How to Find Yourself | Letting Go of Friends | Mindset Change | Isolation

[@irynakorniienko]

I will be glad to hear your stories guys ☺

[@RobertoSunga]

It's true that some people will hold you down, happened to me that some people left and my life starting taking off. Btw I wear black most of the time, maybe that's keeping people away like you said 🤣

[@irynakorniienko]

@@RobertoSunga ahaha yeah that maybe the reason 😄 I was serious about the colors, as they are known to affect our reception and how we perceive people in general. So you may try wearing more light-colored clothes and let me know how it works out for you! Thank you for watching!

[@RobertoSunga]

@Iryna Korniienko I feel most comfortable wearing dark clothes but every now and then I throw in some colors or patterns.

[@irynakorniienko]

@@RobertoSunga I understand you, lately I've been also big on wearing dark clothes, and less of all the other colors. Maybe it's just a season in life, who knows 🤔

[@anna_m59]

I use to wear only design clothes and I realized that i attracted the wrong people.. as today got rid off all those clothes and “ friends “ and relatives .. i feel free and I am blessed that i can traveling full time. I have my children that i love dearly and accept how they are .. just keep doing what feels right for you..

[@jennifermetcalf7578]

Wow. Ok, I have to comment on this. I rarely leave comments, but this video was so meaningful for me! Thank you so much for sharing. I have been on my own journey of self discovery and have had to set hard boundaries recently and I think a lot of people have been judging the fact that it appears people are “expendable” to me. But I feel like I need to just let go and release their judgments, which have been hurtful to me, but aren’t important in the long run. I feel so validated by this post and it was well put and insightful. Bless you for helping others in this way!!! Much love to you! ❤

[@irynakorniienko]

Thank you so much for sharing and for your feedback❤ It makes me very happy that this video somehow validated your feelings and what you're going through. Yes, the journey of self discovery may require one to rethink their life choices and sometimes even let go of some people, and it isn't always easy to do, and it requires bravery to do that! Much love to you!

[@Aaaa-jy4xi]

i asked god to give me a clear sign if i should cut all my friends off because they have been negatively influencing me, and now your video showed up, thank you

[@irynakorniienko]

That's great news, I hope this video helped you gain some clarity and gave you that support you're searching for. Thank you for watching!

[@jennifermetcalf7578]

The same for me!!!! I’m grateful this video showed up!!! ❤

[@irynakorniienko]

@@jennifermetcalf7578 Thank you Jennifer! I'm so glad it was helpful!

[@saus675]

Awesome. Am sure a lot of people will relate to your very very honest revelations.

[@irynakorniienko]

I feel that too. ☺ Thank you for watching!

[@barbaras5874]

I so agree with you. We are so programmed to fit in and adapt so that others are happy with us and that prevents us from hearing our own voice. You have inspired me to do more by myself. I feel I have lost touch with myself and want to get this back.

[@irynakorniienko]

@@barbaras5874 thank you so much! I’m so glad to hear that 🙌 yes, absolutely true, and that’s why it is so crucial to find a way back to ourselves 💫

[@507_alimaaktermithila5]

You explained everything so beautifully 💕

[@irynakorniienko]

🥰 Thank you a lot! I'm so happy to hear that.

[@DJ-ld6um]

TRUTH

[@irynakorniienko]

Thank you for watching!

[@BGM16]

Thank you thank you Iryna for sharing what is important for you in life, I liked this video so much. Btw, I'm from México City, can't wait to see your videos on México. God Bless You.

[@irynakorniienko]

Thank you very much! I plan on doing more videos like this in the future and I’m very glad that you enjoyed watching it ☺️ omg I love Mexico City and can’t wait to return! Hopefully soon 🤞

[@sempreitaly]

This was so good. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@irynakorniienko]

Thank you so much! I'm glad this video made you feel this way ❤

[@Jakebrah]

Nice video thanks for sharing :)

[@irynakorniienko]

Thanks a lot!

[@sarastacchetti4262]

I loved this video, you talked about some very important things, I needed these tips

[@irynakorniienko]

Thank you Sara! I'm very glad you found this video helpful. Thank you for watching!

[@chotarabbit7232]

Very helpful video 👌👍

[@irynakorniienko]

Thank you for watching!

[@Kareena1988]

The question still lingers in my mind: I isolated because I had dumb people around me but still there is a void in my heart that is loneliness...

[@irynakorniienko]

Loneliness is not always a bad thing. For a big breakthrough to occur one may have to let go of the circle that isn't serving them. Isolation is good for a season in life, when one is searching for a meaning and trying to build a life around them that fulfills them. But clearly isolating yourself for the whole life isn't the answer.

[@sid1777]

love this keep it up!!!!

[@irynakorniienko]

Thank you very much! I will ☺

[@bettinanagy7417]

Great video, i loved your perspective. Ive been going through the same. Can i let go of that friend even is she's the best person and friend ever? She is treating me so right, of course not perfectly tho, but i still think we arent as compatible as we were in the past, and im more able to search for myself when im not around her. She's in my "i dont know what to do with her" group for half a year now. Its kind of a struggle for me. Thank you for your help and for being you

[@irynakorniienko]

Hi Bettina, thank you a lot for sharing! I've been going through the exact same situation for almost couple of years in regards to one person. I couldn't come up with the decision that felt right for a looong time. In this case, what I did was I kept that relationship active, but I didn't invest as much. I valued that person a lot, and I didn't want to make a mistake by cutting the relationship off completely. But I minimized my contact with her as much as I could (I also didn't want to offend her in any way, but I knew that we're not on the same path anymore and there was nothing in common apart from the memories we shared). And as of right now, that friendship is almost ceased to exist. I hope this helps in any way. 🙌

[@bettinanagy7417]

@@irynakorniienko i understand your point, but isn't this kind of disrespectful? just bc i cannot decide what i wanna do w my life, that friend is the victim of that. Or idk. I think i'll try to remain honest with her, bc i know almost for sure that we shouldnt have a future together. Have a nice day girl💕

[@irynakorniienko]

@@bettinanagy7417 I understand you, I really do. It's difficult to decide what to do when you're presented with the choices either to tell the truth which will probably hurt that other person, or put the relationship on hold and see where life takes you eventually with this. When I'm faced with such a difficult decision I usually give it some time, because it's always easier to end things than to revert them back to life (in case you change your mind). Have a wonderful day!🤗

[@pankinanhaggai750]

your examples made me reflect and see myself in this quagmire and i know what to do next thanks to this video ❤️ recommended to me by gabby damola.

[@irynakorniienko]

Thank you so much for your feedback and I'm very glad to hear that! ☺