i too have a fear of failure. But someone said, "you're not really afraid of failing, you are scared of people's opinion on your failure" and that hits me. Better to try and fail than not at all
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
yess, that’s such a good point!
@Wennie-livingАй бұрын
really ME TOO! Although I've tried my best to tell myself not to care about other people's saying, sometimes I still subconsciously care about it.
@bisoo99999Ай бұрын
Yea it's my biggest fear honestly
@MalikRose12328 күн бұрын
@@mariatrappenwhich career you switch into?
@lamgoumangchongloi534428 күн бұрын
This is why i cannot achieved my goals. I thought i have this fear of failure but then what exactly i fear is what people, society will think about me if i fail.
@zouzou47123 күн бұрын
Fear means that you are outside of your comfort zone and that you are growing
@joeherro8723Ай бұрын
Yours ago, my wife and I went to Spain and visited Salvador Dali's museum in Figueres. In a short film, I heard Dali say, ""Lo que busca está en su alma." It translates to "What you are looking for, is in your soul." In my mind, that says it all. Thank you, Maria, for the reminder.
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
that’s such a beautiful quote❤️
@abhinandannuli757424 күн бұрын
@@mariatrappen It truly is!!! Loved the quote
@SanaShaikh04Ай бұрын
1. Feel the fear (Fear of failing < Fear of not reaching your potential). 2. Embrace the cringe. Do it anyway. 3. You don’t need to have it all figured out. Just have the first step in mind. 4. Discipline is the highest form of self-love: Be consistent. 5. Never stop learning. Leave the room if you’re the smartest one in it. 6. You cannot outrun your inner battles. Work on your emotional and mental wellbeing. Journal or go to therapy. Recognize your worth. Love yourself.🤍 It is all about the journey. Embrace it with all the ups and downs and you’ll find you are capable of achieving more than you’ve ever imagined. 💫
@Merve21-d8k25 күн бұрын
I didn't understand because she was talking without breathing. My English is bad. Thank you so much for writing.
@purplekings041425 күн бұрын
Thank you my lady !
@ryan9984228 күн бұрын
if you really want to change youre life, 'Unveiling Your Hidden Potential' by Bruce Thornwood is a must-read
@delnasony32964 күн бұрын
Where can I find it??
@sakat0800Ай бұрын
I turned 30 this year and i felt so lost all of a sudden. Felt so left behind and…. stuck. This video resonated with me so much! I’m also trying to rebrand myself in 90 days and I’m so scared. Thank you for the wonderful insights! Much love from the Philippines xx
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
I wish you all the best, you’ll manage to do it!!
@TheShiSachikoАй бұрын
I have the same struggle
@maricelgomez616811 күн бұрын
hello! I'm from the Philippines as well, how are you doing with your 90-day challenge? I hope you're still doing it! xx
@sakat080011 күн бұрын
@@maricelgomez6168 Ahh hello fellow Pinoy haha yes, I 'm still doing it! I'm a month into it so 2 more months to go. Mentally, I'm in a much better state now and much more at peace now
@maricelgomez616810 күн бұрын
@@sakat0800 I'm so glad you're getting good results already! good luck with your journey and stay safe always po!
@adityakonduru27 күн бұрын
I was feeling overwhelmed till today and I really needed this. This is one of the best videos I've ever watched
@jonathanbassett3656Ай бұрын
You being authentic is what makes me love your vids
@ev772017 сағат бұрын
oh maria, i just watched this amazing, amazing video of yours casually while folding my laundry, but oh, how did watching that affect me. i thank you from the deepest part of my heart for everything that you’ve said in this video. i might seem a bit exaggerated, but believe me when i say that among all the many, many videos that i watched through my journey of self-love, yours was the one that resonated with me the most. the way you spoke and what you said-literally everything about it-made me feel so emotional and so... fresh. so new. i hope you continue to be happy and at peace with yourself, and i promise both you and me that i will continue to work just as hard for myself too. thanks again 🩷
@Zee090Ай бұрын
What the heck, you only have 8.55K subscribers?! This is top tier content! I really like how you went through the points, and I really really love your aesthetic! In addition, I am also someone who’s afraid of failure AND not being perfect. I struggled with this mindset for such a long time that I saw myself crumble in 11th Grade. However, I took this summer break as an opportunity for myself to grow and worked towards my mindset, journaled more, read books, increased my productivity. I now go by the ‘I see it, I like it, I want it, I got it.’ mindset and believe me, with that mindset, I was able to land not one, but TWO internships for myself. As for failure, we don’t fail because we aren’t enough, we fail because we can then find another way, we always do. Keep up the great work
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
Thanks so much! I love the way you reframed failure and I’m so happy for your success, keep going!
@limario382427 күн бұрын
I really want to say thank you, my dear. I was feeling lost and a failure. And I will never reach my goals. I will remain a failure all my life, but your words now made me realize that I can change everything if I want to, thank you.I wasted two years of my life in secondary school because I want to reach the goal that I have in my mind. I felt that these two years that I am wasting now are the end of my life and that I will never become successful, but I promise you that I will not stop and I will get where I want, thank you .
@jacquelineschredt192125 күн бұрын
it's never too late, for real! :) I was the first time at this point in school and I was successful. it sure works for you too. 🌻 and I was in your situation for the second time (at the age of 24) and after almost 3 years I remembered it again and believe in it. I would even like to renew my life every 3-5 years before life forces me to do so 😅😁 Greetings from Germany 🌻 (I used Google Translate)
@PraiseAraАй бұрын
I can’t begin to express how grateful I am for this video and the timing of it ❤
@abhishekbansal61932 күн бұрын
First time in my life I just didn't love someone because she's beautiful. Your mindset your soul I just love it. Thank you for inspiring ❤
@BeniceeerАй бұрын
Maria, it's my first time seeing your channel and this is the first video, I loved it and you inspired me and gave me motivation to start the first steps of making my goals came true , you're right, if we care a lot about what other people say we wouldn't achieve anything, getting out of our comfort zones is the key ❤
@HelleJohansen-qt7riАй бұрын
I'm in tears... This is the exact video, that I needed. Thank you so much
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
So glad you resonated with it🤍
@Livingwitharpit122 күн бұрын
One thing I would surely tell you that your communication skills are way better than before and on camera work is very good as well and your aura is also peaceful, it is beautiful feels incredible ☺️
@Hjo261025 күн бұрын
Girl, you put words about the true goal behind self improvement that are such a good reminder. Most of the time when I see those kind of videos on my feed I don't watch it 'cause it seams unhealthy to change to become ''that girl'', but you explained everything in a way i've found really intersting. Thanks I needed this perspective
@Kaurcreates22Ай бұрын
im going to try and be more consistent for the next 6 months and hopefully get monetized on this because that is my dream i am only at 299 right now hoping to reach 1000 and the 4000 hours by the end of this year and this motivated me more. hope the right people find me and help me to my dreams, subbed to you because you were great to watch! hopefully i can be where you are one day too! fingers crossed!
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
keep it up, you’ll get there🤍 I wish you the best!
@christinaa.469323 күн бұрын
Our life is too short for feeling like a failure! This word doesn’t exist in my dictionary, just mistakes which everyone learns from them.
@mariatrappen23 күн бұрын
I love that mindset!
@kiranpmishra1508Ай бұрын
Your genuineness has gained you a new subscriber today!! Thank you for such eloquent words💟
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@user-mn6sq3is4t23 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤@@mariatrappen
@sabarishreddyrjАй бұрын
It is so pure and the way you articulate phrases in each frame makes the video so motivational! I loved it!🤍
@HujiDealer-ik5rd25 күн бұрын
Cant describe how your one video and tons of wisdom is going to enlighten my journey. I am at crossroads right now, trying to figure it all out and taking hard decisions for myself. But you made me have faith that it isn't the goal but how you empower and put yourself into it daily
@reja181819 күн бұрын
I am in very struggling phase of my life, balancing my passion with 9-5 job and also living alone 2000 km far from my home. But I'm happy that I'm doing productive things. There is anxiety,fear, frustration, still❤
@PinkBlossom__4715 күн бұрын
Then you are the biggest failure. People in India are not getting jobs after spending tons of money in colleges. And you are not even greatful that you have a job. Seriously people like you should never get success
@vikrantgurjar0724 күн бұрын
Not everyone is doing what you are doing, Real is Rare♥️ keep inspiring!
@embracedeenАй бұрын
i rarely subscribe. but i was ought to after watching this. the truth here and the inspiration you send through this video is impactful. here to more years of progress
@KC8927-c6jАй бұрын
LOVE IT and I am on my journey of becoming my best version too. I hope and I believe in 6 months looking back I will be mentally, physically and emotionally closer to my best self I have ever been
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
that's amazing, I wish you all the best!
@AvigalYosefАй бұрын
Being authentic is the only way you will have peace with yourself and attract real people who love you for who you are. Amazing message and beautiful video !!! :)
@mariatrappen21 күн бұрын
so true!! thanks :)
@pradnyawakode893912 сағат бұрын
Just 22 and so much wisdom. Wow! I love to see girls growing ❤
@JohnWRuth23 күн бұрын
Youre 22 and have more going for you, more of an understanding in life that most "mature" adults. Youre a high value woman. Keep it up!
@adityashrivastava007Ай бұрын
Understood. I literally need this kind of transformation! I'll start from the next day itself
@shaykhulthecaptain729 күн бұрын
Brother "Next Day" it's a Dangerous term, Make it "Today" and al the best.
@ptrcmhny22 күн бұрын
Hey Maria, I wanted to thank you for sharing this kind of content. I didn't know that it would make me cry and self-reflect about what I've done in the past few months. Thank you.
@mariatrappen22 күн бұрын
You’re so welcome, I'm glad it was helpful❤️
@niloofarbagheri2520Ай бұрын
Thank U Maria🥺 your warm voice and incredible description melted my heart❤
@zennn969026 күн бұрын
I was feeling low, came to my room and opened phone...see what I found❤️. One of the best videos I came across in recent times. I have started working on myself Ill come back in 2025 and im gonna share my strongest comeback🙌... Tysm gurl❤️.This is not a motivation its a life lesson🙌
@user-tk7ko7wy2nАй бұрын
you adviced like an elder sister . thank you so much for coming up with this video and you showed the reality . xo
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
Glad it was helpful!❤️❤️
@jyotikuyadav45246 күн бұрын
1. Fear - can be avoided by talking to yourself and self postive talk ''be impeacble'' 2. Embrace the cringe - people might judge you but it took huge courage to built it. 3. Just have the first step ..... Things will figure it out. So you don't need to have it all figure out. 4. Discipline is the biggest difference you can make in your life. It is higgest self love. 5. Never stop learning - learn always and all - ways. 6. Fight with your inner battles. Be honest to yourself for improving your life.
@bluenetmarketing7 күн бұрын
Thank you, and good luck young lady! You are helping a lot of people.
@Relaxingmusic11110Ай бұрын
You're amazing! You gave me so much inspiration for the next half of 2024!!
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
I’m so glad, you got this🤍
@user-mn6sq3is4t23 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤@@mariatrappen
@JiwonHanАй бұрын
This was so amazingly filmed and edited! I just restarted my channel 2 months ago, and I resonate with everything you said. I still worry about failing even after putting in so much effort, but this truly encouraged me to not think about that and keep pushing through. Thanks for making such an inspiring video~!
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
Thank you so much! Keep going, it will work out at some point☺️
@ThriftyTristie4 күн бұрын
This is great advice and you are wise beyond your years. Never forget this. God bless
@alexandraa81845 күн бұрын
I'm 21 & I needed this thank you.
@Akshuthisside28 күн бұрын
Thanks for pushing me towards my dream life and desired goals and bringing me back on track . Thanks alot ❤
@user-rh6gh2tu5kАй бұрын
I love the narration of the video. I love how authentic you are! I can totally relate to everything you are saying , as it's what I am currently feeling . I want to change , "feel the fear and do it anyway" as you said. Your video came at the perfect timing :) Thank you , El xo
@marilianacarrionbetancourt614714 сағат бұрын
This video is priceless, thank you for sharing all your lessons
@MUsamaAbidАй бұрын
Amazing! Thank u for summarising it in such a short time in the best way possible. Didnt skip a second.
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
Glad it helped!
@siddhikumari5211Ай бұрын
I love how you just calmly explain your journey!❤ I'll always remind myself that discipline is the highest form of self love whenever I feel like giving up! Thankyou Maria!!❤ (A new subscriber here)
@luciemarkova5689Ай бұрын
Such a beautiful real video :) thank you for sharing this! I'm now on my journey of freelancing, I've been doing it for over a year and I still am not where I want to be. I feel constantly that what I do is not enough and sometimes I have to stop and think of what I've already achieve because as you showed, there is no end to this! Btw. half marathon is a great goal just to challenge yourself, I think I'm gonna do that next year. Thanks!!!
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
thanks for sharing your experience! You’re right, it can constantly feel like it’s not enough but when we focus more on what we have achieved, we see the positive side and that can help us keep going🤍
@naga85645 күн бұрын
Inspiring video .These days my motivation is very unstable , after watching your video i felt it's worthy to do it because i'm doing it for my sake soo. Maybe i become lazy after failing repeatedly but i should remember if i stuck with this feeling of procastination then my dreams will be dreams forever that's why i'll definately get out of this s*it soon by working on myself. Appreciated your efforts in shaing your journey and feelings by recording the movements in your life .
@TheImprovementJourney2112 күн бұрын
Hi Maria! Your video resonated so much with me and with the timing in my life. I've going through some big life changes and you made me realise how important it is to self reflect, and although i think we all know deep down that change starts with us and by working on ourselves, hearing you say it just woke me up again and made me want to actually act on it. Thank you for that :)
@HumnaSyedАй бұрын
I needed to hear this, and how fortunate it is that it is exactly something I needed to know. Thank you for sharing your valuable advice as I am also facing these issues but had no one to guide me. I am glad that this video reached me! Loads of Love and prayers for you💕
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
I'm glad you found it valuable!❤
@Moonlight-hx3my11 күн бұрын
Me before 2 years : Let's try ,it will work Me right now : I am stuck , I am doomed , nobody loves me except failure (Sometimes it doesn't and you feels like you are behind the time and everyone of your friends are achieving ,but never give up it will work one day [I HOPE SO 🍀])
@user-gl6he1ob4v25 күн бұрын
I completely identify with this video and it's motivated me to focus on personal growth. For too long, the fear of judgement has held me back, but I'm now actively working to break free from it and move forward.
@BinteSaifUllah-Ай бұрын
I can relate to your fears and failures a lot and yes I'm subscribing to hear more from you. This was a motivation for me to create a similar video after 6 months. fingers crossed
@ashlynnsmith845516 күн бұрын
I love everything about this video! The way you explain what we’re all feeling while trying to change our life is so beautifully put and also comforting somehow❤
@ella94208 күн бұрын
I was shedding tears after watching the video. Thank you so much, this is what I really need right now.
@ahmedsherif696528 күн бұрын
you don't know how much your talk affected me in a right way , now I am ready for taking risks and building my own self .. Really thanks ❤❤❤❤
@dkakaniАй бұрын
I absolutely love this video! So inspirational and the most valuable 6 mindset shifts to change your life for sure :)
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it, thank you❤️
@IAMWOMAN_Official7 күн бұрын
I was inspired by your perseverance; simply keep up the good work and be yourself.
@tiainakl8 күн бұрын
You dont know how well timed this was. Thank you!
@user-di3in4oj3gАй бұрын
Thanks for your sharing which is considered as a motivation for me❤. Stay healthy!
@theaoffside21 күн бұрын
gurl, the respect i have for yuh- UR AMAZING AND IM PROUD OF YUH !!
@mariatrappen21 күн бұрын
thanks so much girlie🤍
@herrefinedsoulАй бұрын
I feel exactly how you feel right now and found your video inspiring. Well done to you :) x
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
Thanks a lot🤍
@PankajKumar-qi6vx3 күн бұрын
I love the way you are helping us to grow
@karinahernandez6892Ай бұрын
Love your video, I'm also 22 and going through some stuff, watching this is a reminder of keep going ❤
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
Genuinely wish you all the best❤️ keep going love
@tannaz_213 күн бұрын
this vidio was extremely true and touching , i think i really needed it .
@rim310325 күн бұрын
You share your experience without filters. Respect you❤️
@user-eq3wi5qp2cАй бұрын
I want to be like you.Now I am changing myself,getting out from the comfort zone,facing the fear.I think i will change in the upcoming 6 months like you.Thanks for the video.
@missanugyamishra380827 күн бұрын
Hey Maria thank you for this wonderful, thoughtful video.
@cm.llauderesАй бұрын
thank you so much for this! this healed something in me.
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
oh wow I’m so glad🤍
@Mansimarkaur555Ай бұрын
This video has my whole heart.
@AxelWaldhelm16 күн бұрын
Very well made this video, Maria. Great work with so many details in the video cut, sound, angles, lighting. And sooo much wisdom in the few minutes. I feel what you are gone through. Absolutely motivating. There es something even greater ahead of you. Wish you all the best.
@sriharsha39229 күн бұрын
The way you shared all your ups and downs is appreciable. Thanks for the video
@mariatrappen29 күн бұрын
I appreciate that!
@ipranavbansal24 күн бұрын
I hardly heard 50% of it, but your voice was so relaxing. It was a good start to the day! Thanks.
@visualwomann652510 күн бұрын
Feeling low for the past couple of days loosing my hope for everything because nothing is going the way i wanted to planned this video woke me up again 😊 I am a new subscriber
@labdhiranka5764Ай бұрын
u got this girl.
@涵郑-z9w3 күн бұрын
It really inspires me. I wanna speak English fluently and have a dream body. ❤❤
@raghvijain860624 күн бұрын
I LOVED each and every word that came out of your mouth. I felt all of it to my bones. It was like you speaking my mind & soul. Proud of you for facing that fear that we all have in us. Keep going. Thanks for motivating. Will keep rewatching this video whenever I’ll feel scared.❤️🫶🏻
@thamararathnaweera49657 күн бұрын
This gave me a reson not to give up .thank you soo much❤
@aicyvallejos14 күн бұрын
Just see your vid on my YT feed and I'm dont regret to watch this. Gonna get back here everytime I feel lost and start over.
@MiraldineАй бұрын
Thank you for this 🖤 This is a reminder of myself that I can do it too.
@SereneIrene-074 күн бұрын
i love you girl! u spoke my mind!
@AnirbanSarenАй бұрын
I watched this entire video and I feel inspired. I can't wait to apply what you said to my own life! Thanks!
@selfunderstanding8 күн бұрын
Very true and all the points discussed are really practicable in the lives of every one. Glad to listen and watch your journey.
@jesalp4 күн бұрын
Love this video, Maria. You are wonderful!
@thehealingbreak14 күн бұрын
wow, what an inspiration, this is the change i am planning for quite some time now, but coudn't start and as they say you attract what you think all day long, and so i attracted this video and I am grateful to watch this. Thanks Maria, I could see me in you changing my own self. With so simplicity and rawness you shared your journey. Even I have started my youtube channel on spirituality and healing, mindset manifestations, doing a job as well. I know I am gonna make it big on youtube one day. Please do make videos on : "HOW YOU PRIORTIZE YOUR STUFFS OR HOW TO MULTI-TASK with so much on plate". Wish you the best 🤗
@JoanFreelancer10 күн бұрын
This is so beautiful and inspiring! Thank you for sharing❤
@m13m26 күн бұрын
same thing I did 9 months ago it's fascinating how we are totally different person but our realisation/lessons are exactly same which means anyone can change their life if they want to.
@Coach.KrishaDharia24 күн бұрын
🙋 Hey sis, As I was watching your video I felt a connection throughout, like I can resonate with all the things you said. 1. Be it highs or lows we keep pushing ourselves towards our goals. 2. Another common belief I discovered about self-love, here's my version. Self-love isn't just about accepting yourself the way you are, but working on yourselves to be the best version, cause you wanna witness your higher self. MORE POWER TO YOU... on this journey of self-discovery, self-love, personal development, discipline and empowerment. 🙌 Lots of Love 💓 & Light. ✨
@Desire10073 күн бұрын
This video is so inspiring in my stage of life. Thank you for sharing your ideas.
@utsavtambi3729Ай бұрын
Its amazing, how someone from a distant country can inspire you so much! loved it, thank you so much :)
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! :)
@sivakumaranarumuganainar416028 күн бұрын
For some reason KZbin algorithm recommended this. And i would say thank you coz it felt someone is speaking what i have in mind. Thank you for making myself feel a bit lighter :)
@connectwithbokeАй бұрын
The moment you think you know it all, is the moment you stop growing✨ Thank you so much for motivating me 💕
@versha637023 күн бұрын
Saw your video on my feed, saved to watch later. Watched it and I really loved your content and aura.✨
@mariatrappen23 күн бұрын
Thanks so much🤍
@Nazim.Hassan27 күн бұрын
I Can clearly resonate with you, I thought moving into a different city to start masters didn't help, thats when I read mountain is you, opened up that the mountain was always me and then i just started doing. Thanks for this reminder.!
@yaseminsahin5031Ай бұрын
This is the video I came across just when I was in a state of change. How inspiring every word 💙
@mariatrappenАй бұрын
That's amazing! Change is great🤍
@morissagayatri408015 күн бұрын
Your channel is what I've been looking thank u darling for being one of my inspiration love
@EramFatima-ok2bw22 күн бұрын
Thanks. I really needed to hear, "in 5 yrs, will I regret not trying or will I regret failing?". So happy for you sis and I pray you get all the goodness.❤❤
@mariatrappen22 күн бұрын
You are so welcome sis❤️
@nikita802716 күн бұрын
I needed to hear this thankyou gurl you are doing great for you as well as for those listening to you ❤️✨
@Abidkhattak73220 күн бұрын
exellent advice for everyone you deserve millions of subscribers
@shuruti_singhh17 күн бұрын
Loved the video , It is not about the end goals instead it is about the journey really ❣
@eman-qq6qx24 күн бұрын
"Six months ago, I decided to change my life, and today I’m living proof that it’s possible. If I can do it, so can you! Small steps every day lead to big results. Let's make it happen!"