How To Get Him HOOKED In The Early Stages Of DATING...

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[@snoodyposh8teenwheelingtv493]

🗯🗯 Hello Stephan, I KNOW you’re an extremely busy man😮‍💨 However, I have something I’d like to bring to your attention and possibly see you speak on it in the future!! How can I possibly get in touch with you to give you a recording, and provide some background content?? 📌 PLEASE RESPOND, I THINK YOU’LL FIND IT WORTH IT 🤞🏾 I hope to hear from you!

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[@snoodyposh8teenwheelingtv493]

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[@brendabrown7203]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you have really open my eyes and I'm so confused about me and how to say NO stop being a people pleaser don't want to hurt people and I'm so unhappy and this is the story of my life and I'm going on 65i and I buy friends and family

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@@brendabrown7203 I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

[@sandragreen5146]

Giving the same energy that you're getting is the key and if you don't like that energy then move on it can be hard but that's when you need to choose yourself over the fantasy.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@sandragreen5146]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you more than welcome ❤️

[@musicmaker1311]

JUST did this!!! For the first time, I am actually matching a man’s energy

[@SheppardOfHermes]

Amen to that

[@mstiff6234]

Facts !!!

[@emilyn7572]

Dont's:- 1. Give him money or gifts, paying for the date. 2. Have sex with him 3.Cooking, and playing housewife Do's:- 1.Be genuine, be yourself 2.Express desire, give compliments, show interest too. 3.Be open, Honest and Transparent, tell the truth. Dont operate on assumptions. MEN ARENT MIND READERS!!! 4.Positive Energy. Positice, loving,calm tone. Soft & feminine. 5. Tap into your feminine energy

[@ecaldwell9]

Thx U Emily!!!

[@maggiehaines2203]

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[@louisa3928]

Thank u 💛

[@robbinjefferson7470]

Thank you 😊

[@Violinbutterfly14]

Girl...thank you. I keep falling asleep before I can get to the end. I need less commentary, more direct points.

[@steph_steph876]

"Start how you want things to continue"👏👏👏

[@80sprincess52]

I'm about to go on my 3rd date with a guy whose been so fun, sweet and engaging. He hasn't tried to grope me up, kiss me, fondle me or spoken to me in appropriately to me over text which has made me see him in a greater light. Just nice compliments about how good I look. He's paid on every date that we've been on and as a thank you I thought to make him cupcakes which he says he's looking forward to, instead of falling into the pattern I used fall into when I used to listen to 'dating gurus' by sleeping with him to 'prove' I like him (big mistake 🙄) I thought giving him something home made and thoughtful would make him see how much I've appreciated the time we've been spending together. Just want him to feel appreciated and to see that his effort is reciprocated ❤️

[@asha4189]

This is so sweet! I’m sure he enjoyed your delicious cupcakes. Thanks for sharing this too 💗

[@SkylarBlueOfficial]

How is going?Are y'all together now??

[@GoldenAthena311]

That’s super sweet, guys will love ur cupcake for sure ❤

[@malinmattsson103]

Dating gurus tell you to sleep with guys to prove you like them? Cray crsy lol

[@Creating2413]

A good way to find out where you stand is asking if you can put him down as an emergency contact. My man said yes, put me down as your boyfriend and then asked me if I was planning on spending the rest of my life with him.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@quett2014]

That was beautiful ❤🙏🏾

[@KimCruzes]

I'm from Panama Brazil and the USA, I've dated boys from all around the globe just looking for The One. This advice is appropriate for All nationalities!!!!! Seek one who respects you and is honest and be yourself and just let the flow be positive and loving, understanding and caring. I'm finally seeing the man of my dreams that never made a move in the twenty years since highschool when we first were gym partners. He's... Everything I've always longed for in a man. Considerate, thoughtful,, complimentary,, devoted, loving... Thank you for all the advice over the months. Great work!!! ❤

[@kourtney101]

Here's the #1 way to get him hooked: know that you cannot control him. Like, be okay w/ that. It's gospel!; also, respect him: If you're tuned in to what he likes-aesthetically, emotionally, in faith, finance and femininity, yet, ALWAYS be the real you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback ❤

[@tifawt3736]

Not all men deserve respect and won’t know what to do with it. They dishonour & disrespect women regardless!

[@ad1970able]

How can u start off a meaningful relationship is you can't be respectful to each other

[@SDC8686]

I offer to pay half of a meal on first date and determine if he's traditional, which is my kind of dating material. If he accepts, automatic friend- zone lol I know it's not a great test, but hey I might have just gained a good friend 😂

[@colettespencer3357]

I do the same. If a guy accepts the offer...thats not my guy.

[@Becky_Cal]

I do the same. Aside from showing if he’s a gentleman it speaks to his spirit of generosity, in all aspects of life including intimacy. There’s nothing (in my view) more off-putting than a cheap and selfish man. 😊

[@josaunders4858]

I love my age being in my early 50's It wasn't until I turned 50 & who I needed to be.. I had been married for almost 18 yrs when I realized we were no longer compatible. I felt more masculine due to marriage as my husband rarely commented on how I dressed as a feminine woman. I do appreciate & love myself more as a feminine woman!!? I do notice other men noticing me by looks by both men & women & receiving compliments from women... I love being me!!! Never sell yourself or your worth for anything..!! Be your genuine self!!! Love & light your Australian 🇦🇺sis

[@AgelessLoveCEO]

I literally lost my dad when I was 19, my god brother and my step dad. My brother is the only male left in my life and he’s the guy you run from in every sense of the word😅 what I’m trying to say is it means a lot to me that I can get this perspective and advice from you. Thank you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@chefnic4763]

If you give too much too soon, he will fall in love with your hand not your heart. Good luck ladies ❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@fabpersonalgrowth]

Great advice

[@susanhamilton8288]

No not in all cases everybody story is different..i met my son father and when we got together for the first time..we made chemistry...and we had the relationship quite long..we stay together for 2 years before my son came...but long distance work has pull us away...

[@YeahwNelly]

Learned this the hard way 😅

[@ericajanellelifecoaching]

I’m loving this message! This was so important. I feel like so much of us are afraid to just be ourselves because we are afraid of getting hurt. We must use our intuition to know when someone is worthy of us letting our guard down and walking in our feminine energy! I agree completely with the things “not to do” as well! These tips are so important!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, it is always important to listen to your intuition ❤

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[@vickeycarr9992]

I definitely agree with you 😊

[@georgialouisew4152]

The first 10 Minutes were on point. I’m a gift giver. I love giving gifts to people (men or women) especially for special occasions.

[@83ttaylor]

Me too🥴

[@jackpotwinner1260]

I don’t give undeserving men gifts but I also give gifts 🎁

[@georgialouisew4152]

@@jackpotwinner1260 that is me as well.

[@empress9857]

I’m more of gifting Thru buying something they like or paying for the experience My only exception my first and I recently been in touch she always been giving we not seeking a relationship I’m getting our battle of the band tickets because I want too

[@tthomson1308]

He is 75 and a widower and has committed to me but feels he is too old to marry again. He is loving,pours into me , cares for me when I am ill or injured and shows his deep affection and love every time we are together. I told him I want to be married. We are at an impasse.

[@juliewade8140]

Yes, I agree to be your genuine self. The expression, “I just want someone to love me for me”. My response is, “let me see you and not your representative”. My naïveté in the past was to believe people, to think people still operate by their word is their bond. Well, folks lie, not all, but a lot do. So yes, Stephen, transparency is one of the keys. I have girlfriends who are afraid to say what’s on their minds. My response to them is, “you are giving him your body, time and energy, there is nothing you can’t say to him or ask him”. It is a sad sight. Anyway, I forgot what I was saying. Great points!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@juliewade8140]

Happy Valentines Day, Stephan!!!

[@angelaabron3080]

“Start how you would want to continue.” I like that. Much love ❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙌

[@kyrabrawanduncut1997]

I say this all the time I’m so ready to walk in my feminine energy. It’s so hard though when you have to sustain that masculine role to have a self sustaining life without a partner. I pray I can continue to walk in my femininity along with not being take advantage of. I may need to go ahead and get that book. This was great content! Thank you ! 🥰

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

[@childofgod7455]

Are you single?

[@phyfoster-Auntie_]

Men will like for us to be feminine and soft, but strong at the same time. Men sometimes get non feminine Energy confused with a good work ethic. Women have to do like of responsibilities like a man, but not lose their feminine energy. Men do say they love the feminine energy

[@souldancersbyjennifer]

Yes exactly. Working hard brings out masculine energy. But we gotta work to stay independent when single. That's such a huge challenge!

[@Reb-0811]

Totally agree. If you're older, it's a trick to not appear compentant and apparently "intimidating" - just the act of living a single independent life - whether you want to be single or independent or not - brings skills, capabilities, and abilities. And when you're on a job especially in a male-dominated environment you find you need to appear logical and detached to just get sufficient respect at work so you can do your job competently. It's tough - a conundrum.

[@goddessoflight74]

Connected to everything, and attached to not a thing. True love brings a freedom that is not centered around co-dependency, while still being supportive of each other, and that is what makes for a beautiful union. God bless you.❣

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback, and may God bless you as well 🙏

[@Vulture-88]

I'm 58, mother of 6, grandmother of 9, been divorced twice.... After years I'm now out dating and your advice is apropos across the span from young to older.... Thank you so much, so very much.... From Northern Minnesota 🙋🏼‍♀️🌽🐄

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@JuliaButler1]

A lot of men think that a “creative date” is his house. SMH no! This is not a date lol

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@noinfoherebro]

Because women use men for free meals. Therefore men are learning not to invest. That's why men decide to do things such as house dates. Thank other women for creating this environment.

[@sparklypink5488]

Your words motivated me, I was single for many yrs and since I bumped into your video's, im finally realizing what we were both doing wrong, ( I wanted change & you inspired me) .... Thank you!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@selfretired3025]

The energy part is so true. It's awesome being truly happy and at peace. ♡

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@adinfinitum3864]

You’re the best big brother to have. God bless you, Stephan 🤲🏼🙏🏼

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 and may God bless you as well 🙏

[@cadillacdeville5828]

I don't engage in intimacy to that extent unless it's a serious commitment, but run into a alot a men who expect because we are dating. It shows to me, you are either in it for 1 thing (I'll survive 🤣 not doing it ) or use to women doing it. To each their own, but it's frustrating to encounter when a woman knows she won't waiver on it and a man thinks it's outdated or dumb.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It isn't an easy situation but, the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@tprucha]

Sex and intimacy are two separate things.

[@misselle1430]

You don't have to do nothing if you don't want to. Just be upfront and direct early on and really listen to him so one can know when to bail.

[@laundrybasket2689]

@@tprucha Not necessarily. Many of us see sex and intimacy as 2 parts that make it a whole.

[@BreakingTheGrid_OnYou]

I've been in both ends. If I don't give it up too soon, they get bored. If i do, they eventually get bored lol i give up

[@annekajordan6952]

I ❤️ this video. In my opinion another thing a woman should never do is to keep pursuing the man when he is showing no interest, I say this because some women genuinely think that overly pursuing him would get him to see her value & believes that if she pursues him hard enough, that will eventually get him hooked. Stephan this video is so on point 👌, thank you 🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@LadyCharity]

I will say that if a man is asking me out, my expectation is he will pay. I do believe women must be prepared to cover themselves just in case. However, it didn't work for me to pay when I invited a guy out I was dating/getting to know. He actually assumed I was not interested because I paid so it didn't work for me. I have had more success allowing the guy to pay and I would never give a guy money unless we are married (that is different). Submission (as a wife) is for husbands, not men you are just getting to know.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@skinnyguy7773]

It works the same exact way when men pay for dates. The vvoman just eats the free food and ghosts these beta males afterwards. Any man who needs to pay for love is usually creepy/unattractive. Real men do not pay.

[@ebonyeverything2751]

Yes, at the end of the date I offer to pay in full or for myself if I'm not interested or didn't feel a connection.

[@queenlouu508]

I love the part about setting expectations early on🔥. Only show what you want to maintain long term💯Sometimes when you start one way in the beginning and stop later on, it can be confusing and disappointing to your partner and cause them to hold internal grudges. Always great content 🥂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@traceyray1831]

Exactly

[@bettywinn8296]

I am so glad you brought up "negativity" in women. Due to my last relationships, I am guarded and didn't realize this was a "form" of negativity. I have someone new interested in me and I just felt like I was being "cautious." So, I get it. I am taking it slow but this is something I never thought of. Thank you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

[@RobinLMaze]

Thank you for the comment. Not negativity but caution.... I thank you for your thoughts. I understand completely.

[@KimoSpice]

Dating is one scary thing because you just never know

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Try changing your focus from dating to learning and you will start to see positive results in your dating experiences!

[@TS-fj2lo]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Wow! Thank You!

[@user-mb9jx5tx9y]

Love is risky altogether but sometimes it’s worth it

[@theposhfamily876]

Yesss love this!! Happy Valentines Day, ladies!!!!You are worthy of Love!! Don’t settle

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@renee167]

Agreed thanks!

[@Glynis-vh4vz]

My man of 20 some years and I are getting married, thanks to your vids! I love your vids. and books. They've been a God-send!

[@splitraven7060]

The only time I did gifts for my man was 6 weeks into dating for Father’s Day. Sadly he doesn’t have much of a relationship with his son. My daughter and I wanted him to feel loved and appreciated. We also have running jokes which we also gifted to him. All three of us deep belly laughing for awhile. He laughed so hard 🤣 He reciprocated and treated my daughter and I to manis and pedis this past weekend. 😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@ccronk04]

I did the gift thing once with a guy who I hadn’t known long. His birthday came up but he didn’t want to accept it. It was his favorite champagne but his response told me it was a NO! First & last time ever doing that.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@skinnyguy7773]

The best gift a vvoman can offer is for her to be able to support herself financially. Getting a bottle of champagne early on is bit too much/creepy.

[@tinybrit3225]

I know someone who did all three of the don’ts. She always went out of her way for him, he barely had to put in any effort at all. she slept with him on the first date, played housewife, cooked and cleaned for him. They dated for 2 years and now they’re married with a baby on the way. Sometimes I think it’s just luck and if you’re conventionally physically attractive enough. He was also a player type before and now he completely changed for her.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@TheeMillz11]

Listening to this made me realize how much I’ve grown in dating/relationships.

[@NYCAppl3]

Man, I definitely did some of these don't. I grew up under the impression that you have to know how to "keep house". I remember hearing the women in my family say things to us like "How are you going to keep a man if you don't know how to cook and clean?" The impression that I got was these are the skills I need to have in order to get and keep one. Nothing about marriage or connection or healing or commitment or any of the topics you've been teaching on. I have learned a lot from you and I'm truly grateful. Thank you so much for all that you do ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy my work has been helpful to you, be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏

[@renee167]

Great advice Stephan! I agree that it is wise not to start off giving money or gifts during the getting to know you stages. I also appreciate the first date tips! I’ve never officially been on one, and so I definitely need to know how to proceed at the end. Of course I’ll come prepared to pay for my own meal, however I will pause and see what he’s going to do first. Thanks again and also Happy V-Day to all of the single women and men like myself! Remember that GOD has someone very special just for us!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@juliaguillen8986]

Greart advice sir blessings

[@juliaguillen8986]

Thanks for sharing

[@renee167]

You’re welcome!

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[@msprettybee45]

This is really good. I'm trying to learn to be more soft and less masculine. I was raised by my grandfather who never showed emotion. And now I'm struggling with being a feminine. I'm learning a lot here.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@lilymiller2137]

Love you coach! I am Russian women moved to states 10 years ago and learned so much from you. Appreciate your generosity and looking forward for books I ordered on your website

[@mo0729.]

Last 4 dates, on which I asked what I could contribute, out of mutual respect. The man . . . (1) Had us split bill; he undertipped waiter and I tipped waiter subtlety - in cash - on way out of restaurant. (2) Had us split bill (3) Had us split bill (4) Told me “I was raised better than to expect or ask a woman to pay.” (3) was in graduate school but (4) was the most impressive because of that statement alone.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

[@miltonjoslyn]

Thanks

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@MissSaraJan3]

Agree! We both are into space etc. &our dates were night time picnics on the middle of a field, star gazing.. talkn, good music etc for the first could months. He’d be a gentleman... But it made it where there was no pressure. Just getting to know each other 🥰

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@shaprinash8916]

I could not agree more Stephan , and I so appreciate you for pointing that out about doing things early on in the relationship that if things don’t go your way you’re going to be upset about. Which is why I have refrain from doing anything that I know I’m gonna be upset about before thinking about the future. Great case in point is there’s no need for you to be acting like a housewife if he hasn’t made that commitment to you and put a ring on it.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤ 🙏

[@ritalowe8171]

Oh man , I am crying. It feels so good to hear from you advice how to meet a man's desires and let him feel good around me. Thank you so much !!!🙌

[@Creating2413]

This is so good. I was so fortunate because I really didn't understand what I was doing about setting the stage financially. Thank God my man helped me out. He did a better job showing me that we could do the 50-50 for now but he was prepared to handle a greater share of finances later on once we were living together. I ended up moving to another city so we could live together and he took over the finances so I could find a job that was fulfilling without feeling rushed.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@karijaye52]

Being myself is the only way...Periodt! Once it's the right man, the genuine self shines brighter because he will see it. Playing the games will turn the good man away

[@Innocent.beautysalon]

Stephan! I want to thank you million for the great advices! Your mind and thoughts are very different. When other coaches say that "go in no contact, show them that they made a mistake, make them fear losing you" you keep going with your words and you tell us that always can be an exception! I'm finding myself in a relationship with the "exception". Bless you for the healthy mindset

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I appreciate that ❤

[@kissy1102]

I tried holding out but I was on an almost two year drought! And the physical attraction was so strong. I didn’t think about the consequence. And it has sort of attached us but I have no regrets! I’m trying to be logical about things but I do feel like it’s complicated things🤦🏽‍♀️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@ebonyeverything2751]

Giiiiiirl lol, no judgment! But for future reference u may have to masturb@te before those dates just to get rid of the urge. Or even wearing granny panties on the date to make SURE u don't allow yourself to go there if you've decided to wait... but I understand. I just hope u guys can make the best of the situation.

[@XtinaDaGr8]

@@MeetStephanSpeaksif I’ve done a few of the Don’ts on the list, is all lost?

[@ultimatesportsmedicine4395]

(woman here) Thank you so much for your this , I truly value your opinions and advice! At such young age I just gave a guy whatever they wanted ( usually sex) because I battled with my insecurities and didn't feel good enough. Now at 30, after learning the hard way, not being taken serious enough and not having enough dating and relationship experience I find it really hard to get back out there and try to do it the right way. I would deprive myself of sex and dating after failed relationships or sitautionships and would go months/years without talking to a guy or having sexual relations.Which has made it very difficult to get back out there and get comfortable with meeting new guys and pursuing relationships. I've been working on myself a lot and am now putting myself out there via online dating. I look forward to this new journey and am so glad I found your platform. You just helped me feel more confident on my journey! Thank you :)

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you receive a partner who is truly best for you, a partner God has for you 🙏

[@cynthiabarker-moore5893]

Most people are scared to commit in the early stages of a relationship because they start thinking that they're gonna be missing something while they engaged in a relationship. People are way too scared to get hooked into a relationship too early because they're scared of being hooked with a person they don't really know. I have had a guy to ask for money before we could even have the first date.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@angelsonia6310]

I started following you 2 years ago. Right now, I watch your video almost everyday. You have really been helpful to me. I'm believing God for the right man even as I'm in my late 30's. God bless you Stephane

[@tijuanasshimmeringcreation6380]

I'm a little perplexed...when I compliment my husband which is often, his response is either "Uh-huh" or "ok" and more so often he will pretend he didn't hear me...never thank you. I feel my compliment is being discounted and unappreciated. I do appreciate your advice!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Try to talk to him about it. I wonder if he feels your words are empty because he doesn’t feel that energy from you.

[@jennasittler3142]

This was happening with my bf at first. His ex wife never complimented him , it made him feel awkward receiving a compliment so he would say “no I am not xyz good thing” . Recently now he stands taller and confidently says “thank you!“. It is really cool to see

[@elizabethgarcia7982]

Man oh man! This is a piece of art! Making him feel I like him/need him and give him compliments without coming across as needy and weak

[@apositivesoul987]

Loved this segment. You not only touch on the heart of these issues, but give the tools we need to approach a better mind set when dealing with relationships. Ty for remaining neutral in your advice and giving the perspective point of views from both sides and how they can be perceived. I do believe when we are ready to seek real relationships, we should start with those who are liked minded. It’s a great starting point. Ty for delivering this to us in a manner light humor with genuine respect. I enjoyed this, I laughed with you, every-time because your vibe is contagious. Ty Sir.✨🙏🏽✨

[@ConstantinaThakur]

my guy is head over heels with me. words for affirmation, spoils me, spends time with me, calls and texts me and always respects my boundaries. First date i said no to the ride home and he had a very expensive car, most women would want to go for it and he respected it. I haven’t done anything and he’s head over heels. Idk if it’s too good to be true 😅. He treats me like a princess 🥰. It’s been 3 dates but he treats me better than anyone i’ve ever been with.

[@marilamar821]

I’m seeing this guy and I genuinely always offer to pay for my meals and this is what he told me that just really won my heart, “I know you can pay, but I want to pay- not a big deal” we also have an agreement that if I ask him out, I can pay for my meal✨

[@Braveheart0803]

I remember this guy I’m dating on our first date. He asked permission if he can hug me. Then second date ask again permission if he can kiss me. Soft kiss. 😊

[@cadillacdeville5828]

Good afternoon and thank-you. I just cut am individual off due to his inconsistency within the pass week. I think being the best version of yourself is highly important. Gifts and so forth, I completely agree.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@mekaelaknodt1123]

It always feels good for both involved when there are signs that you both are interested in each other. Unfortunately, social media and the internet have almost completely replaced personal interactions; thanks mainly due to the pandemic. Those closest to me know that I don't like or believe in using the internet to communicate with them or find THE ONE that I am meant to be with. Most of them have no problems respecting my wishes regarding this. The ones who did, I no longer talk to. If someone is really that interested in me, then they shouldn't have any problems respecting my wishes regarding this and if he does, then he is not THE ONE meant for me

[@TyReaLiTy]

❣️Key point, focus on developing a genuine secure foundation with communication mutually.💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that. Thank you for sharing communication is definitely key!

[@leonaldn]

Thank you for your guidance Stephan, it's much appreciated 🙏🏽

[@reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100]

Again Stephan you have given us the real deal! Thank you so much! Ladies let’s just be ourselves and allow the God of our own understanding to guide us to the remarkable love and relationship that we are so deserving of to give and to have. Let’s Stop being afraid of how God has made us and that is a Proverbs 31 woman. If you are confused then just read it and embrace it for yourself. I know I have and it is awesome. Excited to see what’s next for me!! Keep it 💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks You are quite welcome.

[@denanikiawilliams]

Labossiere. Thank you for the pointers in this video. It was so helpful. Also sweet heart. Thank you for your silliness as well. My soul needed that laughter😂🤣😂. Keep going sweety. We appreciate it ❤💜💛.

[@mamacocolilo105]

This man gives the best advice

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

[@atlantasfaithsmom]

IKR.... So practical, wise and easy to listen to and understand.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@patriciaroberts8694]

@stephanspeaks-i listen to you when I go to bed. I love talk radio and educational videos. You are so fantastic.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@Zoominwithzoemachunga]

Thank you @Stephentalks. You talk sense. Blessings and more. I feel empowered , this is where I get my daily of surviving the dating world as a female who grew up without her father,I didn't get fathered, didn't have the best role models, this is heaven. We die here. Shout out from Jos,Nigeria .

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@ShayCheDemure]

This is such good informative advice, I really appreciate this, a lot of the positive parts of this video I possess, some I will apply in the future… Thank You!🙏🏾❤️

[@creativeopinions8250]

I went on a date with this really awesome man and after he paid for dinner I invited him for drinks! I could tell he really liked that. He invited me on more dates and I always suggested beach picnic dates, explore small town dates ...I'm pretty feminine and always show that side and for our picnic dates I always had a surprise, like fruits or sangria, wine... He told me the other day how all those things surprised him soo much ....I'm sure he's hooked...it looks like he is

[@dianaschoen4485]

Ive done the same thing.😊

[@creativeopinions8250]

@@dianaschoen4485 its cute and fun right? are you guys with bf/gf titles now?

[@dianaschoen4485]

No. My bf and I just broke up after 6 yrs(4 living together). Im in the process of closing on a new place

[@creativeopinions8250]

@@dianaschoen4485 oh, sorry to hear that. I hope the best for you and your new place!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@simplymarilyn5295]

Stephan when you speak, I listen! You are a Master coach & believe me because I've heard many! Many blessings to you, friend♡

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@julanre3160]

That was really good Stephan. You are informative and entertaining with the humorous neuances you incorporate into your video. Thank you for the insights.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

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[@cynthiawalcott7356]

So true, when a man makes all of plans to want to be with you and to take ownership of building the relationship and setting goals of have you in their future.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@Winnyfruits]

I'm definitely a giver and this video is an eye opener.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@smartsavvyandloved2095]

Thank you so much!❤❤❤❤

[@faithn8598]

16:36 very good analogy “If I am getting extra paycheck and benefits and then I am not just going to work”

[@michelebanuelos810]

Stephan you are so cute! You got me with the whole "Heman" thing🤣 I remember that cartoon. Great video btw

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

[@shaym.m361]

Thank you so much Stephan, you're an awesome coach! May God bless you always.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that and may God bless you as well 🙏

[@Gyoi0p]

You're lovely to watch and listen. Very intelligent. Thank you🙏 that's really helpful.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@kaboomroom33]

You must have heard my request, because I was just saying I needed a video on this topic. Now here it is! Thanks Stephan!! 💖

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@pamelaseegars3970]

Thank You for Sharing

[@refilwemametja7492]

Can't even spent a single day without listening to you man, like wow you nailed it 💯🔥

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!

[@collettemaddox1779]

I’m learning so much about dating I haven’t dated in 43 years and love listening to u

[@francoisefenner1551]

Love the way you put things and the examples you give. Love from South Africa

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@Applleheead]

I really appreciate your work. Its tough out there.

[@styledmomentsbywendyjessic7375]

Another great video!!! Positive information keeps on coming. You’re knocking these topics out the box. ❤️🙏🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I appreciate that ❤

[@siddeeqahali9543]

Excellent points 👏

[@mar.v2878]

My bday is today! But you posting is a highlight! Happy Valentine’s Day!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙌 Happy birthday and happy Valentines!!

[@renee167]

Happy Birthday!!

[@janea276]

Happy birthday and Happy Valentine's Day! 🌼

[@lolamcclain1288]

Happy birthday to you! 🎂🎈

[@MpowerPersonalBeautyConsultant]

Love this !

[@whitehorse7830]

Love is when.you heal from.the end side outside you become beautiful on the outside you become positive energy at a good pace

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@doty-doe1875]

I like your channel man it has alot of growth if you allow it to. You give great knowledge to us that's seeking it

[@kimannsimmons7469]

Stephan you definitely hit the nail on the head with these gems AGAIN!!! 🌸 Love each one you send us. Your video clips are like enjoying dessert but for the mind!!! 🌸 Thank you for giving us food for thought ~ U R an endless treat!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you very much, I appreciate that!

[@aprilsochic]

You have helped me in so many ways!!! And Thank you

[@paulettestokes1727]

Great genuine simple easy to understand advice, Thank you

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@sheilasimmons1719]

What a great message I so enjoyed it. Thank you for sharing it with me you continue to share your God given gift with all of us.

[@mslissa5793]

On the point about being genuine, I've come to learn that if you don't give all you feel ready to give emotionally, then you could look back in regret. The guy I'm seeing now, does so much to show me he wants me through actions and when we talk about the future. I feel if I was to hold back, he would close up or walk away.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but you need to focus on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@veronicakush8127]

Thank you @Stephan Speaks this video is really helpful!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@shericawilkinson833]

Always excited to watch your videos ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback ❤

[@Cindy_Love_2025]

Fantastic job on this video 👏🏼💓💯 When we give, we should give from the heart.

[@mishakhooks]

I am a much better person because of your podcasts!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy it has been helpful to you 🙏

[@bakergirl68]

Thank you so much. You have lots of good amazing advice ❤

[@aliciachristen1682]

1st and foremost, thank you for keeping it 💯‼️ and truly allowing GOD to order your steps, you are such a blessing 🙌🏾 and the greatest blessing is to BE ONE!! I so appreciate you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌