SUPER SIMPLE! How to Flirt with Men | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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[@rezotydnic]

Flirting in a positive way. 1. Give him a compliment. Ex. Smell. Clothes. Smile. 2. Ask for his advice. 3. Hi. My name is... Opens conversation. I'm not good at flirting at all. But I've learned a couple of things. Smiling and looking eye to eye while engaging conversation is good. And I do give compliments.

[@IssaSia]

yes I agree! It works giving compliment even to strangers can start a friendship.

[@doloresrosario893]

The first thing I notice about anyone is their eyes and when I see a guy with eyes that captivate me, I have to respond and tell him. I am not shy and flirting has never been a problem for me. My two favorite lines? "I think I'm in love!" and "God bless your Mama and Papa!"

[@moneytalkworks]

Perfect timing, Matt! I was talking with a gal about flirting 😂. 1. Give a compliment 2. Get advice from 3. My name is Okie...dokie. thanks for sharing ❤😊

[@secretshaman189]

I love listening to a male viewpoint, thank-you! Your relationship advice has been so helpful over the years.

[@taraelmegreen5527]

SMILE! let your light shine in your smile and eyes!!

[@beccawolfe777]

Recently met someone online. I'm trying to let it flow and taking it one day at a time. My trust isn't the highest but I am hoping.

[@niaturner2137]

Let your eyes linger on them slightly longer than you do with anybody else and give him a sweet smile💕

[@yudollia]

This is exactly how I flirt lol it made him nervous & didn’t approach at all… so I think he doesnt like me

[@semiboom]

look at the lips by “accident”

[@doloresrosario893]

I work at Bucee's and shortly after our store opened, a group came in with a fella in a wheelchair and an oxygen tank. As they passed by me, he looked up and winked at me. I followed them and tapped his wife on the shoulder to stop her. I walked around to the front of his wheelchair and said, "When a man winks at me, he gets a hug" and I bent down and hugged him. He lit up like a Christmas tree and said, "Oh, I love this place!"

[@Suzette-gb7uj]

That’s beautiful! You’re an amazing human being❣️

[@tjrothausen]

I love the idea that what we sow comes back to us even if not from the same field (where we thought we wanted love). 🤯I hope it’s true!

[@christyrohrmayer5330]

Oh, my word, I didn't actually think it was that easy! Guess I had always thought flirting was more complicated.

[@maryloudelossantos1624]

A "smile" is priceless! With a simple smile, gives a man a way to respond with a smile back.

[@marynadudnyk5203]

0 seconds ago Mat, I just love you, you always give most amazing advice on love ..and you do it from the most comfortable and friendly place I can imagine.. Thank you!!

[@MsLilac88]

I enjoy watching your amazing relationship advice videos, these are great relationship tips. 😊

[@meetandinspire]

"You want to call in great love, dial up the number of interactions, run towards what makes you afraid, lean into what's uncomfortable, because I guarantee you, as you do, and you expand your comfort zone, everything that you want is on the other side of that comfort zone."

[@lorashay495]

when texting someone in the beginning, I will send something like "ok, rapid fire 🔥 questions, favorite book? favorite movie? and favorite snack?" keeping it light and playful where they don't have to think... and take the conversation from there...

[@erikagraham3524]

I asked a guy was that the cologne he wore to cut the grass cause if it was he was drawing women not bees 😂 we are still talking to this day 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@lisamartin3346]

Cute!

[@TheProfessorPatti]

Super adorable!

[@cecilyremy7899]

That's cute

[@Redpill_to_MGTOW]

Doesnt make any sense. Nobody is looking to attract bees while cutting grass.

[@gratefulforabundance9043]

It’s so funny, because , as a woman, I can say to another woman: “ I love your sweater, it looks like something from Switzerland and you look so nice in it ! “. And she will smile and say thank you . However, if I say to a guy: “ I like your houndstooth scarf, it looks really nice ! “ He will say : “ I ‘m married !!! “. He won’t smile and say thank you 😊

[@lauraassuncao4494]

THIS. THIS THIS THIS. lol so true.

[@darryls4532]

Been seven years after my husband passed , I look for a nice guys. Most of guys I like is married guys🤣. Anyway, I am still looking never stop. I don't know how to flirt!!!!! always straight to it ....the answer I got I am married😂

[@TheProfessorPatti]

@@darryls4532 I think a nice smile and hello is the best flirt, but I am not an expert. Just a thought.

[@juanamarin3062]

For me my # 1 flirting tip is to walk up to man and look him dead in the eyes and say “ can you help me? “watch his hero instinct activate and then thank him graciously 😎🤭

[@Kaniyaw82]

What do I need help with at gym so I can ask him 🤔

[@stephanieC2]

Im going to ask him if he can help me fix a certain unit in my house. 😏😂

[@MWroses]

​@@Kaniyaw82 did you do it??

[@terrifromm5085]

I smile. Instant ice breaker.

[@huonghillarynguyen9762]

Matt, You are always the top coach for lovers. We love and appreciate your KZbin channel.

[@nadjacalore2660]

Just smile🌺

[@eileenstasczak6606]

Advice actually starts at 4:32.

[@valindabalcarzar8305]

I like when a man smiles at me-and asks me my name. Then, they simply ask me on a date.

[@janetcarroll8863]

I'm an older gal and was raised that flirting was being forward and a big no-no. Now, all the guys in my age bracket are too old, anyway. LOL

[@valindabalcarzar8305]

Some men might think that I am flirting with them-but,I am simply a friendly person. I am practicing not to be super friendly with the male sex-but, I say thank you to people that help me.🙈 First world problems.😆

[@TheProfessorPatti]

I know! I just like to smile and say hi to people cause people rarely do, however, I know what you mean, some do think I am flirting when I am not.

[@VLoveTarot]

Amazing tips! I missed an opportunity today because I didn't know how to break the ice. I'll know not to miss an opportunity next time! Thanks!

[@joannguzzo185]

I actually use the 3rd one you gave ...

[@farah_di_ipoh1968]

Compliment, advice, "Hi my name is" The first 2 comes naturally for me. I never thought they are a flirting line. I think the 3rd one will be an official flirting line for me 😄

[@TheProfessorPatti]

I think a nice smile & hello while looking in the eyes is the best, feminine flirt. However, I am not an expert, though I have heard from a few other vids that men are very attracted to a woman with a nice smile, so maybe my suggestion is not too bad.

[@themaggattack]

A long time ago I, was NOT flirting, but I told a guy at work that he smells good and asked him what cologn he wears. I guess he thought I was trying to flirt, because he acted wierd about it and wouldn't tell me what cologn it was! I just wanted to know because I wanted to buy it as a gift for someone else! It's so wierd that people take any type of communication as flirting! 🥴

[@KM-lu7nh]

Yes. I've ran across guys that think just because you're being nice you're flirting.

[@MWroses]

I told a guy that his shirt color looked good on him, that it was his color. I didn't think he'd take it as a flirt but awhile later, I got an email from him and he wanted my number.

[@JaniceCross-n2s]

If it's really this easy, why don't more men take the initiative and do them? Women like men with initiative - at least this one does.

[@brennap3310]

1:29 ❤

[@Mayfloweralways]

My ex was very assertive and flirtatious. Worst relationship of my life. He was a player and was not good relationship material. It’s something to the consider. A man who doesn’t get nervous often feels he has nothing to lose, meaning he may see you as nothing he’s worried about messing up with because he’ll just move along to the next woman. A guy who is hesitant and nervous probably cares about how it turns out.

[@rachelsmith5687]

Thanks

[@JessicaBelansky]

I met my guy just by saying my name to him anyway we lived next door to each other long story short I have the best guy in my life plus he called me his best friend

[@InG-ko6du]

Thanks, man ❤

[@nineangels7572]

I can flirt, in an innocent yet complimentary way. Only with the one person I am interested in. No flirting with the general public.

[@lambchop6278]

I've used a double entendre before. In the tradition ofgreat British humor. I chose a word with an innocent meaning and an obvious 'I'm hitting on you' meaning. I also like surprising them with such a comment and then walking away and leaving them. I'm a fan of role reversal. Keeps things interesting. And if a guy is a jerk after i hit on them, I scratch them off my 'Hot' list. Annoys ne especially if they assume you're easy, when you just kniw hiw to enjoy yourself and even are partly maybe tryong make them feel good fir the fun of it.

[@mamouilletten1562]

3:31 I have none ! I mean a lot of men are staring at me and i'm 48 next month BUT i want only one man, i'm hooked, focused, i know it's the love of my life . The thing is that i'm so shy that i make every situation awkward and i'm pretty sure i'm sending wrong signals - by fleeing after a short conversation( when anxiety reaches the highest level) - Staring at him, pretty sure with lust like the "bedroom stare" but as soon as he looks at me i'm already watching the Toblerone bar next to him. He maybe thinks i'm a creep , bizarre or desperate. Why am i so nervous and cannot act normally when he's around ??? I'm surprised i didn't already fart loudly whilst saying " Hi" to him.😂

[@cathyhg8282]

This! It so sounds like me around my crush. Each time a little conversation starts I reply with a smile then quickly move away as I'm so afraid the conversation will quickly die and I won't know what to say. Once, when I kissed his cheeks to say hi (we live in France and do that) he softly said into my ear "Mmm, you smell so good". I was wearing perfume. I stupidly just said thank you and slowly walked away lol

[@mamouilletten1562]

@cathyhg8282 Je suis française aussi. OMG il faut y aller là ! Prenez votre courage à deux mains parce il a un crush aussi 🥰 Malheureusement j'ai déménagé et je regrette de ne pas avoir demandé son numéro. Il ne travaille plus dans la ville où j'étais bref... un acte manqué. 💔 Faites le premier pas.

[@Owniverse]

I asked this guy at the gym what he was doing later on... and now we're happily having a baby together ☺️.

[@LotusRise1000]

Thanks Matt! Perfect timing

[@cuddlebuddy88mc]

Not gonna lie....i wasn't trying to flirt. I was trying to be intimidating. I work with white collar gents and he was the First one who refused to break his gaze and he forgot to breathe .😅. I instantly found him adorable. He's a sweet dude.

[@saras.2173]

4:51

[@AbiBrown-q9k]

gosh, I met a guy we were flirting a bit I asked to meet up as friends-well he said he will get back to me. lol surprise surprise he did not

[@youkilledma1211]

to defeat your enemy, you must understand your enemy -art of war, probably

[@dbayhk5425]

Hi Mat,how about flirting through text on long distance

[@DEANNAMATTHEWS]

You just blew my mind, hahaha you just described my whole personality! Hahaha Hahaha I just learned I have been flirting with the whole world. 😅hahaha Hahaha thank you, you made my day! Blessings to you and your family in Jesus name Amen

[@antiquelady60]

If you listen to a man for a few minutes he will usually give a hint as to what he wants to be complimented on.

[@SalomejaSaulyte]

Adults need tobe taught things that kids know and do naturally. Wanna know how to treat men that they run after you? Look at the little 3-6 year old girls.:) (Not older than that age).

[@FrickinCCDeVileV]

1960: In the future we'll have flying cars 2024: Being a decent, friendly person is some kind of rocket science

[@rosehiver6262]

That’s because in 2024 we have traumas from our parents raised in 1960.

[@reemsaif3105]

In the 1950s men would ask women out and many relationships stayed for a while. Now it doesnt happen much. I hope feminine receptivity becomes the norm again. Women are feeling bored with this. I give compliment to women and men because its nice 😸 🎉

[@Openhearted2024]

Now, please give some advice about flirting at the gym and are trainers off limits?!

[@andreea1352]

This will be very interesting 😁 I really wanna see this😋

[@frenchfries2378]

Just say "Good morning", or "hello" with NO PROMOTING. The arrogant ones who think theyre the bees knees (when they're not) always take it the wrong way.

[@Kaniyaw82]

Why is that so hard to samile and make eye contact?

[@arlenetubbs1146]

I’m getting to know a man & as we were talking he said “it’s been cold all day at work I’m going to take a hot shower and warm up.” I responded with hmmm giving me a picture of you naked😉

[@MassageDiaries]

No way I'm getting 95 percent or giving a green light..or maybe I am 😂😊

[@yothiga]

I don’t know how to flirt at all and automatically shut down any one who try 😢

[@adonisq]

Let’s start learning and put them into action. I missed two opportunities but I won’t the next time I see someone that attracts me. :)

[@genaliyodevi]

S M I L E OXO

[@KM-lu7nh]

My problem is if I find a guy attractive and happen to flirt, it's too overtly sexual, which is not how I want to come across.

[@FrickinCCDeVileV]

It's very simple and I'm gonna tell you right here, just ask a man about his day and his activities. Oh right but ya'll don't really care a damn about that, it has to be all about you.

[@akferren1]

Cologne is like second hand smoke and a big turnoff

[@cynthiakk5966]

I think that sense of humour is also a good way to flirting. But not too many man know how to flirt back in fun way. Long time ago, during conversations, I used to say to one man. “ I am magnet and you are paper clip, but your heart is under 5000 miles sea, do you found I can attract your heart? “ He is just frozen, so it is end. I used to say one time with joke, I said, “ you should go to buy light bulb, because I would like you to light up my life.” Then no response. “ You are a criminal and stole my heart.” Haha, maybe not so many men has sense of humour and they are just boring.

[@adonisq]

It is too strong a start. Gentle does it at the beginning. 😊

[@katephillips2518]

play with your hair

[@melindapearson295]

Way too much chit/chat!!!!

[@mashudak8107]

Hahaha I thought it was just me scared around men but I don't associate with men for religious reasons.

[@adonisq]

We ladies have too many restrictions. Let us give ourselves some space.😊

[@nadjacalore2660]

Just smile🌺