How to Flirt! 3 Proven Flirting Techniques Men Can't Resist | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

[@matboggs]

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[@rhodahatim-df3ed]

Great idea for me

[@universe5d176]

I use my humor as a flirting skill but somehow I end up roasting him 😂

[@kirstensignar4581]

This made me laugh haha 😂

[@dianapaul4648]

Girl, same.

[@thatonepersonyt5252]

F in the chat

[@caly6527]

This is brilliant hahahaha

[@grandedee6886]

Be hahahaha 🤣

[@roxied784]

1. sweet smile 2. giving compliments (how good he smell or his shirt looks good in him) 3. light touch to his fore arm 4. calling his 1st name 5. fixing his hair

[@Anastasia-cg3es]

U did great job bruh

[@ندى-ل9ث]

I used to do the hair thing the he confront me 😂 pleas don’t touch my hair with a laugh I hate anyone doing that I was like 😅🤡 sorry !

[@roxied784]

@@ندى-ل9ث I agree, some guys have a thing with their hair, they like fixing it, so instead of touhing it, I jist give compliments. Fixing his hair is kind a invading his personal space so this is not applicable for everyone, most specially if you are not yet close enough. ☺

[@rabbit9979]

@@roxied784 Mmmhm... Depends on the culture. Touching a mans hair is a very emotional thing, but women should know when it s ok and when it s not. You will feel when it s ok.

[@roxied784]

@@rabbit9979 true, touching hair is the last thing you'll do if you have already connected with him like you know that he wouldn't mind. You may ask permission aswell like "Is it ok if I fix your hair?"

[@marizensoul8410]

Something I really like is when a guy takes my chin in his hand and makes me look up at him, thats hot.

[@godloveskaren]

Ooh yeah!

[@xenalucy7574]

Mari ZenSoul do you think guys like that too dear??

[@godloveskaren]

Lol, I'll never know, I'm shorter than everyone else 🤭

[@SuzannaKiraly]

Like in a romantic movie.

[@Kiky812]

Cringe

[@dianethompson9525]

I flirted outrageously with a man that I wasn’t really meaning too. I was in college in an acting class and we were divided up into groups of three and given a short excerpt from a play to practice and perform. We all studied our lines for a little while and then rehearsed. One of the guys in my group said his lines and then it was my turn. I just stared at him and didn’t say a word. I finally realized I was just staring at him and I said “your eyes are so incredible that I just stared into them and forgot my lines!” It was the truth! I literally got lost in his eyes! I was really embarrassed, but he was flattered!

[@Cat-xv5bn]

I am 67 and having the time of my life dating. I have 2 dates this weekend. I've been told my entire life I have a great smile. I just smile a lot, laugh at the jokes, and lean into them when they are talking.

[@marcies1297]

Great for you man!! Enjoy

[@skydaddyissues3884]

I love this. I’m 36 and just want to go on dates forever. My son wants step-siblings and I feel bad not wanting to remarry

[@corgisrule21]

If I had a flirting strategy that men couldn’t resist. I wouldn’t be here now, would I? 😂😂

[@Aethelhadas]

lol

[@anupamaira]

Right.. Katie

[@beevang7967]

Me too. Lmao

[@sekaoladylangenkamp9698]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@juanameta]

Girl! Me too! 🤣😂😂🤣

[@belle.m]

Going back and watching Disney movies for dating tips! 😂

[@MelodyAMc14]

I'm surprised he skipped the "do me eyes" in The Lion King.

[@susanmitchell2590]

😂😂😂

[@francesmatus1549]

Lol ikr

[@thesylly86]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Pink-ds7xn]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@shelbycarter3245]

The “kiss me now” works 100%!! Tried it last night with my guy, worked like a charm ☺️

[@nodifferentthanyou7109]

My favorite flirting tactic is teasing and playfully messing with him. It works to both get his attention and make him smile, which in turn makes me smile because I love how his smile makes him light up.

[@seabird3896]

I'm dying bc I tried the fake palm read and his masculine energy afterwards was off the charts 🤣 It's so endearing to me(':

[@micboo1978]

Being in touch with my sensuality and feminine energy where the flirting comes naturally works for me !

[@Auntee-Sara]

Exactly Right! Sensuality is rarely seen these days having been replaced by the (false) notion that all one needs is to look pretty. Summing it up: Primping is a Finger Gun 👉pew-pew Sensuality is an Atom Bomb ⚛💣💥

[@CoilyCode]

Yes this is true

[@kimstevens5513]

My favorite flirting tactic is to say something, often off the wall, to make them laugh. This builds rapport and interest deep and fast and authentically shows them who I am.

[@victorianelson2961]

Matt your wife is giving such a great example! I love that you include her in your videos.

[@KayInMaine]

You can tell they're very attracted to each other still. It's awesome!

[@roseannecabal1098]

I love it too!!! A man who always includes their wife wherever they are women around them will know there's boundaries and that they can't have a dot of chance to be flirting to you. As a wife I would feel so secure you doing your thang coz I know I'm there with you maybe not physically but they'll feel I am coz youd always talks about me about our love it's like declaring to them look I'm married and I love my husband or my wife i'm here to inspire you about our marriage and that it could be fun and wonderful between you all spouses too. 👍💪👩‍❤️‍👨🙏🏽❤️

[@mariamarinadugarteorjuela3521]

I always engage in a conversation he’s passionate about. I always keep eye contact throughout the conversation without interrupting and at the end I would formulate challenging questions about his topic. All of this with a subtle smile on my face.

[@martinvanzyl4454]

w

[@K9Kungfu]

holy shit this is a win.

[@christinecarlos7316]

Take away: 3 Flirting Strategies: 1) Kiss me now: for end of the date. You look down & you look up at him. 2) The Non Sequitur: complement & admire him about a quality you notice in him while he's telling you a story. 3) The fake palm read: caress the lines on his hand & tell him things about him. The more ridiculous, the better.

[@bellamariehannah787]

Hahahhaha

[@akylaiotkulbek1798]

Thanks❤

[@godloveskaren]

Thank you!!!!!! SO MUCH!!!!!! That's just what I requested him to add! I love that you did this!🥰😁🙋‍♀️❤

[@MyrnaB]

I have used the “non sequitur” technique, I didn’t know it was a thing but it certainly works. I admire my now husband and it fills me with joy when I hear his stories. He has such pasión for what he likes it’s amazing.

[@CraftyLori]

Men love it when you pay attention to what they are talking about, so what I do to make it seem like I'm paying attention even if it's something I'm not interested in, is I repeat the appx last three words from their conversation while they're talking to me, for example...man- the nascar race was a good one the Chevy cars are fast, me- "Chevy cars are fast" When I repeat what they say it shows interest in a flirty way. I do this at random times during the conversation. It works! Try it sometime.

[@godloveskaren]

Great suggestions, both of you!

[@39amelia39]

I do this, but in a way that makes it sound like theyre teaching me something so i would say "I didnt know Chevys were that much faster than the other cars." All of a sudden they light up and go "Oh yea, if you didnt know that then this would fascinate you too" and they start talking fast because they want to talk as much as possible about the thing they love with someone who is paying attention

[@susanb5058]

39amelia39 lol and then they won’t shut up about something you don’t care about lol - but it’s ok if they’re cute 😆

[@christinegoldsack9385]

@Ligeia D.Aurevilly u

[@lh2477]

@@susanb5058 That's so funny and true☺️

[@beckyharper6263]

I told him after he showed me his paintings that I admire a man who has an artistic side, as this brings out his creativity side.

[@staywellandstrong4199]

Okay - 2 hours after seeing this - the silent one with slightly lowering one's head created a reaction that I've never seen by this person. He is usually very cool and collected - but this made him blush through his deep tan, for the first time, as his eyes twinkled, while slightly hesitating to gather a few words. There was a delighted - almost bewildered - look on his face. Thank you for making his day.

[@anefernandes]

I used the "fake palm read" technique twice on two different dates and it worked! Guys get really relaxed and laugh a lot when you touch them gently and be silly. Totally recommended 👍😄

[@flavourpunchh]

Omg I gotta try this!!! 😂

[@Sarah-bk4px]

I don’t even think I could come up with something off the wall for the fake palm reading... 😂

[@Sarah-bk4px]

There’s a guy I like and we talk off and on and we haven’t talked for a while so I sent him a text message “hey good Lookin, what you got Cookin?” He read the message and it took him like a day before he responded I thought it was funny but I don’t know how he felt about it LOL.

[@thebondvillain4920]

@@Sarah-bk4px just chill girl You cool It must have took him by surprise

[@Sarah-bk4px]

@@thebondvillain4920 yeah it probably did. We did end up going for coffee a few weeks later

[@aprettygirltosavetheworld]

Palm reading is the absolute best. The feeling of having your palms touched softly is amazing.

[@chaitanyasashidharan8475]

I did try the palm reading, omg!! I can stop laughing!! I cant even open my mouth!! I just kept laughing... so he left me... and i am still laughing!!!

[@meshp6552]

Hahahahaha

[@purr8535]

HAHAHAHAHA

[@Zoey1998-q1j]

Idiot 🤣🤣🤣

[@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau]

ahahaaa you crack me up. i think i couldn't do it better xD

[@eileenkozakowski8798]

Too funny! Thanks for making me laugh out loud!

[@celinabond]

the first one works every time! i love light touch on his knee or arm when I'm laughing at his joke. also grabbling his wrist/hand to admire his watch/jewelry breaks the touch barrier (on a first date)

[@brandibishop2246]

@Intuitivelogic you really should consider writing for literotica just sayin

[@---nj7hl]

Intuitivelogic What astrology sign are you?

[@TastemyAtrocity]

I do all these things naturally, and never knew they were “moves”. I guess that explains my pattern of hitting off with men until they realize there’s a real person under all that feel-good flattery. Flirting will only get you so far.

[@sarahdell4744]

Except the palm reading I do it naturally too... 🤭🤣

[@bienvile104]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@joellecogliati8261]

Yes, and more specifically... looking down and to the right before glancing up is irresistable non verbal body language, even for someone who does not consider themselves attracted to you!!!

[@aditimukhopadhyay5047]

Please make a video for those who are in long distance relationship..

[@naemaamhaz]

Ya i need that too

[@odette_m2118]

Yeah plsssss

[@jennifervieira99]

Yes, I needed that this past May 2021. I messed up and I didn't realize I did till later. 😔 we really had not even had a date yet but he asked me to come over and we'd go out and I said the wrong thing because I didn't live where he was flying in to where he was going to be. It wasn't enough communication on both of our parts.he thought I lived on the west coast of Florida but I lived on the east coast. I said the wrong thing after that and it killed everything. 😔💙

[@misso9992]

I stroked his palm and told him I wanted to hold his hand and he told me to stop being gay 👀😂

[@hitgirl2452]

😂😂

[@calliechristine6921]

Omfg 😂

[@kundaimawere4214]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@naemaamhaz]

Lol 😂😂😂

[@cierrahleshai1066]

😂😂😭💀

[@darlenes5406]

Years ago I had an ex boyfriend take my hand and instead of palm reading, he was ‘drawing directions on it’ while explaining something- totally worked on me, his eyes were locked on mine, the touch was sensual - I’ve never forgot about it.

[@ChikaChika2]

Successfully pulled off the palm read today! Feeling both proud and silly at the same time haha

[@teresayeates3437]

I like to ask men who their best friend was growing up followed by what silly or fun adventures they got up to when they were together. The stories are great, it brings back fun, happy memories and I learn a lot about the man. Plus, who does not like talking about themselves?.

[@susancorcoran2980]

When you’re in a loud place sit next to him and talk as closely as you can into his ear close enough where you almost touch it.... but don’t touch it....Talk to him for at least 30 seconds. The words could be something as simple as passionately describing one of your favorite items on the menu when you were there last....the hair on the back of his neck will stand up...as well as other things🤭

[@godloveskaren]

Ooh-la-la!🥰

[@ainadena7318]

ahhhhh with mask on? nahhhh

[@JP-cq6tn]

It is erotica 2 ever so softly whisper in2 his ear. It works like a charm & is very sensual.

[@qtin2ledo]

I kind of combine your first two. When we're both laughing at something and maybe I playfully pushed him like... "Stop it. You're too funny." I do the look and the grin, tilt my head to the side all innocent and ask... "Are you ever going to kiss me?" Timing is perfect. It's almost always stellar. I'm definitely incorporating the palm reading one next time though... I'll say... "This line says a girl you like wants you to kiss her." or... "This line says you're a great kisser but I'm not so sure." Also near the end of a date I don't want to end I ask... So what time do you turn into a pumpkin? Idk... The guys think that's cute. 💁

[@kcnnanna]

Great suggestions Heidi!

[@elainekan4209]

you're a genius!! definitely trying this on my next date hehe

[@miladorony1057]

I will try this tomorrow. Thanks heidi.

[@KSollano]

Flirting move that I used is constantly teasing a man that he's now head over heels to me during the conversation and he's really gone head over heels!!

[@Joanafandrade]

I actually did the second tecnique without knowing. I told him my father likes fishing and hunting just like you (this are his favourite hobbies), suddendly he was just glowing his smile was in sparkle and his eyes too.

[@ritag.bowman5723]

I might sound like a sissy, which I am NOT, but my guy tells me this ... "You have the best giggle ... If there was ever a giggle contest, you would win - hands down." OK, I'm 69 years old, and giggles don't come very easily at this age; but, for me, I'm just a natural born giggler (plus, he's do damn funny).

[@mylove2727]

You're a lucky woman

[@rebecarojas4264]

I tried the palm reading...and he loved it..:) in fact keep asking for more..lol

[@DemetTuncer]

I had no idea palm reading was flirting ahahahah... Watching this, NOW I understand why my friend, unexpectedly asked to read this girls palm...I could not make sense cuz our friend is NOT the palm reading, tarot believing, astrology following type. LMAO now!!

[@EliteXtasy]

The first move was good. I thought the second move was a bit cringy. But the third one.... nah. Not my thing.

[@abigailquinones1003]

Mood 😂

[@monka.]

Same here. Just watching it made me feel uncomfortable lol

[@JewelBlueIbanez]

The second one can be done if you’re in the position to do it. I was talking to a guy explaining something he and I are absolutely passionate about, and I remember being captivated by his beautiful blue eyes that just sort of lit up as he spoke. I could have easily used the second one there (but I was nervous and didn’t want to come on too strong, since I’m pretty sure he still technically has a girlfriend).

[@hatakekakashi6278]

And me who already forgot wht was d first move.. haha.. lemme rewatch again. Its so pointless watching this haha

[@merimalicina635]

Yepp, not a fan either. For me this is way too obvious, too open and too attacking. I like being more subtile. I noticed that when you give him or her attention, but back off as well, this automatically confuses the person and makes her want you more

[@nyoracl]

I'm watching this video to prevent myself from unintentionally making men think I want more. With my short sightedness these days, I have to look at men that way unless I remove my glasses. And I'm always being insightful when men tell me stories because I calculate their refined masculinity score and what they've had to go through or become in order to arrive at that scenario. I also calculate their stupidity which I don't tell them.

[@anawonka]

Im single af i dont why i watch all your videos lol

[@sachikuwahara5460]

anawonka same

[@myhannibal4806]

For future reference 👀

[@kristejobaird9192]

See my man? Looking all invisible & shit. Lol. I'm single too yet here I am. Wth?😁

[@alessial134]

Lol me too 🤣

[@kettycabrera8213]

I love the hand reading technique!! Please more of this concrete actions, also for texting 🤗 I’m dating a marine and he’s away so I need texting techniques hahaha

[@sangeetaarora1812]

I never appreciate only on his looks i see his qualities and complement him it makes him feel special!

[@Devinebeautyy]

Omggg I do these things all the time never understanding why guys think I like them when I don’t 😩😩 except the palm read it all makes sense

[@ismeneedecaste3592]

I think the only time I'm consciously flirting is when I'm slightly drunk, you know, the cute drunk, where I'm giggly (fyi I'm a really serious person most of the time), a bit more social, asking him all kinds of goofy questions that have everything to do with nothing at all. I thought I was being obnoxious but people would come up to me and tell me to be like that more often. Like, what, more drunk? More not myself? LOL...I have no idea how the flirting thing happens..

[@amberg4131]

Sucks when you can’t drink and your being piss tested now so apparently all your past attempts at come ons wernt done right or were too strong??? Hello!? How the hell heck am I going to get some snu snu without any liquid luck? I’m literally dying over here:? But thanks for the tips I will definitely try as soon as he wakes up,notices about 10 texts of me sending random stuff and he goes to sleep to ends his day I’d say about another 36 to 48 hours and then I’m totally turning the tables 😅 I hope wish me luck Playful girl is coming back He’s been warned lol

[@ChrissyVee5]

Ive done the kiss me now look without knowing it. It definitely works lol😉

[@growwithmetv]

Wow I have do this with my man thanks for sharing

[@sofiafeliz703]

OMG! Thanks, Matt! So funny, I’ve been using all of these strategies naturally since I was a very young girl! Flirting is just built in when we are born, part of women’s software 😂 When I was 18, I “read” a guy’s palm, he was also about 18 and believed everything I told him, sweet naive guy 😊

[@raquelt5342]

The cartoons snippets you used in this made my day Mat! 😂😂👏👏👏👏 love it!

[@gritsonamission]

Another way I flirt:. Text "oh my goodness! I really need to tell you something!" Wait for response, them send, "I miss you" accompanied by a flirty pic. Nothing the fam can't see, but a cute angle with a wink. Maybe can encouraging word if his work day is going to be particularly rough. (LDR)

[@skucha]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Im dying who would have told me I could learn flirting moves from disney

[@2009galactica]

I like #2. Would love to hear more tips what else I could say to compliment a guy. Not so much his looks, but unique qualities of him.

[@mmsgilchrist1]

I love these tools! Keep them coming! Thank you!

[@godloveskaren]

I LOVE this! Especially your wife (I presume) reading your palm! 🥰 Now I have a favor to ask. Are you willing to put the bullet points together somewhere? For example, I save certain videos, and if I could just at a glance, read those key points, I would really appreciate it, to remind me what's discussed, rather than having to watch the WHOLE video to be reminded. Thank you 🙂 PS: I love your channel! My husband and I have been married for 40 years and I look for ideas to spice up the romance part of our marriage. ❤

[@ladyhoffmann]

Very Beautiful wife. Incorporate her in your videos..she's very relatable

[@wandag.2073]

Ready to give this a trial run.... If only I got dates more often!

[@theempress1104]

I will do this to my man. Omg I can't wait to try it!!!!

[@maggieonsecurity]

I love your videos that include your wife! 🌟 Love seeing your awesome tips demonstrated by a woman so I can expertly try them on my man! Thank you Boggs Team for being so awesome! 🤩

[@jessiecorn17]

Some advice I would give: Laugh or smile in a warm way a bit more. I'm a bit small as in I have extremely small hands and I'm a little short so I always use things about me to my advantage. Usually I try to measure my hands with theirs when we are really close since my hands are small. I always move in close when he's talking and focus completely on him. I think guys that like you want to be your center of attention. So I always listen to them talk first or ask them intriguing questions since I'm a bit of an introvert. Then I NEVER touch my phone and I just focus in on them completely and make sure to react well. Like saying wow and really and getting wide eyed or smiling. And if I like the guy it is usually a genuine thing. Another trick to make them feel special is to look at them thoughtfully while they look away then when they look back kind of act like you didn't want them to see you looking at them and look away shyly. Another thing is just complimenting the alot. That sounds like a given especially if I like someone like right now but what I mean is compliment them on something that is not really obvious or something they may be insecure about but you like. Like I am seeing a guy I really like right now so I always tell him how he has nice hands and a nice nose. Or I'll tell him I like his sense of style or his voice. His ears or his neck. Stuff like that. Doesn't have to be physical. I think it mostly depends on the guy you likes personality. If you have more of a dominant or sarcastic personality which I dont usually try to watch your words and actions. Try to soften them because he too may be nervous about you. Or he may be wondering about what you think of him. Edit: I'm not a cold deceiving person I'm just saying some stuff guys I've dated have said they like that I do. It's not really a strategy for me just something they tend to like about me. 😂

[@ng_rainbow]

Yeah I do this thing - to look at a guy thoughtfully when he does smth and when he looks back at me turn my eyes away in a shy mode! It works, guys get hooked on it

[@Cgm_05_pink]

I don't have any strategy. Haha! Literally Man in love with me for who i am. Guys if a man really loves you. You don't need to do anything. He will definitely stick to you no matter what.

[@skyehagenstein7883]

I knew all except the palm reading.. such a cute idea❤️

[@crizleypangan2027]

One and Two... that was me to him....and He always said you drive me crazy again🥰☺️

[@Kaxxonxbox]

You should do a texting episode since everyone is stuck at home and building relationships virtually!

[@kaitlinr8501]

I recently found this channel. I’m so excited. I love all the ideas. I have been single for a very long time

[@margieblessing2559]

..the bend, and snap! works every time!

[@rosegarcia2371]

I find I draw people close to me when I laugh wholeheartedly at what they say. Men, women, children....

[@jeniwatkins3297]

Nice advice. I find being myself works well. I am not girly, a tom-boy and tell it like it is. I am a natural flirt and it's served me well for near a half century. Lol 😉

[@crystalmt210]

Me too!

[@tinaleeth2707]

Yeah tomboy/girl here too. But the catch is that we're here

[@jeniwatkins3297]

@@tinaleeth2707 It popped up amd curiosity got me. Nothing more. Lol

[@tinaleeth2707]

@@jeniwatkins3297 I've broke the algorithm.. my suggested goes from motivational, hip hop, country, how to fix, and a bonus palm reader tip lol.

[@mandela-manny5022]

Heh… I’m really really grateful for this! I hope we get together soon 😭 I’ve tried getting close for almost 2 years nowwww

[@xtine6772]

For me just be natural ,sweet ,kind, caring,daring to your partner just be yourself. By doing some techniques it makes u feel uncomfortable coz u r trying to portrait somebody's actions .

[@Bakerygo]

Can we get some tips to spice up an old settled relationship?

[@jackie6091]

You and the Mrs have got fire! Get a room.. 😉

[@adela6505]

Reeeeaaalll fire!!! lol! ;)

[@Amandagirl73]

I found them awkward to be honest. Cringy even 🤢

[@Di-hz2dz]

@@Amandagirl73 i agree

[@lavayuki]

I did that look down and up, since i was expecting a kiss but saw that they were hesitating and it worked.Never heard of the palm reading one, that's really funny. I love guys who go to the gym and like good arms, I usually go for the hands and arms for light body touch

[@sherrytzasherrytza4793]

My strategy is a bit more subtle(sneaky even? - but I don't feel guilty at all). I'd normally pick a very serious, non sexy topic(kids in Africa, physics, tax, whatever) speak quieter and move in reaaaly close. So close that he can feel my body heat though there's no touch.(appart from a few "accidental" little touches that I always apologise for). So close that my static hair would stick to his cheek, as we sit side by side. Poor guy would feel bit ashamed for his thoughts while I'm on about serious stuff and have no ideea that's me flirting. If they like me they would be looking forward for a more light-hearted moment to make a move. They'll think it was all their idea. 😁😅

[@cerenb7909]

if you’re that close they probably understand, not everyone is dumb

[@godloveskaren]

Love it! Thanks!

[@lindseykelly8091]

Brilliant!

[@francinegray9383]

This juxtaposition of serious and bodily too close is excellent. I've done it and a guy who was very seductive did that to me .... he was so good at it I didn't know what hit me. Got all confused!

[@x_270rr_s3]

Oh manipulative.... I don't like all crazy ideas. Why dont u just freaking tell u want. It works.

[@maryhale9981]

Flirting tip: while staring into his eyes, a second to long( with a soft little smile) whisper wow to yourself as if in wonderment. When he asks what. Say something like: you are one hell of a man Add cheek /chest caress or thumb swipe over bottom lip or chin pinch. Be prepared he may ask what made you say that? Have answers ready.( this is not the time to stumble or stammer over your words) Make sure he knows you are complementing him. Done at the wrong time he may think you're upset with him or putting him down.

[@pinkmuffin9842]

I'm just really positive. Worked out for me. When I'm comfortable with a guy, I paint my nails for the second Date (nothing to crazy but noticable) and 6 out of seven guys made a Comment on it. I then ask them if they know why i like them long. I always say "My cat absolutely loves when I scratch her like that" and then i carress either their neck or their arm (depending on how much i like him yet). Sounds straight forward but never failed me.

[@sashinistrickler5910]

Hi Matt! And hi to everyone here! I know generally in a woman, confidence is considered most attractive. As for me, I have this tendency towards being of a rather coy, bashful giggly and fidgety (sometimes it wd appear rather juvenile I guess) demeanour rather than one marked outright with confidence when it comes to talking to the guy on a date; do you think it'll be considered weird ?

[@arlinejernigan]

I’m down with the first two but the last one was silly, and I would feel silly doing it

[@crystalmt210]

It's actually very fun and you get to use your visualization and creativity when doing this. He will laugh with you, not at you.

[@hollywood5703]

Interesting. I thought only the last one was funny and creative.

[@brunamusetti]

Me too tbh

[@MsGagaK]

Love the video!!! 🥰😍 - for number one I don’t know if I can do it without looking weird and scary; I wear glasses 🤓😭

[@KatherineTuchfarber]

Similar to the palm read, when my ex and I first started dated we held hands a lot. If sitting at the table holding hands, I would start to massage his hands and fingers. His hands were so masculine and I commented on how hard of a worker he was so it built him up and was lightly physical. I’m sure you know what I mean and can phrase it much nicer.

[@eunieeunice6972]

OMG.. You are such a darling Matt. We love it ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕but can we please know how men react in obvious way to show us girls that they are so in love

[@namunamoktan9194]

Flirting can simply be saying good things about a person, I don't think we should give people fake compliments because in the long run they will know it was not true so fake compliments might just work for that night (one night stand) or few days but not forever

[@chrisa6455]

Matthew this is been so helpful I'm a woman in my late 50s . I decided to try one of the techniques the person I'm very interested in glancing at his lips but just a few seconds I don't know if you know this but I did and we had a wonderful conversation

[@hananm.3746]

Ariel knew how to win that kiss 😉😄 I loved that movie

[@hollywood5703]

I haven't done any of them. Last guy I thought was cute enough to flirt with was married. Sigh

[@lupitaramos5741]

Can’t wait to use this method. Thanks

[@cindyriehm7411]

Yes but later cause I think it would b rude to interrupt him. Very nice. Very helpful.

[@idyllicallysweet403]

Well for me being a shortie does that mean I'm accidentally flirting with a guy from #1...?

[@annelayden6010]

Massaging he’s back and telling him I love he’s eyes

[@justanothersherlockian7058]

I literally just did the Disney princess thing to my crush when I caught him staring at me, and HE SMILED BACK!!!

[@caffinnascreations6948]

I used the fake palm read as both flirting and as a spicey turn-down to guys as well!

[@namukasasharifah4072]

The second gesture is good to try out...

[@samiakhalil8888]

Ive done the 3rd one lots of times but that's because Iam a real palmist.Its a great way to flirt but the reading is not fake.

[@maidaabrar17]

When he is telling a story keep ur hand on face prentend to be lost admiring him after he is done telling tell him a compliment u know tour eyes sparkle when you talk about things you love

[@treatnguyen7564]

The fake palm read is so funny. It's fun to watch your useful and interesting videos. 😇 Thank you.

[@UptownGlamGirl]

This is one of the best vids yet!!!!

[@shaivyasrivastava4217]

This is the best video ever...clear...to the point...interesting...funny👍👍

[@cynthiaskaggs6645]

Not sure how many of these I could actually pull off or how many would actually work on the type of guys I like. I guess I am just an insanely awkward weirdo, looking for another weirdo to be odd with until we fall into mutual weirdness together 🤷‍♀️😆

[@carolajones13]

I really enjoy your dating advice.Love your personality. I will have to try Palm reading.

[@kilodeltawhisky1504]

Interesting strategies.. I like having examples. The Disney one was useful for sure. Thank you!

[@queenb4958]

I flirt by being playful and girly, always brings smiles to their faces 😜