself being short tempered and I definitely feel like this was a sign to do something about it. Thank you for your advice Lisa ❤️

[@CycyExavier]

Currently in a mission to become the "better version" of myself and getting out of my shell. I feel like I missed out and still am missing out on many things because ive been closed off. Which is why I'm going out of my way to do certain things i was terrified to do. I speak to more people, created a KZbin channel, and i try really hard to open up more to my family. Rant done😂

[@jhh9291]

You explained my life! We got this!

[@its.phiwokuhle3462]

Supporter from South Africa 🇿🇦 we love you ❤️

[@j3nnxtdoor]

🥂🥂❤️

[@tameecahendricks9701]

Totally agree!!! 🇿🇦❤️

[@beekaym4422]

Yes 🥂

[@kayleewagner]

Yeeeah🤩

[@azania4776]

Yessirski❤️

[@nonduduzophini8746]

your're such an inspiration mentally especially, I've dealt with extreme anxiety and i found that having a routine and being consistent helped me so much and I see so much of that in your content

[@anonymousb5019]

✨Lisa, I admire the way you express yourself with such a chill kind of vibe, your creative ideas for the journey of self discovery in this video is so relatable, and it’s nice to hear positive advice uplifts people during these hard times ✨

[@qaqambasdiary1527]

Lis' perfect timing. I am struggling with identity crisis which has impacted my daily life one second i wanna be like this the next like that. This was helpful 💖✨.. you're golden ✨

[@simplybran]

By the time you learn who you are you’re already changing. You should only strive to understand you will never really know and you’re so much bigger than words can describe. Learn to love who you are when you are that person and find peace in understanding that it’s ok and you can reinvent and recreate that person whenever you want. Other times life will force you to change and once you accept that you can better accept others who change as well.

[@elenascrolling]

Can we please all appreciate how well thought through this video is and what an important message lisa is sharing with us all? just love it! She is such a great influencer, not like any of the others :)

[@LisaOnuoha]

🥺🥺

[@meaganklein15]

This is what a lot of influencers don’t put out there - thank you for letting us know that you lose yourself in the process of making it ❤️

[@dunjadabetic3208]

This is not just how to find your style its like how to find your lifestyle you always dreamed of. This really just motivates me in so many ways . You explained thing so good i am going to actually take notes . Thank you, sending you love from Serbia 💖

[@Isabella-jv5jx]

I really was sooo confused on how to start off with how to find my style or just find who I am as a person , I truly have found who I am in 2020. Just my style has been all over the place and I really wanna show who I am physically if that makes sense. This has definitely helped me ! Thank you for this content 🥺💕

[@brownbettybby]

Legit was coming to the conclusion that I have no style...but I think I just never truly found my aesthetic(s), definitely gonna use your tips to assess my life and wardrobe!!

[@shortti3]

I just turned 29 and im still evolving and changing however I agree with all of these points. Also, at my core, I'm pretty much the same which I love because that means its authentic. I love when ppl i know seee or send me things and tell me that's "so me" it means my vibe is visible and consistent.

[@michellekaras7977]

I drop everything whenever Lisa uploads.

[@Morarchive]

Just a second to appreciate this LOOK you look GORGEOUS 🌸🌸 Spreading positivity with absolute elegance oh wow

[@keithmoon6693]

Your voice is so cute. Thank you for your first advice: who are you in the inside. This is the most important thing. Kisses.

[@LisaOnuoha]

🤍

[@NatashaAkhtar]

i absolutely love how genuine and real you are about your personality and how much you have changed. so glad i have come across your channel- to glowing and growing 🥂💗

[@tinnycan5303]

Now this girl has got the right mindset!

[@ariyoomotola5496]

I really loved this especially since I've been thinking about writing a blog post on it for some time so this is inspiring. Also, the tip with unfollowing people who make you feel insecure resonated with me, being a blogger isn't easy but what's easy is looking at what other people have compared to you and becoming envious. It isn't healthy at all, so after realizing that, I unfollowed those people and I felt a sense of freedom.

[@abigaillafleurr]

Wow i didn’t think reinventing yourself would be as deep as inside. Thank you for this i needed that

[@sindy1085]

I love this!!! You actually care about making good content and putting good information out there - not just superficial “tips”. It’s clear you put a lot of thought into this video✨ and i feel like you’ve opened up a lot more in your videos over the past months and it’s so cool to see your on camera confidence grow ❤️

[@SierraMaelynn]

ahhh its nice having someone talk about all the things I want to do but don't know how to explain to people who don't understand. I have been contemplating for SO long what aesthetic I want to be and how to grow. this video helped so much! thank you

[@hassedrewes8884]

absolutely love how you explain that an aesthetic is so much more than your outfits 💕💕

[@m4e7]

I’m just now starting to show the true me outside of my house and this really helped me so thank you for your encouragement and help.

[@selinalyuan1769]

this was a bomb video. It's great to see influencers like you who use their platform to talk about these topics, this is really encouraging to many people. Go girl, i'm a big supporter of you!

[@mariamz4]

So glad ur feeling better, ur amazing ❤❤❤❤

[@olubebe]

I loved this video Lisa! I’m currently trying to figure out the style of clothing I want and my aesthetic as I’m going into uni/college and this video was so so helpful. I loved how you touched on being true to yourself and not it being something forced. I love your style and I can’t wait to take the steps to emulate the tips you gave. Love you lots and your channel, keep growing! 😊💖

[@sushisnake9]

You have no idea how much this changed my perspective on things

[@celineha1187]

Loved the first point!!! People should include this more into fashion videos!!! Thank you, loved it 🧡

[@luandak9033]

This was honestly much needed cuz i feel like i already know my style but when i watch your videos and question my style and want to be your aesthetic 💘😭

[@ashleytinofara5670]

you inspire me so much, thank you for being you.

[@leastroud9423]

This has helped me so much .. I’ve been struggling with all these things and you just gave the best advice I’m so happy I watched this ! 🌷💖💘

[@ivana4075]

Come through with the white looking all angelic 🤍 also possible future vid idea (that you didn’t ask for lol) a timeline of your fashion journey/phases you have had throughout the years ✨

[@nonjabulobuhle7431]

Lisa what color mix are your braids, I’m literally in love🥺

[@LisaOnuoha]

its 2 ombre packs from xpression mixed

[@rubiseptember4002]

baby girl and consistency are like best friends 😍❤️.

[@adebs]

the first point was really spot in, we need to look inwards before we can change anything outwards

[@ANNA.BOGOART]

You don’t even know how helpful it was ! You’re just so real and amazing 😍

[@grey29825]

You have a really really calming energy. This video was super nice

[@jajsanir]

Here’s to hoping my self confidence improves as consistently as Lisa comes out with great content! 🌸✨

[@Tebu_D]

You never fail to inspire me Lisa🥺. Thank you so much for being you, you literally pushed me to start my own channel and take my creative passions seriously. I love you so much❤

[@stephaniesentosa5428]

I just got a new job and feels like I'm hitting the reset button because that's been stressing me out for so long, been looking to refine my style and just be a nice person. You're so lovely and I'm glad I found your channel

[@itskeaira]

i love your videos so much, and i have been struggling with finding myself because i have had some past times i have changed myself because i didn’t like it and i wanted to be someone i’m not. but i have actually learn to be myself, i’m just still trying to find myself and this helps a lot. you inspire me and motivate me so much and i thank you 🥺

[@reaganbrooks7641]

My fave thing to do is type brands I love into the Depop search bar !!! It’s great because it’s second hand so it’s better for the environment and it often so so so much cheaper from buying from the actual stores ! X

[@michellejones7881]

yasss gurl! I do the same thing

[@GennieCarver]

you are officially the prettiest person I've ever seen

[@blakberri1460]

What I'm doing is finding something I like (glitch aesthetic) and then deciding what I don't like IN that aesthetic (dark colours) and then fix it up so that it fits me (making it pastel/neon).

[@FurrNana]

I find it so hard to display who I am aesthetically on my channel ... thank you for this video ✨definitely gave me a sense of direction. 🧡

[@konamenoname4244]

Yaaas queen 👑 I love the white blazer moment, giving therapist vibes. Your aesthetic is everything. I just struggle finding my style on a really tight budget, almost non existant budget. 😂

[@carlotacordeiro7739]

love your aesthetic, already know is gonna be a great video! love youu

[@gabriellaotegbade6765]

Lisa: Find someone who inspires you. Me:You inspire me 🙂

[@YennyAdepoju]

loved how you talk about building your inner aesthetic too!

[@hottestdaddy5695]

Okay, but how are you SO PRETTY?!

[@heraaaaaaaa]

I'm so happy u made this vid. lately I've been having trouble understanding where I fit in and u really inspire me to become a better version of myself like seriously tho ur like the older sister I never had! ✨❤️

[@daniellesappleton]

This is a great video and thank you for letting people know that the inside matters too because the key really is feeling good about yourself inside❤️

[@reesexlouisex9548]

Love your videos and the fact that you focused on the mental aspect when it comes to reinventing yourself. I also noticed a change in your personality. I have been watching your videos since the beginning of your channel and I am in love with your :). Thank you for all of , I am trying to improve in my mental health and keep on being motivated in school. Keep going, ya. P.s: Sorry for my , I am from ;)

[@ottaviabattaglia1314]

literally I'm rewatching this video for the fifth time, I LOVE U, LIKE THIS VIDEO IS AMAZING I LITERALLY ASPIRE TO BE LIKE YOU

[@mariamz4]

Ur literally the most amazing person I've seen today

[@cansets1692]

So I'm over here just trying to figure out my aesthetic and now I have great life advice, a want to change my lifestyle, and my own new aesthetic with its very own name. So like, thank you for giving me the will to not just be a lazy slump :)

[@nadiaishimwe3663]

I swear I have like 3 (or more😵) different styles😭✌🏾 this was so helpful, girly, thank youu 😚✨

[@user-xt7gd6gn5k]

omg I am in love with your nails!!

[@luthailaarkeldien5105]

love your white outfit stunning much love🤗❤️

[@artsy_skies_]

I needed this! Lately i’ve been feeling very insecure.. and now i’m trying to improve myself mentally and find myself! ❤️

[@reaunasims]

I get my inspo from you 💛 I love your aesthetic, it’s so unique.

[@jr-is6ys]

lisa! i was seriously having this problem, its like you read my mind. thanks sis

[@danaf2537]

your channel has been so inspiring to me! I felt like I really needed this video! thanks babe!

[@MaddieLowex]

I actually love this video ! Ur so genuine and down to earth can tell u genuinely care abt ppl finding them self xx

[@YogiSings4]

YOU LOOK STUNNING!

[@staceykingston243]

Such a beautiful person inside and out Lisa !

[@montelitzz]

didn't know how much I needed to see this video until I did. this is gold.

[@Andyportia]

The gift that keeps on giving🌸 you such an inspiration love you 🌸

[@natashamain2846]

This has to be my favourite video from you. Thanks for this❤❤

[@abigaillafleurr]

Funny thing is that you inspire me🤗 love you

[@iKalere]

thank you for this! and you are the best person for this topic!

[@Seisha-Eagle]

Love! Your delivery impeccable as always...we simply adore you🌈💕

[@creativecat5946]

this changed my life :)

[@Just.me.salima67]

Thank you this helped me learned a lot ima make a inspiration board and set goals and when go shopping ill get what clothes I like

[@nim_19]

This was so deep I wasn’t expecting this😭😂 but so useful! and your voice/ accent is beautiful ❤️

[@Justalizzday]

Wow ik volg je nu al best een tijdje en kom er nu pas achter dat je Nederlands bent! You’re style is really amazing 🤩 je bent denk ik oprecht een van de mooiste meiden in Nederland bc damn you’re are fly

[@rosefalmond]

off topic but you're actually so pretty like

[@gracexson]

lisa you keep coming though with the heat 🥺 haven’t even watched yet and i know i’m going to love it!

[@YennyAdepoju]

I love your white blazer!!

[@mutsss5141]

Ouuuuu I was so excited when I saw your thumbnail !!!😂😂💓

[@aishakina5512]

LOVE THE NEW JEWELRY LISA!!!

[@miraelodie5729]

YOU ARE STUNNING OMG

[@saber_tooth_tiger]

This video was very useful. I hope you go far in life

[@MoMotivation0304]

I know many ppl practice different "religions" but I found what helps & makes the approach of becoming spiritual easier is, understanding that it's NOT about religion. It's about having a relationship with your Creator. Seek & you will find out the precious will of God for us all.

[@rakshyakafle5603]

Made me feel so good ! I needed this thank u girl

[@cassiacastro210]

im absolutely in love with ur youtube. queenn

[@nutella4658]

She is sooo pretty

[@kaylak.9473]

yesss, focus on the inside before the outside. thanks for saying that 💓

[@aestheticmoodz1131]

Girl you are cute and I like your aesthetics

[@gisellecordero1]

One of the most helpful and inspiring videos I've seen on this topic, thank you so much

[@namjesussssss]

THIS is what I was looking for since 3 years now. Finalluyyyy

[@LitLampReactions]

I just clicked on this video and omg can I just say you're so pretty