Another great video! Thank you!❤

Run away, because they will not give a shit if you have feelings or not. It’s just about their ego. Or better Yet, if you not in love just used them…

Well said!

Im praying 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 everyday

I would absolutely not go on a coffee date or lower my standards and go somewhere rinky-dink to make a man feel comfortable. He either can afford me or he can’t.

He cheated on his wife , so he's moving too slow and thinks I'll treat him the same way he treated his wife.

Yeah! When they write to me and I don’t like him I don’t respond, but if I like a guy and what I read I take the first step, 98 out of a 100 reply back to me, please don’t go to those dating sites for free, they are full of scammers, most scammers won’t pay a membership, so invest a little and go to a paying site.

It is the opposite for me ...W

I embraced his desires but he didn't embrace my desire even

A good woman that is actually committed to a relationship and doesn't desire to look at another man naked for fifteen Years, there is something wrong with me because I couldn't be good enough for him to love me the same and as deeply as I love him is very sad to learn of this... 💜

Being authentic has two sides my good authentic and my other authentic would have odd swear words if I don't agree

Great advice

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Can you do a video on best friends or friends trying to go into relationships? Is the guy lying to protect the friendship when he mentions feelings or is he just scared? Most of your videos are very helpful but they hit and miss because he does certain things but idk if it’s because we’re friends or because he actually likes me

Dont have sex b4 marriage because it's fornication and it displeases God. That is the first and foremost reason why we shouldn't. Doesn't matter if he/she is the one or not. We must do our best to be obedient to God.

I’m a woman and i’ve used most of these lines on men 🤭

Why are we deleting certain comments?

Wow. EXACTLY!!!!

I get compliments on my haircut from men all the time.

Jackson

Truthfully I’m just scared of life. I’m just waiting for the day when men and women realise that they are of the same species and having big brains, communication and freewill is actually a curse as we no longer can accept when things are ok without scrutinising the heck out of nothing. Do you know when men and women are actually with one another, in old age when we no longer have the energy to run away from a situation and just to tired and chill to care about who’s wrong and right. People don’t appreciate the right now and certainly don’t appreciate what they have and have achieved, too busy worrying about tomorrow instead of enjoying the present. The only certainty we have about the future is that we all die, but until then realise you and how to be happy through your life journey. If you are fortunate to be in a relationship, the next time you feel overwhelming love for your partner, don’t just think it, feel it and appreciate it. I always say if spousal abusers took a moment to remember why they loved that person and all those wonderful feelings that spouse give them and what they actually bring to their life and be very mindful of that, they wouldn’t want to bring such horrible negativity to that person they’re supposed to love. People have lost the art of communicating right, as screaming and shouting isn’t working, is it? Pitting men against women doesn’t work and people need to stop that nonsense, we are individuals and relationships works better by remembering that instead of that crap women being from Venus and men from Mars, quelle crap! We are all the same species so stop playing!

Trying. Really take care of my body mind and spirit but haven't been asked out since 2001. Its hard to believe Im not hidden or undesirable

Being kind, positive and lighthearted definitely gets a man’s attention.

Your coaching is spot on. Before I discovered you, I was listening to a few other coaches who were actually recommending game playing. I went against their advice and went to God first, then the man himself, asked him questions. I was scared to death. Before I heard back from him, on these topics, I found your videos which completely supported what I had done, giving me hope. Long story short, that was the right thing to do. God first, trust and transparency. Thank you for being the coach who has set yourself apart from the others who give advice.

Ladies, even if you are totally willing for the guy to provide for you and be the leader, he is still not going to like your education and success. Even if he says "oh, that's totally cool" and acts interested, he doesn't actually like it. Most guys I've dated acted like they were excited, even impressed, but after giving him a few days to think about it, he will turn around and literally say "your education intimidates me" and "you're smarter than me and I don't like it"... and the dumping immediately follows. I am now going to try to keep my education a secret for as long as possible, and when it comes out eventually I'll just shrug it off and change the subject. Also, when they ask what I do for work I'm not going to say I run my own housekeeping business, I'll say "I do housekeeping" (I don't have any employees, so suddenly that doesn't sound as impressive), and I won't even mention I have an online wood working business. That business is a start up, and I don't make any profit from it yet, with start up companies you usually have to invest all your sales right back into your business, so suddenly that doesn't sound as impressive too. So, this isn't all lying, I'm just not going to make it a big deal out of it and I'll talk about other things instead... like cooking I guess??? You might ask "but isn't you downplaying your education and professional career kinda pretending like you are stupid?" My answer: Yes it is.

A man who really loves you have the same intentions nd goals like you to be with you no matter what ,trust ,respect nd communicates constantly and values you nd your relationship,pay the bills if he invites you for a date bcoz here in our country man is the responsible to pay for when he asks you for a date if he genuinely loves you nd he is broke he won’t ask you for a date bcoz he knows that he needs to prepare before he ask you for a date if he is seriously nd genuinely the woman he wants

GOD BLESS YOU STEPHAN FOR THIS VIDEO and all your other videos I've watched!!!

Why cant men just say what they mean and mean what they say, instead of using coded phrases. It shows a lack of integrity

The interviewer was acting like a typical woman.....

you're circumcised?bye

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I was recently told by a guy friend to give my heart to him, and when I asked what did he mean by that, he fell apart at the seams & said he likes me, but doesn't know about us & long distance wouldn't work. I laughed inside while his deoderant was on overdrive. He didn't confuse me, but confused his own a$$. 😂😂 we are in our 50s. Cmon now

Hi stephan, i know a man who was married to his wife they divorced now, the man is a ambitious man hi built a nice house they were living together the man walk away an leaves the house for the wife and the children them the children them is adults , now the man find a woman that have her own house they are planning to live together at her house, further on they can buy a new house together an rent it out, what do you think about that ?

How do i become interdependant I've been single for so long . And raised 3 children on my own. I met an amazing man.whose compassionate, hard working, nurturing and we see each other every 3 months or so. For 2 years If he needs space, he could tell me. if he's pulling away please tell me. It's sort of long distance ,we live 3 hrs apart. I drive that much on weekends i dont see a problem.. but i dont speak out much because i dont like confrontations.probably from my past relationship.my ex was explosive... why do men today and in their 50's prefer texting of telephone conversations. Its our generation way. I personally dont like texting

Jeesus, she’s annoying n distracting.

I met a guy, went on a date then he told me in a text message not on the phone. He said im a caring and wonderful women but he doesn't want to drive one hour to see him. This doesn't make sense.

Sounds like we are condoning these men's lies. A lie is a lie. If he only wants sex. Then he should be saying that.