How to Gain Motivation as an Architecture Student - Getting “Unstuck”

[@kylesinko]

What are some things you do to get "unstuck"? How do you gain motivation to keep going?

[@drishtityagi1734]

I hope you will be super fine soon and hot water really helps in sinus .... I think when someone is demotivated they should get inspired by the people who had struggle a lot to achieve where they are right know , i mean its ok if someone is demotivated but not taking a step to make urself motivated again is something that is wrong and according to me everyone gets demotivated at a point in life , but the one really wanted something will get the way back to the motivation and passionate self . Many times we get tired of by the amount of work we had and bcz of being tired we think that we are demotivated . But i believe taking sometime for ourseleves can take us back to where we were Most importantly talk to someone who understands you , who can listen to u . Sometimes just taking to someone and taking there advice can actually motivate u , i think i have said a lot and this is something i go through a lot and for me talking to someone or watching someone online who had gone through struggles and is successful and happy really helps me to be motivated again ......

[@Kamila-ju4cx]

I think the most effective thing to do to get unstuck for me , is to talk to people about it, get some help... for exemple, when i'm stuck in my project, I ask people and it's crazy how they see what you can't see ! you're soo into the project that it becomes difficult to see easy solutions .. So many times i was like "why did I not think about this ??" People can help you just by looking at your project and have a little debate about it ... it's my last year of Masters this year and I know we are all in the same shit haha we all should help each other. Try to focus on what you like about architecture more than what makes you unmotivated.

[@kylesinko]

@@drishtityagi1734 Thank you! The hot water is helping a lot. You make a really great point. That's something I often forget. People want to help! You'll be surprised if you tell someone about the problems you're facing, they are more helpful and more willing to help than you might think. People want to listen. Sometimes you just need to be willing to share your problems. Thank you for the amazing comment Drishti!

[@kylesinko]

@@Kamila-ju4cx You're so right! Exactly what I was saying to Drishti, people want to help! You just have to communicate with them. Thank you so much for sharing Kamila! :)

[@drishtityagi1734]

@@kylesinko Thats true❤

[@happymonkey7274]

Currently sitting beside my drawing board looking at the same drawing I’ve been looking at for 3 days and falling behind even more 😂😂 this video was very helpful thank you sir 🙏🙏

[@kylesinko]

You can do it! I'm glad you found the video helpful :)

[@jojoyasir4903]

Hey I’m a senior and i feel like knowing that this is my final year, it’s even harder to get myself to work and put my best into it so i was thinking of a way to break free from this procrastination and demotivation that i was going through so I personally think that you should surround yourself with people who are doing the same thing idk like we get together and work in silence or listen to music, while taking some breaks this is very helpful specially that you get different solutions and opinions when you are stuck and we like to do a little jury session after we are done. There are other ways but this is one of the best i feel like.

[@kylesinko]

Good luck to you in your final year Jojo and yes, I agree completely with your comment! Definitely utilise the companionship of others in the same boat as you. This is going to relieve stress, help with new ideas, alleviate anxiety and help you solve problems. Thank you so much for your comment Jojo

[@roaaalbadawi6359]

I wish I saw this before graduation, I couldn't study or focus on what I was doing and I didn't submit any of my work completed, I didn't have a goal but now I have one and I will try to focus on it.

[@darookieartsstudio]

I'm crying.. I really needed this😭 thank you so much

[@kylesinko]

My pleasure. Don't cry too much! Thanks for watching

[@chadangeles3856]

Oooh wee ive been focusing more on my arts and music ive bern missing alot of work

[@wesammmm5432]

I’m an Architecture student. Architecture school is so extremely tedious. Often times people think design is hard. It’s not. What’s difficult about architecture school is the technicality of the softwares we use. Learning how to design is a skill. But learning how to design using a software that takes years to master is what makes me absolutely hate architecture.

[@muhddnabil]

This is so true

[@nabihafaiz1030]

omggggg finally found my twin!!!!!

[@bispo5671]

DAMN bro youre só real for this

[@luizadossantos3803]

This is so helpful. I've been stuck on generating ideas for design for the last 8 weeks, my finals are coming up in a month and I still don't have a floor plan or design. I'm definitely going to reflect on what you recommended. Motivation really is a habit!!

[@kylesinko]

Absolutely!! You've got this Luiza. Cheers

[@jacobeason1363]

Motivation is an emotion which is why it comes in waves. Yet just like happiness we can control and influence it.

[@kylesinko]

Very well said. That's perfect.

[@uaksqiu8470]

Thank you so much for this video 🥺🥺i searched “lose passion for architecture “, and after watching your video I feel better.

[@medodep4084]

Ahhhh i get such frequent fluctuations between motivated and motivated many days! There was one time when i was feeling extremely inspired and motivated as to why i love architecture and i wrote down what i thought/felt. It felt quite amazing looking back at it at the times i didn't feel so motivated, and it made the situation a little easier! Looking at really good architecture also really inspires me. I'm still figuring out the correct habit for me to keep motivated though, it's tough, but i'm sure is do-able!

[@kylesinko]

That's awesome Medo! I think journaling is a great method for finding staying inspired. You're so right, finding the right habits for YOU is the hard part, but once you know it and stick with it, it can make life totally different! Even if it's just doing something for 5 minutes a day.

[@destinyk8441]

Our professor referred your videos to us, his first year Architecture students. Really appreciate your content; feels like I'm not getting through the year alone. I, too, feel stuck even at just one month of architecture school. This content (podcast) is definitely a breather. Keep making these type of content. It really helps a lot of people like me.

[@kylesinko]

Wow, thank you so much for sharing Destiny! Say a big thank you to your professor from me :) You're definitely not alone. Keep going, I have a lot of faith in you!

[@aronnuqui3416]

Hi, can i get an update after 1 year cuz your comment was really relatable and I also have experience the same feeling like being stuck or overwhelmed in my first month of architecture school, cuz honestly I have no other choice but to continue this course since I already started it and I love to design building and to draw, so yeah. I hope you're doing well rn.

[@destinyk8441]

@@aronnuqui3416 im on my 3rd year of architecture school now. despite feeling stuck and alone for the first few semesters, things started looking up once I rekindled my passion and start justifying why I went to architecture in the first place. Try to remember that slow progress is still progress. Im still finding my way through school and all the comes with it but my advice is take things one at a time! Finding friends who help you achieve the same goals is a plus too. Good luck.

[@aronnuqui3416]

@@destinyk8441 Thanks a lot, I'm glad that you did not shift courses or lose interest cuz sometimes I envy the other students from other courses and they seemed okay. However, in my situation, I struggle a lot and had burned-out moments, and kept overthinking if I should continue this career even though it is still my 1st year in Archi haha. I just fear that in the upcoming future I wont make it due to hard works or pressure or idk but I believe that I still on the process of adjusting and exploring college life.

[@marklawrence4011]

thankyou for all your vids im hoping that every archi students who struggling like me can watch this. 2nd year here, and end of semester now the deadlines and projects are so intense 😫

[@kylesinko]

Thanks Mark, I'm glad you find my videos helpful! Best of luck for your finals!

[@kateparker3155]

i'm very passionate about my degree and i genuinely love studying architecture, but sometimes i feel like all my effort is for nothing especially when i don't get the grades or results i aim for. Thats when i lose motivation and feel like what i am doing is pointless even though i know its not, and the amount of work to do can be so suffocating sometimes that i end up not being motivated to do any of it.

[@kylesinko]

Don't worry, we've all been there Kate. I hope you were able to take something away from this video to help

[@hArt_dwg]

After the your meditation/realization on why you choose architecture, Intitle your room door 🚪 Architect (Ar.) with name or surename ex. "Ar. San Jose" Or you can just put a title bar on your desk or anywhere that you always see... This could maybe help you be reminded of what you realized about you meditation. Also keep in mind what you have to do to earn the real "Ar." before your name... We can do this future architects😊

[@Saikumar-vd9bk]

hey can you give me an advice ,my crush is also studing archetecture 4th year, she is so busy these day when i ask her whether i can help her by any means ,she says no.Tell me what should i do to reduce her stress or to make her feel better.

[@emmanuelmasih4687]

I’m a first year architecture student and I’ve recently felt like this for quite a while now even whilst studying at times. But this video really did help so thank you so much 🙏🏽

[@kylesinko]

Glad you found it helpful Emmanuel! Keep going :)

[@ElioOliver]

Helloo so how's it going now? Did you still pursue architecture?

[@trustezranimusiima732]

@@ElioOliver btw 😂😂

[@christophermoody1448]

I went through something like that. It hurts, believe me. One of the things that helped me was taking part of a graphic design competition. I lost, but it was fun. To do something that I never done before and I was able to get feedback from the person in charge of the competition was helpful. Sometimes taking a break from things can be the thing that helps you break through. Great video. Thanks for sharing.

[@kylesinko]

That's an awesome suggestion Chris. Thanks for sharing you comments and kind words!

[@soggysweatsocks]

After that day off, try Running to help maintain routine and confidence, you can apply that into your work. It can be very difficult to get up and run, but if you do this for the sake of keeping yourself consistent, it becomes easier to just start, and keep running (or to jump into prolonged hours on illustrator and rhino) , the concept applies.

[@kylesinko]

I think that's a brilliant idea. It's not about taking "one day off" but to do something everyday, even something small, to keep you disciplined and to hold yourself accountable. Thank you for sharing!

[@bhavithachennupati8533]

I feel the same very demotivated ! Many say my designs are nt good ....but still want to become a great architect

[@kylesinko]

Keep going. Passion outweighs discouragement.

[@ArchAnime]

welcome back! we missed you friend!

[@kylesinko]

Thank you! I missed you too

[@nesrine8574]

I lose my motivation when i don't find a solution for my project🤣✌️ not finding a concept for example 😅 also the suffering time making the 3d model lol ! So in this cases i jusy STOP everything and go to my bed , i lie down , close my eyes and start thinking correctly about the issue , what do i want ? How can i do it ? Why should i do this ? ....etc many questions, then i get up and come back to work .. Sometimes i still be unmotivated for a weeks lol ! So i take a rest , since I'm not able to work.. i do another activity like drawing for example ( i do fashion illustrations ) or anything else, just to forget the Project, when i feel better i come back to my pc looking at my 3d model " here we go again 🤦🏻‍♀️ " but i can do it because I'm full of energy lol ✌️🤣 I observed something that I'm sure most of students agree , expect you Kyle because you usually study at home you don't go to the uni alot 🤣🤣 so when we were at the University , despite the bad mood after losing our motivation, we get it back when we see the movement there , meeting friends , working together, crying together , all these things are so motivational.. so now because of the lock down , every body is working alone and this can make everybody unmotivated ✌️ but i want to say that Kyle's videos motivated me a looooooot during this pandemic , i swear , thank you so much ❤️

[@kylesinko]

That's so awesome to here, thank you Nesrine! I think you're 100% right though. Even though I do a lot of work from home, coming in once a week to studio just to talk with everyone, hear their ideas and talk with the tutors is a great burst of motivation. It can be a good reassurance to know that there are others in the same boat as you! Thank you for the awesome comment

[@nesrine8574]

Exactly this is it 😍✌️

[@tranquilohomie2248]

I am glad I am not alone in this experience 😁😢😢😢. Thanks for this man

[@kylesinko]

You're welcome mate! Thanks for watching

[@rufikunbargi9407]

Ughh i need to drop out then, i have no reason i went to architecture except “ just to be a better designer “. ☹️

[@jessamyn-rosie755]

I’m an interior design major, I definitely feel this

[@kylesinko]

Hopefully it helped some way! You’ve got this

[@riag9693]

I had a good start on my first month of architecture but now I’ve just been so burnt out and unmotivated to do all my work and i have so many assignment submissions due in on January 😭😭😭

[@kylesinko]

One day at a time. Keep saying yes to the right things and no to the wrong things - each decision will make you better and stronger. All the best for your submissions!

[@AbdulazizAlmuallimi]

i just remember the last day, it is my huge motivation

[@ahmednihad6143]

Thank you for this amazing video. For the past couple years iv been doing exactly what you've advised and the tips which has returned great results. What I also like to add is that, by reading personal development books (especially at the park or beach), this has helped with my architectural side and mental focus. Personally I don't rely to much on motivation as its like a temporary, similar to energy drinks it comes and goes, i focus more rather on my habits, purpose and goals. What I also have in my room is an a2 size cork board where I have printed out pictures of everything i want to achieve in life creating in some respects a vision board all pinned up on the board allowing you to easily visually see your life goals to remind yourself eliminating the Law of Diminishing Effect.

[@kylesinko]

Thanks for the amazing comment Ahmed! I completely agree with you and think that’s such a good method. The pin up cork “visualisation” board is genius.

[@fz1792]

So I'm about to start my archi school in a month but people will always tell me that whatever you do teachers won't necessarily like it ,it's a hard degree, long working hours, no matter what you'll end up not meeting your deadlines, less paid ,fewer opportunities of designing building the way you want , this just makes me stressed to a point that i think about reconsidering my decision. I really love to design and be creative in all forms of life ,I can work independently but i am also good at doing group activities ,i don't want to be extremely rich but may be a higher middle class , i am also passionate about the beauty of structures Keeping in mind all this stuff i really am confused what should i do now please help me

[@kylesinko]

You're not alone. I feel like a lot of students can relate. I myself. I actually made a video on this a couple of weeks ago. You'll find it really useful. I first explain why architecture is so hard. Afterwards, how you can make it easier so that the points you listed don't matter. You'll find it useful, I'm sure! kzbin.info/www/bejne/mmGTlqdsq7WYoKc

[@fz1792]

@@kylesinko man i watched that video you convinced me literally in 3 seconds Thanka a lot for helping me

[@kylesinko]

@@fz1792 I'm so glad my guy! Thank you for watching it

[@sheenamaepuga703]

I never thought there are some people who felt this also . Thank you for the meaningful talk 🥺 I hope I can have your email address too , in case I needed some advice to survive architecture . Thanks

[@kylesinko]

Glad to have helped Sheena. My email is [e-mail] if you ever need anything. Cheers

[@lintangamaria1666]

Thanks a lot for your motivation

[@kylesinko]

Thank you for watching! Appreciate the comment Lintang :)

[@wherethequietbeingsgo]

We already had our final review just this past week and although I did attend and present, I just feel like I’m done for tbh. I love architecture especially the biomimicry aspect of it (I honestly find it to be beautiful and awe-inspiring). It’s just that I personally don’t find myself to be creative enough and that I spend too much time on one portion of a project/assignment. For my Fall semester of arch school, my attendance has been haywire and probably unrecoverable because when I didn’t finish an assignment on time for pin-up day, I would usually stay back within my dorm room to finish it (as sometimes I would carry my materials back to my dorm with me). I also don’t really think that my craftsmanship is that good. I’d say that my understanding of how to digitally draft has improved but I can’t say likewise for the manual, hands-on aspect of my studies. On top of everything that I’ve mentioned above, it’s no secret that studio culture makes you extremely fatigued so usually I would feel like shit (physically and mentally) most of the day. I’m currently working on this assignment for Rep. (one of my other arch. classes besides studio) and it’s taking me forever and I would like to put some time aside for my other required classes. (I honestly believe that I yearn for instant gratification with regards to the completion of my projects but when I realize that I’ve been here for hours on end, I would start to go numb and my interest in completing it starts to decline. I’m not here to ask for your sympathies, but I would please appreciate some suggestions in terms of what to do moving forward.

[@wherethequietbeingsgo]

Sorry I’m advance for the long paragraph.

[@wherethequietbeingsgo]

I’m in my first year by the way.

[@kylesinko]

There are always swings and roundabouts in this game. I don't think your attendance can be beyond recoverable. I went through phases like yourself where my attendance would drop and I'd feel like showing up to class now would be useless and embarrassing. I can assure you that showing up is the biggest thing. Your tutors will not scold you and you will be shown direction and hopefully have an encouraging conversation that will light some of the sparks you still have for architecture. It's not for everyone, but it is a long game. Try to keep your patience and put your health first. There is no point stressing or tearing out hairs over a university project. You'll soon realise that the work life is a lot more collaborative and dare I say easy going. Good luck

[@sandramtai7032]

I've tried all that, I've been 4 weeks behind my work I'm completely unmotivated. I've taken days off, and I just want to quit.

[@kylesinko]

All I can say is try find what fired you up in the first place. If you feel it's not for you, that's okay too. Architecture isn't for everyone and it's a good experience to have nonetheless. By trying it, you figure out what you want to do - and architecture may not be that, but at least you know.

[@KaviNiwuhella]

In the moment Idk what to do , im stucked with the designing process .

[@spiriitualminded]

Such good #INSIGHT thank you man frm all of us🤘🏽🙌🏽🖤

[@kylesinko]

My pleasure! Thanks for watching

[@kennethpaulsamonte1178]

i think i'm loss because everytime i try to start something i feel down and unmotivated. please help me.

[@rontex4898]

Thank you so much for this video, I was looking for this one because I have been sad during all the day due to I got a bad score in my second project :/ it's my semester BTW

[@kylesinko]

My pleasure! Don't let it discourage you. We all get bad grades from time to time, it's how you deal with them and learn from them that makes you better

[@rhk4096]

Does anyone else break down midway of what they’re designing and just lose it all I’m a second year student and today was just a hell on earth idk if I belong here but something is telling me to stay it’s just getting way too much and whenever I stress something my grades go down so badly

[@kylesinko]

We all have those moments. They come and go my guy. As long as you can see the "big picture", the result from all this pain and hard work, the journey should become a lot easier. All the best to you

[@tranquilohomie2248]

Damn bro we are on the same boat rn, a part of me wants to quit this course but something holds me back to continue and stay in this course. For the grades I dont really care, cuz it is what it is, its there, there nothing to change that 🤣🤣. I feel like I dont belong in this course tbh, but I cant imagine myself in other courses other than aviation courses, which is a another nature that I am interested in.

[@sakshisharma-so8lo]

THANK YOU !!!!!

[@kylesinko]

You're so welcome Sakshi!

[@rawannashi3487]

Thank youu!!

[@kylesinko]

You're welcome!

[@darpanacr4040]

It has been a few weeks since my new sem has started but I am not able to complete my work on time assignments are pilling up , and I have very little softskills, the pressure is killing me. Can you give me some tips

[@kylesinko]

Hey Darpana, I would try breaking up your tasks into smaller, achievable tasks. Rather than looking at assignments as these "monsters" of work to do, try breaking it up and scheduling in smaller tasks to tick off and complete. This will help motivate you as you can visually see yourself ticking off goals and one step at a time will help get you to the end. Hope that helps :)

[@rinorshala945]

Im gunna start college next month

[@kylesinko]

All the best to you! You've got this Rinor!

[@rinorshala945]

Thank you 😊

[@williamlatapu1228]

Whats the different between Architect and Architectural Technologies ?

[@kylesinko]

I think what you're referring to is an architect as a person who designs architecture, and architectural technologies as the computer software and programs such as BIM, CAD etc to design the architecture. Does that help William?

[@aryam23]

thnks for the video needed it right now ,i dont know why but i always keep my work for the last days of submission and im tired of this i know that i have to start earlier but still i dont know

[@kylesinko]

Don't worry, you're not alone. Just keep practicing time management and make some small disciplinary changes, you'll get there!

[@sln06a.b56]

Thank you so much

[@kylesinko]

My absolute pleasure Sel

[@jimmyhu4439]

I’ll do my best to become unstuck I been watching a bunch of videos on staying motivated

[@kylesinko]

You've got this Jimmy!

[@nanabam3262]

Hello jimmy 😊 I really want to help you 🙏 I think you are losing motivation cuz u can't find a purpose for life and I'm sure it's the best time for you to read about Islam

[@adeline6537]

It's very hard tor me to decide whether to continue architecture or shift to IT course since I'm still in First year.

[@munzareenfatma3851]

I think every action we do in our life as profession in a passionate manner is it necessary that it will always make us happy or motivated? Sometimes It can appear in such a way that it makes you question your choices but does that really mean that it is not for you or something? I love this profession of architecture because this field has everything I love but there are times I struggle, I feel like I m worthless , life started feeling pointless at that moment and that feeling used to multiply and its been a year since it is prominently started growing and now its making my heart heavier I am still trying to fix it, trying to learn but is that normal to face all these?

[@kylesinko]

It's completely normal to have doubts Munzareen. It definitely comes and goes in waves. Have you tried doing some of the things suggested in the video?

[@munzareenfatma3851]

Thank you !!! I am glad to know that it is normal but people don't consciously talk about it... Yes and some how it is helping but temporarily and I trying to apply those things for better results...and It is lockdown here in India and things are becoming difficult to sum up...

[@kylesinko]

@@munzareenfatma3851 I can't imagine how difficult it must be for you over there right now. Just keep going, everything will sort itself out :)

[@violetacarcueva9863]

❤️

[@tekimchhay6802]

First of all , i truely thank you for your advices .I had a problem. So i have planned ahead for all the works that i need to get done before the deadline show up. I started to do my work early , so that i could finish it. However , my plan didnt work. Example , 2h of drafting , but 3h later , i couldnt even finish it . I tried to put my phone away and still end up the same , i feel like i underestimate the a mount of time that it take to do thing , 1h end up at 3h . It makes me unmotivated. What should i do to get better at managing time ? ( apologize about my poor english)

[@kylesinko]

Thanks for watching! Starting earlier is probably a good one. Can't underestimate the amount of time it takes to do things. Definitely create some to-do lists or atleast a schedule of everything you need to do. Put them in order of priority and start from the top. Tick off each task you complete and move on to the next. That should help give you a sense of satisfaction for completing each task! Cheers

[@AhmedDistillation]

I'm gonna study arch next year .... any advices except (don't study) cause it's my dream

[@kylesinko]

Keep an open mind and ears but don’t let others opinions influence your own. You’ve got this!

[@nesrine8574]

I have an experience with this subject so maybe i can help, when i was about to choose a specialization , architecture was my dream since my childhood, everybody told me not to do it because "stupid arguments" i took there opinions seriously and guess what .. i didn't choose architecture.. yeah i lost my dream of being an architect .. this is not the end of the story .. then i felt uncomfortable in the specialization i choosed and i changed it to another specialization which was worst .. so i got depression because of this, i didn't study the whole year despite i was an excellent student.. why ? Because it was not my thing ! I wasn't comfortable at all! I felt like i just wanna die.. THEN ! i stopped everything and just took a month of thinking , and i realized that .. my only solution is my dream.. ARCHITECTURE ❤️ i joined Architecture next year and till now I'm grateful about this decision because I'm just HAPPY ❤️ this is my world, i find where i can put my creativity , i found creative people who understand me , i started to make more dreams becaus architecture has 1000000... Doors ✨ I started being motivated ,i discovered a lot of things about myself, i learnso much things in only one year, and you know what! Architecture is a lifestyle , it's not like the other specializations .. Architecture is UNIQUE ❤️ good luck ❤️

[@AhmedDistillation]

@@nesrine8574 I hope you success and get raid of negative people .....and yeah the best thing of architecture is the creativity with some technology

[@kylesinko]

@@nesrine8574 Such a great story that I think a LOT of architecture students will be able to relate to. Thank you so much for sharing!

[@aeralv8649]

SLEEP AS MUCH AS YOU CAN RIGHT NOW

[@nanabam3262]

I'm sure that Alex's problem isn't just with architecture but with life she can't find a purpose for her life and it's the best time to start reading about Islam 💖💖

[@gaebren9021]

That is really good advice. I do find that if I take time out then I just get more confused. I am an older female who only recently graduated in Engineering. It was hard to keep motivation and I often wondered if I did the right thing. I had people tell me that I should have done Architecture. That I shouldn't be studying Engineering. Anything but Engineering. Interestingly this came from a lot of women. Some men too but a lot of women. This put a lot of doubt into my mind as to my capabilities. I certainly didn't feel that smart. But there were people who said to me, keep going! It is the piece of paper at the end. Keep going! Well, I got the piece of paper. I am trying to feel motivated. I am now learning 3DSMax online and AutoCAD Civil 3D But as fun as these are it is hard to get motivated to do.

[@kylesinko]

Thank you so much for sharing Gae! I think it's a good realisation that everyone has their own methods to gain motivation. Everyone struggles with something and everyone comes across feeling of being demotivated. To figure out your own method for gaining motivation is the key. Although, not easy.