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@rezotydnic6 ай бұрын
Flirting in a positive way. 1. Give him a compliment. Ex. Smell. Clothes. Smile. 2. Ask for his advice. 3. Hi. My name is... Opens conversation. I'm not good at flirting at all. But I've learned a couple of things. Smiling and looking eye to eye while engaging conversation is good. And I do give compliments.
@moneytalkworks6 ай бұрын
Perfect timing, Matt! I was talking with a gal about flirting 😂. 1. Give a compliment 2. Get advice from 3. My name is Okie...dokie. thanks for sharing ❤😊
@doloresrosario8936 ай бұрын
The first thing I notice about anyone is their eyes and when I see a guy with eyes that captivate me, I have to respond and tell him. I am not shy and flirting has never been a problem for me. My two favorite lines? "I think I'm in love!" and "God bless your Mama and Papa!"
@doloresrosario8936 ай бұрын
I work at Bucee's and shortly after our store opened, a group came in with a fella in a wheelchair and an oxygen tank. As they passed by me, he looked up and winked at me. I followed them and tapped his wife on the shoulder to stop her. I walked around to the front of his wheelchair and said, "When a man winks at me, he gets a hug" and I bent down and hugged him. He lit up like a Christmas tree and said, "Oh, I love this place!"
@Suzette-gb7uj6 ай бұрын
That’s beautiful! You’re an amazing human being❣️
@juanamarin30626 ай бұрын
For me my # 1 flirting tip is to walk up to man and look him dead in the eyes and say “ can you help me? “watch his hero instinct activate and then thank him graciously 😎🤭
@Kaniyaw826 ай бұрын
What do I need help with at gym so I can ask him 🤔
@stephanieC26 ай бұрын
Im going to ask him if he can help me fix a certain unit in my house. 😏😂
@MWroses2 ай бұрын
@@Kaniyaw82 did you do it??
@christyrohrmayer53306 ай бұрын
Oh, my word, I didn't actually think it was that easy! Guess I had always thought flirting was more complicated.
@beccawolfe7776 ай бұрын
Recently met someone online. I'm trying to let it flow and taking it one day at a time. My trust isn't the highest but I am hoping.
@secretshaman1896 ай бұрын
I love listening to a male viewpoint, thank-you! Your relationship advice has been so helpful over the years.
@erikagraham35246 ай бұрын
I asked a guy was that the cologne he wore to cut the grass cause if it was he was drawing women not bees 😂 we are still talking to this day 🤷🏽♀️
@lisamartin33466 ай бұрын
Cute!
@TheProfessorPatti3 ай бұрын
Super adorable!
@cecilyremy7899Ай бұрын
That's cute
@gratefulforabundance90436 ай бұрын
It’s so funny, because , as a woman, I can say to another woman: “ I love your sweater, it looks like something from Switzerland and you look so nice in it ! “. And she will smile and say thank you . However, if I say to a guy: “ I like your houndstooth scarf, it looks really nice ! “ He will say : “ I ‘m married !!! “. He won’t smile and say thank you 😊
@lauraassuncao44944 ай бұрын
THIS. THIS THIS THIS. lol so true.
@darryls45324 ай бұрын
Been seven years after my husband passed , I look for a nice guys. Most of guys I like is married guys🤣. Anyway, I am still looking never stop. I don't know how to flirt!!!!! always straight to it ....the answer I got I am married😂
@TheProfessorPatti3 ай бұрын
@@darryls4532 I think a nice smile and hello is the best flirt, but I am not an expert. Just a thought.
@taraelmegreen55276 ай бұрын
SMILE! let your light shine in your smile and eyes!!
@tjrothausen6 ай бұрын
I love the idea that what we sow comes back to us even if not from the same field (where we thought we wanted love). 🤯I hope it’s true!
@janetcarroll88636 ай бұрын
I'm an older gal and was raised that flirting was being forward and a big no-no. Now, all the guys in my age bracket are too old, anyway. LOL
@MsLilac886 ай бұрын
I enjoy watching your amazing relationship advice videos, these are great relationship tips. 😊
@niaturner21376 ай бұрын
Let your eyes linger on them slightly longer than you do with anybody else and give him a sweet smile💕
@yudollia2 ай бұрын
This is exactly how I flirt lol it made him nervous & didn’t approach at all… so I think he doesnt like me
@semiboomАй бұрын
look at the lips by “accident”
@lorashay4956 ай бұрын
when texting someone in the beginning, I will send something like "ok, rapid fire 🔥 questions, favorite book? favorite movie? and favorite snack?" keeping it light and playful where they don't have to think... and take the conversation from there...
@marynadudnyk52036 ай бұрын
0 seconds ago Mat, I just love you, you always give most amazing advice on love ..and you do it from the most comfortable and friendly place I can imagine.. Thank you!!
@VLoveTarot6 ай бұрын
Amazing tips! I missed an opportunity today because I didn't know how to break the ice. I'll know not to miss an opportunity next time! Thanks!
@valindabalcarzar83056 ай бұрын
I like when a man smiles at me-and asks me my name. Then, they simply ask me on a date.
@terrifromm50856 ай бұрын
I smile. Instant ice breaker.
@huonghillarynguyen97624 ай бұрын
Matt, You are always the top coach for lovers. We love and appreciate your KZbin channel.
@maryloudelossantos16246 ай бұрын
A "smile" is priceless! With a simple smile, gives a man a way to respond with a smile back.
@meetandinspire6 ай бұрын
"You want to call in great love, dial up the number of interactions, run towards what makes you afraid, lean into what's uncomfortable, because I guarantee you, as you do, and you expand your comfort zone, everything that you want is on the other side of that comfort zone."
@valindabalcarzar83056 ай бұрын
Some men might think that I am flirting with them-but,I am simply a friendly person. I am practicing not to be super friendly with the male sex-but, I say thank you to people that help me.🙈 First world problems.😆
@TheProfessorPatti3 ай бұрын
I know! I just like to smile and say hi to people cause people rarely do, however, I know what you mean, some do think I am flirting when I am not.
@Sjirra6 ай бұрын
Hey Matt! How about flirting in an already established relationship? One that's been going on for a few years maybe?
@maryptacek34536 ай бұрын
My opinion is that it's very important to continue to flirt. It keeps things spicy.
@nadjacalore26606 ай бұрын
Just smile🌺
@themaggattack6 ай бұрын
A long time ago I, was NOT flirting, but I told a guy at work that he smells good and asked him what cologn he wears. I guess he thought I was trying to flirt, because he acted wierd about it and wouldn't tell me what cologn it was! I just wanted to know because I wanted to buy it as a gift for someone else! It's so wierd that people take any type of communication as flirting! 🥴
@KM-lu7nh6 ай бұрын
Yes. I've ran across guys that think just because you're being nice you're flirting.
@MWroses2 ай бұрын
I told a guy that his shirt color looked good on him, that it was his color. I didn't think he'd take it as a flirt but awhile later, I got an email from him and he wanted my number.
@JaniceCross-n2s6 ай бұрын
If it's really this easy, why don't more men take the initiative and do them? Women like men with initiative - at least this one does.
@brennap33106 ай бұрын
1:29 ❤
@Mayfloweralways6 ай бұрын
My ex was very assertive and flirtatious. Worst relationship of my life. He was a player and was not good relationship material. It’s something to the consider. A man who doesn’t get nervous often feels he has nothing to lose, meaning he may see you as nothing he’s worried about messing up with because he’ll just move along to the next woman. A guy who is hesitant and nervous probably cares about how it turns out.
@farah_di_ipoh19686 ай бұрын
Compliment, advice, "Hi my name is" The first 2 comes naturally for me. I never thought they are a flirting line. I think the 3rd one will be an official flirting line for me 😄
@joannguzzo1852 ай бұрын
I actually use the 3rd one you gave ...
@Owniverse6 ай бұрын
I asked this guy at the gym what he was doing later on... and now we're happily having a baby together ☺️.
@JessicaBelansky6 ай бұрын
I met my guy just by saying my name to him anyway we lived next door to each other long story short I have the best guy in my life plus he called me his best friend
@FrickinCCDeVileVАй бұрын
1960: In the future we'll have flying cars 2024: Being a decent, friendly person is some kind of rocket science
@rosehiver626214 күн бұрын
That’s because in 2024 we have traumas from our parents raised in 1960.
@TheProfessorPatti3 ай бұрын
I think a nice smile & hello while looking in the eyes is the best, feminine flirt. However, I am not an expert, though I have heard from a few other vids that men are very attracted to a woman with a nice smile, so maybe my suggestion is not too bad.
@nineangels75726 ай бұрын
I can flirt, in an innocent yet complimentary way. Only with the one person I am interested in. No flirting with the general public.
@InG-ko6du6 ай бұрын
Thanks, man ❤
@youkilledma12116 ай бұрын
to defeat your enemy, you must understand your enemy -art of war, probably
@rachelsmith56876 ай бұрын
Thanks
@eileenstasczak66066 ай бұрын
Advice actually starts at 4:32.
@cuddlebuddy88mc3 ай бұрын
Not gonna lie....i wasn't trying to flirt. I was trying to be intimidating. I work with white collar gents and he was the First one who refused to break his gaze and he forgot to breathe .😅. I instantly found him adorable. He's a sweet dude.
@dbayhk54256 ай бұрын
Hi Mat,how about flirting through text on long distance
@AbiBrown-q9k6 ай бұрын
gosh, I met a guy we were flirting a bit I asked to meet up as friends-well he said he will get back to me. lol surprise surprise he did not
@lambchop62783 ай бұрын
I've used a double entendre before. In the tradition ofgreat British humor. I chose a word with an innocent meaning and an obvious 'I'm hitting on you' meaning. I also like surprising them with such a comment and then walking away and leaving them. I'm a fan of role reversal. Keeps things interesting. And if a guy is a jerk after i hit on them, I scratch them off my 'Hot' list. Annoys ne especially if they assume you're easy, when you just kniw hiw to enjoy yourself and even are partly maybe tryong make them feel good fir the fun of it.
@DEANNAMATTHEWS6 ай бұрын
You just blew my mind, hahaha you just described my whole personality! Hahaha Hahaha I just learned I have been flirting with the whole world. 😅hahaha Hahaha thank you, you made my day! Blessings to you and your family in Jesus name Amen
@antiquelady606 ай бұрын
If you listen to a man for a few minutes he will usually give a hint as to what he wants to be complimented on.
@MassageDiaries6 ай бұрын
No way I'm getting 95 percent or giving a green light..or maybe I am 😂😊
@Openhearted20246 ай бұрын
Now, please give some advice about flirting at the gym and are trainers off limits?!
@andreea13526 ай бұрын
This will be very interesting 😁 I really wanna see this😋
@arlenetubbs11466 ай бұрын
I’m getting to know a man & as we were talking he said “it’s been cold all day at work I’m going to take a hot shower and warm up.” I responded with hmmm giving me a picture of you naked😉
@frenchfries23786 ай бұрын
Just say "Good morning", or "hello" with NO PROMOTING. The arrogant ones who think theyre the bees knees (when they're not) always take it the wrong way.
@mamouilletten15626 ай бұрын
3:31 I have none ! I mean a lot of men are staring at me and i'm 48 next month BUT i want only one man, i'm hooked, focused, i know it's the love of my life . The thing is that i'm so shy that i make every situation awkward and i'm pretty sure i'm sending wrong signals - by fleeing after a short conversation( when anxiety reaches the highest level) - Staring at him, pretty sure with lust like the "bedroom stare" but as soon as he looks at me i'm already watching the Toblerone bar next to him. He maybe thinks i'm a creep , bizarre or desperate. Why am i so nervous and cannot act normally when he's around ??? I'm surprised i didn't already fart loudly whilst saying " Hi" to him.😂
@Kaniyaw826 ай бұрын
Why is that so hard to samile and make eye contact?
@SalomejaSaulyte6 ай бұрын
Adults need tobe taught things that kids know and do naturally. Wanna know how to treat men that they run after you? Look at the little 3-6 year old girls.:) (Not older than that age).
@reemsaif31056 ай бұрын
In the 1950s men would ask women out and many relationships stayed for a while. Now it doesnt happen much. I hope feminine receptivity becomes the norm again. Women are feeling bored with this. I give compliment to women and men because its nice 😸 🎉
@yothiga6 ай бұрын
I don’t know how to flirt at all and automatically shut down any one who try 😢
@adonisq3 ай бұрын
Let’s start learning and put them into action. I missed two opportunities but I won’t the next time I see someone that attracts me. :)
@LotusRise10006 ай бұрын
Thanks Matt! Perfect timing
@Versatile6686 ай бұрын
I get that I understand that but my personality I don't feel like flirting with a bunch of men online no need to be false hope on either side flirting with other men at times may not always be a good thing because it doesn't I mean it's not I don't really know who is who on this is KZbin this is on social media doesn't mean I really know the person not in that way
@KM-lu7nh6 ай бұрын
My problem is if I find a guy attractive and happen to flirt, it's too overtly sexual, which is not how I want to come across.
@saras.21736 ай бұрын
4:51
@akferren16 ай бұрын
Cologne is like second hand smoke and a big turnoff
@genaliyodevi6 ай бұрын
S M I L E OXO
@FrickinCCDeVileVАй бұрын
It's very simple and I'm gonna tell you right here, just ask a man about his day and his activities. Oh right but ya'll don't really care a damn about that, it has to be all about you.
@melindapearson2956 ай бұрын
Way too much chit/chat!!!!
@mashudak81076 ай бұрын
Hahaha I thought it was just me scared around men but I don't associate with men for religious reasons.
@adonisq3 ай бұрын
We ladies have too many restrictions. Let us give ourselves some space.😊
@katephillips25186 ай бұрын
play with your hair
@cynthiakk59666 ай бұрын
I think that sense of humour is also a good way to flirting. But not too many man know how to flirt back in fun way. Long time ago, during conversations, I used to say to one man. “ I am magnet and you are paper clip, but your heart is under 5000 miles sea, do you found I can attract your heart? “ He is just frozen, so it is end. I used to say one time with joke, I said, “ you should go to buy light bulb, because I would like you to light up my life.” Then no response. “ You are a criminal and stole my heart.” Haha, maybe not so many men has sense of humour and they are just boring.
@adonisq3 ай бұрын
It is too strong a start. Gentle does it at the beginning. 😊