How To Fix Your Reputation

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Live On Purpose TV

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@Anthony-nq4ki
@Anthony-nq4ki 4 жыл бұрын
This is from my own experience. The only way to fix your reputation is to completely change the person that you are and everyone that used to be in your life especially from your past. Your never gonna get people that knew you from the past, like for instance, your old school friends and your relatives to see that your a changed person or even a brand new person. Here is how to fix and change your reputation: Change your full name, move to another state, buy new clothes, find a different job, find a new companion, don’t tell anyone about your life, don’t talk about the people that were in your life. Buy a shredder and destroy old photos from the past. Don’t put your pictures or any information about yourself on Facebook. If you meet new people let them do the talking, you just do the listening. Be humble and quiet. That’s pretty much about it.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching the video, Michael Bertolino.
@wakeup6778
@wakeup6778 3 жыл бұрын
Is this really the only solution? 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
@Anthony-nq4ki
@Anthony-nq4ki 3 жыл бұрын
@@wakeup6778 It’s really the best solution.
@mrhouse9368
@mrhouse9368 2 жыл бұрын
@@Anthony-nq4ki a man who speaks the truth, the harsh reality we need to face. Thanks “Anthony”
@Scott-got-caught
@Scott-got-caught 2 жыл бұрын
@@mrhouse9368 I see what you did there 😹
@sqrfoot6548
@sqrfoot6548 2 жыл бұрын
My reputation was damaged when I was 27 in the jazz scene. It lost friends and work in a small community. I'm now 41 and filled with pain because I not only lost the scene and reputation, I actually stopped playing music and haven't been the same ever since. It ruined my life
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын
You still have a lot of life ahead of you. Figure out how to move forward and do what you love. It may look different, but it is possible.
@Udjncmaldje
@Udjncmaldje Жыл бұрын
I am the same .I came from the Dj scene and now ... people and I lost friends now I'm 28 and I'm trying to fix my reputation. It takes lots of strength but that's what makes you stronger !
@tankthepitbull520
@tankthepitbull520 4 жыл бұрын
Political leanings can severely damage your reputation, I’ve learned this lesson.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
Tank The Pitbull, we all have a journey we are on through life. Thanks for sharing.
@jrrobotics
@jrrobotics 3 жыл бұрын
I admit I have said some really mean and nasty things to people online and my reputation was screwed. But I deleted most of those comments and stopped immediately and am now being very positive
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 жыл бұрын
j r robotics, we can always change, glad you are taking the necessary steps.
@jp6249
@jp6249 2 ай бұрын
Just work hard, do the right thing, and have courage. We repent for our past, learn from it, and do better everyday.
@yrok244
@yrok244 4 жыл бұрын
I go to a very small charter school so information spreads very quickly. I’ve made lots of stupid decisions and literally everyone hates me. It’s gonna take a while to fix this, wish me luck.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
Good luck, Yrok24, you can do this! Like you said, it may take a while to fix your reputation, but be consistent and authentic with your new self and others will notice the change. Thanks for watching Live On Purpose TV.
@yrok244
@yrok244 4 жыл бұрын
Live On Purpose TV thank you for the advice!
@wdfrenchy1
@wdfrenchy1 Жыл бұрын
What's the update? I've done the same thing and feel hopeless 😢
@elizesanchez3887
@elizesanchez3887 3 жыл бұрын
10. Are you being a JERK 9. Care about how you impact people. 8. Take immediate action 7. Apologies appropriately 6. Make Amends when you can 5. Practice Patients 4. Be humble - open to feed back & input from others - it’s about what’s right not who’s right. 3. Practice Positive Behavior 2. Get a Coach or accountability partner 1. Be consistent
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Elize.
@singingcoversweekly3108
@singingcoversweekly3108 2 жыл бұрын
Here is my problem. I used to have no friends in school and act sad and not really include myself but that is something I grew out of in college. I come back from college in the summer to work in the holidays 2 years later and I still seem to have that reputation hanging over me even though I am such a happier person. I have really changed but people don't seem to see that and some still dislike me for it? I don't know how to change that.
@antorestima7446
@antorestima7446 10 ай бұрын
@@singingcoversweekly3108 Apparently, some folks still have the outdated version of me on their mental shelves. I've upgraded to the new and improved 'Happier Me 2.0' edition. Now, with 20% more smiles and 50% less gloominess! If they're still clinging to the old model, maybe I should start handing out 'Friendship Firmware Updates' during lunch breaks...Just remind them to upgrade their system..
@julia7711
@julia7711 4 жыл бұрын
My reputation got messed up in my town from Taking the blame for other people, now no one will hire me or rent their houses to me. I had been well respected in my job, now old colleagues pretend they dont see me when i pass them on the street. I can deal with the social shunning, but being shut out of jobs and houses is very inconvenient
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
Well I am honored to be on your team, Julia. Please spend some time here on the channel - I recommend the Positive Personal Development playlist (kzbin.info/aero/PLq2mRDkHEBPCYtqYUCuzsyYpAlzKZDVVV) and the Positive Relationship Resources playlist (kzbin.info/aero/PLq2mRDkHEBPA410uJ9woXx9B9WiPyM7fX). Make improvements where you can, and find ways to serve others - even in small or anonymous ways. We do have a free 25 minute breakthrough call available with one of our Live On Purpose coaches to assist you in a specific area of your life; if you wish to schedule an appointment, you can go here: DrPaulJenkins.com/breakthroughcall
@darkkitty22
@darkkitty22 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry
@Udjncmaldje
@Udjncmaldje Жыл бұрын
Try moving to another city 😂
@afowltime
@afowltime 4 жыл бұрын
I just recently learned that I have a bit of an anger issue, and that's what drove one of my best friends away without me knowing it. I'm going to try my best to repair this, thanks for the helpful video.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
CloudyPages, very responsible, to see a weakness and work on it. You are ahead of the game and can do this.
@alexmunoz6682
@alexmunoz6682 3 жыл бұрын
I had an extremely poor reputation, the first quarter of my life. But it is my fault, as it was self imposed. I was painfully socially inept. And was a huge attention seeker. I’d constantly sing out loud in the middle of class, while my teacher was trying to lecture. I would always be involved in other peoples drama. And always talk out loud broadcasting my problems….. it ended up making me completely unapproachable in school. Ended up becoming more awkward in the process. I’m still trying to get a grip on the past. At least this video makes me feel better
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 жыл бұрын
alex munoz, people notice when behavior changes, you got this.
@alexmunoz6682
@alexmunoz6682 3 жыл бұрын
@@LiveOnPurposeTV thanks man. I’m trying my best
@guineapig3539
@guineapig3539 5 жыл бұрын
This came at a perfect time for us, thank you
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 жыл бұрын
You are welcome, Guinea Pig.
@doggyy.1045
@doggyy.1045 2 жыл бұрын
Very nice name btw 👍👍👍
@BookMattic
@BookMattic 5 жыл бұрын
I just discovered your channel recommended by my wife. I love each one of your videos, the way you talk and the topics you talk about. Thank you so much for producing valuable content.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 жыл бұрын
You are welcome, BookMattic. Glad you have joined the Live On Purpose family. Thanks for watching.
@BookMattic
@BookMattic 5 жыл бұрын
Live On Purpose TV it’s my pleasure. We’ll be exchanging more thoughts in the future.
@helco2856
@helco2856 3 жыл бұрын
Two years late but good video. I needed this, thanks.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it helped!
@Babesinthewood97
@Babesinthewood97 3 жыл бұрын
It's hard to not react negatively when people harass you due to slander and lies. I messed up, I guess. I responded with and angry look and walking away. Which in turn only sparked the gossip. So now I'm apparently mentally disabled and a stalker. It seems that's what they're saying. Actually I'm a university alumni who is trying to avoid them and to make new friends but they all know eachother and always interfere whenever I've made a new friend. Overnight, people turn against me, by the dozen. Don't people understand empirical evidence? Nothing has happened. I'm trying to live my life. I've moved away but I'm still grieving the loss of friendship as it is so rare. I lost people I thought I had some connection with.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 жыл бұрын
It is hard to not react negatively. You are never wrong with how you feel and feelings of betrayal can take a while to process. Hang in there.
@AndyProkopenko-jx1fy
@AndyProkopenko-jx1fy 10 ай бұрын
Almost the exact same thing has happened to me
@tothebeyond6318
@tothebeyond6318 Жыл бұрын
When i was younger I was a huge school clown which terribly ruined my reputation and made people making fun of me. Sometimes even people i dont know about even jokes about me, i hate it here.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV Жыл бұрын
To The Beyond, none of us are the same as when we were in school. You can change and grow.
@memeteam9650
@memeteam9650 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the time to make this.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure.
@nour8683
@nour8683 5 жыл бұрын
Can you please make a video on how to deal with jealousy among kids ?
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 жыл бұрын
Nour, check the parenting playlist, there are a few up now.
@JoeMama-gp2ts
@JoeMama-gp2ts 2 жыл бұрын
I really needed this as everything just seemed to being downhill in my secondary because of me joking around and i slipped a bit off my toungue and made a few people hate me. And I don’t want to be the funny and kind popular guy turning into someone without respect
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын
Joe Mama, You got this. You can turn this around.
@Daarrrkkk
@Daarrrkkk 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! This video will hopefully help my life alot. Hopefully....
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
OnilyDarkWolf, you can do it. Stay strong.
@Amethiist143
@Amethiist143 Жыл бұрын
My good reputation went down the drain when people spread a rumor about me being a furry (behind my back) and I didn’t know about it until recently
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV Жыл бұрын
AstraArt, be who you are and people will understand what happened. It may take a little time.
@beijingcorn7544
@beijingcorn7544 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for all of this good information, I really needed it now.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@Coneman3
@Coneman3 2 жыл бұрын
It’s hard when people not directly hurt by you use stuff from many years ago to hurt you now. Those people are evil imo.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting. No one should be throwing our pasts at us.
@Coneman3
@Coneman3 2 жыл бұрын
My thought are to just ignore them and get on with my new life. They seem bitter and negative and lack kindness. Everyone should be given a second chance or we are cold barbarians.
@XAudreyS
@XAudreyS 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all of these amazing videos! Will you do more amazing videos with a diverse group of people in your field? I am a young minority female and I never seen representations in the field of psychology. :/ I am hopeful.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 жыл бұрын
I will consider this, XAudreyS. I just love people and interacting with them, no matter the culture or race. We have so much to learn from each other and role models are important. It is great you are looking for them in your life.
@Zerothegreathusky
@Zerothegreathusky 2 жыл бұрын
My reputation was severely damaged due to the lies I’ve told just to please everyone
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you have learned and are able to build a new reputation, the one you want.
@alexgoldens9425
@alexgoldens9425 10 ай бұрын
Thank you
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 9 ай бұрын
Our pleasure.
@vaishnavi_bhogi
@vaishnavi_bhogi 3 жыл бұрын
I have a bad reputation in my school. I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety and I cut people out. I also had a little psychotic behaviour which made me a joke in high school. I was involved in relationships so there are rumours about me which are not fully true. So I am also slutshamed. I really need help...
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 жыл бұрын
vaishnavi bhogi, that is a lot to deal with. Is there someone that you can talk to about what is going on? A counselor or trusted friend? Live your life the way you want and be your best self.
@vaishnavi_bhogi
@vaishnavi_bhogi 3 жыл бұрын
@@LiveOnPurposeTV I do have a counselor. I've been getting counseling since 2 months. I feel better now but the memories and bullying keeps coming in my mind. I am trying to fix my reputation . And I have made few friends too...
@camilla5705
@camilla5705 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate
@vaishnavi_bhogi
@vaishnavi_bhogi 3 жыл бұрын
@@camilla5705 hey, camilla. Thanks for reply and trying to reach out. If you relate, I would advice you to talk to your parents or teachers. You can also talk to a counselor. I know horrible being bullied feels. I reached out for help and it helped me. Hope you'll get the help you want..😄. Now I feel a lot better and I have a lot of friends. I'll just advice you to not care what other thinks but do try to make things right, if you get the chance...🥰😄
@camilla5705
@camilla5705 3 жыл бұрын
@@vaishnavi_bhogi Thank you :)
@Sikhipacksweekly
@Sikhipacksweekly 5 жыл бұрын
Another brilliant video. Thank you.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching, and commenting, Sikhipacksweekly. Glad you are finding the videos helpful.
@M1thicalXD
@M1thicalXD 2 жыл бұрын
I will try to follow these! These seem like they will help a lot. I have had a bad reputation for years about be annoying and making stupid jokes at my school for years. I really hope I can fix my act up soon. Any tips to not laugh or not be urged to add a reply when someone says something funny? As long as that doesn't happen I won't slip up
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын
M1thical_XD, practice counting to 10 before saying anything. Slower responses helps our brains to kick in.
@M1thicalXD
@M1thicalXD 2 жыл бұрын
@@LiveOnPurposeTV oh thank you! I will try
@TonedogTonedogGaming
@TonedogTonedogGaming 6 ай бұрын
My experience is negativity all the time im trying to change and not to give up as easily
@ethanmatthewy.llauderes2653
@ethanmatthewy.llauderes2653 2 жыл бұрын
thank you, now i know what to do :)
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын
Great! Better days ahead for you.
@Sumirevins
@Sumirevins 7 ай бұрын
My reputation got tainted because I was obsessed with this girl and now everyone thinks I'm a creep. I've to do 3 years in that college
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 7 ай бұрын
I wish you well with what you decide to do next in life.
@DeanRendar
@DeanRendar 5 жыл бұрын
interacting with crass youth my whole life, i can say calling and making amends sounds wonderful. Do I believe they would do such for every person/relationship handled immaturely? HA, that'd be the day.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 жыл бұрын
DearRendar84, probably not, one is better than none.
@singingcoversweekly3108
@singingcoversweekly3108 2 жыл бұрын
My problem is small towns never seem to forget. Even 4-5 years later when you are no longer 14-15
@A.L228
@A.L228 Жыл бұрын
Hello Paul!thanks a lot!for this helpful podcast full of sense & inner wisdom,as the ppl watching this might already realise or know for real what's like to be a victim of defamation or experience & see the changes that is happening around them when "who they are is shaken" or affected by defamation in a world indeed of easy information & powerful social media.What strikes me the most is realising how much human is so gallable & what ignorance can do!(*Everytime I share my experience,I found that Google staff made sure he delets it😮despite its within the guidelines as it has happened few times now..,
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting.
@brindaarun8541
@brindaarun8541 4 жыл бұрын
I made a mistake and I lied about a lot of things and now I lost my girlfriend my bestfriend my friends and also my parents, I want to mend my ways but I'm not sure how
@jordanwatson4120
@jordanwatson4120 4 жыл бұрын
Same mate but dont worry we will do this together 💪💪
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
Brinda Arun, I encourage you to try the ideas in this video. You can't change the past, so don't dwell on it. Remember the consequences of your mistakes ONLY so that you don't do the same things. Focus on what you can control at the present time. Apologies can also help your case. Need help with that? I've got you covered; here's a video: "How To Say Sorry For Hurting Someone You Love" - kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZpqxnKGZbbenpcU It may take time and effort to fix your reputation, but don't give up hope. Thank you for being at Live On Purpose TV.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
Jordan Watson, thank you for supporting others on the channel. I hope you found this video beneficial.
@FarahA27
@FarahA27 3 жыл бұрын
My reputation at work and at home is ruined all because due to my condition, I make mistakes that I should not be making at my age. Even when I apologize and make amends, it's a waste of time because the people at home and at work, don't forgive me ever. Sometimes I wish I was working at a different job where the people are more forgiving and understanding toward me.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 жыл бұрын
Farah Ahmad, try making changes for yourself, not for everyone else. Be at peace with you.
@epicnitroaap2554
@epicnitroaap2554 4 жыл бұрын
i was in an online orientation for my new school and there were some students who were being noisy in the chat room and when i tried to answer a question it came at the same time as a warning of the teachers to the noisy students and they kicked mo out of the orientation so now everyone in my new school thinks im very rude to teachers😞
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
EpicNitro AAP, sorry this happened, you can show them from your behavior and they will see that you are not rude.
@lukestang8484
@lukestang8484 4 жыл бұрын
I have a bad reputation in my school because I acted gay but took it to far 😭
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching, Luke Stang. I hope the video gave you some ideas on how to fix your reputation. If you don't have school right now, you can use this time to change your mindset and attitude to a more positive one, and when you get back to school, start implementing the tips I give in this video. We have more videos on the channel for your age group. Please check out our "Just for kids and teens" playlist to start becoming a more positive person: kzbin.info/aero/PLq2mRDkHEBPCicx6xcJ5ZJzVe9UBlRTQV
@lukestang8484
@lukestang8484 4 жыл бұрын
Live On Purpose TV ok thank you, also my middle school reputation really sucks right now and everyone knows me for it, I’m currently a junior in highschool
@michaeljacksonearthangel5849
@michaeljacksonearthangel5849 5 жыл бұрын
Did you say you interviewed Frank Abaganale?! Is there a way to hear that podcast? He was that second mouse! 😁 Seriously though I've listened to some of his speeches and he's really interesting and has a good heart.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 жыл бұрын
Here is a link if you would like to listen to the podcast. liveonpurposeradio.com/tag/frank-w-abagnale/ I enjoyed the interview immensely. You can find all my podcasts at drpauljenkins.com.
@MyTribe-xm5gr
@MyTribe-xm5gr 2 жыл бұрын
Or jealousy and sabotage ruin your reputation.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын
Sunshine, some things take longer to repair than others.
@pashafn3171
@pashafn3171 4 жыл бұрын
Im a middle schooler.. ya know.. as a male who just hit puberty everything goes wrong and i do something really bad.. reallly really bad.. and the one who get the impact "the victim" is making a gossip and its a bad one.. me who was known whose everybodys friend.. suddenly dont have any.. i dont know what to do.. for 6 months i kept it all to myself.. any tips?
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
Pasha Fn, hard to say with the limited information. Be friendly, be open, be non-judgmental and don't give up. Things can change quickly in middle school. You may need to look outside the group you were a part of to other people to befriend.
@pashafn3171
@pashafn3171 4 жыл бұрын
@@LiveOnPurposeTV might as well try that.. thanks!
@yeetthecakes6720
@yeetthecakes6720 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 жыл бұрын
CaliMeMuffin, you are welcome.
@Thagy1973
@Thagy1973 3 жыл бұрын
Drank too much, ended up Posting something I regrettd later and Im now paying the price! Oh well, live and learn. lol
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 жыл бұрын
Thagy1973, glad you are learning from it. That is how we move forward.
@eldal1101
@eldal1101 3 жыл бұрын
I pushed a girl out of a party this day harshly, and someone said that I hit her instead of punching her when I didn’t. They lied about my actions and now many of my friends think I did it. People now think that I beat women now when this is not the case at all. It’s foking terrible man. Any good tips for how to fix’s my reputation in this situation?
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 жыл бұрын
El Dal, maybe you shouldn't touch anyone harshly. They will learn over time seeing you with your temper in check.
@Jordan-zt6jq
@Jordan-zt6jq 3 жыл бұрын
Ok sir
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan, thank you for watching and commenting.
@Jordan-zt6jq
@Jordan-zt6jq 3 жыл бұрын
@@LiveOnPurposeTV Thank you, I look forward to implementing these strategies in my life
@riosaint_
@riosaint_ 3 жыл бұрын
☝Alhamdulillah Gods timing is perfect 🥰
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching.
@bobjaff8523
@bobjaff8523 4 жыл бұрын
I have a bad reputation because I’ve been mean have did bad things I act like I’m better than people but i would like to change
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
It is still possible to change, Bob Jaff. Be kind to others, give service whenever possible, and use positive uplifting words when speaking. It may take a while, but will be worth it in the end. Remind yourself that you have changed for the better, and don't worry about what others think of you. Thanks for watching.
@kickinbackinOC
@kickinbackinOC 4 жыл бұрын
Makes sense
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
kickinbackinOC, thanks for watching.
@drsundipshenoy2471
@drsundipshenoy2471 3 жыл бұрын
Nice
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, DrSundip.
@sqrfoot6548
@sqrfoot6548 2 жыл бұрын
What if I messed up about 15 years ago and now have to face all these people again? That's not immediate action is it ? This is really bad
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully you can show you have learned your lesson by the last 15 years.
@patriciav.7115
@patriciav.7115 4 жыл бұрын
You are a very calming and supportive person. Thank You for the information. If I may share an experience, I would be grateful: I have a bad reputation. I had a period of being well "groomed" and had an image of someone "well paid". After awhile, I took much lower paying jobs in a bigger city where I studied. Soon, I ended up not working because of health reasons and high anxiety, and finally resting at my parents house. Because of it, people talk about me as "gold digger~hoe" and a disrespectful of the ladder. If I take a well paid job now, people will judge me for financial "job hopping", skipping the "ladder". Didn't have a man in my life at any point in this period. Is there a way to fix that?
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
Patricia 0206, just from this brief comment it seems that you are very concerned with how other perceive you. I wouldn't worry about that, decide what you want and what is in your best interest and go for that. When you do so staying true to your principles, then it all works out.
@patriciav.7115
@patriciav.7115 4 жыл бұрын
@@LiveOnPurposeTV I didn't expect the answer, and even so fast. I appreciate Your time.
@Udjncmaldje
@Udjncmaldje Жыл бұрын
I have rhe same reputation girl . It's all about how you represent yourself now in the position you are in and especially in the career industry. Don't worry, you will outgrow it
@SkiftyKitty
@SkiftyKitty 5 жыл бұрын
We i kinda uh.. made a rival school hate me and now my school and their school hates me..
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 жыл бұрын
Skifty Kitty, I am not sure how you feel about that. What steps are you taking to mend the rift? Hope the video gives you some ideas.
@SkiftyKitty
@SkiftyKitty 5 жыл бұрын
@@LiveOnPurposeTV this video did gave me some ideas but now I need to find out how to use body language to actually convey how sorry I am😅
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 жыл бұрын
Skifty Kitty, there are some videos on body language. I also hosted an expert on my podcast a while back. Live On Purpose TV.
@shaneheffernan
@shaneheffernan 3 жыл бұрын
I've a terrible reputation for mistakes I've made getting arrested and sending vile hurtful messages to people and now all my friends disowned me what can I do besides ending my life which l already tried. Does this bad reputation ever go away and will l get them friends back?
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 жыл бұрын
Shane Hefferman, learn from past mistakes and it may mean getting some new friends. I don't know if they will forgive you, you don't have control over that. You do have control over your actions.
@shaneheffernan
@shaneheffernan 3 жыл бұрын
@@LiveOnPurposeTV they won't forgive me it's been almost 3 years since they last spoke to me and I have now lost my best friend through the same mistakes its eating me up to be honest realising if I just was smart I could have still had them today but it is what it is now making new friends I'm afraid is way easier said than done :(
@Arclightraid
@Arclightraid 5 жыл бұрын
I tried most of this when working for Derbyshire County Council and guess what? It didn't work!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 жыл бұрын
Steeple Jack, what did you do next?
@Arclightraid
@Arclightraid 5 жыл бұрын
@@LiveOnPurposeTV Left!!!!
@jlf1309
@jlf1309 Жыл бұрын
Get yourself involved with animals. They know your heart. My motto is ... I Love animals, tolerate people!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV Жыл бұрын
I like animals and people.
@love-zh5ek
@love-zh5ek 4 жыл бұрын
“Jerkily “
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching, Rain Reign.
@love-zh5ek
@love-zh5ek 4 жыл бұрын
Live On Purpose TV no problem 💛
@Firecracker1987
@Firecracker1987 Жыл бұрын
I’ve had a bad reputation especially at workplaces by basically saying my piece to managers and not thinking before speaking even though I thought I was right at the time and only when calmed down have I realised how I have come across even though people agree with you at the time but when you act in the way the mood is in a workplace act in a way people talk between themselfs about x y or z and basically say what people say between themselfs to the people the same people can go against you ………….and look at you funny for acting like that then your upset because your like what I’ve said what everyone else thinks now you all think I’m a £#@& how does that work ??? Trouble is a reputation can follow you and people who don’t know you get told things by others and judge or dislike you automatically which is unfortunate even though they don’t know you just judging on what others have said I’ve done etc etc which isn’t nice I’m ashamed of my behaviour looking back but I get confused of the system of how people work lol people tell you x y and z about what they don’t like etc and when you say it to the organ grinders the same folk what agree with you are the ones turning the back on you after the event as if I’m a #£&@ then comes the paranoia as might be a sly eye or something and paranoidley you can start to think someone’s said something to that person hence the sly eye about something I’ve done before and you start to think they don’t like you naturally I’ve always found it good how people say I’d do x y z but when organ grinders there don’t say / do anything I’m the silly one doing it and it’s cost me jobs and credibility and reputation as a &#@£ which isn’t nice as from my point of view the things I’ve said and done in previous employments I only said what I thought everyone wanted to hear but when said everyone thinks your an idiot and turns against you I struggle with that as it’s like whattttttt??? Then the whole nobody likes you thoughts creep in etc etc then ye chasin trying to prove to people that actually I’m ok all that paranoia is driving you to chase peoples approval if that makes sense ……………..I’m not naturally a &£#@ there other things happen what got me to that point of giving it back …………when started world of work I found my breaking point I was bitter about things in the past and my head was just a mass of swirling thoughts ready to pop at any moment and unfortunately seeing how unfair workplaces can be it’s like I popped I found my breaking point and used to go on rants and rages regularly at things deemed unfair to the organ grinders on a daily basis and this trend followed me threw various employments in my life yes I was a man who had issues clearly but we all have a breaking point and a chapter to close and this is mine truthfully I’m ashamed and regret somethings I’ve said in the moment of madness ( I’ve had many ) however I was a literal preassure cooker waiting to go off and since starting work many years ago from Saturday boy to adult worker I’ve had many a run ins with many a boss and I am ashamed of it but if ever there’s a place where things can be seemed as unfair / unjust it’s work and all I will say is since starting work many years ago certain events what happened in the past it’s like my brain said enough I won’t take crap no more but it’s done me no favours only got me a bad rep which adds to more confusion lol which upsets me as it’s not the real me
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV Жыл бұрын
We all learn from our experiences and it sounds like you have learned a thing or two. Good job.
@BigCountryKracker
@BigCountryKracker 2 жыл бұрын
Dude I got it worse off than most of u. Everyone thinks I’m racist.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын
Kajun Kracker, actions speak pretty loudly so keep your head high and do the right thing.
@Firecracker1987
@Firecracker1987 Жыл бұрын
O
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching.
@marwahares3430
@marwahares3430 Жыл бұрын
After hearing the first tip i m outta here. It is not just harsh but inappropriate
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV Жыл бұрын
Thanks for stopping by.
@s1enna742
@s1enna742 3 жыл бұрын
My reputation is baddie, rude, feelingless so anything you could help?
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 жыл бұрын
iiSimplyCookieii, if you need more help after the video go to go.liveonpurposecentral.com.
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